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Tuesday 26 August 2014

Dear LIB readers: spontaneous sex is impossible for my hubby, why?

From a female LIB reader spontaneous
My husband and I have a good sex life, the only problem is that he can only get it up when it's planned or he initiated it. Whenever I catch him off guard and initiate sex, he's unable to get it up. I don't know how to better explain it but here's what I mean. At night in bed he can make love to me, or whenever he comes to me and says he's horny he can get it up but if I go to him when he's not expecting it, or whenever I try to seduce him without us first talking about it, he can not get hard enough to have sex. Are there other men who experience this? Is this normal with some men?

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Angie said...

Hello Princie... I miss your big big grammar. Lol

* My R1.50c comment *

Anonymous said...

Your hubby is fine most time i tink it has to do with stress for real i once had such experience complaining to my doctor for medical help he told me to be more relax, get issues off my mind and after dat i tried it and it worked for me.

Anonymous said...

its funny how women thinks
men expecially responsible men think of how to improve families and produce for his extended family
at all times his mind will be at work. not sex so most times he had sex when his mind want it does not mean he does not love his wife.

its the same woman that will say her husband is too sexually active and might be f**king all the girls as he gets erection every minutes. a man of that nature probably have no responsibilities to think of he have no issues at all meaning he could just be a usless man

for woman that is very busy as well can resisit the husband that have no job and always want sex after she comes back from a hard day work and planing for the next day

this happen for busy people not people with little or no responsibilities

marriage is not to be looked as love but partnership that takes it to entiernity cos love dies after all the charracter of either the wife or the hussy must have made one of the couple angry at each other. this is usually like 3 years of beeing together. then what keeps you on and on is being partner for life.

our women and even men should learn how to keep relationship and protect the feelings of one another

been married strong and going on for 15 years now

Anonymous said...

Sorry madam pls try and go for counselling. by dobis112@gmail.com

Anonymous said...

I am talking from experience and all I can say is spontaneity is d best sex ever.He should be able to share his problems with u, and when a woman gets turned down it hurts more dn we say, therefore you need to be nice about it and if he doesn't open up , you need to get radical cos u have feelings and needs and u aren't a toy he picks up to fondle when he feels like.

Anonymous said...

Anonymous said...

HE HAS PROBLEM WITH HIS SYSTEM BUT CAN BE RECTIFIED

Anonymous said...

Not normal at all

Anonymous said...

You see your life?

Na me! said...

I think you should try going down on him. Sometimes my ex had that problem once when I just got off my period because he kept thinking about the blood. I went down on him and he was got hard pretty quick.

Anonymous said...

He should change to cialis. It last longer and comes handy when the moment is spontaneous too

Anonymous said...

I think he's cheating on you
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Ndyyy5 said...

My male colleague after reading this post said the man is using drug. He said this is certain because without the drug he can not perform. well may be you should monitor him to find out your self.

Anonymous said...

Blue pills involved......

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