Can you give us just the top three reasons why you do it. Here are some options below...
1. Just because you can?
2. One woman isn't enough to satisfy your urges?
3. It boosts your ego to conquer a lot of women?
4. Because the woman in your life is not good in bed?
5. Because women accept it?
6. You can't even explain it..that's just how men are. It's in your genes, you need to reproduce?
I know some women cheat too, but we will come to that later. This is about men...Oya answer...
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«Oldest ‹Older 201 – 275 of 275I read all d comments *phew* I'm a woman, married not up to a year. I knw my hubby doesn't cheat even while we were dating I was the cheating one "coversface" buh d fact nw is I luv him very much and I knw e does too, he likes sex oo no question abt dat jus dat I work mondays to sat, 8am-5pm come home to cook/cleanHouse/washclothes etc after everythg I'm so tired I jus wanna sleep, omor I don advise myself nw ooo b4 e go start to cheat cos smtimes I'm not jus in the mood & I feel so bad about it even tho I enjoy sex wit him a lot btw he's f*#king handsome everywoman's dream ummmmmm! #teamMoreSex
linda my sister is in their nature no matter hw spiritual they ar once in a while they do cheat. even those that hav three or more wife do cheat so is in their nature.
all is well, 2 me i feel its mostly as a result of unsatisfactory relationship. men are as emotional as women (if not more) therefore needs someone to take GOOD care of them. Absence of this leaves the man with no choice but to HUNT for alternatives (sometimes this hurts the guy) but no CHOICE. trust me i do not support it oooooo
1stly i will take cheating and polygamy to be same thing here.
Its in the DNA. Through out the ages its been the norm for various reasons.
1. In the age where farming was manual, men would have loads of kids by multiple women to till the fields.
2. In some other age.To show affluence. As to say u can afford to cater for a multitude. Etc
In the most recent times because the women folk became alot nosier thanks to technology. Cheating has always existed only in d old days if he had a family in say jos u will never knw cos no FB, BBM, DSTV etc.
Peeps 4get d thing called stupidity or foolishness related to men that cheat...first,men re domineering as a territorial animal, they wanna conquer, boost ego, I rem daz in d Uni, I count every semester if id surpass d previous semester, whc helps morales, even quest to make it in life, sinful though, then sum women re dull in d room, meanwhile lots to exploit out there, different shapes, God help men..
I think they do cos tthey fink they can..deres no justification watsoever 4 cheating.watever a person sows dey reap.u kip giving reasons 4 cheating.truth is deres no reason enuf to hurt anoda person.put ursef in d woman's shoes 4 a minmen cheat cos d society accepts it buh remember God's ways are diffrent from ourst
The only reason there is, stew and ofe akwu does not taste the same.
Thank you o jare. Abeg help me ask Linda say, if she dey chop ogbono, ogbono everyday, one day the soup no go tire her.
i asked a colleague in my office why he keeps so many flings despite he is married with two kids. He said it helps his wife regain her natural youthfulness while he enganges himself in the act with other girls.
some ladys wen married do leave themselves and look much older than they wer just 1year into the marriage forgetting wat actually attracted d guy in the first place
Are u good in bed? @Stern Or maybe 2 seconds kind of guy.
Story, story, stooooorrry. Men cheat, deal with it.
See urself. Are u good in bed?
Women should just shut up and listen and read all the reasons below if you really want to have a successful marriage. Let guys speak freely here and the women should secretly take note.
Abeg come nd cheat wit me,let's keep d biz of cheating moving..after all some1 also cheated on me
You got it spot on.
Jesus! And you're proud of such taboo!
Indiscipline, that is it, indiscipline, not blc their wives re dirty, non sexy, attractic or not good in bed, blc dese things can be worked on ok uuuuuuuuu guys. Yes u pple can work on all dis excuses.....
For me...most expecially wen d woman stop takin care of her bodi..and she knws dat her husband hates dat..and wen she nags..all d tym....bt dere is no gud reason to cheat...except u will be able to take it wen ur wife do d same..THE GOLDEN RULE
#epiphany#
I'm surprised by the comments from married men whose wives are "pushing" them to cheat. If you married your friend y are all these tiny things issues? Over formality isn't good at all. Firstly learn to COMMUNICATE AND SHOW. If she has a bad hygiene, she's not creative in bed, she gives time, she's not excited.....you need to talk about these things and correct them lovingly, cheating isn't the way. Shower with your wife every night, don't ask her to try a new style, while in the "heat" of things change the style and do it lovingly not by force, when you get home after a long while and she's not excited or you know she may want to give you time as she unlocks the door for you, shut the door and take her there and then lovingly and sweetly. Women aren't so tough when they are with the man they love, we always melt especially for the husband....men stop asking questions "dolls we try this style? Can you go and bathe? Why didn't you jump on me, what time or when should we do it", just do it, she's your wife for peace sake and do it lovingly.
Men who cheat is clearly an idiot because relationship is just not about sex is more than that.
If you are not married to your friend, please make her your best friend because forever is a long time and you can't endure. Marriage is beautiful!
If you are not married to your friend, please make her your best friend because forever is a long time and you can't endure. Marriage is beautiful!
It's a misery.I bliv strongly that almost 95% of these cheaters re not happy doing it.They re often remorseful after all the rubbish.But I still bliv it would all stop someday.Hahahaha
It's a misery.I bliv strongly that almost 95% of these cheaters re not happy doing it.They re often remorseful after all the rubbish.But I still bliv it would all stop someday.Hahahaha
Exactly!; why *most men cheat.
Lol....Maybe you haven't *sweated the right corner..; There must be an angle that'll make her scream. She can't uncircumcise herself; The good part's that she won't cheat on you.. Learn and understand her body..n goodluck!
Annnd stop CHEATING!
Lol....Maybe you haven't *sweated the right corner yet..; There must be an angle that'll make her scream. She can't uncircumcise herself; The good part's that she won't cheat on you.. Learn and understand her body..n goodluck!
Annnd stop CHEATING!
Idiot... U will be gang raped in prison. Mark my words..
Well done u hear, keep cheating
Na lie Jor,y will she nag at u 4 wot reason,women who nag alot is bcox they spouse cheat on them with different type of girls.cheat is cheat whether una fuck physically or by text msg all na dey same.MEN isokay.
No one can say for sure y men cheat it boils down to individuals......but sex in most cases is y men cheat....but some times women push men to d limit...
Dexee
Lack of character cos evrybody can hold body. I don't cheat and won't cheat. End of story!
This is an interesting question............i won't really answer from the BF/GF angle..cos thats still an elementary form of relationship..
But When a Man gets married, that means he has taken an oath in the Sight of God and man to have sexual relations with his with wife alone but naadays like 85% of married men still cheat...why???
(1)...It is in the Nature of every man to want to Taste DIFFERENT women...and that's the truth of it....What separates the good men from the irresponsible men is a singular trait called SELF CONTROL...that ability to deny yourself unnecessary pleasure even if you know you can get away with it.
(2) The wife's of some of these men don't help at all!!! ...some lose shape, don't take care of thier appearance after child birth....Some women deny there husband's sex etc,.....My homeboi got married less than a year ago to a virgin, ...Now this hommy of mine likes sex badly...he really fucked around during his bachelor days...he came complaining to me some time ago that mehn!!! He's wife hates sex, always complaining and giving excuses, matter of fact he said in 3 months she hadn't given it to him...and the hommy just couldn't cope.. so he came up with an excuse traveled banged enough and came back...and am sure he'll be doing it constantly. ..if a wife isn't giving it to her man...she's at risk
(3) Most cheating husbands are not God fearing men! ...Truth be told it's only the fear of God that can stop a man from cheating....Amin...if he can do it successfully and hes wife won't know then it's only his conscience that can stop him.
That being said not all men are cheats......i have no plans of cheating on my wife when i get married(Lord helping me)... Dass why i wan shine eye marry woman wey get majority of attributes wey i like...
On 2 the Next!
Thank God I read this today, because the need to get tested has become urgent! Please, I saw comments about variety being one of the reasons, are women also allowed to indulge? 'Cos there are different shapes and sizes of men walking around as well! Please note a happy wife means a good life for you. STOP THIS "CHEATING" NONSENSE! Control your urges and you will have peace at home.
i swr......a bottle of shekpe jur.....u too gbaski...
Y use a big word u can't spell? #justwondering
Really,do u knw d type of girl u r going in and out of her pussy is.
Abi oooh.
We cheat because of the amount of sperm we carry in our nut sacks. It is simple logic, a woman has limited time n space to reproduce, men keep producing sperm till we die. Therefore, since one woman is not enough to accommodate the level of sperm production, we have to disperse our seeds into different soils, I beg your pardon loins I mean. All about production n multiplication
I knw d reason u and I cheat on baba biliki it bcos u can't keep ur hands off my hansome stretch marks! *winks* obiorah my boboyza!
The reasons are circumstancial. Every circumstances determines the reason. But, answering the 3 reasons, I will say 1, Societal orientation (masculine beliefs and mindset). 2, Attraction to beauty and the 'right' feminine energy and the need to relate with it. 3, If there is a problem in the relationship. Esspecially when the woman begins to disrespect the man
Just on point!!!!!
Chop kiss Jor.
Really,do u knw d type of girl u r going in and out of her pussy is.
That's the dumbest shit I've ever heard !!!!!! Pls be serious ,
Nina loool... Take am easy with d babe na.
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Nice one...
Its just unfortunate that this generation thinks marriage/relationship is all about sex,its just a part of it. Its more than just sex. Ask our old parents that have stopped having sex and are still married, dont you think there is something more that keeps a marriage?Men cheat because they dont have the fear of God,they lack self control and discpline.
marry your friend and all this shii wont be an issue.
And again, NOT ALL MEN CHEATS. At least i can boast of my father,a marriage of 32 years and still counting.Ladies please stop having the notion that all men cheats,you might end up with a cheating man.
1, Because There are Some Stupid Ladies Who Won't Close Their Legs for Him, If There were none, he would stick to his partner.
2, Because he is a Fool who should not have gotten married in the first place as he was never matured for it.
3, Because he is under the law of sin, and you should expect anything from a sinner
Because their wifes in the house will never fuck them like the bitches out there.bitches can do anything,anus sex,swallow comes,even bring their friends for 2somes,suck u and even leak your anus self,#stupid tins that wifes will never do in the house.
Cos some girls are boring in bed.... So anything can happen
U re a big fool for saying such with dat gully u call mouth! U re such type dat can never respect a woman!
Most of us cheat because we don't wanna loose, We hate seeing ourselves heartbroken
When you marry a man that has the LOVE N FEAR OF GOD he will never cheat... its not normal or in the nature of men to cheat as they will normally try to justify.
If your wife is lacking somewhere, you call her and talk about it, a good wife will consider and change or adjust to make you happy.
if you marry a wife that loves the lord, peace will reign in the family, and constant nagging will be abolished...
Give your lives to christ people, love and fear the Lord almighty. This world is but a market place we are just passing through... our true home is in heaven... Dont live like this is the your last destination. ..
theres nothing like just a little sin, dont compromise with God, dont twist the word of God to suit your lifestyle... Dont blow hot and cold when it comes to the Lord Almighty... So that on the judgement day the Lord Jesus wont deny you...
Heed to these words and abide by the words of the holy bible day and night so that you may live eternally in Gods presence...
Heaven is real, Hell is real.
God bless you all
No comment, LOL. But seriously men cheat but who are they cheating with other men or women. So why are we having this conversation????
Olodo
Bros, my small advice for u - divorce her asap! What u have is no longer a marriage. U r sleeping around and she won't stop either. The next thing she will do is poison u! Walk away now!
Welcome to my world. Mine is like once in 3wks. Only the fear of God has stopped me cheating. And I used to be a player. Decided to retire and this is what I get. Smh
I'm a guy, I know we aren't great at communicating with women, they can find us a bit forceful.
Problem is most of us guys feel "entitled" to sex and all seeing as we are now in a relationship/married. So most guys don't feel the need to make enough of an effort to get their ladies.
OF course any self respecting woman would reject such, and tbh ladies don't help either. BEcause sometimes you assume/expect a man will give you what you want or treat you the way you want without even telling him in the first place.
Basically married men generally cheat because there just can't communicate the way they like with their partner.
Someone said guys are just as emotional as women, I agree. Guys just don't show it so much. If a guy isn't made to feel entirely comfortable with his emotions, he doesn't doesn't have the luxury of being able to just blurt them out or cry to his partner. It just is not the way the world works.
A guy needs his emotions/feelings catered for, if he is a relationship and that isn't the case, it'll hurt is feelings.
Attention from another woman actually relieves that hurt because the guy would no longer feel neglected.
And if he is around the other woman for long enough or they flirt enough it usually ends in cheating.
We naturally gud managers! We jst can't get enough!+ variety dy say is d spice of life! Buy one get 10 for free
Some youthful exuberance. Some bad company, some pressure from d female counterpart, some take advantage of dia look(handsome n well built) buh in all these, I bliv it's d lack of d fear of God.
1. unhappiness
2. lack of love
3. irresponsibility
I see cheating is an act of irresponsibility and lack of respect for your partner...
most times both parties allow it to happen by taking refuge in 3rd party in the relationship
hello dear linda, this days girls or women cheat more than we men do.and am not a party to men cheating thou but there's no smoke without fire, something most have triggered him to make him start cheat.but i think some do it to get over heartbreak and to avoid been lonely or letting one person gaining total control over them again cus they've been hurt once before.but its bad duo.
WOMEN! WOMEN!! WOMEN!!!
Women are the reason men cheat because they accept every proposal from men and never say no to any, thereby encouraging the polygamous nature of men.
Who do men cheat with? WOMEN!
If women would say NO to men cheat advances, Men won't do otherwise than to make do with what they have.
You've just said it all. The real question is "why do men make promises they have no intention of keeping?"
Nothing can keep a man from cheating. it takes only a GOD FEARING man to be faithful
Nothing can keep a man from cheating. it takes only a GOD FEARING man to be faithful
I v decided to calm down on ma hubby after seeing my brodas n uncles doing...its just in their nature,fault of creation.decent ones only just cut down on promiscuity n strike at any given chance.
OMG! Nina please tell them... I'm sooooo fed up. Linda is even #1 culprit. I just can't stop laughing.
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Sorry fr u my dear...am glad. uv found happiness and karma has caught up wv him,only a stupid man leaves his wife cos she can't give birth..is she God?
Yeah. ... CASTRATION!!
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