Below is what the fast rising Yoruba actress said when asked if she believed sex is only for married couples...
I think sex is meant to be enjoyed by two people who have serious
feeling for each other. Sex is good, it is there for two lovers to enjoy
themselves and share the secrets of their hearts.
On whether one should engage in premarital sex or not, I would say,
yes. Premarital sex is okay as long as it is a safe sex. Our society
allows it. These days, you can hardly keep a relationship going without
sex.
Who agrees with this statement? If you decide to zip up, you can't keep a relationship?
271 comments:
«Oldest ‹Older 201 – 271 of 271Its a sin fine, buh no1 is saying u shouldn't sin, ask 4 4giveness, no big or small sin, sin is sin. Everybody has sinned. Let he wifout sin cast d stone.
People always try to appear moral in this country until they get one opportunity to loot...
A lot of people condemning her didn't read what she said. She said "hardly" keep a relationship without sex. So there are few exception. Moreover, having sex with a partner doesn't make you loose. How many of you condemning her are virgins. So she said the fact and truth. You can rarely see a girl above 24 that is still a virgin. It is like finding a needle in a hay stack.
So TRUE. It causes distrust
@PRINCE JOBLESS
*Hats off* you just read my mind bro
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@February 23, 2013 at 5:48 PM
LOL your so insecure...he's prolly with another girl as you were typing that ish.
After he's done messing(like a used rag) with yours he'll be on to the next ho that can't keep her legs closed before he puts a ring on it
LIAR! 8 yrs of wat! My friend r u lord or lady of d rings cmon get married, 8yrs 20 abortions ode!
Check well ur fiance either has a child outside or he's been sleeping with someone else
which truth do u know about premarital sex?do u want to use ur shallow brain to make God a lier?simple sacrifice u cant make for ur God
Premarital sex is a sin before God. It should never be encourage before marriage pls.
we no dt evry sin is equal bt God realy streessd d issue of premarital sex in many books of d bible.he also said we shud sacrifice our body to him.and dat our body is Gods temple.dere are blessins atached if u do it sincerely
To me she is rit cus most guys can't stay wthout sex y sum can is a 2 way tin here sum can y sum can't like dere say de truth is had to say
as an actress...you are not suppose to say this...i guess that is the advice you give to your children at home? i believe you can never be a role model...Its what the world is turning too.
She that has been keeping her relationships with sex, what has it achieved for her?? Is it a good man? Is it a great husband? What exactly?
No one should be placed above God in your life
People talk any how nowadays?
I m not a virgin and I regret dat very much. I allowed my bf pressure me into doin sumtin I knew was wrong,just to please him. Did we get married @ d end? Hell,no! I took a stand and now no premarital sex. If u can't endure it,dude take a walk. I feel better now cos I knew I took d ryt decision. Everytin in my life is working perfectly and in d fullness of tym God has given me my own man. We ve been 2geda for more than a year now and will be getting married soon,no sex till d wedding nyt. Looking forward to it! So yes,it is very very possible to av a meaningful rltship witout sex.
I m not a virgin and I regret dat very much. I allowed my bf pressure me into doin sumtin I knew was wrong,just to please him. Did we get married @ d end? Hell,no! I took a stand and now no premarital sex. If u can't endure it,dude take a walk. I feel better now cos I knew I took d ryt decision. Everytin in my life is working perfectly and in d fullness of tym God has given me my own man. We ve been 2geda for more than a year now and will be getting married soon,no sex till d wedding nyt. Looking forward to it! So yes,it is very very possible to av a meaningful rltship witout sex.
nigerians and hypocrisy. may God help us...lol can't stop laughing at some people's comment especially the people i know.
She should speak for herself. Btw, is this the kind of statement she is supposed to make publicly? What is she trying to teach the younger ones?
And hey guys, no need talking about hypocrisy here, she's wrong. Mtcheww...
Wen u get married 2 him and he cannot perform wat will u do. I want 2 know. Is gd 2 control urself bt atleast know who he is or she.
you can't keep a relationship without sex, but can you keep a relationship by having sex? if u like do all the stunts in bed, the heart knows what it wants. in a nutshell sex is not a guarantee for keeping a relationship. however it might be a facilitator.
you can't keep a relationship without sex, but can you keep a relationship by having sex? if u like do all the stunts in bed, the heart knows what it wants. in a nutshell sex is not a guarantee for keeping a relationship. however it might be a facilitator.
See advice! Later she will look for a married man and wreck his marriage,all these local champions and reasoning
I think its quite ignorant of u and everyone who agrees with you , to generally believe that when people r in a relationship they must be having sex for it to work . A lot of relationships r probably like that but not all , people who don't believe in fornication still exist . It requires a lot of discipline but it is possible
Wanted to just pass by, but am tempted to just say something, what I want us to know is dat, whether u sleep with each oda before or after marriage or u got married as virgins does not guarantee that u will have a perfect marriage, why do we even place so much emphasis on sex and forget the other vital things dat kip two people together?, whether we agree or not, still, sex is the greatest gift God has given us to bring or keep two people together so whatever way we choose to do it is our problem with God not anyoda person! So pls let's stop being judgemental
i totally agree. be financially free today
@Dazzywhite WORD!!
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Sex either in marriage or Dating does not guarantee a blissful home bcos a lot of women do give there men enough sex even learn from friends and the internet on how to keep a man but still it fails even the western world do have a records of divorce like it a norm despite of all there exposure. So not to bores you we all need JESUS to make a marriage nor courtship works if you think your sex, hot body or pretty face will keep a man you lied bcos a lot of women can do better even professional than you to me your relationship with GOD, prayer, neatness, care, love, support,wisdom and patience will not only make a home will also give you and your family ticket to make heaven. Shalom
Thank God for pregnancy,otherwise no woman would agree to have had sex before!
Thank God for pregnancy,otherwise no woman would agree to have had sex before!
thank you o jare
That's not true:
IF HE IS NOT SLEEPING WITH U, HE IS MOST LIKELY SLEEPING WITH SOMEONE, JUST PRAY HE DOESN'T FUCK PROSTITUTES SO HE WNT GIVE U STD ON UR HONEYMOON NIGHT. I KNOW A BABE DAT ONCE SHE TELLS A GUY SHE IS A VIRGIN, THEY DON'T WANT TO DATE ANYMORE..
yes, its rather difficult to keep a relationship without sex. However, it is wrong to come to the media and voice such. Wrong morals for those who are still fighting the good cause.
pre-marital isn't right;even d bible teaches against it. There's time 4 everything n sex is not an expection:'let's make dis world a better place
How won't u 'agree tho' with ur face like prick
Sabrina
Linda Ikeji is a gossip blog, so what are all you so called christians and holy holy people doing here? she has spoken the truth. the fact is i cannot risk marry a woman i have tested our sexual compatibility. Sex is important in marriage and since marriage is a life time thing, why should i risk having bad sex for the rest of my life if i want to be faithful. Please oh na una dey end up cheating with brother or sister for church. Hypocrites.
Its very funny our so called 'celebrities' can come out publicly and make such statements. Its just a reflection of their decayed moral values. Now here's the real thing: we all know that generally the fear of God has declined in the hearts of so many people who claim allegiance to him and the few that still fear Him struggle everyday to live a holy life. The fact that everybody is doing it doesn't make it the right thing to do! Pre marital sex doesn't guarantee a successful relationship, its just a display of the lack of self control that a lot of people have. If its your way, well good for you, if you have decided to keep yourself till marriage, good for you too. We will all reap the corresponding reward. Everybody can decide to close their eyes and go along the wide path, your own standard may waver but God's standards will never change!
All those chicks claiming they havent slept with their man, please note, your man is either banging another chick or seriously masturbating to calm is body. imagine a 27 - 33 year old man still getting wet dreams....no oh!!! Na women way don bang well well before, then husband come scarce suddenly they go from im hotter than fire to i married to Jesus, na en full here dey form holy. Abeg make we hear word. Nigerians and pretense, is that why there is so much condom sales? pretenders...
Like seriously what happened to GOD'S instruction about avoidance of premarital sex?This OUR generation sef........ Like someone said "if you begin to have sex now, what will you do when you get married? What exactly do u av 2 look forward to in marriage and the wedding night? with the help of GOD, i started dating 7years ago and GOD has ALWAYS been at the front-line and center of all that i do and im glad to say 'IM STILL A VIRGIN' Its my prayer that GOD will teach US and help US to do things that will GLORIFY HIM and not satisfying our flesh. GOD BLESS US ALL
Why wont she say this when you guys were celebrating KIMK.
Joor Pass the mic.
Idiot! Its ur type of human being that fingers little kids each time they re left in ur custody...its quite obvious that u re not even a virgin, how will u expect Tope not to say this, when u were disvirgined at d age of 9
Linda pls for d very 1st time post my own comment oo, sex is just d best way to grunch a relationship, cos u will not av much value in sight of ur lover again wen u get marry, i 'm datin a gel for d past 7yrs now and no sex. So pls dont dirty mind we youth of today cos of ur own incompetency to abstain from sex
Sex before marriage is bad. Don't tie it to the fact http the guy can be impotent. God will not give u wat u don't desire. My dear frond retracevurvstep bk to Christ. If not........
Would you all shut ur big fat lying mouths,can you imagine the nonsense,80pec of una dey claim celibacy,after naw if linda put picture of ikechukwu's big prick una go dey make all sort of sick comment,abi nor be the same people wey dey always comment still be dis?hypocrites.make una park well jare
Most of you peeps on this blog should pls lie with the fear of God,who are you people deceiving,look at the one that claims she dated her bf for 8years without sex,you don see babies wey wear pampers hold feeding bottle for mouth abi? 8years na 8 weeks abi na 8 months?pls you peeps should get real,if you all are this holy how come we don't have a lot of virgins anymore in the socity this days.park well jare and tell ur lies to the birds
never 4get my very close friend dat a guy decieve dat he loves her and without sex in their relationship dat he will walk away and she was a virgin.Some peeps were telling her 2 give it 2him and she did.Just after 9months of it,the guy said he is no longer interested and that was it,the gal wanted to kill herself dat after every EVERY still he left her.2me wether u have sex with ur bf,gf,dat doesn't gurauntee u dat it will lead to marriage or last long
keep ur silly advice 2 urself pls and pray that God delivers u Tope cos there are lot of ladies like u who have been in serious relationships without sex and these relationships have blossomed into marriage. if u feel sleeping with every Tom,Dick and Harry will get u a serious husband, think again and stop fooling urself and pple around u ok. it is ONLY Jesus that can save u.
lol i have seen you guys comment on this issue lemme ask one question out of the over 200 that wrote comment on this topic, how many of are still virgins. for those of you who has been in a relationship for decades without sex,either the man is getting it from another woman or the woman is getting it from numerous men. lemme ask one question, do u make out with your man or woman? because if you do in the sight of God its still as bad as having sex. lets call a spade a spade. i rest ma case. STAN
Tope, are you making that a general statement or is it for the nonredeemable. See here tope, what you should say is "it is hard" or it is not easy" to keep a relationship without sex. Yes, a lot of relationships have sexual activities involved but Tope, Tope, Toooope! Speak for yourself. Now, I don't know if you have a kid sister or daughter who is 17 years old but picture this, your daughter goes out with her boyfriend and she is shagged seriously, I mean really humped! only for her to come home and she smiles at you like nothing ever happened to her. She goes out two days later to be humped again, and again, and again! Tell me, can you still open your mouth and say:
"You can't keep a relationship without sex" Just asking.
This girl is a shediot! Linda why do you give twarts like this the time of the day?
Only cows will agree with this nonsense.
She is this kind of person dt has bn exposed to sex at a very tender age and believes dt u cnt get what u want from men without havin sex wt them so yn wnt she talk dt way yeye girlwhen God says pre marital sex is a sin who are u to say its not
She is this kind of person dt has bn exposed to sex at a very tender age and believes dt u cnt get what u want from men without havin sex wt them so yn wnt she talk dt way yeye girlwhen God says pre marital sex is a sin who are u to say its not
the truth is sex has become part of Nigerian relationships but it's best to say no
the truth is sex has become part of Nigerian relationships but it's best to say no
I agree with her no sex less luv.
I agree with her no sex less luv.
I have tried and confirmed it without sex there will be doubt and unnecessary quarrel,misunderstanding, even there will be no trust, so no sex less love.
our culture does not support premarital sex. the same set of guys asking for sex before marriage are the same set of guys that can go to any length to have a virgin as their wedded wife.
ladies!! BE WISE.
This is all about your self esteem, it gives you value before your husband.
I don't support actress view.
omg, this lady represents a generation that is completely lost, having no fear of the Lord or any moral values whatsoever. what type of children will this lost generation sire? The answer is obviously obvious.
premarital sex is a sin finito and she should keep quiet next time if she has nothing tangible to say mschew
Yes Linda that is soo true, I know how I start seeing my GF as a platonic friend if we don't have sex for about 2weeks. Sex is very important in a relationship, it kind of brings about a stronger bond between the two parties.
Big lie, Madam Tope!!! I and my husband never had sex until three days after our wedding. So what are you saying Madam!!!!
I Can so tell that those calling others hypocrites most certainly don't have stable relationships as a result of giving it up so willingly. Please don't allow you biased views negatively influence others within our society that actually uphold their faith as well as their morality.
Only bcos women of these days have nothing to offer but their vaginas.
Totally agree. Well said. Too many people are scared to admit the truth because they are enjoying sex and feeling ashamed. Every relationship is different. Some last with or without sex. It just depends on the people.
@Feb 27, 7:33 - I too agree with you!! Many people these days are too judgmental and quick to say that what others do or say is wrong.
What is funny about this, is that these people who are quoting Bible (religious) verses will be sinning in other ways. The people who are questioning 'morality' would gladly do an act that benefits them. NO-ONE IS PERFECT!!!
I know a girl who is a virgin (25 years of age) but she is the meanest, selfish, ungrateful person I know. Because she has stayed a virgin for soo long, it does not make her special in any way.
God guides each and everyone of us in His own way. We can only do our best and ask for forgiveness as we live our lives.
Rubbish is sweet 2 vomit... Is a woman a car... This shows to d extent u regard a woman... She is just n object bcoz car can be dumped so after testing n buy u can dump...
Only a sex addict will agree to what u r saying. Look @ europe n america a clear example of home to premarital as d cord 4 relationship... What can we say abt them 2day. Marriages fail so easy... Why bcoz constant premarital sexx makes us sex addict n our will to hold on to one partner bcoms impossible... How many relationship with sex last when a partner refuses to continue sex...? Answer me? D trauma of sexual relationship hunts even when we get married... U see ur ex-boyfriend n sex partner show facing during marriage 2 ask 4 sex or destroy ur marriage... Do a good research like I av done... abt 35% extra marital sexual affairs r as a result of ex-sexmate show facing during marriage... Pls let us speak d truth n don't be devil's advocate...
my advice , do not think of going into a relationship if ur not ready for sex. two types of relationship only exists. mere friends and marriage. any other one is illegal.
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