Below is a mail I got this morning from a disillusioned female LIB reader...
Dear Linda, please could you help me ask your male readers why men are so heartless? Don't they have mothers and sisters? How would they feel if someone was to mistreat them? How can a woman give you the best years of her life, and you still dump her like a piece of garbage? My younger sister dated this guy for five years here in the UK and in December 2012 he told her he was going to Nigeria to spend Christmas with his family. She wanted to go with him but he said that there was no need that he would be back in two weeks. It was all lies. We found out about a week ago that he married another woman around Christmas while in Nigeria. Both traditional and white wedding. Which means he had been planning his wedding while he was eating my sisters food and sleeping with her here. What kind of a man does that? And since our family found out we've been trying to reach him but he has refused to speak with us or even explain or apologize to my sister. He hasn't returned to the UK since he left in December. My sister has been acting suicidal since she found out about his marriage. He didn't even have the decency to end things with her before marrying someone else. You know what they say Linda, Lucifer used to be an angel before he became the devil. Men are wicked!
289 comments:
«Oldest ‹Older 201 – 289 of 289To be honest with you all, u see dis particular topic, its a waste of time and the most wicked thing a man or woman shld do to anyone. Being heartless is not wen u kill, its things like dis,Lies,cheat,greed,evil n wickedness. I agree with someone on this blog abt 2Timothy 3:1-5 it says men will be lovers of themselves and have no natural affection.I am a victim of this kind of behaviour from a guy,deir was notin i wanted i didn"t get,na church, abi na fasting n prayer? we did it together, he wld even remind me wen to pray, remind me to study my bible,all the while i was dealing with a slimy, crafty human being, but u not w@ i didn't look well cos the signs where there n i closed my eyes to it. he didn"t even have the guts to tell me, he was afraid of me and still is.But i am glad i didn't end up with him cos if a woman would marry a grown guy who tells so much lies even lies a 16years will tell, a guy who can't make up his mind, but mummy n daddy makes decisions for him @ a grown age of 30 years and above and she still married him, ahhhhhhhhh GOD saved me from wahala and untimely death, i didn"t curse him for one day, but many did. So my dear,their are a few good men out there, no waste ur time dey cry, its not easy dats the gospel truth but u will be fine, if u have few good friends,ur siblings and Christ, also u have a great fun in your life,shop, look good, smile often u will be fine. There have been cases worst 5years, 10years,... so daryln brace up, that Man up deir brought u to the sufface of this earth for a great purpose, don"t let the crap ruin u.
Don't give up the cookies, until you are certain of his true intentions, met his family and friends and checked his background. Get the ring on it, let him be well vested in you. It will be difficult for him to leave.
Met his friends
It's a really sad story but being suicidal will not make things better...She'll only meet her maker and answer some questions on why she took her own life.
The truth is that we as people should develop a close r/ship with God. It is the best thing that can happen to anybody. There's no way she wouldn't have seen signs of danger for those 5 years; she was just not 'man' enough to walk away.
I need only three months to know where a r/ship is headed....if not the way i want it, it ends!
No one's worth your tears darlyn, talk less of your life. God has so much more in store for you so dust yourself up, keep your head high, focused and in no time, you'll meet an amazing man and when you look back, you'll be glad this happened
Oge
Lmao! B like ur mother inlaw na mama G!...buhahahhaaahahhaaha!!! Take heart bruv! Mine is a saint like her daughter...
its not all men my dear, pls clam your sister down.
It's a really sad story but being suicidal will not make things better...She'll only meet her maker and answer some questions on why she took her own life.
The truth is that we as people should develop a close r/ship with God. It is the best thing that can happen to anybody. There's no way she wouldn't have seen signs of danger in those 5 years; she was just not 'man' enough to walk away. The reason why most of us can't walk away is because we have got involved with sex (which shouldn't be). It makes us blind to the truth and caged to a lie!
I need only three months to know where a r/ship is headed....if not the way i want it or the way it should, it ends! But hey, everyone's different.
No one's worth your tears darlyn, talk less of your life. God has so much more in store for you so dust yourself up, keep your head high, focused and in no time, you'll meet an amazing man and when you look back, you'll be glad this happened.
For our information ladies, men do not regards sex as love!!! So beware.
Oge
please tell your sister that life is not fair but God is good.
Such is life! Just tell ur sister to repackage her kpekus and move on!
same thing happened to my cousins friend,she even stumbled at his mail ,discussing with his sister of his weddin plans to d nigger girl.when asked he cooked up stories,only for him to leave for nig n got married to another girl.
Kewl stowie....
it cant be well with that man and his family.. its just very sad and it is the simple truth.. yu dnt hurt ppl like that.
anoda chapter plzzzzzzzz, can we invite the Lord in our relationships. i think he will direct our course better cos he knows us better, wot do yu think?
This topic gets to me.
Oh! like lots of Nigerian women haven't dumped men like used tampons??
Women even do it way way more but we never get to hear it like when it is a man. hiss!!
That being said; 5years is a very very long time to have been in a relationship without getting any concrete commitment (depending on how old she is). That is her fault. Alarm bells should have been ringing even after 3-4years. Altho It's difficult when the man has an agenda. Worse if his family are in on it too
Nothing a woman can do but move on. She probably said NO to few others just cos of this dude.
That's my 10 cents & these extra 2 cents are free; don't paint all men with the same charcoal colored brush
If we o not talk marriage, or propose or better yet actually marry you after 2yrs buyer beware because its a wrap and you lose. Honest truth from a man with 2 sisters. I wish your sister well because a lot of women bring this on themselves as well and am sure this man was generous and to which our sister did not want to give up after 5yrs of enjoyment.
You heard someone saying go and cry naked to God in the middle of the night and you say men are wicked. Abi is it not the God that told us about how to be a virtuous woman...Oleji, Ole gba
for you to know exactly what went wrong and judge we need to hear both side of the story.it will be stupid of me to say the guy is wicked when i dont know what exactly went wrong.no be the girl dey tell us the story of wetin happen.its her sister..so please keep your thoughts to yourself and judge wisely.
If we o not talk marriage, or propose or better yet actually marry you after 2yrs buyer beware because its a wrap and you lose. Honest truth from a man with 2 sisters. I wish your sister well because a lot of women bring this on themselves as well and am sure this man was generous and to which our sister did not want to give up after 5yrs of enjoyment.
Sorry that your sister got broken but to take your hands and brain to type this nonsense you just did says volumes of you. Rubbish. Lord knows how many times women have done worse things to me. What an insolent person you are.
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well tell ur sister not 2 curse d guy, she should try and move on. it hurts obiviously but d end will justify d means. Going thru d same thing @ dis very point in my life after 6yrs. i encouraged myself and i v realised dat am happier and u know wat lyfe has bin gud without the loser. she will come round with tyme. Tell her i love her and dat she will def come thru. failure is an event, d relationship failed but she is not a failure, God flushed d GIT off her life. Pls ChIDOZIE MARIO U FYNE ABEG!!!
If he was double dating whiles with you, that means he will do that to the lady he is married to now someday. Is that the kind of marriage you want? I bet you, if you give him a green light in the future he won't see anything wrong in gracing your bed. My dear i know is painful, trust me have been there but you just have to thank God, i assure you God has a better man for you, someone that will love you and worship you. Stay strong. No man is worth dieing for. God has a purpose for your life, just stay strong and fulfill your purpose that's matters.
Its both ways in the Uk. Nigerian women there are devilish too!
Happened to me, thought i would die, but here i am full of life, i bounced back BIG time and it didn't stop me from loving someone else again, whom i might add gave me the BEST val gift EVER very recently. Its a sad story i don't pity the guy i pity the woman he married here in Nigeria. Women are quick to marry any tom dick or harry without asking questions. Me i always tell my friends to ask their would be husbands whose heart he just broke before jumping to you cos men don't know that if a pained woman kneels down to pray to God he'll hear her and release his wrath on him (wife and all).
Its sad but she'll get over it. We always do.
Ur sister shud be prayerful, she shud grieve not bottle up the pain, I had a similar experience, mine was also 5years wasted, both parents were aware of our relationship and plans, I heard abt his wedding from a colleague at work, I was the one dat told his parents who thought I was lying, today he is begging to come back after getting married and God has blessed me with someone dat adores me, we had our wedding on the 9th of february 2013
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WTF who say men ar wiked then women ar evil, i had a girlfrnd nd she was slipin with her neighbour nd includin my frnd veri stupid nonentity,i mean an idiot,nd u say men ar wiked,infact i think all women i see around nw ar prostitutes nothin else b'cos it's all moni 4 hand nd bak 4 ground,i will kip punishin the ones dat comes 2 my way
Dear Lord!!!!Help her to remember that Wen she Lose Hope Bcos her Plans av Come 2 Nothing...Help us To Remember dat ur Love is Greater Than her Disappointment And Your Plans r far beta.
Madam(the one that said her ex is now her gateman):You are a good fiction writer;can't wait to read your book(s)...
Women are so wicked too and always one-sided with their judgements. Everything is on the man while the woman is now a saint. We havent think of the possibility of the woman being at fault. The name of the game is DOG EAT DOG. Next item, please
thats what you get when you try to buy a man with money... nnntoooorr...
he will most definitely feel you will become a pioneering wife in the future. I swear to God, no man will ever want to be pioneered. infact, we hate it in all ramifications...
As we have EVIL MEN, we also have DEVIL WOMEN. I dated a girl for 8 years,pay her school fees and established a business for her. I know most of her Family and her Father told me we can get married after her Schooling. Some Months after completing her education and I was thinking that the wedding should take place in less than 6 months, she got pregnant for another guy 2 years younger than her age but from a very rich parent. What do you call her?
Women are just as wicked as men! It cut both ways! Hearts don't get broken these days, they adjust. Your sister will surely move on.
Remember Jesus Christ is a man and he die for all of us,so someone telling me all men are the same doesnt make any sense to me,,,,,every lady want to marry but really ask urself are r fit to be a house wife???bcos house wife is different from girlfriend,during dating we men always watch our gf both inside and outside bcos we dont want to make a mistakes....some ladies are saying if u date a guy for 1year and he doesnt introduce u to his parent quickly breaking up with him <>before a man can introduce u to his parent he must av see a house materials in u,so stop deceiving urself sister instead correct ur mistakes so that ur man will not leave u for another woman...
Move on jare and your sister killing yourself is just a stupid move over a guy....I am a man and sometimes, it hurts to make women believe that you gonna marry them whereas a man knows the very moment he sees a woman what he's gonna do with her....men categorize women: jumpoff, wifey, side kick, friend with benefits, hood rat, hoes, F*ck her only, mistress, so we already know what's up!
Good guys can be upfront with their intentions...bad guys can just play along and carry on with their agenda; but you know why this happens....becaus the woman let's them!!!
Sometimes I'll be wondering "com'on, nah....this babe suppose know how far!"...but wetin concern me!
Babes, do the same thing too....so it goes either way sweetie!!!
What goes around comes around. Nature has a way of settling matters. Your sister will be fine.
you didn't tell us that the guy promised to marry your sister. cooking for a guy and opening up your legs for him for 5 years does not guarantee marriage pls! Tell your sister to grow up. she must have been dumb to stick with a guy for 1, 2, 3 4... years without him putting a ring on her finger and she still stayed. what wa she thinking?
Jonny.
Linda u don't have sense ooo, sorry to say, but y are u calling the woman disillusioned?? Do you even know the meaning of the word? Y would u call her that after reading the letter? You don't have sense! You annoy me sometimes..hiss
I didn't see where you said the guy promised to marry your sister. cooking fora guy and spreading your legs forhim for 5 years does not guarantee marriage. pls tell your sister to grow up. why did she stick with a man for 1, 2, 3, 4...yrs without d guy putting a ring on her finger or making a commitment and she still stayed in the relationship? is she dumb?
She left you because of ur English!! Chen!!! Lmao
Personally I think African men are the worst men ever to be with, nothing good ever come from them they lies, cheat and just a disgrace to all man kind!!!
gbam @ 11.14am
Yes men are wicked that's why you have to guard your heart and keep your body. He had nothing to fight for really because you gave it all up. Thank God you found out about the wedding! now that you know he is married keep away from him so you don't end up as the side chick and cause him to cheat on his wife.
Get closer to God because he has better plans for you!
I'm sorry to hear about your sister's situation. I'm a guy & I can honestly say a guy typically can tell within 1yr whether or not he is taking you to the alter. In every relationship there's always signs written on the wall for both parties involved & lots of times we choose to ignore them until crap hits the fan!
My advise to your sister is that this too shall pass, and sure it hurts very much now but I promise her that she will meet someone that will treat her better than her ex & appreciate, cherish & marry her. Karma is a mutha, and mark my words the ex will surely reap what his sown in due time. I'll leave your sister with this quote "Life is like photography, You need the negatives to develop".
The Bible says the HEART OF MAN IS DESPERATELY WICKED. ALSO ITS SAYS GUIDE UR HEART DILIGENTLY FOR OUT OF IT SPRINGS FORTH THE ISSUES OF LIFE(INCLUDING RELATIONSHIPS AND THE RIGHT MAN). Your sister will be alright. trust in the Lord, He is the only one who doesn't fail. for the Bible also says TRUST IN THE LORD WITH ALL YOUR HEART AND LEAN NOT ON YOUR OWN UNDERSTANDING, IN ALL(NOT SOME)YOUR WAYS ACKNOWLEDGE HIM AND HE SHALL DIRECT YOUR PART
THE HYPOCRISY OF WOMEN WILL NEVER END . IF U HEAR WOMEN COMPLAINING ABOUT A MAN THAT IS WICKED , IT IS BCOS SUCH A MAN HAS EARNED THE CAPACITY TO BE WICKED.EVERY MAN KNOWS WHEN THE SISTERS NEVER USED TO GIVE HIM A SECOND LOOK AND SUDDENLY, EVERY WOMAN THAT HAS PLAYED THE FIELD WANTS TO COME TO HIS HOUSE AND LOVE U AND HOW DARE U NOT COMMIT TO HER !!!WOMEN BEING GIVEN THE NATURAL GIFT OF BROADCAST WILL LET NO ONE HEAR WORD AGAIN ONCE THEIR CONNIVING PERMUTATION AND CALCULUS FOR THAT "ELIGIBLE" BACHELOR fALLS THRU ! OF COURSE, IN hER TRAIL SHE HAS LEFT SO MANY NOT SO ELIGIBLE BACHELORS HEARTBROKEN WHO ARE NURSING THEIR WOUNDs LIKE A MAN (QUIETLY);ONE need Not INCLUDE THE ARISTOs WHO ARE CONSIDERED NORMAL THING SINCE "I DONT REALLY LOVE HIM , IT's ONLY HIS MONEY I WANT"
Yes, it's really heartbreaking but it baffles me how people start using God and Bible verse to comfort her when the relationship was not conducted according to God's standards #doublestandard.
There was nothing more to look forward to in your sister. (sorry to say) Hebeen sleeping with her for five years before marriage, there's nothing exciting anymore. Women should close their legs before marriage biko. There is no decency in this world anymore. I feel sorry for your sister. Men are wicked too
beat this: in 2008 i dated a guy didnt know he was engaged it was someone that told me. He denied it. i broke up with him he married some months later
in 2009 i dated a guy. i loved him oo despite what my friends thought as per he is not very handsome and he doesnt deserve me. he started acting up after sometime, he told me that he hasnt gotten over his dead gf. i had to dump him
i thought i had finally gotten it right in same 2009 when i dated this other guy that not only took my virginity. he cheated on me had to get married to the girl as she was pregnant for him. all this while everyone thought i was d side chick meanwhile he started dating me before her.
Fastforward to 2013 im still single and loving it but i need a mr tho. im not rushing im just going to take my time. ive met real jerks oo just this year one wanted to forcefully have his way with me. thank God i didnt fall maga.
so because of a little problem at home you resort to cheating? Good boy not!!!
lol george this your comment is so not fair....hahaha you are mean!!
U fucker wat r u tlking abt dnt u hv concerns ur so wicked men including u dat calls her ashawa didn't d man kw who and wat she is b4 moving in and stay wt her eating her food wt his big dirty smellin mouth God will judge u evil men
hmmm nice piece i likeeyy
@annonymous February 19, 2013 at 2:29 PM,
The reason why African Women, especially Naija women can't date other men from other race, especially whites, is because they are not sexually attracted to White folks. They may date them, but marriage, forget it.It doesn't work.....anyone you see in it, is just covering up.They are in misery.
Now, as for those ladies saying that men are 'Wicked', 'Curse Him', ......SHUT UP. You ladies are the most heartless lots.
Let me tell you my own story: I went out with a single mother of two. We lived here in Calgary Canada.I started dating her fresh from University, back in PH.My first true love.There was nothing I didn't do for this babe....I even stole and got locked up because of her. I didn't care that she's got two lovely girls.I loved her with every breath in me...damned everybody that advised me against the relationship.Well, She moved to Canada and for three years, she never cared or bothered to know how I was doing in PH. Life was terrible.living on the street,hustling, and being laughed at by mates for dating a mother of two.
She later remembered me when she heard from her friends that things were looking up for me in PH.Pronto, she got in touch...apologized and started telling me how much she missed me and wanted to be with me.She actually came back, and helped me relocate to Canada, which I was very grateful.
Now in Canada, life was not as I expected...being an illegal immigrant. I stayed home everyday, take kids that call me dad, to school, cook, clean house and fulfill my manly duty every day and whenever she asked for it. There, she showed me her real person.talks to me anyhow, brings in men, goes out anyhow, smokes, drinks and hang out with the so called naija big chics. And when I complain, she shuts me down and reminds me how she brought me abroad and have me deported.I had no place to go and for two years, I lived like this with this babe.
Have you seen where a woman slaps a big man before?Me of all people. Just because I was illegal and had no job.
Tell me, what kind of love would make a man be with a woman who treat him like a piece of shit?
Right under my nose, she brought another man.They were fucking on the bed that we both share.I caught her red handed. The painful thing was that when I asked her why she did what she did, she said ' And So?.That night, she kicked me out of her house....It was raining,very cold and I was stranded.The day she kicked me out, I cried to God to help me .two years wasted in Canada, doing nothing.It wasn't easy.I couldn't sleep,couldn't eat.....most times, I would be tempted to call her.I even begged her to take me back.I had no where to go.That period was hell.But you know what, I never wished her bad.I was rather pained and wondered what happened to the love that we shared.
One friday evening,I was roaming about,looking for a job and the police accosted me.They asked for my papers, I had none and was arrested, thumb printed and taken to the detention center for onward deportation to Lagos.I was suicidal..not because of love turned sour,but because of the shame of deportation....where do I start?
It was at the detention center that I met the most wonderful woman that God could ever give a man. The Doctor that came to check my health fell in love with me.What else can I ask Jehova? She was my angel.
To cut the whole story short, she admitted me in hospital, delayed my deportation due to health reasons and today, to the glory of God, this Port - Harcourt Boy is happily married to this beautiful doctor,with two solid Boys,an MBA and working in one of the fortune 500 in Toronto.
My Ex?She's still in a DREAM on how my life has turned out.
Point of my story: Move on if you are 100 % sure that throughout the course of the relationship, you didn't contribute to the guy's walking out.You will get a better man. I have heard stories of ladies saying...'After all I have done for him'.....The truth is that most ladies who do all these, along the way never valued the man and goes about disrespecting and maltreating him because they have the upper hand. And when the guy's fortune turns around, and he moves on, they start cursing.'After all I did for him'.
Disclaimer: I know there are some good Nigerian men, but there are very few.
Your sister dodged a bullet and she will be grateful for it someday. The person I feel sorry for is the woman he married. A human being that is capable of that level of deceit is very DANGEROUS. I've experienced something similar and I have to say I am glad it happened because he gave me the opportunity to truly see him and his family for what they are. I was angry at first. but as time went on, I thanked God for the outcome of the relationship. Her living a rich and fulfilled life is the best revenge. Leave room for God to avenge her. I'm a 100% confident that He will.
I'm not saying all Nigerian guys are bad, but they are very very few good ones. Instead of blaming God after a relationship goes sour, why don't we truly commit the choice of a man we should date to marry to God. Trust me I believe it works. I've seen it over and over again. Also, I'm a testimony of it.
On the note of Nigerian men. I have seen this in my friends and some family members. Nigerian men have an entitlement mentality. They have a "I'll do whatever I need to do without the slightest consideration of the implication it has on other people's lives" mentality. I don't care who is sacrificed along the way as long as I get what I want. This machismo culture is not unique to Nigeria, however, like everything else Nigerians take it to another level. This mentality is partially to blame for the continuous crippling of the leadership and corruption in Nigeria.
I've come to believe the probability of being screwed over by a man increases exponentially when the guy is Nigerian. This is just a fact. I've too many examples from Nigerian women and non-Nigerian women to arrive at this conclusion. When a Nigerian man hurts a woman, he doesn't just hurt her, he does it a way that is so wicked and detrimental to the woman's ability to move on. Please don't get upset because I am just stating the truth. Those of you that have contributed to this perception know who you're, what you do, and continue to do.
I'll end by saying, no one gets away with wickedness. You can't plant oranges and expect to harvest apples. Nope, it doesn't work that way. You'll get yours at a later date. That's the way life works.
"Sex and Food does not guarantee your place as a wife. If it is not yours, it is not yours!"
Thank you. Bitches better recognise that and stop thinking those things can keeping men who aren't destined to be theirs.
Women will not learn to stop playing wife to men they are not married to unless you don't want to get married. We usually end up losing. Enjoy each stage of your relationship.
well lemme tell u a story of my own...my friend engaged his chiq of 2 years...2weeks to the wedding she elopes with another dude....get over it and stop whining...life is such
Rily..its on both sexes.. A guy once told me..when a man stays with u for 5 yrs and above with no weddings plans..he isn't planning to marry u he just hasn't seen d right girl to call the bride!girls dump guys too...so pls stop cursing the guy cuz no one knows what transpired between the guy n lady.each party wld say their sides in the way dat wld favour him or her.. There are three sides to a story..the parties involved and the truth..a lady that commented and was telling the chick to curse the guy..didn't she marry a CEO of the company where d guy was working as s gateman!she doesn't know wat God has in plan for her..greater things..so pls shit happens..clean ur ass n move on to the next meal..God will help with easy digestion
Grrrrrr ur English turns me on xxx
To those advcing she should strip and curse you are equally wicked. The man isn't her husb, so she has no phy or spiritual connection to him. He did something bad true, why not thank God you didn't end up spending your life with a loser than placing a curse on his innocent family.focus on your sis, wish the guy the best and God who sees and rewards all good will bring the bone of your bone our way.
Greenmomma
Dear ladies, I'm tired of hearing all this talk about men being the descendants of Lucifer.
Do u expect to keep a man with sex? Are u learners? Even Women will tell you "why will u buy the cow when u can get milk for free?"
Stop giving out sex and look for a man who is ready for you.
I know that this lady will not tell you about the times her friends were warning her about this man, all she will conclude is that Men are evil....Please "There is no one righteous, no not one".
Stop the blame game and pick your life and move on...LEARN FROM YOUR MISTAKES!!!
Lwkmbd.......Haba Aunty Cece abi na Aunty kobo Wetin happen, Olopa ewo lepe.
Anonymous 12.38pm lwkmbd(in fact I don piss for pant). OMG! Nollywood film. Una no go kill person walai
Sorry for you sis but she has to take some of the blame - how can she be sleeping and taking care of a man for 5yrs and without asking questions about his future plans??
He saw an opportunity and took it, free food, free sex.
So because he was UK based, you probably said NO to the other guys, I am sure he was NEVER into you, don't paint all guys with the same brush.If a man's heart is not for you, it is not never assume.It was unfair but move on, after all ladies do worse when it comes to dumping men.Remember the saying what a man can do....
@ cece cos na she born am abi. Ode oshi. Strip naked, call his name 7times and place curses on him. U no tell us say u be mamalawo. Oracle consultant. Didirin
WOW, TRAGIC THINGS ARE HAPPENING
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Wow! Ph boy ur story is amazing and a huge testimony... I live in Toronto so I can imagine the loneliness u must have gone thru and den not having papers compiled with that! I thank God for your life o! Anyways, thanks for sharing. All the best!
Well said....well said.
I have made my own mistake of marrying a devil for a woman and everyday i sleep i wish i wake up and find that this marriage is a dream.
The truth is our "a lot" of naija ladies loose their family values and become very disrespectful and arrogant when they get to the US or the UK. Because the law favors them more.As soon as the man tries to correct their excesses they call the police who dont waste time in taking the man to jail.
Look if i lay down my experience so far with this woman on this page, no one will finish reading.
The only reason im still in this marriage is cos the bible strongly warns about Gods views on divorce.
@Curtis, don't fool urself. Curses are real, whether or not they engaged in premarital sex. The plain truth is, anyone who deceives another and causes them pain will pay for it. That is a simple yet very factual law of life. U sound guilty of same n it's like u are trying to console and justify urself.
Habaaaa
Shuu gateman,some men dont just know it is bad to make a woman shed tears
every woman is quick to condemn the man, do you know if that 5 year relationship was made hell for the man by the woman? he left, fuck yea..if he isn't ur man he isn't..the sooner the better..those talking of vengeance prayer, lol what goes around comes around..if u in love with someone who doesn't love u, be it for eternity..when u not smart enough to see the signs, then count it a blessing when he/she dumps u cos it really is a blessing....
It is unfortunate that most ladies still sell themselves cheap to men out of desperation, what business did your sister have cooking, washing cloths e.t.c for a Man who is not her legally married husband. Now she started complaining when the Man went for another dignify lady. I am not justifying what the Man did, but Ladies stop fornication with Men. A word is enough for the wise
Life can be a bitch but please dont curse anybody. Just leave everything in God's hand. He knows and sees everything.
Meanwhile just get busy. Pamper yourself. Do the things you've always wanted to do, go out ,volunteer, go to church . read . But please dont eat too much of the wrong things, it will only make you feel and appear worse.
This too shall pass.YOU'LL BE OK.
Tell ur sis to rejoice and be glad for she just dodged a bullet
My dear, just encourage your sister to carry on with her life,that man is not her husband.when her husband comes, she wont miss him.
My dear encourage your sister to move with her life because that man is not her husband,when her husband comes she wont miss him
the Lord is ur strength dear. the ways of God is not that of man. Let God be the source of your joy. he doesn't deserve you one bit, and am so sure the lady he settled for is no where your class. that's what happens to most of these wicked guys. they end up getting married to frustration.
Its simple: No sex b4 marriage. When will our women learn this principle and save themselves of hearthbreaks
ONE SIDE of the story. If you probably hear the other side of the story (I mean the man's feeling) you may possibly change your mind!
To the madam whose husband now employs her ex as a gate man; don't you just feel sorry for your husband? He is eating the leftover of his gate man! Yikesss
You have told us your own side of the story! I'm not one of those feeble minded people who jump into conclussion like that!
Nobody knows what your sister did to him.
There's no smoke without fire!
He may be a man that doesn't like nagging and your sister will not let him rest with her razor-blade mouth. Or perhaps she's always reminding him that he's living in the UK illegally,and wants him to live the rest of his life with that gratitude and sentiment;He decided to run home!
However,she must have learnt some lessons,let her dust her clothes and learn to pray,so that the LORD will forgive her fornication,make her a better person and provide her a life partner-NOT a sex partner!
LOL,bi o se wa ni Okunrin naa ni o se ni obirin. please do not let your sister be by herself. spend more time with her,take her to a vacation.let her get out of these mess and above all pray for her too,All the best love
wow anon 2:33, 19th. You are simply nuts.
MEN AND WOMEN RE THE SAME, DO ME I DO!!!!!
@Ola baby,u must be blind or just don't have good taste...bona looks like a houseboy whose oga went to work n he's quickly trying on d oga's suit;all that remains is for him to hold flower
Your sister mustn't kill herself over a man who didn't respect her enough to tell her the truth,,,he just used and abused her that's a shame on him not her....he should kill himself for being a useless,shameless,two faced he goat who is also a woman wrapper & user,,,she is grieving for who she thought he was not who he truly was....she is crying over an illusion the reality is he's a sneaky,snakey,slimey,grimey waste of emotion....let him go and let God give you something better seriously.
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