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Monday 21 June 2010

Question of the day - Should married couples go clubbing together?




















Is it OK for married couples - with children - to go to nightclubs?

Let's know what you think...
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18 comments:

Anonymous said...

is it ok for married couples to go to owanbe parties?is it okay for them to attend weddings?YES!!so the answer to your question is YES..clubbing is a form of entertainment so i dont even get why this question is posed

DaChick said...

It depends...
Clubbing means different things to different people

ChiChiLuv said...

this question get as e be o, so clubs are only for the single? so because people have married, they should just stick to church and family functions, abi? when did marriage become synonymous with dead to fun? LOL.

Married people SHOULD make it a point once in a while to find a baby sitter, get dressed up and paint the town red, white, blue and whatever color in between. I advocate this because it allows for a couple to rekindle their romance and see each other again through the eyes of their courtship days instead of seeing "mommy" and "daddy"/"husband" and "wife."

I know a couple who actually go the extra mile to have the man pick up his wife at a fancy hotel where she had registered for the night and gotten dressed at instead of at the house like they would normally do so it's like they are going on a date and not married to each other then after dinner and dancing, they head back to the hotel for some extra fun before going to pick up their kids the next morning and get back into their regular routine.

So YES, it is perfectly okay for married couples to live it up, kick up some dust and get down with the get down just like everybody else.

Myne said...

For sure, whatever clubbing means to them.

Asabe said...

Yes married couples should go clubbing together, it is good for the couples from time to time & it bring back the love you both share.

Asabe said...

Yes married couples should go clubbing together, it is good for the couples from time to time & it bring back the love you both share.

Mena UkodoisReady said...

YES. If your husband decides to take you and to a night club, you better get your war paint ,your threads and shoes on.

This is what interests him so it better interests you as well.lol.

Women should get ready to compete with 'sisi's outside, nobody has time to do 'mummy' and 'mama' anymore, lest your husband strays!

As for children, some clubs are family oriented, ikoyi club and le meridien etc.

Surprise said...

Yes married couples should go clubbing together. What God has joined together, let no man (clubbing or whatever) put asunder.

Anonymous said...

ABSOLUTELY. !!! nigerians need to be less stiff joh , i am 200% in support of couples doin stuff too keep thngs lively , wether its goin clubbing ,romantic getaways, role play , 3some , wateveerrr ;)

Anonymous said...

Yes, it's ok.

TKB's thoughts said...

Why not? I quite agree with DaChick, clubbing means different thing to different people. If married feels like chilling out in a club, I don't see any big deal in that. Marriage is not a life prison you know

Dith said...

na wa 4 this question sha..

but Chichiluv has said it all.

Anonymous said...

why is this a question? thank God most of this people here have said it all. YES, i know most Nigerians, who claim to be 'conservative' say this is bad but HELL NO, its not. like chichi luv wrote, "its a way to rekindle their romance/love"

so yes, it is good, great and fun.

Anonymous said...

The trend's the opposite though. Men who want to take their wives are discouraged by their 'cheating' friends or those who want to unwind in an atmosphere where the can ogle at will (which tbh can be harmless at times). They usually don't want mama Ngozi breathing down their necks or going to tell their wives they've been up to no good. It's the reason wives are quite scarce in the clubbing scene.

Anonymous said...

together... if they can actually find the time... with children ke? no point.

Anonymous said...

why wont couples go clubbing,i and my husby still do, how do you want them to have fun together without the kids always around.. please!! that is not a question...

jenny said...

why not.especially if they did it whyl dating!)

isha said...

Oh most definitely!

I'm saving up club-nights now, so I can cash them when I'm married.

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