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Friday, 23 September 2011

Amber Rose is angry! Pours her heart out on her blog

Last week, Amber Rose visited an Islamic school in Ghana to speak to the girls in the school about life choices. She received a lot of criticism after the trip. People were basically saying she wasn't a good role model and had nothing to teach young people.  

Amber Rose went on her blog to pour her heart out about all the bad press and criticisms she's been getting for years...and many other things...
From Amber's Blog
“U do something positive in this industry u get scrutinized I really came to the conclusion that it’s not even about me it’s the fact that I’m a woman. Men in the entertainment industry are praised constantly for their “wrong doings”. if ur a drug dealer and u took care of ur family before ur fame everyone understands. If u get shot in the mist of u hustling ur cool as fuck. If a man’s naked pics hit the internet ppl think it’s cute or funny then just talk about how big he is. A Man can date 20 models at the same time and he is respected by the world and if a girl does it she’s a disgusting whore and a “Star Fucker” Women get destroyed by the media and our peers constantly but I am writing this to specifically speak about myslf.”
“Regardless of the fact I dated Kanye for 2 years or the fact I was a stripper at 15 years old or that my most private pics were stolen from me and a new batch hit the internet every week, I am a human being. I’m a daughter, a best friend, a great wife and an all around good person.
 Continue to read, quite interesting!

 

I never speak negatively about anyone. Have I? NO. U think i don’t want to? I course I do I’m human. But I keep my life positive and I stay strong every time my ex talks about me in his songs or when these blogs tell nothing but lies about me or when ppl say that I shouldn’t be speaking to young girls in Africa. Why wouldn’t I speak to those girls? I AM West African just like them, I grew up poor just like them, most of those girls quit school to take care of their families JUST LIKE I DID. So how the hell do they not relate to my life and I theirs???”

“Talking to those young girls wasn’t a job for me feeding those kids wasn’t a job for me it wasn’t for publicity and I didn’t get paid to do it. I went there cuz I LOVE to help ppl. I DON’T want a pat on the back for shit that I do from my heart or even a thank u it was my blessing to go out to Ghana it is a second home for me now and it changed my life FOREVER! So don’t criticize me and say why is Kanye’s ex stripper Girlfriend in Africa I am so much more then that smh there is a reason why he loved me so much and theres a reason why Wiz loves me so much now did u ever think maybe I’m just a sweet person?”

“Every girl reading this has an ex boyfriend and every guy reading this is most likely dating a girl that has been with more then 1 guy. So what have I done to everyone? Its it because u think I am undeserving of this life because of my past? Or is it pure hatred? If I was a man and dated 2 female artist would that be ok? Thats not as bad right? Bullshit. And the one thing that is extremely upsetting is the fact that woman criticize me more then men do. Look at yourselves before u criticize someone u don’t know Look at the mistakes you’ve made in ur life. ppl are so negative it’s ridiculous But I will continue to be positive, Loving and all about women empowerment and to my Rosebuds I know u guys get it and I LOOOOVE u so much for supporting me through all of this nonsense.”

Thank u –Amb
What do you think?

81 comments:

Anonymous said...

Gosh,I love her write up,women also hate each other,we all have a past,she only dated two guys,yet some celebrity guys change sleep and change girls like someone changin boxers yet we hail dem,I love her now

WANNY said...

Linda i think she has really made her point ova dere.....And i support her or why critising what u know ure also once a victim and is it bcus they are not celebrity for d media to publish about them also....Hiss...Rubbish ...I don dey vex sef..Am out of here joor.

Anonymous said...

All the best to her in whatever she does! That's all.

Amy said...

well im very impressed and im happy she poured out her mind and wat she is saying is making so much sense cos anytime a gal does sumtin it goes round everywhere but if its a guy dey will always say na guy na but we women suffer for sooo many things i wonder if its a crime to be a woman,well im proud to be a woman and i like d fact amber finally said sumtin.

kkdlegend said...

she is right, i think d press should stop bugging her .who dsnt have a shady past. She is human for christ sake. Or do dey wnt her to start using drugs

Anonymous said...

Stay blessed Amber you are perfect in god's eyes

aw said...

LMAO!!!!

Anonymous said...

I actually feel what she is saying, BUT what is her TALENT?? What is she a celebrity for? For dating stars right?? Ok, so why do you expect people not to talk about that? That's all they can talk about, because you don't have any other relevance in the industry!!

Anonymous said...

Oro nla ni omode yi so o. The world is full of hypocrites, including me.

Anonymous said...

I actually feel sorry for her and she makes some good points

Emi noni said...

deep...very interesting, something deffo worth thinking about. the past is the past everyone got one, its all about moving on

Anonymous said...

The Young Gurl is absolutely Right.... Haters shld take a Piss, its not easy being a beautiful gurl and tryin to live yur life the best way you know how.
Amber, yu can date as many men as yu want, live yur life first before letting others live it for you.... No fingers re equal, for that fact all lifestyle can never be equal...
You certainly a tough gurl and I admire that abt yu. Kim Kardashian dated the whole of hollywood and she is married. Yu go gurl.

Anya Posh said...

chei ya...I pity all the negativity trailing her life. I think she means well but people refuse to appreciate her efforts.

Anonymous said...

Pele Amber. Kai I really do feel for her - human beings are harsh.

AR, everyone has a past and you know you - do you and they'll soon find something else to focus on.

Yemi said...

She said it as it is and I think she's right. Men get away with so much and when a woman does half of what many men do, she must be a whore and a bad person. No middle ground. smh

Anonymous said...

i thk she is right,cos d truth is there are worse pple out there,but we just love judging others for some stinking reasons we cant explain.we all know wat moral is,but how many pple have good morals?abeg let us start minding our biz. i thk she is right,cos d truth is there are worse pple out there,but we just love judging others for some stinking reasons we cant explain.we all know wat moral is,but how many pple have good morals?abeg let us start minding our biz.

Anonymous said...

I feel so bad for her.She must be tired as hell of all the hate.Plus beig a black woman is not easy.kim Kardashia can dance naked and companies will be rushing to make her their spokesperson. Amber has said the truth , everyone has a past ad just because ours remains hidden we get a pass.

Anonymous said...

Deep words!i feel for her and like her more.

Anonymous said...

Huh. I was about to tear her a new one but you know, she's right. I am ashamed. Good on you Amber!

aw said...

Life is indeed full of double standards. We know this. It is not fair but it IS the world we live in. "It is a man's world". We have always known this. We have 2 choices. A. Take the "I DON'T GIVE A FACK" attitude and act in any manner we please, get judged for it later but stand by what we did. B. Accept that these double standards are here to stay, going no where and RESPECT our place as women in the society and act accordingly. We all have urges and desires. But I have suppressed mine because of the world we live in. Knowing fully well that had I been a man, I could get away with it. But because I know the unhelpful tags I would get, I do not indulge. That is life. One day, by God's grace, I will be someone's wife and mother and I believe in respecting myself and my future family by not defiling my body and image. After all, most of us would hate to be told that our mother were the campus sluts in those days. GOD FORBID!!

Yemi said...

@Anonymous 8:56, She is a model but she only got this famous because of her high profile relationship with Kanye West.

Anonymous said...

Yes, yes, very well said Amber. Still....what are you known for. What is you talent. your job, what do you or have you done for a living.
You really are NOT in the position to talk to young girls as a ROLE MODEL!!! Are you kidding me?
I wuda yanked my child out of that school for that reason sef!
We love to watch Amber but come on, she's no role model.
We applaud her re-branding, blah blah. But no thank you, we don't want! Stay away from our children!

Anonymous said...

fuck haters,dem no holy pass.Whatever that made Kanye date her for two years,dat means she got some qualities that tripped Kanye and kept them going that same quality made my waila friend whiz khalifa stuck on that p...y.Am glad she touched lives and Amber when people talk about you whether good or bad it shows how important you are.Ride on Girl

Anonymous said...

An Islamic school is the last place she should have ventured..even a Christian based school would not have been a good idea. She has nude pictures on the internet, is known simply because she dated high profile men, and has no verifiable contribution that she has made to humanity. What exactly was she supposed to teach these girls? These are girls who are being raised to live a pious life, Amber is not the person for that. I don't hate her, but the truth is the truth. You character and lifestyle will always be the measure you are measured with irrespective of anything else.

She could go back to school and do something that makes a difference in the world and then she would get some respect. Former prostitutes have moved on to be doctors, lawyers even religious ministers so Amber can reinvent herself.

Anonymous said...

well said!!!!!! word! she just got herself a fan.. some thing to think about.. and at all the anonymous saying she shouldn't be advising she's been thru the same shit and has made her mistake, so she is the best person to tell them not to go dat route. so is it you the hypocrites with holier than though to give them advise. people want someone who has been there!

Anonymous said...

Yimu!didn't she tweet that when she landed, the Ghanian pple started drumming and singing for her, an she told them she WASN'T AFRICAN.Then they said, we are all African's..welcome home amber". she said she thot that was really deep. I was surprised she even said that cuz she's actually cape verdean. Anyway, my point is all of a sudden she now remembers she's African abi... gerrout lollll.
ok yea yea yea, she made some valid points, BUT what does she expect?????. I just think she's a media whore just like the kardishians... sorry to say, but amber u are a NON-MUTHERFUCKIN FACTOR bitch! lol ok sorry.. but bye boo, u need more people!

Anonymous said...

She's right, but what I wanna know is why she keeps taking naked pictures of herself knowing it will leak out on the internet somehow??? What she does is her business, and I will not judge, but like they say respect yourself and you will be respected. shikena!

Anonymous said...

Shut the fuck up Amber, you need more people, have several seats. What you said is nothing new, what castigation/praise you get comes with the territory. I dont hear you complain when you're getting paid based on who had dated. The double standard with men/women will always be, it is the way it is, nothing you say will change it. Just hit Kim K up and ask her how to turn negative to $$$. I cant stand people who enjoy/court media attention when it favors them and then turn around crying a river when its the reverse.

John

Anonymous said...

There you go. "Kim Kardashian dated the whole of Hollywood but she is married". That is an ignorant comment. Don't feel cos u've gotten Amber, ur alright. Her words apply to all of em! Leave Kim Kardashian alone. Or is she too not a human being who has gone out with a few celebrities?

I'm feeling Amber's write up and I am with her a 100%! Annoying part is most of the women who go in on her and others actually wish they could be like them! Who doesn't want to go out with Kanye West, be beautiful and famous? Who wouldn't like to go out with Reggie Bush?! Women are just vindictive and it needs to stop!

HOMEMADE ENTERTAINMENT said...

she made points and i think everyone should live and let live, we arent perfect#chikena

jennietobbie said...

damn Amber! u went IN!!! Im now your newest fan!!!! wooowzzeerrr! Impressed!!

Ada said...

Let dis serve as a note of warning to our fellow young ladies who choose to indulge in habits they later have a hard time explaining or living with....

I feel her pain, but this is the result of HER own actions n choices n something she must live with... She can direct this whole anger towards developing herself mentally n spiritually so she actually has something to offer, cos after all dis epistle her claim to fame still remains dating Kanye, posing nude n Marrying Wiz...

She can start a foundation to reform strippers n prostitutes since she can relate there too... That will be appreciated by d society, and maybe naija girls too can stop trying to follow dat trend!

And I dont think her using her 2yr rship with Kanye's as reason to see her as a woman of character, helped her case... Kanye has been known to be a mad man many atimes so why would any sane person look to his dates as a source of inspiration??? If na Obama she count as her Ex now, I for reconsider... I wish her well...xoxo!

Anonymous said...

she should STFU,note 2 amber..QUIT TAKING NUDE PHOTOS OF YOURSELF BEFORE CONSIDERING ADVISING YOUNG GIRLS!

Anonymous said...

Just wanted to make a point. Someone above said an Islamic school is the last place she should have gone to, or even a christian school. But forgive me if I'm wrong, doesn't religion teach forgiveness and acceptance? If she should not be accepted in a religuous place, where else can she be accepted? My own two cents.

Anonymous said...

while i love amber rose i have to admit in some ways she was wrong...
regardless of her good intentions, you cant just go to someone's country and say bad things about them based on your first visit when you know nothing about the people, their culture or lifestyle
these people need to realise that they cant just say anything because they are celebrities or are doing charity work
Ghana is one of the nicest African countries and their people are amongst the kindest, most patriotic and proudest people so she should just do her thing and shut up when she knows nothing
stop blaming it on you being a woman.. the same way you judged Ghana based on what you saw and heard the first time you went there is the same way people are judging you based on what they have seen and heard about you period
it is what it is

V.O.R said...

I TOTALLY AGREE WITH HER.

MtherfckingFactor said...

SEriously She is a NON MUTHERFCKING FACTOR (that phrase needs tobe trademark)

But on the real though - she is a pretender. One minute you are not african now you are.

yeah there is double standard in society but it is what it is.

Anyway i like SUPERHEAD more cos she is more real than Amber and i wish i could be her friend so she can show me how to suck dick. I dont judge ppl like AMber or Superhead at all. I will never judge them. DO you BOo.

Anonymous said...

She shd just not even think about coming to Naija

Anonymous said...

Amber sweetie, you knew you were a female, daughter and maybe hoped to be a wife and mother before you shook your ass and took your clothes off to so call "hustle". Never mind all this nosense your talkin. Go sit down and sing your testimony some place else. Honestly, God can only judge. Best of luck honey. Maybe in twenty years plus you can try to inspire youth but not while your kitty is all over the web! ?????;

Anonymous said...

Mehnnn she should go sit down...she has millions of negative photos ...so what then would the young girls learn from her? to change bf or to become a stripper? I think OPRAH WINFERY had negative past but turned it to a wonderful future for herself and the world. so please Amber Rose or wateva should go work something out first.

Anonymous said...

Amber u r hoooottttt!!!! But 1st all human. The world judges but it's not their right to..... Continue to stay positive regardless of ur past, we ALL have a past including the people who write & blog about u. Trust me, d day they finally get to meet & talk to u, u will realize that's all they have always wanted.... People hate u bcos they wanna be like YOU. A lot of pple wld trade their lives right now to be YOU if they had d opportunity.

Kitty Boy said...

Hi hater,
All you do is hate, even on yourself (if you didn't know). All naked pix you see on the internet are works of haters like you, who just like you hate to see people happy; ya'll just evil geniuses. Mr/Mrs hater, you probably have more porn DVDs than Nigeria has crude oil. You are always in the mood after seeing most of those porn-stars perform and you fail to realise that they are being immoral just to satisfy your selfish "moral" sexual desires. The truth's that nobody can ever be satisfied (human wants are insatiable). If you think Amber isn't doing well, go right there to the USA, get her shoes, put yourself into it and let's see if you'd date Kanye & Khalifa better. #3words Get A Life.
@teeluxieHi hater,
All you do is hate, even on yourself (if you didn't know). All naked pix you see on the internet are works of haters like you, who just like you hate to see people happy; ya'll just evil geniuses. Mr/Mrs hater, you probably have more porn DVDs than Nigeria has crude oil. You are always in the mood after seeing most of those porn-stars perform and you fail to realise that they are being immoral just to satisfy your selfish "moral" sexual desires. The truth's that nobody can ever be satisfied (human wants are insatiable). If you think Amber isn't doing well, go right there to the USA, get her shoes, put yourself into it and let's see if you'd date Kanye & Khalifa better. #3words Get A Life.
@teeluxie

Kitty Boy said...

Hi hater,
All you do is hate, even on yourself (if you didn't know). All naked pix you see on the internet are works of haters like you, who (just like you) hate to see people happy; ya'll just evil geniuses. Mr/Mrs hater, you probably have more porn DVDs than Nigeria has crude oil. You are always in the mood after seeing most of those porn-stars perform and you fail to realise that they are being immoral just to satisfy your selfish "moral" sexual desires. The truth's that nobody can ever be satisfied (human wants are insatiable). If you think Amber isn't doing well, go right there to the USA, get her shoes, put yourself into it and let's see if you'd date Kanye & Khalifa better. #3words Get A Life.
@teeluxie

Anonymous said...

Anytin dea said abt her wount change her lookingz in d entertaiment world"..deaz diz sayin we ol knwz"dnt do wat i do,do wat i say,and datz wat amber rose is doin to help young ladiez"nyc update linda jhor

Anonymous said...

yeah.....ds is da price a celeb gets 4not gettin it rite da very very, very 1st tyme...but sha, derz always a 2nd chance....abi?

Anonymous said...

i am tempted to feel pity for her but like kardishians, i don't understand people (ladies and men) who are in the limelight for no discernible talent.
what exactly is her talent in the entertainment industry?
i am probably worse than her in my own way but i am not attempting to be anyone's role model.
All this role model talk gets to me.

BACK TO THE CROSS said...

ENTER CHURCH. THE LORD WON'T CODEMN YOU. CLEAN UP YOUR ACT THE RIGHT WAY AND GO TO WHERE THE REAL LOVE IS.

THE WORLD WILL JUDGE ITS OWN THE WORLD'S WAY, AND THE CHURCH WILL WELCOME THE PRODIGALS IN A LOVING WAY.

SIMPLES!!!

Anonymous said...

kilode pple can beef free d girl naw abeg seriously every1 has a past

Anonymous said...

"city people write, city people read" -M.I

Anonymous said...

First Amber U'r a wonderful person despite ur fame u still spare ur time and money to reachout to pple, empower them, give them a hope, mehn fucked the world, i give it up to u girl. thumps up.

RICHIE

Anonymous said...

well i hope all of u who dwell on pple's past when u r jst as guilty can get her msg into ur thick backward skulls and leave she and kim kardashian alone1

Adetutu said...

people on this blog are hypocrites, unforgiving and cruel in their comments. Some of you are worse than Amber, but u come here spewing vile words and trying to sound intelligent. Go and deal with your sisters and girlfriends who cant keep their vaginas together or try and judge them for sleeping with more than one guy. I dont know Amber, but her write up reeks of a woman who is trying to make people understnd her, who is in pain of having to hear the world judge her every action even the most well intended ones. No one is better than the other, what we all enjoy is God's grace and mercy. Stop judging, unless you can call yourself GOD!

Demmy! said...

She's right. Although she makes really bad choices at times but that does not make her a bad person.

Ade_Cool said...

Karma catching up on Amber ay??..there are repercussions for all our actions..when u were messing up u didn't think men had preferential treatment then abi...nuff of the croc tears..she needs to admit she's done wrong and and turned a new leaf...but not try to justify her past deeds with that bullcrap!!..why hasn't she sued who ever leaked her photos??

Anonymous said...

Punctuate Amber! Freaking puntuate.. lmao. She's got a point though, no one's perfect and some people are quick to judge others from the far end..

Anonymous said...

Nice piece, I feel her very much, all we do is criticize and judge, n d bulls*it tlk of it's a man's world, like I always say *don't live ur life based on wot ple say, if I did I wudnt be where I am today.....so pple f**k off aii,cos I don't give a flying sh*t.

Anonymous said...

Linda, excuse the link, please!

This is Amber Rose in all her (Cape Verdean-Italian or whatever glory AND her sister).

NSFW-ish. But then, nothing new.

http://uvtblog.com/2009/03/family-thickness-amber-roses-sister/

Snick said...

People are multifaceted... we are not one-dimensional... I hate it when folks act as though we act the same with everyone in our lives, at every point in our lives across the board ... like you can't be one thing without being another... you know that type of puritanical hypocrisy, that moral righteousness that takes over some people when they get on their high horses and start criticizing others... like some of those talking about her past catching up with her and fess up with humility. Tell me, to who and for what? I don't even think Amber Rose owes anyone this explanation and I'm sorry she gave it, because the folks that ride others like this... the men that thrive off of the double standards society continues to perpetrate and the women who are so brainwashed by it all that they think what they are taught to think without ever questioning... those types of people still won't get it. My motto...DO YOU, despite the criticism... most times folks are hard enough on themselves for whatever mistakes they have made. They don't need the extra from outside nor do they need to apologize for being who they were in any particular time and space... we live, we learn and hopefully move on.

Anonymous said...

Amber Rose is my idol and role model. I decided to find out more about here and googled her name. The first response that came up for a full blown image of her toto and boobs. I want to be like Amber when I grow up.

Anonymous said...

What has society come to when people applaud rude and obscene behavior by female or male. Murder is murder no matter who commits it. Most of us remain anoymous because to some degree we understand and respect privacy. Not that there's anything wrong with most remarks but some of us are responsible have careers etc. So having all privy to our thoughts is a no, no. Imagine having others watch you bathe or use the restroom. All I'm saying is this young woman knows her actions are inappropriate; therefore, she must change. It's crazy for her to even consider modeling those who prefer the riskier lifestyles.

Mr Cee Jay said...

Let's be objective about this. She went to an Islamic school where the students are being taught to be pious and holy and speak to them about what exActly? While I won't tell anyone how to live their lives, I just think it made no sense for her to go to such a place to speak as a motivational speaker. What virtues did his want to pass on? I am no judging her on her past but if she still revels in her past like it is some trophy, then an Islamic school is the last place she should be visiting in that capacity.

Just saying. And to everyone else who is standing up for her, pls try to see the big picture and how this would have impacted the young boys and girls that she went to teach about 'piety and virtue' before you start mouthing off.

I holla

publicenemy_mac said...

sound like she bout to commit sucide, ya'll giv d lady a break.... she fine,her ass fine, from this wrie up? damn her "brains" gon b fine!!!!! lol...smh to ya'll taking errfin 2 crious,u jus might have a stroke soon....lol

Dan said...

Poor girl.Doesn't even have a clear understanding of the situation.Her head's still stuck in Hollywood. People have to see that you are living according to high standards before they can accept you as a role model for their girls.
And why is she trying to turn this into a gender issue cos it isn't. If she is right about men getting off, what about Arnold Schwarzenegger and Tiger Woods. Were they applauded for their waywardness as being men .Rubbish! I would have respected her more if she accepted responsibility for the image she's created that's now coming back to hunt her.
And why does she still have a two year old nude picture on her laptop if she isn't the same Amber Rose we know of. I am just tired of celebrities and their " you can't judge me,God knows my heart" attitude. You can't keep living any way you want and still expect to be accepted as a normal person. That's not the way it works.It takes time to build a messed up reputation Amber. Welcome to Real-World-y-Wood Amber!
Was she expecting to be applauded?The Ghanaians were even polite. She's lucky she didn't try that in an Arab country. They would have had her head by now.

HATER said...

hey! how come anyone that disagrees is called a hater huh? Kitty take it easy on the hating nuh? me think i would have to change my name! because i am the ONLY that have patent right to that name! ahahaha from now forth, i would go ANONYMOUS! until i come out with a much-disliked name!:P

well, as for lady amber: YOU SHOULD DRESS THE WAY YOU WANT TO BE ADDRESSED!

THE PAST WOULD ALWAYS AFFECT THE PRESENT AND FUTURE, NO MATTER HOW YOU WISH IT AWAY!

THE WAY YOU MAKE YOUR BED, IS THE WAY YOU WOULD LIE ON IT!

Dan said...

Some people never cease to amaze me. If you are bold with the truth they call you a hater. For those of you who who dislike those who don't approve of Amber hanging out with the girls, let me ask you this:
if your daughter walks up to you and tells you she wants to live like Amber Rose, would you not break her head with a stick?.
Mschewwwwwwww!So much for calling others hypocrite! Listen guys and girls, we have too many problems in Africa that have been left unattended to for decades. We can barely handle the ones we have. Let's not add to the problems we already have. We Africans are so gullible. We accept every trashy culture and product that is dumped on our shores. Why don't we ask ourselves if this new import has added any REAL value to those who are bringing it to us. But no, our self-worth wont permit that. As long as it's made in America, then it must be fit for consumption.
Granted, most against Amber's action are faaaaaaaaar from perfect, but at least they are smart enough not to parade themselves as models were they've failed.

LanreXpoze said...

Speaking about relationships, Amber forgot to mention she used to date a gal before Kanye

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BigChel said...

Few days before dis day she was asked to model African attires in Ghana n she kept goin "u guys know am not African...am NOT AFRICAN...now she in da eye of d storm n she remembas her Cape Verdian roots....NONSENSE.... Double standards, i dont care wat u do or did, u no wan b African, we no nid u for Africa"

Anonymous said...

Mt prob with her isn't about her being a motivational speaker. Its more about her photos being leaked on d regular. I mean, once, ok could b a mistake, phone and laptop were hacked, etc. But twice, there times, 4 x? and these r like pictures proven to be fairly recent. Come on! Who r we kidding? Most people have a past. But when you move away from it, cool. Eve had that ex stripper tag at some point but who remembers that now? She's d real motivational story.same with Angelina jolie. Wild girl that turned into a completely diff and admirable woman. So my dear, stop whining and take responsibility for your actions. Stop dropping names. Stop taking photos of your vagina. Its enough. Stop d excessive licking and intimate gropping in public. We get it, that is what you did last night. Cool. but if you wanna present a totally different image, well, most of us find it hard to look past what you throw at us daily. Your life is what you make of it.
Yeah. I'm a sinner obviously, but I blame only me

Anonymous said...

wonderful!!!

amber, i hope you continue this good work you've started with these girls. its sad people cant tell that your past prepares you for a future, in your case im very glad that ur willin to push past anything and anyone to empower women that still live in the reality of your past.

people, please our focus here should be on motive. she loves to help people. shes not going to give strip lessons... *rolling eyes*

Tunmama said...

nize one Amber. i'm witchya

Anonymous said...

Amber !!!!!!!!!!!!!!! pls come to naija.. am ur number 1 FAN... ur haters shld go n die.u are sure the beat!!!!!!!!!!1 kudoosssssssssssssssssssssss

Oluwapeluwa said...

She did spoke well concerning the issue but let's not take the place of a victim of circumstances
in order to get sympathy from situations, experiences we could have redeemed for good.
There is nothing new on earth, there were examples, experiences of others we could have learnt from before taking any step.
Besides learning from experience that we most pass through individually, every human has the power of choice.
We become a reflection of the choices we make.

If a change is required make efforts at it rather than compare whatothers are permitted to do and how unfair that is to you.
Face it, life is never fair to anyone so, wake up!
The mind of the younger generation can be molded as you want it, if you are not reflecting positive lifestyle it rubs off
on the ones that looks up to you no matter the publicity you gather.

the society is what it is today as a result of our contribution, for it to change we have to change our reasoning pattern.

If you the deserve same approach as that of any individual then you should not expect to be regarded as the soft vessel that is to be
considered with mild hands.
While we blame ignorance for our past mistakes, there were moments we knew what was right and wrong but we
made a choice while knowing the possible negative outcome and still we hope to get patted on the back after we have gone wrong.

Life is about perspective and this is my opinion.

Thank you.

Kelly said...

Good write up... Never read anytin better dan dis..Thumbs Up Amber.... STUPID CRITICS EVERYWHERE..Including dat Dumb Amara of a gurl dat wrote de oda rubbish write up... learn to show love to people cos we r human oda dan fillin ur self wt hate...yu dont know der stories...Amber just touched ma heart...we love yu more..Linda Ikeji tx for ds post..atleast ds has made my day.

wumi said...

Amber is just like every1 else with a past,nobody is trying to judge her ‎​and thumbs up for trying to give back to society,but wat message does this woman send to those little girls. Being a role model is all about teaching someone to emulate your way of life not how u think or say life should be!!those girls are definitely gonna want to find out more about her ‎​and where best to do that than the internet,a click of a few buttons n what do they see. Children dont wanna know if ur pix leaked or not or if kanye really loved you,only An adult will understand that. Point is she isn't fit to be a role model,not @ this point,maybe later but its okay to be charitable n give back!

Ilupeju Adebayo said...

Until society learns to appreciate genuine acts of goodwill by all categories of people, the world will always be plagued by all sorts of terrible events. Have you dug into the past of that great man or woman over there? you'll be shocked what you'll find. I think Amber has made a good gesture which unfortunately landed on the wrong grounds. I really feel for her.

Ilupeju Adebayo said...

Sorry about Amber's experience....but let me ask, how many of you readers can come out say boldly that you are clean of some of the things that went down with Amber?
We have come to accept hypocrisy as a way of life. How many can own up to our pasts? and we are all here speaking like we are saints, Amber is bold and I think that's cool.

disreali said...

Jeez!! Let her breath. What is so wrong in dating Stars?Lets not forget that she is also a model.For Petes sake who are we to even judge her.@Anonymous, you can yank your child from the school and other schools but then what will you be teaching her? Amber has a heart of Gold and that is enough for her to be a role model to young girls.Trust me, we have a lot of things in the continent to yank our kids from and it is not Amber!! Let us learn not to Judge,Mock,Criticize and teach our kids same too.He who is without sin cast the stone...I rest my case.

Anonymous said...

I go with d media..shez not a role model 2 any rite tinkin gurl and shouldn't b seen around decent gurls..she shouldn't try 2 put d blame on d media kicking hard on bitches like her.. D truth is shez a God forsaken whore.I go with d media..shez not a role model 2 any rite tinkin gurl and shouldn't b seen around decent gurls..she shouldn't try 2 put d blame on d media kicking hard on bitches like her.. D truth is shez a God forsaken whore.

Anonymous said...

"If nobody talk about you, then you r nobody" In this life, whether you do good or bad pple will talk about you. you just gotta keep your head up, do what you do best to pple and to yourself. Go Girl!

Anonymous said...

mmscheeeeeewwww! ABEGI! o! now she is running off to Africa to feed the poor abi! what a way to wash your image, and you guys are buying her crap. I sick of people like her who don't have anything to show for thinking they can always run down here and use us Africans for their look good image. She is definitely paying for something, that is why all of these things are happening to her. Lets hope she will pay up soon. And this islamic school in Ghana didn't they research her before allowing her to visit? i wudnt have had a problem with this if AR had been doing some advocacy or charity work in America or some other place in the world, this was a calculated attempt to clean her image after those pix came out.

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