Simi is furious at her friends for standing her up and have disinvited all of them from her wedding to Dr Sid. She sent out an email yesterday asking all the friends she invited to Vegas who didn't show up, not to bother attending her wedding.
"Yes, she invited a few close female pals but she wasn't paying for accommodation or flight and most of them didn't think it was worth it. It was a bachelorrette party, not a wedding and Vegas is an expensive place to visit if you didn't plan for it" a close source saidNow see a copy of the email she sent to her friends uninviting them from her wedding after the cut..
Subject: Bachelorette Party
Hey,
I''m emailing in regards to my bachelorette party in Vegas. I wanted to give you the benefit of the doubt that, out of courtesy and regard for me, you would have communicated to me or Titi in advance that you will not be able make the trip.
I communicated with you on different occasions beforehand and at no point did you tell me you couldn't make it or at least mention your reasons for not showing up. Titi spent a lot of time, effort and money planning the Vegas trip, with a lot on the itinerary already paid for, but you couldn't be considerate enough to respond to the final email confirming arrival dates and times saying you couldn't make it.
After careful thought of your actions towards me, I would like to let you know formally that you are not invited to Sidney and I's wedding. I would like to share it with the ones who truly care and support me - friends I can count on, who equally hold me in high regard.
Thanks & God bless.
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«Oldest ‹Older 201 – 400 of 409 Newer› Newest»Wow! Dat's so harsh but her friends should hv told her they won't be able to make it. And they just ignored her...
She think say money easy? Me dat is 24 years old a graduate beautiful I have less dan 20k in my acct,she should take several seats behind joor
dats her bixxxxx
I'l probably 'disfriend' them not just uninviting them if it were me...I have the same drastic temper. Courtesy demands they should have communicated their concern....I feel it's a gang up...pele dear.....#SeunLondon
Funny!
She dey mad
Shes so gonna hate u linda,no wonder we cudnt c oda pple there.guess she wanted to b unique.m so sure it wud ve been beta if she had even chosen dubai.
Friends are fake!
Nonsense!!! Why couldn't u hav ur bachelorette in Nigeria wea every1 can visit? What do they tend to gain by wasting fortune to attend d bachelorette and wasing anoda to attend ur wedding. Every1 is nt as bouyant as u r. Don't be selfish and understand that. Don't come to my wedding isn't don't Live. They ll live their lives wdout comin to ur wedding!! Dassit
I understand how hurt she is but she should also understand they might not be that buoyant for such. She should forgive
Well Hell yeah! these things cost money to organise and u cant just stand somebody up like that now. peeps should learn to RSVP abeg. if they couldnt make it they should just have said so instaead of forming aje butters that can afford it. at least she would have known from the numbers if she should call the whole vegas thing off or not.
when i picked the dress for my bridesmaids they said they couldnt afford it and i had to cut down the costs for them... thats how it should be
Well Hell yeah! these things cost money to organise and u cant just stand somebody up like that now. peeps should learn to RSVP abeg. if they couldnt make it they should just have said so instaead of forming aje butters that can afford it. at least she would have known from the numbers if she should call the whole vegas thing off or not.
when i picked the dress for my bridesmaids they said they couldnt afford it and i had to cut down the costs for them... thats how it should be
BullShit.... mtchwwwwwww. She does not have regard for her friends too. Thanks for disinviting them.
Eya, so pained. Its well dear.
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Simi be careful of these so called friends cos they are jealous of you. The reason they did not inform you they wont be attending
one of her so called friends informed linda and sent the mail im very sure ABOUT THAT.but it doesnt mean she should disinvite them is vegas cheap?
IS IT EASY TO FLY TO VEGAS BUT THEY WOULD INFORMED HER ATLEAST BUT THAT'S NOT ENOUGH TO STOP THEM FOM ATTENDING HER WEDDING
Lol dis is realy funny bt den again dey wuld hv told her dey aint comin..
Mschew
Why have a party in Vegas when you can do the same in Lagos for the sake of your friends ?
Not having a true picture of this issue, I would say you ought to have been mindful of the potential impact this could have on them re: ticket, accommodation,immediate family etc.
I thing it's grossly unfair to have them bear the cost, really. On the other hand they ought to have informed you of their intent not to attend. Typical Nija behaviour !!! Rather than be assertive, they will not say anything :-)
U wicked o
Lmao. . . . Yep the way forward
Maybe her friends were ashamed to tell they cudnt make it to vegas..esp the alakadas wey don 'dornu' say dem go com..buh she for no send the mail..she for just bone..shit happens..deal with it (in Dekunle's voice)!
ive never heard of a "dis-invitation". who does that?
#beef, #beefer, #olote, #wisheduwereher
English language is not one of lindas area of strength.
Funmi s dat u?dnt mind d foolish girl.egbe oshii
It's pretty funny to do wht she did but at d same time it cud be painful wht her friends did to her, sorry dear let it go n enjoy ur wedding ceremony.
They could have told her in advance! Olodo
Fool,who told u dey r jealous?
It's only natural that she should be annoyed. Planning a wedding is a stressful and sensitive time, they should have not made her waste her time and money like that....I understand cos i was totally a bridezilla hehe.
That being said, i wouldn't have disinvited them. If they like they can come, if not, watevs. However, i'll be as cool as a cucumber towards them. They'll feel the chills :D
Pride goes before a fall simi.
Sidney and I's wedding. Babe, its simply "our wedding"…..forming age butter and speaking bad English. Shior. Maybe that's why your friends jabor you.
Ehn Linda nwa mama, if you like use this comment to eat ugba like you did with my comment on broda Doyin's whining that sisi Oby did not greet him...
All u people shouting not fair all over.... Una think say Las Vegas na for Oshodi, abi accomodation na 6k per night. And moreover u guys don't knw her attitudes towards her friends. Una don ask una selves whether d babe dey attend her friends own, and una suppose wait till una hear frm her friends first. Don't be too quick in judging them. So please all unscrupulous elements should just shush... Ogwu ka o ham n'onu....
XDON D DON
naija babes too dey over do.we get posh clubs for naija where she for celebrate her bs quietly and be happy.instead she carry am go las vegas and nor be sey she ready pay for partof their expenses.serves her right,next time she go calculate well.nonsense
AND WHO ARE THE BASTARD FRIENDS THAT SENT THIS EMAIL ? AND ARE COMMENTING ALL OVER THE PLACE ? SO BITTER AND PAINED THEY DIS-INVITED YOU..YOU HAD TO SEND EMAIL FOR THE PUBLIC EYE TO SEE? RUBBISH ! This is what they say about having female friends, the day i decide to have female friends, they must be chasing me from my village.
Some people ain't worth calling friends,if u can't make it u let her know.some might not even be happy for her, some fake friends are like that, do your wedding and shun them they ain't worth it, if they come or not u r surely getting married. And know you real friends because some turn out to be deadly ones you leave the singles club, HML
She should have choosing oriental hotel at vi instead
Seriously Linda it's uncalled for. By the way she is right... Communicate. Nigerians do it a lot of times.
The people who disagree with Simi should kindly READ the email properly, we Nigerians are used to such terrible behavior, if you know you cannot make a trip (or in many cases-appointments) then it is ONLY polite to inform beforehand, I mean see the email, money was wasted! Those people are not her friends and she has every right to dis-invite them!!!
Linda by the way sometimes you use 'sensational headlines' which is not good, I believe headlines should not be made to make someone look bad because sometimes that is the only thing people read and that's how a person's name becomes soiled.
Congrats Simi, you have made the perfect decision. The smaller and more intimate, the better. I am telling you, you would see the difference on your wedding day. More so, no free jollof rice and drink for bitches who do not care about you. Now hopefully you remove those industry dogs from your wedding too and you will feel nothing but love.
Teacher teach me nonsense. . Over sabi.. check ur dictionary b4 u correct sombody.. disinvite and univite ar correct
That's the essence of RSVP, the friends could have reached out before the party but they chose not. I dont blame her cos these are the same friends that will probably wear the most expensive of everything on the wedding day (just my own opinion).
U guys are missing the point , the reason she planned and invited this sets of friends to Vegas is because they could afford it . Common now u know ur friends , I invite friends to places all the time , u know ur friends that can afford it. The issue here is Courtesy ... Ok so something changed , then have the decency to at least tell me u can't come . Not me getting there n looking a fool cos nobody showed up . That's Callous in my opinion.
But me sha I won't have uninvited them , I'll just make sure that wedding will b the best wedding they ve ever been toooooo . Now hate on that !
Linda you need to scrutinize what you post sometimes.You should know better that these her friends are just being salty and mad petty. You need not to pay attention to such childish females. This is a private affair and she is not even the celeb as well. Sometimes, I feel like you should know better. I am sure they are somewhere getting excited that they "exposed" the girl.
Yes i can understand that Vegas is expensive and all, but i think her point is, they didn't inform her that they won't make it and she had them in her planning. Not cool at all! Simi abeg forgive, no vex plenty.
Linda I am so impressed with this news..you are stepping up your game! Even though people are going to hate you for this, still it's your damn job to report. Well done!
Has it ever crossed your minds that the friends she invited actually reside in America and not nigeria? Everybody has an opinion on social media. She definitely has very bad friends who prefer to gossip about her than support her. Painful part is that she might have even gone out of her way to do things for them and only expected them to reciprocate. I don't know her, but i definitely feel her pain
the funny thing about LIB readers is either Linda's English is too difficult to understand or they don't bother reading before commenting. fro simi's mail there re not being forced to come. they where sent mails like 3 times to confirm weda there where coming or not... come on guys simple 'am sorry I didn't budget for such exoense' will do
is it dat there is no beautiful place in lagos, abuja or calabar to host a common bachelorette party?....wahala indeed de naija,,hw d country wan move forward when pple alwaz want to raise themslves to a level they are not up to. simi or wetin be ur name,,,u tink say money de grow for tree?..if money de grow, y u no show ur friends d tree make dem go pluck am take pay ticket go vegas..for ur mind now ur hubby na celeb.....come down frm ur high horse babe n think rationally..however d friends for tell her say dem no go go d party.
Yes zeeee best in the words of Toke Makinwa. Small is even good..you no see Toke Makinwa style ? No time mehn.
lini the kind of hate and insults ur readers comment is heart wracking... so such hate is in Nigeria... her wedding , her B. party even my office clearner hv asked her friend not to show up in her wedding for hurting her.
She's childish..... Rubbish.
LIB READERS ALWAYS IN A HURRY TO JUDGE AND INSULT...
Entitled spoilt brat....isn't this the same girl who spends £30,000.00 a year shopping in London? http://www.standard.co.uk/lifestyle/30000-a-year-addiction-to-london-how-nigerians-are-becoming-big-spenders-8189336.html
So you want your friends to fly and lodge themselves in Vegas cos you are who again? If you left NAija and had to go to Vegas to discover your friends won't be coming, maybe they aren't your real friends in the first place? I know your type...the ones who recruit friends when they're planning a wedding as soon as they marry finish, they fashi the friends. Oshi o daaaaa
Feel for her tho.Should use her brain next time
You don't know how close she is with pple she invited, you don't know if she takes them like family. you see a write up you re so immediate to judge.as for the friend that sent it it lind. there re no good friend if they can send a copy of the mail to linda to make it public. I support her
She it's made the right decision to un-invite them for her wedding. They were well informed about the destination of the party and courtesy demands they let her or her party planner know they were unable to attend. I am sure she must or would have gone the distance for them if it were to be one of them, to expect such.
To show what a true frenemy they are am sure one or two of them sent you this personal mail. Simi has every right to share her day with only the one who truly loves and care about her. She is a. Classy girl who does to want a bunch of people who don't like her at her party.
My foo called friends also did the same to me around my wedding, the were the first I told and they all were ho' and ah' only to inform one another they will not be attending and in the process they all influenced each other's decision. Thank God I have put them all in arms length and am much happier with my life.
Simi thank God he revealed to you in good time you have no friends. Your sister is your best friend and hubby. Don't let this silly gang up affect you, pray hard and may the Lord bless your union.
You should hate yourself for this! And all you idiots saying she is a child and wot not, couldn't her friends have told her they can't make it? Or choose another place? They deserved it! I would av done the same
What is wrong with the Simi girl, she sef don dey behave like the other girls, afterall who know am before? if not for Dr SID!!!SHE NOR GET NAME BEFORE NAH! ABEG BOUNCE!!!
Common courtesy reply the mail or call to say you ain't coming simple and give reasons .... I understand her anger ! Believe me it's not childish , if any of you were in her shoes u might do worse . Besides am sure one of her friends who didn't make it must have suggested the venue.
LMAO..I support her, i feel they should have told her they can't make it! Haba! Those ones are BAD belle friends. Mtcheeey. THEY ARE FRENIMIES!
Can DR SID handle this proud tin as a wife so commanding ur friends did wrong but does she know while dey dnt come just as if they will share life and car for guest coming 2their wedding bbabe na only picture we go dey 4magazine
I understand her perfectly. Some friends really sucks. Whats wrong with communication. Not wanting to hurt her,'by not telling her of their not coming,is way worse and shameful than not showing up at all and didnt bother to communicate. To be a rich man daughter's friend no easy now. They for all know the kinda of friend them get b4 now. Sorry sister,If I were you,wont have even bother warning them. Make them come the wedding now and see if they will be allowed to enter.
#PAYBACKTIME.
Linda I hv bn in a bridal party before if u had u wld know this is totally normal. Girls/boys dnt pay on time even til d last min pple are still begging for payments. Not all fingers are equal what is chicken change to one may be a big deal to anoda. So if it's too much of a strain on ur finances communicate to ur friend in private that u are happy for him or her but things are tight for u now. Pple just look at the car, designer bag n shoes n think u dnt hv money problems to at the time I purchased them I had d funds too n if u know any thing about money u know that today u might hv in excess tomorrow might be a struggle so everyone adjust to their current situations as they play out.
Welldone Simi, They are clearky nit your friends cos they also leaked the email to Linda. Good you know now.
Its "decision" Oga leye. Thank me now
they were very impolite and should have declined. seems spiteful not to do so when you know arrangements are being made on your behalf. that's probably why she feels hurt
And so? Wetn she con dey feel like now. Make she cool down her temper abeg.
The problem with our Generation is that we don't read at all.. In that email she says flight, accommodation(inclusive of food and shelter) was already organized, so I think Simi is more than right to dis-invite and if should take my advice she should pls dis-friend them, this kind of friends can kill, all they needed to do is say they can make it, moreover it stupid and impossible to invite someone to a city such as Vegas and not carter for ur needs... Even the small house parties way I dey throw for FUTO here, I dey make sure say everyone invited is comfortable... So she is more than right.
I feel her pain really and i support her disinviting them. For her to have chosen Vegas as the venue she knows the kind of friends she has nd she know their capability. It would be a show of respect to her if they had officially cancelled but they didnt. Afterall, hen parties are usually celebrated with the closest and the best of friends, if she considered them as such and invited them, the least they could have done is to officially cancel like reasonable pple instead of just bailing on her.
The issue is not that they didn't show up oooo. My friend organized BE in Miami last year. We advise him that most of us couldn't afford it at the moment. He now moved it to Accra and we advised him again that e no go work. We eventually did it at some lovely hotel in ikoyi, everyone turned up and we all had a blast of a party which we still talk about when we meet up. It's all about COMMUNICATION. IF these friends couldn't comm with her then they aren't her real friends.
Hehehe. Cracking !!
If your call this mature, then I fear your sense of judgement. What her friends did is irresponsible. Her response is quite childish and unwarranted. Anyhow, please return their money if they've paid for Aso-Ebi :D
mstcheeeewwwww !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! oshi and iranu.
this girl is jus anoda clown in d making. but linda o, pls help me ask her if she was going to pay for their tickets, accommodation fees etc? oh! like u mentioned dat she didnt provide dos so y on earth is she ranting naahhhhh. na wah for all dis celeb wannabe's dem. dubai no contain her to do hen party again abi so only she come waka go vegas.
How! She is right..... Life is too short to waste on fake bitches. They should have let her know in advance. Some people r so rude. After recording her heart felt email they sent it to the blogs. She doesn't need those kind of friends in her life. I am glad they showed their true colors.
Honestly, that was all she was asking for
Waste all his money by paying for all your friends. Well may be your frinds are wiser.
Pls shut d f**k up already!!!... d Moses in d Bible wz really wise n he made sure he used it too!!!.. u r jst a dissapiont... do u evn think?.. ur always spitting put rubbish!!!! There is nothing childish abt her actions!!!, d childish party should b d so called friends who stood her up who couldn't @least tell her b4 time dat dey couldn't make it so dat she wouldn't waste her time n money planning for them!!!! Insensitive mooron!!
Gbam!. The only way to move on is forgiveness....
Abi o jare. U don said it all.
I really feel ur pain jare... #somefriendssha#
If they had let her know they could not make it, she would have at least considered. Just may be, she would have changed the venue.... I personally have little or no regards for fake friends, it is very clear they all planned to stand her up at her bachelorette party which is very unfair.
HML in advance Simi, I wish you well...
«LIB addict»
Always n always expect much 4rm ur friends especially if u'd do same 4 them. U dunno what she might hve been thru with this pipo in the past. Strangers cn disapoint, friends shuldnt nd if they do they shuld hv good reasn. They shuld hv communicated to her their inability 2 attend...It wasn't fair. N what kind of friends rat u out 2 the media nyway 2 the extent of shwing Linda ur mail instead of calling u up n mayb apologisn or evn teasn u 4 getting mad. They are not her Friends. That said I think she did the right thing very politely n she insulted no 1. Ditch fake friends 2day. It is only in Naija ur friends xpect u 2 pay 4 erritn b4 they attend stuff 4 u, if u cn pay pay bt even if u dnt n ur friends can affrd it. Y can't they jst cme or tell u they can't. Ride with who rides 4 u. ----C21
Please help me tell Linda o
It's embarrassing enough that her friends didn't show up, but it's even worse that Linda had to bring it on here.... I have never met Simi in person, but I also know that Linda would never put up this post if it involved Tiwa.
Linda, if you like no post am o
«LIB addict»
Dirty linen in public??? Didn't you read the article well? Simi sent them emails to their personal email accounts! It is one of the recipients that decided to make the message public.
She did several times, can't u read
Y did she such an expensive city?is not even the main wedding,I don't blame her friends ni...they used their common sense,no accommodation no flight..
U must b a really kool persn. I envy ur friends :) ----C21
Bona, nwa Nnag's your comment is very funny and i was actually thinking you will continue and not stop where you did stop. lol!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Hmmmmmm Women and their wahala. You have the right to express your pain and disappointment after like you said "careful planning" but dis-inviting your "friends" sounds childish. Anyway you are entitled to your opinion and have the right to see who you want to see since it is your special and unique day. Wishing you a wonderful marriage life. (As regards your friends, you win some, you lose some. Life goes on) {BABS}
Oh yes!
I agree with you.
Whoever sent that to Linda was never Simi's friend...
#HighlyAllergicToFakeFriends
«LIB addict»
if u really care about your friends, u wont put their finances on such a strain, I mean its just a hen party! get ur head out of ur ass n be reasonable
Abeg shut up n u must b 1 stupid guy smwer. Chauvinistic oshi...mscheeew. 0bservation ko observation ni 0nwere nke ima. U observe nonsense that dnt rlate 2 this post then u add prayer. #Hater!
n I strongly believe simi doesn't work for her money! dependent bitch
She can make new friends plus the 1ns that we're ther 4 her----C21
Hahaha,, funny Bona but use ur sense. Her problm no b say they no cme. Her problm is they didn't tell her. Bettr alne than wit hypocrites
Well she didn't ask aunty Linda gbeboski to post it on her blog.
Exactly. Reading her mail, I really feel for her.
You are a fool!!!
What girl in her right senses will follow a guy in Jupiter to Mama???
Mtcheeeww!
«LIB addict»
U shut up.Sh cn do her wedin where she chooses. U dnt only show up 4 a friends stuff when its cm4tabl that is what being selfless is. Nd they shuld hv tld her. ----C21
All her friends can't be wrong @ the sometime! Shekina! She shud look inwards.... Will investing more than 500k for a bachelorette guarantee them husbands? abi did she hope to share the strippers to each as supplementary? Anyway after everything the Chibok girls are still missing
Idiot edreams. 0tu a idi n with ur mentality. I can't even show u 2 my papa as well as many girls. He trained me right!!!
U shut up.Sh cn do her wedin where she chooses. U dnt only show up 4 a friends stuff when its cm4tabl that is what being selfless is. Nd they shuld hv tld her. ----C21
Hahaha,, funny Bona but use ur sense. Her problm no b say they no cme. Her problm is they didn't tell her. Bettr alne than wit hypocrites
Decision thank me later
Exactly what I was thinking, not a good friend n Linda published too, bad of Linda
Thnk u o,wat nonsense...go las Vegas fr wat jare??pls whr we go go for d wedn?if u dsintve dem anoda person go intve dem for wedn..na ur wedn album no go fine..shikena!!!
SIMI, U'RE RIGHT. I'M NOT YOUR FRIEND BUT I WANT TO ATTEND YOUR WEDDING BUT DON'T HAVE $ONI FOR FIGHT AND ACCOMMODATION EXPENSES. IF U CAN PROVIDE THAT FOR ME, I WILL BE THE FIRST TO SHOW. #PICCANTO#
Fair enough Wetin? She no flex muscle dey chop money way she no make, abii? Wch one be to they hold party for Las Vegas dey invite person make e come? Some people work hard for their money and won't wnt to throw it away for frivolities abeg. I wish none of her friends would attend the wedding instead
But ds simi grl is childish sha!!!mschewwwww
You know you are a lowlife when you have to start leaking private emails because they told you not to come to their wedding. To the so called friend who leaked this..K.A.R.M.A is a bitch...just watch.
Really..? So its childish hun! Friends are ment to be there for u wen u need dem most. If dey couldnt make it, its a simple tin,just notify her. Wat if she already paid for accommodation $ return tickets for her supposed friends bt wanted to make it a surprise. If she had said free flight, free accommodation am sure dey would hav bn there smiling $ snaping sheepishly. Sometimes u hav to really test who ur friends are....
Na wa o. U pray for someone to hav a short marriage? U r from d pit of hell
Abeg make I hear word jor!
Let ask simi.Can she spend that much to party in Vegas just for bachelorette party? Haba be reasonable nah
People saying she's childish, her friends are the childish ones don't you think? Her e-mail suggests that they all purported to be attending but none of them showed up.
Had they all informed her that they could not make it for financial reasons or otherwise, she might have re-planned her party to accommodate her friends. In the end she went to Vegas with her sister and still had a great time it seems, so she could have done that anyway.
I think the e-mail was very mature. Perhaps uninviting them is a lot, but it's her wedding and she is understandably hurt by their actions. IF she chooses to un-invite them, it's her prerogative.
It's funny how Linda ikeji spells out that it's her job on a touchy matter like this...knowing fully well that the babe wuda rather it were a private issue..now the point is, how comes we don't read the 'negatives' or touchy news about Tiwa savage on here?? Or maybe that's not part of ur job yea? Since we knw u kiss her ass on ur blog...if it's fair to bring simi's matter out like this and even publish the mail, then u shud b transparent Enof to post on Tiwa too...there's been so much noise about her recently buh no we wnt read it here only when som1 came out to defend, dat was wen it became news worthy...if u like post my comment, e dey 4 ur body..@least u read it..(spits). back to the matter, it only shows how fake all these so called celebs live their lives..theyl b making noise like theyr richer than dangote buh go nd turn up 4 ur buddy now, big wahala Bcos una no get money...lool. it Wud have been a complete mail if she had spelt out their names in full so we know the fakers...(spits again, hiss and walks out)..fake ppl evrywer, and it hurts dt Linda has joined.
Dear wife to be....how did u get to marriage lane? U r soooo immature for dat life. I wish I know u in person cos ur adulthood needs a repair....it's so obvious u didn't ve a prepared childhood.....don't go n mess up marriage institution.
It's wrong period,it's not abt the amount,if u can't afford it it's fine,just have the courtesy to let her know,u r supposed to be friends for crying out loud.that is plain wickedness .
so vegas is now oja oyingbo ba?vain mumu girl!and to think she is 27.no sense!
When money no dey nko? They should go and rob a bank all the name of 'wanting to be there in joy and sorrow' bah? You have said something.
Lee
i AGREE WITH HER. If you cannot make an event at least call or text stating why. Maybe she didn't pay for their flight or hotel, but am sure the restaurant and other activities she must have paid for those services per head.
I have a friend that did her Hen party in Vegas but i couldn't go and i told her reasons why and she understood.....
i would do the same oh...forget that some people are not friends they are just associates by what they can obtain....Oh no worries now u know who cares for u...
Celeb ke? Who borrow am? She should shift abeg. Irrational being
Linda biko post my comment cos you never do.
Firstly,i truly appreciate what simi did.As for you all saying the trip wasnt cheap,am sure if her frds werent capable she wldnt have invited them in d 1st place;so tell me what happens to a simple acknowledgemnt if someone i invited to my bachelorate cldnt cum wt no excuse;it simply means am the one claiming them. If they cant cum fr this and i decided to celebrate my wedding in my village the will still not cum.yes we need frds in our lives bt biko lets d true ones a lot stay.
Simi sed in her letter that Itineraries were paid for. did she also pay for her friends flight and hotel itineraries? we do not actually know the caliber of friends she keeps. Simi is a lawyer i guess, when did she grad? Where does she work? aw much does she earn? she cud av rich parents. Is ma hommie SID, dolling out funds and Simi's expecting her friends to do same? All this would determine my perception to this matter. but to be candid, her letter explains her understanding of the expenses involved. all she wanted was to be told b4 hand that they weren't coming. Even if she had d parry in Lagos and she was stood up, i guess she would have felt bad still.
Tbh Linda, in as much as this is a gossip blog, I really think it's inappropriate for you to have posted this. With that being said, she has every reason to uninvite them if she pleases, it's her wedding not yours, we Nigerians have some very bad habit, it won't have taken anything for them to have said they won't be able to make it so that it would have cost her less to plan the itineraries which she has said has been pratically paid for. Would have done the same. If you are my friend you should be able to lemme know what your plans are not ignore me. Kudos simi
DUMB DUMB DUMB...WHO DOES THIS? REALITY CHECK FOR SIMI AND EVERYONE LIKE HER WITH A FALSE SENSE OF ENTITLEMENT AND UNCHECKED EGO. EVEN AMERICANS SAVE MONEY JUST TO GO TO VEGAS ONCE IN A LIFETIME. CRY ME A RIVER, DOCTOR SID YOU DON BUY MARKET. GOOD LUCK.
Lol, bonario has killed me with laugh.. Very true as a matter of fact. I get the fact that she's pissed, any normal human being would be, and yes her friends SHOULD HABE told her before hand that they wouldn't have been able to make it, but then again, two wrongs don't make a right. What if these friends are the only ones that are actually real and got her back, would she say because they didn't attend her bachelorette party, she no lingers wanna be their friend? Life ain guaranteed, so many things go wrong each and everyday.. It's not enough to lose sleep over, in this case, 'real friends' over. And that email? Jeez, as childish as childish can be. All in all, I wish her the very best. She handled it the way she would handle it.. Best wishes, girl.
Lee
Unless the wedding is holding in space, everyone should move on with their individual lives jare. Arrant nonsense. People are struggling o everyone can't afford an unsubsidized trip to Vegas. Both parties should share the blame. They messed her up but she didn't have to resort to this action. True friendship has got to be worth more than this. Btw Dr Sid better show up and on time for anything wifey schedules in the future o...cause the way she's rolling, any head can roll o...no one is exempt! Stupid sense of entitlement
Lol, that last part had me rolling
U right... I'm sure she invited dem to Vegas cos dey av alwys posed dey r rich bt she neva knew most of dem na packaging dem dey do.. dey shld av communicated to her dey wnt come n try to convince her to change d location rather than stand her up. It is obvious sm of dos she calls friends her envious as if nt attendin wasn't enuf, d envious soul had to leak d mail to Linda to spite her..and as 4u Linda u ain't transparent, treat all equally n stop using ur blog to promote pals n demote others..u can as well let d news slide.
LMAO!!! Gbam!!!
Lmao, I love you abeg...
Girl bye!
I love toke, not only is she a beauty to behold, and given I might not know what goes on behind close doors of her marriage, but she's a woman. She's married now, and not all up in our faces, no one hears about her life, she's not exposing all her body, and neither is her husband tryna gain fame through her. She's very content.. Did she even have a hens party? She got married without even knowing it, small yet intimate, and she's hella happy.. That's one persons marriage I know would last, atleast I pray it does. I'm rooting all the way for her, and her family, and I wish them the very best. Love you toke.. Now simi, take a cue from toke...
Lee
Looool, simi's friend has spoken, and I agree.. In addition, what is left in general for the wedding itself.. You don't expect us to break our bank accts just because 'almighty simi' is getting married.. Girl bye!
Such is what you get when you dont cut your coat according to your size. Holding a bachelorette party all the way in Las Vegas.. haba! If u wanna pull such stunt den make sure u or ur hubby will at least foot the bill for half the guests you intend to invite. I'm sure most of dem live here in naija. You were left hanging because u tried to break a record. Why not just hold the parry in Dubai? At least its still a classy location and not neck breaking expensive.
Also I blame the cows she invited. I'm sure most of them were bluffing before the parry... now to perform dem hide. A simple explanation whether true or lie as to why you wouldnt be able or couldnt appear would have been fair.
Wat wont i hear biko? bt Linda dis z between Simi nd her frnds y bring it 2up for public debate? nd how did u get dis letter? i knw u r trying to keep us all entertained bt if she didnt give u d approval of d public display of dat letter den shldn't hav.
Lmao, thanks girl! That's the exact reason we didn't show up anyways, always carrying yourself above others..
Yes, it is very fair. People should learn to be upfront with others. How could they not tell her they would not attend the bachelorette party despite repeated reminder? And she had to incure expenses believing that they would be there. That was very mean of them.
This is one of the reasons why portrayals of fake luxurious life in the public being carried out by our so called celebrities is wrong. She, probably, may have thought that the invitees would be able to afford the trip and that it would be a walk in the park for them, taking into consideration how they show off in the public, knowing that most are faking their lives. That so many are as poor as church rats.
This should serve as a life's lesson, that all that glitters might not be gold.
Chyke
Unknown City
U asked if she told her friend and u are yet to get d reply,yet to went ahead to insult her; how unreasonable n wicked u can be. Barrister Simi has taken d best decision for herslf, if things ain't adding up in ur life den u start subtracting so she has subtracted all unfriendly friends.
So I'm guessing these are the people that are uninvited LMAOOO!
But they should have rsvpd at least! if you can't make it, just say you can't. People are so rude. I totally get Simi's point of view
So I'm guessing these are the people that are uninvited LMAOOO!
But they should have rsvpd at least! if you can't make it, just say you can't. People are so rude. I totally get Simi's point of view
So I'm guessing these are the people that are uninvited LMAOOO!
But they should have rsvpd at least! if you can't make it, just say you can't. People are so rude. I totally get Simi's point of view
YES i can understand both sides ...IT Could be fake friends that first agreed with this grandiose plan knowing full well that they couldn't afford the trip..they simply should have kept it real with her...too many I MUST BELONG in Lagos ...BUT Simi it could also be that over time u have unconsciously imposed your lifestyle on them not taking time to consider if they could afford it or not but it still boils down to the fact that they couldn't keep it real with you and instead chose to stay away to void "embarrassment of not shown up"..This lagos na wa
'Even if the trip was expensive, atleast for the benefit of friendship, they should have gone' first off, please go back to school..
Now to address your useless point so because they are friends now, they should break their backs and bank accts because of a hens? Nigga please! Jealousy? Girl please.. Idk why I'm replying to a foolish post sef
Whatever English professor.
This simi should take several seats back jor mchewwwww. Ur husband 1st buy mansion on credit instead make una dey gather pay the money u carry bachelorette party go Vegas. U must be a mad sombodi. Na Sidney I pity.
Dr SID better keep the money coming oh because i sense a serious problem from this wife when money finish. Remember, you bobo never pay mortgage finish oh
The issue isn't that they didn't come, it's that they did not have the decency to let her know that they would be absent.
what the hell are you all saying...im sure something like this hasn't happened to any of you so you have mouth to talk.do u know the meaning of friendship?? between she choose the ones closest to her to invite.friendship is about communication and sincerity.they would have explained to her that they cant make it or even talk to her on doing it here in Nigeria but im sure some of the so called friends supported the las Vegas thing and then dint show up.please people before you judge put yourself in the persons shoes and know how it can also hurt.
Mtcheeewww...... She shld parkwell abeg, such insolence. Rubbish!
Lmao!!! I like her jare. Correct babe #missanonymous
Lmao. See pressing p #missanonymous
Dummy please shut it!
What a spoilt petulant child! Rubbish and nonsense, why didn't you carry your friends along in your plans? Please people have bills to pay!!
Pride goes before a fall simi.
Linda for bringing this story to us with out being partial or biased i pray for u today u go get moni reach madam alakija infact ur missing rib go locate u b patient the God of twins umu ejima go locate u as moni take dey answer me na so e go answer u
oya back to the gist
this simi girl go wreck Dr sid i swear infact she be really doro bucchi linda mark my words d day sid marry this girl he wont spend up to 6 months in mavin he will quit she will tell him to go and form his own this woman get long throat
her friends did d right thing u invite us go sin city u no pay accommodation u no pay flight abi no be just to take foolish selfies eat cake and drink wine she invite them for almost 4ook for the trip na im one person go spend bcos say im wan party with simi foolish rubbish way e b say 20 k don buy me suprax tonic and alumo bitters grove don start
any friend of hers dat didnt go are really true friends sincere individuals she jsut want pose like tiwa savage pure and simple she forget say tiwa works for her money tiwa na various brand ambassador dr sid said it he complained that this simi girl spends so much moni shoping thunder fire am
It's understandable that she's angry but her form of 'payback' is stupid and very juvenile. There are ways to deal with friends like this but 'dis inviting' them frm her wedding was the wrong way to go about it. Btw who knws these her friends might have had their plans of ways by which they could make it up to her at the wedding since they missed out on her bachelorette party ... And For heavens sake it's just a bachelorette party! Regardless ...Her friends are wrong for not RSVPing properly but her reaction is also wrong. I also wonder if she carried her friends along as she was making these arrangements... A lot of them might not have been able to afford the trip or even have valid visas to travel! I wonder why she had to go all the way to Vegas to do simple bachelorette party... This is what happens when u don't plan things reasonably!!!
Am sure she informed her friends. And I believe they bragged about money too. They probably didn't know what to say after bragging they'll attend. And I think she did the right thing
It depends on when the friends found out that there was no free ticket nor accomodation. Some may even expect that they are the only one who cannot afford it, why announce your empty wallet. Does she really expects her friends to cough out half a million for a night gig. Meanwhile, the wedding is still looming. Chai!!
One of the most sensible thing said so.
Linda, you are a very funny girl, what is your business with this?. If is your good friend Tiwa, you will not remember is your job. Now is your job... Pls let us hear word...Next pls
BASTard woman. It's your job to tarnish people's image ? Rubbish
Can't you guys read, she isn't pressed that they couldn't make it, she's mad that they didnt let her know before hand. As a friend I think they owe it to her to at least tell her they weren't going to be there because she put in a lot of effort with the travel plans. If i were Simi I would be pissed to and would've cursed them out in my email #sorrynotsorry
U don't know girls....u'lll be shocked that its that same girls who suggested vegas during d planning
NIGERIANS AND BAD BELLE! MAY GOD HELP ALL OF YOU. IF THE BABE WAN DO WEDDING FOR MOOON THATS HER CHOICE. SOME ODES ARE SAYING SHE SHOULD HAVE CONSULTED WITH THEM BEFOREHAND. DID YOU IDIOTS NOT READ IN THE MAIL THAT SHE COMMUNICATED WITH THEM SEVERAL TIMES AND PAYED FOR ACTIVITIES? READ AND UNDERSTAND BEFORE YOU MAKE COMMENTS. THE FRIENDS WERE WRONG PERIOD!!
In as much as she is hurt, her friends should have told her from the onset, how they felt about hens party in Vegas. They no dey shame chop witch. If they could not afford it, during planning they should have told her.
Next Time mama be considerate
Pls take a seat!is ur wedding supposed to be a do or die.its not compulsory and u seem fake and inconsiderate.
Dear Simi, if you want people to attend your bachelorette party, either:
A) have the party where people can afford / are able to come to or
B) pay for their trip to Vegas.
Dear Simi's friends, courtesy demands that you apologize for not making it to Vegas and probably throw her a suprise party or something.
COB.
Simi the way you are acting someone will think your parents are on Forbes in Nigeria! So delusional. Nobody knows your "rich" parents and nobody sees the mag you editor in chief or whatever. You need to chill
So full of airs. If u were humble and approachable your friends won't be ashamed to admit they can't mk it to Vegas. In lawschool you were such a pompous bitch! You were in hostel and walking to class like everyonelse. I'm sure it's with your "I'm elite" attitude Dr Sid went to get mortgage for a house that is clearly out of his price range albeit to live up to your standards! 1mill a month for 20-sumthing years? Simi u need a reality check!
In fact she is sick,if she likes she sold tell dem not to be her frnd again it's d attitude u show to pple dey return to u,cos for all of dem not to turn up her attitude must be bad.
All fingers are not equal, u for pay for there trip
People need to have manners and some etiquette. The least they could have done was responded that they would not be able to make it. I don't blame her, why spend money for food and drink for a wedding and nobody show up just the same.
If you are invited to an event and you cannot make it, least you do is tell the host. Too rude!
My thoughts while I was reading. She should pls take several seats. Her friends probably didn't know how to tell her or hurt her feelings. Where's the money these days? For a hen's night? That her wig don dey tight her head
...I understand some friends can just stand u up for no gud reason. #binThere.. but in this case, if she really wanted her "friends" to b at d Vegas party, she cld hav consulted them before planning, esp since she wasn't funding for the trip and other related...
On the other hand, if the "Friends" knew they wldnt make it, they stil should have told her, no matter how bad d news wil sound.. If u ask me, I wld say she went too far wiv d disinvite..buh its a free world and her occasion. So.....
Mark my word Linda...this is a Bad Sign for Dr Sid. Person wey never marry wey dey disinvite people; if Bobo say he him no go marry again nko?
Nonsense...does she even know if her friends can afford the trip? abi are they "aristos" who always have money to travel?
She's not as big as she claims becos rich babes like her pay for her friends. lolzzz...even rich linda no go
They washed and rinsed her! God save us from frienemies....
1st of all Linda don't b biased. Secondly, iv cm to the conclusion that all simis are one hell of bunch. Tink ppl wt dt name r cursed
She is no celeb biko
And she just graduated from nigerian law school o
Bitch.
just like most gals getting married.
Inconsiderate, selfish and over demanding.
Dear DSTV, I WILL cancel my subscription and mobilize a big campaign if HipTv shows this girls wedding. like we havent been assaulted enough by Tiwa's boring and classless soiree.
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Lolsss... E rch her... You think its everybody that has moni to travel to las vegas ... Plus the fact that they would still pay for their accommodation...ha!!! No bodys fault jare
mschew it is obvious she no get work oniranu somebody
It doesn't matter. Even if she wants to do it in heaven. Her friends could have just let her know they couldn't make it due to their various reasons(lack of funds I'm pretty sure) they're her friends, they owe her that much.
The fashion Whisperer...
I think did the right thing. They should have outrightly told her they couldn't make it. Women and their drama. There's no way a truck load of envy is not involved in this matter.
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I understud her reaction. Aside flight fare and accomodation fare,there are som other thinx Simi must hv taken care of...They owe her that respect to tell her they wont come,These are friends we are talkin abt for cryin out loud,not just guests.So they would have call or tell her in of their discusions dt flight fare aint at thier disposal
I was shocked when I got her email.
To hell with u too. Only when pple like u tend to start respecting other people's feelings will ur life be better.
They should v communicated @least. Didn't they know all d yl?
Or mega bus. Lol
Even being American I will not travel to another country just for bachelorette party on ma own expense then come back to nigeria for d actual wedding .
Seems some of ur friends couldn't afford and couldn't tell yah or had more reasonable situation n couldn't make it.
You should have considered what more convenient for ur friends or affordable.
O well life goes......on..
Even though I feel Vegas is just too expensive for such an insignificant day, they should have been bold enough to say they can't make it, or even "haba babe, let's do this thing here as most of us can't afford it". Standing her up means you have absolutely no regards for her, neither is she your friend. Anyway.... My friends know me na, even asoebi I won't do for you, don't worry I ain't gonna ask you for a minute to do for me. Tiny wedding tins
Haaaaa ah! I belong. You want to put your friends in expenses beyond their pocket. Wao! I love your friends 4 taking such bold decision (They can't afford such expenses. Cut your coat according to your cloth).
Who are you doing competition with? Hope your wedding venue is in cosmic (space) so that your friends can get a rocket!.
Your friends are not fake! They are real and true friends. You are the fake friend who do not consider their pocket.(because one of your friend has a million, does it mean that she should spend it on your own lifestyle?)
Be real to yourself. stop competing. A marriage that lasts is better than venue of the marriage and bachelorette.
And wanting to change d trend, she got served...
Its a good one.marriages make you identity those who truly love you from strangers.I know a wedding that the brides entire train didn't turn up on the wedding day!!
Lmao
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