Apparently someone was left very heartbroken. Plateau state-born Hauwa, for the first time talked about her failed marriage, thanking her ex, Keziah, in a message she posted to her Facebook page, for turning her world upside down and leaving her for dead after promising her the world. See what she wrote after the cut...
N.B Keziah has been married before. That marriage also ended just two years after it was contracted.
Hauwa's heartbreaking letter
It's been 8 months since my world was turned upside down, and for the very first time I actually have TIME and space to reflect and really just be thankful for how far I've come and the lessons I've learnt. Its been good times punctuated by waaay too many painful real-life bad times and displays of general human ugliness for my liking. I just want to take this time out to say a big thank you to all my old friends who reached out to me, held me, defended me, prayed for me and fed me drinks to numb the pain! U guys are awesome! To all my new friends who choose to see and appreciate me for the Hauwa that I am and not the one mentioned in Chinese whispers of tragic gist. For my family who have shown me what unconditional love truly means and to God who's proven repeatedly that He has my back and my destiny is far greater than I can imagine! For my own personal Lamar Odom who promised me the world then left me for dead when I had served my purpose. I thank you. God bless you. It hasn't been easy, but I'm apparently much more resilient than I give myself credit for. Your girl is happy and she's finally good! And I'm thankful from the bottom of my heart. And if you read this insanely long post all they way to the bottom then thank you too! Long Emo post over and out - love HRM
98 comments:
She should see it as a lesson and move on.
She should see it as a lesson and move on. Life hurts.
Is he now makin it a habit? To be dropping d ladies he marries after two years of marriage? Well, the next woman he meets shuld be prepared to be a spinster again after two years 2geda. Yeye
Awwww! Sorry dear, try pick the pieces and move on.If Kanye could finally find his heaven, and be happy, u too can find yours.
~BONARIO~says so via NOKIA LUMIA
Ehyaa take heart gurl
Amen darling cos I read it 2 the end :) Don't cry over any man who leaves you. Don't even waste ur time letting him turn that world upside down as long as u did ur part right. There's nothing tragic about it. Life is hard enough on its own. Get up and go! Glad u're doing great now. ----C21
I feel your pain dear, thank God you're getting over it and coming out better
Eyah Pele! Men are wicked
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dis is so touching, I think am gonna cry.
mtcheeeeeeeeeeeew nt interested.#THAT AKWA IBOM BOY#
Awwww, such a touching long note...may God bless u too...don't worry d best is yet to come ur way..a man that will love u for who u are and he will be wit u forever. If he was d one who walked away in ur union as he did in his 1st marriage trust he's got spiritual problem and he needs to start attending gud prayerful church. My Lil advise is dat u should always prayer for God to help him...Dan Boiz Segun
Move on with ur life my dear pretty girl. He is a no good person, watch out, he will attempt part 3 and there he wil jam with Osuofa d prince and he wil tell him how far wit changing wives.
This is sad...she was in luv wit him nd still is....
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I forget what happened to cause their break up, it musta being bad cos this letter reads like that of someone who's being to the edge and back.
And they look beautiful together tho"
Hehehe@ least you will be relived now. I feel your pain. Dust yourself and move on.. Life could be unfair atimes..!!
Wow! She's jez showin hersef as being weak n givin d Idiot sm satisfaction! Guys r neva worth affectionb suck it up n b strong...m
Feel u girl. He may have stolen ur past but not ur future! Only God heals and trust me there is still a good genuine guy out there for u
So touching
Am moved with tears
Dis sentence " wen I av served my purpose" dikwa risky.. shes pretty tho.. bt sweety ur nt d 1st nah .. d lord is ya strength
Wetin she see for this guy Weyn wear sunshade like blind bat.he didn't even deserve her.this is to girls who stoop lower than they deserve.
A relationship is composed of two people or more depending on who or the type of the relationship. I don't see herself blaming herself for the failure of their relationship. He has moved on, get a grip of yourself and move on.
i am confused as to why she used lamar odom as a metaphor !!!
Now y'all see why linda doesn't wanna get married? Something like this might happen to her lol
God remains ur strength girl. Be strong and courageous.
Big lesson for the desperate young ladies out there.Always find out why a man has a
failed relationship or marriage b4 u jump into his hands cos the same reason might also make u an ex one day
such z life dearie.....tk hrk....wish u d bst in life
You even give the guy credit sef. You see he may have chipped your heart but he doesn't have the power to break your spirit. See how great you are doing. Stay beautiful, stay humble, stay focused. God has your back. Xoxo.
This is what you get when you marry a Fantasy Spouse.......its proven: women like liars, if you want to get any woman you desire, perfect your art of lying and faking.....if you wanna loose her, tell her as it is!
YOU GO GIRL...........
what's a message
speechless
BORN TO SHINE!!!
I don't know either of them. But I love her already. This is nice. Should be dedicated to all we single gals who hv had their hearts broken @ one point or d other. We good now...There is a higher purpose & better destiny awaiting. #I Believe
Guys!Guys!!GgGgguyssssss!!!Hmmmmmmmm...Had Ma Own Share Of Heartbreak After So Many Years Of Failed Promises dat Almost Turned Mi In2somthin Else,Buh Heyyyyyyy I Promise Maself2shame Dat Livin Modafuckin Bastard..Such Is Life
This poor woman. Sorry for her misfortune. I hope she takes a good look in the mirror. People will only treat you based on what you allow them to do. Try to make better choices if you do find you're part of the problem. Many guys are jerks be careful!
Oh lawd,love indeed can be a curse or beauty.love her honesty hopefully she will find her own life partner.
Eff him. When men are done with you, they're done with you. They don't sit around writing odes to love gone wrong. They're on to the next. This boosts his ego and makes you look weak. Mooning time is over. Move on.
This is sounding like a suicide note o, I hope people are constantly surrounding her o!
A Two year interval btw two marriages that failed , Funnu av never heard of this two before neither do I care buh d lady needs to search herself properly and get help. Two different men two different personalities yet the two marriages ended in 2 years a case of fairytale. She is n was never ready for marriage.
This is why I'm still unmarried. Fcuk what people think. I'll marry when I find the one I'm happy with.
I sympathized with her I really do, but Keziah Jones is a musical genius. So I just can't hate him. I wish her happiness going forward.
Rex
Nawa oh! this thing called Love sha,take care of urself dear,welcome to single life:)
...Life goes on...
Hmm, the guy is on drugs then
Hmm, the guy is on drugs then
Awww.Very touching.Am Sure she's stronger nw.it takes only time for wounds to be healed.Some men tho,May God kip us from such.....Linda Say a big amen.lol
I love you Hauwa, and may the good Lord continue to be your strength from day to day.....in me you also have a new friend. It's the best respo you could have given to heartbreak you are much stronger and wiser now... And more pure.. It's what gold and diamond go through to be what they are........ T.k from Jos
Don't close ur heart dearie, somehow u will find true love again. Lucian
Anyone who divorces twice is definitely not marriage material. Gbam!
God will heal your heart and restore your joy completely
Hmmmmm. My sister you enter 1 chance. Dere's a hot, rich hunk that has been following me around Abuja asking to marry me but I can neva. D man don divorce twice n all his exes have horror stories. My eye pure na
sucker ass nigga...see if u go fit get babe na after linda don open ya yansh
Hauwa dt guy definately doesent suit u.and mare lookin @ d pix u ar nt d kind of girl his kind of person wil like to spend lifetym wit.people dnt knw dt choosing a partener by comparing his looks n lifestyle wit urs plays a vry big role.notin like wit time il change him/her
Hauwa dt guy definately doesent suit u.and mare lookin @ d pix u ar nt d kind of girl his kind of person wil like to spend lifetym wit.people dnt knw dt choosing a partener by comparing his looks n lifestyle wit urs plays a vry big role.notin like wit time il change him/her.what u did wz love at first sight.
Women should stop getting married to second-hand men. The rush for personality hook-ups have ruined many women.
If you feel your 'second-hand' man is the right one for you, ask the right questions and don't repeat another woman's mistake(s).
A broken heart is far worse than any pain. These is no cure but time. Men will break ur heart as if they are smashing a piece of glass. After promisn d whole world at d beginin... A glass can be rebuilt, but what abt d heart?..whorse purnishment of love. Move on dear
Good she's gotten over her pain
See beutiful woman oh....
There u go gal such is life is like e guy have a problem he is not tolerant for a marriage to work there is communication trust and tolerant I pity e fool
Happy for u Hauwa remind bless
God wld continue to strenghten u and many more like u..take cahrge
Life goes on darling,happy u re moving on...greater things ahead 4 u!
@UA
@Francis Okoduwa - Are u stupid? Or just an illiterate? It is not her who has been divorced before, it is HIM. Read the post again before u type rubbish here. Nonsense
And that man that will marry you tomorrow you will still use the "F" word on him. Am sure you know what will happen next.. Exit things..
Hehehehe. U got me laughing out loud with,"ur eye pure".. Make you still dey pure dey go. Time no dey ooo..
Me too. Stories that touch the Heart.
I swear ! Hehehehe......
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Terrible grammar! Smh.....
What doesn't kill you, definitly will make you stronger and wiser.
It is well!
oga Francis Okoduwa im sure you cant read well because i wonder when Keziaj jones became Hauwa pscheew. Hauwa jare it is well Time heals all wounds allow Jesus to heal you and please be easy on yourself.
Francis Oko...whatever, get your reading glasses on or your assimilation glasses on, he married twice not her, clearly he's the one with the issues
Get married to Real MEN not Stage BOYZ dat only perform and GO......
My thoughts exactly!
True talk! But the society tho', they can make one feel so incomplete wtout a husband. Nigeria makes U feel like U're only recognised when U have the title of 'Mrs'. God will strengthen us including U Linda, God will bless us accomplished women wt the type of man we deserve to make us happy. Amen!
My thoughts exactly!
As his name depicts 'Keziah' is definitely sharing himself around.
People will not only treat you based on what you allow them 2 do.You do not always get what you deserve. Bad things can happen 2 very good people. ----C21
Daft mugu. Learn 2 read & understand b4 u spit rubbish
Which one be Lamar Odom for inside na?
babes it is well... hold your pretty head up it is well... i also just walked away from a 2year relationship. animals in human skin that's what they are. Elkanah Famir Buyengum this is for you shameless degenerate
IT IS WELL!
U're not his type,don't worry he'll meet his match smeday & he'll be d one crying.
Same here my dear, what about lamar is so sweet
#DruggieTinz and #ClosetHomoTinz. Ssshhhh
The guy has issues. He is not worth it.
Mumu read well before you comment, it is the husband that has she failed marriages not the lady.
Lamar odom...lol......crackhead
Na wa ooh, but wait ooh una no see the guy name "keziah" he dey ke (share) the thing. Ppl from his village dey pursue am lol
Ibo boi grammar... hehehehehehe
Pls dont say that rather not all men are wicked.you are a man and im sure you are not wicked .only men who doesnt have the fear n doesnt love God or love themselves are wicked.
I pray for a God's love and healing balm for your heart hurts missy, you shall love n smile again, just let God.
Ode. Lamar; womanising and drugs.
Hauwa it is well, I always thought you were too young for Kesiah, and the distance too, but be strong and hold your head high, he's an idiot!
@12:37 AM. Thanks for your comment. You said it all. A million likes.
Hauwa
Remember there is always 2 sides to a story remember that
Hauwa
Remember there is always 2 sides to a story just remember that when you go about and tell your side.
Hauwa
Remember there is always 2 sides to a story just remember that when you go about and tell your side.
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