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Tuesday 17 June 2014

Dear LIB Readers: My hubby says he's tired of my body..now looking for a man who wants it

I caught my husband cheating and instead of covering up, he straight up told me that he was tired of my body and everything else about me. He told me that yes, he loves me and always will, but that I was old, fat and basically worn out, lol. No lie!

The lol is not because I find it funny just unbelievable! I married him when I was 24 and now at 41 I am worn out? Worn out from giving him children and taking care of him for 17 years?

Well, I accepted that and with grace I asked him for a divorce but he's insisting on staying  married but says he can't be faithful, that he would rather be sincere with me than lie. Well, I'm thinking I should stay married like most women in Lagos who are tired of their marriages are doing but do same thing that my husband is doing; that is find a man who doesn't find my 41 year old body so worn out and make him my lover. He can't be having all the fun, can he? What do you think?

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Anonymous said...

To be sincere ehn, I love your husband.He is honest and it is clear he loves you and his kids.Now madam if you cheat, you place a curse on your life and the lives of your children and trust me, you will never get the satisfaction you want and you would become a serial cheat and public pussy, your kids will find out and would despise and disdain you beyond imagination and at the end of the day madam you will only drag yourself to hell after you have lived in one.If you divorce, in two to three years you will fall in love with some guy and probably marry him and that one will still cheat on you five to six years later.There is so little differences between husbands that its better to stick to the one you have,who has proclaimed his undying love for you but has a bad habit that needs to be checked and curbed,I will advice you to pray to whatever God you believe in and most importantly WORK ON YOUR BODY!!!look sexy and attractive to him and pretend you don't have his time for anything whatsoever.Do your duties as wife and mother with the exception of one,NO MORE LOVE MAKING until he drops his bad habit and gets himself well checked to avoid diseases.Trust me cheating is sweet for the first months, until you become public vagina and you will despise yourself and worst of all your children would hate you plus God's judgement is going come down on you so fast,you wouldn't know what happened.I know my story is long but im talking from a very painful experience.Leave your husband to your God and he will be sorted out soon,In the main time WORK ON YOUR BODY!!!

Unknown said...

There's nothing am going to said now that is new from others. Just get close to gym room if you can but if you can't go for the vegetable friut it will help you to cut your weight.while doing that also pray to GOD it will change your husband for and don't forget right from the days of john the baptise there was violence and it was takeing it by force even Jesus christ him self said this kind of problem can't go unless prayer and fasting so just do that and trust///// God.

Anonymous said...

Divorce him before he gives you HIV or some other STD. If you cheat out of revenge, you'll put yourself at double risk from the diseases he'll bring to you and the ones you'll catch from random hookups.

bisco said...

Dear lady, please don't give divorce a thought n don't give cheating a second thought. Work on yourself n be attractive once again. Love him more n make him want u but don't sleep with him till he gets checked n tested of STD's. Grow ur confidence in ur beauty . Pray and commit ur marriage to God. Declare what you want to see in your family n God will surely answer u :)

Unknown said...

Senseable comment so far #takeserioushug#wow

sarang semut said...

Same with my dad. The old coot left my mum for another woman cos of her age. Live your life above sin. He qualifies for a divorce. Don't allow him give you stds pls.

Anonymous said...

I love this comment

Mrs said...

Lolz what is this one saying. If you like have banging body. Men will always cheat. So cheat is got nothing to do with her body. Men are he -goats like that married or not.

ruby said...

Yes,I agree with you hitting the gym but even if you do,doesn't mean your husand won't cheat again,just be there for your kids and always pray.who knows,miracles really do happen

Anonymous said...

This bitches advicing a 41year old woman to divorce her husband,what happens when are children goes to find a life of their own,by then she become old,lonely and a liability to her children....only her husband can look at her and see the heart he fell inlove with many years bck without the body.....any other person now,just sees obesity and take advantage......This energy and resources should be redirected to focus on working on herself..The best form of revenge now is#getbackurbody and make him want you.......its not easy,but its also not impossible

Anonymous said...

I think u need to present ur case to God Almighty, 2ndly, work on reducing d fat in your body. Den allow God to perfect his good work in your life & your entire family. Try dis Pls nd things will sure turn around for good. Gud luck.

SouthEastern said...

Walk away with your Kids and pray for him. He is currently possessed by the spirit of lost and infatuation and do something to your body if you are the one in that picture.

#God answers all prayers#
Happy moments - Praise God, Difficult moments-Seek God,
Quiet moments -Worship God, Painful moments-Trust God,
Every moment - Thank God.

Anonymous said...

Anon 7:04 mumu

Anonymous said...

Anon 7:04 lunch at where??? Mr Biggs? Mumu!

Anonymous said...

Okay I am going to rant because things like this drive me nuts and I blame Nigerian women and men for this. A man who thinks he is God, opens his mouth to tell his wife that she is fat and does not like her body, even has the liver to tell her that he is being truthfull to justify his wrong and women on this blog are telling her to work on herself. Seriously, Nigerian men are the most spoilt men in this world. They getaway with murder and society allows it. Have you not heard that men cheat anyway? Some Men have very beautiful wives with banging bodies, but they still cheat on them and in their faces too. To make matters worse the reasons they give for their foolishness are just plain stupid.

Madam, I have been in your situation and I decided that I will not sleep with no man, but I will have fun. When I mean fun, I mean fun. Please go and enjoy yourself, go out meet people, make new friends, go to a different church if possible, go to places you have never been to. Please refuse to wallow in self pity and most importantly pray to God for strength. Treat your husband as he wants to be treated, as the cheating husband that is not remorseful and not willing to change, in other words ignore him. Finally fall in love with God, the only husband that will never cheat on you. Nigerian men that are not physically fit themselves want to eat their cake and have it. If you want your wife to look good lead by example. Abi are you not the head of the family? Nonsense and ingredients!

Anonymous said...

Go shed weight & look good for yourself no be for one yeye man and get out of the house if u are tire b4 he kills u with emotional stress! Africa abi na 9ja mentality of stay in an abusive marriage cos of your children, yeye dey smell abeg go & look good to eat and dump his ass afterwards

@BOBO_EDO said...

Stupid advice!

@Bobo_Edo

Francis said...

Nice story buh looking for another man to be ur lover simply means you were not brought up with good manner's, why don't u keep praying for your husband and make efforts to do something about your body,since you are fat a younger dude will definately get tired of ur 41 year old body maybe after avin u like twice. Give urself some brain, d man told u d gospel truth respect that n put it into prayers as well as work on ur body quit eating too much.

Anonymous said...

Of all the comments here, you made so much sense
Exactly what I will do.

Anonymous said...

Hahaha,u are very funi...Pretty,young,sexy,hot gals where full ard never see boyfrd to date or man to marry them na u were ur hubby don use taya wan come dey look for boyfrd. You go see oo ,dnt get me wrong but be ready to pay bills and spend money dats if u have to spare and trust me after a while, d dude will leave cos he will want to settle down,so at d end of the day,na u go loose. Madam,u better,start working out,get in shape,dress well and stay ur husband house. Nothing dey outside!

Anonymous said...

And reduce her age too?

Brawn said...

u hope she don't look like the pic above cos no man wants a liability? you are indeed very stupid, silly and ignorant. very shallow minded indeed, for you to release such statement. so you don't have anyone related to you that is like that lady? and does their husbands consider them a liability? coming up here acting a damn ass fool!
Lord help you.

Anonymous said...

Mehn.. You just have to go and work on ur self. I knw women with many kids who are older than you that look great. Age and children is no excuse to look unattractive or fat. Nothing is turning your husband on so he will continue to look out. Make an effort abeg.... From your fellow woman

Anonymous said...

Gone through most comments, u hav lots of good advice here asides the 'divorce' ones.. I'd say ur man truly loves u for being plain n less hypocritical...work on urslf a bit, act like u'r unsatisfied wth hs looks too (mk hm nervous)...gym togethr, go out mor togethr....n let hm see the 'woes' in having extra affairs.....the impact it wld/ may have on him, u, the two of u together, ur immediate and extended fam and society @ large. Most importantly pray about it, tellln God exactly hw u feel. Finally I think u r intrested in cheating, that's y u have it as an option for remedy....u just blaming ur desires on the situation....guard ur heart darling!!....TS

angel said...

Honestly Bonario, i feel like slapping you right now. If you don't like a full figure woman, you don't have to disrespect one. I thought you were wise, now I no how stupid and disrespectful you can be. Concerning the woman, its hard work no le, but working out could help you get back your self esteem, not just your weight down. Don't cheat, because you will not only hurt yourself but your kids, they see and know what is happening. Try to look sexy for you, not your husband. He may be tired but his not gone. Exercise and work on yourself for you. Pray and take care of your kids.

Unknown said...

Dear woman, at least you know why he is cheating, problem half-solved! Now it's time to focus on you and build yourself. Become a better you, build yourself, a few hours of working out can be added to list of sacrifices. He still loves you at least, now become the woman he longs to be with. Get that hot body then let's here what he has to say. 41 is still young enough to look good! Stop making excuses and remember you are responsible for your actions. You're accountable to your children at least. Rise above and be the better parent. Fix the problem, fix the marriage.

And to all those who think all men cheat, excuse me?!? All men admire other women but some men are disciplined!Some men are patient. Some men are satisfied. I am a lady and I know that there are good and great men who are trying to be the best they can by us. Start looking at happy, disciplined people!

Unknown said...

I like dis man. He is a fool to tell his wife that. Maybe he wants to drink poison from his wife.lolss

Anonymous said...

Lol ur husband is not serious but my advice for u is to conclude ur mide to God he we surely do what is going to favour u

Linda's Elder Sister. said...

Men ll always cheat whether u a fat or not, but if realy u look like this, u realy v to work on ur weight oh.

Anonymous said...

And Lydia will never update my comment wat is even wrong with dis Lydia gal

Livvsreamblog said...

Women hit gym before it too late

Anonymous said...

Nobody should insult her for her body..come to think of it..who has seen the husband?..who says he's all that?..its just the woman all the wahala falls on abi?..dear madam, please cheating just makes matters worse because 2 wrongs don't make a right..do whatever makes you happy and this is a battle for God..go on your knees woman!
Next, go to the gym and go on a diet..make sure he doesn't know u are doing these so he wouldn't feel important.
Treat him normally, it would hurt but be nice to him..love is the greatest commandment..he would eventually get his eyes opened to his beautiful wife!.. ;)

Anonymous said...

Madam, trying slimming dowm joor....forget food for a while, not easy but y dont u try that? two wrongs dont make a right...

Anonymous said...

how i wish my hubby will also come out straight and tell me whenever he wants to cheat on me. i prefer a open marriage not all this lies and deceit. i am still 29 and hes already cheating on me. when small boys of 20 something still chyk me thinking im not yet married. stupid men.

Anonymous said...

Oh well i think the best thing is to get into an open relationship and flirt around too.. Nobody loses and everybody gains! Its a win win

Anonymous said...

Exactly... An open marriage is always an option tho I wud advice u against it. But make sure u don't go cheating with hving a real written agreement o. Coz men are funny. He'll nail u with that & u'll regret. Plus myt end up getting d divorce u initially wanted. But this time with NOTHING. Mtcheew! Men eh! SMH. Dey want to cheat but never want their woman to in most cases. My candid advice is that u should hit d gym. Even tho its not going to miraculously change, it wud help & ur confidence wud increase too. 2ndly, change ur wardrobe. Buy new clothes than can u sexier. Sexy isn't always size zero. Check pple like Monique. She is always on A game. Then find urself a new hubby. Something that takes u out & hv FUN! But stay clear of men 4 now pls. U can flirt & do stuff related but nothing more. And never 4get to get on ur knees while making all these changing. Do a complete 360 with ur fashion, hobbies & sex appeal, than even ur husband should (and must) be shocked when ever he sees u. Pls try this.
& FYI, get a dildo it u feel ur hand isn't effective enough (I knw mind is...lol). Its not always about hving a man "do" u. Must times, doing it urself saves us sooo many troubles.
#Goodluck

Anonymous said...

Cheating is bad, a man cheating on his partner does not want him progress. I want to know her. Aunty linda pls post this quick.

Anonymous said...

Am sick n tired of men cheatin on women bcos of their looks. U were there wen she started puttin on weight. Wat stops d man frm tellin her of his discomfort n supportin her by registerin her in a gym n monitorin her food in-take. Moreover, men wit very sad lookin pennis n low self esteem lookin pennis n body r all over d place bt women dnt use it against dem. Pls men stop dis nasty attitude bcos dats wat drives women to revolt n look out for available men. It is time men wake up n be men so women can stop misbehavin n reserve themselves. Luv ur woman d way she is as she gets older bcos u men r gettin uglier as well as u get older. As for u madam. U shld neva consider being loose as an option. Go n work on ur body. Dress gud n make up ur face well. Smell nice always n get a dildo for horny times. Dnt go to anoda man so u dnt get punished. He wil come around... And wen he does, pls consult me on hw to deal wit him squarely.

Anonymous said...

Or maybe you can do the next best thing... lose the weight and get fit. I do not think your hubby reasonably expects you to get back the body you had prior to getting married and having babies but I guess he expects you to just lose some weight and look fitter/more attractive to him. Your husband is obviously not the most sensitive/subtle of men but I don't think he wants out of the marriage, I think he is just trying to make you feel threatened so that you do something about your body since it is obviously affecting you guys sex life... I dare say that since you have already committed your life to him, try and make the changes that will make your marriage sweeter. After all it will also benefit you health wise and aesthetic-wise. My dear even if you go outside, you will discover that 80% of Nigerian men prefer them slim or moderately chubby (between size 10 and 16) Nobody wan carry too much excess luggage nowadays o!!! Make that change girl!!!

Anonymous said...

Goshhh! Madam u mustn't announce dis naw. Wots ur gain 4 making dis public? Even if u won parole u 4 just go coded. Showing ur face on a blog, telling d whole world u won begin shag another man being a married woman is so wrong. U dnt compete with ur man na. U can do it codedly shaa bt not disgracing urself n ur kids in public. Do u knw dat ds post wl ever remain on Internet? Chai! I'm so ashamed of u woman. U re such a dummy.

samuel samson said...

Two wrongs never make it right

Anonymous said...

U can take fatslimtox it will help u

Anonymous said...

men think they are some type of treat abi . Majority of you idiots are not your wives fantasy but they remain faithful because they made a vow before God and man. It's not only women that need to watch their weight men need to as well , with your pot bellies .

Unknown said...

so funny, that the prob with d new generation guys, must of them dont like far girls. so ladies work on your body if you dont wana face what she is facing.

Anonymous said...

All my life I haven't seen a man that is faithful to his wife... not my father or even my hubby. Men are dogs so one woman is never enough for them. This is pathetic

Anonymous said...

Madam start working on your body asap. Not just for him but for ur health and self-esteem. You'll soon see him running back na u go dey do shakara sef.

Cuci said...

I agree wholeheartedly with you. Cheating isn't the answer here. The guy may have other hidden reasons not to allow her too leave and her cheating will give the man the boldness to disgressfully throw her out and no one will listen to her explanation. This is Naija my lady and here, cheating women are scorned no matter what pushed them to it. Leave him and work on urself, and he may come begging

MY TURN said...

madam go and get your sexy back... loose the weight change your wardrobe, wear sexy lingerie and see if the philandering dog won't come back home with his tail between his legs.

Anonymous said...

Madame change your diet, excercise more, buy sexy outfits, make more money, go under the knife if that will get your self esteem back, change your lifestyle, spend more time with your children, ignore his cheating ass, and he will be shocked at the new you.

Anonymous said...

this is the problem with Nigeriana. he just told you the truth.all you need do is to work on your size and step up your game. or would you have preferred he pretended to you?

Walata said...

Well madam I advice u to hit gym and make urself sexy again I guess he will fall back at ur feet again, this ain't funny but me personally Ion like fat women

Anonymous said...

U just spoke my mind, been married for six yrs now nd im 27+ nd hubby "knows" half of the girls in town. No matter wat a woman does, a man will cheat if he wants.

Boladale said...

My dear sister, I want to ask you if you are a Christian, if you are. Did your bible says you should commit adultery? I am 43 years old and sometimes when I see women that below my look twice older than me. Most of the time if I ask people am meeting for the first time how old do they think I am? They give me figures below my age. So please and please, number 1 work on your weight it will also be good for you yourself at the end. Improve/enhance your look, am not saying turn to masquerade. Be trendy in your dressing not turning to harlot. Then show love to your husband not minding his attitude, he will definitely rush back. It may take time but please don't indulge in extra marital affairs. God bless you.

Anonymous said...

Look at you. This is the mindset of a woman I won't advise my bro to marry at all. And I can't be proud of an over-weight sister. Bitter but true!

Jada smith is your age mate - http://www.nigerianheadlines.com/2014/06/10/17-yrs-after-marriage-will-and-jada-smith-are-on-pda-in-hawaii/

Kate Henshaw is over 40
I attended Joel Odumakin's 40th birthday in 2006.
And a lot more people.

Not that they don't have the tendencies to be fat but they choose not to allow it.
I see women in their 50s and 60s with banging bodies, still jugging on my way to work btw mainland to island everyday.

Get it right. Looking or feeling good is not just for your husband; but for you!

Go get another man for yourself but know that he will soon drop you for another married woman cos you are truly worn-out.

Lastly, your husband married a lady not a woman; if you turned a woman, it's your fault. Stop using children as excuses for carelessness. No be you first born.

Linda post my comment.

Anonymous said...

It's funny ur all blaming the woman.Is the man the same way he was? Couldn't he have told her what he felt? Being fat isn't the issue cus I know some fat sexy girls n they are hot in bed.Men will always be men,it takes a MAN to be faithful.Ur husband is mean,he looked u in the eye and told you such words.My dear ENJOY ur life,u only have one.Get ur groove back.41yrs is still young.

Anonymous said...

the man is selfish..am sure he has pot belly too and the woman is not complaining..he thinks those slim girls likes his pot belly? sorry they only like ur pocket and as it is now, u will end up with some crazy sickness as adoltry is your main job role now, bcos ur woman is fat....do ur self a favour if u want to live long, take ur wife to a gym and both of u can work out together till she gets back to the shape u like...that is what marriage is all about...marriage is not for boys but for real men willing to stand at all situations..cheers

my Goodness said...

Pls tell me where I can get those herds

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Anonymous said...

This is the problem with our ladies. You all are here saying hit the gym, dress sexy. Is her husband God? How much does he even have? Plus I am sure he is not exactly the same size he was when they got married plus potbelly...Nigerian women see themselves as inferior, to be trampled on, LIsten if you like look a million dollars , a guy will still cheat. Then he will say you are rude etc.
Woman if he is cheating on you, divorce the idiot, take your kids and get yourself a man only if it will make you happy not necessarily to pay him back.
Men are not worth it. As a young mother of one I am doing everything in my power to become SOMEBODY in life. No dependence on any man so I can kick any cheating butt out as soon as I find out.... Lastly it is good to take care of yourself so hit the gym but only for your own satisfaction not for any silly cheating idiotic man. I wish you well.

Anonymous said...

Evil marriage

Cute G said...

I love you.....

Anonymous said...

Am tired of using The same *d**k ,its been 5yrs n am tired.Wish. I cud hv groove a bit.Men don't know women r tired of their same shit,if only they know wot we get up to.

Sanatra said...

You have sense joor anon 10:34. Too many women re depressed cos society expects dem to. Sad! My dear lady, don't subject urself to cheating just to feel good, u might end up hating it. And if u stay, u will end up depressed. So leave for a while n improve urself. Focus on u n ur kids. The thn about life is u don't hurt a good person and feel good very long. He will realize n chew on his words but don't sit there n fuel his stupidty by sticking with him. Space will help him see plenty girls to carry.

Anonymous said...

You all are saying hit the gym. Dress sexy! But have you paused to ask where is the money? And where they live? And her nature of job? BTW, who told that anony that the pic above is her?,smh.

Men cheat if they want to and find whatever reason to justify their action! What of the men? Some grow pot bellies, jowls and bald but their wives don't complain or use that as an excuse to sleep around!

Genetically, some women put on weight after a certain age and delivery. Our diet in African is mostly carb!You say fruits and vegetables and I ask do you know if it is only EBA and rice she can afford mostly on their income since the hediot lavishes his money outside? Go and visit the average Nigerian home and see what they take for breakfast, lunch and dinner!

Madam, DON'T divorce.
IGNORE him in the house and live your life because men don't worth the stress.Do what makes you happy.
If he does not fulfil his conjugal rights,or you don't want to be touched by him, save up and get a sex toy and satisfy yourself. It hurts men to be ignored or unwanted.

Anonymous said...

You all are saying hit the gym. Dress sexy! But have you paused to ask where is the money? And where they live? And her nature of job? BTW, who told that anony that the pic above is her?,smh.

Men cheat if they want to and find whatever reason to justify their action! What of the men? Some grow pot bellies, jowls and bald but their wives don't complain or use that as an excuse to sleep around!

Genetically, some women put on weight after a certain age and delivery. Our diet in African is mostly carb!You say fruits and vegetables and I ask do you know if it is only EBA and rice she can afford mostly on their income since the hediot lavishes his money outside? Go and visit the average Nigerian home and see what they take for breakfast, lunch and dinner!

Madam, DON'T divorce.
IGNORE him in the house and live your life because men don't worth the stress.Do what makes you happy.
If he does not fulfil his conjugal rights,or you don't want to be touched by him, save up and get a sex toy and satisfy yourself. It hurts men to be ignored or unwanted.

Anonymous said...

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tiennynnah said...

Just pray for your husband and your family, everything will be alright. This is a challenge, don't let it overwhelm you. Be strong and courageous. Linda pls post my comment.

Anonymous said...

Be fit, be happy, and be strong.

His truth is: he does not fancy your body.

And your truth about your body is??????????????

Respect, love and honour yourself.

Anonymous said...

All of u asking this woman to slim down, hit d gym n all dat. It doesn't stop him frm cheating one bit... even if she returns to size 10 he will cheat. Just pray for him n live ur life. U have ur children to make u happy. And also pray he doesn't contact disease.

Anonymous said...

Did u divorce your own or have u even ever been married? Stop advising her to be a loser.

Unknown said...

respect and leave the marriage than staying in it and cheating.

Anonymous said...

Most of the comments are from teenagers, singles, newlyweds and mistresses!
17 years of marriage? Any woman who has survived this long in a Nigeria marriage can relate with this poster.
Dieting and gyming and sexy dressing cost money! Can she afford it?
We like to compare with abroad forgetting women their are more respected than women in Nigeria! How many men actually help out their spouse with chores and looking after the Children? And how many women can afford personal trainer and cosmetic surgery?
How many Nigerian men look fit?
Those talking should take a picture now and keep. After 17years they should compare their looks!
Kate Henshaw is a mother of one and looks good for her age but her husband still messed up! Why?

Anonymous said...

Most of the comments are from teenagers, singles, newlyweds and mistresses!
17 years of marriage? Any woman who has survived this long in a Nigeria marriage can relate with this poster.
Dieting and gyming and sexy dressing cost money! Can she afford it?
We like to compare with abroad forgetting women their are more respected than women in Nigeria! How many men actually help out their spouse with chores and looking after the Children? And how many women can afford personal trainer and cosmetic surgery?
How many Nigerian men look fit?
Those talking should take a picture now and keep. After 17years they should compare their looks!
Kate Henshaw is a mother of one and looks good for her age but her husband still messed up! Why?

bunny said...

this is my first post here,i totally agree with you banky more.hit the gym,get in shape,get lovely wears and hair...then after you have accomplished looking hot,dump his sorry ass!

OLAITAN said...

I think taking that path would tarnish the 17 years trust and respect you have built as a mother and wont make the man feel bad. If anyone here advice you to do what Lagos women are doing, that person doesn't love you. What makes you a virtuous woman is the ability to handle matter with wisdom and patience. If you can’t take the heat it’s better to quit than to payback.
All is well

Anonymous said...

Lmao@finish the idiot with beating

Anonymous said...

Hmmm....someone has a crush on bonario

Zizi said...

Ewu what has fat got to do with dirt, some times people just think with their anus

Anonymous said...

Lady, hit d gym! Even if u can't afford gym membership, reduce ur food intake and do some walking or activity dat will make u sweat at least, 30mins a day. Being married and having kids is just not an excuse for letting urself go like dat. Show ur husband u can be just as attractive as he met u. D fact dat he's refusing divorce shows he really loves u but, ur current appearance is gettin in d way. Ladies, stay beautiful for urselves and ur spouses. It's dat simple!




DacDuchess!

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Anonymous said...

Anon 9:33 you are pathetic. With this long epistle where did you hold the man accountable for his actions??? You just laid the responsibility at the woman's feet. Stupid.

Anonymous said...

this is a made up story..no one cares

Anonymous said...

Why will any man want a woman of that size?Abeg you are too big,try and lose some weight and stop eating any how.

Anonymous said...

Why will any man want a woman of that size?Abeg you are too big,try and lose some weight and stop eating any how.

Anonymous said...

Every Buddy just saying go to to gym, workout on your buddy. Shot that fuck another man's Paulson is another man's meat as me I love them BIG and i don't call them fat but CHUBBY
and even if your woman is big that not an exquisis for cheating on your partner and even if she is also slim he will also find exquis
Just be happy 41 is just a number OK there are guys out there looking for chubby lady like you
And am one of them just do what your minds direct you and we can be friend 7c6ea647

Anonymous said...

Every Buddy just saying go to to gym, workout on your buddy. Shot that fuck another man's Paulson is another man's meat as me I love them BIG and i don't call them fat but CHUBBY
and even if your woman is big that not an exquisis for cheating on your partner and even if she is also slim he will also find exquis
Just be happy 41 is just a number OK there are guys out there looking for chubby lady like you
And am one of them just do what your minds direct you and we can be friend 7c6ea647

Anonymous said...

Every Buddy just saying go to to gym, workout on your buddy. Shot that fuck another man's Paulson is another man's meat as me I love them BIG and i don't call them fat but CHUBBY
and even if your woman is big that not an exquisis for cheating on your partner and even if she is also slim he will also find exquis
Just be happy 41 is just a number OK there are guys out there looking for chubby lady like you
And am one of them just do what your minds direct you and we can be friend 7c6ea647

Unknown said...

Dont divorce hime and surely dont cheat on him! Girl, what you need to do is chill. Pray unto God to give you strenght to do what I am about to say. First of all, I dont think you are fat, in fact you are skinner than most women your age so dont trip. However, if you think you are, hit the gym. Move out! Because the devil in him would make you cry everyday and feel bad and it will end up affecting your children. Couple months later, suprise him with your sexy ass. And when he comes begging, play hard to get, like for real. Men like that shit. Then, you make him sign a contract or something but I prefer to give him a mark that he will remember forever. Then viola! Your marriage is saved! PS. Try to get a hot guy way sexier than your husband. He is going to reak of jealousy!!!

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