Fay Purdham, 27, born Kevin McCamley, started her journey into becoming a woman aged 16.
She went onto spend £30,000 of her own money and 30K on the NHS for medical procedures and is now a fully-fledged woman.
But before her transformation was complete she froze some of her sperm - and is now looking for a surrogate mum to have her baby.
She would then become the child's adoptive mother and biological father.
Fay says she needs £100,000 to pay a surrogate to mother to help her fulfil her dream and has launched a crowd-funding campaign.
Fay, from Newcastle, said: "Even before I knew I wanted to become a woman, I wanted to be a mother.
"I have transitioned to my chosen gender, but its a huge task and cost to do this, so I've set up a Go Fund Me page up to help me on my journey to become a mother and have my dreams come true.
"It's cost £60,000 in surgery to become a woman, half paid by the NHS, and it's another £100,000 to pay for a surrogate to provide me with eggs and carry the child."Fay changed her name by deed pole at 19 and had her first surgery at 21, after realising at 16 that she wanted to be a woman and discussing it with her GP.
She says it's been a long journey, including years of bullying, painful operations and taking hormones.
Last week she came third in the first Miss Transgender UK finals after winning the regional final three weeks ago.
Fay is also set to marry her boyfriend - who was her best mate at school when she was still a boy.
She said: ''I was tortured growing up because I was feminine.
"I was told by so many people that I was gay, I felt that it was imposed upon me. But I wasn't, I was transgender.
"I feel like recently I really emerged from the shell I had to create my armour against the world.
"My only way of dealing with what was going on was to back away from people. But I've done a lot of soul searching"I feel like I have become a kind, humble woman, which is a better female role than a diva. You can make more of a difference when you're not shouting."
Bruce Jenner's recent transition to Caitlyn has seen the transgender community propelled into the spotlight more than ever before.
Fay said: "I wish Caitlyn had supported the transgender community before she was brave enough to publicly come out.
"She could have used her profile as Bruce to support the cause. She looks great, but not everyone has the money that she has to make that transition.
"She's only just transitioned, but people have been doing it for years."
Fay, who lives with partner Chris Dodd, 24, says although she's come far since her school years she still has to fight for acceptance.
She said: "Sometimes its harder when you look more like a girl, because you have to explain yourself to people instead of them guessing for themselves.
"I think people need to be careful with the use of the word transgender. I didn't go through all this to become transgender, I did it to become a woman.
"I want to be known as a beautiful woman, not a beautiful transgender woman. "Fay, who became a woman at 23, is already a performance artist fire-breather, who's well known on the Ru Paul Drag Race scene.
She's hoping to be able to work alongside being a mum as she also has her sights set on a TV presenting career.
Fay and Chris grew up together as boys, playing football and Playstation for endless hours.
Soon after they parted ways Fay, who was born Kevin, started her transition to becoming a woman by taking hormones.
They reunited at a party years later and are now planning their wedding.
Speaking earlier this year, Chris said: ''It took me some time to get my head around the fact that she used to be my best friend Kevin but I have never looked at her in any other way other than the fact she is a gorgeous woman.'
Mirror UK
44 comments:
Alright
I hear u! So dat u wld confuse d baby
Ok
I need that money.
Linda please take me to her.
Linda I need this cash, please take me to her
GUD FOR HR....TOMJERRYSWIT
Mtcheeew , he/she is on her own sha
Madness!
They've started their madness
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Which kind nonesense b dis?
Transgenders...LOL! This group keeps making me laugh..1st u wanna bcom a woman, problem solved..u aren't satisfied with that..u still wanna av a kid and bcome the mum at the same time the DAD!
You can't eat your cake and have it you know,ure just gonna bring a child in2 this beautiful world to suffer,cos his/ her peers would make sure of that..
I don't get it, cuz people think u behave like a woman,then u will change from being the man u are into a woman..datz ridiculous..and to show u that ur just a joke being a woman,u can't carry a baby ,cuz u don't have a womb..this shows that u can't mock God..
Good for her/him
#IT will ONLY get BETTER
#it MUST end IN praise
Foolish thing, you are looking for a surrogate, ain't u a woman now, carry ur baby urcef or surgery can't make that happen..may u never get the needed fund..amen. U want to deprive a child from having a mother..foolish man.
Hmm wish her the best of luck.
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Okay
shez still fucking ugly
Aunty linda....
shez still fucking ugly
Aunty linda....
shez still fucking ugly
Aunty linda....
if shes capable then let her olaniyidavid71@yahoo.com
Take it or leave it you are nothing but a transgender woman. An artificial , fake and inferior. What's your menstrual cycle? Why look for another woman to carry your egg? Simple - you have no womb. You are not complete. Korofo!!! . Despite all the surgeries. You are brain dead
Nawa oooo oyinbo don finish. Us
Hmmmmm.....na wa oh!...errrrr when is denrele going for his surgery???...linda na ur bestie, so answer!
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Akuko ndi iberibe! Linda take note!
Akuko ndi iberibe! Linda take note!
Abeg madam you don't have any problem.
You created one for yourself.
Aunty linda contribute give her na, eh? Thunder fire her nyash. Weda any person send her message.
Help wat mtcheww
Lib freak
Sick sick sick. Just sick.
I wish her well
And the really sad part is that some IDIOTS will still fund this nonsense
#Sad
Hehehe.. Hell fire
Linda take biro
Good for her.
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No disrespect but all dem trannies are confused nd so f**kn' mad!!
Crazy people ..Your Gender is not in your phenotypic outlook (physical) but rather in your SRY genes on the Y chromosomes ...If he likes ,he could pump himself with more oestrogen to look like a fake she but the truth is ones you have grown up to be a man , you are a man and vice versa except you destroy your mullerian inhibiting factor at birth ..
you claim you are now a woman and yet your boyfriend cannot impregnate you? what kind of woman are you then or do you have fertility issues/ Ewu like you. You want to use your frozen sperm to have a child with a surrogate as if your boyfriend does not have sperms. let him impregnate you. woman my foot
So what kind of surgery did she have? Just to cut off his penis? Does she not have a vagina and womb from the conversion procedure? Why does she need a surrogate mother to carry her sperm seed? All this is nothing but foolishness. She has breast so let her carry her pregnancy if she is a woman.
Na waoo! all this transgenders are really pushing God to the wall, FATHER in heaven pls wherever they are destroy them by fire by thunder IJN. Amen
Linda I wish we could focus our energies on things more relevant to our economy and growth than all these idiosyncracies from abroad. We do not have the hospitals to treat simple malaria and we keep focusing on complex surgical achievements by those who are now focusing on ET, UFOs and DNA technology. It is a wasteful diversion of energy and attention to things that give us low scores and zero progress.
Please refocus accordingly if you wish to change our generation.
Wonderment. Twoderful. His former best friend wants to marry her( understand?). Well, when I saw the headline, I thought she had ovaries and wombs, testes and sperm all in one body but as it is, she won't be the biological mother. That's the next assignment for scientists.
These transgender people ask for everything and want the world to revolve round them. Freaks.
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