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Tuesday 19 May 2015

Heartbreaking pics capture moment teen bride was forced to marry a polygamous police chief after 'he threatened her with kidnap'

Isn't this the saddest bride you have ever seen? The 17 year old was forced to marry a 47 year old Chechen warlord who is married and has children older than her after he threatened her with kidnap. Read the sad story below from Mail Online
Her resplendent white dress says it's her wedding day, but the sadness etched on her face does not. For this teenage bride has been forced to marry an ally of Chechen warlord Ramzan Kadyrov after apparently being threatened with kidnap if she did not comply. Kheda Goilabiyeva, 17, looked despondent and at one point wept during the ceremony in the Chechen capital Grozny as the fearsome Kadyrov watched on from the crowd.
She was asked three times whether she wanted to marry 47-year-old police chief Nazhud Guchigov – who already has another wife – before finally and reluctantly responding yes.


The marriage has provoked outrage in Russia, fuelled by Moscow's child rights commissioner, Pavel Astakhov, who defended the wedding by saying that Caucasian women 'are all shrivelled with wrinkles by the age of 27'. He later apologised for his comments.
In response to the remarks, young women online have started posting selfies on Instagram with the hashtag #WrinkledWoman in which they scrunch up their faces to simulate the appearance of wrinkles. Many of the posts include sarcastic greetings to Astakhov.


Kadyrov, who has ruled Chechnya with an iron fist since being installed by Russian President Vladimir Putin in 2007, was said to have given his personal blessing for the marriage in apparent violation of Russian laws against polygamy.
The procession then carried on to a restaurant, where Kadyrov was present and celebrated with traditional dances.
Guchigov reportedly threatened to kidnap the teen and warned of 'unpleasant consequences' if she or her parents did not consent to marriage, according to Russian newspaper Novaya Gazeta.
Several of those in attendance also said that they disapproved, owing to the difference in age between the two.

'I would have killed my daughter before letting her marry like that,' one woman said on condition of anonymity. 'I am against early marriages.' 
Announced in late April, the wedding led to an outcry in Russia, with several news reports alleging that the teenager had been forced into the marriage. 
Kremlin human rights commissioner Ella Pamfilova had denounced the marriage as medieval and said she hoped that it would not take place. She called for sanctions if it were carried out.

The wedding led to an outcry in Russia, with several news reports alleging that the teenager (above) had been forced into the marriage

Kheda Goilabiyeva (left) and Chechen police chief Nazhud Guchigov pictured before their controversial marriage

Polygamous: Nazhud Guchigov (right) with his first wife, to whom he is still married, and his son in a picture posted on Instagram
A Chechen police officer poses with Nazhud Guchigov's new wife (left) and his first wife (right)

Kadyrov however said on his Instagram account that 'these publications are only lies! Love has no age'. 
Russia's child rights commissioner, Pavel Astakhov, said that the wedding did not violate laws on the minimum age for marriage, but he has not responded to questions regarding polygamy.
Kadyrov, 38, has helped the Kremlin battle an Islamist insurgency in the North Caucasus.
But the former rebel – accused by human rights groups of overseeing torture, extrajudicial executions and corruption – has shown an increased readiness in recent months to challenge Putin's authority.

Ramzan Kadyrov (right) has ruled Chechnya with an iron fist since being installed by Russian President Vladimir Putin in 2007

Source: UK Daily Mail

102 comments:

Davido's driver said...

Eya! Lovely pics tho. Lindaobserve

Davido's driver said...

Touching story

Unknown said...

People wey God go punish no be small o! Linda take note!

Unknown said...

This is wickedness...such a pretty gurl

@arkiss said...

Can't read all dis Jor O

Unknown said...

TUFIAKWA!!!
I pity da poor girl

Unknown said...

Muslim people

Unknown said...

Muslim people

Unknown said...

a.k.a EDWIN CHINEDU AZUBUKO said..
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Somebody should just pick a gun and kill that motherfucker..... Foolish fool....
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***CURRENTLY IN JUPITER***

Unknown said...

Sharia allows it.

Unknown said...

Just like fairy tale....

Unknown said...

Incredible !!!
...NA ZO

ujunwa said...

Just like Me..I got married at d age of 14.. is well..

Ada said...

Child abuse. Such a sad child
#iwouldratherbeselfmade#
#genevieve's secretary#

Unknown said...

Hope something is done asap and the girls happiness returned.

Unknown said...

I feel sad for her.
She looks like Kylie tho.

Anonymous said...

Rat poison is just 20naira.

Anonymous said...

Nawa ooo. God help us

snowflix said...

So sad that a day which is meant to be memorable turns out vice versa. I hope something would be done about this so that other men won't start forcing teens to marry them all in the name power #onelovefromsnow#

Anonymous said...

So beauty is now a curse??? God help this girl

Anonymous said...

So beauty is now a curse??? God help this girl

Anonymous said...

So beauty is now a curse??? God help this girl

KWEEN said...

My God. Things like this still happen even in "advanced and enlightened" countries? She's so beautiful. Really heartbreaking that her big day had to be like this. Stupid, dirty old bastard that just wants to ruin her life. Disgusting!

Unknown said...

Oh dear!!!

Unknown said...

She is truly sad. It's a pity


Lib freak

Unknown said...

This man puttin his life @risk for life cos if am dis gal instead I will live wit d man I dnt luv forever I will poison our dinner 1day buhahhatitititit

Unknown said...

It's a lie . Look how the bride isn't smiling

Unknown said...

Girl is beautiful, what a sad marriage,

Unknown said...

When your beauty becomes your curse!

Unknown said...

Let's talk about that bridal wear tho

Unknown said...

Imagine the nonsense!

eka said...

Used 2 think that polygamy was an African thing
men all d same
poor girl...

STERN said...

And she's so pretty...

Anonymous said...

Animal

NaijaDeltaBabe said...

Oppression!

Unknown said...

Na wa o! She didn't even look up one bit!

Unknown said...

Sad indeed..

Elixir said...

Oh dear! Some men just need to be castrated.

Her wedding gown sha... me likey!

Unknown said...

He's a barbarian; just look how sad she is. Not even a lilttle smile. Na wa o.



#TeamBlessed#

Unknown said...

Too bad. Sorry 4her

Anonymous said...

Reminds me of that horrible episode six of the game of thrones...just sad

Eno said...

Na wah oooo

Mzz_Mary said...

Useless mofo
God will Deff punish him

lami said...

This world is such a crazy place, full of sick people.

Redcandy said...

This is so disheartening! No bride should be so unhappy on her wedding day. I feel so sorry for her.

Ahmadu Bello said...

It's one thing to even be married off to an animal. How about when he takes over you in bed? Uuugh! Disgusting to the core! She would prefer to die, I'm sure.

Unknown said...

She fit kill am 4 night or even during fuckrape sef.
I no fit even sleep with woman wey no like me cos my penis no go ever stand up (a natural saving grace that has been bestowed upon me by God).
Nazhud is a gonna cos the bride's eyes says it all.

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Anonymous said...

All I can say is in Islam any child or woman have right to denounce it no matter circumstances... and besides they asked her almost 3ce and she said yes! I don't think they forced her.
It's Russia they don't play with law.

Unknown said...

Oooh poor baby

Lilian Fc Barcelona said...

Na wa o.

Anonymous said...

Saddest Bride ever.

dudette said...

Wow dis is heart breaking.... but if she kills the man now then it would become a crime right? smh

Anonymous said...

Saddest Bride ever.

Unknown said...

This thing is too long nauuu

Juleslouis said...

Oh No. What a beauty. Stories like this just makes me appreciate where i am.

Anonymous said...

The heart of men is so wicked

Unknown said...

How I wish she is getting married to her choice of man in that lovely flawless wedding gown

Subomi said...

if she turn into a snake now and bite his D at night they will say her mum raised her a witch

Unknown said...

Chai. Nne runaway

Unknown said...

So much injustice in thé world.

Unknown said...

Hmmmmmmmm" child not Bride"

Unknown said...

"Child not Bride"

Pro said...

What joy will the man derive from this woman it's written all over her face she doesn't love this man. I thought this happens only in naija movies I've seen it here.

That vuvuzela P guy

dessymal said...

What a pity...poor girl

Unknown said...

Ohhh!this is really sad...

Anonymous said...

@lwkmd,dis typical yoruba man, are you ok at all, what is lovely about this?

Unknown said...

@mrs oby, God is your strength.

Unknown said...

@kween, Chechnya is not an "advanced and enlightened" country " They are muslims. U can thank me later

Anonymous said...

*heart of muslims

Anonymous said...

It is heartless comments that make me question. These Chechnya people are not living under democratic rule and the girl's life and family was threatened...so is that not coercion? Please dont say things like this.

Anonymous said...

Reminds me of Oshiomole & Iara's wedding...

Anonymous said...

You are retarded .

Unknown said...

Yea... d pictures of her wedding gown wer actually beautiful...

Buh wait... Is it by force??? A teen for dat mata... dat man must suffer... oloshi
* * * Linda's 1st Daughter * * *

Unknown said...

Na Ur own worse pass o... buh U didn't frown ds way, I guess?
* * * Linda's 1st Daughter * *

ary said...

Somehow I feel this is not going to end well!

yabsy said...

Poor girl
This is so oooo wrong. It's obvious she doesn't love the bigot!

And he will now sleep with her by force again! Na wah oooo. Parents sef!

Unknown said...

Perverts I pity the poor girl

ellaiscrystal@yahoo.com said...

I really feel for this girl

Anonymous said...

Obviously you didnt read the part that said she was threatened to be kidnapped so let them ask her 100 times her saying yes is out of fear and duress nothing more.

Emmanuel Fan said...

Lovely couple, they looks good together!Baby don't worry, you will get over your little boyfriend. Mrs Akwu did and she is now happy!

Unknown said...

EEYA...WHY NA

Anonymous said...

My frnd did u read where they threatened to kidnap her or her family if she refuses? Yarning opaka mtcheew

KWEEN said...

"I must comment 1st syndrome". He didn't even read the post.

KWEEN said...

Money making machine, I'd bet you don't know that I wrote the advanced and enlightened in quotation marks to emphasize the sarcasm. I have no thanks to offer you by the way.

Sephiroth said...

Your foolishness knows no beginning nor end. Apparently you either didn't read that she was forced or your patriarchal inclination is soo thick. No doubt if you have the power you would do worse..question is would men loke you put your daughters through this kinda of trauma? mumu

Anonymous said...

Sharia allows it doesn't mean you should force someone who doesn't want it to get married. If both parties want to be polygamous then sharia gives the go ahead. But we've interpreted the religion/law to suit our animalistic desires and views. It's a shame

Unknown said...

So sad...

Anonymous said...

poor girl, she looks so sad...i cant imagine when she will have to watch the dirty old man take his clothes off to sleep with her *ewwwwwww,dirty old pig* hell is waiting for him. Russia is just a terrible country. smh

Anonymous said...

Imagine marriage by threats & terror... real hell on earth.. old man is overdue 4 death!!!

Unknown said...

D girl is vry pretty n d dress is lovely as well bt vry bad n sad occasion, doing d ryt tin @ d vry wrong tym. I pity d poor girl o

Unknown said...

If dis girl poison dis stupid fool now, they will say she commit murder whereas death is what dis useless man deserve! Rubbish!! **Richyflora**

Unknown said...

This is really sad....

Oskirin said...

jus can't imagine wht ds girl is 2ru nw.ds is forced marriage.she can neva enjoy it.oga police wht else are u lukin 4? won't b surprise 1 day n learn d girl don kill herself n d man.ds is bad....

Anonymous said...

Did someone call Russia an advanced and enlightened country?

Anonymous said...

The 17year olds that marry old men in Nigeria do it happily because Nigerians worship money and comfort.

AG Barbie gurl said...

OMG!!!

prettiyz said...

What kind of injustice is this

Unknown said...

to be honest with you it the way of their life over there i watch such some tree to four years ago a some country in Russia go to Al Jazera you will see it there.it was documented there.

Anonymous said...

Is she the one that said it or a story?
Sometimes u guys have to reason b4 attacking

Unknown said...

She can run away ooo cos she is not happy

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