"Rape is Rape, Regardless of Who the Face of the Accused is” - Stephanie Linus
I am distraught and devastated to hear of the recent allegation of rape brought against a relative of mine, Daniel Okereke (my brother).
While it is a very difficult time for me, and my family; I feel the need to make clear my position, lest there be any doubt. Rape is rape, regardless of who the face of the accused is.
Indeed,
the irony is not lost on me. I have spent my lifelong career
advocating and living my conviction that women around the world should
be able to live free of violence, sexual harassment or any form
of abuse against their persons. This conviction led me to be involved in
numerous initiatives combating violence against women in several
countries including the U.S, Liberia and Sierra Leone.
The
conviction also led me to place much of my energy on my work
with Vesico Vaginal Fistula (VVF), a passion that dates back to my time
at the University of Calabar.
As
a student, I heard a story about young girls who had been forced into
early marriage and were suffering the negative and embarrassing effects
of VVF. The story stayed in my consciousness and drove me, for years, to
seek ways to raise awareness on the condition; leading to my work with
a team of dedicated doctors to carry out repair surgeries for
VVF victims across the country; and my self-produced, soon to be
released movie, ‘DRY.’
So,
again, it is indeed heart breaking for me to receive and deal with news
alleging a family member of mine is an alleged perpetrator of sexual
violence against a woman. I am devastated.
This
case is now in Nigeria’s criminal justice system as the accused awaits
arraignment. I have also encouraged and assured the alleged victim of my
stance against rape and applaud her for her bravery to upset the
culture of silence, in Nigeria; even as I accord deference and
patiently wait for the criminal justice system to determine the guilt or
innocence of my brother.
For
Nigerian press and blogs; I call on you to please report this case in
an ethical manner. I am a married woman living my life. The alleged
transgression of my relative does not make it mine. The focus should be
the impact of rape on the alleged victim, and resources for other
alleged victims, not me.
Some
members of the press and blogs have turned me into the accuser; using
my name for sensational headlines and putting my images, exclusively, in
their stories. This is a form of victimization of me as a woman, its
unethical and extremely hurtful. I am not the alleged accused.
I
therefore please ask all bloggers and the media who have placed my
pictures and name to this story to refrain from further using me to
sensationalise this story.
I thank my fans, and all well-wishers for your continued support and ask for your continued prayers.
God bless.
237 comments:
«Oldest ‹Older 201 – 237 of 237Eiyaaa! Sory ooo, u hear? Linda nd frnds she una hear am sooo?
Sharrap there! All these illiterates. First Ndi is former NSE DG and not SEC. Also Stephanie is her niece so yes, he is related to both women. When you're not sure, don't speak.
Love steph the more...God bless ur understanding. Blogs n media houses stop using names anyhow to sell ur stories. lumiismith@gmail.com
So the male should?!!!!........#justsaying
THYWILL OKAPARA . YOU ARE A WISE MAN. PPL SHLD READ HIS COMMENT.
It's hurt so bad especially when you are a public figure. It's really embarrassing and shameful.
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Linda no mind her continue with your work,the day her brother tried the shit with me,he called her on the phone and she responsed.telling me that nothing will happened,so all this is just bobo.you are only after your image think about his victims.your brother has always be a rapist and you know that.Go and help him.Linda ikeji blog best ever.
This is why i like Stephanie. I wish more Nigerians will do this. We must all condemn evil. Very well said.
My love and respect for u just increased a thousand times... very well said..
I didn't know they were related.
I like this woman.she never cease to amaze me.Good woman.This is what other poeple need to do
Simply Put!!
Praying 4 u
U dis Jenny idiot, i tink u shud stop commenting wen u don't v anything to say dumb brain!
Foolish girl
For d 1st time here u made do much sense in ur comment kip it up gay.
This reminds me of her role in the Nollywood movie: "Last girl standing" she was raped by Jim iyke who was a serial rapist in that movie and she was the last girl standing. Arinola has choosen the role of Stephanie while her rapist brother took the character of Jim Iyke.
Long throat. Very soon all in ur bid for osho free you will follow a man then later on start screaming rape. Go and work hard, make ur money and give out to the less privilege.
LETTER TO STEPH OKEREKE : Madam Celebrity, as much as we respect your stand on this issue, I guess your brother must hav been bragging and luring young ladies with your fame claiming he's your brother, the love they have for you on tv maybe one of the reason he was able to confuse them easily, now that the deed is done... You hav no right to caution the bloggers not to push the story with your name involved. As long as this beast is your blood.. It's your cross my dear... And please make sure u do not influence the case in court with your name or hubby's money coz we are watching .. He must rot in jail or else make he Comot for Lagos. #ConcernedMale #FatherOfACuteDaughter.
This lady is intelligent. thats so true. benotekcomputers@gmail.com
Please have sense nau! God...
It's good she cleared her name... Nice one. lilianokafor09@yahoo.com
lol.... at least she no defend her brother
Stephenie I appreciate your courage, Good talk.
Stephanie that was a good one, thanks for your courage.
You are the irrational fool here. Your points are baseless . She should disown her brother really? Is that what you would do? All she's asking is for the public and bloggers to be a little humane and face the case rather than treat her as the culprit. You're here accusing her all over again. How then is it her fault that while she was building her name and career a rapist was grooming himself. How then is that her fault. Smh for some of you. You just must murder her which ever way along as she's in the lime light.
Wow! Am glad you have spoken out. Because this guy has been a real terror for so long even in the village in Ngor Okpala Imo State. Where “Daniel Okereke” carries guns and the fear of Daniel is the begging of wisdom. The worst thing is that your parents condone it. He always boast’s that his aunty former DG Nigerian stock exchange connections places him above the law and untouchable.
My point is you people have known this all the while it was only a matter of time. And God eventually exposed this!
If you do not condone it why allow it continue to happen this long. Its unfortunate that your career is at stake and he is your brother. But It is what it is and must be treated as such .
Why?
are u sure he hasnt raped a relative before? and am sure his family knew abt his behavior but decided to keep quiet. It could be the heap of curses placed on this boy that made stephenie barren(u cannot be spoiling other peoples sister and expect yours 2 be blessed, its not posible)
GOOD 4 U STEPH'.
It is not good for the media to drag your name into this but you were aware of your brothers I'll behavior, what did you do to stop him? Do not star you do not.
This bastard called Daniel had sex with my girlfriend back in unilag couple of years ago.Used 50k to entice her.Good his acts have caught up with him.The idiot lives in Ikeja.Unfortunately, i have moved on, but glad he has been caught and should be jailed.Punk ass
STUPID STEPHANIE, DO NOT USE YOUR BROTHER TO REVIVE YOUR FADING ACTING CAREER.
PLEASE ALLOW THE POLICE AND THE COURT TO DO THEIR JOB BEFORE CONDEMNING YOUR BROTHER.
WE ALL CONDEMN RAPE BUT THAT GIRL'S STORY DOES NOT ADD UP.
Immediate elder brother. War a shayme.
Eeyah, Stephanie sorry. u can't blame the media jare, it's ur brother that dragged d good name u have built into the mud. Charity begins at home. Your brother also used ur name to deceive the girls esp from the 2 testimonies we read from previous posts. The girls both said, they took him for his words because he mentioned names of respectable people in the society.
There's no way ur name won't keep popping up. Unfortunately, most beasts like this guy come from good homes. This will teach them a lesson. They need to know the impact that such evil act will have on their family as well. If they have this in mind, they would try to avoid acts that would tarnish the image of their family and relatives at large. Be that as it may, media, pls know how u report this. Biko.
He is a serial rapist. He derives pleasure in inflicting injury on his sex partners and then rapes them. His people know about this...so they can't defend him! To the girls, pls, go for HIV test...pls!
God bless u constative.com.
When daniel released his abum a while back Stepanie was there doing promo !
Besides his parents and family knew all along. In fact the family have had many of Daniel's rape report. It is new to the public but not to his family. If they had corrected him on time or reported to the police maybe thier high and mighty family name wont have been so damaged.
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