Dear LIB readers: My husband called me ode for texting his mistress
From a female LIB reader
Dear
LIB, please advice. A certain girl my husband had sexual relations with
kept texting him “hey boo”, “hey hun”, asking for skype dates and
such…and he used to reply her. When I found out, I obviously stated it
wasn’t acceptable and for a while he stopped. Until she sent him a
message recently saying she missed him so much and so on and so forth. So, I sent the babe a message saying it wasn’t acceptable and she needed to
chill. She responded saying he was like her brother (they lived
together for a while and were in a sexual relationship) and I was coming
at “my sister-in-law”..lol. Now the craziest thing is this..she told my husband that I texted her and my husband's response to me was: “why are
you going about texting my friends, how can you stoop so low..you are
such an ode”. To say I was dumbfounded will be an understatement. Don't know how to react to this
U ladies are a trip. What are U achieving by attacking the poster? The lady who wrote acted foolishly. She needs to face her hubby and leave small babes outside alone
Men will be men don't you get it?!!! Woman tighten up ur game and stop wasting time whining ... As for pple wondering why the guy cheated... Remove the log in your own eyes first before you think of taking out the speck in another person's eye... This is reality where any thing can happen.
She sounds like she has the lowest of self esteem, but how wont she? When she takes all the bullshit her husband dishes to her? Men will treat you like a door mat as long as you allow them..As for Y'all supporting a man for calling his wife ODE for whatever reason are Ass wipes....Bishop and Wilhelminina are the biggest Ass wipes...can't help but wonder how some of you grew up, must be in bitter /broken homes...Where is the Love and respect a man should have for his wife? Texting his mistress was wrong but that man needs a hard knock on his head for calling her an 'Ode'...And please this' keep praying for him thing I keep hearing gets on my very last nerve, why are women always the ones in that position? Am a Christian and I strongly believe in prayers, but sometimes what we suffer are as results of bad decisions we have made in the past, I think this is a case of marrying just a man, not a better half, living in a house, not a home#So sad
I can tell by this your response your not married, cos u won't react like this if u r.... Bishop dammy is correct, no need 4 dis insult madam salmalena, the lady need the wisdom of solomon If u start shoutin and crying and everything in marriAge u won't stay there long and u won't b happy, instead of talking about it pray about it.
Wilheminna abi na wilheNIGER is obviously fucking another woman's husband and living with him.. that's why she would say such. But its none of myyyyyyyyyyyyyy.......
Wilheminna abi na wilheNIGER is obviously fucking another woman's husband and living with him.. that's why she would say such. But its none of myyyyyyyyyyyyyy.......
Bishop Dammy,,,seriously i would have blasted you so much but i decided to sheath my sword because of ur title......helloooo Bishop,are you for real???
Anon Oct 3 3:00pm.....its obvious u have no regards for ur wife and u dont even care how she feels.just hear urself speak."she's still in my house".....how callous and insensitive could u sound??so u think u are doing her a favor by allowing her to remain in ur house?u dont appreciate her one bit and u talk like u were forced to marry her. by d time u are hooked in one trouble now,,all those ur silly mistresses wont be there running around for u,,,it is still this same wife of urs that means nothing to u now that will be running helter skelter for u. SMH for u.
Do the same thing to him, as in arrange with someone as if you are cheating on him too. Let him read your text messages and so on. He will sit up and be serious with your marriage. I once did it and it worked
I'm sorry but was she expecting her husband to throw her a parade for what's she's done. 1. NO MATTER how loving the husband is, he never wants his wife and girlfriend to relate under any circumstances. 2. Though he's wrong, she shouldn't have gone behind his back like that.. It bruises the male ego. 3.Sternly but nicely tell him your mind and lay down some conditions.
LIB HAS A REPUTATION FOR HABOURING THE MOST ASININE COMMENTERS. ARE THESE HUMAN BEINGS OR MINDLESS ZOMBIES POSTING ON THIS BLOG?? WHEN WILL NIGERIAN WOMEN WAKE UP AND REALIZE THAT MARRIAGE IS NOT A DO OR DIE AFFAIR? DEAR POSTER, I AM SORRY FOR THE UNFORTUNATE SITUATION YOU HAVE FOUND YOURSELF. YOU ARE NOT AN 'ODE' FOR CALLING UR HUBBY OUT ON HIS UNACCEPTABLE BEHAVIOUR. YOU ARE NOT AN 'ODE' FOR TEXTING HIS JEZEBEL OF A MISTRESS, AND TELLING HER TO LEAVE UR HUSBAND ALONE. YOU ARE CERTAINLY NOT AN 'ODE' FOR DEMANDING RESPECT AND FIDELITY FROM A MAN WHO TOOK A VOW, BEFORE GOD AND MAN, TO LOVE YOU UNCONDITIONALLY. I PITY NIGERIAN WOMEN, FOR THEY DO NOT KNOW THE TRUE MEANING OF LOVE AND WILL NEVER BE ABLE TO COMMAND IT. DO THEY EVEN LOVE THEMSELVES? I DOUBT IT. I PITY NIGERIAN WOMEN BECAUSE THEY'VE BEEN BRAINWASHED BY THEIR MOTHERS, AUNTIES, FRIENDS, BY SOCIETY AND BY FAKE CHURCHES,INTO ACCEPTING AND CONDONING ADULTERY;A CAPITAL SIN GOD DETESTS. A MAN IS CHEATING ON YOU BLATANTLY, AND YOU ARE TOLD TO GET ON YOUR KNEES AND PRAY FOR HIM?? DO YOU WOMEN REALIZE THE SPIRITUAL AND HEALTH IMPLICATIONS OF ADULTERY? ONE WEAK MOMENT IS BAD ENOUGH, BUT TO KEEP A MISTRESS, AND THEN EXPECT YOU TO LOOK THE OTHER WAY??? WHAT IS MARRIAGE? IS IT JUST PLAYING HOUSE? MY ADVICE TO THE POSTER. YOU NEED TO SIT DOWN AND DETERMINE WHAT IS MOST IMPORTANT TO YOU IN LIFE. TO BE IN A BAD MARRIAGE AND MISERABLE, OR TO BE SINGLE BUT FREE, AT PEACE,HEALTHY AND HAPPY?? PLS REMEMBER THAT BEING MARRIED OR SINGLE DOES NOT GUARANTEE HAPPINESS. ONLY A REAL RELATIONSHIP WITH GOD DOES. BUT IF YOU DECIDE TO REMAIN IN THE MARRIAGE, MAKE SURE UR STAY IS WORTHWHILE. THIS MAN DOES NOT RESPECT NOR LOVE YOU. LOVE IS NOT SELFISH. IT IS SACRIFICE. IF HE IS NOT READY TO BE FAITHFUL TO YOU, PLEASE CONSIDER LEAVING HIM. YOU DO NOT HAVE TO STAY IN A BAD MARRIAGE JUST TO PLEASE PEOPLE AND SOCIETY. WE CAME INTO THIS WORLD ALONE, AND WE WILL LEAVE ALONE. IF YOU DECIDE TO LEAVE, SERVE GOD WITH ALL YOUR HEART, BODY AND SOUL, AND HE WILL FILL YOU WITH MORE LOVE, JOY AND PEACE THAN TEN HUSBANDS COULD EVER GIVE YOU. GOODLUCK.
Have you ever asked yourself y some men cheat? ...truth is most wives are not interested in satisfying their husbands. The gals outside do a better job of satisfying us.
you wives should be satisfied that he didn't send you packing
no man jokes with woman who tries to satisfy him.
Most men just get to pay bills and get nothing from this wives.
So it's this marriage everyone is running into? So tan abi so ku? What ill say is just continue praying move closer to God. Don't seem bothered. Start dressing well, don't cheat o do as if it's not bothering u. Cos what u did might have pushed him more into her hands. U av to be smart about this, and dnt gist ur friends. They go tru worse and won't tell u. It iswell...
No I am not married, but will soon be :). Ma'am please apologise for everything and seek counselling it will give you more insight on what to do personally - the Lord allows for marriage to break on two grounds adultery and death - if this is the time at which you beleive that nothing would ever get better I suggest you see yourself out of the door - you deserve every bit of happiness too
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«Oldest ‹Older 201 – 233 of 233Babe. It takes an "ODE" to marry an "ODE". QED
Anon 3:00pm na mumu u marry that na why
If he doesn't agree to be hugged nko? Trust GOD and do good! Pray and ask GOD to give you peace.
Thank you SalmaLena. You took the words right out of my mouth.
Kill ke! Ko le to yen!
thought it was only me, same issue for days
TOO BAD
I knw u won't post my comment. Av checked oda updates where I commented cnt find some
Naso
U ladies are a trip. What are U achieving by attacking the poster? The lady who wrote acted foolishly. She needs to face her hubby and leave small babes outside alone
Men will be men don't you get it?!!! Woman tighten up ur game and stop wasting time whining ... As for pple wondering why the guy cheated... Remove the log in your own eyes first before you think of taking out the speck in another person's eye... This is reality where any thing can happen.
She sounds like she has the lowest of self esteem, but how wont she? When she takes all the bullshit her husband dishes to her? Men will treat you like a door mat as long as you allow them..As for Y'all supporting a man for calling his wife ODE for whatever reason are Ass wipes....Bishop and Wilhelminina are the biggest Ass wipes...can't help but wonder how some of you grew up, must be in bitter /broken homes...Where is the Love and respect a man should have for his wife? Texting his mistress was wrong but that man needs a hard knock on his head for calling her an 'Ode'...And please this' keep praying for him thing I keep hearing gets on my very last nerve, why are women always the ones in that position? Am a Christian and I strongly believe in prayers, but sometimes what we suffer are as results of bad decisions we have made in the past, I think this is a case of marrying just a man, not a better half, living in a house, not a home#So sad
Just b kiaful nne oo
I can tell by this your response your not married, cos u won't react like this if u r.... Bishop dammy is correct, no need 4 dis insult madam salmalena, the lady need the wisdom of solomon
If u start shoutin and crying and everything in marriAge u won't stay there long and u won't b happy, instead of talking about it pray about it.
My opinion so if u don't like it, waka pass mbok
Wilheminna abi na wilheNIGER is obviously fucking another woman's husband and living with him.. that's why she would say such. But its none of myyyyyyyyyyyyyy.......
...BUSINESS!
#Fizz
Wilheminna abi na wilheNIGER is obviously fucking another woman's husband and living with him.. that's why she would say such. But its none of myyyyyyyyyyyyyy.......
...BUSINESS!
#Fizz
Women stop looking through your spouses' phones. It never ends well!
Why do u guys keep pouting spinsterhood like its an insult?
ApoloWAT u are a joke man well to mi I wld say u did wrong texting the chic which u don't a any probs wiv u shld face ur hubby and deal wiv it
Foolish Wilma or wat eva u call Ur foolish self
Bishop Dammy,,,seriously i would have blasted you so much but i decided to sheath my sword because of ur title......helloooo Bishop,are you for real???
Wilhemina....just one word to describe u...FOOL
Anon Oct 3 3:00pm.....its obvious u have no regards for ur wife and u dont even care how she feels.just hear urself speak."she's still in my house".....how callous and insensitive could u sound??so u think u are doing her a favor by allowing her to remain in ur house?u dont appreciate her one bit and u talk like u were forced to marry her. by d time u are hooked in one trouble now,,all those ur silly mistresses wont be there running around for u,,,it is still this same wife of urs that means nothing to u now that will be running helter skelter for u. SMH for u.
Do the same thing to him, as in arrange with someone as if you are cheating on him too. Let him read your text messages and so on. He will sit up and be serious with your marriage. I once did it and it worked
I'm sorry but was she expecting her husband to throw her a parade for what's she's done. 1. NO MATTER how loving the husband is, he never wants his wife and girlfriend to relate under any circumstances. 2. Though he's wrong, she shouldn't have gone behind his back like that.. It bruises the male ego. 3.Sternly but nicely tell him your mind and lay down some conditions.
LIB HAS A REPUTATION FOR HABOURING THE MOST ASININE COMMENTERS. ARE THESE HUMAN BEINGS OR MINDLESS ZOMBIES POSTING ON THIS BLOG??
WHEN WILL NIGERIAN WOMEN WAKE UP AND REALIZE THAT MARRIAGE IS NOT A DO OR DIE AFFAIR? DEAR POSTER, I AM SORRY FOR THE UNFORTUNATE SITUATION YOU HAVE FOUND YOURSELF. YOU ARE NOT AN 'ODE' FOR CALLING UR HUBBY OUT ON HIS UNACCEPTABLE BEHAVIOUR. YOU ARE NOT AN 'ODE' FOR TEXTING HIS JEZEBEL OF A MISTRESS, AND TELLING HER TO LEAVE UR HUSBAND ALONE. YOU ARE CERTAINLY NOT AN 'ODE' FOR DEMANDING RESPECT AND FIDELITY FROM A MAN WHO TOOK A VOW, BEFORE GOD AND MAN, TO LOVE YOU UNCONDITIONALLY. I PITY NIGERIAN WOMEN, FOR THEY DO NOT KNOW THE TRUE MEANING OF LOVE AND WILL NEVER BE ABLE TO COMMAND IT. DO THEY EVEN LOVE THEMSELVES? I DOUBT IT. I PITY NIGERIAN WOMEN BECAUSE THEY'VE BEEN BRAINWASHED BY THEIR MOTHERS, AUNTIES, FRIENDS, BY SOCIETY AND BY FAKE CHURCHES,INTO ACCEPTING AND CONDONING ADULTERY;A CAPITAL SIN GOD DETESTS. A MAN IS CHEATING ON YOU BLATANTLY, AND YOU ARE TOLD TO GET ON YOUR KNEES AND PRAY FOR HIM?? DO YOU WOMEN REALIZE THE SPIRITUAL AND HEALTH IMPLICATIONS OF ADULTERY? ONE WEAK MOMENT IS BAD ENOUGH, BUT TO KEEP A MISTRESS, AND THEN EXPECT YOU TO LOOK THE OTHER WAY??? WHAT IS MARRIAGE? IS IT JUST PLAYING HOUSE? MY ADVICE TO THE POSTER. YOU NEED TO SIT DOWN AND DETERMINE WHAT IS MOST IMPORTANT TO YOU IN LIFE. TO BE IN A BAD MARRIAGE AND MISERABLE, OR TO BE SINGLE BUT FREE, AT PEACE,HEALTHY AND HAPPY?? PLS REMEMBER THAT BEING MARRIED OR SINGLE DOES NOT GUARANTEE HAPPINESS. ONLY A REAL RELATIONSHIP WITH GOD DOES. BUT IF YOU DECIDE TO REMAIN IN THE MARRIAGE, MAKE SURE UR STAY IS WORTHWHILE. THIS MAN DOES NOT RESPECT NOR LOVE YOU. LOVE IS NOT SELFISH. IT IS SACRIFICE. IF HE IS NOT READY TO BE FAITHFUL TO YOU, PLEASE CONSIDER LEAVING HIM. YOU DO NOT HAVE TO STAY IN A BAD MARRIAGE JUST TO PLEASE PEOPLE AND SOCIETY. WE CAME INTO THIS WORLD ALONE, AND WE WILL LEAVE ALONE. IF YOU DECIDE TO LEAVE, SERVE GOD WITH ALL YOUR HEART, BODY AND SOUL, AND HE WILL FILL YOU WITH MORE LOVE, JOY AND PEACE THAN TEN HUSBANDS COULD EVER GIVE YOU. GOODLUCK.
Have you ever asked yourself y some men cheat? ...truth is most wives are not interested in satisfying their husbands. The
gals outside do a better job of satisfying us.
you wives should be satisfied that he didn't send you packing
no man jokes with woman who tries to satisfy him.
Most men just get to pay bills and get nothing from this wives.
I
Anonymous 5:27..God bless yhu
So it's this marriage everyone is running into? So tan abi so ku? What ill say is just continue praying move closer to God. Don't seem bothered. Start dressing well, don't cheat o do as if it's not bothering u. Cos what u did might have pushed him more into her hands. U av to be smart about this, and dnt gist ur friends. They go tru worse and won't tell u. It iswell...
No I am not married, but will soon be :). Ma'am please apologise for everything and seek counselling it will give you more insight on what to do personally - the Lord allows for marriage to break on two grounds adultery and death - if this is the time at which you beleive that nothing would ever get better I suggest you see yourself out of the door - you deserve every bit of happiness too
Ode shayy.......stop your wifely duties and we'll figure out who the ode is
apologize for comfronting d girl?u r not ok,wot r u men takin woman to b?i no blame una men,na our woman wey no no der right i blame.mitchweeeee
Useless man
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