Dear LIB readers: My husband called me ode for texting his mistress
From a female LIB reader
Dear
LIB, please advice. A certain girl my husband had sexual relations with
kept texting him “hey boo”, “hey hun”, asking for skype dates and
such…and he used to reply her. When I found out, I obviously stated it
wasn’t acceptable and for a while he stopped. Until she sent him a
message recently saying she missed him so much and so on and so forth. So, I sent the babe a message saying it wasn’t acceptable and she needed to
chill. She responded saying he was like her brother (they lived
together for a while and were in a sexual relationship) and I was coming
at “my sister-in-law”..lol. Now the craziest thing is this..she told my husband that I texted her and my husband's response to me was: “why are
you going about texting my friends, how can you stoop so low..you are
such an ode”. To say I was dumbfounded will be an understatement. Don't know how to react to this
My dear it has happened to m b4. Its a way for him to cover up. A kind of attack b4 u r attacked thingy. Ignore him. But pls leave the girl alone and face him
I do hope dis get posted.Uve not done anything wrong dear. Be indifferent to wat ur husband says. U wuldnt wanna raise trouble in ur home now. Let peace reign!
You are stupid, your spouse will cheat on you, every one u relate will will cheat you, business partner or whatever, even your children and then they will call you ode
Eyaaa poster! Na so d tin pain u reach? Ehee atleast 2mr u dnt go to ur husband's fone and even wen u do confront him n not his gf. Ode + anuohia raise to power failure! Idiot.
You know... iv always thought you're a girl... now tha sunmola made reference to "your wife"... i'm like... is wilheminna moses a man or a woman... please clarify that! *no pun intended*
@ moses, you are the most irrational fool I have come in contact with In recent time. It's my sincere pray that your loved ones would cheat on and also call all sort of names.
Linda refused to post my 1st comment so again here I am 4 d callous insensitive stupid shallow minded moses.If it was ur sister would u be giving such advice? N if by any chance u truly r a woman den u're a big disgrace or maybe u've snatched sum1's spouse before dat's y d lady's story is like salt to ur injury. Ladies abeg na let's stop dis idea of goin out with people's husbands,we too will be wives sumday! We cn change d world 1 woman @ a tym.
He had the effrontery to call you Ode because of the way u handled it from the onset, you caught him cheating on you and I guess you forgave him so easily without letting him know the magnitude of his offence. If you had threatened to walkout of the marriage or taken other decisive actions,he wouldn't have called you such and he would have warned his mistress to desist from texting him. You allowed him play god, imagine you doing the same thing you caught him doing. You need to take a strong stand as it pertains what goes on in your home,before he invited the mistress to come live in your home.
Hmmm Bonario, she threatens her hubby dat she's gonna leave n he says ok... Dat wil b d real slap. Wud say she rily shudn't hav sent dat msg in d 1st place. She has no issue wiv d girl buh her hubby hu has her n stil wants odas. Experience n pressure has taught me differently...
Don't give judgment cos u're not in dis womans position, if I were in her shoes, I will arrange 4 thugs d@ will beat her real gud cos she knows d man is married, she just wanna cause another woman pains but pains awaits her when she 2 will say I do. Women! We are truly d problems 2 ourselves
Telling him she wld walk out nd d guy says okay wat will she gain? Babe y send d txt in d 1st place? U have got no business wit d chic. I have done dis b4 and belive it dint go down well, d chic insulted d life out of me and she said I came looking out for her nd not d oda way round. When tinz like this happen babe take it easy, talk to him abt it wen u are calm and if possible try make it like a joke but a straight 1 and laugh it off. Ur husby wld somehow know dat it gets to u wen he does dat but don't pick a fight
Bona, u r clearly not married. My wife once told me, some years ago, she would walk out. I offered to send a driver with a truck to pack her stuff. I was very serious too! She's still in my house....
Hmmmm, Naija women and this suffering and smiling while I prove to the world that I'm happy, depressed as hell, oppressed-to-the-core syndrome they keep exhibiting and encouraging whenever their husbands treat them how a wife shouldn't be treated sha. Although it's not completely their fault but the society they live in. The biggest issue there is the acceptance and enabling of wrong and home-wrecking behaviors and attitudes from husbands to start with. If you don't try to stamp it out now, what legacy are we going to leave our daughters as a culture for a happy and wholesome home in the future? Or how would a man be motivated to change for the better and for the happiness of his family when he goes out to chase and sleep with different things but knows his wife will be encouraged/advised to adore him more, pray for him, exercise patience until he's tired of running around and decides to come home? For that kind of man, there is NO motivation whatsoever to do the right thing. His wife seems to support his behavior and so does the society in general. Any human being would choose to eat his cake and have it too if that was an option and Nigerian women seem to always make this an option for their men. It can't be easy for men like that to see women as fellow humans with feelings just like them. As far as that man is concerned, he's happy and his family is doing just fine! Of course until he brings diseases home to his wife or his concubines start getting jealous and they try to wipe our his family so they can move in or the "fine sharp girl" one way or the other cleans him out financially and emotionally even mentally in some cases. Women need to start acting and showing that they have human feelings and start encouraging their husbands to treat them as such.
Hmmmmmm,Nawao,but sincerely,guys are simply unbelievable sometimes on how we treat women,we need to show women the respect they truly deserve,as for the wife do your self a favor and stop snooping around o,pray more for your husband and family.. PHOTOS:Meet Lionel Messi's Parents,Two Brothers,Only Sister,Girlfriend And Son
Hmmmmmm,Nawao,but sincerely,guys are simply unbelievable sometimes on how we treat women,we need to show women the respect they truly deserve,as for the wife do your self a favor and stop snooping around o,pray more for your husband and family.. PHOTOS:Meet Lionel Messi's Parents,Two Brothers,Only Sister,Girlfriend And Son
Your husband is a complete maga and completely insensitive to your feelings! He might not be doing anything with the lady now but the fact that he keeps in touch says that even if it is not conscious, he is open to the option of infidelity. I mean he should be sensitive to the fact that you need to mark your territory. He should know that!!!!
Wow, this isn't funny.so she even had the audacity to state how "related" they re lol..a loving husband should protect n respects his wife's interest first...this na marriage matter I honestly don't know how to advice you to react. But be slow to act...use wisdom.
you are not an Ode, but sending a text message is not the best way to go about it, men are always looking for excuse to cover up their wrong doing, just don't be bothered so much, make your husband jealous by telling him that guys toasted you in the shop,market or mull but you simply walked out on them because it is wrong for a married woman to play around, such stories will make him come home
U r super smart onyeka! Works everytime. Ignore both him n d babe. Act like u don't kno d mistress. Let him b aware of d admiration u get outside. Lol. He will turn around and start tracking u. Mistress ko. Nb:- dis only works if ur hubby/bf is terrified of losing u. If u r d type dat chased/manipulated ur man to marry u out of pity, OYO is ur case.
You shouldnt have sent out the text message in the first place but since it happened that way already, You need to apply wisdom here dear as being vindictive wont help. Be more prayerful also.
You dont know how to react to it huh??? Dont worry, keep being a mumu and ode ok!!!! Did you force him to marry you.....abi you married him ni?????
Woman better use your tongue to count the teeth you have left.....Rubbish....why are women always afraid to put their foot down....what would he do if you had that kind of conversation with an ex boyfriend.....
why is cheating common with married me of nawadays huh! nne please try and speak to him in a mild way that what he is doing is wrong,dont use harsh voice
Work on the source not the end user. Remember it's Africa & naturally you cant fight your husband & win. Apply Bible principles with much humility...don't bother ever going for the other woman. best wishes
why did you txt his mistress???Settle with ur husband cos its not her business.. Men get so mad when you confront their mistress. i did it once and will try not to do it again
My dear take heart no be everything person dey fight wit ordinary eye. go on your knees and do what u know best. you are not an ode youu are only protecting your interest. fight for your own but its not by mouth only pray! pray!! Pray hard!!!
Lmao funniest thing av heard all week. Babe he is your husband nd honestly he need a lil lesson on respect cus that was an insult to you and your marriage and to say the least the bastard is still cheating. Obviously he respects the bitch more than you. Better do something before something do you
But he is right. Maybe ode is extreme but really you have stooped low. Never text the mistress, that way you let her know shes winning and disturbing your peace. You are the mrs, she will never win, why bother ya head again? My opinion sha
Lolz... Love hurts.. Well, texting her wzn't cool buh one could understand ur reasons.. And for ur husband to say that to yu means he doesn't hv regards for yu...
The only 'ode' here is your husband for still maintaining a relationship with his ex, who seems hell bent on getting between you too. Very soon she will be coming round thats how it starts. And before you know it in your marital bed! Its better to be an ode now rather than a divorcee later. You need to nip it in the bud now!!!!!!! The girl has ulterior motives.
Abeg she be real ode...she should talk things out with her husband.. He has the problem.. He didn't give the girl boundaries... Some girls sha...I can't imagine myself sending a,message to my ex..starting with hello boo...for what?I can relate well but not hello boo...and no godforsaken ex should try to crap,with me.
He called you 'ode' and u r dumbfounded ,wat if he nau calls u 'Oloriburuku' u will faint?LMAO. Instead of u 2 trace d gal 2 her house wit any of ur younger ones and tell dem 2 beat d 'ode' out of her,u came here asking dumb questions. Onpe 4 u.
It is indeed a shame that a man will treat his princess in such a manner. He needs to stop his inappropriate act and the girl needs to know her bounds. Because we expect men to cheat doesn't make it right to do so.
Speak to your husband about it, and explain to him that the relationship with his mistress is inappropriate and uncomfortable, let alone the name calling.
Confirm Ode! don't go near your hubby's phone... didn't your mum advise you before going into marriage? Has he threatened you with divorce? does he not cater for you? Stop bitching around him unless you are jobless QED
I wish you asked Librs before you sent the girl a text, you've given him a chance to watch his back..you need to make him comfortable at home and also keep tabs on him
Na wa. 4 men oo; dat was hw sum1 text my hubby on the 1st and @the end of the msg the person wrote I Love U; asked hubby to call the no he refuse. I told him am watching wit 3D
Babe he is cheating on you...same tin happened to me. Him nt callin the number simply meaans ur nt dt important. I went through a long phase of denial....its been 5months and am still nt over it...when people show u who dey are believe it, don't wait for dem to show u over nd over again...I saw the signs frm the beginning but I chose to ignore it cuz I loved him..am sure u saw the signs too.....I Wud advise yung ppl to date for a long while before getting married...cuz if u marry the wrong guy u re doomed nd wnt be ever happy
You have made the worst mistake a wife should make, but is not without correction, if only you will listen. Do not see your husband female friends as your rivals that is what your husband means by his statement that you "stoop low" or that you are "ode". Anytime you behave like that, you are simply telling you husband that the other woman is better than you, you need "Resilient".
Since u Don't knw u may truely be an ode! Lmaoo. Anywys I won't Tk that, if he wants an open marriage, il give him a taste of his own medicine. Figure out a way to work it out, n let him knw where it hurts.
Well, you dealt with the situation as best you felt you could. What woman in your shoes wouldn't do the same if they knew for sure that the woman in question was an ex or an ex that might just turn around not to be an ex any more. My mother always warned me never to go through my husbands phone and not to stand behind the door listening to his conversation on phone.....she would say in yoruba "ëni to ba duro si eyin ilekun a gbo nkan ti eni to wa ni eyin ilekun ngbo......igbokugbo" meaning the one who stands behind the door will hear what the one who has chosen to stand behind the door should hear....RUBBISH! its hard though cos i am also guilty of this crime, but try not to and look up to heaven instead. For your husband to have called you "öde" is totally wrong and unacceptable. You deserve his respect regardless of whatever situation you may find yourselves. Whether he is guilty or not, only God knows but please guide your own heart and mind. You'll see he"ll begin to worry when you don't ask questions anymore.Talk to God instead, it may be hard but believe he is there to listen and to act.
Well, you dealt with the situation as best you felt you could. What woman in your shoes wouldn't do the same if they knew for sure that the woman in question was an ex or an ex that might just turn around not to be an ex any more. My mother always warned me never to go through my husbands phone and not to stand behind the door listening to his conversation on phone.....she would say in yoruba "ëni to ba duro si eyin ilekun a gbo nkan ti eni to wa ni eyin ilekun ngbo......igbokugbo" meaning the one who stands behind the door will hear what the one who has chosen to stand behind the door should hear....RUBBISH! its hard though cos i am also guilty of this crime, but try not to and look up to heaven instead. For your husband to have called you "öde" is totally wrong and unacceptable. You deserve his respect regardless of whatever situation you may find yourselves. Whether he is guilty or not, only God knows but please guide your own heart and mind. You'll see he"ll begin to worry when you don't ask questions anymore.Talk to God instead, it may be hard but believe he is there to listen and to act.
U are not different from her husband. Your wife should be careful cos ur type go beat woman blue-black if she raises an eyebrow on ur cheating ways. Smh for ur African mentality!!!!!!!
a.k.a EDWIN CHINEDU AZUBUKO said... . Ur husband is stupid, insane and should be slapped for this single act no doubt..... . . ***CURRENTLY IN JUPITER***
Dont mind him he's the real ODE! How would he stoop so low to as cheating after being married?stupid man,And the lady is more stupid how on earth can one sleeps with her brother with no remorse.
Your hubby calling you ode does not mean that you are ode or are you? So what you did i feel you did de ryt tin to at least stop her from textn him, if at all they're doing anything it has to be in secret, and your hubby should show you some respects And stop leaving some controversial text messages in his phone.
The Man is an idiot,....leave him, they always regret at last,most of these Men die early due to extra marital affairs, So many widows out there,let him go and die so u could marry a better Man jare..
my dear deal with urn low self esteem. he shuddering b d one begging u. urn husband knows urn weak point days why he wants to make u feel guilty nd stupid. but in dis fight keep attacking him nd don't defend ursef or ursef action. d main point is he is cheating . pls am contesting for d miss darling product vote for me by clicking d small number box on top of my picture Renacent http:// a.pgtb.me/9dLpRd/gGwM
You are playing inferior to him, give that word back add more like anuohia,and stuff. Did your parents borrow money from him. He is cheating on u and insulting u at the same time. Make sure u have a work or something doing that brings your own money.
If you have children please face your children and be happy . Stop going through his phone because it's his privacy and if you go to court , they will say u intruded his privacy. He is a flirt for responding at all to her stupid texts. Yes ! But think of it , what if there more sis-in-law he is banging ? Make urban children the only thing tha t helps u bear d pain. It's well
He was soo nice. Ode doesn't even begin to describe your stupidity. If you'd taken it up very well the first time and made a big issue out of it, she wouldn't be sending follow up messages subsequently. Foolish lady, after she get belle finish, u go begin dey show all tour craze for Ija Orogun Premier League, quarrelling about whose turn it is to shine his Congo.
Well, she told you already he is like a brother to her. do your investigation properly before reacting. behind every successful marriage is honesty and trust.
hahaha haha..oh my daiz...u really shldnt ve texted her..it annoys me wen women comfront d gfriends...like seriously, u ave got no business with dem..handle ur husband..confrontation is like a challenge to dose bitches...it's like u refilling dere tank..
i think you should just ignore it since you are not an 'ode' beside he is indirectly calling himself the husband of an 'ode'. i want to believe the so-called sexual relationship is now in the past as the mistress confirmed that she has missed him for a long time! just tighten your grip on him to avoid any intrusion and enjoy! my own opinion
You must be a calm woman, if it's me, all hell will be let loose oo. Don't even give him space to continue because it will only get worse until ur marriage is doomed
Hi, my dear, u had absolutely no reason to text her. That's one of ur job as a wife, IGNORE. As long as u hv spoken to him bout it, leave him be. I know it hurts u, but at d end of the day, would u leave ur hubby for a low life? Also stop reading his messages, u only get hurt.
Truly u are an ode though not for the reason given by ur husband but for saying u don't know what to do..hian! Some women sha..stay there till ur 'sister-in-law' displaces u..mrs Odenson
hhm das too hilarious ur husby really went far well just settle ou things with and find out truly if da were dating mehn dawgs r really wicked.........
Looolz!!! Buh men dese days jst thnk its dia right 2act anyow evn in marriages.. Anyways, u shldnt av txted her. Its ur man u av bizness wit. If he isnt replying, she wld av stopped. She's nt talkin to herself.
Do whateva u can to protect ur home. Save ur marriage. 4get about d insult, Learn to let go of som tins. It is a woman dat kips d home and so dont let dat intruder of a girl snatch ur husband away from u. Make him understnd u dont lik d insult, 4get about it and move on.
exactly! y u texting her? is it in your powers to stop her? y not talk to your husband? you are a wife not a fellow side chick, some women are so used to losing that they don even realize when they are winning,.
And like the ode you are, your problem is that he called you an ode, not that he is cheating and still has the guts to even confront you for talking to his mistress.. mschewww
My dear.. I understand how u feel about this but must u tell the whole earth dat ur Hubby called u an Ode... Dia r tinz to be kept personal..... Preshy
I'm sorry to say that you are actually an Ode! Many things is better of when ignored than stood so low replied your hubby friends, it's madness, moron....
A man insults u n u r seeking fr advice on hw to respond? Aren't u an educated woman! Wht is wrng with u. If u dnt knw wht to do....keep staring at him.
Jst let it go, reactin wld cos more ish. Play ur role as a wife, dress charmingly, do a nice hairdo, luk gud 4 him, live ur life to d fulest n don't let ny man pull u dwn. Hope u nt a house wife sha, some men tink dey can misbehave cos dey d ones providing 4 d family. Get sth doin, don't depend on him, be submissive n respect ursef, some guys r nt worth ny ish, weda u married to dem, al dis sha depends on d husband u married. We don't knw him, u do, so don't xpect best advices here. Dere r some guys dat u jst av to respnd to save ursef d stress nxtym by nt bodarin to read his text. 'Kayliebanks'
SMH at nigerians. The same people who say westerners have no morals. Can this happen in a white marriage? What is marriage in nigeria but a wedding day and a title?
I thot I was the only one that noticed.. Linda Ikeji this is so unethical.. what if the lady didn't want the story posted here. Haba u would just go and lift stories from comment sections of Bella naija.. Dear LIB my foot
I'm sorry that he did, but u acted as one because he expected you not to have be-little yourself before his mistress.. You are higher than her in all sense, so act like it n let your act of the knowledge of who you are to him n his life, give him the remorse to apologize..
First of all,in case you don't know what "ode" means,it means you are a fool.....that truly wouldn't have happened if you didn't text the girl(that's practically so wrong)....you deal with the issue with your husband not the girl,your husband is the problem and you need to also check yourself if you are doing things he does not like that needs immediate stop not limit.
my hubby has done worse not text messages alone but i've seen used condoms and lubes.. my dear keep praying for him and take your mind off his infidel business karma is a bitch and will teach him harder lesson. you can have your own side nigga too if your strong enough to do that.
your husband was wrong for calling you an ode...and as long as ur'e not one(an ode) ignore it and move on(you can't convince a monkey that honey is sweeter than banana,but let him know how much the statement he made because of the girl hurt your feelings.
I have almost been married for 10 years and I have to say I do not like Nigerian Men. The most arrogant and selfish human beings on earth. Instead of this man to cut off this his "supposed sister", so his wife will be happy, No. He had to curse her out instead. It shows where his priority lies. If this woman had a "brother" would he like it. Biko, the nonsense Nigerian women go through is unbelievable. Abuse to the highest level. Yet the same man will open mouth and tell his people and friends that his wife is a witch. This is why I tell women to talk. Madam, go and tell his mother, sister, friends this story and trust me, he will take a different stance. Men read you bible, it says love your wives. It also says stay away from the "sisters" you have on the side.
Another thing, women and their wahala. If this so called "sister-in-law" was married and her husband had a "sister" he used to live with, would she be so accommodating. Her type person will make sure all hell breaks loose and God help the "sister-in-law", she might be a corpse in the near future. After, they will be wondering why horrible things happen to them. Madness!
@wilheminna moses or wat eva cud u listen to urself for just a second.... a man who can b sleeping with anoda woman n still insult his wife on top d matter has lost respect for himself n his wife and obviously doesnt valuee her..dat saying bros over hoes sud follow even in marriage soo u need to recheck ur logic. no offence
Fix ur home stop looking outside check ur self well if u r d course e.g may slim when he brought u after eating all the food in d house u turn to orobo why won't he look else where?
first of all, calling u ode is not good, u texting the chick aint good either but nne, do u know about this bae before u got married cos there r some problem that would be avoided if it is been handled ealier.
That rubbish, I was having issues with my husband and at the same time discovered that he was having affair with a very close friend of mine whom I help throughout school n even her family,when I confronted her, she reported me to him, we'll I moved out of the house for them and the relationship didn't last, he now desperately what me back as everybody was against him.He is telling pple that the girl is a gold digger.Well for men,they should kn that it is not every girl that is a wife material , Ezi nwanyi di uko,onu ahia ka ruby ( in Patty obasi's voice )
If na me be u I go just arrange make strt guyz beat am up con tell am make he leave their gf alone. Bet it,if he sees dat girl + oda girls nxt time he go run
Apologize and pray for the Holy spirit wisdom to restore your home! Fire doesn't quench fire! It is well. Prov 18:22. BishopDammy#
ReplyDeleteYou are a very big FOOL....apologize for what?
DeleteEyya sowie
ReplyDeleteMy dear it has happened to m b4. Its a way for him to cover up. A kind of attack b4 u r attacked thingy. Ignore him. But pls leave the girl alone and face him
DeleteI do hope dis get posted.Uve not done anything wrong dear. Be indifferent to wat ur husband says. U wuldnt wanna raise trouble in ur home now. Let peace reign!
ReplyDeleteAnd that's exactly what u are nne! Infact u are odeburuku... U dnt have respect 4 ur hubby.
ReplyDeleteYou are stupid, your spouse will cheat on you, every one u relate will will cheat you, business partner or whatever, even your children and then they will call you ode
DeleteEyaaa poster! Na so d tin pain u reach? Ehee atleast 2mr u dnt go to ur husband's fone and even wen u do confront him n not his gf. Ode + anuohia raise to power failure! Idiot.
DeleteMoses u a big fool..i pity ur wife cos it shows u don't ave respect for women...
DeleteWilheminna marry? Na who wan marry bad market??
DeleteDis is 2 strong even though d@ comment was stupid
DeleteYou father is mad....you are the ode....BASTARD
DeleteYou know... iv always thought you're a girl... now tha sunmola made reference to "your wife"... i'm like... is wilheminna moses a man or a woman... please clarify that! *no pun intended*
DeleteSunmola, u do realise Wilhemina is a woman? Sunmonu like u. Lol
Delete@ moses, you are the most irrational fool I have come in contact with In recent time. It's my sincere pray that your loved ones would cheat on and also call all sort of names.
Delete@ moses, I don't know if you a man, but if you are, you must be a very porous character.
DeleteSunmola, she's female. She just obviously doesn't have respect for herself as a female.
DeleteLoL... Wilheminna, na you fit that pessin wey carry long mouth chuk inside your comment. Chisos!!! Hehehehe...
DeleteLinda refused to post my 1st comment so again here I am 4 d callous insensitive stupid shallow minded moses.If it was ur sister would u be giving such advice? N if by any chance u truly r a woman den u're a big disgrace or maybe u've snatched sum1's spouse before dat's y d lady's story is like salt to ur injury. Ladies abeg na let's stop dis idea of goin out with people's husbands,we too will be wives sumday! We cn change d world 1 woman @ a tym.
DeleteFrom ur write up,u both sound as kids playing "luske". (Sue)
ReplyDeleteRotfl hahah
DeleteSue.....its been long I heard dt word o
what a husband
ReplyDeleteYou didn't have to text her, but that dosn't make you an ode.
ReplyDeleteAbeg take several seats jare, atleast he didn't beat you. you hubby is a foolish fool
ReplyDeleteHe is taking ur love for granted, i guess he still loves her (the ex)
ReplyDeleteSIMPLY PUT....INSECURITY. BUT CALLING YOU ODE IS NOT ACCEPTABLE CUZ URE HIS WIFE NOT GF. *******QUEENMAYA********
ReplyDeleteSIMPLY PUT....INSECURITY. BUT CALLING YOU ODE IS NOT ACCEPTABLE CUZ URE HIS WIFE NOT GF. *******QUEENMAYA********
ReplyDeleteHe had the effrontery to call you Ode because of the way u handled it from the onset, you caught him cheating on you and I guess you forgave him so easily without letting him know the magnitude of his offence.
ReplyDeleteIf you had threatened to walkout of the marriage or taken other decisive actions,he wouldn't have called you such and he would have warned his mistress to desist from texting him.
You allowed him play god, imagine you doing the same thing you caught him doing. You need to take a strong stand as it pertains what goes on in your home,before he invited the mistress to come live in your home.
~BONARIO~says so via NOKIA LUMIA
Hmmm Bonario, she threatens her hubby dat she's gonna leave n he says ok... Dat wil b d real slap. Wud say she rily shudn't hav sent dat msg in d 1st place. She has no issue wiv d girl buh her hubby hu has her n stil wants odas. Experience n pressure has taught me differently...
DeleteDon't give judgment cos u're not in dis womans position, if I were in her shoes, I will arrange 4 thugs d@ will beat her real gud cos she knows d man is married, she just wanna cause another woman pains but pains awaits her when she 2 will say I do. Women! We are truly d problems 2 ourselves
DeleteTelling him she wld walk out nd d guy says okay wat will she gain? Babe y send d txt in d 1st place? U have got no business wit d chic. I have done dis b4 and belive it dint go down well, d chic insulted d life out of me and she said I came looking out for her nd not d oda way round. When tinz like this happen babe take it easy, talk to him abt it wen u are calm and if possible try make it like a joke but a straight 1 and laugh it off. Ur husby wld somehow know dat it gets to u wen he does dat but don't pick a fight
DeleteYu hv spoken d truth @Adaobi...
DeleteBona, u r clearly not married. My wife once told me, some years ago, she would walk out. I offered to send a driver with a truck to pack her stuff. I was very serious too! She's still in my house....
DeleteHmmmm, Naija women and this suffering and smiling while I prove to the world that I'm happy, depressed as hell, oppressed-to-the-core syndrome they keep exhibiting and encouraging whenever their husbands treat them how a wife shouldn't be treated sha. Although it's not completely their fault but the society they live in. The biggest issue there is the acceptance and enabling of wrong and home-wrecking behaviors and attitudes from husbands to start with. If you don't try to stamp it out now, what legacy are we going to leave our daughters as a culture for a happy and wholesome home in the future? Or how would a man be motivated to change for the better and for the happiness of his family when he goes out to chase and sleep with different things but knows his wife will be encouraged/advised to adore him more, pray for him, exercise patience until he's tired of running around and decides to come home? For that kind of man, there is NO motivation whatsoever to do the right thing. His wife seems to support his behavior and so does the society in general. Any human being would choose to eat his cake and have it too if that was an option and Nigerian women seem to always make this an option for their men. It can't be easy for men like that to see women as fellow humans with feelings just like them. As far as that man is concerned, he's happy and his family is doing just fine! Of course until he brings diseases home to his wife or his concubines start getting jealous and they try to wipe our his family so they can move in or the "fine sharp girl" one way or the other cleans him out financially and emotionally even mentally in some cases. Women need to start acting and showing that they have human feelings and start encouraging their husbands to treat them as such.
DeleteHmmmmmm,Nawao,but sincerely,guys are simply unbelievable sometimes on how we treat women,we need to show women the respect they truly deserve,as for the wife do your self a favor and stop snooping around o,pray more for your husband and family..
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ReplyDeleteHmmmmmm,Nawao,but sincerely,guys are simply unbelievable sometimes on how we treat women,we need to show women the respect they truly deserve,as for the wife do your self a favor and stop snooping around o,pray more for your husband and family..
ReplyDeletePHOTOS:Meet Lionel Messi's Parents,Two Brothers,Only Sister,Girlfriend And Son
Your husband is a complete maga and completely insensitive to your feelings! He might not be doing anything with the lady now but the fact that he keeps in touch says that even if it is not conscious, he is open to the option of infidelity. I mean he should be sensitive to the fact that you need to mark your territory. He should know that!!!!
ReplyDeleteWow, this isn't funny.so she even had the audacity to state how "related" they re lol..a loving husband should protect n respects his wife's interest first...this na marriage matter I honestly don't know how to advice you to react. But be slow to act...use wisdom.
ReplyDeleteyou are not an Ode, but sending a text message is not the best way to go about it, men are always looking for excuse to cover up their wrong doing, just don't be bothered so much, make your husband jealous by telling him that guys toasted you in the shop,market or mull but you simply walked out on them because it is wrong for a married woman to play around, such stories will make him come home
ReplyDeleteU r super smart onyeka! Works everytime. Ignore both him n d babe. Act like u don't kno d mistress. Let him b aware of d admiration u get outside. Lol. He will turn around and start tracking u. Mistress ko. Nb:- dis only works if ur hubby/bf is terrified of losing u. If u r d type dat chased/manipulated ur man to marry u out of pity, OYO is ur case.
DeleteSpot on.
DeleteYou shouldnt have sent out the text message in the first place but since it happened that way already, You need to apply wisdom here dear as being vindictive wont help. Be more prayerful also.
ReplyDeleteEyaa guyz dey r all d same tin......qudratadenike@gmail.com
ReplyDeleteYou dont know how to react to it huh??? Dont worry, keep being a mumu and ode ok!!!! Did you force him to marry you.....abi you married him ni?????
ReplyDeleteWoman better use your tongue to count the teeth you have left.....Rubbish....why are women always afraid to put their foot down....what would he do if you had that kind of conversation with an ex boyfriend.....
@Sue thank you, I dont know the women that marrythese type of men. On second thot may be u make him feel he is ur whole world.
Deletewhy is cheating common with married me of nawadays huh! nne please try and speak to him in a mild way that what he is doing is wrong,dont use harsh voice
ReplyDeleteWork on the source not the end user. Remember it's Africa & naturally you cant fight your husband & win. Apply Bible principles with much humility...don't bother ever going for the other woman. best wishes
ReplyDeleteU shuld really show him how ode behaves so he knws d difference. Men sha.lol
ReplyDeleteDnt mind him, he wants 2 use OGBOJU 4 U! U can tel him he is also OPONU
ReplyDeleteLolzz...Hug ur husby tight...niggas are scarce nw.
ReplyDeletewhy did you txt his mistress???Settle with ur husband cos its not her business.. Men get so mad when you confront their mistress. i did it once and will try not to do it again
ReplyDeleteMy dear take heart
ReplyDeleteno be everything person dey fight wit ordinary eye.
go on your knees and do what u know best.
you are not an ode
youu are only protecting your interest.
fight for your own
but its not by mouth only
pray! pray!! Pray hard!!!
Lmao funniest thing av heard all week. Babe he is your husband nd honestly he need a lil lesson on respect cus that was an insult to you and your marriage and to say the least the bastard is still cheating. Obviously he respects the bitch more than you. Better do something before something do you
ReplyDeleteY u go dey check him phone. Heheheehe
ReplyDeleteHer beef is with her husband not the mistress. He's chearing and disrespecting her for his jump off.
ReplyDeleteDivorce him lol... story for the jobless lol
ReplyDeleteMEN sha.....
ReplyDeleteBut he is right. Maybe ode is extreme but really you have stooped low. Never text the mistress, that way you let her know shes winning and disturbing your peace. You are the mrs, she will never win, why bother ya head again? My opinion sha
ReplyDeleteLol! Eyah.... Marriage prob
ReplyDeleteDon't react to it...
ReplyDeleteno big deal,ask urself,are u one if not then move on.if u want to die young keep on meddling in his affairs.
ReplyDeleteΩα̍̍̊ wa o! This one pass my power....protect yourself from your hubby anyway you can. He's an enemy within....pray for him too.
ReplyDeleteMind ur business ma.
ReplyDeleteif ur husband isn't bold enough to tell u, then he s ashamed and loves u.
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Ode is a name of a person in yoruba eg Amodemaja,odebummi etc so i dont know what you mean or you dont like the new name ni?
ReplyDeleteLwkmd @ Lazy Reader's comment.
DeleteYou gave no business with the said girl. Talk with your husband and let him know how you feel.
ReplyDeleteGod will help u out of dis
ReplyDeleteDon't take it personal cause you gave him the room of calling you that.........
ReplyDeleteD man is d ode for stoopin so low to disrespect u...I just can't deal wit men dis days..annoyin bunch of fools
ReplyDeleteSpinsterhood becomes u, Faith.
DeleteDon't take it personal cause you gave him the room of calling you that.........
ReplyDeleteKeep praying for them to separate......
ReplyDeleteUr husband is a serious bastard! He needs to die. What a fool? Gosh! Men? Fools!
ReplyDeleteBetter kill him,
Keep praying for them to separate......
ReplyDeleteLolz... Love hurts..
ReplyDeleteWell, texting her wzn't cool buh one could understand ur reasons.. And for ur husband to say that to yu means he doesn't hv regards for yu...
Sori abt dat.u jus av To b calm
ReplyDeleteKeep praying for them to separate......
ReplyDeleteKeep praying for them to separate......
ReplyDeleteThe only 'ode' here is your husband for still maintaining a relationship with his ex, who seems hell bent on getting between you too. Very soon she will be coming round thats how it starts. And before you know it in your marital bed! Its better to be an ode now rather than a divorcee later. You need to nip it in the bud now!!!!!!! The girl has ulterior motives.
ReplyDeleteAbeg she be real ode...she should talk things out with her husband.. He has the problem.. He didn't give the girl boundaries...
ReplyDeleteSome girls sha...I can't imagine myself sending a,message to my ex..starting with hello boo...for what?I can relate well but not hello boo...and no godforsaken ex should try to crap,with me.
Serves her right though any concerned wife will want to do so but it makes her look desperate and men should stop all this cheating.
ReplyDeleteHe called you 'ode' and u r dumbfounded ,wat if he nau calls u 'Oloriburuku' u will faint?LMAO. Instead of u 2 trace d gal 2 her house wit any of ur younger ones and tell dem 2 beat d 'ode' out of her,u came here asking dumb questions. Onpe 4 u.
ReplyDeleteThis story is on another blog again??? Haven't you gotten enough comments on a previous blog!!
ReplyDeleteMakes me wonder if the story is true sef *eyes rolling*
Marriage no easy ooooooooooooOOOOoooo, but with God we go dey manage dey go. Soon, it will be smooth.
ReplyDeleteMarriage no easy ooooooooooooOOOOoooo, but with God we go dey manage dey go. Soon, it will be smooth.
ReplyDeleteMarriage no easy ooooooooooooOOOOoooo, but with God we go dey manage dey go. Soon, it will be smooth.
ReplyDeleteIt is indeed a shame that a man will treat his princess in such a manner. He needs to stop his inappropriate act and the girl needs to know her bounds. Because we expect men to cheat doesn't make it right to do so.
ReplyDeleteSpeak to your husband about it, and explain to him that the relationship with his mistress is inappropriate and uncomfortable, let alone the name calling.
*Justin Case*
Lmfao..funny
ReplyDeleteMarriage no easy ooooooooooooOOOOoooo, but with God we go dey manage dey go. Soon, it will be smooth.
ReplyDeleteConfirm Ode! don't go near your hubby's phone... didn't your mum advise you before going into marriage? Has he threatened you with divorce? does he not cater for you? Stop bitching around him unless you are jobless QED
ReplyDeleteWell, he doesnt cater for me. I do the catering
DeleteOde
DeleteBest comment everrrr
DeleteYes ur an Ode nah. Lol.
ReplyDeleteI wish you asked Librs before you sent the girl a text, you've given him a chance to watch his back..you need to make him comfortable at home and also keep tabs on him
ReplyDeleteNa wa. 4 men oo; dat was hw sum1 text my hubby on the 1st and @the end of the msg the person wrote I Love U; asked hubby to call the no he refuse. I told him am watching wit 3D
ReplyDeleteBabe he is cheating on you...same tin happened to me. Him nt callin the number simply meaans ur nt dt important. I went through a long phase of denial....its been 5months and am still nt over it...when people show u who dey are believe it, don't wait for dem to show u over nd over again...I saw the signs frm the beginning but I chose to ignore it cuz I loved him..am sure u saw the signs too.....I Wud advise yung ppl to date for a long while before getting married...cuz if u marry the wrong guy u re doomed nd wnt be ever happy
DeleteWhy did u do such?
ReplyDeleteMutalyb@yahoo.com
Why not mind ur own bussiness
ReplyDeleteYou have made the worst mistake a wife should make, but is not without correction, if only you will listen. Do not see your husband female friends as your rivals that is what your husband means by his statement that you "stoop low" or that you are "ode". Anytime you behave like that, you are simply telling you husband that the other woman is better than you, you need "Resilient".
ReplyDeleteHehehehe. ...I no fit laugh......swthrt I'm sorry bt he just tld u ur place in his life
ReplyDeleteHahahahahaha. ..omg!!! I can't stop laughing. Abeg...This is soon hilarious! !! Choi!!!!
ReplyDeleteSince u Don't knw u may truely be an ode! Lmaoo. Anywys I won't Tk that, if he wants an open marriage, il give him a taste of his own medicine. Figure out a way to work it out, n let him knw where it hurts.
ReplyDeleteAnd d best place to seek advice is on here yea?? Ur jst as dumb as ur husband.. dats y men keep cheating cos some of u are jst brainless
ReplyDeleteLooooolllll. Madam/Oga, no harsh for the woman na. Ode + Brainless will be equals to what now ooo... Hehehe. #Ode things
DeleteWell, you dealt with the situation as best you felt you could. What woman in your shoes wouldn't do the same if they knew for sure that the woman in question was an ex or an ex that might just turn around not to be an ex any more. My mother always warned me never to go through my husbands phone and not to stand behind the door listening to his conversation on phone.....she would say in yoruba "ëni to ba duro si eyin ilekun a gbo nkan ti eni to wa ni eyin ilekun ngbo......igbokugbo" meaning the one who stands behind the door will hear what the one who has chosen to stand behind the door should hear....RUBBISH! its hard though cos i am also guilty of this crime, but try not to and look up to heaven instead.
ReplyDeleteFor your husband to have called you "öde" is totally wrong and unacceptable. You deserve his respect regardless of whatever situation you may find yourselves. Whether he is guilty or not, only God knows but please guide your own heart and mind. You'll see he"ll begin to worry when you don't ask questions anymore.Talk to God instead, it may be hard but believe he is there to listen and to act.
Ur mother is full of wisdom! U should listen to her more...
DeleteWell, you dealt with the situation as best you felt you could. What woman in your shoes wouldn't do the same if they knew for sure that the woman in question was an ex or an ex that might just turn around not to be an ex any more. My mother always warned me never to go through my husbands phone and not to stand behind the door listening to his conversation on phone.....she would say in yoruba "ëni to ba duro si eyin ilekun a gbo nkan ti eni to wa ni eyin ilekun ngbo......igbokugbo" meaning the one who stands behind the door will hear what the one who has chosen to stand behind the door should hear....RUBBISH! its hard though cos i am also guilty of this crime, but try not to and look up to heaven instead.
ReplyDeleteFor your husband to have called you "öde" is totally wrong and unacceptable. You deserve his respect regardless of whatever situation you may find yourselves. Whether he is guilty or not, only God knows but please guide your own heart and mind. You'll see he"ll begin to worry when you don't ask questions anymore.Talk to God instead, it may be hard but believe he is there to listen and to act.
Stop stooping low.
ReplyDeleteWhat do u expect him to call you after such an unwise move? The mistress shouldn't be ur focus but your husband.
ReplyDeleteU are not different from her husband. Your wife should be careful cos ur type go beat woman blue-black if she raises an eyebrow on ur cheating ways. Smh for ur African mentality!!!!!!!
Deletea.k.a EDWIN CHINEDU AZUBUKO said...
ReplyDelete.
Ur husband is stupid, insane and should be slapped for this single act no doubt.....
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Your husband is high on hard drugs
ReplyDeleteYou can called him idiot, moron is understatement
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Dont mind him he's the real ODE! How would he stoop so low to as cheating after being married?stupid man,And the lady is more stupid how on earth can one sleeps with her brother with no remorse.
ReplyDeleteHE CALLED U ODE? U ARE LUCKY HE DIDNT BEAT THE HELL OUT OF U. BIKO JUST MANAGE THAT ODE EHHNN. DONT KNOW WHATS WRONG WIF HUSBANDS OF NOW ADAYS.
ReplyDeleteYour hubby calling you ode does not mean that you are ode or are you? So what you did i feel you did de ryt tin to at least stop her from textn him, if at all they're doing anything it has to be in secret, and your hubby should show you some respects And stop leaving some controversial text messages in his phone.
ReplyDeleteEven. ..Linda what's wrong with your blog app for both BlackBerry and android phones. ..been using Webb app for two days now
ReplyDeleteHving the same issue.
DeleteThe Man is an idiot,....leave him, they always regret at last,most of these Men die early due to extra marital affairs, So many widows out there,let him go and die so u could marry a better Man jare..
ReplyDeletemy dear deal with urn low self esteem. he shuddering b d one begging u. urn husband knows urn weak point days why he wants to make u feel guilty nd stupid. but in dis fight keep attacking him nd don't defend ursef or ursef action. d main point is he is cheating . pls am contesting for d miss darling
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Leave him,get another Man too.life is too short for living with a stupid Man.
ReplyDeleteYou are playing inferior to him, give that word back add more like anuohia,and stuff. Did your parents borrow money from him. He is cheating on u and insulting u at the same time. Make sure u have a work or something doing that brings your own money.
ReplyDeleteIf you have children please face your children and be happy . Stop going through his phone because it's his privacy and if you go to court , they will say u intruded his privacy. He is a flirt for responding at all to her stupid texts. Yes ! But think of it , what if there more sis-in-law he is banging ? Make urban children the only thing tha t helps u bear d pain. It's well
ReplyDeleteYes... He is right... You are a big one.
ReplyDeleteHe was soo nice. Ode doesn't even begin to describe your stupidity. If you'd taken it up very well the first time and made a big issue out of it, she wouldn't be sending follow up messages subsequently. Foolish lady, after she get belle finish, u go begin dey show all tour craze for Ija Orogun Premier League, quarrelling about whose turn it is to shine his Congo.
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Yup tru you are ode number 1. Can't tell you why you are one right now,but honestly,ode ni e.
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ReplyDeleteHow else do u want to react, u had no bizness texting her, ur hubby was right,, u stooped so low. U are indeed an ODE.
Well, she told you already he is like a brother to her. do your investigation properly before reacting. behind every successful marriage is honesty and trust.
ReplyDeleteHe is d Ode here......my dear, just dnt put ur mind on dat,if not ur pressure will go high....pray 4 him all d time....
ReplyDeletehe is an Odekpe 4 keeping such relationship....men r so full of it oooo.dunno wat wel do 2 dem I swear....ODEKPES's..#mtchhhheeewww#
ReplyDeleteCrios,, its obvious ur husband likes his side chick @abrahamyoung23@yahoo.com
ReplyDeletehahaha haha..oh my daiz...u really shldnt ve texted her..it annoys me wen women comfront d gfriends...like seriously, u ave got no business with dem..handle ur husband..confrontation is like a challenge to dose bitches...it's like u refilling dere tank..
ReplyDeleteJust calm (eleyele1@yahoo.com)
ReplyDeletei think you should just ignore it since you are not an 'ode' beside he is indirectly calling himself the husband of an 'ode'. i want to believe the so-called sexual relationship is now in the past as the mistress confirmed that she has missed him for a long time! just tighten your grip on him to avoid any intrusion and enjoy! my own opinion
ReplyDeletemtcheew, all these women something! dem call u ode..so?
ReplyDeleteAh-ah....I'm confused....did this person ACTUALLY send you this or COPIED AND PASTED from the comments section on bellanaija...na wa
ReplyDeleteLmao!wetin una no go judge giv lib readers
ReplyDeleteLolz you're in hell and i really don't know what you're still doing with such a man,he doesn't have a bit of respect for you.
ReplyDeleteYou must be a calm woman, if it's me, all hell will be let loose oo. Don't even give him space to continue because it will only get worse until ur marriage is doomed
ReplyDeleteshe didn't hv d right to text ur hubby mistress. u could hv confront ur hubby instead of texting his mistress.
ReplyDeleteode na big deal,
ReplyDeleteForgive to avoid more problems.
ReplyDeleteyou didn't hv d right texting ur hubby mistress instead of that u could hv confront ur hubby.
ReplyDeleteHi, my dear, u had absolutely no reason to text her. That's one of ur job as a wife, IGNORE. As long as u hv spoken to him bout it, leave him be. I know it hurts u, but at d end of the day, would u leave ur hubby for a low life? Also stop reading his messages, u only get hurt.
ReplyDeleteU're an ode,oya respond!olodo
ReplyDeletey would you.seeprince2003@yahoo.com
ReplyDeletethen you are.attih8@gmail.com
ReplyDeletethen you we're wat?attih8@gmail.com
ReplyDeleteTruly u are an ode though not for the reason given by ur husband but for saying u don't know what to do..hian! Some women sha..stay there till ur 'sister-in-law' displaces u..mrs Odenson
ReplyDeleteLmao...am sure dis isn't d first time he said such to you, take heart sis
ReplyDeleteBut you are truly an ODE!!!
ReplyDeletedeal with it its your problem. av got more than enough problems already!
ReplyDeleteDem dun tie his eyez with juju o...do something fast before u lose him. I can help. Out sha in untying it
ReplyDelete@lwkmd_naija
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Linda ooo, this was a comment on Bellanaija, how did t come to being a lib reader's post. SMH.
ReplyDeletethis is stale gist ! i read it on stella dimorkorkus blog...
ReplyDeletehhm das too hilarious ur husby really went far well just settle ou things with and find out truly if da were dating mehn dawgs r really wicked.........
ReplyDeleteJust dont quarrel with him pray and do all what a woman had to be done
ReplyDeleteLooolz!!! Buh men dese days jst thnk its dia right 2act anyow evn in marriages.. Anyways, u shldnt av txted her. Its ur man u av bizness wit. If he isnt replying, she wld av stopped. She's nt talkin to herself.
ReplyDeleteDo whateva u can to protect ur home. Save ur marriage. 4get about d insult, Learn to let go of som tins. It is a woman dat kips d home and so dont let dat intruder of a girl snatch ur husband away from u. Make him understnd u dont lik d insult, 4get about it and move on.
ReplyDeleteThe only ode for this matter na ur husband, I wonder why men can stick to one punnani at a time.
ReplyDeleteZubby said so
exactly! y u texting her? is it in your powers to stop her? y not talk to your husband? you are a wife not a fellow side chick, some women are so used to losing that they don even realize when they are winning,.
ReplyDeleteAnd like the ode you are, your problem is that he called you an ode, not that he is cheating and still has the guts to even confront you for talking to his mistress.. mschewww
ReplyDeleteMy dear.. I understand how u feel about this but must u tell the whole earth dat ur Hubby called u an Ode... Dia r tinz to be kept personal..... Preshy
ReplyDeleteSorry.Sound funny though....*MHIZSUPREME*
ReplyDeleteI'm sorry to say that you are actually an Ode! Many things is better of when ignored than stood so low replied your hubby friends, it's madness, moron....
ReplyDeleteA man insults u n u r seeking fr advice on hw to respond? Aren't u an educated woman! Wht is wrng with u. If u dnt knw wht to do....keep staring at him.
ReplyDeleteOver sabi house wife
ReplyDeletehow that one take concern price of garri for market
ReplyDeleteu should be! I advice dat u shld kneel down nd bring ur marriage @ d feet of our Lord Jesus (i mean in prayer).
ReplyDeleteHe is cheating on you and still has the nerves to insult you???!!!!! Women don suffer!!! ( some )
ReplyDeleteJst let it go, reactin wld cos more ish. Play ur role as a wife, dress charmingly, do a nice hairdo, luk gud 4 him, live ur life to d fulest n don't let ny man pull u dwn. Hope u nt a house wife sha, some men tink dey can misbehave cos dey d ones providing 4 d family. Get sth doin, don't depend on him, be submissive n respect ursef, some guys r nt worth ny ish, weda u married to dem, al dis sha depends on d husband u married. We don't knw him, u do, so don't xpect best advices here. Dere r some guys dat u jst av to respnd to save ursef d stress nxtym by nt bodarin to read his text. 'Kayliebanks'
ReplyDeleteLadies the only communication you should have with a side chick is the blow the thugs you hired give her.
ReplyDeleteSMH at nigerians. The same people who say westerners have no morals. Can this happen in a white marriage?
ReplyDeleteWhat is marriage in nigeria but a wedding day and a title?
Sorry but this write up makes no sense
ReplyDeletethis is straight from the comment section on bella naija from yesterday !! LINNNNNNDAIKEJI...
ReplyDeleteI thot I was the only one that noticed.. Linda Ikeji this is so unethical.. what if the lady didn't want the story posted here. Haba u would just go and lift stories from comment sections of Bella naija.. Dear LIB my foot
DeleteI'm sorry that he did, but u acted as one because he expected you not to have be-little yourself before his mistress..
ReplyDeleteYou are higher than her in all sense, so act like it n let your act of the knowledge of who you are to him n his life, give him the remorse to apologize..
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ReplyDeleteU shldnt hv send ur husbands mistress a. Sms na,anyways pele,do u evn hv 2 chk ur husbands phone???
ReplyDeleteTry n talk finz out wiv ur hubby.....men tho'...smh
ReplyDeleteFirst of all,in case you don't know what "ode" means,it means you are a fool.....that truly wouldn't have happened if you didn't text the girl(that's practically so wrong)....you deal with the issue with your husband not the girl,your husband is the problem and you need to also check yourself if you are doing things he does not like that needs immediate stop not limit.
ReplyDeleteDnt mind him jaare
ReplyDeleteAngelicpretty88@yahoo.com
my hubby has done worse not text messages alone but i've seen used condoms and lubes.. my dear keep praying for him and take your mind off his infidel business karma is a bitch and will teach him harder lesson. you can have your own side nigga too if your strong enough to do that.
ReplyDeleteoh nah he got you all types of fucked up. you no wrong that bitch should have gotten her ass beat #justsaying
ReplyDeleteYou stole this from Bella Naija...lol
ReplyDeleteThat's weird.
your husband was wrong for calling you an ode...and as long as ur'e not one(an ode) ignore it and move on(you can't convince a monkey that honey is sweeter than banana,but let him know how much the statement he made because of the girl hurt your feelings.
ReplyDeletemen and the way they treat their better half
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I have almost been married for 10 years and I have to say I do not like Nigerian Men. The most arrogant and selfish human beings on earth. Instead of this man to cut off this his "supposed sister", so his wife will be happy, No. He had to curse her out instead. It shows where his priority lies. If this woman had a "brother" would he like it. Biko, the nonsense Nigerian women go through is unbelievable. Abuse to the highest level. Yet the same man will open mouth and tell his people and friends that his wife is a witch. This is why I tell women to talk. Madam, go and tell his mother, sister, friends this story and trust me, he will take a different stance. Men read you bible, it says love your wives. It also says stay away from the "sisters" you have on the side.
ReplyDeleteAnother thing, women and their wahala. If this so called "sister-in-law" was married and her husband had a "sister" he used to live with, would she be so accommodating. Her type person will make sure all hell breaks loose and God help the "sister-in-law", she might be a corpse in the near future. After, they will be wondering why horrible things happen to them. Madness!
you are a really big ode.
ReplyDelete@wilheminna moses or wat eva cud u listen to urself for just a second.... a man who can b sleeping with anoda woman n still insult his wife on top d matter has lost respect for himself n his wife and obviously doesnt valuee her..dat saying bros over hoes sud follow even in marriage soo u need to recheck ur logic. no offence
ReplyDeleteYou find the dumbest comments on LIB. Tactless n tasteless comments. Chaee
ReplyDeleteThats soo wrong for him to say that, he could jokingly call you other names for other reasons but not ode for this particular reason.
ReplyDeleteOh wow, such disrespect. Unacceptable.
ReplyDeleteFix ur home stop looking outside check ur self well if u r d course e.g may slim when he brought u after eating all the food in d house u turn to orobo why won't he look else where?
ReplyDeletefirst of all, calling u ode is not good, u texting the chick aint good either but nne, do u know about this bae before u got married cos there r some problem that would be avoided if it is been handled ealier.
ReplyDeleteHehehe... Never a dull moment.
ReplyDeleteThat rubbish, I was having issues with my husband and at the same time discovered that he was having affair with a very close friend of mine whom I help throughout school n even her family,when I confronted her, she reported me to him, we'll I moved out of the house for them and the relationship didn't last, he now desperately what me back as everybody was against him.He is telling pple that the girl is a gold digger.Well for men,they should kn that it is not every girl that is a wife material , Ezi nwanyi di uko,onu ahia ka ruby ( in Patty obasi's voice )
ReplyDeleteIf na me be u I go just arrange make strt guyz beat am up con tell am make he leave their gf alone. Bet it,if he sees dat girl + oda girls nxt time he go run
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