Dear LIB readers: Should I forget this man or pay for the wedding?
From a female LIB reader
I have dated my fiance for 5years now. Whenever I ask him
about our marriage plans, he keeps telling me he doesn't have enough
money for the wedding. This guy earns 170k monthly while I earn
100k. I told him I have some cash I made from a supply, can't we use it
for the wedding? He said its okay by him. His mother called me from Benin
last week and said the son told him about our marriage arrangement, that
she has mapped out the wedding expenses. To my greatest surprise she
gave me an amount I can't really explain. I have 3milion on me while she
said everything will cost 4million both for the traditional and white
wedding. my wedding gown is not included, his suit is not included. Should I
forget this man and move on with my life or release all the money I have for the wedding? I am troubled at the moment. I am so confused. Please advise
Plsssss run 4 ur life cos your man is so shameless and lacks all sense of pride and dignity!...my dear if u choose to remain in the rlshp pls neva pay for the wedding o! TUFIAKWA!!!
My dear,,,waka ooo, d man na zombie, do you want to pay for your own bribe price???? Things are not done that way, this kind of men end up marrying one village girl, b wise, or better still you can consult your pastor and some elderly people abt this
My dear move on. Y will you be the sole sponsor of your wedding ? What does he do with his salary. Pls don't deceive yourself, God will send you a better man. By the time you pay for wedding, you will become the family bread winner. Arrant nonsense
Jezz girl dnt b a despirado,d guy shuld b d 1 to spend dn u cn choose to assist hm.take a long walk 4rm dat so kald relationshp,d guy ist ready to settle dwn.he is wastin ur tym.170k per month lets deduct 100k 4 xpenses.dat guy has d Moni
My dear I am sorry tell u dis 4get him I'll advice u 2 4get him. is more better he doesn't love u becos if he do nd ready as a serious guy his d one dat suppose 2 pay 4 everything may be latter u can support him in a little way.
leave that good for nothing man and take a walk.don,t be desperate for anything.trust GOD and and spend a fraction of your earnings to propagate the gospel.you will marvel at what GOD will do for you.that man is a fraud.BEWARE.
Obviously the man does not want you as a wife and that mother of his...hmmmmm she's TROUBLE ooooo, I'm surprised that you need someone to tell you to RUN for your life..
My dear don't be foolish, he earns more and the fact that he doesn't want to spend his own money smacks of irresponsibility! I doubt if he even wants toi marry you, my dear move on and find someone better
My dear sister is better you let the man go, coz after collecting your money you will never set your eyes on him or he will go and get marry to someone else
HERE WE GO AGAIN! I SHOULD IGNORE THIS QUESTIONS BUT LET ME ANSWER BY SAYING ' HE'S NOT INTO YOU' AND YOU ARE TRYING TOOOOOOOO HARD BC A MAN WHO REALLY LOVES YOU WILL CARRY YOU ON HIS HEAD! HE WILL 'NEVER' I REPEAT 'NEVER' LET YOU PAY FOR YOUR WEDDING. ARE YOU KIDDING ME.....SHAKES HEAD AND WALKING AWAY! RUUUNNN AS FAST YOUR LEGS CAN CARRY YOU. BS!
Pls my dear move on wit ur life, its obvious d nigga doesn't wanna marry u.....pls save ur money nd let him marry his mother..they are jst golddiggers...long hiss
Am sorry but i need to come out real straight to u. First of all you are about to get married to a very selfish man and your potential mother inlaw is even worse. That family has no dignity in them. Your fiance does not love u. No woman should hustle for her own wedding. That man can even not care if you sleep with your boss to get money for ur wedding, a mere ceremony for that matter. My sister if you go on with this wedding then am sorry you would even go through worse in your marriage except God intervenes. A broken relationship iis better than a broken home. If he wants to be with you, you would have been married already, except na you been propose to am o! Elizabeth
Please move on with ur life u don't need such people in your life, what will happen after the marriage. If I am your brother I will tell you to find something better to use your money to do. God will provide your husband for u.
U better run as fast as u can frm ds guy nd hs mum, if u bear al d expenses jst kn dt tru out ur stay wif hm(that is if it last)u wil b d bread winner of d family. Weytin hm de do if hm money? My dear, pls don't b in a hurry 2 settle dwn, like seriously I kn how it is 4 a matured lady 2 b single buh its better u wait 4 God's tym than 2 rush in nd rush out. Asedanu leleyi oooooooo ja ara e
You want to marry yourself a man? Seek ye first the kingdom of God my Dear & all others things will be added on. Jesus loves u. He is the only one that has true answers to your question & can indeed change your story.
My dear I am sorry tell u dis 4get him I'll advice u 2 4get him. is more better he doesn't love u becos if his ready as a serious guy his d one dat suppose 2 pay 4 everything may be latter u can support him in a little way.
It doesn't worth it at all if u can't wait for him to marry u my dear dumb d asshole. Come to think of it ow can u spend ur savings in a wedding? Be wise!!!
There's something wrong with you. Y would you pay for the wedding with ur life's savings. Marriage is a partnership and his mum is shameless. Better run
Haba,are U marrying the man or he is Marrying U,it ir wrong both Morally and Biblically for U to sponsor the wedding.esp as he earns more,Tell him u want a low key wedding to see his reaction and if he objects then u know he just wants ur money!Run for ur dear life before they turn u to money making factor).
I'm confused about this post. Now linda you made this up certainly. The story line is not coordinated. Please linda stop reducing the IQ of LIB readers even if it is a gossip blog please have a little depth biko
This reeks of desperation of the highest order! That you shld even entertain such is indeed unfathomable! If he's not married u till now, then forget it. A man that truly loves u will live up to his responsibilty n do d rite tin. U need to move on & forget this gold digger n wicked mother. Since she too can allow her own daughters do such a foolish thing. Live is over rated! Pls be wise n move on as they font give a damn about you. Mama already has another babe for her son to marry. Possession of two shrunken balls does not make one a man. Marriage is not do or die! Goodluck!
Why bother asking, forget him off course, the woman is so shameless having the guts to tell u to pay 4m and marry her son, kilode, is his cock made of diamond ni
my dear why will u pay 3million for both traditional nd white wedding are u the one marrying urself to ur BF u said he earns 170k does that mean he cant save some money from that to pay ur bride price and do the wedding his mum is even shameless to tell u d amount it will cost you instead of her telling her son dat what kind of mother is that! secondly I don't think this guy loves u enough to want to marry u as his wife cos if he does I belt u he will save money for it since he earns 170k and if u try it be sure u will be paying for d bills in the house cos he will still say he does not have money! have u asked him what he does with his whole salary that makes him not to have money to marry you I think ur man is lining! how are u sure after you pay all the money for the wedding that this guy will value you.I will advice u not to try it you can't marry urself if he loves u enough he should do it is 5 years already he should be eager to but if he did not find ur way and end d relationship pls shine ur eye oh.
My dear, leave this man and run for your life. He is obviously a useless person, he has no regard for you neither do I think he really wants to marry you. If you pay for the wedding, it means accommodation, school fees, medical bills etc, nigga will expect you to foot the bills. just move on and forget him.
U wl b d greatest fool of d year if u dare try it.cnt u see d hand writting on d wall? D guy ddnt love u.Smh! My dear u better save ur money $ move on wit ur life. A better guy wl cme pls.....
Some ladies are so foolish sha.na by force to marry.if a man is ready to settle down,he wld provide for his wedding .dnt b a foolish n desperate woman ohhh.nonsence.
My dear there's nothing to think about move on with your life, the man is suppose to wife you! Who so ever finds a wife has find a good thing a not who so ever finds a man.keep your cash......a better man that knows your worth will come n do the right thing
DO NOTstart something you can't finish! Just forget the wasted years and move on with your life. This guy and his family will use you now and use you tomorrow.
How much more irresponsible can your man be if he can't save a penny from whatever amount he earns for his wedding. Trust that you'll also feed him and his family after marriage. The way of an infidel.
Sorry dear, if you start by paying for the wedding, be prepared to pay the bills when you marry. A serious minded guy who loves you will not plan an expensive wedding on your account. By the way, what stops you from having a quiet wedding at the registry pending the time you can both afford the big one if required? Why is a big wedding necessary anyway when the 3M is enough to buy a plot of land or invest for the future?
Babe, fuck love, leave his unserious ass, move on with your life and the true man willcome. I know right now the sentiments of having dated for 5years clouds your thinking. Mind you I am a guy and I stand by what I say.
Pls leave the guy he and his mother are after your money God will provide someone better and God fearing for you. If he loves you then he must act like a man and not a mama's boy
Sweetheart nothing to be confused about. Go tell your parents what your boo and his mom are up to. Lol..... the rest will take care of itself. Girl run fast. 5 years of waste. Wake up!!!! This guy and his mom should marry themselves. This is just annoying.
run for your dear life..... I have met men like this, if u marry him ur diggining ur grave , u will become the man of the house, u will suffer and u will fend for all d kids u bear. he shld be castrated, he is a gold digger and his mum) daidn't raise hime well, dnt let anyone blackmail u into marriage with a weakling, ders nothing more to marriage than shared responsibility (naija mentality) run for ur dear life, I wud rada be single than marry a weakling
Why are you so desperate? Girls please look before you leap, marriage is not a do or due affairs.you want to be the one to marry the guy with your money, tomorrow he will dump you.Sandy Berry.
PLEASE mydear,kip ur money & invest. Wen u pay 4ur wedding wat makes u think u won't kip on paying 4 bills thru out d marriage? Besides,d mum shd also ask her son ow mch he has 4d wedding.besides he earns more than u & if he want u 2b his wife,dn let him show it & nt behave as if he is doing u a favour. U r dre 2 support him & nt 2 b d sponsor.
What a time waster of a man. Phew! His mum is even shameless o, sorry to say that. I beg u in the name of God ,dont. There are situations one can compromise but not this one. It isn't by force to marry him. Trust me with this advise. I wish I cld say much
With all due respect to his mother,she no get concise!would she allow her daughter do such! Wat kind of a family is dat!its nt like he doesn't av money..I knw its hard to leave some1 u'v spent yrs with but trust dat nt d kind of family any girl should pray to be in...dust ur slippers and run fast!many men are out dere and with God u'll find d right one! Use that money for something else!
1000 slaps for you, shey una be twins weh no go make you leave the gold digger family,if i may ask who is marrying who? this is not india, as for the guy's mother was her wretched wedding up to 4m? my dear flee from that family :((
You must be daft to be seeking advice on what to do. Well, save he's customized just for you then stick there and release your life savings. Igaasikwa.. Nne if really your story is true, i candidly advise you leave that fool and come and marry me. Am looking for a good girl to marry. Keep your 3m, i will take care of everything.
y dear frnd Pls keep ur moni 2 urself,another man will com,bcos dis ur so call fiance is not ready 2 do anytin even d parent r not ready 2 support u,my just use ur moni 4 business or some important jare.to hell wit d man.wen u broke up wit him let see if he will not get marriage 2 some1 else.move on wit ur life n use ur moni 4 sometin gud jor,God bless u as u. Read
Pls move on babe...if U release d money it simply means U are d 1 proposing nd hence d man in d relationship! D guy will never appreciate nor value U. 4get d 5yrs of courtship,Doors will open 4 U that U won't be able 2 explain. But wait 1st o, y shld d guy's mom call U 2 give U budget? Its clear ur d man in this thing calld courtship...FLEE b4 U get duped! Berra open ur eyes b4 it opens U! #okbye
4million for what? i guess she included the 'Infinity FX 35' u will drive as u begin ur married life. Desperate chicks fall for scam always. By d way who is marrying who? are u goin to pay for other xpenses after d wedding cos if he cant save now he will never learn it. dnt rush into Bearing liabilities cos u want to b married cos it doesnt matter will soon become matters arising.
Don't be a maga. if he really wants you, let him pay for the wedding expenses. Before you know it, you also pay for all house expenses after the wedding. He is a man so he should act like one. just my two cents!
Don't be a maga. if he really wants you, let him pay for the wedding expenses. Before you know it, you also pay for all house expenses after the wedding. He is a man so he should act like one. just my two cents!
Don't be a maga. if he really wants you, let him pay for the wedding expenses. Before you know it, you also pay for all house expenses after the wedding. He is a man so he should act like one. just my two cents!
Omoh, my dear, its nt 2 late o, pls run 4 ur life.. Cos d truth is, u are going to continue paying 4 evrytin till death do u both part.. Dis guy is nt 4 u, he isn't evn man enough.. Abeg o, marriage is not by force.. When u meet someone that cares enough 4 u, and that has ur well being at heart, u will know.. Pls, my dear paying 4 ur wedding will be a very terrible mistake, d man and his family are idiots..
That guyis obviously not serious and ready to marry you, my advice is that you move on with your life and don't take such risk, don't be desperate nd don't limit yourself cos yuve dated him for 5years..ma sista God has beta plans for your and he will fulfil it IJN
you must be stupid y are u going to pay for ur wedding even if u are urgly one day u will marry forget dis stupid man with his stupid mother don't u av parent
you must be stupid y are u going to pay for ur wedding even if u are urgly one day u will marry forget dis stupid man with his stupid mother don't u av parent
Dear, I don't buy the idea of u paying for ur wedding. The pride of a woman is a man coming for her and footing the bills. But not that u can't help out. Are u d one marrying him or is it the other way round? Tmrw he will brag that u were so desperate and paid ur own dowry. Pls o, if u want respect in that house, Don't! He can do it. He earns enough. I know pple that got married with 50k salary. Its planning. Then secondly, just bear in mind that if u start bearing the reaponsibility from now, u will forever bear it. He is the man, he shld act as one. Discuss it with him and pray over it, God will tell u what to do. Though He has already said that any man that cannot take care of his family is worse than an infidel. So, how will he now be a good husband if he allows u to "marry him" by paying ur way through. Its not done dear. Other men will even insist on doing it alone and he is asking u to carry all the burden and his mother is giving u list. I wonder o!
My dear, dn't even think of sponsoring the wedding cos its not in ur position 2 do dat & he'll just feel u're cheap & desperate 2 get married.If he cannot sponsor the marriage, den hw are u sure he care give u all d luv, care & affection wen u finally do dat? If u ask me, I'll tell u 2 forget about him #Life is 2 sweet 4 any man 2 play wit ur happiness#
Maybe the bill is to put u off.... The guy doesn't wanna marry you cos where does that happen that the mother calls her daughter inlaw.... Moreover if u get thru with this, be ready 2 be the husband #my2kobo
My dear, dn't even think of sponsoring the wedding cos its not in ur position 2 do dat & he'll just feel u're cheap & desperate 2 get married.If he cannot sponsor the marriage, den hw are u sure he care give u all d luv, care & affection wen u finally do dat? If u ask me, I'll tell u 2 forget about him #Life is 2 sweet 4 any man 2 play wit ur happiness#
My dear, dn't even think of sponsoring the wedding cos its not in ur position 2 do dat & he'll just feel u're cheap & desperate 2 get married.If he cannot sponsor the marriage, den hw are u sure he care give u all d luv, care & affection wen u finally do dat? If u ask me, I'll tell u 2 forget about him #Life is 2 sweet 4 any man 2 play wit ur happiness#
My dear, dn't even think of sponsoring the wedding cos its not in ur position 2 do dat & he'll just feel u're cheap & desperate 2 get married.If he cannot sponsor the marriage, den hw are u sure he care give u all d luv, care & affection wen u finally do dat? If u ask me, I'll tell u 2 forget about him #Life is 2 sweet 4 any man 2 play wit ur happiness#
FORGET HIM AND MOVE ON, IF A MAN LOVES YOU HE WILL EVEN BORROW FROM THE BANK JUST TO BE WITH YOU FOREVER. THIS GUY WILL SOON INSULT YOU THAT YOU FRCED YOURSELF ON HIM!!!! LIVE IS TOO SHORT TO SPEND TIME WAITING ON SOMEONE!!!
ah ah are u a learner?? na wa o...if u pay for the wed nw,wen u guys get married just prepare to start payin for the bills 2..if hes broke bt truely loves u,u guys shld contribute equally or better still u do a very simple wedding dat his money can reach simple.
ah ah are u a learner?? na wa o...if u pay for the wed nw,wen u guys get married just prepare to start payin for the bills 2..if hes broke bt truely loves u,u guys shld contribute equally or better still u do a very simple wedding dat his money can reach simple.
Wow this is horror, my dear pleeeeeAaaaaaaaassssss use your head this guy doesn't love u even though he might be acting all loving when he is with u. Please run 4 your life bcos in future he will turn to a beast who would not value u an treat u like sh*t. Jess
You did be stupid to even think of sponsoring a wedding. Are you that desperate? Oh my goodness! Did you just say your wedding gown and his suit are not included? Not only are you getting reaped off...your mother-in-law should cover her face in shame. I see no reason why you should still be with that man. You deserve better sweetie and don't let no pressure push you into doing something stupid.
Pls dt guy s nt serioz wit u@al.he earns 170k nd u 100k nd he kips sayin dt he dosnt ve mony 4 d weddin...watttttt???ppl dt earns even less dan dat stl try 2 save up somtins wen tins lik dz comes up.pls try nd move on wit ur life,he doesn't luv u!!!
Don't even think about asking if you leave or stay with him my dear, yes leave him sure cause he's not a man, he's just a pussy, trust me if you marry him your life will be miserable. I'm a man and I mean it.
My dear sis, I thnk u knw beta everythn dt has bn happnin durin d long relatnshp......... Run 4 ur life cos I blv u woult v actually bn enduring so much all dz yrs. A normal process of marriage, a man is suppose 2 tk up d larger n most imprtnt aspct of marriage ceremony xpenses n nt d oda way, n lyk u said he earn more than u. Sis, he doesn't love u at all, n it more or less a planned work 2 dupe u. If actuali u drop ur 3m, whtz d assurance of his continuous love n care 4 u, if actually he loves n cares. Pls a word is enuf 4 u, if u r wise. Pray n 4llow ur heart. It is well
why will you use your money for the wedding ceremony? Babe, no enter one chance o. Once u start, na u go be husband for the house o. Wait on God for the right guy who'll spend on u, not a man whose family's encouraging to sponge on his wife. Him family sef no get shame. why him mama go dey give u list? hian!!
He!he!he!...dey do dey back man with wrapper o! No even try am. Y are u so desperate. The man and his mother are golddiggers. What!OMG...I cant bliv dis
wat kynd of man wld fold hz arms nd watch hiz wife foot d weddn bills? only a broke ass ni99a who has already shown u a glimpse of d awful future.. 4get dis man cuz he wuld neva hav money for rent, bills upkeep etc etc he even had d effrontery to give u a large budget..honestly, i think u will be very silly to get ahead with the marriage
That guy does not want to marry you he is interested in that you money and the mother is willing to be used to get it from you the two salaries will do the wedding if he reall loves you and is ready to marryy my dear run for your life. Ada Agulu said so.
Pls just forget him, him and his mother want to use u for business. He earns more than you sef, so he shld be ableto finance the wedding only thing is you shld support not making you spend all u hav on the wedding. To my own understanding I dnt tink he loves you or want to marry you
Plx move on with Ūя̲̅ life. ♓☺w can Ūя̲̅ mother inlaw to be give U A̶̲̅ list ☀f #4m. ÀϞԂ ♓☺w can Ūя̲̅ fiance who earns 170k §a̲̅γ he doesn't have enough to spend on wedding? Check Ūя̲̅ fiance nd mother inlaw story, its odd. Dε̲γ̲ just want to suck U dry. Its difficult bt plz, take A̶̲̅ walk.
Hey,u want to kill over a guy who obviously doesn't want u anymore bcos u want to answer "mrs "? Stop belittling urself and quit dat farce of a relationship b4 dey use ur own money to marry sumone else! Please!
My dear, I am a man and I tell you . Move on with your 3m , if you pay for the wedding , believe me you are the one marrying this guy and it shows desperation .Last time I checked We are supposed to be the one's marrying a woman and not the other way around .
Babe, never force urself 2 a man Bcos ur enemy will suffer 4 it later,u can go n fix ur money in a fix deposit @ a bank and hope 4 a better one..dont stress ur brain dear...Linda,post my comment
Please my dear leave him. U have entered 1 chance. God will give you ur own husband that would ask you to marry him and pay ur bills and not u paying for his own.
you earn 100k and he's on 170k , and he still wants u to pay for everything?????? sweetheart if u do it now u will also be the one feeding the family when u get married so , talk to ur man and discuss it better !!!
Are you the one marrying him dat you will pay for all the marriage expenses,please don't do dat or u will regret it for the rest of your life,may God help u to make a wise n a rite decision.
They are simply not just serious. Abeg, put ur money to better use joor. They should be ashamed of themselves. Don't let them take advantage of u or they'd take u for granted.
Forget him and move on with your life.its good to be supportive but having his mother call you up to give you the bill,no no.even if you had an agreement he could have just kept it to himself.its more like he's doin you a favor by marryin you.just keep praying,if its for the best he'l come arnd wt his own cash if not,a better man ll come.
RUNNNNNN FOR ŪR LIFE!!! Plx go nd invest Ūя̲̅ money in wat U will ge̲̅t̲̅ returns. Dnt throw it away to Ūя̲̅ fiance nd is mother. Cos wen U eventually marry dis guy, U wil pay for A̶̲̥̅ll is bills nd dat ☀f his family. RUNNNNNNNNNNNNNNN.
My dear, the guy is still a boy and not a man. I bliv u want to get married to a man and not a boy. "Bliv u me" he wld not even hv money while in the marrige.... My humble advice is to keep ur options open for other men.
What kind of story is this? Why would this lady be asked to contribute to the wedding let alone pay out up to N4m....that's assuming she has it. Lady's should stop being dumb and shine their eyes particularly when it comes to marriage matters. Why be in a relationship for donkey years and this is the bullshit you have to go through? Pls leave that Ode of a guy now! There is no future for you with him. If the guy is serious, he would. Have long put a wedding together with like N500k, which he can afford.
Plz dump d guy and his gold digging mom and move on wiv ur lyf cos benin men are known to frustrate deir wives or so Benin women and ladies that hv dated or married dem said... Chinwe
Don't be a maga. if he really wants you, let him pay for the wedding expenses. Before you know it, you also pay for all house expenses after the wedding. He is a man so he should act like one. just my two cents!
First time to comment here and the advice is simple move on. The bible calls a woman A HELP MATE NOT A FULL COST CARRIER. You better wake up before you carry load all your life.
Pls my dear,there re plenty men out dere dat can pay 4 a wedding nd take care of u....be ware of yahoo yahoo cos dat is wat himself nd his mum wants 2 do 2 u.save ur money ur man will come simple!!dnt even try 2 pay 4 dat wedding dat ur wedding gown isn't included,b4 u will pay 4 a wedding nd he ends up marrying sum1 else dat isn't u
My dear leave DAT dude, wats his own contribution 2wards d money,wetin concern d mum n planning wedding, DAT guy doesn't seem to be ready to take u to d altar, if he's serious he shud av saved some money too for d weddin
WTF is wrong with women? You don't need a baba alawo to tell you that your fiancé & his mom are on the verge of defrauding you. Use your fucking head. Run as fast as you can before its too late. I know its 5yrs on & you're desperate to get married & all that, but babe, think girl, think!
From your write-up, you are dating a boy, not a man...if you release the 3Million. What. Would you live on after the weddingand the expenses. Plus his Mum has his. Mumu button on speed dial...She. Holds the ace, even
My dear,if u have a church wr u worship go an confide in ur pastor or pastors wife to talk to him or assit in prayers,cos marriage isn't a joke,u mite marry him wit ur money an he feels trappd,,its beta u don't marry dan marry an feel miserable,,.
Wat da hell... Dats rubbish. wat an extravagant wedding. After d wedding tuna go still chop nd he will u b d one 2 sponsor it when he earns more. Pox ma dear free did guy I am sure his mother is part of d plan. He is Mt ready jooorrrrhh. ToPeter : "I want my money now!" Tom : "I will kill myself so that I won't pay you" *he pulled a gun n shot himself dead* Peter : "hahaha.....If u think u'll get away with my money u r wrong, i'l follow u until u pay me!" *he takes the gun n shot himself dead as well* James : was watching from a distance he laughed n said : "these guys are funny, I must watch this till the end"..... *he also took the gun and killed himself! Who is the most stupid out of them?
Are you crazy? Better move to d next man cos this one will mock you for d rest of your life, so u are d one who wants to pay his bride price and buy yam and other things for his pple. Desperado oshi
Babe!!! He earns more dan u do so y shld u pay 4 d weddin???!!! Evn his mum is in support, wowww dis is a big 1. My dear sister, am a woman lyk u, plsss leave dis man. Ar u sure u arn't gonna b in 4 some big surprise after d weddin. Plss marriage is not sometin u shld rush in2 cos u'll rush owt, kip searchin 4 ur soul mate
Your man has no money for the wedding expenses yet his mother is the one mapping out the expenses, wonders shall never end. Well if your mind is made up to marry him, ensure he contributes no matter what He's the one marrying you and not the other way round
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«Oldest ‹Older 1001 – 1200 of 1746 Newer› Newest»Plsssss run 4 ur life cos your man is so shameless and lacks all sense of pride and dignity!...my dear if u choose to remain in the rlshp pls neva pay for the wedding o! TUFIAKWA!!!
My dear I don't think to give out the money is a good idea. He is not serious wit u infact he doesn't love.
I pity ur mother u are disgrace to girl child how much have u given ur mother? U rush in u rush out desperando
My dear,,,waka ooo, d man na zombie, do you want to pay for your own bribe price???? Things are not done that way, this kind of men end up marrying one village girl, b wise, or better still you can consult your pastor and some elderly people abt this
Sister, run like disaster is on your heels.
"A word is enough ......."
Oba of Lake Forest.
Still sipping Limca.
My dear move on. Y will you be the sole sponsor of your wedding ? What does he do with his salary. Pls don't deceive yourself, God will send you a better man. By the time you pay for wedding, you will become the family bread winner. Arrant nonsense
Take a walk.....
Jezz girl dnt b a despirado,d guy shuld b d 1 to spend dn u cn choose to assist hm.take a long walk 4rm dat so kald relationshp,d guy ist ready to settle dwn.he is wastin ur tym.170k per month lets deduct 100k 4 xpenses.dat guy has d Moni
Na wa oh. Na d guy mom go do estimate or ur mom. Person no understnd una talk self.
My dear I am sorry tell u dis 4get him I'll advice u 2 4get him. is more better he doesn't love u becos if he do nd ready as a serious guy his d one dat suppose 2 pay 4 everything may be latter u can support him in a little way.
Pls D̶̲̥̅̊ε̲̣̣̣̥aя forget about him
How Una go plan wedding of 4m Una get mental problem?
He is not ur husband, pls forget him
leave that good for nothing man and take a walk.don,t be desperate for anything.trust GOD and and spend a fraction of your earnings to propagate the gospel.you will marvel at what GOD will do for you.that man is a fraud.BEWARE.
He į̸̸̨Ƨ̷ hiding something 4rm ƔU̶̲̥̅̊? Do not continue,
Obviously the man does not want you as a wife and that mother of his...hmmmmm she's TROUBLE ooooo, I'm surprised that you need someone to tell you to RUN for your life..
One sentence: in African culture a woman is to be married by a man, not the other way....go figure.
see ds mumu o! na so u dey desperate to marry. dem go job u oooo
My dear don't be foolish, he earns more and the fact that he doesn't want to spend his own money smacks of irresponsibility! I doubt if he even wants toi marry you, my dear move on and find someone better
My dear sister is better you let the man go, coz after collecting your money you will never set your eyes on him or he will go and get marry to someone else
HERE WE GO AGAIN! I SHOULD IGNORE THIS QUESTIONS BUT LET ME ANSWER BY SAYING ' HE'S NOT INTO YOU' AND YOU ARE TRYING TOOOOOOOO HARD BC A MAN WHO REALLY LOVES YOU WILL CARRY YOU ON HIS HEAD! HE WILL 'NEVER' I REPEAT 'NEVER' LET YOU PAY FOR YOUR WEDDING. ARE YOU KIDDING ME.....SHAKES HEAD AND WALKING AWAY! RUUUNNN AS FAST YOUR LEGS CAN CARRY YOU. BS!
Pls my dear move on wit ur life, its obvious d nigga doesn't wanna marry u.....pls save ur money nd let him marry his mother..they are jst golddiggers...long hiss
Am sorry but i need to come out real straight to u. First of all you are about to get married to a very selfish man and your potential mother inlaw is even worse. That family has no dignity in them. Your fiance does not love u. No woman should hustle for her own wedding. That man can even not care if you sleep with your boss to get money for ur wedding, a mere ceremony for that matter. My sister if you go on with this wedding then am sorry you would even go through worse in your marriage except God intervenes. A broken relationship iis better than a broken home.
If he wants to be with you, you would have been married already, except na you been propose to am o!
Elizabeth
Please move on with ur life u don't need such people in your life, what will happen after the marriage. If I am your brother I will tell you to find something better to use your money to do. God will provide your husband for u.
U better run as fast as u can frm ds guy nd hs mum, if u bear al d expenses jst kn dt tru out ur stay wif hm(that is if it last)u wil b d bread winner of d family. Weytin hm de do if hm money? My dear, pls don't b in a hurry 2 settle dwn, like seriously I kn how it is 4 a matured lady 2 b single buh its better u wait 4 God's tym than 2 rush in nd rush out. Asedanu leleyi oooooooo ja ara e
Hummmmm, your name na sorry oh. Don't try it men are not worth it at all . sorry to say.
Pls forget the man and move on,cos it is obvious your man is not ready to take responsibility.
You want to marry yourself a man? Seek ye first the kingdom of God my Dear & all others things will be added on. Jesus loves u. He is the only one that has true answers to your question & can indeed change your story.
My dear I am sorry tell u dis 4get him I'll advice u 2 4get him. is more better he doesn't love u becos if his ready as a serious guy his d one dat suppose 2 pay 4 everything may be latter u can support him in a little way.
Hey!! 4get abt dat guy nd move on wiv ur life.....
It doesn't worth it at all if u can't wait for him to marry u my dear dumb d asshole. Come to think of it ow can u spend ur savings in a wedding? Be wise!!!
There's something wrong with you. Y would you pay for the wedding with ur life's savings. Marriage is a partnership and his mum is shameless. Better run
Be ready to be the provider in the family for the rest of you life as long as you are married to this guy.
Mu dear pls forget abt him pls i beg of you in God name
Are u dat desperate madam?? Will u eva be respected by ur husband? Tink abt all dizzz and gladly bow out.
Better run from this man and his shameless mum that want to drain your savings. 2 shall become 1 not 1 shall carry both before the race even starts
Are u getting married to him or he is getting married to you? Pay for d wedding n get ready to b d husband of house.
Move move n kip moving
Dearie my opiniön 4get him,he nt serious.hw can u be paying 4 ur wedding and he is nt contributing nothing.4get him before u regret ur decision lata
Haba,are U marrying the man or he is Marrying U,it ir wrong both Morally and Biblically for U to sponsor the wedding.esp as he earns more,Tell him u want a low key wedding to see his reaction and if he objects then u know he just wants ur money!Run for ur dear life before they turn u to money making factor).
I'm confused about this post. Now linda you made this up certainly. The story line is not coordinated. Please linda stop reducing the IQ of LIB readers even if it is a gossip blog please have a little depth biko
This reeks of desperation of the highest order! That you shld even entertain such is indeed unfathomable! If he's not married u till now, then forget it. A man that truly loves u will live up to his responsibilty n do d rite tin. U need to move on & forget this gold digger n wicked mother. Since she too can allow her own daughters do such a foolish thing. Live is over rated! Pls be wise n move on as they font give a damn about you. Mama already has another babe for her son to marry. Possession of two shrunken balls does not make one a man. Marriage is not do or die! Goodluck!
Re u ok,wil u be d one to marry him or him marrying u pls stay off dat marriage if he can do all tins with his money ok
Sweethrt forget that family!... Before its too late
Why bother asking, forget him off course, the woman is so shameless having the guts to tell u to pay 4m and marry her son, kilode, is his cock made of diamond ni
my dear why will u pay 3million for both traditional nd white wedding are u the one marrying urself to ur BF u said he earns 170k does that mean he cant save some money from that to pay ur bride price and do the wedding his mum is even shameless to tell u d amount it will cost you instead of her telling her son dat what kind of mother is that! secondly I don't think this guy loves u enough to want to marry u as his wife cos if he does I belt u he will save money for it since he earns 170k and if u try it be sure u will be paying for d bills in the house cos he will still say he does not have money! have u asked him what he does with his whole salary that makes him not to have money to marry you I think ur man is lining! how are u sure after you pay all the money for the wedding that this guy will value you.I will advice u not to try it you can't marry urself if he loves u enough he should do it is 5 years already he should be eager to but if he did not find ur way and end d relationship pls shine ur eye oh.
My dear, leave this man and run for your life. He is obviously a useless person, he has no regard for you neither do I think he really wants to marry you. If you pay for the wedding, it means accommodation, school fees, medical bills etc, nigga will expect you to foot the bills. just move on and forget him.
Run away dear...and by the way; that man is a disgrace to us men! Nonsense!
Pls my dear sister forget the guy,they just want your money.
U wl b d greatest fool of d year if u dare try it.cnt u see d hand writting on d wall? D guy ddnt love u.Smh! My dear u better save ur money $ move on wit ur life. A better guy wl cme pls.....
Some ladies are so foolish sha.na by force to marry.if a man is ready to settle down,he wld provide for his wedding .dnt b a foolish n desperate woman ohhh.nonsence.
Pls 4get dis man
My dear there's nothing to think about move on with your life, the man is suppose to wife you! Who so ever finds a wife has find a good thing a not who so ever finds a man.keep your cash......a better man that knows your worth will come n do the right thing
DO NOTstart something you can't finish! Just forget the wasted years and move on with your life. This guy and his family will use you now and use you tomorrow.
How much more irresponsible can your man be if he can't save a penny from whatever amount he earns for his wedding. Trust that you'll also feed him and his family after marriage. The way of an infidel.
Sorry dear, if you start by paying for the wedding, be prepared to pay the bills when you marry. A serious minded guy who loves you will not plan an expensive wedding on your account. By the way, what stops you from having a quiet wedding at the registry pending the time you can both afford the big one if required? Why is a big wedding necessary anyway when the 3M is enough to buy a plot of land or invest for the future?
pls just forget the guy.
give me the money. left for me ehen we can do wedding 5000naira plus honeymoon.
Very funny. Did l read that? Go ahead and finance the wedding and get ready to be the husband.
Babe, fuck love, leave his unserious ass, move on with your life and the true man willcome. I know right now the sentiments of having dated for 5years clouds your thinking. Mind you I am a guy and I stand by what I say.
U beta 4get abt suh a man; dft mins u wil b d one fending 4 d family afta d wedin; dey r nt evn ashamed!
Pls leave the guy he and his mother are after your money God will provide someone better and God fearing for you. If he loves you then he must act like a man and not a mama's boy
Sweetheart nothing to be confused about. Go tell your parents what your boo and his mom are up to. Lol..... the rest will take care of itself. Girl run fast. 5 years of waste. Wake up!!!! This guy and his mom should marry themselves. This is just annoying.
You really don't have to have a luxurious wedding you know.
Bomboclat! 4get d mugu,na woman suppose arrange raba 4 wedding?
-Blunt Ibo boy-
run for your dear life..... I have met men like this, if u marry him ur diggining ur grave , u will become the man of the house, u will suffer and u will fend for all d kids u bear. he shld be castrated, he is a gold digger and his mum) daidn't raise hime well, dnt let anyone blackmail u into marriage with a weakling, ders nothing more to marriage than shared responsibility (naija mentality) run for ur dear life, I wud rada be single than marry a weakling
My dear wake up. The boy does not want to marry u.
Why are you so desperate? Girls please look before you leap, marriage is not a do or due affairs.you want to be the one to marry the guy with your money, tomorrow he will dump you.Sandy Berry.
my dear it's not awfar but aw well...
I will advice u 2 STP DAT relationship bcus u'll end up taking d guyz responsibility wen u get married 2 him
PLEASE mydear,kip ur money & invest. Wen u pay 4ur wedding wat makes u think u won't kip on paying 4 bills thru out d marriage? Besides,d mum shd also ask her son ow mch he has 4d wedding.besides he earns more than u & if he want u 2b his wife,dn let him show it & nt behave as if he is doing u a favour. U r dre 2 support him & nt 2 b d sponsor.
Abeg run for your life.
My dear,don't try such a thing,infant he did not love u.
Mumu plan yur wedding ursef pls,dnt mind d local mother...
Babe get the fastest car and run as fast as you can
What a time waster of a man. Phew! His mum is even shameless o, sorry to say that. I beg u in the name of God ,dont. There are situations one can compromise but not this one. It isn't by force to marry him. Trust me with this advise. I wish I cld say much
With all due respect to his mother,she no get concise!would she allow her daughter do such! Wat kind of a family is dat!its nt like he doesn't av money..I knw its hard to leave some1 u'v spent yrs with but trust dat nt d kind of family any girl should pray to be in...dust ur slippers and run fast!many men are out dere and with God u'll find d right one! Use that money for something else!
1000 slaps for you, shey una be twins weh no go make you leave the gold digger family,if i may ask who is marrying who? this is not india, as for the guy's mother was her wretched wedding up to 4m? my dear flee from that family :((
You must be daft to be seeking advice on what to do. Well, save he's customized just for you then stick there and release your life savings. Igaasikwa.. Nne if really your story is true, i candidly advise you leave that fool and come and marry me. Am looking for a good girl to marry. Keep your 3m, i will take care of everything.
Pls take a walk not husband material
Pls n pls am beggging u in God's name.pls dnt.jus move on...I wish I can xplain beta buh trust me d best option is 2 flee...
y dear frnd Pls keep ur moni 2 urself,another man will com,bcos dis ur so call fiance is not ready 2 do anytin even d parent r not ready 2 support u,my just use ur moni 4 business or some important jare.to hell wit d man.wen u broke up wit him let see if he will not get marriage 2 some1 else.move on wit ur life n use ur moni 4 sometin gud jor,God bless u as u. Read
Gosh, I don't understand somethings. The guy and the mom are shameless. Just do what your heart tells you because you will not like my advice.
Linda ur jokes are getting dry by the day. Cheers. Engr E
Pls move on babe...if U release d money it simply means U are d 1 proposing nd hence d man in d relationship! D guy will never appreciate nor value U. 4get d 5yrs of courtship,Doors will open 4 U that U won't be able 2 explain. But wait 1st o, y shld d guy's mom call U 2 give U budget? Its clear ur d man in this thing calld courtship...FLEE b4 U get duped! Berra open ur eyes b4 it opens U! #okbye
4million for what? i guess she included the 'Infinity FX 35' u will drive as u begin ur married life. Desperate chicks fall for scam always. By d way who is marrying who? are u goin to pay for other xpenses after d wedding cos if he cant save now he will never learn it. dnt rush into Bearing liabilities cos u want to b married cos it doesnt matter will soon become matters arising.
Hey poster gal, I'm sorry 2 say dis bt he doesn't want 2 marry u ooo!!!! Just run.
Honey just move on with you life and forget that son of a bitch.
Let u 2 contribute d money,if he says no den 4get him...na stingy guy
Don't be a maga. if he really wants you, let him pay for the wedding expenses. Before you know it, you also pay for all house expenses after the wedding. He is a man so he should act like one. just my two cents!
Don't be a maga. if he really wants you, let him pay for the wedding expenses. Before you know it, you also pay for all house expenses after the wedding. He is a man so he should act like one. just my two cents!
Babe u r being played. Move ahead ooh
Don't be a maga. if he really wants you, let him pay for the wedding expenses. Before you know it, you also pay for all house expenses after the wedding. He is a man so he should act like one. just my two cents!
Surulere is all I can tell you...
Omoh, my dear, its nt 2 late o, pls run 4 ur life.. Cos d truth is, u are going to continue paying 4 evrytin till death do u both part.. Dis guy is nt 4 u, he isn't evn man enough.. Abeg o, marriage is not by force.. When u meet someone that cares enough 4 u, and that has ur well being at heart, u will know.. Pls, my dear paying 4 ur wedding will be a very terrible mistake, d man and his family are idiots..
That guyis obviously not serious and ready to marry you, my advice is that you move on with your life and don't take such risk, don't be desperate nd don't limit yourself cos yuve dated him for 5years..ma sista God has beta plans for your and he will fulfil it IJN
Mumu girl, desperado
you must be stupid y are u going to pay for ur wedding even if u are urgly one day u will marry forget dis stupid man with his stupid mother don't u av parent
you must be stupid y are u going to pay for ur wedding even if u are urgly one day u will marry forget dis stupid man with his stupid mother don't u av parent
Dear, I don't buy the idea of u paying for ur wedding. The pride of a woman is a man coming for her and footing the bills. But not that u can't help out. Are u d one marrying him or is it the other way round? Tmrw he will brag that u were so desperate and paid ur own dowry. Pls o, if u want respect in that house, Don't! He can do it. He earns enough. I know pple that got married with 50k salary. Its planning. Then secondly, just bear in mind that if u start bearing the reaponsibility from now, u will forever bear it. He is the man, he shld act as one. Discuss it with him and pray over it, God will tell u what to do. Though He has already said that any man that cannot take care of his family is worse than an infidel. So, how will he now be a good husband if he allows u to "marry him" by paying ur way through. Its not done dear. Other men will even insist on doing it alone and he is asking u to carry all the burden and his mother is giving u list. I wonder o!
Run for your life my dear.pay for the wedding and be sure to feed clothe and provide shelter for him and his family
My dear, dn't even think of sponsoring the wedding cos its not in ur position 2 do dat & he'll just feel u're cheap & desperate 2 get married.If he cannot sponsor the marriage, den hw are u sure he care give u all d luv, care & affection wen u finally do dat? If u ask me, I'll tell u 2 forget about him #Life is 2 sweet 4 any man 2 play wit ur happiness#
did you say she called you from Benin? You are about to help a guy achive his plan of travelling oversee. All Benin people get relation abroad.
Forget the bager anf move on he is slowing your life
Funny indeed.. d guy nd his mom r jokers.. get ready to feed his family after d wedding...
Look for sum1 serious joor...
what kind of Wedding is dat dat will cost dat kind of money?
Maybe the bill is to put u off.... The guy doesn't wanna marry you cos where does that happen that the mother calls her daughter inlaw.... Moreover if u get thru with this, be ready 2 be the husband #my2kobo
My dear, dn't even think of sponsoring the wedding cos its not in ur position 2 do dat & he'll just feel u're cheap & desperate 2 get married.If he cannot sponsor the marriage, den hw are u sure he care give u all d luv, care & affection wen u finally do dat? If u ask me, I'll tell u 2 forget about him #Life is 2 sweet 4 any man 2 play wit ur happiness#
My dear, dn't even think of sponsoring the wedding cos its not in ur position 2 do dat & he'll just feel u're cheap & desperate 2 get married.If he cannot sponsor the marriage, den hw are u sure he care give u all d luv, care & affection wen u finally do dat? If u ask me, I'll tell u 2 forget about him #Life is 2 sweet 4 any man 2 play wit ur happiness#
My dear, dn't even think of sponsoring the wedding cos its not in ur position 2 do dat & he'll just feel u're cheap & desperate 2 get married.If he cannot sponsor the marriage, den hw are u sure he care give u all d luv, care & affection wen u finally do dat? If u ask me, I'll tell u 2 forget about him #Life is 2 sweet 4 any man 2 play wit ur happiness#
FORGET HIM AND MOVE ON, IF A MAN LOVES YOU HE WILL EVEN BORROW FROM THE BANK JUST TO BE WITH YOU FOREVER. THIS GUY WILL SOON INSULT YOU THAT YOU FRCED YOURSELF ON HIM!!!! LIVE IS TOO SHORT TO SPEND TIME WAITING ON SOMEONE!!!
My dear just move on with ur life. He is not serious.
ah ah are u a learner?? na wa o...if u pay for the wed nw,wen u guys get married just prepare to start payin for the bills 2..if hes broke bt truely loves u,u guys shld contribute equally or better still u do a very simple wedding dat his money can reach simple.
ah ah are u a learner?? na wa o...if u pay for the wed nw,wen u guys get married just prepare to start payin for the bills 2..if hes broke bt truely loves u,u guys shld contribute equally or better still u do a very simple wedding dat his money can reach simple.
Your do called fiance is from irresponsible family.
Wow this is horror, my dear pleeeeeAaaaaaaaassssss use your head this guy doesn't love u even though he might be acting all loving when he is with u. Please run 4 your life bcos in future he will turn to a beast who would not value u an treat u like sh*t. Jess
You did be stupid to even think of sponsoring a wedding. Are you that desperate? Oh my goodness! Did you just say your wedding gown and his suit are not included? Not only are you getting reaped off...your mother-in-law should cover her face in shame. I see no reason why you should still be with that man. You deserve better sweetie and don't let no pressure push you into doing something stupid.
Pls dt guy s nt serioz wit u@al.he earns 170k nd u 100k nd he kips sayin dt he dosnt ve mony 4 d weddin...watttttt???ppl dt earns even less dan dat stl try 2 save up somtins wen tins lik dz comes up.pls try nd move on wit ur life,he doesn't luv u!!!
Hummmmmm girl friend u better run for ur life pls don't give any kobo to them
Your combined salaries add up to 270k a month and you're planning a N4M wedding ??? Correct !!
forget the man
That one no be man, abeg forget him
Linda wetin happen, your blog don hang? Since mid day no news no comments.
Don't even think about asking if you leave or stay with him my dear, yes leave him sure cause he's not a man, he's just a pussy, trust me if you marry him your life will be miserable. I'm a man and I mean it.
My dear sis, I thnk u knw beta everythn dt has bn happnin durin d long relatnshp......... Run 4 ur life cos I blv u woult v actually bn enduring so much all dz yrs. A normal process of marriage, a man is suppose 2 tk up d larger n most imprtnt aspct of marriage ceremony xpenses n nt d oda way, n lyk u said he earn more than u. Sis, he doesn't love u at all, n it more or less a planned work 2 dupe u. If actuali u drop ur 3m, whtz d assurance of his continuous love n care 4 u, if actually he loves n cares. Pls a word is enuf 4 u, if u r wise. Pray n 4llow ur heart. It is well
No try am ooo..... I don't the same n am seriously regretting it. He will never have respect for u.
why will you use your money for the wedding ceremony? Babe, no enter one chance o. Once u start, na u go be husband for the house o. Wait on God for the right guy who'll spend on u, not a man whose family's encouraging to sponge on his wife. Him family sef no get shame. why him mama go dey give u list? hian!!
Are you for real?what kind of dumb question is that?ditch his ass joor.buy land with ur money babes!
He!he!he!...dey do dey back man with wrapper o! No even try am. Y are u so desperate. The man and his mother are golddiggers. What!OMG...I cant bliv dis
wat kynd of man wld fold hz arms nd watch hiz wife foot d weddn bills? only a broke ass ni99a who has already shown u a glimpse of d awful future.. 4get dis man cuz he wuld neva hav money for rent, bills upkeep etc etc he even had d effrontery to give u a large budget..honestly, i think u will be very silly to get ahead with the marriage
Oshisco. Pls read ur question out loud to ur hearing, am sure u will find answer,, which kin mumu u be self. D guy dey press ur mumu botton wella.
D truth is bitter BT my dear He doesn't want too marry u!!!! So 4get him nd move on
That guy does not want to marry you he is interested in that you money and the mother is willing to be used to get it from you the two salaries will do the wedding if he reall loves you and is ready to marryy my dear run for your life. Ada Agulu said so.
Move on with ur life
His mother has no right giving you a list...My dear, move on...these are jokers!!!
Pls just forget him, him and his mother want to use u for business. He earns more than you sef, so he shld be ableto finance the wedding only thing is you shld support not making you spend all u hav on the wedding. To my own understanding I dnt tink he loves you or want to marry you
Move on with ur life my dear
D truth is bitter But my dear He doesn't want to marry u. 4get him nd walk away
My dear run for your life! It's possible he already has a plan with his mum to run u down
Plx move on with Ūя̲̅ life. ♓☺w can Ūя̲̅ mother inlaw to be give U A̶̲̅ list ☀f #4m. ÀϞԂ ♓☺w can Ūя̲̅ fiance who earns 170k §a̲̅γ he doesn't have enough to spend on wedding? Check Ūя̲̅ fiance nd mother inlaw story, its odd. Dε̲γ̲ just want to suck U dry. Its difficult bt plz, take A̶̲̅ walk.
Hey,u want to kill over a guy who obviously doesn't want u anymore bcos u want to answer "mrs "? Stop belittling urself and quit dat farce of a relationship b4 dey use ur own money to marry sumone else! Please!
My dear dis guy doesn't want to marry u. U ve to move on with ur life. 4get him jare
My dear dis guy doesn't want to marry u. U ve to move on with ur life. 4get him jare
My dear, I am a man and I tell you . Move on with your 3m , if you pay for the wedding , believe me you are the one marrying this guy and it shows desperation .Last time I checked We are supposed to be the one's marrying a woman and not the other way around .
Donnie
My dear, run for your life. I think you are being manipulated by your fiance and his mum
Babe, never force urself 2 a man Bcos ur enemy will suffer 4 it later,u can go n fix ur money in a fix deposit @ a bank and hope 4 a better one..dont stress ur brain dear...Linda,post my comment
Please my dear leave him. U have entered 1 chance. God will give you ur own husband that would ask you to marry him and pay ur bills and not u paying for his own.
My dear u nid 2 discuss dis wit ur mum she wud b in a better position.or sit dw relax & tk ur tym.
Please don't it shows that they don't care about you , but they care about your money.
Runnnnnnnnnnnnnn, use ur head.
My sista abeg keep ur money. Its nt ur responsibility to pay for.
My dear, run for your life. I think you are being manipulated by your Fiance and his mum.
Hmmmm this marriage issue eill no kill us my dear sister to me don't give them the money oh fine your way
dnt b d one 2 pay 4 d wedding let hm do it ,if nt move on wth ur lyf.
dnt b d one 2 pay 4 d wedding let hm do it ,if nt move on wth ur lyf.
you earn 100k and he's on 170k , and he still wants u to pay for everything?????? sweetheart if u do it now u will also be the one feeding the family when u get married so , talk to ur man and discuss it better !!!
Are you the one marrying him dat you will pay for all the marriage expenses,please don't do dat or u will regret it for the rest of your life,may God help u to make a wise n a rite decision.
Haaaa,r u a learner? Pls run. Cos na ur blood,u go use maintain that marriage.
Just be ready to do this for the rest of your life. #nuff said
U b mumu if u release dt money,,,read d hand writn on d wall.....d guy de try pursue u so do ur sef dt favour
Babe be wise that all I can say cos u pay wedding bills the all bills comes from u that is to say u re d husband and he is the wife
Babe be wise that all I can say cos u pay wedding bills the all bills comes from u that is to say u re d husband and he is the wife
Gurl, if u sincerely need a sincere advice, pls take a walk with ur money, both mother n son are so shameless, kai.
They are simply not just serious. Abeg, put ur money to better use joor. They should be ashamed of themselves. Don't let them take advantage of u or they'd take u for granted.
Babe be wise that all I can say
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Leave my dear he is not worth it
Talk it out with your guy and if he's insisting d 3m is on yu, my dear think thrice ooo, so u won't regret afta d marriage.
Chic is u dere do dat, u will marry a pussy not a man, run fast,very fast as u can chic(meemee).
why would u pay for the entire wedding. Are u marring him or he is marring you ?. don't pay o
Forget him and move on with your life.its good to be supportive but having his mother call you up to give you the bill,no no.even if you had an agreement he could have just kept it to himself.its more like he's doin you a favor by marryin you.just keep praying,if its for the best he'l come arnd wt his own cash if not,a better man ll come.
4get and move on
RUNNNNNN FOR ŪR LIFE!!! Plx go nd invest Ūя̲̅ money in wat U will ge̲̅t̲̅ returns. Dnt throw it away to Ūя̲̅ fiance nd is mother. Cos wen U eventually marry dis guy, U wil pay for A̶̲̥̅ll is bills nd dat ☀f his family. RUNNNNNNNNNNNNNNN.
My dear, the guy is still a boy and not a man. I bliv u want to get married to a man and not a boy. "Bliv u me" he wld not even hv money while in the marrige.... My humble advice is to keep ur options open for other men.
So the guy will now wear suit on that day without Contributing my dear friend na man dey marry woman to me tell him to complete the money
What kind of story is this? Why would this lady be asked to contribute to the wedding let alone pay out up to N4m....that's assuming she has it.
Lady's should stop being dumb and shine their eyes particularly when it comes to marriage matters.
Why be in a relationship for donkey years and this is the bullshit you have to go through?
Pls leave that Ode of a guy now! There is no future for you with him.
If the guy is serious, he would. Have long put a wedding together with like N500k, which he can afford.
Dats a huge amnt of money,u guys hv to b prudent.so don't release dat cash.
Run away
They dey craze. Extortionists.
Plz dump d guy and his gold digging mom and move on wiv ur lyf cos benin men are known to frustrate deir wives or so Benin women and ladies that hv dated or married dem said... Chinwe
Don't be a maga. if he really wants you, let him pay for the wedding expenses. Before you know it, you also pay for all house expenses after the wedding. He is a man so he should act like one. just my two cents!
Tell the boy and e mama make them go lick piss. She no shame dey ask for 4 M
Nonsense,he should go and marry his mother...give the money to orphanage homes,much beta...your real husband will come to you soon,don't rush.
First time to comment here and the advice is simple move on. The bible calls a woman A HELP MATE NOT A FULL COST CARRIER. You better wake up before you carry load all your life.
Pls my dear,there re plenty men out dere dat can pay 4 a wedding nd take care of u....be ware of yahoo yahoo cos dat is wat himself nd his mum wants 2 do 2 u.save ur money ur man will come simple!!dnt even try 2 pay 4 dat wedding dat ur wedding gown isn't included,b4 u will pay 4 a wedding nd he ends up marrying sum1 else dat isn't u
pls am begging dont go on with the wedding, wat is he using his money for?
My dear leave DAT dude, wats his own contribution 2wards d money,wetin concern d mum n planning wedding, DAT guy doesn't seem to be ready to take u to d altar, if he's serious he shud av saved some money too for d weddin
WTF is wrong with women? You don't need a baba alawo to tell you that your fiancé & his mom are on the verge of defrauding you. Use your fucking head. Run as fast as you can before its too late. I know its 5yrs on & you're desperate to get married & all that, but babe, think girl, think!
U are being hacked girrll! Get out while u can.
My dear lady, pls move on with ur life. That man dnt want to marry u.
If you pay for the wedding, you don enter one chance be that.
I beg use your money to do some other things jare.
If you truly love the guy, stay with him and pray to God for him to come to his sense. If you don't love him truly, I beg WAKA (RUN)!
From your write-up, you are dating a boy, not a man...if you release the 3Million. What. Would you live on after the weddingand the expenses. Plus his Mum has his. Mumu button on speed dial...She. Holds the ace, even
I don't think dis guy,is ready for u. He is dating some one. The handwritting is boldly on the wall. Forget him
leave d quy,he doesn't love yhu.he z pushinq yhu awt of hz life.
My dear,if u have a church wr u worship go an confide in ur pastor or pastors wife to talk to him or assit in prayers,cos marriage isn't a joke,u mite marry him wit ur money an he feels trappd,,its beta u don't marry dan marry an feel miserable,,.
Wat da hell... Dats rubbish. wat an extravagant wedding. After d wedding tuna go still chop nd he will u b d one 2 sponsor it when he earns more. Pox ma dear free did guy I am sure his mother is part of d plan. He is Mt ready jooorrrrhh. ToPeter : "I want my money now!" Tom : "I will kill myself so that I won't pay you" *he pulled a gun n shot
himself dead* Peter : "hahaha.....If u think u'll get away with my money u r wrong, i'l follow u until u pay me!" *he takes the
gun n shot himself dead as well* James : was watching from a distance he laughed n said : "these guys are
funny, I must watch this till the end".....
*he also took the gun and killed himself! Who is the most stupid out of them?
Are you crazy? Better move to d next man cos this one will mock you for d rest of your life, so u are d one who wants to pay his bride price and buy yam and other things for his pple. Desperado oshi
#learner
Back to reality, madam liber, ow come ur mother in law is the one drawing out ur wedding plan? Oh girl, have a retink and just go to the registry.
U might spend 3M or more bt it wont earn u respect from ur man. It only shows hw desperate u are to tie d nuptial knot. Be guided.
#conqueror#
Babe!!! He earns more dan u do so y shld u pay 4 d weddin???!!! Evn his mum is in support, wowww dis is a big 1. My dear sister, am a woman lyk u, plsss leave dis man. Ar u sure u arn't gonna b in 4 some big surprise after d weddin. Plss marriage is not sometin u shld rush in2 cos u'll rush owt, kip searchin 4 ur soul mate
Your man has no money for the wedding expenses yet his mother is the one mapping out the expenses, wonders shall never end. Well if your mind is made up to marry him, ensure he contributes no matter what
He's the one marrying you and not the other way round
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