This has got to be the weirdest Dear LIB readers question ever. Wasn't sure if I should put it up but here it is...
"Linda and fellow LIB readers, please help! I am a nursing mother/wife. I get wet and sometime cum when I'm breastfeeding my 7 months old son who happens to be my first baby. When he suckles my breast...gosh! What is happening to me? Are there other mothers out there who have had similar feelings? What can I do to stop this? Am I developing unhealthy sexual feelings for my own son or what is this? Please I need help!
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U need a delievrace
Linda, you no post my comment. This na new year ohh, abeg post am.
Rubbish!renew ur mind and it will stop it won't happen if you see it as your son just feeding
Make him papa no hear that one! Him go ban the boy from further sucking.
You are not developing any unhealthy feelings for your son. I guess your nipples are very sensitive hence the arousal you feel when breastfeeding.
The way to go about it is to completely take ur mind away and focus on other things when you are breastfeeding.
I think u shud Go see a specialist..... Not heathy
Lool I swear mahn, I go like know ur son ooo
Lolz, vry funny, pls experienced pple sud talk o. We wana learn
Is feelings ur body is responding to stimuli.beside u are human jez like wen ur hubby is sucking.no big deal na normal
The only way is to stop breastfeeding him tanx
Maybe u should see a doctor
Its a bad omen u nid to check urself
Am a nursing mother with my first daughter of 3 months. I feel dd sensation when she suckles buh av learnt to laugh it off when d sensation becomes heightened or I take her mouth off my breast for a while.. motherhood is very funny buh sweet.. find sumtng to distract u wen breastfeeding him,i think it will help. Bless
mayb dat is ow ur husband get u wen he wants to have sex with u, it notin strange u will soon get over it.
sweetheart,its not strange @ all,no worries.
sweetheart its not strange @ all cos it happened to me as well initially so no worries
Its normal cos I av heard a lot of women complain d feel somtin wen ever d baby sucks!
@ ikwerreboy, u suck, get a life... If u can't help its better u shut up...
G0 for medical checkup. Also watch ur feelings
Pray to God my dear, or see a counselor, this is a serious case...pls u guys shld not put up stupid comments here let's be sensitive
Just try to suppress the feeling n don't mix / mistake or transfer what you feel for your husband to your son. Pls have sex if you feel horney
You are too sexually active.
Dunno what's wrong with my account.
Can't drop comments with it.
God dey.
TOLUWALASE'S BOO.
My dear, go and see a medical practitioner to know what to do, I'm a grandmother, I've not heard or exprience such. It is well with u
Wa oh, please don't hurt the boy. I have not experienced it yet. $£.
I wont judge u cos people have different body physiology.u should get a breast pump to extract the milk with and feed him from a feeding bottle instead.
Dis is nt normal dear u need to see a doctor not for treatment bt for counselling
Haaa! See gobe! Ds aint normal abeg! Sooo not normal! Cum keh??
Anty Lin Lin abeg post mi comment ooooo biko
You are highly sensitive to that act. It should stop when you stop brrastfeeding. I'm a man and I react to the slightest touch of the oppo
site sex. So I avoid undue hugs and prolonged touch of ladies and it helps.
sweetheart,its not strange @ all,no worries.
It sure tingles,but d fact dat u get wet and sometimes,come.I can't help u there.
My dear u need to talk to ur doctor.its abnormal am a nursing mother too and it dosent happen to me
I belive as a woman wot drives u 2 get wet n cum is d sexual urges n dat cum frm torts so breast feed ur baby n remove d tort of sex n plesure 4rm ur heart n u b fine or raither watch tv or tok wt smone y breast feedin him.
Its a normal physiologic process. Its the prolactin and estrogens that shoot up when d mammary glands r stimulated . They r sendind signals to ur brain that ur body is ready for a sexual activity. Just be careful tho . Cherrs
Hello what you are experiencing is not strange it been ur first baby and all it sometimes happen to nursing mothers it jst your body responding to what your brain is telling it to do. but all you need to do is try and take ur mind off what is happening between your legs nd u wil b fine
Very funny..I think ur nipples r ur weakness.
Happens to sm mothers
Actually wat is happenin 2 u is a normal tin nd der r a lot of women out der dat r feelin d same. D reason 4 dis is dat wen avin makin luv u reach ur orgasm quick wen ur boost is been suck so der is no big deal in it nd pls don't av dat feelins in u dat u devolopin unhealthy feelins 4 ur baby cos dats not wat is happenin. Its normal K. Wen u av ur 2nd baby by den u wil b use 2 dat nd such feelins wil stop
Half the stuff people send to LIB can be gotten with a little research. It's something a percentage of women experience, nothing to be ashamed of, except when you actively seek it. See this link
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hmmmm, thats terrible, hope you overcome it.
CRAZY!LatinoPINKY
It's because he's your first child and first experience at breastfeeding. I'm sure u get aroused sexually when your breast is sucked and that same feeling is what is replicated in your son. I'll advice you free your mind from such thoughts while feeding him. Soon it will be a thing of the past.
Hehehe..wait till he starts to grow teeth & bites u! Ur head go reset sharperly! Lol. + Linda continue to be biased minded o! If u like no post. 'Wendy
Go and see your doctor
Please seek for medical advice from a professional doctor or even the hospital where u had ur baby
Am a breastfeeding mother too but mehn! Dis ish is scary... Only get a tingling feelin smtimes, dats all... Get wet n cum? Never...try to distract ur mind wen breastfeeding, dis is not healthy
That is totally completely NORMAL!!!! It doesn't mean you're turned on but you also can't help it if it happens. It happens to a lot of women most just don't want to admit it.
Many women who breastfeed have the experience of feeling aroused, and even having an orgasm, while breastfeeding. But because this is something researchers haven’t studied, and it isn’t a regular part of the education of mothers-to-be, many women experience this and then feel silent shame or guilt, as if there is something wrong with them. But there is a very clear reason for the experience and women neither need to feel shame or embarrassment about it which is caused mostly by a lack of information.
Oxytocin is a hormone that stimulates ejection of milk from the nipples, and its release is triggered by breast stimulation.
But oxytocin is implicated in many other physiological processes. It is involved in contractions of the uterus (both during childbirth and during orgasm), as well as being associated with the feeling of relaxation and satiation following orgasm.
It is thought that this is the reason that breastfeeding may produce feelings of sexual arousal and orgasm. And the experience is far from rare.
Don't let anyone tell you otherwise. It's completely normal and there is nothing wrong with you.
Hahahaha!!! This Ikwerreboy eh, u no well o! Very funny comment sha
Lolz funny u@ik
There is nothing to be embarrassed about.
It's a normal physiological response to lactation hormones. Breastfeeding feels good! If it didn't, very few mothers would do it. It might help to understand just what hormonal responses are taking place.
As your baby nurses, prolactin — known as the "mothering hormone" — stimulates the body to manufacture milk. This hormone gives you a feeling of relaxation and well-being. Oxytocin, another hormone secreted during breastfeeding, causes the alveoli to contract, releasing milk into the ducts, the milk sinuses, and your baby's mouth. This hormone is responsible for the tingling sensation some mothers feel before a milk ejection reflex, or letdown, and the postpartum uterine cramping felt while breastfeeding.
Oxytocin also causes labor contractions during childbirth and pleasure contractions during orgasm. Varying amounts of oxytocin are attributed to these different contractions. The arousal you describe while nursing may also be the result of the empowerment and satisfaction you feel knowing that you are meeting all of your daughter's nutritional and emotional needs at the breast.
Lmao.....I tink u shuld just make ur mind blank wen breast feeding him or u find something to keep u busy wen breastfeeding him....I tink its ur mindset..
It cud happen buh doesn't mean der's any sexual connection btwn u and ur son,its natural dear...
Hmmmmmmmmm, dnt even knw wah 2 say... Buh I tink wen ur hubby sucks ur boobs, dats d same way u feel, so it has bcom part of. U... Seee a doc or a pastor dear, dats all I cn say!!! Tnxz
Hmmmmmm!I dnt think u r d first person dis is happenin 2 bt it sure sounds weird though!I'd suggest u go see ur gynaecologist.me nor knw if I spell am well o
Hi, i just think your breast is your POINT. i bet you when your husband sucks it too, you feel that DRAG and TINGLING sensation. it's not what you think. Please don't entertain such thoughts and fears.
I think you have a hypersensitive body hormone , you need to see a family medicine professional, its just hypersensitivity, you will be given some therapy don't worry. See a doctor. A good federal govt. health institution will be okay.
Mayb wen ur hubby sucks ur nipple, dsame tin happens 2 u, so ur body system has gotten used 2 it, so I advice u seee a doc or a pastor!!!
Madam you need help... I don't think that's normal **kween**
Your own child sucks you to orgasm! *faints*
I cnt laugh o!
Lol, vry funny. U r vry normal its jst ur mind playing tricks on u! N y do i hav dis feeling lyk u imagining smtin else lyk foreplay while breastfeddin ur son? Jst try 2 focus ur mind on smtin else wen breastfeedin him. Dats all.
That's you Nigerians' answer to everything.....go to church. Have you even taken time out to google and see what it means? Its not an unusual thing. It means she is very sensitive to that particular sensation. People have different things that trigger them sexually and sucking her nipples could be hers. She just needs her brain to tell her that breastfeeding her child shouldn't have the same effect as her man sucking on her nipple. Nothing is spiritually wrong with her!!!!!
Gday , Normally your are not supposed to have sexual stimulation when your nursing your baby. That only happens when its your man that is at the place but this issue you have is due to the fact that your maternal instinct is mixed up. GO see you gynecologist. It is not new but try to separate this feelings.Frm Someone that Knows
Best comment ever!
U r a fool.itz normal it happens to som women n itz okay.plz browse abt it n u will find a lot of women dat hv experience it.instead of usin ur big mouth to say tings u knw notin abt.deliverance ke.mtsweee
All of u judging should pls ask questions 1st ,anyway moving on its completely normal because the same hormone in the body responsible for feeling labour pains are the same one released when breast feeding ,its also d same for orgams its normal for you to feel the way tht u do cus the same stimulation u get wen u p***y is been touched or watever u wanna call it is the same one u get wen u nipples are been sucked so its nothing to be ashamed of .ur body is jusy responding normally .as 4 all u judges pls visit tht internet b4 u start blabbing nd make d woman feel inadequatem
Very kinky and exotic...LMAO!
what a feeling indeed!
This is weird. I am also a mother but has never experienced that before. I think u should be in control of ur emotions whenever u r breastfeeding.
You aren't sick...not in the way that you fear.. see a doctor you probably have to check your hormone levels, it is not as uncommon as other comments will have you believe.
Read:
http://www.babycenter.com/404_is-it-normal-to-feel-aroused-when-im-breastfeeding_8927.bc?startIndex=80
http://www.momlogic.com/2009/09/women_who_orgasm_during_breastfeeding.php
You r the problem and not your innocent son, Pls stop breatfeeding him immediately and begin to express your breasts, am sure u will still get d same sexual reaction bc of the way u are sentitive, at leat then you will know it is not the nnocent child abeg, it is so un acceptable to put yourself in dat position wt ur innocent child abeg STOP IT NOW!!!!!!
You are mentally disturbed with your small mind.
FUNNY WORLD
That is serious! Never heard of that before.
This is why I dont understand Nigerians, somebody is here asking for help and all some people can do is abuse and ridicule.
It is hormonal imbalance, the best is to go check her hormones ( Hormone profile), it is nothing weird.
See this myopic woman! Mother of 4 n u still hvnt learnt Wat empathy is. If u cnt empathise, jst shush n move along u bladdy bitch. Cn u imagine calling ur fellow woman sick. All coz she's looking for an explanation to wat she dsnt undrstnd. Erybody's system is different, bt then hw wud u knw. Hving 4 kids dsnt mke u an expert. Next!!
You should get real satisfaction from a real man and take your mind of sex when feeding that child. WTF!
Linda pls ask her if she is sex starved or if her husband dosnt make her 2 cum during sex. Either of these should be the problem. I still remain my humble self ***UDOR***
Everything na deliverance???!! Gosh!!! You are so myopic in thinking.
I don't understand we humans! Some others have just made mention that it happens and yet you are seeing it as a demonic attack. Gosh! Think medical first before Satan. We actually make the devil feel too important these days.
YOU SHOULD TRY TO DO EXCLUSIVE
It is i portant to know that milk production is control by the hypothalamus centre in the brain with the release of hormone called prolactin which directly responsible for milk production. Moreover, milk let down is controlled by another hormone called oxytocin which causes the milk duct to contract and release milk when the nipple is suckled. Now here is the koko, this same oxytocin causes the womb of a woman to contract during labor and orgasm. So depending on individual variation this may lead to a pronounced contraction of the womb. Mind u every woman experience some level of contraction of the womb under the influence of oxytocin. Thst is why, breastfeeding hrlps the womb to return to its normal position after childbirth. But my advice to the woman is for her not to attach any feeling to that .it will soon fizzle out.
Are you kidding me a gynaecologist.....dor! I get its d study of women's health it but if u really wanna know it's the study of the private part/ovaries/uterus.etc and not the breast mehn dont use big words when you barely know its meaning
Are you kidding me a gynaecologist.....dor! I get its d study of women's health it but if u really wanna know it's the study of the private part/ovaries/uterus.etc and not the breast mehn dont use big words when you barely know its meaning
Wow. You are that loose...so if a mad man grab you for road and suck your tits.. naso u go dey get wet and even scream? Ridiculous!
YOU SIMPLY HAVE A VERY SENSITIVE NIPPLE. I`M SURE IT HAS ALWAYS BEEN LIKE THAT BEFORE YOU HAD A BABY (I MEAN DURING INTERCOURSE)
AS LONG AS YOU DONT ALLOW IT TO GET INTO YOUR HEAD AS A SEXUAL THING, YOU ARE FINE MY DEAR.
Itz called "pleasurable breast-feeding".Itz natural, though nt wt every woman. Most women are too ashamed to share this,dnt let anyone make u feel like an evil-minded person. Dnt stop breast-feeding ur child,coz datz what most women end up doing. Note: breast-feeding is for ur both good......It helps to prevent breast cancer n makes ur child healthy. Linda,pls neva deprive anyone help dat needs it. Thank u for eventually sharing her story,some ppl here are also going thru same but too ashamed to share.
Timville
well i dnt think this is weird and besides its not Ur fault dear, please u guys should mind hw u talk and think b4 talking u dnt need to run people that shares their problems here down cos its your help and advice that they need...i guess u guys have forgotten that every woman has her own weak spot.. and as a woman if your weak spot is your breast then that is bound to happen. my dear all you need do is take it to GOD in prayer and its done also try taking your mind out of sex while breast feeding and pray instead sweedy i knw it not easy but with the help of GOD u can. all the best darlyn and for u all running ur mouths like a spoilt tap that can never stop running waters out-- i guess u think u'r perfect.. it dosnt matter if u breast fed a baby for 1yr or wur ever
You're a chicken... you're not the only woman on earth. a lot of people have also. The fact that you have breastfeeded 4 kids. Doesn't means some people don't have issues.
C U, wood like U dey open ur mouth. Smh...........
well i dnt think this is weird and besides its not Ur fault dear, please u guys should mind hw u talk and think b4 talking u dnt need to run people that shares their problems here down cos its your help and advice that they need...i guess u guys have forgotten that every woman has her own weak spot.. and as a woman if your weak spot is your breast then that is bound to happen. my dear all you need do is take it to GOD in prayer and its done also try taking your mind out of sex while breast feeding and pray instead sweedy i knw it not easy but with the help of GOD u can. all the best darlyn and for u all running ur mouths like a spoilt tap that can never stop running waters out-- i guess u think u'r perfect.. it dosnt matter if u breast fed a baby for 1yr or wur ever
well, it is normal to have some feelings but not to the extent of orgasm. May be u are naturally hypersensitive to sexual stimulation. So i suggest u either try to take ur mind off it or express ur milk and feed ur baby with a bottle if it gives much concern. If any1 shd ask,tell them u get cracked and painful nipples whenever the baby sucks. Problem solved!
Ignorance, is a real problem on this thread. Even after a medical explanation, people are still saying this lady needs to go for deliverance.
It is a normal phenomenon. A lot of women report feeling that way.
IGNORANCE IS A BAD THING. WHAT IS HAPPENING TO THIS WOMAN IS A COMMON PHENOMENON ALTHOUGH IT DOESN'T HAPPEN TO EVERYONE. PLEASE DO NOT STOP BREASTFEEDING YOUR CHILD BECAUSE IT IS GOOD FOR YOUR HEALTH AND HIS HEALTH. MAYBE JUST WATCH A MOVIE WHILST YOU BREASTFEED TO DISTRACT YOUR MIND.
If you are not a doctor shut your mouth and don't comment... it is normal. Every woman reacts different reactions to diverse hormones hence the different experiences of women in PMS, pregnancy, periods etc. Those of us who are in the medical field can speak; other ignorant Nigerians, please be quiet especially because you are not the creator of all mankind! Thanks!
I feel bad for this mother cos really she didn't need to share this publicly considering how quickly Nigerians open their mouths even when they don't know what they are saying~~~
stop framing up stories madam; so if someone 'cums' you are now the person to run to, does she not have a doctor? swallow the comment darling....hehehe, nkwerre babe, we rep sha..bishie
hmmn
Source-http://www.babycenter.com/404_is-it-normal-to-feel-aroused-when-im-breastfeeding_8927.bc?startIndex=10
There is nothing to be embarrassed about.
It's a normal physiological response to lactation hormones. Breastfeeding feels good! If it didn't, very few mothers would do it. It might help to understand just what hormonal responses are taking place.
As your baby nurses, prolactin — known as the "mothering hormone" — stimulates the body to manufacture milk. This hormone gives you a feeling of relaxation and well-being. Oxytocin, another hormone secreted during breastfeeding, causes the alveoli to contract, releasing milk into the ducts, the milk sinuses, and your baby's mouth. This hormone is responsible for the tingling sensation some mothers feel before a milk ejection reflex, or letdown, and the postpartum uterine cramping felt while breastfeeding.
Oxytocin also causes labor contractions during childbirth and pleasure contractions during orgasm. Varying amounts of oxytocin are attributed to these different contractions. The arousal you describe while nursing may also be the result of the empowerment and satisfaction you feel knowing that you are meeting all of your daughter's nutritional and emotional needs at the breast.
The feeling is quite normal. It doesn't mean that you want to get laid by your own child. Just hold tight after breast feeding you still have the feelings then your husband should come in then. It's not weird at all.
I strongly doubt u r a woman....if u r a mother as u claim then u ll understand dat wat dz woman is feelin is normal.its caused by certain hormones.this happens to most first time mothers.so she doesnt need any deliverance.u r d one dat needs deliverance frm ur wacko mind.
Hehehehe stella is dz u
lol
hello, pls go to google and search for anything you need to know on this subject matter. you are ok my dear. just try control ur mind and everything will be ok. u won't think like this if your baby is a girl so you are not having that kind of affection for your son.
My dear you are not a pervert,sick,horny etc etc. Your nipples are obviously extremely sensitive, so you are easily aroused by the baby's sucking. This is normal, you having an orgasm is the natural result, but as a mother this is extremely disturbing for you which is quite understandable. As long as you ONLY breast feed your son because HE needs it,and NOT to experience the 'pleasure', which I seriously doubt in your case, please go ahead and breast feed your child. Perhaps when he gets to a year old, you should wean him off then as he can start drinking alternative milk by then with no problem. Good luck.
Please this is actually helpful:
One issue rarely mentioned is that the breastfeeding experience is very sensuous in itself and some mothers may become aroused during breastfeeding (Hotchner, 1979; Lawrence, 1989; Mueller, 1985; Reamy & White, 1987). This is a normal phenomenon. Yet, mothers may feel guilty if they have these feelings. Consequently, some may decide to stop breastfeeding. Should a mother decide to speak about such feelings, both lay people and health care professionals may be shocked, may ridicule her, and may even report her to child protection services (Huggins & Ziedrich, 1994).
Ganem (1992) explicitly explains that some breast- feeding mothers exacerbate the potential for this experience if they cross their legs while they feed their babies. As a result, the labia minora may rub against each other, potentially leading to the stimulation of the clitoris. The mother could experience deep orgasm from clitoral stimulation and uterine contractions from oxytocin. Though Ganem has been very open about this issue, Newton presented the idea when she first wrote about the comparison between breastfeeding behavior and coital orgasm back in 1955.
Newton (1955, 1973) describes the parallel reactions between breastfeeding and coital orgasm: a) uterine contractions are present in both processes; b) nipple erection occurs during both suckling and sensual excitement; c) breast stroking and nipple stimulation occur during both breastfeeding and sexual foreplay; d) emotions aroused by both types of contact involve skin changes; e) milk let-down or the milk ejection reflex may be triggered during both, f) the emotions experienced during sexual arousal and the emotions experienced during uninhibited, unrestricted breastfeeding may be closely allied, and g) an accepting attitude toward sexuality may be related to an accepting attitude toward breastfeeding (Newton, 1973, pp. 82–83). Women need to be reassured that while pelvic sexual arousal is not a common response to breastfeeding, when these feelings occur they are normal.
Women need to be reassured that while pelvic sexual arousal is not a common response to breastfeeding, when these feelings occur they are normal.
Please this is actually helpful
One issue rarely mentioned is that the breastfeeding experience is very sensuous in itself and some mothers may become aroused during breastfeeding (Hotchner, 1979; Lawrence, 1989; Mueller, 1985; Reamy & White, 1987). This is a normal phenomenon. Yet, mothers may feel guilty if they have these feelings. Consequently, some may decide to stop breastfeeding. Should a mother decide to speak about such feelings, both lay people and health care professionals may be shocked, may ridicule her, and may even report her to child protection services (Huggins & Ziedrich, 1994).
Ganem (1992) explicitly explains that some breast- feeding mothers exacerbate the potential for this experience if they cross their legs while they feed their babies. As a result, the labia minora may rub against each other, potentially leading to the stimulation of the clitoris. The mother could experience deep orgasm from clitoral stimulation and uterine contractions from oxytocin. Though Ganem has been very open about this issue, Newton presented the idea when she first wrote about the comparison between breastfeeding behavior and coital orgasm back in 1955.
Newton (1955, 1973) describes the parallel reactions between breastfeeding and coital orgasm: a) uterine contractions are present in both processes; b) nipple erection occurs during both suckling and sensual excitement; c) breast stroking and nipple stimulation occur during both breastfeeding and sexual foreplay; d) emotions aroused by both types of contact involve skin changes; e) milk let-down or the milk ejection reflex may be triggered during both, f) the emotions experienced during sexual arousal and the emotions experienced during uninhibited, unrestricted breastfeeding may be closely allied, and g) an accepting attitude toward sexuality may be related to an accepting attitude toward breastfeeding (Newton, 1973, pp. 82–83). Women need to be reassured that while pelvic sexual arousal is not a common response to breastfeeding, when these feelings occur they are normal.
Women need to be reassured that while pelvic sexual arousal is not a common response to breastfeeding, when these feelings occur they are normal.
dat baby wil b a bad guy wen he grows up..lol
Mouth close....d baby will b a good sucker...
***UROMAK***
Haba na wa oh, madam deliverance must u curse, she's just asking to know wat is wrong wit her, I think u r d person dat nids deliverance frm a cursing tongue..
hhhm! I've learnt from the comments. but for those joking around why nt keep quiet since u're yet to become an adult
When you go for ANC, u'll be tot hw to draw a line betwn nursing ur baby and a sexual act. So pls dnt get d feelings mixed up.
@Jenny Godwin, I .... you. You guessed it right.
linda, i was the second to coment & you never posted it.na wa o!!
All of u saying she is sick etc ... U guys are just dumb , I don't expect less frm a blog like this
i experienced it dr,except for the cuming.no worries, it will pass
no worries, it will pass
Linda pls if u r reading this , frm d depth of my heart I say this now that God has blessed u n hv giving u many follows pls pls my sis help educate ur follows pls , always post educative topics , u hv d key to change pple jt like other pple in power , mean while am a girl with same story as u hv n my doing very well in my business n I hv being reading ur blog since 2010 n I called u couple of times on placenta AD on ur blog , so am not random, tnx , ur surulere friend
Its nt weird.its practical tht if a man does such u r turned on by it so i think ur hormones are in high gear but you should still see an ob/gyn about it.
U r a fool and prolly live in d bush or dnt go to school.
Heres a big fool talking
Mumu where do u knw d gspot it.stfu if u dnt knw wht to say.
I believe the urge comes when you remember how your husband suck your breast while making love to you.. it happens in life.. so pls my advise for u is to focus on ur child and try to erase the feelings of ur breastfeeding. . That's the only way u won't get wet..
I know little about this. This is a normal phenomenon. Yet, mothers may feel guilty if they have these feelings. Consequently, some may decide to stop breastfeeding. Some breast- feeding mothers worsen the potential for this experience if they cross their legs while they feed their babies. As a result, the labia minora(vaginal lips) may rub against each other, potentially leading to the stimulation of the clitoris. The mother could experience deep orgasm from clitoral stimulation and uterine contractions from oxytocin.
My advice? Try to control your thoughts and know that it's your baby, he/she came out of you and so have clean thoughts. Meet with your man at least once in a while since you're still breast feeding.
y is it dat when some1 needs help instead of u to say d little u knw abt d problem or shut up, u losers just insult d person as if ur beta off. please my dear see a specialist abt ur problem n dont let dis low lives discourage u i knw ur not alone in this. bless u
I doubt she is developing sexual feelings for her son...its all about stimulation linda excellent post... Want more info about health and wellness, are u looking to be a nurse? Visit rnstudentnetwork.blogspot.com
Having gone thru most of the comments, what is most annoying are all the self righteous pricks judging this poor woman either due to massive ignorance, or because of their own individual experiences. Y'all should be ashamed of yourselves when Google use is free. Some idiots actually called her perverted, Satan etc. Wtf?! ANYONE, male or female, has the innate propensity to be aroused when erogenous zones ate manually stimulated, NO MATTER WHO IS DOING THE STIMULATION.
Thus, if I blindfolded all you self righteous idiots and got a child of the same or opposite sex to manually stimulate you, you WILL get hard/wet, and if it goes on long enough, you WILL cum. GUARANTEED!
ENOUGH of this our ignorance in Nigeria abeg. Drops mic
I'm an MS and I have to say your piece here is the only useful comment on this page. I generally stopped reading most other doctor's comments the moment they say "oxytocin causes production of milk or prolactin causes milk let down"lol, cant be corrupting my small brain with that.
Anyway, can you please elaborate on this concentration dependent action of oxytocin especially with orgasm. I was of the opinion that it had to do With the Sympathetic nervous system
O! The deep ignorance of Nigerians. This is a common occurrence all over the world and will certainly pass. If you feel uncomfortable about it, you could express the breast milk and feed your baby from a bottle. Do not be bothered by some of the nasty comments. Just ignorance talking.
madam u are a fool if u dnt have anytin to say den shut up it can happen to anybody its normal
Madam d best advice I will give to u. Go and see ur doctor
@Anony10:58pm,zuuzuu 11:09pm, Amarachukwu11:29pm and the rest of you that said she needs deliverance,bettet read Anony 11:05@pm comment and be enlighted.its natural,its has to do with hormone imbalance.Everyone can't be the same! Mteeeewwww!
am glad to see the encouragement you are getting. please note that this is a normal occurence, even though not common. there is NOTHING wrong with you my dear, and please ignore the idiots who keep going on and on about deliverance. their ignorance goes before them like a beacon, exposing them wherever they go. PS...its called Erotic Lactation
LOL! Funny dude
Easy on her....... Mr. Righteousness
Oga/Madam do U rily have to call her names before U give advice? I'm quite sure ur are female, but whicheva, U rily gat no manners
This happens to some women, there is nothing weird about it. piece of advise, use a nipple protector, that prevents a direct contact with u n your little one.
I think young lady in question set herself p for the kind of shameless, crass and illiterate responses she has solicited from 79% of the comments. I didn't expect any better from the response... in all credit, they were a lot better as I expected religious bigots to scream deliverance... Nothing is probably wrong with her. She might just have extremely sensitive nipples and that coupled with the fact that she probably never knew just how sensitive they are (because they were unexplored... maybe) makes it uncontrollable, she just needs to ensure her opinion is not that her kid is the one that makes her come and not her extremely sensitive nipples... I'm no scientist but I refused to be closed-minded about this.
That's harsh, don't judge unless you truly know the cause. It could be hormonal changes or something.
Please, It is not abnormal...
NO, YOU DO NOT NEED DELIVERANCE...
Rather, those who say you do need education...
http://www.babycenter.com/404_is-it-normal-to-feel-aroused-when-im-breastfeeding_8927.bc
There is an unfair treatment women get once something we do not understand happens to them. It's sickening, unbecoming and primitive.
You really do need help cos you are f##king SICK!!
ALL THESE RANDOM PEOPLE GIVING ADVISE, TELLING YOU IT IS NORMAL. IT IS NOT!!!. EVEN IN THE HEIGHT OF SEXUAL AROUSAL WITH YOUR HUSBAND THE CRY OF A BABY IS ENOUGH TO STOP YOUR AROUSAL. IT IS CALLED MATERNAL INSTINCT AND THIS INSTINCT HELPS MOTHERS PROTECT THEIR CHILDREN.SEXUAL AROUSAL IS A THING OF THE MIND, YOU CAN SWITCH IT OFF WHEN IT IS INAPPROPRIATE. I DON'T CARE WHAT ANYONE IS TELLING YOU , THE ROLE OF THE HORMONES IN BREASTFEEDING ARE TOTALLY DIFFERENT FROM THEIR SEXUAL ROLE. YOU NEED HELP BECAUSE YOU HAVE PAEDOPHILIA TENDENCY.STOP FEEDING YOUR BABY THAT FUCKED UP MILK. YOU MIGHT BE EXPERIENCING POSTNATAL PSYCHOSIS BECAUSE YOU ARE NOT BONDING PROPERLY WITH THAT BABY.
can people quit being judgemental?! ugh its not something evin it can even happen with the purest of thoughts. ignorance is eating people up....read here for more informationhttp://www.babycenter.com/404_is-it-normal-to-feel-aroused-when-im-breastfeeding_8927.bc
People should stop criticizing the lady, its a normal thing, she didnt say she has feelings for her son, she's just asking if its normal, and it is normal so please young lady do not get disturbed.
That's true...
My dear if you are breast feeding well and your baby is latched on properly your nipples will not be stimulated. If your baby is attached just to your nipples
1 the baby is poorly attached and will not get enough
2 the baby will get tired from sucking in vain , will not gain weight and will not settle
3 apart from the initial feelings of arousal you seem to be enjoying you will soon experience very sore nipples because the tongue of a baby acts as sandpaper on the nipple.
4 I advise yo to stop breast feeding for now becos I think your enjoyment is overshadowing the main purpose of nourishing this baby. It amounts to child abuse.
5 how can you actually continue feeding when you experience these feelings couldn't you stop yourself?
6 how would you feel if your husband said carrying his baby girl on his lap gave him an erection. It's the same thing o! Check yourself. The enjoyment of breast feeding is the satisfaction that you are cuddling and nourishing your child that's the good feeling it has no connection to sexual gratification.
It is very natural to feel that way because the nerve ending at the nipples which support the flow of breast milk is the same nerves that get active when sexual arousal occurs .
Women with highly developed sexual nature can have an orgasmic experience by simply fiddling or stimulating their nipples ,hence you are likely to one of such women , there is nothing to be ashamed of.
Ure having sore nipples cos ur baby is not latching well. Google would help u learn how to latch ur baby correctly for feeding.
Before you comment ignorantly...read this http://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC3431754/
Okay o! So the same hormones that cause labour pains bring about orgasms. So why don't women have pleasurable feeling in labour. A beg all this reasoning is nonsense. If she can chose when to have orgasm she can Also decided not to have it when breast feeding. It's called self control.
It does not happen to women who love their children it happens to women who love their pussy more than anything else. It is you that is primitive , keep eating up that rubbish you google from the internet to prove you are enlightened. God forbid you. So what do you tell a peodophile that is sexually attracted to babies. If you check that your oracle google you will find something to support their sexual attraction too. Use your common sense parents can not and should not have any sexual feelings towards their children or any children. It's an abomination period.the hormones god blessed women with is to help feed the child not to fuck it . Tufiakwa
y dnt u guyz stop and think positively for once...god forbid,u suck,tufia,ano and all the likes aint helpin her situation..linda she should see her doctor and get professional medical attention
Soo strange , pray about it.
Soo strange , pray about it.
@BUBU All these people you have used to support this unhealthy and unnatural desires for ones own child are all world re-known paedophiles.
all these people quoting homones you are all mad because your mama fuck you na one you small. As a result you all are totally fucked up
Shurup u fool! Her weakpoint are her boobies !jus focus on ur baby n erase evil sensations.
By involving the pure and innocent baby in the 'ACT'. U r a mofo! So pikin don turn arousing machine?nowonder u practise incest in ur house
Hmmmmm won tuntide! Attributing it to demons
sweetheart you've got no problem. we have countless of mothers(mostly first timers)that also feel the same way. the best advice is you pre-occupy your mind with something else when breast feeding.thanks for sharing with us on LIB.
Am a breastfeeding mother of a 3month old baby girl, I tend to feel a little sensation when breastfeeding, but not to the extent of cuming, I think she needs to see a gyno
You and your supporters are disgusting!
It is perfectly normal. Please go on breastfeeding your child as you have always done.
So many perverts coming out , trying to justify their vile and lewd desires with testimonies from questionable sources. Go and ask your mothers if they came when they breast fed you. It's to much exposure to phonography and other sexual explicit images down loaded from the internet that makes people lose their human nature. You can read all your perverted documentation to support your wretched views . Common sense is not scientific it is common. If you want to reference a text do your fucking research on the source. Anyone can publish anything on the internet. Dangerous pedophiles and such. It is not natural to cum when breast feeding your child. Breast feeding does not stimulate the nipple because of the way the baby latches on. The nipple doesn't even touch the mouth it stays far behind at the back of the mouth and acts as an outlet for the milk. What is message during breast feeding is the areole that is the darker area of skin behind the nipple. go and ask your mothers how a baby breast feeds even watch someone with experience do it. . Bunch of vile pedos.
I wont come here nd say its normal cos in my dictionary it ain't,I have a son dat I am currently breastfeeding nd dere is nutting sexual bout it pls pls nd pls get medical nd spiritual help
I have breast fed all my kids. I never felt what you described. My breast are very extremely sensitive, but my baby at my breast did never bring about what you described. And if it did I would not continue with it to the point of orgasm, I would have stopped it immediately. Try expressing like someone suggested.
Breast feeding sends signals to the brain and a hormone is released from the pituitary gland which helps in contracting the uterus or womb. This wetting may not be too far from signal to brain and release of substance. See an obstetrician for explanation and assurance.
My names are Dr David Adeyemi...Having looked into your discription of ur predicament, I wud say rite here dat its nuttin u sud be ashamed of owk? Its normal especially when ur body produce large amts of oxytoxin(sexual arousal, gestation hormone) and prolactin and lactitosin, which is largely produced during the 1st two months of onset of the brestfeeding of the child....it a rare disorder in young ladies especielly those that are having children for the ist time....for more highlite on these phenomena ,get in touch with me on 08065629319...or Davidcourage@gmail.com
All this scientific mobo jumbo . My dear the truth is that you are in control of your body not the other way around. You cannot blame hormones for what you are feeling and you can't blame the devil. Imagine your husband changing your daughters nappy and getting aroused. You have to learn to control yourself. Man without self control is an uncivilised beast. Take responsibility for your self and now this baby. Peace.
Can't believe how so ignorant and judge mental a lot of readers are here.About 10% women go through these all around the world. So many nursing mothers go through so many hormone changes. Is nothing to be ashamed off. Some get aroused while giving birth. My advice just try and wean your baby early if your uncomfortable or get prescription , get distracted or just enjoy while you bond with your baby.Life is to short to be stressed.
She needs prayers or medical advice
she needs prayers or medical advice
http://www.momlogic.com/2009/09/women_who_orgasm_during_breastfeeding.php. this article here will make you understand better, there is nothing wrong with you.
oh please, which Oxytocin stops sexual urges? don't sound ignorant.
I get extremely annoyed when I read posts that say stuff like pray, it is the devils work, you are possessed. Many Nigerians are sad, ignorant, over religious illiterates. There is nothing spiritual to this. She is a lady with a sensitive nipple. It is quite normal for many women but most are so ashamed of it that they are able to turn it off mentally. I'm going to post a link here for those women who are ignorant but want to know more about this phenomenon. Nature made this act pleasurable enough (for some, too pleasurable) so as to ensure its survival.
http://www.momlogic.com/2009/09/women_who_orgasm_during_breastfeeding.php
I get extremely annoyed when I read posts that say stuff like pray, it is the devils work, you are possessed. Many Nigerians are sad, ignorant, over religious illiterates. There is nothing spiritual to this. She is a lady with a sensitive nipple. It is quite normal for many women but most are so ashamed of it that they are able to turn it off mentally. I'm going to post a link here for those women who are ignorant but want to know more about this phenomenon. Nature made this act pleasurable enough (for some, too pleasurable) so as to ensure its survival.
http://www.momlogic.com/2009/09/women_who_orgasm_during_breastfeeding.php
Just want to ask a question. If it it is normal thing, does it happen for both male and female children?
wow.... see comnments make she go mfm ..... make she go see doc make she stop breastfeeding ....... nigerians can like to be funny sha ............ free the woman jor
yeepa ............ madam all is well
Many people on this blog are semi-literate. smh. This has happened to several women I know and it is associated with hormonal release due to breastfeeding. Everything people do not understand in Nigeria, they call demonic or abnormal. You people need to get a life and read more books or simply use google. A book a day keeps ignorance at bay- newyorker
You dumb f..ks please read. This is 2014, drop your ignorance:
“In a 2000 study of breastfeeding women, 40.5% of the participants reported feeling sexually aroused at some point during infant suckling. 16.7% reported being aroused frequently during breastfeeding. In a more recent paper that reviewed several studies between 33-50% of women described breastfeeding as erotic (and 25% of those women said they felt guilty about it).” (http://naturalparentsnetwork.com/sexual-feelings-breastfeeding/) -newyorker
Funny how people bring their LIFE issues to LIB and we ridicule them to nothing. Even for the fact that LIB authorises comment should give room to encouraging and helpful comments. Not the ones that would mock? Someone opened UP to U n US Linda, and look at what people are calling her...How can some1 call her a dog??? And U posted it on LIB??? With stuff like this...I think I'm loosing interest in your blog...cos I believe that now U are in for the "popularity"
No be say UR own life sef HOLY like that....maybe U be prostitute sef...Idiot!!!!!
Who is even more sick....Who knows IF na one husband get those 4 pikin wey you born....? Pple share their problems n we mock them....Stupid comment!!!
I concur....nothing is wrong with her because I've had a similar experience so dos of u saying she needs deliverance should go seek help from der doctors first. common sense isnt common at all
It's very simple, ask ur doctors about her situation and hear wht they have to say abt it before u talk trash
She only asked for an advise not insult...if u don't ve solution to her problem then keep shut. Woman...its not weird,its a normal fin dat happens to most women wen they ve their first child,u will soon get out of it. It is well
Yea it could happen,every woman has were she gets turned up wen dey re being touched by opposit sex pat'like some women gets arose either by kissing,romancing,oral s*x or proberbly by s**cking of thier breast''soo urs could be any of dis,All u need is to think of something else anytime ur breastfeedingur baby
Linda dear, dey try screen some of these rubbish people wey no get any betta thing to talk na! which one come be deliverance for this issue again? person no fit ask question for open forum without getting hit by a barrage of ignorance? did the woman say at any point that she wanted to molest her son? una wey dey go church eh, una mind too dirty! tufia!!
Am a mum of 2 my first baby is 2 and half and second 9 months, breast feeding helps contract you uterus, coupled with the sensitivity of the nipples explains this, but will wear out with time as your nipples become less sensitive, we are all different see your GP if you are worried, but I enjoyed every moment of it. I no longer experience it.
Am a mum of 2 my first baby is 2 and half and second 9 months, breast feeding helps contract you uterus, coupled with the sensitivity of the nipples explains this, but will wear out with time as your nipples become less sensitive, we are all different see your GP if you are worried.
People are so ifnorant. Yoyr own personal experience does not define what normal is. Allow the professionals to speak and stop displaying your ifnorance.
Zuuzuu,u have a very poor understanding, is dat how to talk, if u cant help y nt shut ur mouth. U sound so negative. People shud never seek advice from one dat talks like this
Do women ever get sexual sensations while they are nursing?
Because the hormones involved in lactation are the same as those involved in orgasm, it is believed that a woman could have an orgasm while breastfeeding. Karen Pryor feels that because oxytocin causes the uterus to contract that some women may misinterpret the cramping sensations as orgasmic contractions. I have asked hundreds of women if they have ever had an orgasm during nursing. Their answer, always an emphatic "No!" The most common description of sensation are those of the "warm after glow" sensation that many women experience following orgasm. Women appear to have the innate ability to separate the breast's maternal function from sexuality while they are nursing. Prolactin, the mothering hormone, gives the mother a calm, warm peaceful feeling after nursing. Also the release of oxytocin with the let-down, is responsible for the "after-glow." These sensations are quite normal. http://www.lactationconsultant.info/basi...
Later, in another human sexuality class, I asked my professor about this experience. She confirmed that it is possible and probably quite common, although people have feelings of shame about it. Pleasurable breastfeeding was probably one of nature's ways to make a survival behavior attractive. She also told me that many women quit breastfeeding for this reason. For some women, the feelings of an infant suckling can be so pleasurable that they feel it is somehow wrong. That made me feel sad too. Breastfeeding is not pedophilia. Nature brought mommies and babies together for one of the most physically pleasurable relationships on earth. Let them suckle -- and do enjoy it, ladies. It is such a short period in both of your lives. And if your body responds without your consent, relax. Just buy a co-sleeper bed.
Read more: http://www.momlogic.com/2009/09/women_who_orgasm_during_breastfeeding.php#ixzz2phtIhLdU
sweety,theres absolutely nothing wrong with that,u just have a sensitive nipple just like most women do,i like a lady with one though,cus it makes foreplay easy and love making sure
It's only a normal reaction for some women. I advice she expresses or stops in general if it's makes her too uncomfortable.
There is nothing to be embarrassed about.
It's a normal physiological response to lactation hormones. Breastfeeding feels good! If it didn't, very few mothers would do it. It might help to understand just what hormonal responses are taking place.
As your baby nurses, prolactin — known as the "mothering hormone" — stimulates the body to manufacture milk. This hormone gives you a feeling of relaxation and well-being. Oxytocin, another hormone secreted during breastfeeding, causes the alveoli to contract, releasing milk into the ducts, the milk sinuses, and your baby's mouth. This hormone is responsible for the tingling sensation some mothers feel before a milk ejection reflex, or letdown, and the postpartum uterine cramping felt while breastfeeding.
Oxytocin also causes labor contractions during childbirth and pleasure contractions during orgasm. Varying amounts of oxytocin are attributed to these different contractions. The arousal you describe while nursing may also be the result of the empowerment and satisfaction you feel knowing that you are meeting all of your daughter's nutritional and emotional needs at the breast.
In any case, still explain it to your doctor.
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