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Thursday, 10 October 2013

Question of the day: What's the most important thing in a marriage?

What's the most important thing in marriage, love or financial stability?

314 comments:

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Anonymous said...

Tolerance and understanding.

Anonymous said...

Love bcos wen there is love everything will cum.........A̶̲̥̅̊₪d̶̲̥̅̊ remember God is love

Anonymous said...

One word TRUST

lord mosi said...

But are important...but in an ever expensive world, I rather go for money. One without d oda induces pain nd anguish tho

Victor Frank said...

Financial stability cos NO MONEY NO LOVE

StinaLuv said...

The both. Witout luv, d marraige wont last nd witout money d husband wont hav respect.

Unknown said...

Marriage can work when both are truly in love than havin a financial stability without love.though......both is crucial but love is the most important thing.

Anonymous said...

There both important,but I love shld come b4 fianancial stability

Anonymous said...

4me s d both o coz der wrk hnd in hnd.ah dnt wnt 2sip garri in ma aus in d name of luv.d luv might b der bt derz no moni and I might start putin ma eyes elsewr,so also d moni myt b der bt derz no luv n I'l strt puttin ma eyes outsyt.so its beta the both of dem shuld b der.

Anonymous said...

All join ooo....wwbwb

Cute G said...

Trust!None of the Above.

Anonymous said...

Love!!! Bcuz I can't stand a man who doesn't shower me wiv love, irrespective of his money.

Anonymous said...

Financial stability.. where there is money there is love!!!

Unknown said...

linda love in marriage is like a healthy body.. Living through stress but .. Marriage with money and love is like a wealthy man who has aids.. _unhealthy body_> >in JARVIS Voice

Anonymous said...

Both work together to achieve happiness in marriage and the absence of one shakes happiness.

Anonymous said...

Nnah! Money is very important oh! It plays a major role in marrige.

Anonymous said...

Financial stability.

Anonymous said...

Sometimes money isn't enough in marriage,Love does it all

Unknown said...

but although I prefer financial stability .yap moneY I prefer to CrY in a mansiON since mOney is nOt happiness> kinglordebus

Anonymous said...

Trust

Anonymous said...

Love

bbm pin 23491053 said...

The most important thing before and after marriage is Understanding. Nothing works if you do not understand the other partner. Forget about the word love, for there's no greater love than the love from the cross of cavary. If you think money is important, I tell you no, cos its jst a legal tender. Chear. Engr Emy

Anonymous said...

Financial stability make marriages last longer

chioma said...

Yes but what about having d whole moni in the world and no love. I think the two is very important I wouldn't go for one

Anonymous said...

Lin Lin I personally believe that communication and understanding comes 1st...when u both understand each other and communicate regularly, love would definitely flow and there would be no financial issues....

SIMPLYCOCK said...

Faith...

Anonymous said...

Love does not pay PHCN bill nor School fees. Finance is very important.

Anonymous said...

Financial stability is important....love and money works together

Anonymous said...

Both

Anonymous said...

Love is highly overrated......financial stability is what is needed in a marriage, without it the marriage will have problems.....Love is important too but maybe about 10% will do and 90% Financial stability

Anonymous said...

Money without love is also useless

Crystal said...

For me, its LOVE! Bcos with ME, the money will surely come. I have no problem with that not atall. But where there is money without love? Hmm there's bound to be problems.

chi mercy said...

Financial stability

Crystal said...

For me, its LOVE! Bcos with ME, the money will surely come. I have no problem with that not atall. But where there is money without love? Hmm there's bound to be problems.

daisy said...

Financial Stability

Unknown said...

love 1st and its very very very important for u guys to have the money cos it wil mak the love more visible and stronger. u kno, when a loved one buys u gift, uld b lik 'i luv u so much dear'. but if its the other way round, all u know is u love the person but u can hardly say it not to talk of showing it.

Anonymous said...

Good inlaws

Sommie said...

Of course majority of people would want both. I don't know why it's an either/or proposition. For a full and happy life, you'll want both. Why choose one or the other if you can have your cake and eat it too?

However, if I MUST choose 1, I'd go for Love. Whats money without love to go with it? Love can see you through the good and the bad times...I dunno if I could say that for money...

Anonymous said...

Both are very important o,they go hand in hand.Love should come first tho bt wen dre is no money d love diminishes....and wen dre is money and no love.one day na one day o....

Anonymous said...

Compatabilty

Anonymous said...

love, love, love

Anonymous said...

Finacial ability will solidify love!no money love dey vex person!imagine baby I need 2 drink water!lets ask our neighbours we don't av any drinkable water 4now!

Anonymous said...

Love. The money will come later so long as the guy is hardworking.love brings fulfillment that even money can't buy.

Anonymous said...

Both are important o,they go hand in hand.Love without money diminishes with time,to fully enjoy the love,there must be money o

Anonymous said...

Both are very important o,they go hand in hand.Love should come first tho bt wen dre is no money d love diminishes....and wen dre is money and no love.one day na one day o....

Anonymous said...

Love,understanding are very important In any marriage.

WSS said...

Well, you can't pay the mortgage with love. The grocer doesn't accept kisses for food. PHCN doesn't care if you love 'em.
Life has taught me that one or all of the following factors affect a relationship:
1. Finances. 2 In-laws 3. Religion 4. Politics 5. Education.
Love conquers a lot (but not all). Besides, it's easier to fall in love with a rich person than a poor person.

wise ass said...

Its love, its just dat most Nigerian girls like money and like to show off. But money is important in any relationship. Linda stop asking questions u already know d answer to, stop doubting yourself, no one is perfect everyone makes mistakes.

nelly c said...

MONEY WITOUT LUV AINT MARRIAGE

ary said...

Love without financial stability is bad and Financial stability without love is just as bad. I guess they both live off each other.

Unknown said...

Understanding of course.

Anonymous said...

Na ego b d tin oo. With ego,love sef go dey grow brekete full ground

Anonymous said...

All are important for a lasting marriage.

Anonymous said...

U said most important! Money na no 1. But love go dey too. It just can't solve much ie health,sch,food,shelter etc. Just sayin...D Curious1

Unknown said...

Understanding of course.

Anonymous said...

Good Sex n money.......#can do without combo

BUKUNMI 'PREACHER' ADELANI said...

I really don't think you can sustain financial stability without love in marriage... without love in marriage; you're most likely to make wrong decision that will ruin the financial stability.

Uti Ediri said...

Love. It conquers all

Anonymous said...

Financial Stability....It rekindles and revives the love. I did not say you should marry for money but speaking from experience, financial stability is very important in marriage.

Anonymous said...

PATIENCE!!!

creamytiana said...

The both are very important to keep a relationship goin, u must not be a billoneir but be comfortable na... na suffer u want take kill d girl.

Anonymous said...

None of the above, if you have love trust and money, what if there's no child??? children matters most in marriage, the others will follow

Bonita Bislam said...

Trust n understanding

Dozie said...

Linda, this question should be rephrased! because in the world of today more specifically in Africa, Nigeria, no financial stability, like hellooooooo.....there will be no Love! its hard to find that true love these days. Even relationships blessed in heaven,leave that lady with a rich man that will fly her in his private jet, giver her the treats of her life, she will get pregnant before she lands. the question is, does true love still exist??

Anonymous said...

Love still supercide everytin, when dia is true love others wld follow

Anonymous said...

lemme tell u ppl the truth, its GOOD SEX AND COMMINUCATION......... full stop.

Unknown said...

Love, trust,commitement,understanding. Love is not enough.marriage needs more than love

DANILOU said...

Maturity. It covers every other virtue and against all vice.. Maturity- spiritually, physically, emotionally, mentally. Very, very, VERY few people are matured in all these areas.

Anonymous said...

Vote ifeanyi ubah

Rough Diamond said...

Respect n financial stability!

Anonymous said...

Don't get married cos she will end up cheating on u n u will be broken like Me. My advice for u is dat don't get married, get a lady to give u a baby n don't attach urself emotionally. Marriage is full of pretenders

Unknown said...

Money Money Money!! I wil use p diddy as an example,

Anonymous said...

Princecharming you said it all my dear

Anonymous said...

Financial stability.

Anonymous said...

Take it easy, from the way u re talking you seems heart broken. Shit happen

Unknown said...

Pls let's be sincere, Financial stability is the key, Love and communication.

Anonymous said...

Communication

Anonymous said...

Trust and love

Anonymous said...

Love was then, now na yout pocket go show d meaning of marriage

Anonymous said...

Love is not enough unfortunately! #jaybeyblu

Unknown said...

financial stability is the order of the day nowadays ur wife wil consider having an extra affair out side just to be satisfied,guys u need to work very hard not to loss ur value in the sight of ur wife

Anonymous said...

Gbammest!!!!

Anonymous said...

COMMUNICATION

Anonymous said...

True talk!

Anonymous said...

God bless you for your comment

Anonymous said...

You probably aren't married yet, but the truth is if there is financial stability there still might not be love and then that's when u start feeling suicidal. Am married and Speaking from experience. Love conquers all and financial stability is also very important.

Anonymous said...

there is not one thing that is more important than the other in marriage.all things go together.

Anonymous said...

Well said Prince Charming

Anonymous said...

there is not one thing that is more important than the other in marriage.it all works together.u just cant separate one from the other.

Festus Taylor said...

Tolerance, Love and trust straight up!!!

Anonymous said...

Nowadays financial stability comes 1st b4 love set in.peole fall in love also wen money is avaliable

Anonymous said...

Nowadays financial stability comes 1st,den love can set in.u try to make the two balance

zizi said...

Lmao,u so right,its financial stability,we ain't gonna eat love,there love n respect when d cash is there

Apple said...

LOVE, SEX, MONEY.

Anonymous said...

we have Love, Carering, Respect and understanding for both unite together.

Anonymous said...

HMMMM, I WOULD HAVE SAID LOVE BUT I THINK ITS THE LOVE OF GOD BTW BOTH COUPLES THAT MATTER MOST

TWITS said...

Love. Additionally, patience, tolerance, understanding.

Anonymous said...

Make we no dey lie all of us no say Na money get level pass for marriage. Once u have money a woman most surly love you and if she wants to leave. She go remember all the goodies then glue put.

Anonymous said...

understanding between both parties and the ability to tolerate each others excesses.

Anonymous said...

i'll answer you when i get married, but my pop said it ain't finance nor love

ED ANO said...

Love is important to a woman and Financial stability to a Man. So both are important bt Love shud be the basis of any relationship

EVERYTHINGGOOD said...

love is most important but then the financial aspect is a driving force to be able to express, if that love is not expressed and nutured through means(not talk, but action) no matter how little money makes expression lovely. so i think its all in the the main set(the relationship) then cash, love, and other stuffs are in subsets.

Anonymous said...

both,but FS is very key trust me.If u r broke and cant provide enuf for the family is stresssful.ur wife go dey make side comments .talking frm experience.

Funmi D said...

Take it from an experienced woman, FINANCIAL STABILITY,without it,love would be meaningless.Trust me i ve tasted both and i know the difference.

Anonymous said...

TRUST for each other is the ultimate.You have to trust to love.

SHANNY said...

UNDERSTANDING EACH OTHER AND ABOVE ALL LOVE ONE ANOTHER

SHANNY said...

UNDERSTANDING EACH OTHER AND ABOVE ALL LOVE ONE ANOTHER

Anonymous said...

Trust and communication

Anonymous said...

Linda y didn't u post my comment???? ** confused face***

Anonymous said...

Financial stability, of course. Lack of it has destroyed many a love.

Anonymous said...

Luv

Anonymous said...

money comes,money goes.but true love last 4ever.

Anonymous said...

love is d most important of it all.

Anonymous said...

love and understanding

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