Well, she didn't actually write that she's been single for a while, she only posted a card with the message written on it. But she must be really trying to send a message (to someone *cough*) because not only did she post it on her twitter page, she also posted it on her Facebook & instagram pages. She also re-posted something Rita Dominic posted on Instagram yesterday...find that after the cut...
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1 – 200 of 215 Newer› Newest»Linda... Ha ha, you and gossip sha...no probs, carry on, since its paying you...lol...via @crownbc
I jst love this chic more
who cares...:L
I was actually loving the message till d F word came up. Well, I believe them to be very intelligent women and to know what they want so best of luck to them!
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I can't agree with Rita's post more.... She took d words right outta my mouth.
As Genny good 4 u! It brings peace of mind.
True that Jenny. It sucks big time now
1st to comment.........
beautiful woman, enjoy you life, its your life
Der shld both b givin demselves hope....mtcheeeewwww,I tot genevieve was d same prsn looking 4 d ryt man,now she enjoys being single....lmao...otiooooo!
Same here but with the help of something.
~BONARIO~says so via NOKIA3310
Ma geny oooooo don't worry ur right Man wil com ,both Ritaz n Linda 2
Na wa. Anyway the babe is just trying to be independent and love every miniute of it. Nothing wrong with that#comment by that sharp NCAA boy#
beautiful woman, live your life, its your life. sexy as ever
Having a man is expedient, but then, that's not the paramount thing! We got millions of folks in relationships who wet their pillows every night and millions of singles ones out there living their lives, gleefully and light-heartedly!!
PREACH!!! Rita Dominic's message is everything!
Nigerians and their obsession with marriage...if I want to single...let me be single please...a man is not my birth right...life goes on...
V
N once again ASUU strike is still on...!
beautiful woman, leave your life, enjoy it to the fullest
beautiful woman, enjoy your life
beautiful woman, enjoy your life
Bia jenny hook up and marry oo
God will bring the right men for them amen
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When expressions are heavier than words.
Linda's mentors!
In my humble opinion, relationships are way overrated. You catch feelings for a person that you can't really guarantee that you will love them forever, and vice versa. You end up marrying the person you like the most or that seem to meet the most criteria and then, half the time, you begin to question yourself and wonder if you ever made the right move.
Deep down most of us would rather remain single to avoid the stupid heartbreaks and emotional rollercoaster that comes with it, but we can't because the cultural hallucinations of having to be with someone and bear kids. You marry this person, never knowing if the person will end up being the greatest devil in your life, as they call it, it is all a risk, right? However, not everyone is willing to take that risk. If you decide not to marry, culture and society will finish you. If u marry, you have to be permanent there oh, even if you are suffering because society and culture will finish u. You have to pray, they say. "Keep prayin, it will get better". To crown it all, you have to act like all is well and paint a stupid picture that your relationship is the best in town, to your frigging displeasure and distress.
What a life! Single is the new sexy... From a lady getting married soon! I envy single ladies
Linda wats ur own self. Cheiii!!!!!!!.. genny single for life jare dnt mind them. I love ur style. Men can park well.
Gm
Its not a do or die affair to be in a realtionship but its get boring sometimes.
LMFAO! Obviously she's lonely as fuck! Deep down she knows she's only fooling herself lmao! Thought she was matured tho.. Didn't expect something like this from her
Sounds like heartbreaks!!
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i really do agree wit miss genny on dis. we now fake everything even love
Bt its tru.... dating has become so complicated. Ptssssiiiuuummmm .fucking game. Fucking idiots. Lol
Lol, Genny my baby, any heartbreak? Still lov ya 4 lyf though. #Team Genny#
i quit concour with u cos @tyms i find myself pretending as if i don't give a dawn while i dying inside.you find urself put up to some shit just to be that one.Most relationships sucksssssss GOSHHHHHHHHH.
I must say this note is true,cos I quite agree wit it all. Anyways who gives a sh*t abt d whole thing. It cld be a piece of work @times,despite d fun and happy moments. God help this decade,I swear down
Whatever Rock your boat dearie. she still remains my favorite actress.. decent, disciplined winks
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OK! First to comment
Rita is so right!
Anwuli
My God,the last post is so true!dating now is jst a big joke.wen u show ppl hw much u care abt them,they will mess u up.u ve to be unavailable n all dt shit!its messed up!
Dn't mind all these celebrities, especially d women celeb's both d divorced $ unmarried celebs! This msg È‹̝̊̅§ for every woman!!!! There È‹̝̊̅§ never a full grown, educated,skilled $ unskilled, beautiful $ ugly woman dat wouldn't like 2 answer "MRS" Believe u M̶̲̥̅Ƹ! except u wanna become a 'NUN or a REV.SISTER' if God never wanted a woman for every man then he wouldn't hav created 'EVE'! Though, every individual È‹̝̊̅§ entitled 2 his or her opinon, but it È‹̝̊̅§ all abt hw u want live up ur life! As for M̶̲̥̅Ƹ ( I'll happily say yes 2 whomever God has destined $ planned for M̶̲̥̅Ƹ!
Na wa! Dy ol tryna console themselves!.....Love is beautiful
its good to be for sometime let's just hope she doesnt end up like oprah
Dis is jst like d case of a som1 who can't afford a flight fare but says flying is too risky so he'll jst travel by road...
This is really so somehow...
If one is realy happy and fulfilled being single, then go ahead but make sure u re not pretendng. more grace.
Eyaaaaaaaa! I feel for both Genny and Rita. They are lonely girls. God will give you your men in due time...but please remember that there is NOTHING like "Mr Perfect" be with the man that cares that you are always happy with or without money. Cheers!
She is soo single n searching.d last time i checked she was dating Dbang
Buh doesn't she miss the "D"?
Like d msg on d 2nd card
U say u dnt nid a man in ur lyf, not even his D. lesbionist # in d words of fat Amy# nothing encompasses a mans touch. MEN till I die. Gbam
This is really heartbreaking. Men of nowadays are not worth it at all. I also got dissapointed in a relationship of 5years. The guy is dating sumonelse now and left me so hurt. He broke up cos he found another girl. MEN PLS STOP HURTING LADIES ITS NOT FAIR AT ALL.!!!!!!!
I luv dis I don't give d F***. Like serious been single is fun
She rocks, so dame right. I think sometimes one is better off alone. But please get married soonest.
This bitch is fucking both men and women
i new it when she post it on instagram in the morning,i said if linda sees it now she must pull it and that is what happen now.TATAFO linda,althe same is ur job.gud job.
this is so really somehow...
For real mehn people av turned datin around dat u can't be real coz if u are they take u for granted
Hmmnnn
Mtchewwwww....!!!!!
ooopssssssssss! Qui?
Facing a whole lot in ma relationship dat I wonder y being a player is more fun Dan dating coz u can't get wat u wan...smh
What a life!!!
This is serious! But y dont you let the fella knows how you feel. and if he is not man enough to accept you for who, what you are, then HAPPILLY Let the fella go to blazes. he dosnt deserve u. chikenan sefini (or how do u spell it)
All join..., who cares too???..
Single ladies need constant re-affirmation, I'm married n I can say u guys r in a good place, those dat judge u r just envious of ur freedom n ability to b responsible 4 ur own happiness.
Why are this guys always having this kinda problems.. Guess they don't practice what they preach!
I absolutely love and I am not even single...
Is that a hint of desperation I perceive? Or is she just being funny? Either way, the caption is funny!
These old ladies should goan marry abeg!
After dem don play tire ,dem dey find true love.you can never eat your cake and have it
All dat is said is true.Dating could be really complicated diz dayz Am Even tied Myself Hoping on d Lord 4 My SOUL MATE nd I pray He Comes Quikly
She go believe by 60 wen all her pikin don comot house, her status go change
Buh aunty genny, being single at ur age aint a gud thing either, loneliness can cause so many things.Elo maryyyy
Awwww Gene Nwannem it shall well
U are both beautiful and classy :) pls dont let ur past relationships hinder ur future happiness, u should both give it a try again and again till ur souls find true love and happiness
Kids play games. Adults decide who they want and go for them
Genee God wil see u through
God helping u, u will find your own soul mate soon.life itself is really complicated.
FED UPNESS LOL
My babe girl am ur man just let me know wen u want sumtin serious we can work tins out linda post
WELL THE SINGLE LADIES ARE SPEAKING UP. LOL
well the single ladies are speaking up. lol
WELL THE SINGLE LADIES ARE SPEAKING UP. LOL
Anyway nan she sabi o both her and Rita.
I don't see anything wrong for someone to remind the whole world he or she is single. This is just incase one has forgetten or may be thinking otherwise of someone. Nobody likes to be alone
well the single ladies are now speaking up. lol
Dats wat loneliness does to ur head
You are on point jare.
She sure needs some action joor!
~D great anonymous!
Being single is beautiful but having the right man is waohhh! I've tasted both sides and I can tell you ' we still have some good men'.
No single person is happy being single as far i'm concern. I've tried it before and i used to say its cool being single, i have my freedom and bla bla bla, but the truth still remains that i am lonely and alone. I now have a man and am getting married nxt. And he's cool. He has his flaws but love covers it all up.
You are on point jare.
"IT IS NOT GOOD FOR A MAN TO BE ALONE"GOD SAID THAT AND HE ALSO SAYS ONE WILL PUT AWAY ONE THOUSAND BUT TWO WILL PUT AWAY TEN THOUSAND.IF ALL YOU WANT IN A MARRIAGE IS A PERFECT PARTNER YOU CANNOT GET IT MOST OF THE LADIES NOWADAYS DONT WANT TO BE A TRUE WIFE THEY WANT TO REMAIN LADIES THEY WANT MEN THAT WILL BRING FOOD FOR THEM WHILE IN BED AND MEN THAT WILL DO THERE LUNDRY AND NOT SAYING ITS NOT GOOD FOR ONE TO DO THIS.I AM A MAN I CAN DO ANYTHING FOR MY WIFE BUT YOU HAVE TO FIRST REMOVE THE LOG IN YOU OWN EYES FIRST BEFORE YOU CAN SEE THE SPEC IN YOUR PARTNER EYES.A BAD TREE AND NOT BEAR GOOD FRUIT AND VICE VERSE
Dats d nature of a single mom.we dont careless,we are very ok been u and kids head strong.
Omidan Linda post my comment na. They are only trying to console theirselves. Love is beautiful!....sisi Genee full of herself,she go die single LOL
Girls!No matter how hard they mouth their indifference,they still betray their pain.Lol!!
This is nt guys tins alone bt also ladies tins..as wel.....d problem is, wen dey r young (ladies) dey tense nt to b serious bt wen dey getin old................d guy is nt serious!
Shut up Ode! U obviously have fish brain... Ezi ofia. Lynda post did ooo
By "Obviously " you mean?. It's really retarded to think someone can not have a life unless they have a man's last name. That shit is totally overrated... It's a good thing Buh it's not the ultimate.. Please make better comments
This your English sha
Geni is stl waiting for me... Rita I stl love u even if u want us to break up...*winks*
.......STAN......
#word# MARRIAGE is not d ultimate goal in life !! No b by force abg
Ah.. F* kwa? Thought she has α level of class.. SMH
Everything Good will come for us all... *sigh*
I think is so wrong for role models like Jenny and Rita to begin to type on social media on the way the feel without a husband ,in turn misleading some silly girls in the society to see being single as respect.we are Africans and a woman without a husband in due time begin to loose respect fast.we not Americans na should stop copying there silly way if life .omotola is married and doing very well in her home front .rita is old now and she finds it difficult to get a man instead of using some silly statement to console yourself and dying inside if you.as for funny I hope you don't tread the path of Rita who is old me find it hard to clinch a man ,you are still young and can get a man who loves for who you are.
Well said!!
Anon 4:45 is right abeg!
Loneliness is not a good thing especially @ ones old age!
We all need a companion one way or d oda!
Na true
Na true
she ain't lying. These days relationships are fucking ridiculous honestly. Its like u have to be an expert at playing 'MONKEY' to get to the top.....
i so agree with them...im in a relationship where i have to hide what i wear, be careful of what i say, how i respond to guys on social networks, or even chatting. at first, this was fun, but now its just so annoying and horrible. i had to travel and now that im away from my bf,the fun is just endless. had sex in the car with one of my crushes last week. hehe.pls dont jugde and im looking forward to it this week and no one is catching feelings. we r just having fun! abeg being in a relationship is so over rated.its good dont get me wrong, but if u love the single life as well, no 1 should judge.
Genny don't mind them life start at 40 for ladies
Everything in Life has a price and before you embark on a journey you must first count the cost. Agreed men can be complicated but that is when you show a little bit of complication yourself as a woman. There are certain things that we in Africa must understand. WE ARE AFRICANS. First and we have a culture, now you cannot expect to live the life of a westerner in all mannerism and still expect an African man to accept you. It just wont work. It might work for some that does not necessarily mean it will work for all so if Gene and Rita are feeling this way i suggest that they change their attitude and try something new. However not many people are comfortable with change. Please note that you don't really feel the effect of being single now at this age when you are still in your prime but it will hit you so hard by the time you are 50 and upwards which if you ask me they are gradually creeping into cause less than 15 years from now they will get there which is about the time frame Nollywood came into existence so if you ask me try for another 2 years and if you can't get a man then i suggest you try what Nike did and get kids by surrogate, at least you will not be entirely lonely at old age. Food For Thought.
Sometimes wen u've been successful n "free" for a long time u forget d role of humilty in life and in relationships. At this point being arrogant is only too natural. I think they should do a self check n stop blaming guys n the world. Rich babes hook up every day to real dudes.not being married, OK! But being totally single not OK. Unless its self service.
it's a kind of.... infact not making sence ... just get married and settle... GOD created adam and eve and not eve alone.. i advice... http://www.gistextra.com/women-cheat/
C as u embarrass urself now ehen *=D* make we 4 kno say u dey istagram.Dooo!
You sound like you hate the person you're getting married to
I couldn't have said it any better! @ anon 5.33pm
I repeat:
@LINDA
@GENE
@RITA
For a 3som
I Rise!!!
@Galore.
Silly post! Keep playing the Ostrich if you like..stay single if you like. Who cares?? Some of us are bold enough and have conquered ourselves.
I don't play games, I come as I am and take people as they are. Life is harder making money.
It's one life we all have, it is a waste of time pretending.
When you love somebody, tell them.
When somebody calls and you feel up to it, pick the call.
Live life, it don't matter if people hurt you or try to because they will. You have a choice to forgive or not when they do.
Single girl life is ruining our society, we are not America. The only support system we have is family and the community.
Peace!
Linda u get brain 4 decipherin encoded msgs lol.Genny is ryt though
who said women without husbands loose respect? owh PPPPPlease spare me all that crap.
Stop making it sound as if without marriage, one is incomplete, cos dat would mean ure simply shallow minded.
Life is all about choices, just have fun with the ones uve made...Period!!!
Mia. E
Sex toys don Suffer for her Hand...!
dont get me wrong, i hv a wonderful man, and im grateful to God for him becos his type are not up to 2 in dis world, But it doesnt mean that others who choose to remain single are lonely, people shud stop being so one sided already....
Mia. E
There is no guarantee of a companion at old age. What if ur spouse dies, what if he leaves, the earlier u find happiness being by urself, d better for u. If u ve smone eventually, still cool.
Hmmmmmm.
The prevalence of "dating is complicated" comments really do baffle me.
I have to say, I never experienced any complications in dating- and I dated quite a lot.
I express myself truly and CLEARLY- and was always very clearly understood.
I never saw the need to be around or stick around anyone who made me doubt myself- I would kick them to the curb- why bother?
I really don't think relationships are complicated. Hardwork- yes, but, not "complicated".
In the "blogging" lingua, "#mytwocents" :).
*single ones
One bad guy don "hit and run". Guess he had no insurance. Hahaha.
They both need man in their lives.guys what are u waiting for to propose to them.they are beautiful
Problem is when GUYS want to settle down is then Ladies would want to play around, keep waiting for the 6.7 tall, not too black, biceps, little muscular, handsome, driving range rover, working with an Oil company etc and on and on guy...
Men una don suffer. See as one commenter spoke as if na just to marry keep man for pocket. Ms. we are not Americans...shift biko, all these horrid marriages in Naija are nothing to aspire to. And the quoter of God's word, abeg no dey add jare...He did not only mean a married couple as two can put ten thousand to flight. Please Naija women stop forcing marriage down people's throats and Naija men let your egos not be too bruised, some people don't want to be married...it is not a sin o!!! Tufia, I must marry crew. O and I am a married woman by the way. But I no dey carry Mrs on my head. The man as wonderful as he is, him fit crase leave me. Will I die then? Abeg, all these women, if you like don't make something out of yourselves. Be dying for Mrs title, while your mates are changing the world and climbing the success ladder, you are following some happiness draining, abusive, low self esteem man around doing Mrs. Let him introduce you to the harem that warm his bed at night then your eye will clear. More grease to your elbow Genny, YOU ARE ENOUGH!!
Yes marriage s nt d ultimate goal neither s hvn multiple partnas d ideal goal.I bet u both ar young,trust me wen u gt to ur forties,u wil undstand mre.dnt let ds two actress be deceievn u. Eve
You've said it all! Nigerians are so obsessed with marriage ehn and they end up becoming baby mothers shior
Being single dese dayz is goood. For a young divorcee like moi the pressure to marry is off cos been dere done dat and WON'T go dere again. Lovin single life.
You've nailed it
Y u no hook her up? Its nt forbidding, as dem de pluck good men on trees frm ur village, mtcheww.
God bless u 4 d comment.f oly dy cn gt dwn frm deir high horses,dy wil gt responsible men.I rada be a married wuman dan a lonely hag.rlships ar complicated yes,so does bein single.ladies do nt be deceieved. Eve
Babes, if u doubt it don't do it. Mine showed his true colours l8r nd I went thru hell to get out. I consider my years in marriage as my wasted years.
And how many married women hang wiv their hubbies? Or who do u think those sleazy men in nite clubs are?
Abeg shut da f up jare! So in order not to be lonely, she shld jump in2 an unhealthy relationship jus to please d likes of u? U lie, its her life n her business, so remain in ur lane.
Na ur gbagauns dey cause am.
Too much loneliness dey worry am.
C ds ladies dem jst dey hide dem feelings.wat maks pple tink dem wise,dos we tink say wise b4,wetin hapen to dem @ last....akinrrachhome,dammyiscus,kateir dnt wish 2 mention name.U beta advix dem say age no dey dem side.V.soon dey wil leav d stage finaly 4 new generation.wat u dnt av u can't give.wch moral can dey teach.Abegiii
So wot happens when no man who comes ur way is in anyway one who God has destined $ planned for u? U go siddon dey wait?
Did Oprah complain 2 u?
The height of a woman's achievement is NOT marriage! Nigerians take this thing too serious
So wot happens when no man who comes ur way is in anyway one who God has destined $ planned for u? U go siddon dey wait?
Single and using sex toys feels good, hater men
It is a blissful thing to love somebody and to be loved in return. Loneliness is a pain in the ass.
LOOL NIGERIANS ARE FUNNY!! SO IF SOMEONE IS NOT MARRIED THE PERSON IS LONELY. WHAT HAPPENED TO SIBLINGS,FAMILY OR EVEN HAVING A BOYFRIEND. IN NIGERIA IS DO OR DIE, WETHER YOU ARE HAPPY OR NOT REMAIN INSIDE. THERE ARE SINGLE LADIES THAT ARE HAPPY BEING SINGLE AND THERE ARE MARRIED WOMEN IN THIS COUNTRY GOING THROUGH HELL. YOU PEOPLE SHOULD STOP BRING BIBLE, GOD AND ALL SORTS OF IGNORANT RUBBISH INTO THIS. GOD DID NOT BRING US TO EARTH FOR THE SOLE PURPOSE OF MARRYING. AND I DOUBT GENEVIEVE OR RITA ARE FINDING IT HARD TO ATTRACT MEN, LIKE SOME OF YOU HERE CLAIM. THEY JUST DON'T WANT TO SETTLE FOR BS
Grow up dear, ur comment sounds funny n outta place. Which woman won't like 2 b married, which woman wants 2 b lonely n not have a companion she can call her own 4 life? Which woman? Some women are lucky 2 meet Mr right ( well few ds days) y some dnt get to find a good man, all de come across are stupid con artist, in a situation lik ds what do u expect d woman 2 do? Force herself on a man jus 2 pls society n family? Meanwhile most of ds women/ ladies has found theirselves in deceitful relationships more than five or more times!! So what should she do? I have been married 4 ova 8yrs n loving it, but all can not be as fortunate, so pls those saying they should go n marry (especially celebs) should stop it. God will do it 4 dem @His own timen till then, let dem be.
And how have u ended up?
U make me laugh, and how many of such men are available ds days? Seems u dnt know what's happening out der. All ds chop n clean mouth guys, where is d Mr care about u? Mtcheww, abeg park well o j.
Jenny n rita gt off ur high horses n tell ursfs d truth,dnt mislead innocent naïve gals.rlsps are complicated buh dts wt mks t fun,u hv to kiss so mny frogs bf princes.a wuman s nuffn wiftout a man,n yes,ts a wuman talkn. Eve
What about you wen de sleep with dog? Atleast she is doing hers with humans! Stupid fool, gutter mouth.
Lwkm..aswear
y d essay
This what happens to ladies who sleep with married men/politicians/''money miss road footballers'' just to finance their extravagant life style in a desperate bid to remain in the limelight. Nigerian men don't like getting married to ladies who have been around for a long time.
And those who didn't eat der cake like u? How e be u? Are u any better? U def can't come out n say that, evn if u re married, u no reach.
Anonymous 4:45 so a person that Is not married is lonely? What a daft comment. I wonder why there are always so many married Nigerian men in night clubs, don't their wives get lonely at home?
O girl I agree with your points but maybe true true na cos of your gbagauns u dey single. Lmaoooo
Linda are u telling us something I.e sharing the same school of thought wit them. For Genny she can decide 2 remain a single mum. Her child is her Joy and strength.Moreso men dis days are not ready to take responsibilties most of them are liabilties .As long as one is happy and fulfilled been single.it's ok
Excuse me madam marriage, is marriage the ultimate? Some months ago a person I know was beaten to death by her husband, when he was abusing her, people where saying it's the devil that wants to ruin your marriage, anyway she died cos of the ultimate goal in life marriage (sarcasm). And guess the crazy part, her husband has moved on, dude has been spotted at joints recently. So please marriage is not a do or die affair. It does not guarantee joy, a better life of heaven spare us this marriage obsession pls
Pls Sharrap, fish brain. Cos a person is not married the person is lonely. You that is married you sound even more lonely
I totally agree with the second post (or repost) i also find the 'dating game frustrating' but u see that first one? lies we tell ourselves. i also act like i love being single...discovering myself..yada yada. But let me smell the perfume of who i think is Mr. right, u wont even see my brake light
Doesn't She miss the D? Single women no fit receive D?
In the eyes of an average Nigerian lady, a good man must be rich. There so many good men out there, ladies despise them because they are not loaded. The truth is that, rich men are painfully in short supply. They throw themselves at the few that are available, married rich men inclusive, and they just 'chop them like biscuits'. At dawn, they become frustrated, they run to churches, praying for a good single man when ''water don pass garri''.
There are still some wise girls out there, every Saturday, a good man takes one to the alter.
Hmm! Loneliness on that side of the world. Take heart!
Another daft comment
So the solution for loneliness is to get a man? My dear you can adopt, stay with family, get a boyfriend, hang with friends. If for you a man is the solution to loneliness, lol.. Sorry
Keep deceiving yourselves by saying it is okay to be alone.
My advice: Mama, hold your Romeo.
Anonymous 6:16 you will die married congrats it means you will fulfill your sole purpose on earth
Anonymous 6:38 lool at "we are not Americans" another case of Nigerians taking the moral high ground again. My friend we are the most religious but corrupt nation
Marriage is from God! Please forget all the gibberish about being single or being married. According to the Bible singles whether male or female, use your time for the service of God,as the cares of married people is their spouses and their children, so where ever you fall men ! enjoy! Life is a simple case of too short.
As for Genny and Rita go girls and have fun,it will happen when you just take it off your mind. I know it's difficult especially in Nigeria where people get married every other day as if it is going out of fashion, people just get married without knowing what it means to be committed. God help us.
Dats dia biz
anon 7.43 God bless u. some peeps are so dependent, they find it very strange when dey notice somthn different. Marriage is not by force, one man's meat will always be another's poison. Deal with it.
Mia. E
Who do they think they are?
anon 8.56, u r such a fool. nuf said.
Kai!!! Well said Warri Boy. See dem dey talk. See dem dey talk. Come to Uni Abuja and see how they mess themselves for money. 3 to 4 babes doing group f**k on one guy for how much??? 8 to 15k per babe and later they'll want one innocent guy for a true andloving relationship. Comot joor. This her talk vex me sha. Wetin. Even she when dey talk how many guys she don do when she dey find love. If she no know, guy like That her former @tiku boyfriend go even prefer to arrange her daughter than her own p^$###.
Life is about scarifice.....as someone posted earlier, u need to count the cost before you embark in the journey. i have been on both sides and i can comfortably say, both has its cost, both lay demands on you, it all depends on your preference. Marriage/ relationship is all about negotiation between 2 pple. When one party is doing all d compromising, it takes the fun away, when someone fills like he/ she is God's perfect gift to humanity and the other person needs to worship d ground u tread on,it will not last. Its a long process of compromise and patience, great patience is very much needed.
This is not to say some pple are not better off single, some are. There are some marriages that are toxic, full of negativity, the only solution is to walk away with you life when u can, my aunt just left her hubby and the whole family was so excited, everyone wanted to give her a hug for taking the bold step...dont judge cus u dnt know her story and our family...we are christians, very good one at that, and highly educated pple thriving at the peak of our individual careers, but we wanted her happy and alive as much as God gives her breath.
To the single ladies, my heart bleeds for u, i hear stories of horror abt dating and o wondered if i would survive had i still being single. The madness of men and some women alike. Marriage is not the peak of life, theres more to.life than marriage but marriage is an integral part of life. The joy u experience when all is good is indescribable, its got its high and low time. As a married lady, at my low times, i miss my single days, i long to be single at those times. When it all rosy, i love my man so much, it scares me....u see d flow.
If you go abt with the attitude that im single and wateva, it reflects in your disposition to pple, pple pick up d signal and u can send away a potentially good guy. Enjoy your singleness while exhibiting characteristics of a wifey....u can be snazzy and wifey....if u have chosen to be single, its also good, surround yourself with pple that love n appreciate u, focus on your career because u have a higher chance at succedding in it than the married folks, be nice to pple, remember u made the decision to be single....and may, just maybe, true love will find u.
PS to all mothers: Pls lets teach our children, especially the boys to be good pple, to treat their sisters and female friends with respect and tenderness, to recognize that they need to take good care of the females in their lives. This terrible, horrible nightmare in dating has to stop cus our children shld not hve to go through this. Let our daughters know that keeping yourself is virtuous as a lady...pls do...cus i will with any boy that messes up with my daughter.....hehehehe...shes 4yrs old
Hunhunhun. I laff in french.
Funny thing some married women don't even appreciate their husbands love for them. Irrespective of all the love and care I show her she still says I don't love her and she wants to leave despite kids. I wish my wife would read this posts and comments and understand how I hold her as my guardian Angel or better still she starts loving me as much as I do her. Or is it because I was raised by single parents and am so scared to ever ever loose my home she treats me that way.
marriage is not do or die affair...i would rather be a single lady than having having my hubby beat me every minute of the Day.
I'm sure a lot of women here would jump at the chance to be Oprah if they could. OPRAH IS MAKING IMPACTS AROUND THE WORLD HAS PUT MEN AND WOMEN THROUGH SCHOOL. SHE HAS CHANGED LIVES. WHAT HAVE YOU ACHIEVED? U FINALLY TURNED TO SOMEONES WIFE, CONGRATULATIONS YOU ACHIEVED THE GREATEST THING EVER. YOU GOT MARRIED
Ok ooh.. Instead of Genny to dey speak positive with her mouth she dey speak say she love being single abi? Okay oooh.
Jovi Uba please spare me this we are Africans BS. If we have perfect culture and morals why is Africa like this? And are u suggesting that they should accept anything that wears trouser just for the sake of marriage? Why should a woman choose to downgrade her way of life just to get a man. I if the man is intimidated by the woman then he is not the man for her. And what is the guarantee that if your married you won't be lonely when your 50? What if the husband leaves or dies. Pls marriage doesn't guarantee anything even Heaven
NIGERIANS ARE OBSESSED WITH MARRIAGE. IN NIGERIA LIFE IS ABOUT TICKING BOXES. BSC - NYSC-MSC-JOB-MARRIAGE - CHILDREN in that order. If you don't follow you will start hearing all sorts of rubbish
What a way of consolation!!!!!!!!
God will grant ur heart desires soon
Buhahahaha...u cray o
OBVIOUSLY, LINDA WOULD POST THIS POST.....I KNEW IT AS SOON AS I SAW IT ON GENEVIEVE`S INSTAGRAM
please xxxxxx
Bein tru to yourself is far the most important thing to virtually everything,nd takin the right decision towards achieving that is not alwayz easy but above all try to reach for your happiness first its far more important than anything because it gives you a high confident rank .if genny loves being single itz owkay...
I'd rather be single and lonely than married and feel trapped. Lets face it,married folks envy single folks,n vice versa. Its in human nature to think the grass is greener on the other side.
I have been on both sides and I must say there's nothing like having somebody to call your own jor! *happily married in my middle 30s*
B4 nko what do you expect from lesbians ? and shameless old ladies like this... mcheew
D banj..false hope..lips sealed #didi
I agree that good guys are difficult to find these dayz,but seriously lets ask ourselves as ladies how many of us are the good wife material nowadays?Then we say one thing with our mouth when we actually mean another in our heart-No woman wants to be single and dating isnt as complicated as Rita makes it sound except of course you both are playing games-I remeber when my hubby was toasting me he had been calling for about 6months before we met cos he's a friend of my fav cousin-I was so disinterested in his calls cos he sounded boring and wasnt acting like i expected him and then i was in love with someone else who apparently wasnt in love with me-To cut d long jist one of my probs was that dis dude wasnt sending a common thing as recharge cards he just kept calling so he struck me as being stingy-On one of d occassions he called i was with my goddad i thankGod i listened to him that day as an answer to my complaint he said to me-Blessings come in usual packages-It took us dating for 5yrs[mostly long distance] as he was out of d country alot-too many compromises and sacrifices but one thing that kept our relationship wasnt our love-It was commitment,we got married last year,hubby was still looking for a job then-but today d story is different he has a wonderful job-Things aint always rosy in relationships-D right guy doesnt have to be super dupa rich when u meet him nor able to buy you diamonds-As long as he's hardworking and purposeful give it time it will come-We women are blessings to our men and multipliers-I always told myself that even if my hubby was destined to be poor d day he marries me dat destiny changed y?I believe so much in dat scripture he who finds a wife finds a good thing and oftens favour from d lord and guess what it worked for me.Men treat ur women right-Dis scripture is d rock behind d powerful saying 'Behind every successful man there is a woman'
I wish all Ladies in Nigerian to take a look at Linda Ikeji's life history, hw she live in her life. Most of our lady will out publishing there nakedness. What does that mean?
"Linda this is important please post it"- The Loneliest place in the world is to marry and not get along with your spouse. If your single life brings you happiness and allows you to fulfill God's purpose for your life, then why not go for it but what I won't encourage is having several partners in the name of being single. And moreover, marriage has destroyed some women's destiny and purpose in life. I'm not against marriage because it is beautiful only when you find your true partner and it is based on an unconditional love which is of God and understanding of his word.
And to think there are so many gud guys out there lookin for d a gud woman to settle down with....its totally crazy!....I think most guys want an independent woman....for instance meeee!....d only reason am nt married is cos I want an independent woman...314cc792
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