Truth is if a woman is a pushover, she isn't much fun. If a woman does EVERYTHING you ask her to do without hesitation then for me that relationship is doomed, because it's tiring having a puppy for girlfriend/wife. A woman should have her own mind and mustn't do everything a guy wants especially when such wants are contrary to has. Every lady should be able to find a balance between being a pushover and independent.
First of all, who is this man that said this? And by what standard does this philosophy come from? I don't concur at all! A man must be the head of the house and must control all affairs, including the wife's affairs. If anything happens to the wife, who would be held responsible? The wife was handed over to the man at marraige..........Common!
I wouldnt want to control my wife, but we both have to respect each other, its weird to think any man would want to control their wife, i mean how would you build an empire and marriage that is genuine?
I was married to a controlling husband and it was hell, i left after 7yrs and 2 kids, a controlling man is an abusive man, he will eventually beat you up if you dont jump when he says so... Controlling men usually look handsome and cheat everyday but want a slave in doors
Men who want to control the woman are insecure men and are dangerous, they want a yes sir wife so they can chance her n she wudnt bat an eyelid.. They can go as far as bringing women to d matrimonial home n slap d wife if she barks
Na controling men dey pour acid 4 their gfs n wives, na dem dey beat women n dey kill dem. sistas mk una run 4 ur lives if u see small sign say he wan control u
1st of all the diction is flawed. The word control conotes negativity because Men actually should lead & not control their women. Now, substituting control for lead in the above quote makes the quote wrong because a good woman should mostly follow her man's lead...
U know,Linda...I c u as a lion keeper n LIiBers (me inclusive,lol) as hungry lions..u hand down d meat(d story) n we pounce on it,tearin it into pieces,sometimes fyting ourselves in d process while u fold ur arms n look on *smh* dats y ud bring dis 1 for us to answer...Anyway sha,I agree with d dude,a woman worth keeping shud have a mind of her own.
oyibo woman and nigerian woman no b dsame,if u no control your woman she go turn u to house boy.im speaking from experience trust me guys. Oyibo oma nke na okur.
Hmmmmm!!! Me I disagree to this one o , because even the bible say's a man should have full control of his wife.so even if am not in a relationship I still no that men are to control there wive's or dat....
Control is relative and it depends from which perspective one is looking at it. From my own point of view I want a woman who is strong willed with sound independent mind, a woman who is highly intuitive and not afraid of taking decisions thru the use of sound knowledge n initiatives but in all of these, she must be submissive to my headship but not in a subservient kind of way.
Any man who finds such a woman described above finds a priceless gem.
men should not control a woman, we are not dogs. A man who feels he has to control a woman, is a coward and a bully, who lacks self- control. Most nigerian men fall into this catergory that why there is a lot of domestic abuse, which can maim a woman or cause death. Also most nigerian woman accept control, because they believe, they are being a good wife. Pure rubbish biggest mistake they ever made. Men are to love and care for their wives. Vise-visa.
Where is the good one, oh you mean the green empty bottle. That's ok for lazy poor men to control. But if you want to keep it cool, take a glass of champagne, smile to the bank and move the most expensive four tire wheels and see your woman and women, daughters and mothers, sisters and eX's respect you like you are their fathers and masters (god). Simple way to gain your respect. Cheers. Engr E.
As a woman I just want to say that in a relationship, no one should control the other!!!! There should be MUTUAL respect! Above all, there should be love! All these control nonsense is something from the past and no one should be subjected to such!
the reason is because eve was not able to be controlled by Adam...he told her what God said...and she chose to do what she wants to do...this is the reason for divorce!!!
There should be a balance in everything...maybe the word shouldn't be control...wives should submit to their husbands...Ephesians 6:12
If you can't control your woman...you have found a VERY BAD ONE...WOMAN WEY YOU NO FIT CONTROL....YOUR LIFE DON SCATTER BI THAT....And na breakup things......
Biko, keep quiet! Mr. English! Mtchew! The word control was purposely used!!!!! Cos most stupid men love to control dier women and dahs wat d writer meant! Controlling sm1 is jst wrong!
Wait a minute dis man didn't say u hv found a good woman. He said "you have found a good one" So I think he means you'hv found a good agbaya, or u hv found a good grave 4 urself. Dats my spin on it. Ebe ano!
Bunch male poppin egos commenting.plz go ask ur pop he“ll tell u d beta.totally agree wt him.over the yrz men are seen as lords n gods of women bt funnily enuf,even d mst bravest,wittest n wisest of dem will alwz fall under d subtle bt powerful control of a woman.jst dt one woman,bingo!Unfortuntely to mst men,ignorantly tfink otherwise n dts y wen dey meet dt 1 gud woman,they end up abusin n makin themselves control freaks n beast.(forgettin dt control is a mind power game nt a fist sort of mastery)
Control is all about the male egos. Case in point look at some of the comments stated already on this issue by men. They are insulting the man for his statement, one thing i have noticed about nigerian men is that most have an ape-ish mentality. They are bullies, cowards, and wimps, the prefer women they can dominate. They are afraid of women that are strong and opinonated. Yeah Hate-slayer stop giving one-sided story, white women somes have the upper hand because they are in a sham marriage with a nigerian for green card or some other immigration papers. So some white ladies use that as leverage against nigerian men. i have several friends who are white, that are married to nigerian men. They are happy is can be with children. You see over here in the States women won't tolerate the babaric nature of some of the attitudes of nigerian men ( prison is very real for domestic abuse/ violence against women). This is why nigerian women need to stop their bickering/jealousy amongst each other, and Unite to form women rights organizations. Help each other, to stand up against violence (sisterhood). A good woman is an alive one not a dead one. Rise up my sisters
I bought a bottle of perfume from essenza shop rite Ikeuwa and it was 3000 more expensive at essenza than at Montaigne in the same mall,I went back to essenza 5minuites after and was refused a refund or discount,this really hurts and pls Linda publish this so other Nigerians don't get scammed,am so disappointed,I thought they had a reputation to protect obviously their only thoughts is to rip people
In my opinion YOU can never control a WOMAN..Never!!! UNLESS she submits to your authority. If she doesn't submit forget it! The man is OYO. Because even if you beat her and scream at her one day she will rebel and nearly break your head.. Every Man should just pray for their wife to be submissive. You can't control her because she's not a DOG!!! She decides to submit to your authority as a man and walk with you or cooperate . ------- Sona
Dat caption is so right, my hubby can't control me, and I cnt control him either, we have a mutual understanding and respect 4 each other, we can never hurt each other or take each other for granted! I always pity women dat are always at d mercy of their hubby, ur man shld not control u, it is wrong!
Wot he means Is that men tend 2 mak wrong decisons SOoº° to hav a woman dt makes sure U̶̲̥̅̊ mak right decisions is a plus.....that said *Dame Patience* is an exception cos d woman's gotta hav sumfin upstairs. I mean hw cn U̶̲̥̅̊ be SOoº° ignorant n b a control freak at d same tym...eishh
As untrue as dis sayin may sound,too bad its actualy true.men r naturally associated wt dominance whch meks dem most tym bullies.reverse d case to a woman,nd d equatn is balanced coz an acquired dominance(women) can neva overpower a natural dominance(men).instead it balances d scale of mutual understandin
He speaks while drinking that buh dat doesn't mean he is under the influence already.. Think deep, he made huge sense. U dnt want to marry a puppet do u???
He speaks while drinking that buh dat doesn't mean he is under the influence already.. Think deep, he made huge sense. U dnt want to marry a puppet do u???
Eh Linda, the insecure Naija man will read this as something else. You know them na, you even hear them say "Guy, control your wife o". Naija man! Buhahahha, you have stripped some of them of their "birthright". The day some of you will wake up and realize that it is respect that will earn you a good wife, not control via beating, abuses and acid then we will take you seriously. Until then, most Naija men are subject to serious side eye until proven low self esteem less cause honestly we don tire for una rubbish.
Sommie, but you speak with so much sense. The saying meant control. Some of your counterparts mistake leadership for control. I hope in your home you are one of the few naija men with the sense to lead (we don't have those anymore like we used to). Now all they want to do is sit and gripe about how the world is against them.
Imagine telling your wife she's getting late for work and she says "shut up, it's non of your business". That's what not being able to control your wife turns her to.
I think women should be honest and really look into their husbands' eyes and say "I'd like to start calling the shots in this house". Women who are not under the control of their husbands are either witches or they're not in their husband's house. Lol
Just to add to Hilary's view, no man wants an 'ok, ok lady'. Men love challenges, a woman they can ague intelligently with. Men miss it when they feel they have to control. Wisdom is profitable to direct.
It depends on what u see as control.But every man have to exercise some control over the wife.If u the man can't control ur wife to an extent,then u r doomed.
Wait again,are you a guy? Then you are a smart one... You applied wisdom here and didn't just rant like a chick...people really need yo sit back and think before they act.You are a real man.
Linda this is weird, I had this debate with a male coworker just days ago. Truth is the single men won't get it. It's only the married men that will understand this. So ask more (Happily) married men about it. Single guys are terrified of this fact.
No matter the love you have for your woman,never allow her to control you or disclose your business document to her.Otherwise,she will make you lose your best friends,families and fortune.even kpai you.They visit shrine frequently.
I quite I agree with you. I also recently walked out of a 3 year old relationship. He was a control freak, temperamental and impatient; always wanted things to go his way; selfish and never cares about how I feel about anything that concerns us so longs as it went his way. You got it! Very tall, dark and handsome. Any girl can fall for him at first sight, but he is nothing but a 'miss-road sperm' that got conceived. Women be wise!
No matter the love you have for your woman,never allow her to control you or disclose your business document to her.Otherwise,she will make you lose your best friends,families and fortune.even kpai you.They visit shrine frequently.
Haba Linda there's noting to argue there, obviously you can spot a bottle of beer on the table of that mad man so he was probably drunk when he made that statment
I totally agree. You shouldn’t have control over your woman...if you do she is a wuss and you are insecure for choosing a woman who wouldn’t challenge you. We all need to be challenge and questioned sometimes because of our fallibilities and propensity to make poor decisions from time to time. You need someone who would tell you the truth as it is…not someone who tells you what you want to hear. You need a strong woman!
if you think you need to control your wife/woman then you must be suffering from a low self esteem/inferiority complex. the respect for each other should come without stress or force. so he is right. if a woman is to scared to challenge your decisions, she is not your wife, she is your slave. women say no to marital slavery
Listen up ya'll: the white man's world is totally different from ours. If a white man decides not to control his wife, the wife would also on a mutual agreement decide not to disrespect the white man.
This is so wrong the world problem today is bcos men were not able to control women. God created man 1st and he made him stronger bcos God want man to have control over everything Adam was not able to control eve that's why dia is sin everywhere so man must exact a control to have a stable family
Ano 11.31: Do u say shutup? Am sory u dont undastand d philosophical meanin of wut he said. Bein in control means ability of makin ur wif to do 100pacent of wut u want. How do u think dat can be possible, u determin hw/wut she eat, wut she wears, who sh grets, how sh spend her money etc. Then there is no way sh can contribut or say no. My dear control canot work in marriage. A president can control his country but cant control hs wife
Listen up ya'll: the white man's world is totally different from ours. If a white man decides not to control his wife, the wife would also on a mutual agreement decide not to disrespect the white man.
I hate controlling men. I was once in a controlling relationship and my life was hell. It was a matter of life and death but thank God he divorced me because I challenged him for once. Money speaks, if a man is controlling and don't have what it takes to be a man then he should keep quiet.
The good one the man is talking about is the bottle of bear. He meant, if you can't control your wife, alcohol is the only thing to grab and drink over your anger.
I think he means if your woman is submissive then there's no need to prove you wear the pants....its not the interpretation we all see at first reading.
Respect is different from control, the bible never stated men should control their wives, if you make the right decisions as a man, she'll follow your lead and if not why should she?
301 comments:
1 – 200 of 301 Newer› Newest»Try am na.. See how your life will be..
SO TRUE!! IT TAKES WISDOM AND A WISE GUY TO REALLY UNDERSTAND THIS SAYING!!!
taaaaahhh!!!! shuttup there...
huh??? abi thsts when you have literally dug up your grave.
ermmmmm,waiting for d argument to start *sips juice*
I will not agree 2 dat,it depends on aw u handle ur family affair.4 me its a different dimension.
So who go control who?! This Bullshit is on an all time high.
Truth is if a woman is a pushover, she isn't much fun. If a woman does EVERYTHING you ask her to do without hesitation then for me that relationship is doomed, because it's tiring having a puppy for girlfriend/wife. A woman should have her own mind and mustn't do everything a guy wants especially when such wants are contrary to has. Every lady should be able to find a balance between being a pushover and independent.
I'm a lady! first to comment
Even d *Good one is written in a faint form, so d man must b high on mutafofo terata
a good one, bc listenin and understanding maks a happy family nt controlin or takin charge
Yes nahh! Its true! #hides from missiles#
Yes to an extent. Femmefatale
So far as she's not controlling me.
A woman should be guided not ne bossed, if she not willing then there Will Be no basis for the Relationship
A woman should Be guided not bossed, if she Is not willing then There Is no basis for a Relationship
Let d answers roll in!
he must ave his reasn 4 sayin dat. But i do agree, avin a gud woman doesnt mean u must ave control ova ha
I agreee ...100% am a lady so I knw....~@amnel_kahlan~
First of all, who is this man that said this?
And by what standard does this philosophy come from?
I don't concur at all!
A man must be the head of the house and must control all affairs, including the wife's affairs.
If anything happens to the wife, who would be held responsible?
The wife was handed over to the man at marraige..........Common!
I wouldnt want to control my wife, but we both have to respect each other, its weird to think any man would want to control their wife, i mean how would you build an empire and marriage that is genuine?
I dont! Cant you see what is in his front?....he is speaking under the influence of the "GREEN" bottle .........................Emm-why said so
its just a dp not necessarily coming from a man. anyone cld have created the dp, man or woman. the message is as empty as good morning.
So he's trying to say that women who are out of control are the best who the fuck is this dude?
He must b drunk
I was married to a controlling husband and it was hell, i left after 7yrs and 2 kids, a controlling man is an abusive man, he will eventually beat you up if you dont jump when he says so... Controlling men usually look handsome and cheat everyday but want a slave in doors
Men who want to control the woman are insecure men and are dangerous, they want a yes sir wife so they can chance her n she wudnt bat an eyelid.. They can go as far as bringing women to d matrimonial home n slap d wife if she barks
yes
I swear na truth.... 1st to comment!
Men who think contolling their women is okay r werey men
Na controling men dey pour acid 4 their gfs n wives, na dem dey beat women n dey kill dem. sistas mk una run 4 ur lives if u see small sign say he wan control u
He's md upstairs...biko
Where are the guys say sumtin plzzz
Absolutely wrong,,,,,,,i guess the statement is meant for only him,,,
Watch African Movies: www.fts-movie.com.ng
HE IS A PUNK AND SMELLS PUSSY.
Dis is outright rubbish...... I totally disagree
No o,agree ke.He's a foreigner that's their believe over der nt here in Africa.
And with that green bottle by his side,I doubt the mental state of the proponent of this theory.
~BONARIO~says so via NOKIA3310
1st of all the diction is flawed. The word control conotes negativity because Men actually should lead & not control their women.
Now, substituting control for lead in the above quote makes the quote wrong because a good woman should mostly follow her man's lead...
True
Hmñnnnnn.....
No no no. Though in a way your woman should have some level of authority.
I STRONGLY DISAGREE.
Nigerian men will NEVER agree.
No
Cheat on ur woman and get a bout of nagging,but cheat on ur beer and get millions of bubbling smile saying "welcome back.
U know,Linda...I c u as a lion keeper n LIiBers (me inclusive,lol) as hungry lions..u hand down d meat(d story) n we pounce on it,tearin it into pieces,sometimes fyting ourselves in d process while u fold ur arms n look on *smh* dats y ud bring dis 1 for us to answer...Anyway sha,I agree with d dude,a woman worth keeping shud have a mind of her own.
This statement is not complete.
If u no fit control her she go control u nau,den u go become her first class mugu/maga 4 life
A
so not true @jus2incrediible
Story story. Na dis kind talk make me swallow frog
oyibo woman and nigerian woman no b dsame,if u no control your woman she go turn u to house boy.im speaking from experience trust me guys. Oyibo oma nke na okur.
Hmmmmm!!! Me I disagree to this one o , because even the bible say's a man should have full control of his wife.so even if am not in a relationship I still no that men are to control there wive's or dat....
that's shit statement :.very wrong
Its actually coming from wat he has in front of him
Really?
You sef Linda tink am...what's good in something, or someone you can't control? Am sure that 't was a typo....
Control is relative and it depends from which perspective one is looking at it. From my own point of view I want a woman who is strong willed with sound independent mind, a woman who is highly intuitive and not afraid of taking decisions thru the use of sound knowledge n initiatives but in all of these, she must be submissive to my headship but not in a subservient kind of way.
Any man who finds such a woman described above finds a priceless gem.
Yes oohh*dis guy dey talk true abeg*make guy learn abeg oohhh
Control? No one can control anyone.I don't agree.
men should not control a woman, we are not dogs. A man who feels he has to control a woman, is a coward and a bully, who lacks self- control. Most nigerian men fall into this catergory that why there is a lot of domestic abuse, which can maim a woman or cause death. Also most nigerian woman accept control, because they believe, they are being a good wife. Pure rubbish biggest mistake they ever made. Men are to love and care for their wives. Vise-visa.
No wonder marital break-downs has reached an all time high.
It really depends on both parties, but as an African man's mentality, its not true.
True
DUKE says.......
Based on mutual understanding, U shouldn't control ur woman, U should rather agree
100% correct! Men want women who have their own heart
Dat just an edited pic, who said he said it.....jeez!!! #hovagodmc
A naija man will neva agree 2 dis
Where is the good one, oh you mean the green empty bottle. That's ok for lazy poor men to control. But if you want to keep it cool, take a glass of champagne, smile to the bank and move the most expensive four tire wheels and see your woman and women, daughters and mothers, sisters and eX's respect you like you are their fathers and masters (god). Simple way to gain your respect. Cheers. Engr E.
This comment was left by a user who has been blocked by our staff.
As a man, well I don't agree at all wif dat
Naaa! I don't agree!
He's drunk for chrissake!....once im eye clear,he will disagree wt him sef
You'd be making a mistake if you think you can actually control any woman.
E-MAGIN Team just dropped by!
Any man that feels the need to "control" his woman is a bad man!#boobye
Very funny..
Hmmmmmm.... I can't wait to read their comments... Men please say/write something, we ladies are waiting!!!!
yeah right, from a man drinking...
Whats that in his front?Beer?
He s under an influence no doubt
No man, I am a girl and I don't like guys who can't be in control! A man has to be a man
LOL linda see who u want us 2 agree wit. Guess he said dat wen he was drunk.... Cox I can sight a bottle of Alcohol on his table
As a woman I just want to say that in a relationship, no one should control the other!!!! There should be MUTUAL respect! Above all, there should be love! All these control nonsense is something from the past and no one should be subjected to such!
well lets have d opinion of them brovas
amazing stuff on my fashion blog www.soladunn.blogspot.com
the reason is because eve was not able to be controlled by Adam...he told her what God said...and she chose to do what she wants to do...this is the reason for divorce!!!
There should be a balance in everything...maybe the word shouldn't be control...wives should submit to their husbands...Ephesians 6:12
I disagree..I think the man is high..see dah green bottle beside him..
Yup!
If you can't control your woman...you have found a VERY BAD ONE...WOMAN WEY YOU NO FIT CONTROL....YOUR LIFE DON SCATTER BI THAT....And na breakup things......
Correct man
Stfu! Dunce.
Very true my dear, ve bin in it n tws hell
Correct man
Shut up! Nobody is sposed to control anybody! Use ur brain! R/ship is partnership.
Correct man
Keep doubting! D smart ones know its true! Controlling is nt a needed element in a r/ship at all!!! Stupid men dah jst full dis Nigeria!
Biko, keep quiet! Mr. English! Mtchew! The word control was purposely used!!!!! Cos most stupid men love to control dier women and dahs wat d writer meant! Controlling sm1 is jst wrong!
Dahs why ya dull! Mtchew. (˘̯˘ )
Shet up eee! Controlling sm1 means d person has no authority at all!! So u either agree or u dnt!
Lol u r a clown
Illiterate!
Stark illiterate!
Wait a minute dis man didn't say u hv found a good woman. He said "you have found a good one" So I think he means you'hv found a good agbaya, or u hv found a good grave 4 urself. Dats my spin on it. Ebe ano!
Very well said , Hillary!
lol
Bunch male poppin egos commenting.plz go ask ur pop he“ll tell u d beta.totally agree wt him.over the yrz men are seen as lords n gods of women bt funnily enuf,even d mst bravest,wittest n wisest of dem will alwz fall under d subtle bt powerful control of a woman.jst dt one woman,bingo!Unfortuntely to mst men,ignorantly tfink otherwise n dts y wen dey meet dt 1 gud woman,they end up abusin n makin themselves control freaks n beast.(forgettin dt control is a mind power game nt a fist sort of mastery)
Control is all about the male egos. Case in point look at some of the comments stated already on this issue by men. They are insulting the man for his statement, one thing i have noticed about nigerian men is that most have an ape-ish mentality. They are bullies, cowards, and wimps, the prefer women they can dominate. They are afraid of women that are strong and opinonated. Yeah Hate-slayer stop giving one-sided story, white women somes have the upper hand because they are in a sham marriage with a nigerian for green card or some other immigration papers. So some white ladies use that as leverage against nigerian men. i have several friends who are white, that are married to nigerian men. They are happy is can be with children. You see over here in the States women won't tolerate the babaric nature of some of the attitudes of nigerian men ( prison is very real for domestic abuse/ violence against women). This is why nigerian women need to stop their bickering/jealousy amongst each other, and Unite to form women rights organizations. Help each other, to stand up against violence (sisterhood). A good woman is an alive one not a dead one. Rise up my sisters
Hahahaha,na real green bottle
Ok ooo,marry maheeda,tonto dike,rihana,and cum tell us ur state of mind in d next 1year!yeye! *ONYX GODWIN*
Beht why will you wanna control another human in the first place...
Recipe for keeping ur woman: listen to her, f*ck her good, give her money, and let her know who's boss from time to time.
In other words, a good woman is one that's OUT OF CONTROL; or is IN CONTROL of you.
Issorait!
Ironical remark. Zion
Control is a negative word when applied to any form of human being, male, female or child. A controlling man is a dangerous man...
Control should be a no no in any relationship, home or work or school. Strive to LEAD and lead by example.
People read and digest English before you spew ignorance on social media. It tells a story about us to the world.
I bought a bottle of perfume from essenza shop rite Ikeuwa and it was 3000 more expensive at essenza than at Montaigne in the same mall,I went back to essenza 5minuites after and was refused a refund or discount,this really hurts and pls Linda publish this so other Nigerians don't get scammed,am so disappointed,I thought they had a reputation to protect obviously their only thoughts is to rip people
Haaaeeeey!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! U sef
Odikwaegwu....
So all u dude want to control ur women? Happy marriage then. But check it out if it was the other way round. (Laughing u guys in syria).
https://www.facebook.com/pages/JESUS-Christ-is-Lord/206762486144669?ref=hl
wisdom in display*smiles*
who asked you? Outdated!,,linda no dey do me bad tin na
I'm a woman, and I'm impressed by ur comment.
The bottle of alcohol in front of him says it all. He is drunk and out of his mind.
AM SO SURPRISED NO ONE NOTICED THE MAN IS DRUNK,WHEN HES SOBER HE COME TO THE REALITY!!!
CANT YOU SEE THE WOMAN HE'S TALKING ABOUT WITH HIM, THE GREEN BOTTLE BEER HE MEANT
Nah lie ooo for naija I tried it 1 day wit ma boo hmmm d rest na history lol
Woman shouldn't be controlled by men likewise men,everyone has a say and d right to air their opinion,and not always the man doing that.
If a man can't control a woman he has found a good one,if he is able to see someone that can not do all he wants,and has her own opinion
MEN, we are all confused, right?
In my opinion YOU can never control a WOMAN..Never!!! UNLESS she submits to your authority. If she doesn't submit forget it! The man is OYO. Because even if you beat her and scream at her one day she will rebel and nearly break your head.. Every Man should just pray for their wife to be submissive. You can't control her because she's not a DOG!!! She decides to submit to your authority as a man and walk with you or cooperate . ------- Sona
What fuck is dis dude is say, make una de do dat one 4 una country.
Dat caption is so right, my hubby can't control me, and I cnt control him either, we have a mutual understanding and respect 4 each other, we can never hurt each other or take each other for granted! I always pity women dat are always at d mercy of their hubby, ur man shld not control u, it is wrong!
My dear u have not seen some stupid men dat think they are god bcos they married u..
Cheat on ur woman and get a
bout of nagging
U are so right
kk
Lol...this is a euphemism. How can a guys on booze give a sound judgement. Very funny !!!
Dis iz rediculous,such a tin has neva occur in my generatn.linda post dis
So U think "good morning" is empty? Why not try RIP!!
Make una leave am, he's regretin of wat he hs done, tryin to console his self.
Wot he means Is that men tend 2 mak wrong decisons SOoº° to hav a woman dt makes sure U̶̲̥̅̊ mak right decisions is a plus.....that said *Dame Patience* is an exception cos d woman's gotta hav sumfin upstairs. I mean hw cn U̶̲̥̅̊ be SOoº° ignorant n b a control freak at d same tym...eishh
As untrue as dis sayin may sound,too bad its actualy true.men r naturally associated wt dominance whch meks dem most tym bullies.reverse d case to a woman,nd d equatn is balanced coz an acquired dominance(women) can neva overpower a natural dominance(men).instead it balances d scale of mutual understandin
I am sorry to say this Linda.. A greater percent of your blog visitors are illiterates,Cant decipher a simple English sentence and very immature.
True...hence havin a wife not scared 2 fight 4 her right n call her man 2 order averts shame frm d home
He speaks while drinking that buh dat doesn't mean he is under the influence already.. Think deep, he made huge sense. U dnt want to marry a puppet do u???
Agree with u! Aint looking for a puppet as a wife,some1 dat will acknowledge am a boss but still has opinions.
That Na fat lie Jo
Wity saying......lol enyinnayaemma.blogspot.com
you guys are funny you didn't get what linda meant.It means if you can't control her,is just like the beer he's holding.
He's comparing them with a good strong beer
He speaks while drinking that buh dat doesn't mean he is under the influence already.. Think deep, he made huge sense. U dnt want to marry a puppet do u???
Yes, if his definition of woman is "woe man"(woe to man)but if not hmmm there's great danger oooo!!
u jst hit d mace on d head u r so o point, evrywoman shud b able to strike dat balance
Eh Linda, the insecure Naija man will read this as something else. You know them na, you even hear them say "Guy, control your wife o". Naija man! Buhahahha, you have stripped some of them of their "birthright". The day some of you will wake up and realize that it is respect that will earn you a good wife, not control via beating, abuses and acid then we will take you seriously. Until then, most Naija men are subject to serious side eye until proven low self esteem less cause honestly we don tire for una rubbish.
Sommie, but you speak with so much sense. The saying meant control. Some of your counterparts mistake leadership for control. I hope in your home you are one of the few naija men with the sense to lead (we don't have those anymore like we used to). Now all they want to do is sit and gripe about how the world is against them.
Imagine telling your wife she's getting late for work and she says "shut up, it's non of your business". That's what not being able to control your wife turns her to.
I think women should be honest and really look into their husbands' eyes and say "I'd like to start calling the shots in this house". Women who are not under the control of their husbands are either witches or they're not in their husband's house. Lol
Just to add to Hilary's view, no man wants an 'ok, ok lady'. Men love challenges, a woman they can ague intelligently with. Men miss it when they feel they have to control. Wisdom is profitable to direct.
Yes very true.
Interesting..pals please go to facebook, search for niche naija blog and like the page..thanks
It depends on what u see as control.But every man have to exercise some control over the wife.If u the man can't control ur wife to an extent,then u r doomed.
A man who luvz his wife wil nt control her but learn 2 listen n undastand her. A controlin man is a weak man!
That is what this guy said when he was drunk. Linda did you find out what he said the following day?
@Hater-slayer...haba.are u male or female?in some posts u claim to be a woman and now u're a man.oshisco.mtcheeeeeew.
Can't you see what is in front of the lunatic that said this.
Wait again,are you a guy? Then you are a smart one... You applied wisdom here and didn't just rant like a chick...people really need yo sit back and think before they act.You are a real man.
Linda this is weird, I had this debate with a male coworker just days ago. Truth is the single men won't get it. It's only the married men that will understand this. So ask more (Happily) married men about it. Single guys are terrified of this fact.
The guy is drunk so he can get away with that!
C as sum naija uncivilize boiz de gv ansa,Grow up guys dat ERA of "its a man'z world is gone"bible no crown men diff.Rubbish guyz
'Coming to America' movie used this theory. Btw no man wants a woman dt agrees to hop or bark like a dog to be loved or show respect. #Newage
No matter the love you have for your woman,never allow her to control you or disclose your business document to her.Otherwise,she will make you lose your best friends,families and fortune.even kpai you.They visit shrine frequently.
I quite I agree with you. I also recently walked out of a 3 year old relationship. He was a control freak, temperamental and impatient; always wanted things to go his way; selfish and never cares about how I feel about anything that concerns us so longs as it went his way. You got it! Very tall, dark and handsome. Any girl can fall for him at first sight, but he is nothing but a 'miss-road sperm' that got conceived. Women be wise!
No matter the love you have for your woman,never allow her to control you or disclose your business document to her.Otherwise,she will make you lose your best friends,families and fortune.even kpai you.They visit shrine frequently.
any man that cant control his woman is a looser.
Nawa for una oo. Can't you guys see ∂É‘̤̥̈̊ϯ this man don HIGH.That bottle of beer infront of him I̲̣̣̣̥ƨ the 24th bottle he's drinking
Ure already dead,buried n turning to manure d day u start trying it
It depends on what he meant by control....
Haba Linda there's noting to argue there, obviously you can spot a bottle of beer on the table of that mad man so he was probably drunk when he made that statment
I totally agree.
You shouldn’t have control over your woman...if you do she is a wuss and you are insecure for choosing a woman who wouldn’t challenge you.
We all need to be challenge and questioned sometimes because of our fallibilities and propensity to make poor decisions from time to time.
You need someone who would tell you the truth as it is…not someone who tells you what you want to hear. You need a strong woman!
Ure already dead,buried n turning to manure d day u start trying it......
I as a woman,tink control is not d issue. Respect is. Respect ya man n every is peachy. Just sayin...D Curious1
U r so right.
if you think you need to control your wife/woman then you must be suffering from a low self esteem/inferiority complex. the respect for each other should come without stress or force. so he is right. if a woman is to scared to challenge your decisions, she is not your wife, she is your slave. women say no to marital slavery
Listen up ya'll: the white man's world is totally different from ours. If a white man decides not to control his wife, the wife would also on a mutual agreement decide not to disrespect the white man.
What a bitter truth!
I'M nt a guy, bt I think a guy is meant to be able to controll his woman nd I don't mean dictating her every move
Dessyd
This is so wrong the world problem today is bcos men were not able to control women. God created man 1st and he made him stronger bcos God want man to have control over everything Adam was not able to control eve that's why dia is sin everywhere so man must exact a control to have a stable family
Relationship is not about control but understanding and tolerance with the woman acknowledging the man as the head.
I'M nt a guy, bt I think a guy is meant to be able to controll his woman nd I don't mean dictating her every move
Dessyd
I'M nt a guy, bt I think a guy is meant to be able to controll his woman nd I don't mean dictating her every move
Dessyd
One shouldn't control his woman, it should be a mutual understanding and that makes it a better relationship.
Ano 11.31: Do u say shutup? Am sory u dont undastand d philosophical meanin of wut he said. Bein in control means ability of makin ur wif to do 100pacent of wut u want. How do u think dat can be possible, u determin hw/wut she eat, wut she wears, who sh grets, how sh spend her money etc. Then there is no way sh can contribut or say no. My dear control canot work in marriage. A president can control his country but cant control hs wife
Listen up ya'll: the white man's world is totally different from ours. If a white man decides not to control his wife, the wife would also on a mutual agreement decide not to disrespect the white man.
I hate controlling men. I was once in a controlling relationship and my life was hell. It was a matter of life and death but thank God he divorced me because I challenged him for once. Money speaks, if a man is controlling and don't have what it takes to be a man then he should keep quiet.
The good one the man is talking about is the bottle of bear. He meant, if you can't control your wife, alcohol is the only thing to grab and drink over your anger.
These are the anti christ,... Totally opposing the whole idea of submission to the husband thingy in tha bible!!!
I agree
Nwanne i ga- adi GOD BLESS YOU
I think he means if your woman is submissive then there's no need to prove you wear the pants....its not the interpretation we all see at first reading.
A man shouldnt want a woman without her own mind,
Respect is different from control, the bible never stated men should control their wives, if you make the right decisions as a man, she'll follow your lead and if not why should she?
Post a Comment