Dear LIB readers: My BF's wife is my new boss, should I be worried?
From a female LIB reader
I took a job recently and realized my immediate boss is my married boyfriend's wife. I've had confrontations with this lady in the past, so imagine my shock at finding out she's my new boss.
But the weirdest part of this is, since I joined the company, she has never acted like we know each other from the past. I'm worried. So my question is this; should I also act like
all is well and pretend like I don't know this woman, or should I
just move on, leave the company and find work elsewhere? As for the man we both share, I don't see us ever breaking up. And where I work is a place anyone
would even wish to be hired as a contract staff. Please advice..
Just carry on with your work? Hope you are not a woman, cos it's a funny thing to say! That girl has 2 options: a) leave the man and face work. b) leave work and face man. Advice to woman who date married men, ever heard of the woman called Karma? That woman is crazy! Just when you think you have found the man of your dreams, she turns it into a nightmare. 'Do onto others what you want done to you'- I y'all think Jesus was high when he said that.
Hmmmm, I smell trouble in someones home. Lady holy ghost deal with d root of whats causing urvtroubles in ur home. Im sure she feels guilty enough working there. Flog ur home issues not somone elses body. Madam judge n jury....
She doesn't care because she has come to realise that u are nothing but a piece of ass to her husband. Please keep ur job.she will think of other subtle ways to frustrate you without disgracing herself. Home wreckers are not hiding anymore! Na wa o!,
@Mab, U take it all out frm me,exactly my tot. Ur such an intelligent lady,every gal shud emulate. U wanna be married somday n be api too,am sure somone lyk dat lady wun allow even an ant go near her man. Do unto odas wat u want odas to do unto u. Pearl
And all married men cheating on their wives. Also those married men lieing to single girls that they are not married just to get them. You all are evil, wicked and sick!!! Repent!!
I can't believe that you actually have the guts to say u won't leave this guy!! Gosh!!! You are wicked! God will punish you die! Homewrecker!! May you never find peace in ur own marriage, that is if you ever get married. Gosh!! I hope that lady one day pours acid on your face and down ur throat. You don't realise that your actions also affect his poor Kids!! I'm so mad!! Let me stop before I kill you through this Tablet!!!
In life one has got 2 knw wen 2 admit defeat n move on. Babes u hv lost dis battle both ways so my advice is leaue d man 2 go. It may nt b easy yes bt until he leaves, u might nt get some1 else who will treat u right. Also as a female like u, I'll advice u 2 quit dat job n luk 4 anoda. 1st cos it is beta 2 quit dn b sacked. 2ndly weda u leave d husband or nt dat woman will still treat ur fuck up 4 even daring 2 date her husband n having d effrontery 2 confront her. D fact dat she is quiet makes her more deadly. Wot readily jumps 2 mind is d saying dat d vulture is a patient bird. So run babes! Run very far. Run so far where d wid won't smell u n stay far. I mean disappear cos if she lays her eyes on u then u r toast. I mean she's gonna make u a scape goat 4 odas lyk u who in any way hv their sights set on oda ppl's properties. Babes d ball is in ur court mehn...
Lol@carrying on like nothn eva hapnd. Pls either QUIT dating a married man OR else, I dare say, u hav EVERY cause/reason to be EXTREMELY worried. Her (deserved) silence is DANGEROUS. Be wise.
Lol@carrying on like nothn eva hapnd. Pls either QUIT dating a married man OR else, I dare say, u hav EVERY cause/reason to be EXTREMELY worried. Her (deserved) silence is DANGEROUS. Be wise.
Yea you should totally ignore it. If she says nothing you should go ask her why she is ignoring you after all you are not about to break up with ur married boo anytime soon so she shld be ready to share her hubby. Be confident and be bold; don't be alarmed at all when you feel a severe burning sensation in your face as you talk to her ok. It's the acid she just bathed you with. There's a high possibility you won't die, you'll only be a vegetable. All the best Hoe...
I am sure yu don't read the news of how people die sudden deaths or acid baths Plz give reasonable advise, will you give attitude to some1 trying to steal Yur husband confidently or kill the person silently? Anger can cause anything. Meanwhile, my dear run for your life.
Don't answer anyone saying you should leave the Man or your Job o o.. They don't like you, Okay? No cause for Alarm at all, just be ready for a long stay @ KiriKiri for Fraud related offenses. I mean like 20 years o o o..
You may be saying what's my own business, is it not the man that kept coming to you. 1) You have no SHAME at all. 2) You can never be included in that guy's will. 3) If though you have kids for him, they will never be in his will 4) He might buy you cars, houses, but will never marry you and even if he does, na hide hide him go dey hide you from his people. 5) YOU better leave the guy and look for your own husband 6) Instead of you to behave well and pray to GOD to give you a husband, you're busy chasing MANHOOD wey no be your own. Shame Shame lady. Why can't you nurture yourself/or rather ask GOD to forgive you, so that you can have peace of mind? If you don't leave that guy and ask that woman to forgive you, honestly kitikpo ga agbashigi anya soon.
You may be saying what's my own business, is it not the man that kept coming to you. 1) You have no SHAME at all. 2) You can never be included in that guy's will. 3) If though you have kids for him, they will never be in his will 4) He might buy you cars, houses, but will never marry you and even if he does, na hide hide him go dey hide you from his people. 5) YOU better leave the guy and look for your own husband 6) Instead of you to behave well and pray to GOD to give you a husband, you're busy chasing MANHOOD wey no be your own. Shame Shame lady. Why can't you nurture yourself/or rather ask GOD to forgive you, so that you can have peace of mind? If you don't leave that guy and ask that woman to forgive you, honestly kitikpo ga agbashigi anya soon.
You may be saying what's my own business, is it not the man that kept coming to you. 1) You have no SHAME at all. 2) You can never be included in that guy's will. 3) If though you have kids for him, they will never be in his will 4) He might buy you cars, houses, but will never marry you and even if he does, na hide hide him go dey hide you from his people. 5) YOU better leave the guy and look for your own husband 6) Instead of you to behave well and pray to GOD to give you a husband, you're busy chasing MANHOOD wey no be your own. Shame Shame lady. Why can't you nurture yourself/or rather ask GOD to forgive you, so that you can have peace of mind? If you don't leave that guy and ask that woman to forgive you, honestly kitikpo ga agbashigi anya soon.
madam "married bf's wife" dnt wori 1 day u wil b d married n ur husband wil b d bf 2 anoda madam lyk u. Sowi i 4got u dnt av any plans of bcomin a wife n a moda. It is God dat is soakin ur pankere wit kerosene nt d woman. Hw old r u? Dnt wori ur nieces n nephews wil b vry glad 2 call u BIG MUMMY. I pray d man f**ks d lyf out of ur pussy so dere wil b no moisture left in it b4 lettin u go wit d chaff. Cos if u dnt c urslf brkin up wit him dnt u tink he has plans of lettin u go? Kip feelin lyk a mistress. Mtcheeew
Y'all spitting fire here are talking like d typical disillusioned naija partner. How many do u want the bf's wife to kill on acct of d husband's stupidity? Answer o. If u don't want cobweb in ur house deal wt d spider. Mnwile hw r u sur karma is nt visiting d lady boss now. Pleeeeeeeeeeeeeze ds cheating tang is over flogged . Der r mo heinous crimes committed around us. If a full grown man can't clean up hs act I won't go to hell on hs acct. meanwhile, for all u pained women our der, 2 tins u shd know; d man fully engineers all dese side chick biz. 2, he's not into u, most of u know how u blackmailed or forced urself on a man ignoring all d warning signals. Get a life y'all....including d side chick
i guess this article was composed by linda herself so she could get numerous comments as she's getting now because it doesn't make sense for someone to post this and is still asking for advice.
She asked for an advice not an insult, but truth is, she has already insulted herself with her own hands by doing what she's doing. Hence, she deserves more than an insult from people!! Haba!! Whatever she sows she'll definitely reap. It's so annoying.
U see how God works, now u are in a position where she can deal with u but she won't. U are a fly to her. Smaller than a fly self. I pray to God dat u find a husband, def not hers sha, cos he will never marry u, only giving u false hope Becos he loves ur body, u are a bitch "the man we share". A man will do dis and worse to u for opening ur eyes and doing this to another woman.DESERADO, women like u should buried alive.I hate u.
Pls I ask u to beg God for forgiveness and then meet the woman privately to beg her to forgive u and that it will never happen again. Any other move apart frm my suggestion is capable of making you loose ur job.
Why is everyone being so judgemental, I think it takes two to tango and a finger needs to be pointed at the cheating husband Get some facts straight you can't be a married man's gf, you lot are just fucking each other, and d sex must be really good. You don't find happiness by making someone else sad and you'd get what's coming. Quit your job and let the husband go, but I think you already know that.
SHE WILL KILL YOU SLOWLY HONEY... LIKE A SNAKE. IF I WERE YOU NOT ONLY WOULD I LEAVE THE COMPANY I WILL LEAVE HER HUSBAND.. THE FACT SHE ACTS LIKE NOTHING HAPPENS, SHE KNOWS WHAT SHES GONNA DO IN HER HEART!!
u are dating another woman's hubby & u are happy. Is it something 2 boast about! Remember that what goes around comes around. As 4 ur boss, she may be quiet but i'm sure she's up 2 some plans. So if u luv ur life, live d job & luk 4 another. Or remain there & face her wrath wen she's ready 4 u.
The problem a woman have in this life is her fellow woman,i'm a woman myself. Did the man force the girl into the relationship? if she wasn't aware that he was married it would have been a totally different case. If only ladies can say NO to married men then this world would be free of ADULTERY.
No worries at all. At least not yet. However, God wasn't joking when He said what He joins,let no one put asunder. Wifey doesn't even have to raise a finger!
It is bad enough that you are openly and shamelessly dating a married man, but you have so little regards for the wife that you think she can't do anything to you even when you both will see each other everyday and she is constantly reminded that you are the reason she doesn't have a happy home. Please take the job, the stubborn fly always ends up buried with the corpse, if that woman is anything like me, you will be 'killed softly'
You dey find member abi. What are you using to hide your own prostitution. After you will kneel down and start praying for God to help you find a good husband like say God no know you before.
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«Oldest ‹Older 401 – 448 of 448Leave her man and leave that job or this will end very very badly for you. This is a fool's dance. You will get yourself killed.
Just carry on with your work? Hope you are not a woman, cos it's a funny thing to say! That girl has 2 options: a) leave the man and face work. b) leave work and face man. Advice to woman who date married men, ever heard of the woman called Karma? That woman is crazy! Just when you think you have found the man of your dreams, she turns it into a nightmare. 'Do onto others what you want done to you'- I y'all think Jesus was high when he said that.
Pls search for the answer to your question an 9ja google and get back to us...I for sure wud b waiting.
Chysombori
Hmmmm, I smell trouble in someones home. Lady holy ghost deal with d root of whats causing urvtroubles in ur home. Im sure she feels guilty enough working there. Flog ur home issues not somone elses body. Madam judge n jury....
She doesn't care because she has come to realise that u are nothing but a piece of ass to her husband. Please keep ur job.she will think of other subtle ways to frustrate you without disgracing herself. Home wreckers are not hiding anymore! Na wa o!,
You are stupid to ask such a question
We're is ur conscience????
Linda why don't u ever post my comment?
quit both the relationship and the job,,u have a reputation to secure dear.
@Mab, U take it all out frm me,exactly my tot. Ur such an intelligent lady,every gal shud emulate. U wanna be married somday n be api too,am sure somone lyk dat lady wun allow even an ant go near her man. Do unto odas wat u want odas to do unto u. Pearl
And all married men cheating on their wives. Also those married men lieing to single girls that they are not married just to get them. You all are evil, wicked and sick!!! Repent!!
I can't believe that you actually have the guts to say u won't leave this guy!! Gosh!!!
You are wicked! God will punish you die! Homewrecker!! May you never find peace in ur own marriage, that is if you ever get married.
Gosh!! I hope that lady one day pours acid on your face and down ur throat.
You don't realise that your actions also affect his poor Kids!!
I'm so mad!! Let me stop before I kill you through this Tablet!!!
Why even post this crap. Husband - Girlfriend. She should give herself the advice she's looking for
The devil is dancing skelewu with your life.
My only question/advice 2 u is...if it were u and ur husband's mistress worked for you. What would u do?
The true talk is protect yourself ,I mean be very careful and keep working
In life one has got 2 knw wen 2 admit defeat n move on. Babes u hv lost dis battle both ways so my advice is leaue d man 2 go. It may nt b easy yes bt until he leaves, u might nt get some1 else who will treat u right. Also as a female like u, I'll advice u 2 quit dat job n luk 4 anoda. 1st cos it is beta 2 quit dn b sacked. 2ndly weda u leave d husband or nt dat woman will still treat ur fuck up 4 even daring 2 date her husband n having d effrontery 2 confront her. D fact dat she is quiet makes her more deadly. Wot readily jumps 2 mind is d saying dat d vulture is a patient bird. So run babes! Run very far. Run so far where d wid won't smell u n stay far. I mean disappear cos if she lays her eyes on u then u r toast. I mean she's gonna make u a scape goat 4 odas lyk u who in any way hv their sights set on oda ppl's properties. Babes d ball is in ur court mehn...
Lol@carrying on like nothn eva hapnd. Pls either QUIT dating a married man OR else, I dare say, u hav EVERY cause/reason to be EXTREMELY worried. Her (deserved) silence is DANGEROUS. Be wise.
Lol@carrying on like nothn eva hapnd. Pls either QUIT dating a married man OR else, I dare say, u hav EVERY cause/reason to be EXTREMELY worried. Her (deserved) silence is DANGEROUS. Be wise.
Bitch be like "As for the man we both share, I don't see us ever breaking up."...
U r the side chick Bitch..Push turns to shove..U r no where...
Bitch Pls wake up and stop seeking stupid advice..
#NaMeTalkEm.
Yea you should totally ignore it. If she says nothing you should go ask her why she is ignoring you after all you are not about to break up with ur married boo anytime soon so she shld be ready to share her hubby. Be confident and be bold; don't be alarmed at all when you feel a severe burning sensation in your face as you talk to her ok. It's the acid she just bathed you with. There's a high possibility you won't die, you'll only be a vegetable. All the best Hoe...
Janet J.
I am sure yu don't read the news of how people die sudden deaths or acid baths Plz give reasonable advise, will you give attitude to some1 trying to steal Yur husband confidently or kill the person silently? Anger can cause anything. Meanwhile, my dear run for your life.
Don't answer anyone saying you should leave the Man or your Job o o.. They don't like you, Okay? No cause for Alarm at all, just be ready for a long stay @ KiriKiri for Fraud related offenses. I mean like 20 years o o o..
You may be saying what's my own business, is it not the man that kept coming to you.
1) You have no SHAME at all.
2) You can never be included in that guy's will.
3) If though you have kids for him, they will never be in his will
4) He might buy you cars, houses, but will never marry you and even if he does, na hide hide him go dey hide you from his people.
5) YOU better leave the guy and look for your own husband
6) Instead of you to behave well and pray to GOD to give you a husband, you're busy chasing MANHOOD wey no be your own. Shame Shame lady. Why can't you nurture yourself/or rather ask GOD to forgive you, so that you can have peace of mind?
If you don't leave that guy and ask that woman to forgive you, honestly kitikpo ga agbashigi anya soon.
You may be saying what's my own business, is it not the man that kept coming to you.
1) You have no SHAME at all.
2) You can never be included in that guy's will.
3) If though you have kids for him, they will never be in his will
4) He might buy you cars, houses, but will never marry you and even if he does, na hide hide him go dey hide you from his people.
5) YOU better leave the guy and look for your own husband
6) Instead of you to behave well and pray to GOD to give you a husband, you're busy chasing MANHOOD wey no be your own. Shame Shame lady. Why can't you nurture yourself/or rather ask GOD to forgive you, so that you can have peace of mind?
If you don't leave that guy and ask that woman to forgive you, honestly kitikpo ga agbashigi anya soon.
You may be saying what's my own business, is it not the man that kept coming to you.
1) You have no SHAME at all.
2) You can never be included in that guy's will.
3) If though you have kids for him, they will never be in his will
4) He might buy you cars, houses, but will never marry you and even if he does, na hide hide him go dey hide you from his people.
5) YOU better leave the guy and look for your own husband
6) Instead of you to behave well and pray to GOD to give you a husband, you're busy chasing MANHOOD wey no be your own. Shame Shame lady. Why can't you nurture yourself/or rather ask GOD to forgive you, so that you can have peace of mind?
If you don't leave that guy and ask that woman to forgive you, honestly kitikpo ga agbashigi anya soon.
I cant believe some people are actually giving this b*tch adise! May people advise ur hubbies mistresses/future mistresses too o. Amen!
madam "married bf's wife" dnt wori 1 day u wil b d married n ur husband wil b d bf 2 anoda madam lyk u. Sowi i 4got u dnt av any plans of bcomin a wife n a moda. It is God dat is soakin ur pankere wit kerosene nt d woman. Hw old r u? Dnt wori ur nieces n nephews wil b vry glad 2 call u BIG MUMMY. I pray d man f**ks d lyf out of ur pussy so dere wil b no moisture left in it b4 lettin u go wit d chaff. Cos if u dnt c urslf brkin up wit him dnt u tink he has plans of lettin u go? Kip feelin lyk a mistress. Mtcheeew
see wages of sin.........hmmmmm. you better go beg her and ask for forgivenss...and stop hide and seek game....
that woman needs an award
you are really wrong my dear....
and finally give your life to christ
Same way I don't see you get married forever
Y'all spitting fire here are talking like d typical disillusioned naija partner. How many do u want the bf's wife to kill on acct of d husband's stupidity? Answer o. If u don't want cobweb in ur house deal wt d spider. Mnwile hw r u sur karma is nt visiting d lady boss now. Pleeeeeeeeeeeeeze ds cheating tang is over flogged . Der r mo heinous crimes committed around us. If a full grown man can't clean up hs act I won't go to hell on hs acct.
meanwhile, for all u pained women our der, 2 tins u shd know; d man fully engineers all dese side chick biz. 2, he's not into u, most of u know how u blackmailed or forced urself on a man ignoring all d warning signals.
Get a life y'all....including d side chick
i guess this article was composed by linda herself so she could get numerous comments as she's getting now because it doesn't make sense for someone to post this and is still asking for advice.
Sm ladies didn't do much as u've don & dey still wound up dead, u better quit d dirty relationship b4 u gt ur face fuckdup wit acid or smtin.
She asked for an advice not an insult, but truth is, she has already insulted herself with her own hands by doing what she's doing. Hence, she deserves more than an insult from people!! Haba!! Whatever she sows she'll definitely reap. It's so annoying.
Puhleez people...
na linda form this story jare, no one can be this stupid...
Linda, try to be more realistic next time, your jazz no catch me.
what a pregnant!!!! you are the causer, she will leads you to hell!!! HOE-loshi!!!
U see how God works, now u are in a position where she can deal with u but she won't. U are a fly to her. Smaller than a fly self. I pray to God dat u find a husband, def not hers sha, cos he will never marry u, only giving u false hope Becos he loves ur body, u are a bitch "the man we share". A man will do dis and worse to u for opening ur eyes and doing this to another woman.DESERADO, women like u should buried alive.I hate u.
Pls I ask u to beg God for forgiveness and then meet the woman privately to beg her to forgive u and that it will never happen again. Any other move apart frm my suggestion is capable of making you loose ur job.
My dear.....
Go to work
Be professional
Do your job well
Look your awesome best
AND leave the rest
Why is everyone being so judgemental, I think it takes two to tango and a finger needs to be pointed at the cheating husband
Get some facts straight you can't be a married man's gf, you lot are just fucking each other, and d sex must be really good.
You don't find happiness by making someone else sad and you'd get what's coming.
Quit your job and let the husband go, but I think you already know that.
Shameless bitch
Why is ur pic not on display
SHE WILL KILL YOU SLOWLY HONEY... LIKE A SNAKE. IF I WERE YOU NOT ONLY WOULD I LEAVE THE COMPANY I WILL LEAVE HER HUSBAND.. THE FACT SHE ACTS LIKE NOTHING HAPPENS, SHE KNOWS WHAT SHES GONNA DO IN HER HEART!!
Loool wait! Are people actually giving her advice on how to deal with her boyfriend's wife? HIS WIFE?!!! Lol i have no hope in the human race anymore.
u are dating another woman's hubby & u are happy. Is it something 2 boast about! Remember that what goes around comes around. As 4 ur boss, she may be quiet but i'm sure she's up 2 some plans. So if u luv ur life, live d job & luk 4 another. Or remain there & face her wrath wen she's ready 4 u.
The problem a woman have in this life is her fellow woman,i'm a woman myself. Did the man force the girl into the relationship? if she wasn't aware that he was married it would have been a totally different case. If only ladies can say NO to married men then this world would be free of ADULTERY.
No worries at all. At least not yet. However, God wasn't joking when He said what He joins,let no one put asunder. Wifey doesn't even have to raise a finger!
It is bad enough that you are openly and shamelessly dating a married man, but you have so little regards for the wife that you think she can't do anything to you even when you both will see each other everyday and she is constantly reminded that you are the reason she doesn't have a happy home. Please take the job, the stubborn fly always ends up buried with the corpse, if that woman is anything like me, you will be 'killed softly'
You dey find member abi. What are you using to hide your own prostitution. After you will kneel down and start praying for God to help you find a good husband like say God no know you before.
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