From a female LIB reader
My fellow readers please help me because I'm so worried about this. I spent a night at a guy's house and the following morning I felt really funny all over, especially in my private area like someone who has had penetration. He's someone I met two weeks ago and was planning to date but told him I wasn't ready for sex yet. I've been having this uneasy feeling since the morning I left his house that he took advantage of me during the night without my knowledge. I keep having these images in my head. I know he gave me a lot of alcohol the previous night and he told me later he carried me to bed, though I woke up in the same clothes. I asked him if anything happened between us that night and he said no, but I'm not convinced.
This is such a serious issue. You can only sleep through rape if you were drugged, right? Is it not best for her to go to a doctor, do a test and find out if there are drugs in her system that shouldn't be there?
424 comments:
«Oldest ‹Older 401 – 424 of 424loooooooooooooooooooool ode!!! why did you go to his place? you might be pregnant...check with your doctor. take the morning after pill.
Even 'dumebi d dirty grl'dat MJ acted won't b as silly as u, ewu gambia. Pls go and kiss a lion or jump inside hot water!
What you need is a sharp smart slap x4.SSS to jolt that your selective memory. Thats the only help you need,your mama can oblige you,if you have the guts to whisper this shameful story to her. Go get antibiotics and morning after pill dirty girl.
lemme nt say anyth on this post
U deserved to be raped inshort 100 tyms raped.U went der wiv ur 2 left legs n drank like it was ur bday n u expected d guy 2 read a lullaby to u???oooooo spare mi d crap!!!!
Na which kind retardation level you dey. Na we send you message. I beg go report yourself to your mama.
Mai dear help me ask am o.....gals can be pretty dumb sha
no one should put themselves in such a dangerous position.
Go see the doctor and please go and sin no more
Please babes, let's be truthful to ourselves. Her mind was telling her 'no' and her body was saying 'yes'. And she went ahead and responded to her body cos if she listened to her mind, she wouldn't have gone there. So truth be told, she wanted to sleep with the guy but she also didn't want to appear loose. So she said 'no' with her lips and 'yes' with her body...sharp guy, he got the message and acted out the plan. Notwithstanding, go get yourself checked! Next time, tell yourself the truth and stick to your decision.
MY DEAR LADY, NOFIN HAPPEND KK.. FINK U HAD SEX IN THE DRIM.
U say u dont want sex yet u slept in his house ahhhhh gal u b mugu?, abi u no dey hear wetin dey bappen...u get luck say d guy no kill u of take pics of ur ivory tower while sleeping or u in nude form......idiot dats wat u r
I'm still not sure wat kind of help she's asking from us. E don happen naa. If ur V area is feeling funny, trust me he did Somfin. So jst stay away from d guy, cos he's a rapist. Den go check urself for stds, den later on like 2-3 weeks later, check for pregnancy. And after some months check for hiv. Also if dis happened recently like less dan 5 days ago, try some birth control pills.
Ur right. But anyfin can happen. Even wiv all d plenty sense I tot I had, I've done dis stupid tin b4. Slept at a guy's house I jst met. Of course den, I knew it was wrong to sleep at a guy's house but wen I was doing it, I no reason all dis ones. I was still in skool den. We wanted to club and I cudnt go back to my hostel in d middle of d nite so I felt it was best to crash at his place. D only diff is dat I took a friend and I was on my guard. Didnt drink too much and all dat. Even at dat, wen we got to d room to sleep, d stupid idiot almost tried to rape me. Na God save me. I promised him d next day we wud do dat I was tired. He kept insisting and trying to remove my shorts. I kept fighting him off at d same time promising dat I wud give in d next day. Dats how he left me ooh. Maybe he also reasoned d whole stress plus d fact dat my friend was in d other room. I dunno sha. D next day, I ran for dear life. Dat was d end. D harm has been done, d girl wud know better next time. She shld jst go for tests and take contraceptives to prevent unwanted pregnancy
Dis things happen wella. A doctor has raped my friend b4 wen she had an operation. D drug he gave her made her weak and half concious. She cudnt even fight but she knew wat he did.
You NEED jESUS
geh,ur so stupid beyond words. u were planning to date him, y did u go to his house, serves u right
Babee, Hw old are you? 18+, you are qualify to be a wife if the guy is ready for a wife yet
You have been raped girlfriend,,,read in-between the line,its so easy to understand!
Why are many of you so mean? Alot of Nigerian are so judgemental. The girl does not not need that now.
You are nt serious but in love if not why did u pass a night so quik with all the alcohol intake.U trusted him because he is ur elder brother.what u feel is what happened for u toiled with ur sincerity visit a doctor.p
All the help and advise you need has been given to you. Next time don't be an idiot.
ODE!!! she just knew the guy for only two weeks and slept in his house...shior...if he date raped you, you got what you deserved!
I wonder oo. U got what u wanted.
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