From a female LIB reader
My fellow readers please help me because I'm so worried about this. I spent a night at a guy's house and the following morning I felt really funny all over, especially in my private area like someone who has had penetration. He's someone I met two weeks ago and was planning to date but told him I wasn't ready for sex yet. I've been having this uneasy feeling since the morning I left his house that he took advantage of me during the night without my knowledge. I keep having these images in my head. I know he gave me a lot of alcohol the previous night and he told me later he carried me to bed, though I woke up in the same clothes. I asked him if anything happened between us that night and he said no, but I'm not convinced.
This is such a serious issue. You can only sleep through rape if you were drugged, right? Is it not best for her to go to a doctor, do a test and find out if there are drugs in her system that shouldn't be there?
Rubbish, hisssssssssss
ReplyDeletePlease dear, visit the doctor and get checked..you will get answers you need..please be cocksure.the earlier the better.
ReplyDeletethatz just right
ReplyDeleteRubbish serves her right.Why did you go to the guy house if you 'no wan do' nonsense.
ReplyDeleteNot to sound all judgmental and stuff but you know you shouldn't be sleeping over at a guy's house you met 2weeks ago,right?
ReplyDeleteShe should visit a doctor and get herself examined properly.
That's about the only way to ascertain if she truly got raped or not.
Let's be nice, please. It's a serious issue. We can ask "why she follow man go house?" When she's only known him for such a short time. Call her names and all that crazy stuff. But, how the hell does that help? So, lets be nice. What's done is done.
ReplyDeleteSo, hun please go see a doctor ASAP. And find out for sure. Any guy that will stoop that low can't be trusted at all. Get yourself checked out, Abeg.
Seriously I don't fink anyfyn happened..... Ladies guess u just trust him. It myt jst be U̶̲̥̅̊я psychology buh abeg oo if d unusual way u feeln is d way u feel after see... You've rili got smfyn wif the wrong guy...buh u mst confirm he's guilty 4st
ReplyDeleteRubbish, serves you right. Why did you go to the guy's house 'if u no wan do' nonsense.
ReplyDeleteNo the guy will cover you up and watch over u all night, why will a lady go sleeping over at a guys house dummy, someone u just met?
ReplyDeleteMost definitely he took advantage of you. Go to a doctor, get pregnancy test, HIV test in which PEP could be administered if necessary, and keep off such a dude.
ReplyDeleteCrazy. It is best you tell a family member you trust. Get some advice and make sure he is reported. Please also go and see a confidential Doctor with urgency.
ReplyDeleteNa wa for u o! D guy fuck u n yet u no know. U be dundi ni? He didn't drug u cos if he did u won't wake d nxt morning, u for sleep like two day extra. Girls becareful of d kind of guys u roll wit! How dumb can u be? D guy fire u n u no even know! Chai I pity u! Better go for HIV test to confirm ur status. Ok, in 3months time. Pele o!
ReplyDeleteShe should have gotten herself tested the next morning when she noticed she was feeling kinda funny.Ladies do not sleep over in a guys house that you just met.She had luck she was not used for ritual.Just ANN.
ReplyDeleteYeah, she shud check. And wen she find out she was raped, she shud sue dat moafucker or beta still "otumokpo" in his bath water. No man has d right to touch a woman without her consent, evn if she is ur wife. In other news, wetin d gal find go him house?
ReplyDeleteHahaha! Imagine u. U had no plans of having sex with him and u went drinking and sleeping over. What the hell. And u met him jst two wks ago.
ReplyDeleteErrrrm I wonder y some pple come and ask questions from situations they created themselves .Y ON EARTG WOULD YOU GO SLEEP AT A GUYS PLACE YOU JUST MET TWO WEEKS AGO??????of course he would take advantage of u
ReplyDeleteYea she needz α doctor!buh most importantly she needz α brain!Ʊ met him 2 weekz ago!Ʊя stil plannin' on dating him!Ʊ told him Ʊ aint ready 4 sense yet!yet Ʊ gulped alchoho wif him lyk twas α multi-vitamin!Ʊ slept in his house yet Ʊ claim Ʊ met him just 2 weekz ago!now Ʊ Α̲̅я̩̥̊ε suspectin' dat uv bin f**kd buh Ʊ aint sure!!1 word 4 Ʊ!OLUKWU 2 whom brain z given sense z xpected!uv bin f**kd dear mtchww##doctorbobby
ReplyDeleteLinda FYI ℓ'm tired of beggin' Ʊ 2 post ma comment o!!
I have no sympathy for you because you ignored all the warning signs. Be happy you are alive. 2morror go drink again.
ReplyDeleteBelieve me linda u hav no idea of wat some guys can do just to sleep with a gal n FYI derz a drug "dunno d name" u can use for a gal to sleep with her and she wudnt knw wat happened...! Its 21st century gal anytin can happen,she shd just visit her doc asap to rectify unwanted future pregnancy
ReplyDeleteOf course she was drugged and raped, why do guys still do this rubbish and there has beenn awareness going on for this kind of things do not take drinks from guy u barely knw even the oned u knw or leave ur drinks open and go out to wee or something, ppl can be evil
ReplyDeleteWhy did u follow him to his house in d ist place,som1 u hardly knw wen u are nt a baby,
ReplyDeleteYou are not a teen.if u woke up n felt u were taken advantage of y didn't u go to the doctors immediately and get tested,so d necessary actions can b taken against dis person.n guys pls b patient n respectful deres no fun in forced or unconscious sex.
ReplyDeleteYeah. I feel bad for you but if you're in Naija, whatchu going do? unless mob justice, you have no recourse. G to police station and they'll rape you even out in the open.
ReplyDeleteMAMA IFU
Ihe neme... Wait o,,,r u Dumebi d dirty girl??? Hw cant u know if u wer raped.... Like seriously??? Well,,, see a doctor...
ReplyDeleteMYRAYA
Oluku(fool) what do u expect if u slept with a man,I don't call it a rape, first 2 comment. kukere dance
ReplyDeleteOde u wnt to a guys house met him to weeks ago ,u drank alcohol lmao ur just a fool u simply went there to have sex !!
ReplyDeleteI think she should go see a doctor. It's the best thing 2 do. @least she'll also know the state of her health. Lin, HIV is on the increase even though its awareness has also increased. I Attended to over 80 HIV patients in a day on monday. Pls she shld visit a doc.
ReplyDeleteThe only thing I can think of is maybe u were drugged with rohypnol or roofie as they are called..its a drug popularly known as the date rape drug becos it has no taste or smell and once taken, d victim passes out with no recollection of what happened b4...my best advice is to go get checked by a doc to see if u were penetrated, cos as a woman if ur privates is telling u something, then something musta happened...
ReplyDeleteYou met a guy and by the 2nd week u spent the night in his house????Gurl are u dumb??what did u expect?U berra go for medicals at once..and don't u ever try that again....
ReplyDeleteFelt sorry for her, when I first read it.
ReplyDeleteThinking over it again, I think she is a LEARNER... lolzzzz.
But what a coward would rape a lady in this way and even in any way. smh.
Hmm! Yes go see a doctor! Na wa o. You weren't smart sha! The only reason I'd spend the night In a guy's house is if I'm already sleeping with him or ive made up my mind to sleep with him. This is the 21st century babe! Go for a test ASAP!!!!!
ReplyDeleteLinda wetin she want? She should learn to be careful next time.lesson to those wakabout girls that like outings but not ready for the aftermath.y should u lose guards With a guy u barely know and not dating?smh
ReplyDeleteKul story......y did she go to his house in the first place?.......foolishness?......u reply.....#cheers
ReplyDeleteYeah. She is quite stupid. No naive. Stupid.
ReplyDelete1)You spend the night in a guys house and consumed alcohol. what were you expecting? Communion, Night Vigil and morning devotion?
2)Feeling uneasy inyour privates. Did a rat or cockroach crawl in?
You know the answer already. Figure it out. Go get tested for HIV, HPV and Pregnancy. That is my advice.
No 1. U met him just 2wks ago, just 2 bloody wks ago and u spent d nyt @his place#thats just LAME#
ReplyDeleteI mean wat were u expectin, he aint Joseph.
No 2. U took alcohol, did he force it down ur throat, u willingly drank, #dts js plain stupid#
No 3. U asked him if anyfn happnd btw u both, reli darlene?
Common sense reli aint common.
Hmmmm u r prolly right I think a doctor has raped me b4 but I have no proof or anything I was sick and was admitted he said he was gonna be giving me a strong injection.... I felt funny and was half asleep and sleep talking or so until he faded away....that was it I couldn't remember anything that happnd in between till I woke up If he really did then me and him will stand b4 God Almighty on the day of judgement
ReplyDeleteThe question is, what did you go there to do in the first place? Even if he did rape you, you allowed him to set the trap.
ReplyDeleteLadıes never cease to amaze me. Why spend d nıght at d home of someone who u just met? Someone u don't know well enough? He could b a kıller or serıal rapıst 4 all u know!!We all speak agaınst rape cos ıt's d worst crıme as far as women are concerned as ıt's a terrıble vıolatıon. But y leave urself open to an attack??? Ladıes PLEASE b VERY careful. Don't put urselves ınto vulnerable sıtuatıons lıke thıs!
ReplyDeleteShe should kno if she was a virgin
ReplyDeletewhy she sleep 4 d guy house wen she no wan do am? And why would she allow herself to get drunk in d first place? @hurshee
ReplyDeletevery likely.
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Stop guessing and do the rite tin I.e go 4 medical check up or mayb u were rape in ur dream.
ReplyDeleteDs gal y re doing in a guy's house u re planning 2 date?Na waoooooooo 4 uoooooo!!!!
ReplyDeleteDs gal y re doing in a guy's house u re planning 2 date?Na waoooooooo 4 uoooooo!!!!
ReplyDeleteYou met someone two weeks ago and you already spent the night at his place?congrats!!!
ReplyDeleteMadam go hospital nah hian wen u dey drink 4 man house wat do u expect?
ReplyDeleteBiko wat u c is wat u get shikena
Your p**** has been beat up yo. Live with it! @ least you dint just loose ur virginity while he was @ it. Urs was a busy p**** all night yo! Sorry!
ReplyDeleteLindywey, u aff talk it all, oh baby make u go 4 drug test, HIV and STI tests.
ReplyDeleteShe's not being true to herself. I think she's hiding something.
ReplyDeleteGo and see a doctor.
ReplyDeleteThe guy must have raped her. All the same, lady, you are very stupid. You claimed not to be ready for sex and went to sleep in a man's house over night and even allowed him to get you drunk. You don't have a say, abeg go away. Na your bussiness be that.
ReplyDeleteAre u learner, Go ask Olamide...
ReplyDeleteIn d first place, don't u hear u shudn't accept drinks from someone u are not familiar with in public not even in private dumb head...
Some girls sha, can make one regret being a girl..
N.B: Girls use ur brains, think it's still legal..
Mchew
Omo Ale jati jati, go ask ur mother.... as u be learner nw
ReplyDeleteNext time go and sleep in your house.
ReplyDeleteShe should see a doctor and pray about it.
ReplyDeleteU mean after d whole eating n all dat,u r still giving d guy attitude?,go n sit down joor,I bet u were begging d guy for more,now u r acting as if u didn't enjoy it.we know ur type. Linda,next story abeg
ReplyDelete2 wks & u spent d nite in his house. Ok. Bye.
ReplyDeleteWatin carry u go him house since u are not ready for sex? Any tin wey u see take am like cos na u find trouble mumu.
ReplyDeleteHow is it serious o Linda? She knows what to do. Only a fool will sit n do nothing. I still do not understand why women expose themselves to danger unnecessarily.
ReplyDeleteShe should go see her Dr. pronto. But what was she doing passing d nite in a guy's apartment she wasn't ready for??? And also consuming alcohol with reckless abandon? I bilif she had it coming!
ReplyDeleteLoL...Linda where do u get this stuffz from...is this meant to be a joke, who goes to a guys house and sleeps their, that's like DATING101 which is DON'T BE STUPID. Trust me it will happen again if you're still stupid.
ReplyDeleteU are right dear,d doctor should b d best person 2 see cos some men are wicked in different ways in life.
ReplyDeleteYou should know better! If you feel funny down there, something funny must have happened down there...Girls don't learn!
ReplyDeleteU r nt crious ,u weren't ready 4 sex nd u wnt 2 sleep in his place jst 2 weeks afta..anyway of course he raped u jst make sure u go see a doctor fast.
ReplyDeleteWhy did she spend the night with a guy she barely knows. O ma wa ok gal.
ReplyDeleteYou met 2 weeks ago and U've already passed the night at his place?
ReplyDeleteFirst to comment......hehehehe
ReplyDeleteBt cm to tink of it...dis gal b mumu o nd no get shame.she slips in a guys ouz nd gets drunk nd d guy desperate,wetin she expct b4
ReplyDeleteIts better you go to the doctor to make sure everything is alright with you. Get your blood test done sister.
ReplyDeleteLadies should learn their worth and stop treating themselves badly. Why go sleep in a guys house after meeting him just for 2 weeks. Any man that cannot wait for sex sees nothing in you outside that. Even if he saw something in you when you first met, illicit sex has a way of destroying relationships. As a guy my advice is Let him wait, go on dates but dont sleep in his house. keep him on his toes and to avoid temptation, avoid unnecessary relationships where marriage cannot be seen in the foreseeable future. The courtship period is the time to train your man so that he will have the right discipline to keep your marriage together. STOP CASTING YOUR PEARLS TO PIGS...BAYO
What did you expect. Spending the night at a guys place you are lucky he didn't do something worse. A guy you just met for two week. Have another Dr examine your head too
ReplyDeletei think she shud go see a doctor
ReplyDeleteShe shld go for to d hospital to ascertain whether she was raped or not.But wat is dis world turning into?Sleeping in a guy's house u barely know?Its crazy!
ReplyDeleteFirstly, I tink she's sick in d brain for goin to a guy she only knew for 2wks to pass d nyte, secondly, Linda wen did become a doctor? She should tk her ass to d hospital for check up.
ReplyDeleteMy dear see a doctor that the only way u can know if ur were drug and act fast befor is too last ,
ReplyDeleteyour a goat you hear
ReplyDeletemay she go c doctor n again u met sumone in two wks next tin for u.is to go n slip well on ur own sha!
ReplyDeleteYou are probably being paranoid but like Linda suggested, you should go see a doctor.
ReplyDeleteOn the other hand, why on earth did you spend the night in the guy's house and allow yourself to get drunk? SMH. The risks some women take is just apallaing. What if he was a ritualist? I'm pissed with you right now even though I don't know you. I pray he didn't rape you though but girl you need to wisen up and be careful.
If he did that, then God will punish him...girl i feel for you, I dont think you should have even gone to his house in the first place...but the past is the past. i think you should get urself checked.
ReplyDeleteMy dear, if you feel uneasy with yourself, just as LI said go to the hospital and have yourself checked but then a question that has been bothering my mind is "y wld u sleep ova at a guy's place? Someone u jst met '2wks ago'. Girl that's bad. All the same, go get yourself checked.
ReplyDeleteSerious ish! If I may ask,y did u ave to spend the nite if u met em 2 weeks ago?
ReplyDeleteEyyah I really feel for her...
ReplyDeleteYou met two weeks ago and planning to date yet you already spent the night with him,common,you asked for it. Should have kept your head clear by refusing the alcohol in the its place. Get to a hospital and get checked and next time,use your brain.
ReplyDeleteD question here is dat y shd u go to spend a nite wit a guy u jux met two weeks ago?d person u don't knw wat he's capable of doing and all,ori yo e tank ur God u were nt killed. anyway go and check ursef out and knw watsup wit u. TEE-I
ReplyDeleteƔou are a SENIOR MEMBER of the MUMU Kingdom, Ode.. Just listen to urself!! Even growing girls knows what to do without being told.. Pls stop wasting our precious time jor..
ReplyDeleteTwo weeks u slept in guys place........
ReplyDeleteSorry dear.A lesson to young women/girls.Never get carried away! It's a man's 'job' to appear decent & appealing when he meets u.He tells u sweet things to earn ur trust as fast as possible.All he wants,at least most of what a man wants, is to get 'inside there'! It's what our entire DNA is configured to do.Go to a hospital fast! Peterside.
ReplyDeleteUr name na ashawo , u met him 2 weeks ago, u don rush go sleep hin house, na abroad u dey ? Stupid okpos
ReplyDeletemy dear,wht took u to d house? And y spend d nyt at his place wen u knw say body no b wood....? Sorry o
ReplyDeleteNne u met a guy 2wks ago and u went to sleep at his house? And ure talking about date rape? Ure seriously lucky to be alive!!!!
ReplyDeletemy dear,wht took u to d house? And y spend d nyt at his place wen u knw say body no b wood....? Sorry o
ReplyDeleteNasos gal
Abeg Linda make we hear word....don't u get it,she said dey had alcohol....is she a Learner?***Jerry9te***
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But you said you aint ready for sex,why did you sleep over in the guys house? Sleeping over @times means that something might happen na. Sorry sha.
ReplyDeleteI think a she should carry out a comprehensive test to ascertain the true state of things before taking further action. If u ask me I think the guy may have taken advantage of her.
ReplyDeleteY sleep over if in ur mind u don't want sex
ReplyDeleteshe should see a doctor... Besides what was she thinking when she decided to spend the night in a guys house...
ReplyDeleteYou went to a man,s house for first time and allowed your stupid brain to got drunkard and here you are asking linda to post your shitts mistake to get advice right?
ReplyDeletedo u ever thinks of marriage?
no bi only rape,na fingerings he do u,,from swiss
Mtcheeew! Y spend d nyt with him wen u aint ready for sex? Foolish gurl! Go for checkup n stop whining!
ReplyDeleteShe's nt ready for sex, what was she doing at his house. He gav her wot she's yearning 4
ReplyDeleteBia dis gurl no mke mi vex, 2 weeks u've knwn d guy nd u went to spend d nyt, u r still considering to date him sef, u messd up big tym. Did he force d alcohol down ur throat? If u r having funny feelings, oya go hospital na, if dey fynd out its true, babes u brought it on urself..................»»»Nenye«««
ReplyDeleteU met a guy 2wks ago and u aint dating but felt free to pass d nyt in his house? U r stupid!!! Better carry urself go doctor.
ReplyDeletehow can you take his "word" for it even though you feel funny. obviously, he must have spiked her drink then overloaded her with alcohol so that she wont even remember anything. she better go check herself properly coz she could be pregnant and even worse, she might have cause some kinds STD.
ReplyDeleteWhy would you sleep over in his house after 2weeks you met him? very very wrong gurl.
ReplyDeleteRape, in general, is when one person has sex with another without the other person's consent. If someone is sleeping, they cannot give consent, at least while they are sleeping. Therefore, in some cases, initiating sex with someone who is sleeping is rape.
However there are many of us who have initiated sex with a partner (spouse, boyfriend/girlfriend, etc.) while they sleep. It happens. Many times the person sleeping wakes up and loves it. But is that rape?
I say initiating sex with a partner you sleep with and have already been having consensual sex with is not rape if the person initiating sex reasonably understands that consent exists.
For example, if a husband and wife have sex a lot, and the wife always loves sex but is sleeping, and the husband decides to surprise her during sleep, the fact that they have ongoing consensual sex would imply that she consents to sudden sex during sleep as well.
Then there are cases where someone can consent ahead of time. If one person tells another "when I fall asleep, I want you to wake me up with sex," that would make the sex consensual.
If it isn't something the two of you talked about beforehand, then it wasn't right. Had you talked about it before it would be a different story, of course.
That's just...In your case I believe it to be inappropriate and he shouldn't have done anything like that.
If you talk to him again, let him know that that would be something the two of you needed to talk about. It would feel entirely violated.
Let him know that he was definitely in the wrong. Even if the two of you have different view on sex; if you aren't comfortable about it, he should respect that.
@MLKJRB
Girl, na wa for you.How can u meet someone two weeks ago,then u go to his place n sleep over? At this age n time, u shd be wiser. My dear,carry ur entire being to de hospital n v it thoroughly checked n stop asking us questions that u have answers to. Linda,abeg post my comment cos I don't know what I v done to u.
ReplyDeleteMy dear go 2 nd see a doctor nd plssss hurrryy,wonder yyy u re still waiting nd finking!
ReplyDeleteNonsence what brings you to his house,dnt you no d consequences?nonsense question you better check wether u re infected with HIV or u re pregnant.
ReplyDeleteU got wat u wanted
ReplyDeleteU were not ready for sex, yet u went drinking to the point were u can't remember what happened?? Seriously?? Are u for real??
ReplyDeleteYou don't do that with some1 u just met 2weeks.. I don't think I will trust to that level yet.
Yea.. U should have just went straight to a clinic or sumthing.. Scumbags like d guy deserves to rot in jail.. Hiss
Some girls are so cheap,how can u spend a night with a guy u just met barely 2wks? And u expect him not 2 harm you? Pele!!!
ReplyDeleteFirst 2 comment #faints#
ReplyDeleteWhat girl spends d night at an acquaintance's house?!
ReplyDeleteHey young lady, u looked for trouble but dat don't mean he should have done that to u, what I think is u were raped but not concious of it, if u r not certain see a gyny doctor, and aslo do a blood test. N dis just goes to say d guy is not a man but an animal. Flee from him, plus know ur limit to alchohol or don't drink at all. If u collct a drink, it should be open infront of u, don't leave ur dink unatended to cos anything can be sliped in. Next time be careful so dis cont happen again. Linda oh post dis
ReplyDeleteU spent a night at a guy's house two weeks after you met him...
ReplyDeleteU send u make u go sleep for man house wen u say u no want sex...
ReplyDeletegirl,you wern't smart enough you could have meet a Doctor and run some test on you it will be revealed if he had sex with you or not,it depends on the time it happened you can still go for that,but i advise you next time you visit a guy and you dnt wanna sex with him,dnt allow him get you drunk.
ReplyDeleteShe shd go 2 a Doctor and have a test. Meanwhile, why do u agree 2 sleep in d guys house?and u said u don't want sex.Abegi d thing dey hungry u(Oji Oso agbakuru Ogu amaghi na Ogu bu onwu)make I hear word jo o.
ReplyDeleteR u a learner?
ReplyDeleteu meet a guy n two weeks n went to sleep n his house, Aba!!!!
ReplyDeleteI hate to criticize but isn't 2 weeks too early to spend a 9t at a guy's place? The world is filled with wierdos and any woman is safe 2 have a companion with her to a date with a stranger. Were you date raped? I don't know, but you shoulda gone to a doctor, but in this country the doc would probably judge you and I know you too would probably feel ashamed to even say you were date raped. But it's your body oh! So the earlier the better, you don't know what he put in your body! *FYI girls while out on a date with men you've just met, keep your wits about you. Never leave your drinks unattended. Never drink pass your limit. Never mix your alcohol. And all bring a friend or 2. You can never be too safe
ReplyDeleteGobe....
ReplyDeleteMy dear are you for real, you don't want sex and you went ahead to sleep in a guy's house! Nawa ooh
ReplyDeleteFrom the time u left his house to when Lindiway posted this story must have been a long while.
ReplyDeleteAll u needed to do is to see a doctor and have him test you. You're asking us like we were there with you that night when u both were enjoying and gulping alcohol.
Two weeks and u already spending the night in his house.
~BONARIO~says so via NOKIA3310
How will u spend a night at d house of a guy uve onli known for 2 weeks?? Like seruzli, ladies we've got to b wise. Wot if u were used for rituals sef..nd I bet u might hv met him on social network. Anyways go nd see ur doctor, dts d onli way u can be sure nd dnt kip quiet, confront that nigga. He is mad
ReplyDeletePls go and c a Doctor 4 examination and test. Meanwhile,why did u sleep in a guys house dat u don't want 2 have sex with? No b u find am go? No give me dat drunk stuff,u b baby? D thing dey hungry u period.
ReplyDeleteU met a guy, two wks after u don go do kwanangida n ur asking me questions. Ok now, na hu I go ask?
ReplyDeletePls go and c a Doctor 4 examination and test. Meanwhile,why did u sleep in a guys house dat u don't want 2 have sex with? No b u find am go? No give me dat drunk stuff,u b baby? D thing dey hungry u period.
ReplyDeleteHmmmmm so so funny! U don't want 2 date a guy and yet u went 2 pass d nite @ his place and allowed plenty alcohol. Ur such a lucky chap, tank God it wasn't a gang rape.cos u 4 hear am 4 internet. Abi u be. Learner???? Amaraz.
ReplyDeleteYou met him two weeks ago and slept in house???? Hoe I hope he raped the fuck out of you!!!!
ReplyDeleteWhy wud u go and sleep over in a guy u just met 2 weeks ago house? It possible he actually did rape u...but what proof do u av?
ReplyDeletefunny. No sex bt u drank wit him and slpt in his house. Mcheww,go ask google.
ReplyDeleteHello Sisi, sorry for the news, yes you where date raped and he definitely added something in your drink.
ReplyDeleteUnfortunately Nigeria hasn't entered the era of forensic detecting, if not it could be proved and the guy arrested. to get over it, you might want to seek counseling, but i really feel terrible cause I know the guy cannot be arrested and prosecuted.
Sisi, one thing keeps bugging me though, how does one spend a night at the house of a guy asking her out and she hasn't started dating or married to? I am not applauding his actions but young lady, you could have prevented yourself from harm.
Hmmm... Dis 1 is strong!
ReplyDelete"...u were feeling funny down dere?"
Linda dis babe enjoy d tin, she jst no 1 look cheap... No b she carry her two left legs go d guy ouz? Abi na msg she go deliver? Mtcheeew...
Hello Sisi, sorry for the news, yes you where date raped and he definitely added something in your drink.
ReplyDeleteUnfortunately Nigeria hasn't entered the era of forensic detecting, if not it could be proved and the guy arrested. to get over it, you might want to seek counseling, but i really feel terrible cause I know the guy cannot be arrested and prosecuted.
Sisi, one thing keeps bugging me though, how does one spend a night at the house of a guy asking her out and she hasn't started dating or married to? I am not applauding his actions but young lady, you could have prevented yourself from harm.
Nawa for U o!!!!
ReplyDeleteYou are not ready for sex and you went to spend a night with him in dis morden world!!!
Go and see a Doctor joor!! And mind U he did not take advantage of U if u sleep for ur house he wont have ur advantage to take!!
Linda biko next story
she shld go check herself in d hospital sowiiii dear bt hw man go touch u for nite nd u no go knw which kind dead slip u slip na sha sowiiiii still go check nd if he really touched u God go punish d idiot zombie
ReplyDeleteLinda you've given her the best answer,that's exactly what she needs to do..i personally think he did more than just giving her alcohol,me think he drugged her and had sex with her..she really needs to see a Doc Asap. Ladies please be very careful about the guys you actually have sleep-overs with,except he's someone your dating(This would mean you trust him to a large extent,@least enough to date him) or an old friend you trust a lot,its risky.
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U should try go for a test since u feel u might ve bin raped but witout u knowing is kinda funny though
ReplyDeleteIts funny oh...u met sumone 2weeks ago and u went 2 slip in his house....too early for dat oh...
ReplyDeletethe question is, why do she have to sleep in a man's house drunk and expect nothing to happen.
ReplyDeleteWhy did you sleep in thee guy's house? What happened to your own house? Are you a learner?
ReplyDelete***first to comment***
The girl's pussy was "fingered"..no penetration of "pendulum"..however,she should see doctor.. Maybe she bedwetts as a result of what she took... Lol.
ReplyDelete-Yemoh
Even without drugs it can so happen while she's asleep with the help of alcohol.
ReplyDeleteIt's too late for all that. Any test should have been done right away linda. If she feels uneasy and he denies, just take time off to heal and stay clear from the prick. I had a similar experience with a twist once. I went out for my birthday with my friends; once in the club, I met this male friend that I had known for 6 years who had never stopped trying to take me out. He offered me a drink.. (I hold my alcohol pretty well,and I never binge drink) soon it was two drinks and I felt like the room was spinning, I went to the bathroom and barely passed out there... My ladies friend carred me home. He called me all night to ask if he could come and take care of me. I was conscious but very dazzed for hours. Then and there I started thinking maybe he had slipped something in my drink and he said no, it was a regular Long Island Ice Tea. The feeling was so strong that I confronted him... Of course he denied and I did not believe him. Years went by and the casual friendship we had really took a hit from this suspicion until I went to a friend party and someone ordered a long Island Ice tea. The exact same thing happened and I realized there was just something particular about that mix which makes me sick; I threw up like crazy and was light headed for hours. I felt very guilty about holding a grudge against my then friend for something he probably did not do.
ReplyDeleteIf sleeping with him wasn't a possiblity to you, then why did you dance around that realm? Just pray you are not pregnant or infected. Na wa! World Pipo!
ReplyDeleteYou played with fire and you got burnt. Period. Stop your lip-quivering. Who sleeps in a guy's house they've known just two weeks?! I bet you met him on social media. And you slept over in his house. Go figure. You got served baby and I don't feel sorry for you at all!!
ReplyDeleteGirls! Women! Ladies! We r own downfall! U slept in a Man's house whom u met 2weeks ago? Hes a stranger for crying out both ways!!! U dont know him! Ladies we shd stop taking chances! Someone u barely know? What if he used u for rituals! U need to slow down abeg n if u feel like uv been penetrated then u prolly hv been and guess what? No one's gonna blame him cos in his own defence hes gonna say u wanted to get high n get fucked! Imagine u saying he gave u alot of alcohol!! If u feel as though uv been fucked then u hv been fucked oh my dear, no need crying around d blogs cos obviously ur not 9yrs old
ReplyDeleteShe had no business sleeping in the home of a man she met onlu e weeks before. From the feeling you claim you are having, it is pretty much obvious how much of him you truly know. Sleeping in the home of a near stranger if not a complete stranger was very risky and this is one of its risks...just do as Linda advised for the sake of your peace of mind... Or not?
ReplyDeleteShe should go 4 an hiv test oohh & den she should see a man of God & pray cause u don't know what happened , its a very serious issue ooohhh but dis babe u are super dumb !!! U met him only 2 wks ago & u already spent d night @ his place ??? Haba see where ur foolishness has landed u !! Like I said go 4 an hiv test & possible std & also take prevention pills oh b4 u have a bastard ( cause he is gonna deny ) & see a real man of God cause u don't what he did 2 u , he might be a ritualist !! Aunty linda berra post my comment oohh
ReplyDeleteShe be jonzer ni..why sleep in a man's house under d influence of alcohol if u dont want sex? Why drug ursef with alcohol? I am sure you masturbated...check well
ReplyDeleteLinda I can't agree less,she needs to go see a doctor for check up.
ReplyDeleteWhy sleep over in the first place, what do u expect u have only known the guy for 2 weeks that's pure foolishness.
ReplyDeleteShe had no business sleeping in the home of a man she met only 2 weeks before. From the feeling you claim you are having, it is pretty much obvious how much of him you truly know. Sleeping in the home of a near stranger if not a complete stranger was very risky and this is one of its risks...just do as Linda advised for the sake of your peace of mind... Or not?
ReplyDeleteNa wa o,bad sharp guy.....na so dem dey do jare,morning omo ikeji.
ReplyDeleteNa wetin ur eye dey find, na him the bobo give up.
ReplyDeletehw can a real man take advantage of a lady by "druking or drugging" her n while should a lady that what her onus goes to a guys houz she doesn wanna hv sex wt and pass a night esp on first date?
ReplyDeleteDear female LIB reader; here is not a hospital!
Y would sum1 spend a nite in d aoz of a guy she met 2 wks ago...if she waz raped its ah biznez
ReplyDeleteI think uv bin drugged.... Beta go see a doctor and make sure u delete dat dude outta ya lyf
ReplyDeleteNa your own problem be that we dey there when he una start?
ReplyDeleteMtcheeeeeeew
ReplyDeleteAfter two weeks of meeting him you went to spend the night at his place. In such a situation what you see is what you get. You were still going to sleep with him someday anyway. Your cross.
ReplyDeleteTesa...
ReplyDeleteDef not 2 judge u o, buh u should know better than going 2 sleep over @ a guys place u only met 2weeks back,dat u said u re "planning" to date. That's cheap nd 2 desperate. Nywayz go chk urself with a doctor nd next time BE WISE
See mugu,ur head no correct...
ReplyDeleteyoung lady i think ure not a serious person. you met a guy 2 weeks ago and ure just still planning to date him but can sleep over at his place and ure not ready for sex? r u a learner what were you thinking? he also gave you loads of alchol to drink, did he put a gun to your head to drink it? better brace yourself and move on cos you put ypurself in that position love.
ReplyDeleteDon't go and do check up oh
ReplyDeleteWait till all the evidence is gone
Then go and accuse him cuz lib readers typed so
So sorry Mumu... I met him 2wiks N told him I wasn't ready 4 sex Yet... Asawo Onidokudo..why did u sleep in his room?! Fool! U met him just 2wiks imagine.. D guy self no sabi tins well he suppose invites his frinds to fuck u wella.. LiBs wish u happy mumu Night.. ~~~
ReplyDeleteSo sorry Mumu... I met him 2wiks N told him I wasn't ready 4 sex Yet... Asawo Onidokudo..why did u sleep in his room?! Fool! U met him just 2wiks imagine.. D guy self no sabi tins well he suppose invites his frinds to fuck u wella.. LiBs wish u happy mumu Night.. ~~~
ReplyDeleteMorning,m Saraphina,pls go c a doc
ReplyDeletejust in two wks u went to his house and slept over sorry is a pity just go to the hospital and get quick treatment
ReplyDeleteYeah,Linda make a lot of sense. If she is that unsure,she ought to go see a doctor.
ReplyDeleteBut then, I ponder at the level of naivity some ladies display. How can you go on a first date with a guy you don't really know and allow your self to be drenched in alcohol. Is she that daft not to have figured out the guy's intentions? Infact there is no need to go see a doctor. Alcohol is the drug you talk about. If she is not a regular consumer she is bound to get knocked out and be screwed till day break without her even batting an eyelid.
Ladies,abeg make una no dey clueless.
That's a serious one..really sorry about that. But I think a part of you wanted it, if not u wouldnt have loose your guard just like that. Anyway, u should have been tactical about your question to the guy, like say, ''did u use protection, pls don't tell me u didn't''. She who will dine with the devil must have a long spoon. I think u went with a teaspoon for that matter. Just go for medical checkup and use all antibiotics your hands can grab. Life goes on sister......
ReplyDeleteSo why did you sleep in his house in the first instance? You weren't ready for sex yet you went to sleep there forgetting Naija guys are sharp-whizz guys. May God Help you make belle no enter. I have you to blame!
ReplyDeleteSame thing happened to me last weekend. But he confessd that he raped me
ReplyDeleteSorry for u!e dey give u alcho u sef dey drink am abi
ReplyDeleteSorry for u!e dey give u alcho u sef dey drink am abi
ReplyDeleteI honestly feel like spanking u, cos only a baby acts d way u did, u've known a guy for just two wks, u were considering dating him yet u went to sleep over c'mon who does that,even if he druged and raped u my dear u put urself in that suituation,truth hurts.
ReplyDeleteI honestly feel like spanking u, cos only a baby acts d way u did, u've known a guy for just two wks, u were considering dating him yet u went to sleep over c'mon who does that,even if he druged and raped u my dear u put urself in that suituation,truth hurts.
ReplyDeleteLinda you are so right. But I don't think she needs any doctor as such to confirm the obvious. Alcohol is a drug and powerful at that.
ReplyDeleteBy the way what naivity is that? How daft can you be? You go on a first date with a guy and he loads you with cups of alcohol and you carry face like mumu to think na excitement of your fine face dey make am load u? Of course the guy banged you good.
...I'm very sorry about the fact that she may have been raped; she might have gone to get tested the next morning to either confirm or ease her suspicions, and if the dude did actually rape her, then bloody bastard he bloody is!
ReplyDeleteNow having said all that first, I have to say more to this lady: 'BABE, ITEY MAAADT!!!' What the heck are you doing sleeping over at a dude's place if you're not ready or willing to go all the way with him? Even worse, a guy you've known only 2 weeks?
Na wa oh!
Girl, but you put your self in harm's way by going to sleep over in his house in just 2 weeks of knowing him. Truth be told: only few guys can have a girl over without sex happening and play the gentleman thing. According to Chief MKO Abiola of blessed memory, "An erect penis has no conscience!" You went too far to sleep over in a guy's place on first date, and he also went too far just as much to probably screw you behind you back. Honestly, I doubt if he didn't have his way with you...I seriously doubt it....If were not a virgin before then, I advise you take the incident in your stride and move on...
ReplyDeleteWait nah!!...mk Belle begin grow!
ReplyDeleteVery funny story,why would you spend the night in a guys house when Ʊ knw Ʊ are not ready for sex? Am so sorry but Ʊ put ur self in the situation, as for the rape Ʊ can only go to the hospital for a test to confirm that, and if Ʊ don't have the guts to then jst keep it as ur little secret and move on, and ofcos neva see the guy again. Goodluck
ReplyDeleteN why would u spend d nyt wv sm1 u met jus 2wks ago?its crazy.n u expect not to be raped.
ReplyDeletewhy should you sleep over at a guys house you barely know? we ladies can take risk ,sha! pls go check yourself.
ReplyDeleteMy dear from what u said...taking lots of alcohol was risky...u should ave spent moe time in getin along with dis guy...I sugest u go see a doctor..be wise pls
ReplyDeleteYeaa she shd see d doc 4medical confirmation,but wait a minute,y sleep in a guy's house u re planning on dating?it wasn't a smart one darling.
ReplyDeleteU met a guy barely 2weeks ago..u went to his house..gave u a lot of alcohol. U too u drank..u spent d night...my dear u re on a very longggg thing
ReplyDeleteR u a child dat he wil b gvin u lotz of alch?cnt u control ursef nd kw wen 2stop,u cost t on ursef so deal wif t.u went 2his huse afta kwin him fr jst 2weekz nd u ve nt evn started datin em,wise up nd go see Doc.is nt Rape coz u took ursef dia nd drank out ur life den d guy flex
ReplyDeleteU met a guy barely 2weeks ago..u went to his house..gave u a lot of alcohol. U too u drank..u spent d night...my dear u re on a very longggg thing
ReplyDeleteWhat make u to go and sleep in a guy's house that u are nt married to? Can u keep yam infront of a goat and expect notin to happen to it? Dis western culture of goin to a guy place to sleep over or spent d weekend in d name of BF/GF or date shld nt abhore. It leads to many sins.
ReplyDeleteI think u have been drugged, den rape bt go and c a doctor so as to ascertain ur health and take lesson frm wat happen to u.
Hope other gals will learn to.
Just 2 weeks after she met a guy,she slept in his room? Hmm
ReplyDeleteGues uve said it all. Buh if it turns out to b true den dts a bad name for guys. Nyfin for sex aint rite. Check dis out http://ThePaidTask.com/?refcode=61021
ReplyDeleteJust 2 weeks after she met a guy,she slept in his room? Hmm
ReplyDelete*i know he gave me a lot of alcohol d previous night* and u too u drank abi..am sorry to say dis...u are madt
ReplyDeleteFor a gal sleeping over in a guys house, what does she expect. Free room, or free house or what. There's nothing free even in freetown. Not even the life we live, remember why we live in this life, is to praise and worship God. So for the young ladies, accept your fate if such happens to you. But always give feelings to the right guy. So you won't regret SEX or Romance. Cheers.
ReplyDeleteAsk God
ReplyDeleteYou should go for a test.and u just met him and u don't wan hv sex and u slept in his house.u don't know this guy and u trusted him enof to sleep over.my dear u dint do well
ReplyDeleteGirls will never learn, u met a guy just 2weeks ago and ur already spending d night with him, wat if he was a ritualist,he wudhv killed u even without u knowing..always learn ur lessons girls,not every guy u meet r normal,a lot of dem hv bad intentions,and always pray abt a guy b4 u say yes to him..
ReplyDeleteode! "he gave me a lot of alcohol"...
ReplyDeleteode! "he gave me a lot of alcohol"...
ReplyDeleteMschew. Abeg Linda give us beta news. Na who send am message
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