It depends. For a prospective long relationship, it could take three to four months; for some I don't wish to end in marriage, one month at the most. For a quickie, you know what it is...*wink*
Y not how long would you date a guy before expecting sex from him....Bcos if a guy refused to ask for sex after deir 2nd meeting she would stat to doubt the guy's potency...Its now d other way round i believe
5- A decade! Seriously aunty Lindy, it depends on d chemistry. You don't really 'expect sex from her', having sex is suppose to be spontaneous and not in anticipation. In my view, if d chemistry is there, you might hit it off d night/morning after d first date.
Btw aunty Lindy, what's these topics about sex and vagina reconstruction or should I say deconstruction all about lately? You sure know how to command traffic. Lol
The same day she makes any funny materialistic demand in a bid to obtain me at the wake of the relationship. However, girls generally are grouped in classes by guys, some you chop dem up hours after you meet, some days after while others weeks after but never months after except the girl is a virgin ;)
I've observed that most guys start demanding for sex almost from the get go. Bt, its left for the girl to determine how far or how fast things progress.
good morning Miss Ikeji, i don't feel having sex with the lady one date is a function of time,i think it's more of understanding.the feelings has to be mutual and sometimes it can be quite spontaneous.guys don't treat someone they wanna date as they do to someone they wanna have fling with.so ladies watch it when a guy persist with sexual demands when you guys are just starting.some VERY GOOD BAD GUYS can be very patient though(if u know what i mean)
Some irresponsible ones will ask you on the first date or first week. Just because he paid for one plate of rice and chicken with bottled water he feels he has the right to ask for sex as payment. That's why I respect my husband, he never asked for sex during the 1 yr+ we dated before marriage and he was really taking good care of me throughout our dating period. He made sure I didn't lack anything he could afford. Even in marriage he doesn't joke with me and our baby.God bless you hubby, I couldn't have asked for a better man.
Mine is very simple,,,3weeks that is if i connect with her ooo bt if otherwise she can keep it,not interested.Am out,pls PRINCE CHARMING,PRINCE JOBLESS & BONARIO,try get a job na.
Why should a man expect to have sex with someone he might never get married to? What ever happened to abstinence and the no no to premarital sex? why don't people realise that when sex is introduced in a relationship, the "love" begin to plummet? Why don't women realise that if men have sex with em b4 marriage, they'll surely have sex without them in marriage? WHY ARE YOU ROLLING YOUR EYES? Why are loads of people hating on my post? *sigh*
Linda, Most times na d other way round o...ladies expect us to av sex wit them even b4 getting to kno us....so we go wit d flow to avoid falling our hands :-)
Why should a man expect to have sex with someone he might never get married to? What ever happened to abstinence and the no no to premarital sex? why don't people realise that when sex is introduced in a relationship, the "love" begin to plummet? Why don't women realise that if men have sex with em b4 marriage, they'll surely have sex without them in marriage? WHY ARE YOU ROLLING YOUR EYES? Why are loads of people hating on my post? *sigh*
Linda, it depends o. Some girls na well known 'Blow Job', so when u come across such gals, they shd just give u urs sharp-sharp...but na dem form pass.
The other ones that are decent enough need to be given time and ahandle with utmost care...lest u lose them. Ur patience will be rewarded in due time...when u least expect it most times!!!
I don't expect sex from a girl till after marriage...isn't that what is expected of us morally? Linda pls don't raise a topic that is morally wrong...God is watching u. S1
Depends on the girl. There are some you expect to give it up on the first date and some you can wait as long as a year.
Ideally, 1 month is cool for me but a girl you see as a slut trying to form more than 3 days is just disgusting cos you're even risking your life trying to get it on with her.
Linda, u don come again wif sex topic.E b lyk say u new BF dey demand for sex abi? Well it depends on d level of intimacy,it might b any of d options above. Enjoy ur sex life Linda Linda.
Generally don't believe in the concept of "Dating". When a girl is asked out on a date, she immediately pulls up her checklist which the "society" has taught her to keep. Things like, a. Where is he taking me? b. I wouldn't kiss him on a first date. c. Wouldn't go home with him on a first date. d. Must starve him of sex until thy kingdom com (thinking the longer he waits the more real he might be) e. all a lot of other crazy stuffs I can't get off the top of my head right now
For me, i see a girl am attracted to. First of all (go down low...lol), I put aside all sexual thoughts n just go chat her up to see what she's like inside apart from the external beauty i see already.
Immediately there n then, if I like the kinda person she is on the inside, I could there n then move her to a different place by saying something like, "hey, wanna see something cool, lets go outside" ...and well I'm never short of something cool to show her...lol.
And then here comes the finisher, WORDS, WORDS, WORDS. Its the secret weapon of all great seducers...not money...not goodlooks either. Go after her feelings and emotions and if you can control that, then she's all yours.
Their emotions are closely tied to words, the more you let her talk and yes... inteligently direct her conversation... the more you direct her feelings and if you are good...you can either direct her feelings straight to your bed or well...na u sabi sha!
In summary, capture and lead her imagination and emotion and then all the other things you want, she'll willingly and gladly give unto thee!
I've had first kisses in less than 10mins of meeting and doing the do in less than an hour of meeting. and majority of our first kisses happened in public right where we met, even in public transportation such as the ABC coach cos I absolutely love traveling n sightseeing. Location ain't part of the equation.
So for me...she really can't choose when to have sex with me. I get to choose and with that kind of power, the world is quite an interesting place!
And one last thingy...Guys...Guys...Guys abeg! work on perfecting your kisses. I cannot overemphasize how important it is to your "game hunting". An absolute good kisser gets a first class ticket to paradise.
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You can expect sex from a lady anytime. Environment,time,feelings, personal conditions like finance,age and circumstances and just determine it. So time here does not really matter.
THE SOUTH-EAST BLEEDS After hearing snippets of what happened in Kano on Monday night without digestion, Tuesday went on relatively usual and busy for me...and emotionally just like any other day. However, on getting home last night, I had the privilege of seeing firsthand on TV, the carnage that was meted out on human beings by those we suppose to be their fellows. The AIT Newscaster, Kambili Osadolor-Ehima, visibly shuddered to recover from the momentary shock she seemed to fall into when seeing the visuals. It was such that she even appeared not to realize when the camera beamed on her to continue with the rest of her broadcast. As for me, I saw the unthinkable…at least 3 (if not 5) lengthy 58-seater luxury buses ENTIRELY burnt down. It is impossible to think all those buses had fellow human beings in them…most travelling from Kano to the South-East. [As at now, there have been varying amounts of casualties (both dead and wounded, deceased and injured): 22, 30, 50, 60, 75, etc.]
Immediately afterwards, the feeling sank in…I realized I had lost, fellow human beings, first of all, and even more hurtingly, my tribesmen, my ethnic brothers and sisters. It is unimaginable the price the Igbos have paid, continue to pay and may even still pay in future for the “oneness” of this geographical space called Nigeria. It is utterly wicked the carnage these bloodsucking vampires of Islamic and northern extraction continue to mete out on our people. [It is important to note and express that it is NOT ALL muslims and northerners that partake in this brutality; we however equally ask those that do not believe in this “doctrine of the sword” to come out openly and condemn it instead of hiding, keeping mute or acting non-chalant]. I personally have grown fed up with these killings- we are not cattle, for goodness sake. HAVE WE NOT PAID ENOUGH PRICE!!! Are these carefully thought out acts of genocide AGAIN, are these well-orchestrated plans to decimate us? IGBOS especially in the north- wake up and be alert! As for me, it is time for action, and I mean pro-action. We have to act, even in the most little ways, to ensure this madness ceases as soon as possible. After each act, the government come up with cliches such as “fish out”, “bring to book”, etc. the perpetrators…I keep wondering if the book hasn’t been exhausted by now?
fornication is a sin, dont have sex till you get married, that what the bible says, so dont expect sex from your pathner until u are officially married.
Sex for me depends on the force of attraction Ive with the girl. Ive met a girl and we laughed to lunch and to my house and had awesome sex on the table because she was shy to sit on my bed. (She works in a bank, had an awesome but less exciting bf and married now); Ive been naked, with the girl wide spread, on the verge of plugging my local govt into her and she started crying that I would leave her after the sex because she had to travel to Lagos for a few months, I packed up my tool and told her i would wait till she comes back to have sex with her to show her that what I like about her is not just sex. I dated her for 4 years after that. To me sex is secondary because I am attracted to a girl's personality rather than her body. I have not had sex for about 3 months and don't feel like having sex with any of the girls I know and I do know some fine girls. To answer your question, sex depends on the kind of attraction I strike off with a girl. High attraction, I want it now. Low attraction, I don't want it at all or I toy with the girl. Typical Aries, I guess. Side note: I feel I have a strong attraction for Linda because of the way she talks. Her views. Quite human and natural. Plus she is hot. Would likely look like she is till she is 90. She is beautiful.
Well...so unfortunate sex has no value in Nigeria anymore bt I'm certain of des, we still ve some decent dudes and decents gals....#pants closed til intention known! Finally...a tru believer doesn't boda abt sex coz dey know deir foundings and roots...why rush to wat u will ve all ur life wifout paying or begging 4it?
So sad dat sex is less appreciated in dis century esp in dis part of de world! Bt trust me,we still ve decent dudes and gals dat kno de core values of sex and dey stick to it until afta marriage....esp as tru believers! Why rush have wat u wld have all ur life @a plata of gold wifout paying or struggles?
Ladies pls if im like make him give u ultimatum!a guy meant for ru wud always come back.as for me i av been feeling bad everr since i gave up my v after 5years of being with him.we are engagedd to be maarried but i still feel like d worst person on earth cos i know its wasnt done under d institution called marriage and everyday i keep asking God to forgive me.However,i have said to mysef i wud neva have sex with him again until wedding even if it means us not been on talking terms cos i know God is not happy with me.i already told him n av blocked myy mind from d word pity.so girls just keep ur legs closed.
All the men became anon 2 ans the questions...most of u guys want sex within a week and yet you are all looking 4 wife material weldone o,what happens when you sleep with a girl within a week and decide she's not d girl you want, VOOM shey u go waka abi...then when 5 other guys do the same shey she go turn ashawo abi. Mtchewww.I think when you meet a girl first think of how long you would want your sisters to give it up 2 another guy
I wld boldly say those dat claimed de had sex wif deir women 1st day n all dat and claim to b married for 10yrs etc got married due to pregnancy #smh....a man dat is ready is ready...he won't beat ard de bush! Coz if he taste egusi,e go like taste banga soup...#men leave dat tin...only wise gals kno wat de want and stick to it#running away....hehehe
Me and my wife had sex d first day we met and we have been married for 9 yrs. Too much shakara can kill the sparks has at first on you. What will be will be not how far but how well. He can still dump u if u waited after 1 year before sex with him.
Most of all dis guys dt r talkin trash sayin a day or 2,it is most of u dt will wait a year nd yt to make moves cos u r nt man enough so stop talkin rubbish! Moreso wah kinda lady will sleep wt a guy on a 1st date? *jst wondering*
BEFORE I START SPENDING REASONABLE MONEY ON HER,I MUST COLLECT,IF NOT SHE WILL CHOP MY MONEY WITHOUT ME EVEN HAVING A KISS AND SHE WILL GO AND SERVICE SOMEONE ELSE.I AM TALKING FROM EXPERIENCE.
I was forming Good boy for one girl that i dated a few months ago, at least during the duration of the relationship of 3 months i gave her a total of 930k. i only kissed her and sucked her nipples, am not a dulling guy but for her i anted to take it slow, she now fucked one jobless broke boy that cant lace my sneakers, painful but girls are bitches. lesson learnt
to tink i was chilling wif her virginity till marriage and she now gave it to a broke modafucker, one random jobless unemployed nigga.i felt scammed, i collected my ipad 3 and stuff i bought for her + the ticked to dubai i bought for her
Am a man,any lady that have sex with a man just in a week or 2weeks,even a month after they met is a bitch,and to all guys that said a week or 2weeks are just looking for someone to f**k and let her go,we guys know how we play our tricks if we meet a lady and we start having sex a week after we believe that kinda of lady is cheap,,as for your question if a guy truly love a lady he will not rush into sex immediately,he will give her some months b4 he start asking for sex
I think sex is as intimate as it is personal and therefore is not guided by timelines. There are dates where the outcome shouldn’t even be sex and there are others where the lady initiates sex, therefore expectations are relative except it’s a contractual engagement with a sex worker. Ladies that are saying that men expect sex on the first date are either hanging around men of doubtful pedigree or are simply products of poor breeding themselves.
it all depend on d lovers, but i think if u really love a lady, then sex is worth waiting for. no need to rush really, since u are both gonna be together
UNA TOOOOO DEY LIE BIGGGGG.......98% OF GUYZ WANT IT DT DAY.....DATE FIRE......PLS NEXTTTTTTTTTTT......U DONT LEV NKITA ( DOG ) WITH BONE OHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH.....IS ALL ABOUT SEX SEX SEX..... STAY PROTECTED PEOPLE....CONDOM UR BRAINZ...DTS D MOST IMPORT COS IT WILL DEFINATELY HAPPEN ...IF HE WANTS HE WILL STAY N IF HE DOESNT WNT HE WILL WAKA....DTS LIFE PEEPS
UNA TOOOOO DEY LIE BIGGGGG.......98% OF GUYZ WANT IT DT DAY.....DATE FIRE......PLS NEXTTTTTTTTTTT......U DONT LEV NKITA ( DOG ) WITH BONE OHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH.....IS ALL ABOUT SEX SEX SEX..... STAY PROTECTED PEOPLE....CONDOM UR BRAINZ...DTS D MOST IMPORT COS IT WILL DEFINATELY HAPPEN ...IF HE WANTS HE WILL STAY N IF HE DOESNT WNT HE WILL WAKA....DTS LIFE PEEPS
@" I advise u start trying your luck from first time she visits ur house...."U wan rape person pikin abi? Isn't sex supposed 2 involv 2 parties that are both willing? Anything contrary nah Rape oooo..N. Dem fit try dem luck wiv ur yansh sef amongst prison/cell mates...#
I WONDER Y PPL THINK LINDA IS GUARDIAN D BBE IS BLOGGING IT MAKES ME SICK DAT PPL WUD COME TO SOMEONES BLOG ND THINK THEY CAN JUDGE WAT SHE PUTS ON HERE, ITS HER VIEW, HER WAY OF EXPRESSING HERSELF IF U DONT LIKE T DONT READ IT. SHE ISNT RESPONSIBLE TO U. BTW I DONT USUALLY COMMENT BUT I RAD COMMENTS ALL D TYM ND HEARING SOME OF U THINK U CAN TELL A BLOGGER WAT TO WRITE SICKENS ME. PLUS I THINK A DAY IS FINE..... LOL
We do not have sex before marriage not because we do not want to but because Jehovah Almighty says we should not. Same applies to virginity, we keep our virginity not because we want to impress our future husbands(Some dont care if you are a virgin or not) but because God wants us to.
Very irresponsible question. Pls educate ppl more on this blog abeg. Not showing off lousy men and women and asking lousy qustns, last week ws bed and food for guys den bed and bank for women, nw this one. Pls u should know ur reasoning reflects on ur act. It simply means all u think about is sex. If u like dont post my comment, atleast u ve read it.
hmmmmm>>>> weda u do it at first visit, after a week, a month, a year or years,its still the same thing...so why waste time.....so get in n enjoy d ride as it last
Linda now u gat me laffing hard i tot u was going to ask how long will a lady date a guy before demanding sex from he guy u know ladys now call the shot now adays if u really want an answer to your question same day is ok for me we dine by 7pm she goes to my place as from 9pm we are busy knocking the boots if u know wat i mean
It depends on the chemistry between the parties. For me, It's happened the 1st day, 2nd day, a week, some 2 weeks, some a month and few I dated and never slept with.
Sex between two dating people will happen naturally. The connection is what really matters.
Chicks, the fact that you wait for days, month, years doesn't mean the guy will stay. I have waited for some for months and left immediately after sex.
I actually prefer ladies who don't form and just flow with the tides.
Well Linda, it depends on the kind of Lady, what she actually wanted is what she'll get. No one is gonna force anyone, but a sharp guy will always make attempt....*wink* I have done same day, 1 month, a year, and the one i didn't succeed @ all. So it depends on what she wants,Coz a lady might agree for a guy on a first date and be difficult for another guy in a month. So, it depend on the lady's want, she might like the guy on the very first day and not care if he wants a long lasting relationship or not.....*smiles*
Well Linda, it depends on the kind of Lady, what she actually wanted is what she'll get. No one is gonna force anyone, but a sharp guy will always make attempt....*wink* I have done same day, 1 month, a year, and the one i didn't succeed @ all. So it depends on what she wants. Coz a lady might agree for a guy on a first date and be difficult for another guy in a month. So, it depend on the lady's want, she might like the guy on the very first day and not care if he wants a long lasting relationship or not.....*smiles*
im a lady and i made a guy wait for 10yrs. after which he had sex with me and moved on. so even if you make him wait forever,that doesnt mean he would marry or be faithful to you.
Why guys dey lie like this naw? One month, some of yall are just doing it to portray 'a nice guy type'.Most ladies likes an honest guy.(BTW I wonder why ladies are commenting on this post)
Most guys want it osiso, as in 'same day delivery'. That 'thing' na investment, so when you chop the guy money,no think say na father xmas.Always pay back with gratitude lol. But with genuine intentions, a month or more is super cool,but with true feelings, sex won't even come to mind or will be the least thing to come to mind. As for myself, why not meet me and find out ;).
Linda, are you (as a model to youths) suppose to encourage "sex" out of marriage??? posting a topic on sex, u re a disgrace to Africans. #Rubbish#. Seem so jobless to start asking stupid questions. Practice what u hear in church
@Anonymous 6:29 PM "your fada"..Infact "your mama" left yansh,if you are to communicate a goodwill advise to someone must you shamelessly show your stupidity passing a message across.If you are smart enough put your real name,address,place of work on her blog.NONSENSE!!You are the reason some sinners find it hard to receive JESUS in their lives,Jesus didn't condemn anybody he drew them close with love..GET A LIFE YOU HYPOCRITE
Had it with my wife d say we met and we got married 4 months later, we are married for 19 yrs with 2 wonderful children....so it is not along i wait to get it that will make me appreciate it more
As a chic,if we waited up to 3months before sex,we woudlnt slee with 90% of the men,we've met cos the relationship wud either be over by then,or we wud have found them non-deserving of it.
It's a capital NO to premarital sex. Sex is for marriage. if you want sex bad enough, marry her. You cant keep trying out every girl on the street. Otherwise it will be a case of "why buy the cow when you can get the milk for free
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«Oldest ‹Older 201 – 396 of 396It depends.
For a prospective long relationship, it could take three to four months; for some I don't wish to end in marriage, one month at the most. For a quickie, you know what it is...*wink*
As the Spirit leads.
Even d very day of meetin is not a crime 2 mi.
Awaiting comments with glee.
If I don't get it on the night of the first date then probably within the first week of dating
D next day...YOLO
y w8 if u guys re horny 4 each other wen u met?? As 4 me if it doesn't hapn in 5 days u guys re just friends.
If we click, A month.
you and all this questions....
it depends sha...over to the guys
to me a day is okay why the delay?
Y not how long would you date a guy before expecting sex from him....Bcos if a guy refused to ask for sex after deir 2nd meeting she would stat to doubt the guy's potency...Its now d other way round i believe
No time is suitable, But when she thinks she needs it and when i can give too.
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I think a week will be more like it except if she is not ready for sex.
Whenever she's ready!...
Few weeks will be okay here in nigeria, but in USA or in England a day well be fine!
A week is just ok..
Whenever she's ready!...
Whenever she's ready!...
5- A decade! Seriously aunty Lindy, it depends on d chemistry. You don't really 'expect sex from her', having sex is suppose to be spontaneous and not in anticipation. In my view, if d chemistry is there, you might hit it off d night/morning after d first date.
Btw aunty Lindy, what's these topics about sex and vagina reconstruction or should I say deconstruction all about lately? You sure know how to command traffic. Lol
max 1week. Linda also ask the ladies too how long they would date us first b4 sex?
The same day she makes any funny materialistic demand in a bid to obtain me at the wake of the relationship. However, girls generally are grouped in classes by guys, some you chop dem up hours after you meet, some days after while others weeks after but never months after except the girl is a virgin ;)
As long as the courtship before marriage!!!
First day
It depends,if tha gurl is that sex type,we burst very early but if the badgud type we do it whenever she likes.
Few days joor,wetin man dey wait again
Most nigerian guys do not understand the meaning of dating. The only language they understood well is sex.
I've observed that most guys start demanding for sex almost from the get go. Bt, its left for the girl to determine how far or how fast things progress.
good morning Miss Ikeji, i don't feel having sex with the lady one date is a function of time,i think it's more of understanding.the feelings has to be mutual and sometimes it can be quite spontaneous.guys don't treat someone they wanna date as they do to someone they wanna have fling with.so ladies watch it when a guy persist with sexual demands when you guys are just starting.some VERY GOOD BAD GUYS can be very patient though(if u know what i mean)
Same day. So she will be commited.
Linda!!! Ώ̶̲̣̣̥ά̲̣̣̣̥ anytym d pussy set I dey collect am Oº°˚˚°ºoo ! Cos №ω ar days eh... Patient DOG no dey see bone chop oh
A year
Some irresponsible ones will ask you on the first date or first week. Just because he paid for one plate of rice and chicken with bottled water he feels he has the right to ask for sex as payment. That's why I respect my husband, he never asked for sex during the 1 yr+ we dated before marriage and he was really taking good care of me throughout our dating period. He made sure I didn't lack anything he could afford. Even in marriage he doesn't joke with me and our baby.God bless you hubby, I couldn't have asked for a better man.
A month will do.....depending on her being sha, bt if she is d wild type a nyt stand will do!!!
1 year
Like two weeks
I say few days.body nor be firewood.if u like her,find out if she is capable of making u happy in bed. Truth is bitter.
I'm not a guy but a guy wants to party in your pants the moment he lays his eyes on you......freakn' dogs!
Mine is very simple,,,3weeks that is if i connect with her ooo bt if otherwise she can keep it,not interested.Am out,pls PRINCE CHARMING,PRINCE JOBLESS & BONARIO,try get a job na.
Sex shd be after marriage.
Why should a man expect to have sex with someone he might never get married to? What ever happened to abstinence and the no no to premarital sex? why don't people realise that when sex is introduced in a relationship, the "love" begin to plummet? Why don't women realise that if men have sex with em b4 marriage, they'll surely have sex without them in marriage? WHY ARE YOU ROLLING YOUR EYES? Why are loads of people hating on my post? *sigh*
linda gbagun.............haha
Linda, Most times na d other way round o...ladies expect us to av sex wit them even b4 getting to kno us....so we go wit d flow to avoid falling our hands :-)
I always prefer to date her for month, even if she wants it before a month, I wouldn't give her until our relationship its a month old..
Linda tah!!! That nite joor...am a business man so I get my returns sharpaly *winks*
Till our wedding night.
Linda please use your blog to promote chastity and not promiscuity.
Thank you.
Why should a man expect to have sex with someone he might never get married to? What ever happened to abstinence and the no no to premarital sex? why don't people realise that when sex is introduced in a relationship, the "love" begin to plummet? Why don't women realise that if men have sex with em b4 marriage, they'll surely have sex without them in marriage? WHY ARE YOU ROLLING YOUR EYES? Why are loads of people hating on my post? *sigh*
As long as it takes:-)<3<3<3
as long as there love each other sex sex sex
wait till marriage
A few days oooo
I feel it all depends on ur conections wit d lady,it clud b any of d optoins.
I really don't mind whenever she is ready
A month at most,if I date a gal and a in a week we r having sex I won't take her seriously,anythng easily gotten easily leaves too.
Preety girl! Few days.
Linda, it depends o. Some girls na well known 'Blow Job', so when u come across such gals, they shd just give u urs sharp-sharp...but na dem form pass.
The other ones that are decent enough need to be given time and ahandle with utmost care...lest u lose them. Ur patience will be rewarded in due time...when u least expect it most times!!!
I don't expect sex from a girl till after marriage...isn't that what is expected of us morally? Linda pls don't raise a topic that is morally wrong...God is watching u. S1
in one whole week i need to get into her pants.what's the wait for.We are gonna get down anyway. Now or later,its same thing.H20
One day.
Depends on the girl. There are some you expect to give it up on the first date and some you can wait as long as a year.
Ideally, 1 month is cool for me but a girl you see as a slut trying to form more than 3 days is just disgusting cos you're even risking your life trying to get it on with her.
Most Naija girls. Just have plenty money on you, ask for sex,she go remove pant in 60second. Months ke?
It suppose 2 be that 1st day we meet but cos of it nt looking somehw lemme me just leave it 2 two days after meeting.yap first 2 comment.
Abeg I don too wait for the comments from the guys.....you guys should talk joor.
All he has to do is look at her and expect it.Welcome to 21st century*cocky attitude*.U garra love,rite?!*walksaway*.
Till marriage.
One day.
Linda, u don come again wif sex topic.E b lyk say u new BF dey demand for sex abi? Well it depends on d level of intimacy,it might b any of d options above. Enjoy ur sex life Linda Linda.
Generally don't believe in the concept of "Dating". When a girl is asked out on a date, she immediately pulls up her checklist which the "society" has taught her to keep. Things like,
a. Where is he taking me?
b. I wouldn't kiss him on a first date.
c. Wouldn't go home with him on a first date.
d. Must starve him of sex until thy kingdom com (thinking the longer he waits the more real he might be)
e. all a lot of other crazy stuffs I can't get off the top of my head right now
For me, i see a girl am attracted to. First of all (go down low...lol), I put aside all sexual thoughts n just go chat her up to see what she's like inside apart from the external beauty i see already.
Immediately there n then, if I like the kinda person she is on the inside, I could there n then move her to a different place by saying something like, "hey, wanna see something cool, lets go outside" ...and well I'm never short of something cool to show her...lol.
And then here comes the finisher, WORDS, WORDS, WORDS. Its the secret weapon of all great seducers...not money...not goodlooks either. Go after her feelings and emotions and if you can control that, then she's all yours.
Their emotions are closely tied to words, the more you let her talk and yes... inteligently direct her conversation... the more you direct her feelings and if you are good...you can either direct her feelings straight to your bed or well...na u sabi sha!
In summary, capture and lead her imagination and emotion and then all the other things you want, she'll willingly and gladly give unto thee!
I've had first kisses in less than 10mins of meeting and doing the do in less than an hour of meeting. and majority of our first kisses happened in public right where we met, even in public transportation such as the ABC coach cos I absolutely love traveling n sightseeing. Location ain't part of the equation.
So for me...she really can't choose when to have sex with me. I get to choose and with that kind of power, the world is quite an interesting place!
And one last thingy...Guys...Guys...Guys abeg! work on perfecting your kisses. I cannot overemphasize how important it is to your "game hunting".
An absolute good kisser gets a first class ticket to paradise.
Ehen! oya, for upcoming EVENTS-when,where,how- come ova to http://www.legendarytips.blogspot.com/
At least 6months
Haba linda, they expect sex even before the dating begins
After marriage! simple!
You can expect sex from a lady anytime. Environment,time,feelings, personal conditions like finance,age and circumstances and just determine it. So time here does not really matter.
We expect it from d moment we set our eyes on d lady......so d time frame is rily up to her nd how long she can keep her panties up...
Anytime she is willing to give it to me.
THE SOUTH-EAST BLEEDS
After hearing snippets of what happened in Kano on Monday night without digestion, Tuesday went on relatively usual and busy for me...and emotionally just like any other day. However, on getting home last night, I had the privilege of seeing firsthand on TV, the carnage that was meted out on human beings by those we suppose to be their fellows. The AIT Newscaster, Kambili Osadolor-Ehima, visibly shuddered to recover from the momentary shock she seemed to fall into when seeing the visuals. It was such that she even appeared not to realize when the camera beamed on her to continue with the rest of her broadcast. As for me, I saw the unthinkable…at least 3 (if not 5) lengthy 58-seater luxury buses ENTIRELY burnt down. It is impossible to think all those buses had fellow human beings in them…most travelling from Kano to the South-East. [As at now, there have been varying amounts of casualties (both dead and wounded, deceased and injured): 22, 30, 50, 60, 75, etc.]
Immediately afterwards, the feeling sank in…I realized I had lost, fellow human beings, first of all, and even more hurtingly, my tribesmen, my ethnic brothers and sisters. It is unimaginable the price the Igbos have paid, continue to pay and may even still pay in future for the “oneness” of this geographical space called Nigeria. It is utterly wicked the carnage these bloodsucking vampires of Islamic and northern extraction continue to mete out on our people. [It is important to note and express that it is NOT ALL muslims and northerners that partake in this brutality; we however equally ask those that do not believe in this “doctrine of the sword” to come out openly and condemn it instead of hiding, keeping mute or acting non-chalant]. I personally have grown fed up with these killings- we are not cattle, for goodness sake. HAVE WE NOT PAID ENOUGH PRICE!!! Are these carefully thought out acts of genocide AGAIN, are these well-orchestrated plans to decimate us? IGBOS especially in the north- wake up and be alert! As for me, it is time for action, and I mean pro-action. We have to act, even in the most little ways, to ensure this madness ceases as soon as possible. After each act, the government come up with cliches such as “fish out”, “bring to book”, etc. the perpetrators…I keep wondering if the book hasn’t been exhausted by now?
fornication is a sin, dont have sex till you get married, that what the bible says, so dont expect sex from your pathner until u are officially married.
FIRST DATE IS THE SWEETEST LINDA FORGET
i ll make an attempt on the second date.....
Linda the way you are always going on about sex you must have plenty vibrators. LMAO.
Sex for me depends on the force of attraction Ive with the girl. Ive met a girl and we laughed to lunch and to my house and had awesome sex on the table because she was shy to sit on my bed. (She works in a bank, had an awesome but less exciting bf and married now); Ive been naked, with the girl wide spread, on the verge of plugging my local govt into her and she started crying that I would leave her after the sex because she had to travel to Lagos for a few months, I packed up my tool and told her i would wait till she comes back to have sex with her to show her that what I like about her is not just sex. I dated her for 4 years after that. To me sex is secondary because I am attracted to a girl's personality rather than her body. I have not had sex for about 3 months and don't feel like having sex with any of the girls I know and I do know some fine girls. To answer your question, sex depends on the kind of attraction I strike off with a girl. High attraction, I want it now. Low attraction, I don't want it at all or I toy with the girl. Typical Aries, I guess.
Side note: I feel I have a strong attraction for Linda because of the way she talks. Her views. Quite human and natural. Plus she is hot. Would likely look like she is till she is 90. She is beautiful.
if she give me same day sef i go chop
What are you sayin?? :s
To me everythg is not all abt sex. U study d kind f guy/lady u r movg on with. Can is person be my hushand/wife. Sex shld hold on after marriage
We go for it immediately.no dulling. That is the naijastories style. U get my drift....
Ok let me be polite with u. Can u read ur comment back 2 urself and see if it makes sense?
Well...so unfortunate sex has no value in Nigeria anymore bt I'm certain of des, we still ve some decent dudes and decents gals....#pants closed til intention known!
Finally...a tru believer doesn't boda abt sex coz dey know deir foundings and roots...why rush to wat u will ve all ur life wifout paying or begging 4it?
So sad dat sex is less appreciated in dis century esp in dis part of de world! Bt trust me,we still ve decent dudes and gals dat kno de core values of sex and dey stick to it until afta marriage....esp as tru believers! Why rush have wat u wld have all ur life @a plata of gold wifout paying or struggles?
purple lady says:depends on how i feel about the guy,it all depends on feelings,but i would say 8months.
A month or 2......depending on the type she is *winks*
The first day i spend kobo for her.
Ladies pls if im like make him give u ultimatum!a guy meant for ru wud always come back.as for me i av been feeling bad everr since i gave up my v after 5years of being with him.we are engagedd to be maarried but i still feel like d worst person on earth cos i know its wasnt done under d institution called marriage and everyday i keep asking God to forgive me.However,i have said to mysef i wud neva have sex with him again until wedding even if it means us not been on talking terms cos i know God is not happy with me.i already told him n av blocked myy mind from d word pity.so girls just keep ur legs closed.
Gbam Mary, that's all Linda post sex sex . Hiss. No option self for "after marriage". It getting old jare
All the men became anon 2 ans the questions...most of u guys want sex within a week and yet you are all looking 4 wife material weldone o,what happens when you sleep with a girl within a week and decide she's not d girl you want, VOOM shey u go waka abi...then when 5 other guys do the same shey she go turn ashawo abi. Mtchewww.I think when you meet a girl first think of how long you would want your sisters to give it up 2 another guy
it all depends on the girl gal though if want it that day i will give it 2 you!
Best comment...I also ad sex wit my babe fews days afta 1st date and we've bin 2geda for about 4 yrs nw
I wld boldly say those dat claimed de had sex wif deir women 1st day n all dat and claim to b married for 10yrs etc got married due to pregnancy #smh....a man dat is ready is ready...he won't beat ard de bush! Coz if he taste egusi,e go like taste banga soup...#men leave dat tin...only wise gals kno wat de want and stick to it#running away....hehehe
Den don't ask for money too cos he's nt ur father...kmt
:s! Clearly sleep-typing.
Likeeeee! She's so silly
Why do u always shout on dis blog huh? Are u dat lazy to write in lowercase letters?
I know u will come after me swearing n pretending to be a third party by replying as anonymous,just as u did in Makosi post.
On d plus side though,ur replies are always written in lowercase letters albeit aggressive.
My husband waited 3years.....
Sigh
Me and my wife had sex d first day we met
and we have been married for 9 yrs. Too
much shakara can kill the sparks has at first on you. What will be will be not how far but how well. He can still dump u if u waited after 1 year before sex with him.
Sigh
Hmmmn. 2 weeks for me. If it's a girl reallyy like.
A Day
few minutes after d outing...lolzzz.. if possible we'll start on the way home.. lolzzz
D FIRST DAY IS PERFECT
Most of all dis guys dt r talkin trash sayin a day or 2,it is most of u dt will wait a year nd yt to make moves cos u r nt man enough so stop talkin rubbish! Moreso wah kinda lady will sleep wt a guy on a 1st date? *jst wondering*
BEFORE I START SPENDING REASONABLE MONEY ON HER,I MUST COLLECT,IF NOT SHE WILL CHOP MY MONEY WITHOUT ME EVEN HAVING A KISS AND SHE WILL GO AND SERVICE SOMEONE ELSE.I AM TALKING FROM EXPERIENCE.
ANDY
ASAP
Guys, oya answer the question shapaly shapaly and be honest with urself oo.
waitin wit wat@banario
my wedding night
I was forming Good boy for one girl that i dated a few months ago, at least during the duration of the relationship of 3 months i gave her a total of 930k. i only kissed her and sucked her nipples, am not a dulling guy but for her i anted to take it slow, she now fucked one jobless broke boy that cant lace my sneakers, painful but girls are bitches. lesson learnt
to tink i was chilling wif her virginity till marriage and she now gave it to a broke modafucker, one random jobless unemployed nigga.i felt scammed, i collected my ipad 3 and stuff i bought for her + the ticked to dubai i bought for her
Life is not fair.
till my wedding night
Luv,luv,luv ur reply.....
Am a man,any lady that have sex with a man just in a week or 2weeks,even a month after they met is a bitch,and to all guys that said a week or 2weeks are just looking for someone to f**k and let her go,we guys know how we play our tricks if we meet a lady and we start having sex a week after we believe that kinda of lady is cheap,,as for your question if a guy truly love a lady he will not rush into sex immediately,he will give her some months b4 he start asking for sex
Its quite true Linda. There are so many other topics especially with all that is going on in the nation now.
Can we have more edifying topics please.
Stay blessed.
Freaking blnd ha on 1st date, I always do....
This whole issue is about premarital sex. It is a sin and it doesn't matter if you do it immediately or after a month so it's all the same
It depends on cheap, desperate, sophisticated, moral or difficult she presents herself.
Even 1 hour sef or 1 thousand years is enough time to have sex with depending on the lady.
same day
I think sex is as intimate as it is personal and therefore is not guided by timelines. There are dates where the outcome shouldn’t even be sex and there are others where the lady initiates sex, therefore expectations are relative except it’s a contractual engagement with a sex worker.
Ladies that are saying that men expect sex on the first date are either hanging around men of doubtful pedigree or are simply products of poor breeding themselves.
Kevin
why decieve ourselves,y wait 4 so lng wen we xurly goin 2 hv it...1wk d@s d lngst period i cn wait...Besides sex strentins relatinonshps
it all depend on d lovers, but i think if u really love a lady, then sex is worth waiting for. no need to rush really, since u are both gonna be together
I fuckd ma husband on our first date, we didn't plan it , shit just happened.
I will allow the filling to come by its self even if it take 4 years though everything depends on the girl,s want
Likeeeeeeee!!! She's so silly!
Why didn't you post my first reply? Ashamed much?! Mschew
never have sex with her till you marry her
And I commented around 8:12 thinking my comment would be the first. Libers you guys need to calm down
UNA TOOOOO DEY LIE BIGGGGG.......98% OF GUYZ WANT IT DT DAY.....DATE FIRE......PLS NEXTTTTTTTTTTT......U DONT LEV NKITA ( DOG ) WITH BONE OHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH.....IS ALL ABOUT SEX SEX SEX.....
STAY PROTECTED PEOPLE....CONDOM UR BRAINZ...DTS D MOST IMPORT COS IT WILL DEFINATELY HAPPEN ...IF HE WANTS HE WILL STAY N IF HE DOESNT WNT HE WILL WAKA....DTS LIFE PEEPS
UNA TOOOOO DEY LIE BIGGGGG.......98% OF GUYZ WANT IT DT DAY.....DATE FIRE......PLS NEXTTTTTTTTTTT......U DONT LEV NKITA ( DOG ) WITH BONE OHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH.....IS ALL ABOUT SEX SEX SEX.....
STAY PROTECTED PEOPLE....CONDOM UR BRAINZ...DTS D MOST IMPORT COS IT WILL DEFINATELY HAPPEN ...IF HE WANTS HE WILL STAY N IF HE DOESNT WNT HE WILL WAKA....DTS LIFE PEEPS
@" I advise u start trying your luck from first time she visits ur house...."U wan rape person pikin abi? Isn't sex supposed 2 involv 2 parties that are both willing? Anything contrary nah Rape oooo..N. Dem fit try dem luck wiv ur yansh sef amongst prison/cell mates...#
Nah olonsho?
Omo pastor...# so if u don marry nah few days u go use dey nack benchmen...
depends on the woman and our level of relationship
I WONDER Y PPL THINK LINDA IS GUARDIAN D BBE IS BLOGGING IT MAKES ME SICK DAT PPL WUD COME TO SOMEONES BLOG ND THINK THEY CAN JUDGE WAT SHE PUTS ON HERE, ITS HER VIEW, HER WAY OF EXPRESSING HERSELF IF U DONT LIKE T DONT READ IT. SHE ISNT RESPONSIBLE TO U. BTW I DONT USUALLY COMMENT BUT I RAD COMMENTS ALL D TYM ND HEARING SOME OF U THINK U CAN TELL A BLOGGER WAT TO WRITE SICKENS ME. PLUS I THINK A DAY IS FINE..... LOL
who is giving or getting here!!!
1 WEEK SO THE RLSHIP WILL FEEL SOO REFRESHED AFTER HAVING A BOTTLE OF FROZEN COKE
A Month is ok
We do not have sex before marriage not because we do not want to but because Jehovah Almighty says we should not. Same applies to virginity, we keep our virginity not because we want to impress our future husbands(Some dont care if you are a virgin or not) but because God wants us to.
Very irresponsible question. Pls educate ppl more on this blog abeg. Not showing off lousy men and women and asking lousy qustns, last week ws bed and food for guys den bed and bank for women, nw this one. Pls u should know ur reasoning reflects on ur act. It simply means all u think about is sex. If u like dont post my comment, atleast u ve read it.
hmmmmm>>>> weda u do it at first visit, after a week, a month, a year or years,its still the same thing...so why waste time.....so get in n enjoy d ride as it last
Linda now u gat me laffing hard i tot u was going to ask how long will a lady date a guy before demanding sex from he guy u know ladys now call the shot now adays if u really want an answer to your question same day is ok for me we dine by 7pm she goes to my place as from 9pm we are busy knocking the boots if u know wat i mean
first date. I'm not the patient type
It depends on the chemistry between the parties. For me, It's happened the 1st day, 2nd day, a week, some 2 weeks, some a month and few I dated and never slept with.
Sex between two dating people will happen naturally. The connection is what really matters.
Chicks, the fact that you wait for days, month, years doesn't mean the guy will stay. I have waited for some for months and left immediately after sex.
I actually prefer ladies who don't form and just flow with the tides.
Well Linda, it depends on the kind of Lady, what she actually wanted is what she'll get. No one is gonna force anyone, but a sharp guy will always make attempt....*wink* I have done same day, 1 month, a year, and the one i didn't succeed @ all. So it depends on what she wants,Coz a lady might agree for a guy on a first date and be difficult for another guy in a month. So, it depend on the lady's want, she might like the guy on the very first day and not care if he wants a long lasting relationship or not.....*smiles*
Well Linda, it depends on the kind of Lady, what she actually wanted is what she'll get. No one is gonna force anyone, but a sharp guy will always make attempt....*wink* I have done same day, 1 month, a year, and the one i didn't succeed @ all. So it depends on what she wants. Coz a lady might agree for a guy on a first date and be difficult for another guy in a month. So, it depend on the lady's want, she might like the guy on the very first day and not care if he wants a long lasting relationship or not.....*smiles*
It depends on both parties but 4 me I wil wait til marriage.
Na lie
PREMARITAL SEX IS A BIG SIN!!!!!
LADIES... IT HURTS MORE THAN YOU CAN IMAGINE IF YOU DNT END UP WITH THE GUY..
WELL WHY AM I EVEN TALKING MOST GIRLS THESE DAYS HAVE LOST THEIR CONSCIENCE.
im a lady and i made a guy wait for 10yrs. after which he had sex with me and moved on. so even if you make him wait forever,that doesnt mean he would marry or be faithful to you.
the first day we meet if she agree with me
hmmmm. bad boy. i need to meet you...we could have dinner and make sure u do all u have said ooo
Thank u all 4 ur advice u av all said ur mind. As 4 me let d Lord av his way
linda u missed out a few days for we the curious guys. anytime can serve but the earlier the better
@lwmd_naija
Am i a learner,leave story,i want it sharply before the babe change her mind,the first date after she chop money
3months or no vjayjay!
Why guys dey lie like this naw? One month, some of yall are just doing it to portray 'a nice guy type'.Most ladies likes an honest guy.(BTW I wonder why ladies are commenting on this post)
Most guys want it osiso, as in 'same day delivery'.
That 'thing' na investment, so when you chop the guy money,no think say na father xmas.Always pay back with gratitude lol.
But with genuine intentions, a month or more is super cool,but with true feelings, sex won't even come to mind or will be the least thing to come to mind.
As for myself, why not meet me and find out ;).
Am i a learner,leave story,i want it sharply before the babe change her mind,the first date after she chop money
...n who says u need to date for dat shii' to happen!
weeks, months depends on both of us
Linda, are you (as a model to youths) suppose to encourage "sex" out of marriage??? posting a topic on sex, u re a disgrace to Africans. #Rubbish#. Seem so jobless to start asking stupid questions. Practice what u hear in church
OOOO!!! Linda I missed this ooooo.......For ME it been Few Days and I hve never Missed my Shot." STILL WATCHING FROM MY OCEAN
we go for lunch at a nice restaurant,from there to watch movie,from movie to bar..from bar to my home..the rest is history
http://ajetun.blogspot.com
As we are on date. my hand is already on her laps. same day if possible. nkemjika.
Best Comment.
Masturbation, I guess.
I agree wit u jare. No b after all d waiting u go kom end up wit a dead dick
@Anonymous 6:29 PM "your fada"..Infact "your mama" left yansh,if you are to communicate a goodwill advise to someone must you shamelessly show your stupidity passing a message across.If you are smart enough put your real name,address,place of work on her blog.NONSENSE!!You are the reason some sinners find it hard to receive JESUS in their lives,Jesus didn't condemn anybody he drew them close with love..GET A LIFE YOU HYPOCRITE
hmmmm. interesting lesson
tomorrow jor
Like me! That very day no bad @ all. Waiti dem de petam 4.
Same day shit life is too short, i love u u love me Jesus is coming soon so lets get married shittttttttt!
@iamkasbeats i Approve this message
Within a week or call it a quit.
Had it with my wife d say we met and we got married 4 months later, we are married for 19 yrs with 2 wonderful children....so it is not along i wait to get it that will make me appreciate it more
Stories that touch the ass! Liar
Best comment ....EVER!!
What z happening to dis generation? So who naw blivs in sex afta marriage...
As a chic,if we waited up to 3months before sex,we woudlnt slee with 90% of the men,we've met cos the relationship wud either be over by then,or we wud have found them non-deserving of it.
As it pleases both of us. If it comes in a minute then no problem; nyipu baby akwa napu ya ife
6 months
Hey mary..... check out www.girlsonthemission.com the post there would def blow your mind..
within days jo, after all, that is one of the things that attracted her to me.
It's a capital NO to premarital sex. Sex is for marriage. if you want sex bad enough, marry her. You cant keep trying out every girl on the street. Otherwise it will be a case of "why buy the cow when you can get the milk for free
God bless u, I love this comment
I would have said 1 month, but my Oga at the top would say 1 week.
Lmao...funny yhu!!!!
As long as possible if marriage is the intent( I hav told my fiancee dat i can wait but in the meantime o).....THE GREMLIN IS JUST TALKING CRAP
two hours is fine by me
when a man gives you a second look, best believe thats the moment he wants sex from you :|
Till marriage. Maintaining sexual integrity and purity while single should be everyone's goal.
See this churchmouse..!
U make sense; my choice not ur expectation..
Your state is worse than that of a churchrat.. Sigh
Dude, I think you are really funny
As soon a we are alone together, in the car, indoors.
Depends on how we met and where we met. it could be in a couple of minutes to a couple of days. Not more ;)
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