I think most guys will say after the second date, let me say two weeks or two months or two days , it's all depend on the douchebag, if he is a gentle man or not. As for me, I make them suffer, it's not groundnut or kulikuli they can get from back of the market, I watch a guy and give him one year. The only one that was able to wait that long was my hubby and that is why he is my hubby! Girls beware God made guy mouth with honey, am sure their heart with charcoal! All your insults , right back at ya!
The funny thing is dat when u respect a woman too much, she won't allow u have sex, she will give d sex easily to someone dat will give it to her the hard way, they like it rough, so a times, when u wait too long some see u as a weak person, I advise u start trying ur luck from first time she visits ur house
After dating this babe for a week, she was still forming no sex. The chemistry was obvious but she dey do one kind. So I gave her an ultimatum. Sex or let me go! We've now been married for 10yrs.
Me and my wife had sex d first day we met and we have been married. Kw for 9 yrs. Too much shakara can kill the spark has at first on you. What will be will be not how far but how well. He can still dump u if u waited after 1 year before sex with him.
Answer from a woman. You are not her husband, therefore you have absolutely no right to expect sex from her at any time. If she chooses to share it with you then thats her choice not your expectation.
If its d lady I want 2 marry i can wait 4 ever! But if its a girl I want just for fun... I make move @ d 1st date and can be patient 4 @ most a week or She F*** off! Datz all.com
Same day. Sex at first sight. Lust first, then true love after. The initial attraction is always physical-her shape,her boobs,her backside, her smile... Later, love will let me discover more about her personality. Also, it eliminates making sex an issue in the relationship. Sex in a relationship should be natural, and not a negotiating tactic or something for sale. Good sex between consenting adults is beautiful and healthy. Bia, Linda, I'll do a hot babe like you in the first hour!
Linda,that a man delays sex doesn't necessarily mean he doesn't expect it, most times it is just a strategy to win her trust and love. As a man looks he sees himself *inside* what/whom he admires....so he expects it...it is a core part of the admiration...forget when he finally gets it...all men wanted it like yestarday...all na strategy...and sometimes while playing their script(men) they eventually fall in love or get caught to move to no where else. BTW Linda, I'm having a crush on you
Me really I think sex should not be a priority in a relationship... Me,we have sex weneva we decide to,sex cum early in a relation wen u want to do away wit her.I see sex as a give away prize to do away wit her,but wen u reali love dis gal genuinely u won't to demand fo sex earlier...but gals rili have a say in this,cuz u cnt force her,she decides wen..!
It depends on the gal in question, some gals lack in other aspects so much that you just keep thinking of sex. I waited for my current gal for more than a month, and we are always together and believe me, I wasn't even desperate...
Depends on how I see her person and what I've known about her for a short period.but i can stay with her for a year if I see she's decent.we all want girls we can take to mama.
Hmm mm, that question is a tough call for guys but if i'll speak for the guys.......i guess it all depends on the moment, most times the dating game is just to get the mode going for a healthy relationship and if you ladies must be sincere some ladies want it the very night of the date but i guess the most appropriate time for sex should be one month....the waiting game and all the fantasies built up makes the sex thing even more exciting don't you all think?
Linda ebi like say u no dey naija again who dey talk of how many days? Am sorry to say this but our girls have lost it all, if u have money u can have her d very day u pick her.
Funny though. I don't have an answer. I don't ask for sex. Somehow, it just happens. Dated one for 2 years before. Started off having sex the first day. I think I just ride with the tide.
Same day. it aLl depends on what u feel for each other,cos u can let it happen after five month and and the relationship will not last more than two months,cos that is not what makes relationship last longer. U can meet someone today and have sex with the person same day and the relationship last longer and even leads to marriage
Linda pls do proof read before u post . Check this post 4 a grammatical error. "How long would u to date a lady" # how long would u want to date a lady" u meant!
In my opinion, I would ONLY expect sex from her after our wedding (if we decide to get married and finally do) and not any time before then. God created sex for married couples and not for 'dates' because sexual intercourse is not merely a physical sensual activity, it is more of a total bonding of spirit, soul, and body. That's what's acceptable to God and that's what I will do.
I can be very disciplined when it comes to sex, its a mind thing really - as long as I can keep my mind off it, its easy. I can date a long time and have dated 6 months without sex. But it was the lady I was dating who eventually requested for it, else I'd have waited longer. The challenge comes when both parties start fanning the flames with long kisses and petting - I don't know how many people can wait until under such a circumstance as waiting will become pure torture. But if both parties will mutually agree and be disciplined I think I can wait much longer than 6 months.
I used to have this crazy notion that I will keep the girl I love till marriage. Whosai! That has long gone with the winds after a girl taught me in an early age that in relationships, nkemjika (meaning that what I get now is better than what I expect in the future). So the earlier the better and anything that goes beyond 2 months is bad market.. dazall!
Linda as for me oh! That day,that day we gonna have sex cos how can she eat my moni n cant be grateful by havn sex wit me n returns..what if she leaves n neva comes bak?
I do not think that there is a stipulated time for dating. You should date positively until you both know that you are both matured for what follows after.
i'd say like 2 weeks....enough time to make the lady feel secure with you. Anytime spent afterwards talking to each other is a waste. Guys need sex....like food.
Sex in relationship is a desire which cannot be determined by d no of days. it happns when d guys nuclear weapon and d lady's atomic bomb are willing to absolve each other. we can start rocking right from d first day
Personally, I'll go for few days...I hate it when i aven't had sex with a girl before i begin to find flaws in her....definitely, i can't ave sex with a girl full of flaws
Linda it depends on the two people involve.and also it depend on the chemistry flowing between them.two people crushing strongly on each other won't survive a day or two. And it depends too on who wants it most..if the urge is from the lady she might get it within the earlier said a day to two. But if the urge is from the guyand the lady knows her onion it could be upto a month. But most people now want sex is a relationship like a friend said that not untill he confirms a girl by having sex with her he won't be committed to the relationship. But naturally a month is okay. I like the wait, the anticipation. Most relationship that begins with early sex don't last long. And talking from experience. Linda the normal is one month but trust me these days it last a week max.
if i really want to be with the girl it could take close to a year or even more if not then probably days. me and my girlfriend of six years had sex when we were 3years into the relation maybe its cause i met her a virgin. but the bottom line is if i love her i could wait eternity.
Few hours sef if possible...execept I like her so much and have great plans for her,but even at that,lemme first of all enjoy the koko,the the lovi lovito fit follow!
Abi naa?
HOW TO MAKE A MAN HAPPY
1. Feed him 2. Sleep with him 3. Leave him in peace 4. Don't check his phone (Msgs) 5. Don't bother him with his movements
HOW TO MAKE A WOMAN HAPPY
It's really not too difficult but.... To make a woman happy, a man only needs to be:
1. a friend 2. a companion 3. a lover 4. a brother 5. a father 6. a master 7. a chef 8. an electrician 9. a plumber 10. a mechanic 11. a carpenter 12. a decorator 13. a stylist 14. a sexologist 15. a gynecologist 16. a psychologist 17. a pest exterminator 18. a psychiatrist 19. a healer 20. a good listener 21. an organizer 22. a good father 23. very clean 24. sympathetic 25. athletic 26. warm 27. attentive 28. gallant 29. intelligent 30. funny 31. creative 32. tender 33. strong 34. understanding 35. tolerant 36. prudent 37. ambitious 38. capable 39. courageous 40. determined 41. true 42. dependable 43. passionate
WITHOUT FORGETTING TO: 44. give her compliments regularly 45. Go shopping with her 46. be honest 47. be very rich 48. not stress her out 49. not look at other girls AND AT THE SAME TIME, YOU MUST ALSO: 50. give her lots of attention 51. give her lots of time, especially time for herself 52. give her lots of space, never worrying about where she goes.
BUT MOST OF ALL IT IS VERY IMPORTANT 53. never forget *birthdays *anniversaries *valentine *arrangements she makes.
For the very first time, i choose to be blunt. Every man will really wanna test his investment from the very first day but depending on the lady involved. I have dated a lady and few days after we had it and I have equally dated a lady that i never saw beneath her face. Love and Lust also have their influence on it.
Ehhhh? after that meal ooooo. i no get time. and it doesnt mean i wont love her if shes stable or disrespect her. women shouldnt always form. ofcus i wont force her but trust me,i will make sure we talk dirty and make her horny,if it happen in the car infront of her house, the better. once again sex on the first date doesnt make her a whore. someone like me just needs a lady with a crazy sex drive.
Sometimes, it depends on the status of the girl and how calm the guy may b when it comes to sex issue. But I could stay a year sha o o . Na tru love matters
hehehhehehehe,linda,u don come again oh,oya,lib guys,make we hear how long una fit keep una'banana inside shokoto''linda,nah ur place i won take chop afternoon food o,wetin u cook nah,but post my comment frst.
Smooching a guy should happen within a week after you identify him as a toaster that you like. Sex with a guy after identifying him as a toaster you like should not exceed two weeks abeg. Life is too short to be wasting time forming and delaying sex when u know say you de gel for the guy. Besides, the earlier you know his performance, the better biko.
Smooching a guy should happen within a week after you identify him as a toaster that you like. Sex with a guy after identifying him as a toaster you like should not exceed two weeks abeg. Life is too short to be wasting time forming and delaying sex when u know say you de gel for the guy. Besides, the earlier you know his performance, the better biko.
Depending on how often she visit my house n what I think about her,cos if she's highly regarded I wud slow down to a week or more but surely less than a month!
before you start dating, you already have intentions of having sex, this implies on both parties, so it can happen anytime ( 1,2 day, months or years ) depending on the party involves.
But these days, ladies dont care. they can give it out on the first date and we are ready to accept at any given time
Linda Lolo, you na kawain! No long things, i will shag a guy am cool with on a first date. The point here is that you can tell from the first date is this is a guy you will get down with anyway, wink! I have done this like thrice already and no regrets.
It depends, emotional and sexual connection matters, and the goal of you guys coming together too, so it could be one day, a week, a month, but definitely not more than a couple of months if you guys are in the same city and its not a long distance relationship.
Linda, no vex but is this question really necessary? Am not being sanctimonious here really but if you are even half a Christian you shouldn't promote or seem to suggest thoughts that promote premarital sex. Already as the role model you are do kindly encourage young persons to live right. My take? Wait untill you have exchanged marital vows to knack.
Linda goan sleep..:p
ReplyDeleteYawn yawn...... Linda these your sex starved questions and blog posts are getting old jare
ReplyDeletesex sex sex , please there is more to life than sex. Sex is a beautiful thing but not all life is about .
You hardly post other enriching topics eg spiritual or family topics.....yawn
Depends on how we get along... if well from both sides.. A week is fine
ReplyDeleteHmmm,
ReplyDeleteThey won't say the truth
A nigerian man would even expect sex with you on a first date.
Okay oh, let's hear from the guys!!!!!!!!
A few minutes... or forever lol
ReplyDelete2-3 days, Linda how long will it take you to give a guy sex?
ReplyDeleteMmmmmHhhhh Lili. Guys ok oooh, over to you.
ReplyDelete1 year
ReplyDeleteWhere are de guys plssss....we need to hear u here?#tongue out
ReplyDelete1 week, you shouldnt make him wait, you might end up being raped
ReplyDeleteIt depends on her body signals. I've done a few girls I met same day, some fews weeks, months n all d@.
ReplyDeleteAms
As long as she doesn't as me for money, I will wait till marriage, but if she doesn't, she deserves to be defied
ReplyDeleteA week
ReplyDeleteI think most guys will say after the second date, let me say two weeks or two months or two days , it's all depend on the douchebag, if he is a gentle man or not. As for me, I make them suffer, it's not groundnut or kulikuli they can get from back of the market, I watch a guy and give him one year. The only one that was able to wait that long was my hubby and that is why he is my hubby! Girls beware God made guy mouth with honey, am sure their heart with charcoal! All your insults , right back at ya!
ReplyDeleteA few seconds...what the heck kinda question is that?
ReplyDeleteThe funny thing is dat when u respect a woman too much, she won't allow u have sex, she will give d sex easily to someone dat will give it to her the hard way, they like it rough, so a times, when u wait too long some see u as a weak person, I advise u start trying ur luck from first time she visits ur house
ReplyDeletewithin a week
ReplyDeleteTwo days; if it's love at first sight.
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ReplyDeleteWe need to ave sex b4 I could cal it a date..
ReplyDeleteSame day....
ReplyDeleteOnly small boys wait a week, I sleep with girls the same day... If i like the girl and i want to keep her i will wait a week
ReplyDeletePreferably the Next day.... At most 1 week. After one week, then it has turned into a long thing.. I am already chasing another one.
ReplyDeleteA week...lol
ReplyDeleteA few days
ReplyDeleteI will wait for marriage. When the foundation is wrong, then everything goes wrong.
ReplyDeleteLinda, 10 minutes. I don't have the patience. Thanks.
ReplyDelete#Excited!! I would really want to see the answers o... Guys, over to you!
ReplyDeleteDepends on the way the babe is. Within 2 weeks sha. That's if I don't really love her yrt
ReplyDeleteAfter dating this babe for a week, she was still forming no sex. The chemistry was obvious but she dey do one kind. So I gave her an ultimatum. Sex or let me go! We've now been married for 10yrs.
ReplyDeleteOne month.
ReplyDeleteOne month.
ReplyDeletesame day......
ReplyDeleteFew days are enough, only that pre marital sex is not for me.
ReplyDeleteSame day.
ReplyDeleteNo.6. Immediately!
ReplyDeleteThats my answer. Doing it now and then, no be the same thing? Wait for wetin again?
Ain't nobody got time for that!!!
B4 first date.
ReplyDelete2days
ReplyDeleteNo timetable; whenever.
ReplyDeleteThe earlier the better.
few mins
ReplyDeleteThat same night. i mean whats all the forming for when it will happen eventually
ReplyDeleteomo,na after d first dinner ooh.When we dey chop d dinner,i go ask am"baby,okwa aku cha dinner,anyi aga a DINA KWA?......LOL.
ReplyDeleteA few days, I dnt give chance cus chances are ment for fools
ReplyDelete5mins
ReplyDeleteA week,
ReplyDeleteA week is alright for the matured mind lolz...
ReplyDelete6months or a year depending.....
ReplyDelete3 months,,,
ReplyDeleteshe craze? 3months? na spider webs na hin go grow dia. Na dat dat day jor.
ReplyDeleteNot untill their wedding night
ReplyDeleteMe and my wife had sex d first day we met and we have been married. Kw for 9 yrs. Too much shakara can kill the spark has at first on you. What will be will be not how far but how well. He can still dump u if u waited after 1 year before sex with him.
ReplyDeleteLets jst say a month nhm
ReplyDeleteImmediately, or else I move on....
ReplyDeleteAnswer from a woman. You are not her husband, therefore you have absolutely no right to expect sex from her at any time. If she chooses to share it with you then thats her choice not your expectation.
ReplyDeleteHmm. A month so we can no each oda more bt it hard dis days cos d gals wil ask u wat re u waitn 4.
ReplyDeleteIf its d lady I want 2 marry i can wait 4 ever! But if its a girl I want just for fun... I make move @ d 1st date and can be patient 4 @ most a week or She F*** off! Datz all.com
ReplyDeletea week
ReplyDeleteDat same day we shud start avin sex sef
ReplyDeleteSame day. Sex at first sight. Lust first, then true love after. The initial attraction is always physical-her shape,her boobs,her backside, her smile... Later, love will let me discover more about her personality. Also, it eliminates making sex an issue in the relationship. Sex in a relationship should be natural, and not a negotiating tactic or something for sale. Good sex between consenting adults is beautiful and healthy.
ReplyDeleteBia, Linda, I'll do a hot babe like you in the first hour!
A month
ReplyDeleteLinda,that a man delays sex doesn't necessarily mean he doesn't expect it, most times it is just a strategy to win her trust and love. As a man looks he sees himself *inside* what/whom he admires....so he expects it...it is a core part of the admiration...forget when he finally gets it...all men wanted it like yestarday...all na strategy...and sometimes while playing their script(men) they eventually fall in love or get caught to move to no where else. BTW Linda, I'm having a crush on you
ReplyDeletehmmm, dear linda.... if possible,, i would like to have sex with her, the very first day we started dating...
ReplyDeleteI had it with my last within 1 week. Mind blowing from my usual.
ReplyDeleteless than a month.
ReplyDeleteI ain't expecting sex from no date. My genes are too unique to be polluted by someone I might eventually not marry.
ReplyDeleteFew days naw are you a learner?
ReplyDeleteMe really I think sex should not be a priority in a relationship... Me,we have sex weneva we decide to,sex cum early in a relation wen u want to do away wit her.I see sex as a give away prize to do away wit her,but wen u reali love dis gal genuinely u won't to demand fo sex earlier...but gals rili have a say in this,cuz u cnt force her,she decides wen..!
ReplyDeleteLinda are you asking for yourself?
ReplyDelete1 week......#GBAM + first to comment....hehehehe
ReplyDeleteA day nau
ReplyDeleteIt depends on the gal in question, some gals lack in other aspects so much that you just keep thinking of sex. I waited for my current gal for more than a month, and we are always together and believe me, I wasn't even desperate...
ReplyDeleteA month will be fine
ReplyDeleteIT DEPENDS ON WEN SHE WANTS IT, COS ITS MUTUALITY @ WORK
ReplyDeleteTill we walk down the aisle.
ReplyDeleteI can wait,av been waiting with d help of something.
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Depends on how I see her person and what I've known about her for a short period.but i can stay with her for a year if I see she's decent.we all want girls we can take to mama.
ReplyDeleteHmm mm, that question is a tough call for guys but if i'll speak for the guys.......i guess it all depends on the moment, most times the dating game is just to get the mode going for a healthy relationship and if you ladies must be sincere some ladies want it the very night of the date but i guess the most appropriate time for sex should be one month....the waiting game and all the fantasies built up makes the sex thing even more exciting don't you all think?
ReplyDeleteLinda,God bless you for dis topic cos I dey dilemma right nw ontop dis matter.
ReplyDeleteDepends on the timing, but for me a few days...
ReplyDeleteAfter ur first date,frm dinner to the guys home.
ReplyDeleteFew days ke? A day or two joor!
ReplyDeleteLinda ebi like say u no dey naija again who dey talk of how many days? Am sorry to say this but our girls have lost it all, if u have money u can have her d very day u pick her.
ReplyDelete*rolling my eyes*... He had better wait till the wedding night!
ReplyDeleteA month
ReplyDeleteAfter our wedding (if we decide to get married) and not any time before then. That's the right way to do it and that's God's instruction.
ReplyDeleteFunny though. I don't have an answer. I don't ask for sex. Somehow, it just happens. Dated one for 2 years before. Started off having sex the first day. I think I just ride with the tide.
ReplyDeleteSame day. it aLl depends on what u feel for each other,cos u can let it happen after five month and and the relationship will not last more than two months,cos that is not what makes relationship last longer. U can meet someone today and have sex with the person same day and the relationship last longer and even leads to marriage
ReplyDeleteIt depend on d individual involved. Sm ppl met tda n d nxt day dey re hittin it out. Sm met bt sex isnt a priority. So it al depends.
ReplyDeleteLinda pls do proof read before u post . Check this post 4 a grammatical error. "How long would u to date a lady" # how long would u want to date a lady" u meant!
ReplyDeleteIn my opinion, I would ONLY expect sex from her after our wedding (if we decide to get married and finally do) and not any time before then. God created sex for married couples and not for 'dates' because sexual intercourse is not merely a physical sensual activity, it is more of a total bonding of spirit, soul, and body. That's what's acceptable to God and that's what I will do.
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ReplyDeleteI can be very disciplined when it comes to sex, its a mind thing really - as long as I can keep my mind off it, its easy. I can date a long time and have dated 6 months without sex. But it was the lady I was dating who eventually requested for it, else I'd have waited longer. The challenge comes when both parties start fanning the flames with long kisses and petting - I don't know how many people can wait until under such a circumstance as waiting will become pure torture. But if both parties will mutually agree and be disciplined I think I can wait much longer than 6 months.
ReplyDeleteHow long will a lady date me b4 she expects SEX from me?
ReplyDeleteA month ooo
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I used to have this crazy notion that I will keep the girl I love till marriage. Whosai! That has long gone with the winds after a girl taught me in an early age that in relationships, nkemjika (meaning that what I get now is better than what I expect in the future). So the earlier the better and anything that goes beyond 2 months is bad market.. dazall!
ReplyDeleteLinda as for me oh! That day,that day we gonna have sex cos how can she eat my moni n cant be grateful by havn sex wit me n returns..what if she leaves n neva comes bak?
ReplyDeleteI think its the same as how long it takes her to ask me for money.
ReplyDeleteDepending on d level of connection made, dts 4me buh it shuldnt exceed a week @d most.
ReplyDeleteA month maybe 2months if I really like her
ReplyDeleteHow long would u 2 date a lady? Really, which kan English b dat?...
ReplyDeleteA week
ReplyDeleteI would go a few weeks
ReplyDeleteI THINK ITS WHEN THE URGE COMES FROM BOTH OF US
ReplyDeleteFew days n d sex has to b gud
ReplyDeleteThree months
ReplyDelete1 week.
ReplyDeleteSpeaking Canally i would say immediately if possible, otherwise it should be after marriage.
ReplyDelete3 Months is not too bad.
ReplyDeleteThree months or even more. Anything less makes me kick her app once am done sleeping wit her @reviloonthebeat.twitter
ReplyDeleteI do not think that there is a stipulated time for dating. You should date positively until you both know that you are both matured for what follows after.
ReplyDeleteThree months..
ReplyDeleteThe truth is that we start expecting it from the first day..but it may not happen immediately.it depends on the pressure from the man and the lady.
ReplyDeleteAnytime i feel like
ReplyDeleteThree months
ReplyDeletevaries with each lady...
ReplyDeleteSame day delivery
ReplyDeletehmmmmmmmm depends though ... different strokes for different people
ReplyDeleteFunny Question
ReplyDeletevaries with each lady...
ReplyDeletea week
ReplyDeleteOdikwa shap shap
ReplyDeleteI really wonder why premarital sex has become a normal thing!
ReplyDeletea week
ReplyDeleteI will expect sex from her as soon as she start expecting expenses from me,lol
ReplyDeletea week
ReplyDeleteone month.... after one month i expect sex from her.... except she is planning to only chop my money and run...
ReplyDeletea week is always good for me...
ReplyDeletea week
ReplyDeleteLinda please post comments...eagerly waiting 2 read....
ReplyDeletea week is what i use to get sex from a lady
ReplyDeleteA week. First to comment
ReplyDeleteCan't wait for d comments, I just started seeing dis guy, 3weeks into it nuffin yet. Ion wanna b perceived in an abnormal form.
ReplyDeleteAs the Spirit leads... hehehe
ReplyDeletea week
ReplyDeletei'd say like 2 weeks....enough time to make the lady feel secure with you. Anytime spent afterwards talking to each other is a waste. Guys need sex....like food.
ReplyDeleteSex in relationship is a desire which cannot be determined by d no of days. it happns when d guys nuclear weapon and d lady's atomic bomb are willing to absolve each other. we can start rocking right from d first day
ReplyDeleteInstantly
ReplyDeletemarriage
ReplyDeletePersonally, I'll go for few days...I hate it when i aven't had sex with a girl before i begin to find flaws in her....definitely, i can't ave sex with a girl full of flaws
ReplyDeleteLinda it depends on the two people involve.and also it depend on the chemistry flowing between them.two people crushing strongly on each other won't survive a day or two. And it depends too on who wants it most..if the urge is from the lady she might get it within the earlier said a day to two. But if the urge is from the guyand the lady knows her onion it could be upto a month. But most people now want sex is a relationship like a friend said that not untill he confirms a girl by having sex with her he won't be committed to the relationship. But naturally a month is okay. I like the wait, the anticipation. Most relationship that begins with early sex don't last long. And talking from experience. Linda the normal is one month but trust me these days it last a week max.
ReplyDeleteif i really want to be with the girl it could take close to a year or even more if not then probably days. me and my girlfriend of six years had sex when we were 3years into the relation maybe its cause i met her a virgin. but the bottom line is if i love her i could wait eternity.
ReplyDeleteA few days I go for .AGRO no dey wait guys at all even self if possible dat day.but a true one should take three month
ReplyDeleteWhen ever she is ready.
ReplyDeleteFew hours sef if possible...execept I like her so much and have great plans for her,but even at that,lemme first of all enjoy the koko,the the lovi lovito fit follow!
ReplyDeleteAbi naa?
HOW TO MAKE A MAN HAPPY
1. Feed him
2. Sleep with him
3. Leave him in peace
4. Don't check his phone (Msgs)
5. Don't bother him with his movements
HOW TO MAKE A WOMAN HAPPY
It's really not too difficult but.... To make a
woman happy, a man only needs
to be:
1. a friend
2. a companion
3. a lover
4. a brother
5. a father
6. a master
7. a chef
8. an electrician
9. a plumber
10. a mechanic
11. a carpenter
12. a decorator
13. a stylist
14. a sexologist
15. a gynecologist
16. a psychologist
17. a pest exterminator
18. a psychiatrist
19. a healer
20. a good listener
21. an organizer
22. a good father
23. very clean
24. sympathetic
25. athletic
26. warm
27. attentive
28. gallant
29. intelligent
30. funny
31. creative
32. tender
33. strong
34. understanding
35. tolerant
36. prudent
37. ambitious
38. capable
39. courageous
40. determined
41. true
42. dependable
43. passionate
WITHOUT FORGETTING TO:
44. give her compliments
regularly
45. Go shopping with her
46. be honest
47. be very rich
48. not stress her out
49. not look at other girls
AND AT THE SAME TIME, YOU
MUST ALSO:
50. give her lots of attention
51. give her lots of time,
especially time for herself
52. give her lots of space, never
worrying about where she goes.
BUT MOST OF ALL IT IS VERY
IMPORTANT
53. never forget
*birthdays
*anniversaries
*valentine
*arrangements she makes.
For the very first time, i choose to be blunt. Every man will really wanna test his investment from the very first day but depending on the lady involved. I have dated a lady and few days after we had it and I have equally dated a lady that i never saw beneath her face. Love and Lust also have their influence on it.
ReplyDeleteAs long as we can understand each other Linda
ReplyDelete1 week
ReplyDeletedepends on the type of lady...lets say a few days....max,a week.
ReplyDeleteEhhhh? after that meal ooooo. i no get time. and it doesnt mean i wont love her if shes stable or disrespect her. women shouldnt always form. ofcus i wont force her but trust me,i will make sure we talk dirty and make her horny,if it happen in the car infront of her house, the better. once again sex on the first date doesnt make her a whore. someone like me just needs a lady with a crazy sex drive.
ReplyDeleteit depend on de motive of de girl.it may be dat very day.but if de girl don have any nagative motive in her mind it will take one week.
ReplyDeleteAS FOR ME. A WEEK, AFTER MUCH SPENDING.
ReplyDeleteAfter marriage
ReplyDeleteas long as it takes,sex is not the ultimate when dating,when she agrees to it i think i am ready then we go all the way
ReplyDeleteSometimes, it depends on the status of the girl and how calm the guy may b when it comes to sex issue. But I could stay a year sha o o . Na tru love matters
ReplyDeleteThree months z too much ooo lyk one week nah
ReplyDeleteLinda you're obviously going to get plenty "wtf right away"
ReplyDeleteHonestly i cant date a gal more one month witout asking for sex
ReplyDeletehehehhehehehe,linda,u don come again oh,oya,lib guys,make we hear how long una fit keep una'banana inside shokoto''linda,nah ur place i won take chop afternoon food o,wetin u cook nah,but post my comment frst.
ReplyDeletelinda..not at all.. bcos as me i will hate her wit passion if i had sex wit her....i believe sex is meant for married people
ReplyDeletehehehheheeheh,take banana till u go yo!linda,abeg open gate for me o,i don reach.frst to comment 'dancing azonto'
ReplyDeleteA month probably!It all depends.
ReplyDeleteuna know say if banga soup don reach day 2 nai e take dey sweet pass,so linda,i pick two days,
ReplyDeleteA month probably,it also depends...
ReplyDeletehabba LINDA...few days bawooo
ReplyDeleteAabeg na after we don chop Dinner finish jooor......make we knack our akpaco.
No sex @all, men r dogs dey cnt do witout sex... Idoits
ReplyDeleteSmooching a guy should happen within a week after you identify him as a toaster that you like. Sex with a guy after identifying him as a toaster you like should not exceed two weeks abeg. Life is too short to be wasting time forming and delaying sex when u know say you de gel for the guy. Besides, the earlier you know his performance, the better biko.
ReplyDeleteAs the spirit directs
ReplyDeleteSmooching a guy should happen within a week after you identify him as a toaster that you like. Sex with a guy after identifying him as a toaster you like should not exceed two weeks abeg. Life is too short to be wasting time forming and delaying sex when u know say you de gel for the guy. Besides, the earlier you know his performance, the better biko.
ReplyDeleteit depends on the chic and how she potray herself.but as a sharper guy just two weeks. but for my real babe i allow her till wen she ready for it.
ReplyDelete1-3 weeks. Anything after that puts a broda in the friendship zone.
ReplyDelete1 month , under normal conditions. if i'm really into her, then i'll give her more time. I might consider her loose if she gives in earlier.
ReplyDeletei think one should wait to know the person like 3-6 months? it varies
ReplyDeleteIt depends on the girl na
ReplyDeleteSome guys do it @ the first date. Even if they met the girl on a social network.
ReplyDeleteI date my wife for 6months without sex. Just to show her dat sex is nt love
ReplyDeleteLinda, am yet to understand what you are preaching or insinuating and am yet to understand when sex became affirmation for love.
ReplyDeleteI'm a chick tho bt imma comment on dis as for me three months is cool.let em wait.
ReplyDeleteThe longest relationship I have ever had in my life, was a girl I met and had sex with her the same day.
ReplyDeleteNo need for fronting.
a week will be good by me... that's all.
ReplyDeleteDepending on how often she visit my house n what I think about her,cos if she's highly regarded I wud slow down to a week or more but surely less than a month!
ReplyDeleteA few days of course,to seal the relationship....
ReplyDeletea week will be good by me... that's all.
ReplyDeletebefore you start dating, you already have intentions of having sex, this implies on both parties, so it can happen anytime ( 1,2 day, months or years ) depending on the party involves.
ReplyDeleteBut these days, ladies dont care. they can give it out on the first date and we are ready to accept at any given time
a week is enough.
ReplyDeleteLinda Lolo, you na kawain! No long things, i will shag a guy am cool with on a first date. The point here is that you can tell from the first date is this is a guy you will get down with anyway, wink! I have done this like thrice already and no regrets.
ReplyDeleteIt depends, emotional and sexual connection matters, and the goal of you guys coming together too, so it could be one day, a week, a month, but definitely not more than a couple of months if you guys are in the same city and its not a long distance relationship.
ReplyDelete30minits LoooL, naughty me, that was a joke shaa. In a proper relationship till Honey Moon..... So i have vow.
ReplyDeleteONE WEEK, I MET AN OLD FRIEND FRM MY UNIVERSITY DAYS, AFTER 1 WEEK OF TALKING, WE HAD SEX, I M ABOUT GETTING MARRIED TO HER, THIS MONTH N I CNT WAIT
ReplyDeleteSame day if possible. Ask and it shall be given to you. He who seeketh, findeth.
ReplyDeleted answer is no5. Others specify. *wink* honeybell.
ReplyDeleteDepend on the lady.... if u loose guard, same day!
ReplyDeleteAbeg as quickly as possible b4 she carry d tin run VGBG
ReplyDeletelinda as for me its all depends.
ReplyDeleteLinda, no vex but is this question really necessary? Am not being sanctimonious here really but if you are even half a Christian you shouldn't promote or seem to suggest thoughts that promote premarital sex. Already as the role model you are do kindly encourage young persons to live right.
ReplyDeleteMy take? Wait untill you have exchanged marital vows to knack.
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ReplyDeleteLin Lin pls always go tru whateva u've writen b4 postin it oooo...u kuku ma no say we go yab u.
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