How can you tell for sure that a woman really loves you and not your money?He says he is about to propose to a girl but he isn't so sure she really loves him. He says he's stinking rich and that attracts a lot of women...especially fakes. :-)
Monday, 17 December 2012
Question for the guys...
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A broke ass guy has no bussiness planning marriage.he should plan how to earn a salary no matter how small or start a bussiness.
A rich guy wondering if a woman loves him for his money should sign a prenup.
a woman should not marry a guy that cannot take care of her.now thats the issue,womens tastes differ.so guyz go cut your coat according to your sizes and stop complaining.everybody find ur level.
telling her that you lost your job,house or life savings will not suffice! she will probably do some investigating on her own and find out that it was all a ruse. And if she is really the gold-digger type, when she finds out she will play along or feign that she is hurt and after you beg she will sharply forgive you. Here is what you should do-
Meet with her and tell her you have received a new calling that you want to dedicate your life to helping humanity by joining the Red Cross and also that you plan to give away 80% of your life's earnings because it will be more helpful to other people who need it..keep this up for 6 months and I can almost guarantee you that her true nature will surface within 6 months.
Man, I looooove me independent women! Nothing turns me on better than knowing my woman can afford to take me out on a date, or if we go out she can pay for shit. In cases like that, I'm ready to spend whichever, however and whenever for her.
But since coming back to Nigeria, I can tell you for a fact that Nigerian women - a lot of them - man, they won't look at you if you don't have money. Too much suffering in the country, I guess. And even if they look at you, they expect money to be spent.
They feel it's their God given right to have a guy shower them with money all in the name of "relationship".
The most irritating of all is this chick I wanted to date and barely a month into knowing her she asked me to buy recharge card. I can afford a recharge card, but seriously? I have to buy you a bloody recharge card?! What, you can't take the money out of your bank account and get yourself a recharge card?
Or, "My BIS has expired." That seems to be the popular one among a lot of Naija girls.
I hope God gives me a kind, hard working woman when I'm ready to get married, someone who has a job (and will keep that damn job even after marriage) and can take care of herself and contribute when necessary.
As for the bloke with the problem, dude, if you've been blowing money on her all over the place, then it's too late to start contemplating if she's after your money or not. You're super wealthy, she knows it, and YES, that's probably played a role in how she feels about you. Sorry, mate. But that doesn't necessarily mean she's a gold digger. I can tell you it's every Nigerian girl's dreams ... fuck it, it's EVERY girl's dreams, whether Nigerian or not, to marry a super, SUPER rich dude.
Whatever you do, if it feels right, you'll know. If you're having doubts then maybe you need to chill on the proposal; date her for a little while, maybe this time with a little less money spending and a little more heart-to-heart moments.
Cheers.
Chucks.
Wonderfully written, this is nothing but the simple truth
U shld tell her that your broke nd u might go to prision, then you'll get to know her for who she truely is. Do this for a month.
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