Someone I know is ending her marriage of 7 years, two kids, because her husband is seeing another woman.
I know infidelity is a good reason to end a marriage, but is it enough reason to call it quits after so many years and children together?
If a man is taking care of you physically, emotionally, financially and everything that has 'lly' at the end...lol, respects, loves and cares for you and your kids, is it ok to divorce him because he's unfaithful? Because the bitter truth is that most of them are...especially in this part of the world.
Call me stupid, crazy, foolish, immature or whatever, but I don't know if I can end a marriage because of infidelity. I feel negligence is a better reason to walk away. You know, when you no longer exist to him...or when you don't love him anymore, then it's ok to move on but infidelity? I don't know mehn...but then again it depends on the severity of it. You know some men don't have any control...and they batter a woman's soul so badly she can't take it anymore. When it's very extreme, then it's ok to leave but otherwise? Like when he's very discreet and does it few and far in between?
Please don't get me wrong, I think infidelity is so so wrong and unfair, but then again life itself isn't always fair, so what do you do? I mean I can walk away from a relationship because of infidelity...I did it...but only after giving too many chances and I only walked away when I realised it will never stop. But that was a relationship not marriage. Nothing binds you in a relationship, but God binds you in a marriage. I think marriage is too serious to give up on too easily. If you stand in front of God and promise to be with a man for better, for worse, shouldn't you stay for better, for worse? Because of God, your love, the years together, your children?
Our mothers stayed with our fathers, are we saying our fathers never cheated?
Maybe I'm talking nonsense, maybe I need to be educated, what do you guys think? I'm sure I am going to get a lot of bashing for this...bring it on...lol.
Is infidelity enough to end a marriage?
Meanwhile here are some of our celeb BEFORE AND AFTER pictures...enjoy!
Janet Jackson
Brad Pitt
Halle Berry
Jessica Alba
Cameron Diaz
Eva Longoria
Kate Beckingsale
Kate Winslet
Pierce Brosnan
Keira Knightley
George Michael
Mariah Carey
Madonna
Sting
Jennifer Aniston
Elizabeth Hurley
Sarah Jessica Parker
Catherine Zeta Jones
Angelina Jolie
Patrick Swayze
It would have been nice to do the Before & After pix of our Naija celebs but you know how difficult it is to get hold of their pictures...I will do it one day!
Anyway, this post was inspired by bella's fabulous post here http://bellanaija.blogspot.com/search?q=rerock
So ladies, is infidelity enough to end a marriage?
226 comments:
1 – 200 of 226 Newer› Newest»no disrespect linda but your post is very dissapointing...borderline offensive to me
if a man betrays you and your children by devoting time, energy, his body and mind to another woman, then YES, that is disrespect
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'If you stand in front of God and promise to be with a man for better, for worse, shouldn't you forgive infidelity? Because of God, your love, the years together, your children?'
That same man also made an oath to God didn't he? The Bible clearly states that Adultery can be follwed by divorce. Most pple are too emotionally weak to leave, and they keep giving excuses like he's good to me and all that. I guess it depends on the individual, these days men get off too easily..faithfullness is becoming a thing of the past.
Sit there and be asking if infidelity is enough to end a marriage, its when your husband has you infected with every known STI known to man that your eyes will shine. Yes, you stood b4 God to make you vowels but didn't that vowel include to LOVE,HONOR and RESPECT. If the Goat breaks any of those part of the vowel, why shouldn't I by divorcing his cheating ass. Its sad that relationships with men have gotten so bad in Naija that alot of women are willinging to settle for what their mothers did not have to settle for, second wives and affairs seem to be the norm if not expected na wa oh.
Chioma
Are u kidding me, of course yes. If my man is seeing another woman,I'm totally done. If he says he loves and cares about me, then i should be his only one. Infidelity leads to negligence. The mistake some women make is to still stay with the man after he is seeing another woman, and the man doesn't even care. He then takes advantage of and abuses her. In my opinion, a woman can give the man another chance, but if he's not willing to change, the woman can leave with her children.
I have battled with this question before and here is my 2 cents....it depends on the situation. If he is sorry and makes amends, i may forgive him and give him a second chance for the sake of the children and what we have built together but if he is an incurable bed hopper, then i will be out in a flash.
I had a friend who was in those shoes and the only reason she stayed put was becos husband took care of her financially and otherwise so she decided to take her hubby's infidelity to God and things are looking up for them. I mean, if everything is good in this relationship, then why else are u looking outside?.....The devil has a hand in it. So why not take it to the Lord in prayer.
So i would say it all depends on the circumstances and if it is a one time thing or not.
Bottomline is, if you can hack then deal with it, if you can't then get out of it. The choice is ultimately yours except of course, he throws you out.
@chioma- Did u mean to say "vows" instead of "vowels".....check your diction lady.
LINDA GO AND LEARN THE TRUE MEANING OF THE WORD DISRESPECT.
CONDONING SHIT FROM A MAN BECAUSE HE CATERS TO YOU WITH ALL THOSE THINGS THAT END WITH "LLY" ONLY SHOWS YOU ARE A WEAK ASS INSECURE WOMAN WHO NEEDS TO GET IT TOGETHER.
WOMEN LEARN TO GET THAT RESPECT YOU DESERVE AND NOT FEED ON THIS BULLSHIT---
ED
IT IS MORE THAN ENOUGH REASON LINDA! Once a man betrays that trust....it's hard to look him in the face and still respect him as your husband... No amount of love, care; financially or whatever-lly....can make you trust him the same way you once did... it's one thing to be unaware of the infidelity...it's another to know about it...I don't care whether I said for better or worst.....my worst doesn't include cheating or murder....that's one thing you both have to make clear to each other before heading to the alter....define your better and worst....the bible allows for divorce on grounds of infidelity...... so, rather than stay in an unhealthy marriage.... whereby I'm always worrying about who my husband is sleeping with, stressing myself day and night, becoming constantly depressed, before I get infected with STD; die and leave my kids...I'd choose to be that Independent woman or become a nun---with kids that is...lol.... but seriously...I only can hope for the best... ask yourself would he tolerate that from you? Would he forgive you as a woman? I don't do that double standard thing.... If it's wrong for a wife to cheat on her husband.... it is equally not acceptable for a husband to cheat on his wife......If he loved and cared that much....that would have been enough reason to make him come home to you..... that's stupid love!
On my way back from Nigeria, this January. I sat next to a woman in the plane. Before the plane took off, she was talking on her phone saying..."How could you do this to me?" "How?" "Now i have to travel to get it checked a second time."
she got off the phone and was crying.
I sat there and didnt know what to say.
When the flight took off, she ordered a stiff drink, and so did i.
I looked at her and smiled before she told me that she had gotten an STD from her husband. HERPES to be exact. Herpes cannot be cured.
And she was travelling for a break and also to see if there was another form of treatment.
I felt sorry for her. She had two boys. And here she was DISEASED because her husband decided to chook his johnny johnny inside every hole in the wall.
Staying with a cheating husband in naija could very well mean death.
Linda, you made this topic very interesting, because everybody would have expected you to do the opposite i.e Fashy the man as soon as you found out He is having an affair. But to be honest with you you never no how you will react until something actually happen to you. Polygamy, infidelity or whatever bad name you can call it, is African. It is the white men that give it the bad name/image because they want to prove that anything African is bad especially our culture, and it amazes me to see how our ladies are buying into every idea the Oyibo man is selling. Do you know that an average 28 years old American is married and divorced at least 3 times. If you think the Nigerian man is infidel try American or any Oyibo man. I bet you won't be able to say what is going on behind the closed door in your house. Though some men are disgusting in their affairs with women, I think we should look at the issue of having an affair with open mind, especially if you have a loving and caring husband.
linda this is one of those things that u never really know until u walk a mile in the person's shoes. bear in mind that what works 4 u may not work 4 another person.
that u can condone infidelity doesn not mean the next woman should
besides with the alarming rate in which STDs are growing.....well lets just say infidelity is definitely something 2 frown upon. be it in a relationship or marraige.
im NOT sayin i would leave a man because of infidelity but if it is a consistent pattern then i am definitely out d door be it boyfriend or husband
I will forgive him, only if he is truly sorry and he promises never ever to do it again (which is for alot of men to hide it very well so I won't find out... lol), and make us go to marriage therapy, sex therapy, whatever.
This is the part most women don't do, I will ask him what prompted him to do it the first time and try to solve whatever problem it is together.
However, I'll never tell my husband this and I always threaten to leave if he tries that nonesense. lol.
Infidelity is forgivable,( i can't believe i just said that) however in these days of STIs, if he has a child outside, that tells me that he is having unprotected sex.That will end the marriage for me.
I can't believe how much these stars have changed. WOW, they def. make me excited to AGE!!
anyways...
Infidelity is my worse Nightmare!! I CAN'T EVEN IMAGINE, I don't know what I'll do, to be honest, I can't stay with a man if he cheats or me. Kids or not, I just can't. I might forgive but I can't forget.
IM SURE MOST FEMALE COMMENTERS HERE ARE SINGLE. YOU GET MARRIED FIRST
LINDA WISE TALK
AND ED GO AND WASH YOUR MOUTH. YOU TALK A LOT OF RUBBISH
MRS F
DIMEJI UR COMMENT MADE ME GAG!!!
Y did i just know there was goin 2 be one MAN who would try 2 justify infidelity as the African culture and blame yet another CURRENT issue on THE WHITE MAN.
STOP RATIONALIZING AND GET REAL PLEASE.
this is 2 thousand freaking 8 and not the 1800s.
yes the divorce rates are higher in the western world and that is because the law protects the women.
can u say d same 4 Africa?? HELL NO but i can bet a million bucks that if that law were 2 go into effect in africa...naija 2 be precise the divorce rate will sky rocket so high even higher than the rates here.
cheating is cheating!! culture or no culture. if u feel it is "culturally" ok 4 u 2 mess around then u had better let me know from d jump abt ur intentions b'cos i have the RIGHT 2 KNOW if i am comfortable with getting diseases since my man thinks SLEEPING WITH EVERY THING IS AN "AFRICAN THING."
HISSSSSSSSSSS
wow bobby!! i can imagine the horror!! wow! what we women go thru sha...Na only God go help us.
we are constantly given reasons 2 accept PROPER BULLSHIT ALL THE TIME ESPECIALLY IN AFRICA.
Interesting topic Linda, It is easy to say I will leave the man when u are single but to be honest I believe it is easier said than done (am single by the way). God forbid it happen to me but if it does I will look for the strength to leave the man not because I don't love him or I cant stay because of my children but my mother stayed and she paid with her life, most of these women dont just operate without any jazz and for the sake of my life I will leave him and try
not to allow frequent communication with the kids and their father cos most of these women are after them bcos of money and with the kids always in the picture they will see them as a threat, I know cos am talking from experience. I might be called a weakling for leaving without a fight but I will do my fighting on my knees far away from him. My life is precious and If I die my kids will suffer in the hands of the new woman. At the end of the day I dont need a man to create a wealth, so my kids will be fine with or without him.
linda darling, wise talk jare... i support u all the way.I'd forgive my man, but it depends on the gravity of whatever he's done, y would i divorce him bcos of infidelity, not even in this generation when most men are known to be like that.
my dear...email is myrealname78@yahoo.com(figure it out, will be expecting a mail from u darl)
MRS F--let me dignify your nonsense with an answer..
SORRY OH MADAM "I'M MARRIED HENCE I AM BETTER THAN THE IGNORANT SINGLE WOMEN COMMENTING"
I know your type hun--you already validated it.
Better go and check what your husband is doing to hurt you again,rather than getting all crispy and salty on the internet because "SINGLE WOMEN" are commenting about things they don't know of.
As if we dropped from the skies,As if we didn't see our mothers go through what has informed our opinions on here.As if beign married GIVES YOU THE EXCLUSIVE MONOPOLY TO BEING THE ONLY INDIVIDUAL CAPABLE OF COMMENTING.
F.Y.I.
Some of us are not in a hurry to LEAVE THIS SINGLEDOM because of examples like you(yes i can imagine what you are going through).And some of us dont see GOING TO GET MARRIED as an avenue to gaining enough common sense to be able to SPEAK OUR MINDS ON ANY TOPIC.But i guess women like you need that MARRIED tag to complete you and get the other half of your missing brain.
MRS.F,
MRS Foolish
MRS (PLEASE FEEL FREE TO INSERT ANYTHING ELSE HERE)
THIS IS LINDAS BLOG..AND I WILL DAMN WELL SAY ANYTHING I WANT IN RELATION TO ANY QUESTIONS POSED OR OPINION ASKED.
SO IF YOU GOT A PROBLEM WITH MY FILTHY MOUTH...HUN JUST EFF OFF AND GO DO SOMETHING DISGRUNTLED AND FRUSTRATED MARRIED WOMEN DO,LIKE STICKING A RABBIT UP YOUR GOOCHIE,SEEING AS I DOUBT MR.F ATTENDS TO YOUR NEEDS...
Now sweety,hows that for a dirty mouth and a whole load of rubbish...
AND YOU GOT SOAP???
ED
And Pierce Brosnan looks like an eighties porn star--i'm sure if i dig around somewhere he would come up...hmmm...
ED
Well spoken sasha and mrs F!You both took my comments off my mouth....
90% of women saying they will fashie the guy if we took a poll are SINGLE!
It is harder than you guys think, I had the same view till my husband did it to me. Yes I made him go through hell, separated and everything. Deep down I knew I wasn't going anywhere but I wanted to make him know that it is not acceptable. I was gone for 3 months. Begging pass begging. I eventually came back when I saw how sorry he was, and things are more than great now, and to be honest I'm glad I did not take such a drastic decision to divorce.
I agree with the anon that said find the source of the problem. I did and we got help. However, if he had a child with someone else, or I catch him doing it again there might be some serious problem because I don't want STI.
Also, we don't know the full story of your friend that left her husband, I seriously doubt it was a one time thing. If it was then there were other issues she didn't tell you.
Keira Knightley looked way better b4......
@ Mrs.f- Thanks for your comments. It is right on target. For the single ladies, wait till you are married then make your comments. I used to be so vehement on the issue of infidelity....it was a definite no-no. Once a cheat, always a cheat was my mantra. door. Now that i am married, i look at this issue differently. First of all, find out why he cheated....some women once they get married, sex becomes a once a week or twice a week issue...., Do you disrespect your hubby....etc. These are questions that need to be addressed b4 you walk out the door. It is not as easy as it sounds.
Linda just stated her opinion and that doesn't make her a weak lady. In my opinion, the weak ones are those that run off at the first sign of trouble instead of fighting for what belongs to them.
Ask Hilary why she didn't leave Bill Clinton for cheating on her?..or Kobe Bryant wife for not leaving him when he cheated?....
Have i made my point?...
cheating causes emotional damage so i dont see how they guy can me cheating and he is emotionally taking care of you...am a lil hurt by this post because i'll expect more from you. i still luv you linda but my sister reread this post.
Well,linda 1st i must correct u,as long as a man cheats on u,he DEOSNT respect you.if a boyfriend as much as respects his GF,he wont cheat on her ,how much more a husband!!
Now lemem jus tell u d plain truth,i tink ur post was really bold,half of d people dat are even commentng here and saying "they will leave" are bloody liars or maybe they jus dunno!
i totally agree with paris who said u wont know until u walk a mile in d person's shoes.a mile is even too much,try half a mile.LOL
Moving forward,i really do no tink anyone should walk out on a marriage of 7years cos he cheated just once,If he's truly sorry then y not??give him anoda chance.dats wat love is about.............i guess!!i really agree with ur post sha.
PS:ironically am sooooooooo anti-cheating dat i cant vouch for myself i wont end a 25yr old marriage if cheated on.but i truly tink one should work on it.ever seen cheaters on TV??dat show makes me cry atimes!!am happy wen they can work it out tho.......c yah
Linda na wa o, its because of people like you that men think it is okay to cheat on us and we should just forgive them and stay.
When the man stood before God and promised to be faithful to you and his children he was saying he can cheat as long as he does so discreetly! are you kidding me?? discreet or out in the open it is disgraceful and i cannot stay with a man who i cannot trust to be faithful to me. And for the record i am married and have children and my husband knows how i feel, if he tries that nonsense with me then he choses to lose me and the children. Makes you think before you throw your life away for some cheap stuff....if more women think like this maybe more men will stop because they know they cannot get away with it.
I cant say where you are coming from, but i also see women as enablers in the whole cheating situation. There are young women today, that have no qualms about dating married men. It is not ok for men to cheat, and the women turn a blind eye. The cycle will never end, because daughters will see that, and expect it to be normal.
Because our fathers cheated doesnt mean we should accept it from our husbands. Something has to break the cycle, as it is a very destructive cycle.
I have seen a situation where the GF showed up to the wedding in aso-ebi, and the brides response was that at least the guy chose to marry her. How lowly should we be willing to place ourselves on a totem pole? If he cant share his woman, why should a woman share a man?
If you take ur vows to be faithful, then do everything to remain so.
hmmn this is a nice one linda. im a married and will tell u 4 free that 90% of married women will NOT leave their husbands if he cheated. i can tell that most of the comments are from unmarried people. when u get married the dynamics change. remember that once u r divorced ,even if u r finer than nike oshinowo, u r TOKUNBOH in the market. secondly u might even remarry and beleive me he is 85% likely to cheat on you. i say this because iv 5 close friends all married and all their husbands have cheated at one point, what are the odds of this? so u see to leave a marrieage takes a lot, if it is just infidelity i will not leave. battery, negligence of the children and myself are more likely. remember that the men know this too and thats why they do it. if u leave a good man by heart because of infidelity u will regret it, because u may meet a fidel monster and that is the truth. so girls i know of girl power, but lets be honest to ourselves, we females especially nigerians have learnt to deal with it. really if u look at statistics, if u get divorced and remarry u r likely by a good 65% chance to divorce again because these same problems exist everywhere. remember is for better for worse okay. take care linda im glad u r wise, not many are.
No woman, should be tied to a man because of money. Never, part of being a woman is strength- be it the docile or aggressive kind. Money should never keep you in a compromising position.
It must have been embarrasing for the woman to tell bobby that her husband gave her herpes. Self control shouldnt evade naija men, and the excuse that it is African is bullshit. Pple need to start taking responsibility for their actions.
First and foremost, there is no right answer to your question, there are too many indices that will determine one's reaction. Also it is important to note that this situation can equally happen with a man being at the receiving end. Here are some things that one might ponder before reaching a decision.
1) Is he/she a habitual or serial cheater? 2)Is this a one off and what could have triggered it? (e.g a woman/man denies her partner for months, then he/she strays- go figure. 3)Islam allows up to 4 wives, provided a man can cater for the emotional and financial consequences. 4) Does this partner have a genuine sexual problem (case of Mike Douglas comes to mind)
In most cases, you should fight for your marriage, if it is salvageable (i.e. both partners willing to work at it), seek counselling, Ladies, occupy your mans time, go out together, movies etc. Also understand that men, irrespective of continent, are physical beings, i.e they are ruled by their visual, stay true to what you were when he first set eyes on you and you stand a better chance of keeping him faithful, spice up a bit too get some "for your eyes only " gear (www.fredericks.com), tease goes a long way to keep him on his toes, dont be routine oriented, be spontaneous.
Pete
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I agree with most comments. This is for Mrs.F, how do you know everyone that stated opposite of what you think is single? I am single and I have come very close to marriage, at least introduction to some is as good as marriage and I walked out with a month old baby when I realized the kind of family I was going into and the person I was with, was not the type of man I prayed to spend the rest of my life with and I can proudly tell you that I will do same thing Linda's friend did. Infidelity can be a ground for divorce depend how you view things. Why will someone want to cheat on their spouse? There must be something he/she is getting outside that is missing at home. I thought love isn't suppose to cause you pain, why do we let ourselves be bruised? Everyone think it is right for African man to cheat, no it is not. This is where I totally disagree with you Linda, you sounded exactly like my friend's mom when she moved out of martial home because she caught her husband with another woman. Where in the bible did you read it is okay to stay with a cheating husband because he takes care of you financially, physically, and all the stuff that end in lly as you put it? True, you are suppose to stay throught thick and stuff but that does not include, infidelity,having a child outside your marriage, mental or physical abuse,any form of violence. I rather remain single than tolerate those traits. This is my ten kobo on the issue.
i'm single but i want to add something too!
1.I don't think i can take it! We can't keep on excusing men. God created them and if he said they should be faithful i'm sure he gave them the grace to be faithful
2. If your man cheats on you before you marry, he will cheat on you when ur married! don't expect a change unless ofcourse he becomes born again!
3. My aunt just went through the same thing after 25 years of marriage. She stayed with him. And to be honest i'm happy she did. He said it will never happen again. I pray it doesn't
mrs f. is rite most of the 'women' tlkin may jus be single... its easy to say 'u will never' but jus wen u face it my dear it cud all be a diff ball game.
i do not pray 4 such to happen to anyone including myself.... because it affects everyone husband, wife and esp the kids!!
Linda, your stock and value just increased my books.
many of you sitting down and writting the gibrish you are writting about this young fine lady know better than call her names. infedility is not the main preserve of men.
anany ED go get a life. this woman has enough reasonableness and sensibility in her blood to make a great wife.all of you jumping from one relationship to another have you found a better life and hapiness yet?
check this out ma'am. http://womensinfidelity.com/
you have to know you are a leader and others are meant to follow your steps and thoughts. you are an opinion and trend setter. an eagle person. dont let status quo people influnce your mind. marraige is different. someone asked is the life you are living worth the price you are paying?
This is the most honest book about women I’ve ever read. In so many ways, how we think, feel and behave is a mystery, even to us women. I applaud Michelle Langley for her willingness to say what nobody else has the courage to say."
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I just read a book, The Mrs Club, that really made me think about this topic. When I was younger and I saw things in black and white I too thought I knew exactly what I would do in this or any situation for that matter, but now that I am older, I know that nothing is as cut and dried as it seems. Men and women have affairs for a variety of reasons and the wronged parties stay for any number of reasons. I think it is juvenile to refer to a person as weak because you don't understand their decisions. A wife may decide to stay because of money, children or because she loves him or maybe even that she doesn't love herself...I don't think we have any business judging the wives who stay or leave, to each his own.
What I do find interesting is how we give men a free pass. When a man cheats he is not weak, he is a player - implying strength. When a woman stays through the pain and humiliation, she is played - implying weakness. When a woman leaves her marriage because she has had enough, she is considered stupid, hasty, rash, and what have you. Once we are women decide to stand together as a gender, stop being the other woman and settling for every little bit of man, stand on principle, recognize that we are after all, beautifully and fearfully made for a purpose greater than just lying on our backs then maybe we can truly stop infidelity.
any woman who is not ready to forgive infidelity is not ready for marriage
Mrs F they will not understand
"any woman who is not ready to forgive infidelity is not ready for marriage" WHAT!!!
you go into a marriage expecting the best not the worst! it's onr thing if the man cheats once, it's another if it is a continuous thing!!
eehn!in this time of AIDS and std going around especially in lagos. please o you have to be alive to take care of your kids
for the MARRIED EINSTEINS who seem 2 know better than us THE SINGLE MUMUS....all i have 2 say is that u guys r the reason the aristo rate in naija is getting out of control!
i have alot of male friends...MARRIED AND SINGLE and they always say to me that it is how u view urself that a man would treat u. If u show a man that u will allow cheating, HE WOULD DEFINITELY CHEAT ON U OVER AND OVER AGAIN! I made that mistake once and NEVER will i do that again.
Pete...i enjoyed reading ur comment. instead of focusing on d problem, u gave reasons that may help alleviate the problems of infidelity. lol na wa! u even recommended a site. lol.
im lookin @ it right now sef.
and oh the lady who said WE SHOULD STAY FOR THE KIDS cracked me up literally!
i HOPE AND PRAY that was a joke. that is one myth that needs 2 be casted and binded out of the minds of women just like the MYTH THAT IF U SLEEP WITH A VIRGIN, UR HIV WILL DISAPPEAR! Lol. actually madam it is when u stay in such unhealthy marraiges that more damage is done 2 the children.
ur daughter would grow up BELIEVING AND ACCEPTING that she is not worth anything thereby ACCEPTING INFIDELITY while ur son will grow up BELIEVIN AND ACCEPTING that it is okay 4 him 2 cheat.
I am kinda disappointed. Taking care of one's family financially is a duty and should not be the reason a woman decides to stay with her husband after he has being unfaithful.
That fact that our mothers stayed with their unfaithful husbands is the reason why most women don't know how to act in a marriage these days. Most women now have their own jobs so they don't have to depend on their husbands financially.
I don't support leaving ur husband once he cheats, especially where kids are involved, one shld try to work it out first. Most women say they will leave once it happens but when it happens to them, they can't.
LINDA, a man cannot respect u and cheat on u at the same time
All the ppl that are saying if you are not ready to get married if you are not ready to forgive infidelity, could you educate me on the POINT of marriage if you husband is allowed to boink anything he sees fit. Da hell, why do we continue to regress as a society, are Naija women really this weak. Why get married,what is exactly is the point, to let the world know that you got a man to give you a ring when you are miserable on the inside. If a man is not ready to SETTLE DOWN then he should NOT be getting married. To the idiots that are saying that is an AFRICAN thing what if its the wife that cheated just once, you know your ass would leave so STFU.
Paris,
I am not going to be personal with you cos some sisters have answered your questions and it will be wise of you if you listen to those with experience. However the men are not going out with people from another planet, they are girls like you who prefer married men or who have a different opinion on relationship than yours.Remember everybody is entitled to their opinion. Anyways you sounded like somebody living abroad and akatalized no offence intended, I live abroad too and always laugh at our people that are trying to copy the oyibo lifestyles. Just to let you know, you can never be them, Cause some part of you still wanted to be treated like an African queen. You can call me Bush man if you want.
"respects, loves and cares for you and your kids"
if he really does, he wudn't cheat...
He's sharing his mind, body, soul and SPIRIT with someone outside the matrimonial home.... in secret... wow... if that isn't disrespect and hate and lack of care.. i dunno wat is... Forgiveness is great but Paul in the new testament did say infidelity is the ONLY reason allowed for divorce...
This is a reaall big issue esp 4 "Christian" women... extramarital relationships.... its risky mehnnn 2 forgive the guy and go on... there are spiritual consequences as well as physical
On d spiritual side, you don't even know wat the other woman was carrying, the husband has involved himself with her, thereby partaking.. then he'll bring that same thing home... God forbid...
Forgiveness is great... but VERY VERY RISKY.. Personally, I pray such a thing never happens to me, you or any of us...
Amen!
Gosh.. after reading the comments.. i feel really terrible for d demise in our society.. Lord have mercy.. what is the world becoming?
What is happening to the institution of marriage as we know it? (via the Bible).....
Wow....
@WALE...F.Y.I--
i already HAVE a life--in case you did not getthe memo.
i guess those of us that CHOOSE voluntarily not to marry YET because we don't want to deal with some B.S are UNHAPPY RIGHT??
are you even making a lick of sense??
So ED is not entitled to her opinion any longer because she is SINGLE?
MEN..look here..all you married OVER SABIS---i ED,still maintain that it is NONSENSE to stay with a man who HAS ZERO RESPECT FOR YOU,GOES OUT THERE TO CHEAT,HENCE SLAPPING YOU IN THE FACE THAT YOU JUST AIN'T ENOUGH FOR HIM.
SO sit down there and look all pretty and be self righteous with your MRS TAGS....but something tells me MOST OF YOU ARE EMPTIER THAN US "SINGLE MUMUS"
ha ha ha i laugh,WHY DONT Y'ALL TRY CHEATING ON YOUR MEN AND SEE IF THEY WILL NOT KICK YOU OUT KIDS AND ALL.You will be lucky if he lets you take one pant with you.
And someone up there mentioned "fighting for what belongs to them" or something along that line--ARE YOU KIDDING ME?
a man who took vows in the presence of man and God,and whose actions have proven that YOU AIN'T EVERYTHING HE WANTS,HE DISTRIBUTES HIMSELF OUT THERE..AND YOU WANNA FIGHT FOR IT??
NA JOKE?How does he belong to you when he has gone and WILL still goout there to experiment??
I am even shocked at how a lot of women seem to be coming up with "excuses" to make it look right..
check yourself,fight for it,go for therapy...WTF
This is exactly what makes it okay for men and women to keep cheating.
Of course you can forgive him..ha ha..only thing that changes is that HE WILL WORK EXTRA HARD TO MAKE SURE YOU DONT CATCH HIM.
TO THE WONDERFUL STRONG WOMAN WHO WALKED OUT WITH A MONTH OLD BABY,I SAY KUDOS TO YOU...apart from a few comments on here,i think yours has been the most sensible and enlightening.
women LEARN THAT BEEN A "MRS" AT ALL COST DOES NOT MAKE YOU MORE OF A WOMAN.
I SUSPECT THOSE OF YOU WHO HAVE CHEATING HUSBANDS,YOUR HUSBANDS HAVENT CHEATED ON YOU WITH WOMEN WHO WILL GO TO EVERY LENGTH TO KICK YOU OUT OF YOUR MATRIMONIAL HOMES...
As for me i have met beautiful.strong,confident women who learnt to walk away before been subjected to ridicule and a life long of mental torture.Gone on to remarry and couldn't have had it better.Some stayed single to rear there kids and let me tell you,ALL YOU MRS AT ALL COSTS AIN'T GOT SHIT ON THEM!!
So don't tell me because i am not married i don't know what am talking about...
i have never had cocaine,BUT i know the damage it does,DO i need to SNIFF A BUCKETLOAD,BEFORE I CAN ADDRESS PEOPLE ABOUT THE DANGERS?Considering i grew up with someone who lost his life to it??Atimes we look around and we learn...
i ain't about to wear nobodies fucking marital woe shoes,NO MATTER HOW EXPENSIVE THE DAMN SHOES ARE!!!!!!!
ED.
To be honest, will talk from my last relationship. I was engaged to a Man whom I dated for five years. He cheated on me several times, I caught him, he begged for forgiveness. He truly changed, or so I thought. Only to find out that even after the so called "change", he was still having sex with some girl who he dated on the side.
The irony of the whole situation is that when I had to be away for some training, he was so paranoid that I would cheat, it drove him mad.
One day in bed when he was vulnerable, I asked him "If i ever cheated on you, can you honestly say that you would forgive me? He told me that he could never forgive it, that we would break up. Go figures, men have higher standards than women, men wouldn't put up with the same crap women would put up with. lol
Now that women have financial independence we no longer have to put up with such situations
If you look at statistics, Divorce rate is directly proportional to women's income in society. Hence, lack of financial independence is the glue that holds families together
I am not saying to end a marriage for one moment of infidelity. you should weigh the situation, try to work it out first, if the man just cant stop banging other women, then divorce might be the only option
But in the future before you accept it, think first, would he accept it if it was me????
dimeji..well let me just say there is NO POINT ARGUING WITH SOME1 WITH UR INTELLIGENCE QUOTIENT BECAUSE IT IS TOTALLY NOT IN REALM WITH MINE!
i sound akatalized because i know whats right from wrong huh?? and who is "trying 2 copy oyibo"?? lol Once a woman develops a lick of sense, she is now COPYING OYIBO. infact u kukuma described urself by calling urself a bushman.
have a nice day.
ED IT IS MRS FOLORUNSHO IT IS OBVIOUS YOU ARE IGNORANT MAKES NO SENSE TO TRADE WORDS WITH YOU
WITH A SOUR MOUTH LIKE YOURS YOU WILL REMAIN SINGLE FOR A LONG TIME
MRS F
hey...its my turn!
usually i dont read ALL the comments on pples blog...but i found this quite amusing.....and i did like AMI'S comment the most....
i found it amusing because everyone assumed infedelity is only done by MEN....well..in my case...i cheated on my husband....because he abused me emotionally....(that in my opinion is the worst kind of abuse...)...when your husband looks at you with disgust...when he is always (well most times) irritated in ones presence....
the truth is he had no reason to...becos i wont say i am nIKE Oshinowo...but i will give Nike a run for her momey (only trying to give u guys a picture of how i am)...anyway i had an affair...becos no one listened to me...not my parents, not any member of my family...becos he looked the perfect husband and father to my twins....maybe its you...they all said..so i stopped talking....
....and i met him....liked him...and then fell in love with him....it started becos i needed someone to love me....show that he did love me.....to cut the long story short...i left my husband....and i have ended that relationship.......and i still have my boys too...
i cant tell you EVERYTHING...space wont allow....but trust me when i say...the last thing on my mind when i got married was cheating, let alone leaving my hussy....
...but when you live with a man that as become your housemate rather than your lover....for about 2years....you become the most insecure human being...let him pay for all your holidays by first class, let him put your children in the best schools, let him get you a househelp, nanny an cook...but let him not fo one day in 730 days (2yrs) say i love u, i want u...i appreciate u....Nothing else would matter.....even if everywhere you go...theres always an admirer....
i loved my husband....maybe i still do....but i learnt to love myself first....and that is why i left him....i am 32..married at 24...left him last yr...moved with my sons to the US...and its been okay..i practice as a phisiotherapist..and i give my sons a decent life...maybe not as luxirious as back in Nigeria...but am happy .....and .am greatful for the guy that made me realise that marraige doesnt have to be sad...it doesnt have to be pain...........and may still give it another go....and to d sweety who said divorced women are like TOKUNBOH!...ah....its all in the mind..
ask men the question-if their wife is unfaithful will they end the marriage?if men say yes then i believe what is good for the goose is good for the gander.you contradict yourself when you say if the man respects you and your kids and is unfaithful in the same sentence because a man who really respects you wont do that. nuff said.
dimeji-please answer this question-will you stay with a cheating wife? be honest.
I am a single woman and i think there is some logic in my own perspective 2 this question
1 married men cheat with single girls if i am correct. right, right.
2 most of d girls here who say they would walk out are single. right, right.
u, yes u d single girl who slept with dat married man, u think when u finally marry karma will forget u, right, wrong.
i hear in nija now most girls eagerly make a play for married men, if u who said u wuld walk out are one of those then forget it oh, ur husband will do u shege and waka.
i said karma yes karma is a bitch, it will surely get ur husband as well.
its a vicious circle, when single girls decide 2 leave married men alone then mayb things will get a bit better.
@ ED
girl i love and respect u for the person u are but u come across as aggressive. tone it down and dont take things personal. u had no reason 2 insult MRS f.
@ paris u are also quite an aggressive person.
i am a single woman and d only advise i will give is be sensible. leaving ur man just cos of infidelity is not sensible.
if u leave ur husband chances are
1 u will get married again. what makes u think d second man wont cheat.
2 u still want 2 continue having sex,so u need a man abi,d man u are with has someone else on d side so d cheating contines.
be wise, take evrything into consideration.is there something u are doing which u didnt do b4. have u become a nagging wife, have u put on 4 stone since u got married. a man went after u for some reasons. if he went for u cos u were gentle, nice, u were trim and all that try and maintain it.
if u do all within ur power then take it to God and if that does not work then search urself and if u decide 2 go then GOd will b there for u.
there a lot of pple here who should not be giving advice here as we know they cannot hold down a relationship.
wow. linda c wot u r causing insult going left and right!!! na wa o!lol
Na wa for my naija sisters
one of my best male friends, African-American, on the outside great family, perfect one with 2 boys, but since we were all really close to him, we all knew his dad was a certified cheat. Imagine being an 18yr old young man and finding condom in your dad's car. His dad parted more than him, and was never alone. His parents lived like roommates, and we all knew that it was a matter of time before they divorced, as she said she wanted the kids to be on their own b4 it happened. The wife was much too peaceful, and you could see the man had broken her heart over the years. My friend just turned 28, and his parents are now divorced, just like we all figured.
My friend now is having a hard time with it all, he stayed at home to help his mom, he has seen all her emotional pains over the years, the hurt, the anger, the betrayal. It has affected him. Staying for the kids? one of the worst mistakes any well meaning mother can ever make, you dont want your kids to see you and their father in such situations.
Na wa ooo.
Ed.. is it that serious? No need for name calling.
This has got to be one of the most interesting posts.
I say do whatever you want to do when your husband cheats, no one knows him more than you do. If you think the best thing to do is leave, then leave. If you think it's to stay then stay. Don't let friends, family, or Linda's post encourage or discourage you. Do whatever you think is right and get ready to suffer whatever the consequences is.
~ My 2 cents
This is very interesting, I cannot believe miss Paris will take this personally, Linda see what you caused o. Anyways I am sorry if my comments is too harsh on the ladies, no woman deserves to be treated like trash. But to answer your question Ms anonymous If I catch my wife with another man, I will do the same thing my Papa will do. Sack the woman abi.
@MRS F..HA HA HA E DON PAIN AM..isi ewu like you,shey you came to look for my trouble and i gave it to you.
childish married woman...see your yanma yanma mouth like "you will remain single for a long time"
ha ha ha ---if only you knew,i still maintain SOME OF US WILL NOT STAY WITH A CHEATING HUSBAND LIKE YOURS.DUE TO VARIOUS THINGS WE HAVE SEEN/HEARD AND EXPERIENCED,OLODO..why is it pinching and chooking your body sef??
na me say make MR.F dey mezz up??I know bitter and twisted women like you..wish you were still single abi?
ED DOES NOT NEED A MR TO VALIDATE ANYTHING ABOUT HER--I AM SO SINGLE AND TOOOOO HAPPY...MY LIFESTYLE SUITS AND PAYS ME..AND IF YOU ARE NOT CAREFUL I WILL HUNT FOR YOUR HUSBAND SEF AND FUCK HIM AND SEND HIM BACK TO YOU...NONSENSE---I dare you to send me his details...wa gba say khaki no be leather---and after i am through with him,i will give him pointers to give to you to satisfy him in bed....and everywhere else--useless girl.
@ANON 4;18P.M
ahh,walahi,i just jejely passed a comment oh,when this foolish woman,jobless creature just carried her large mouth to come and talk smack about me oh..WETIN I DO AM...??
and me as the yorubas say..MRS F,MI O KIN SHE OMO LO SI ILE LO GBA ESI WA...
U throw insult pass my side i dash you mine..SIMPLE..
PARIS---girl i love the way you stick to what you believe...
and to other SENSIBLE PEOPLE who have commented,isnt that what its all about?agreeing to disagree etc...but that foolish WINCHY OF A MRS F....JUST HAD TO PUSH THAT EXTRA BUTTON AND LOOK FOR MY TROUBLE..MARRIED BULLY...attempting to bully me into a corner because i never force myself(as im sure you did) unto a man..
TAKE YA TIME OH MRS F...OR ELSE GONGO ASO...
ha ha ha ha ..ha ha ha
you can hate me now...heeyyy..but i wont stop now...
this is fun...Linda you will post my comment abi?no partiality here oh..
kisses everybody..
ED
@ANON 3;27 PM...I agree with you in a way..but with a twist--one thing i have learnt is that whether a woman has dated/slept with married men or not in her single days does not mean that some women out there wouldn't date/sleep with her husband.
We find good girls,whose husbands cheat like no mans business,and these girls never even gave married men a secnd look in their single days.
And married men also cheat with married women,ESPECIALLY the older generation.Those people have the word players and playettes down on a lock down.
Whichever way its just to pray(to those that believe in the efficacy of it)and hope that in our marital homes we are not confronted with more than we can bear to shoulder.
Because there is cheating and there is cheating.e get degree...believe me...
ED
Mrs F,u must have had it in for ED.Funny enough she asked the most important question that you are all skirting away from.
would your husbands accept you if it was the other way round?
ED,well said,even though i know you don't play like that,but sweetheart,you need to relax on the yabbis.
Paris.well said.
Dimeji.please answer the question posed to you.
as for me,i was in a marriage of ten years,got married at 24,now 37.My ex was a congenital cheat.As ED rightly said,for everytime i caught him and forgave him,he only devised sneakier ways not to get caught.I put up with it for ten years until i realise my sanity and life was revolving around what new drama he was going to bring to the table.I had caught him with every means,letters,lipsticks,text messages and then of course internet(joining extra marital dating site).
I decided to get on with life and just put up a front for the kids sakes etc and society,and quit caring,started dating someone, ex found out and he kicked me out.No forgiveness nothing.Even though i was past caring,it occured to me that i could have gained at least 9wasted years of my life doing what made me happy,and moved on,rather than waiting on a boy to grow up to be a man.
With my three kids in tow,i moved states.
Havent spoken to the bastard in two years and he doesnt want to know the kids,BECAUS I CHEATED ONCE COMPARED TO HIS 1000 TIMES,ALL OF A SUDDEN THE "BASTARDS" MIGHT NOT BE HIS.
do i regret anything?
NOT AT ALL.
no..i regret something.Not leaving him years before.
Bonike
Having being a victim of long term infidelity I will tell you that I will not wish it on my enemy. The toll it takes is damaging. I developed depression, stress, was failing out of school all because I wanted to "keep my man". I begged and begged him to stop seeing her. He said he would but months later I checked his phone and still saw phonecalls from her. Even as I am writing, the tears still come easily. He became so mean, so nasty to me. Nothing I said was right. Nothing I wore was right. He called me names and made me doubt myself. Was this the same man who told me he loved me to death one year earlier?
The point is that your self esteem and self worth begins to go down. It happens so gradually, its is scary. I looked at myself and didn't realize when I began such an insecure, low self esteem woman. I became the ridicile of my friends. Why are you still with him they would ask....well I replied "no woman can take my man away from me...it is war".
We finally broke up...not because he cheated but he refused to marry me.
I guess God was looking out for me!
I can't believe all this insults flowing right, left and center like somebody put it...aha, why now ED?
Na me cause all this? na wa o..lol
anyway, its a free world, feel free to state ur opinion, but lets at least reduce the insults...wetin happen now? lol
Good read though! I am learning so much here...God bless blogging
I enjoyed reading the comments but my gosh, avoid airing your opinions while demeaning another's opinion.This not a war, it's dialogue.
Single mum and happy; you rock! that's one of the most unique perspectives i read.
My view is a bundle of so many things so I'd spare you guys. But note that depending on the circumstances and the gravity of it all, I'll stand by my man.
DIMEJI-thanks for your honesty.Then is it not fair to also say that if you cheat on your wife she should also sack you with immediate effect?You see my point here. It goes both ways.Both partners have the duty to hold the marriage sacred-not just the wife.I will encourage any man or woman who wants to to leave a cheating spouse
@Linda..sweetheart,you might not know it but u r one of the few women i love and admire.
And sorry for turning your comment section into a "war" zone.But if u noticed,i directed my first comment at u,asked u to find out the true meaning of respect etc,and then went on to state my opinion.
Only to be confronted by that RUDE woman asking me to wash my mouth out with soap?
DO I KNOW HER?IS SHE MY GRADE SCHOOL TEACHER?WHO MADE HER ED'S OPINION COP?
And my dearest Linda,me i no dey collect anybodys mess,i don't care who you are.Yes i cn be very passionate about things i believe in...going by my past posts u might notice that,and when i am wrong,i ALWAYS back down and apologise.
But for some random thing to just decide to just talk shit,i don't play like that.
If she had gone "ED,i don't think your opinion makes sense to me,maybe if you were married,you might think differently" etc,then i will take her from another angle..A MATURE WOMAN..not just someone suffering from mental constipation and typing the first thing her blocked shit brain spews out.
I don't like trouble,i might be mischievous,but if you look for my trouble i will give you an OVERDOSE of mine till u get sick of me.
On that note,it's peace and love and all things sweet in ED'S world.
besides why you dey blame me nah linda...ahn ahn..wetin sef..na only me yarn??
hee hee hee
loves ya girl
ED
Hmm! i'm not sure i'll stay o once i find out. my papa cheated to the end and to tell you the truth, i know my mama was hurting and crying at the funeral because of the hurt she was feeling and what my father had done to her over the years. I love my husband dearly but i know that if i cheated on him, he'll leave me sharp sharp. so why the double standard?. Some of the people here have stated it well, you might get a disease because someone can't stop a bad habit.I also believe, if a man loves you, he wont cheat. Abeg there is no oyinbo or akataism in this, I love my life, and can't let no one kill me because i want to be Mrs somebody.anyway to each his own abi?
tina
ED....u a bit foul.....but hey its a free world....
.......just pity the guy that actually marries u....
nothing wrong with voicing ur opinion...but be cultured about it....
.....u are full of bad vibes!!!
no insult given....non taken...
Peace out!
I have to recommend two books for all the weak-minded women, yes I said WEAK that will stick to cheating "husbands,"; Everything Good Will Come by Seffi Attah(?) and The Joys of Motherhood by Buchi Emecheta. Read it and clear your eyes from all the rubbish that naija society feeds women and marriage, men , and relationships it cleared mine.
ED PLEASE READ YOUR COMMENTS AGAIN
IT IS SUCH A SHAME A NIGERIAN WOMAN CAN BE SUCH AN EMBARRASSMENT
YOU WERE OBVIOUSLY NOT WELL BROUGHT UP IM DONE TALKING TO YOU
MRS F
ED SAID :IF YOU ARE NOT CAREFUL I WILL HUNT FOR YOUR HUSBAND SEF AND FUCK HIM AND SEND HIM BACK TO YOU...NONSENSE:
SHAME ON THE WOMAN WHO BROUGHT YOU UP KAI
MRS F
it is rather interesting & sad at the same time 2 see how d topic of infidelity brought out d beast in most of us...especially the ladies. that goes 2 show that it is a serious issue and should not be taken 4 granted.
Dimeji BUT OFCOURSE i would take it personal. we women are all affected by this infidelity mania 2 a certain degree...but its all good tho and sorry 4 callin u a bush man sha. lol
"my opinion ED"....this whole thing is really not my biz-wack but how do u expect ED 2 respond 2 ur comment?? u name urself after her, u call her all these names and then u say "PEACE OUT"...WHAT HAS PEACE GOT 2 DO WITH IT?? lol THE HILARITY and Mrs F did u really have 2 go and insult her mother??
there are certain boundaries that shld NEVER be crossed.
yea she said she'ld f**k ur husband or wateva but if i am not mistaking, i thot it was sumtn u were fine with??? i thot u said if "we are not ready 2 accept infidelity then we are not ready 2 get married"
wetin come happen na?? why d sudden change of heart?? now that the reality of it started hittin close 2 home it didnt feel as EASY and SIMPLE huh??
well sha. this shld be my last comment on this post..HOPEFULLY! LOL
and linda...madam trouble starter lol..CONGRATS A MILLION TIMES ON UR MAG HUN...U KNOW UR BADDDD!!
MRS F..
HA HA HA HA HA ....
LOOK HERE I AM DONE WITH YOU.BUT IF YOU STILL INSIST--PLEASE BE MY GUEST--ITS A BANK HOLIDAY TODAY,IM BUZZING ON FLU TABLETS,I'M HOME AND AINT GOING NOWHERE..SO PLEASE KEEP COMING BACK---MARRIED WOMAN SHA--IF YOU ARE THE EXAMPLE OF A MARRIED WOMAN I'D RATHER STAY ON MY SIDE OF THE FENCE--
DONT U HAVE YOUR HUSBAND TO LOOK AFTER??OOOPSS---HE IS PROBABLY WITH ANOTHER PEPEYOYO HAVING THE TIME OF HIS LIFE,WHILE YOU SIT ON THE NET ARGUING OVER HIS LITTLE "NATURAL MISTAKES".
AND WHEN HE IS DONE FUCKING THOSE GIRLS,HE WILL STILL STICK HIS COCK IN YOUR MOUTH AND ASK YOU TO SUCK AND BEEN THE DUTIFUL MRD INSECURE I HAVE TO STAY MARRIED AT ALL COST FOOLISH THAT YOU ARE,YOU WILL SUCK AND THENWASH HIS DICK AFTERWARDS...
THAT SOAP YOU SUGGESTED I USE FOR MY MOUTH--BETTER BUY ONE WITH ANTIBACTERIAL INGREDIENTS IN IT TO SCRUB MR F'S LITTLE PEE WEE...
HA HA --I AM SOOOO ENJOYING THIS..
U DONT KNOW WHO U ARE DEALING WITH--I'M A SICK BITCH AND WILL INSULT YOU AT ALL FRONTS--IF U LIKE ABUSE MY MOTHER,FATHER,BROTHERS,FUTURE HUSBAND,KIDS ETC..
I JUST DONT GIVE A FERKKKK!!!
I KNOW YOU MRS F--OH YEASSSSSS I DOOO!!!
SO YOU CAN GO STAND ON THE MOUNTAIN TOPS AND SING AT THE TOP OF YOUR LUNGS THAT SOME CRAZY CUNT ON THE NET DARED TO ASK YOU TO SEND YOUR MR F TO HER.
GUESS WHAT??
I COULDNT GIVE A HOPPING FUCK..
AND I CANNOT TAKE OFFENCE TO ANYTHING YOU SAY ABOUT THE WOMAN WHO BROUGHT ME UP..HA HA HA ...SHE DID HER JOB FANTASTICALLY AND IF I CHOOSE TO BE WAYWARD OR BE THE BLACK SHEEP..GUESS WHAT???
AS AN ADULT I AM RESPONSIBLE FOR MAKING MY BED AND WILL LAY ON IT MYSELF....
AS IF YOUR MOTHER DID A BETTER JOB.INSECURE PIECE OF SHIT--WHAT DID SHE TEACH YOU..TO CLING UNTO YOUR MAN AT ALL COSTS ABI??BECAUSE WITHOUT HIM "YOU AINT SHIT"!!
MRS FOLORUNSHO KO,MRS FI-ESHU-SHO NI
ABEG GO AND SIT DOWN SOMEWHERE..YOU STILL HAVE MOUTH TO TALK ABI--I STILL MAINTAIN--U NEVER JAM PERSON WEY GO DEMOTE YOU FROM YOUR PRETEND THRONE AND TEACH YOU HOW TO HOLD UNTO YOUR MAN.
JUST SEND HIM MY WAY--BY THE TIME I AM DONE WITH HIM---I MAINTAIN--HE WILL NOT ONLY BE BEGGING FOR MORE,BUT HE WILL COME BACK HOME AND KICK YOU OUT OF THE HOUSE.SILLY GIRL--ACTING AS IF BEIGN MARRIED IS SOME THING OUT OF THE ORDINARY,TYPICAL NAIJA GIRL MENTALITY CARRYING HER HUSBAND ON TOP OF HER HEAD AS IF....
WHY DONT YOU FLIP THE SCRIPTS AND SEE IF THE MAN YOU ARE GIVING YOURSELF HYPERTENSION OVER WILL DO THE SAME FOR YOU
WOMEN SHA--THE DAY MOST OF US WE LEARN TO START OPENING OUR EYES,THE BETTER..
AWON ONIRANU
and as for you MY OPINION(12;36 AM)????----
yup....SILENCE...BEST ANSWER TO A FOOLISH GBEBORUN..
TALKING OF BAD VIBES..WHAT U DOING IN MY BUSINESS??
CUNT!!!
FEELING COOL ABI?
FEELING AS IF "YEAH I HAVE MADE A POINT"
WISH I COULD GO FURTHER WITH YOU,BUT THE ONLY PERSON I AM READY AND INTERESTED IN IS THAT INSIPID THING CALLED MRS FOOLISH,SO EVERYBODY ELSE FALL BACK IN LINE...
ED
AND THAT MORON CALLED "MY OPINION" TALKS ABOUT CULTURE--
HA---DON'T BE FOOLED,I GET MY RAZZ KICKS FROM DEALING WITH PEOPLE LIKE MRS F AND CO IN BLOG WORLD..BECAUSE ON A GOOD DAY...NO BE YAB BUT I JUST DONT ENCOUNTER SUCH PEOPLE--HA HA--
CULTURE??I LAUGH.AS IF YOU WILL KNOW WHAT IT IS IF IT WAS A STOP ON A TUBE MAP AND I ASKED YOU TO POINT IT OUT.
BETTER DONT JUDGE A PERSON BY THEIR ONLINE ANTICS..
BUT ON SECOND THOUGHTS--
I COULDNT CARE LESS
CULTURED AND CLASSY LOMO LATILE--
DAMN I AM CRAZYYYYYY
ED
@ED, why are you so angry?. Where is all the ugliness coming from?.....Who made you so bitter?...There are more mature ways to air your opinion with out being rude, aggressive and downright annoying. State your opinion and move on. There is no need for this war. Infidelity has been there for a long time and will continue to exist. Why are u acting like VOLTRON - defender of the universe or in this case defender of the liberated women. Mrs F was right. You may dance to a different tune when you fall in love and get married. I rest my case.
this is anon 5.45pm, this is for ED and Mrs F. ED, understand that u are upset or angry about stuff Mrs F stated but it was not a personal attack at you initially. She was just airing her opinion just like you, even thou I did not agree with her but I did not take it personal. Don't let stuff like this give people who don't know you from nowhere right to insult you and your parents. It is a big shame on your part Mrs F to insult ED the way you did, you have no right to refer to her upbringing. You don't know her from Adam. How do you know her parents did not instill good discipline in her or she is the abusive type(ED no disrespect to you in any form). How will you feel if someone used the same words on your child, all because your child traded words with someone she/he does not agree with. Can we all be courteous to each other without trading words because we don't agree with someone's opinion. Bonike, I feel you but I cannot truely say I understand cause I have not walk in your shoe. Keep your head up. It pains me when men result to using innocent child(ren) as tool. My ex and his family denied my son even thou he resemble his father all because I refused to let his greed mother used my son as way of exploiting us for money. How do separate a barely 4 months old baby from his parents? I thought parents decide if they want to send their child to Nigeria and not grandmother.
No one is wrong in this matter. infidelity is not clear cut, black and white, good vs evil, male vs Female phenomenon. But women have to learn not to accept it as men being men when they cheat, staying in an unhappy marriage is worse than being divorced, is it not? I have seen people brag about being married for 20 years, even though we all know that the man was cheating with different women the whole time.
And at the same time, when you love someone and have a family with them, you are more likely to give then a second chance, give them a chance to change, and do right by you.
Even though it seems as though ED is saying harsh things, both of these women have insulted each other. One person just happens to have more stamina. Am not gonna pick sides, you cant get into a fist fight, and then complain when you are punched is all i can say
Excessive Diva stop yelling... gutter woman. You are a prostitute, not so?You should respect yourself and be strong before you try and preach to anyone else. Since when did being a call girl put you in a place of power?
So all your johns' wives should leave their husbands? In retrospect they should because any man that can actually pay to sleep with you is a walking STI bank.
I see how you stand up for yourself when you let all sorts of depraved men stick their members and other objects into every available orifice of your body, as well as shit on you, literarily.
Maybe if you tried to stop being a call girl and stopped letting men abuse your body and degrade you, you will find some peace and joy in your life. See how ugly you come across online.
Did another man just shit on you again? Cool down and get your self together.
You give single women a bad name. All that bitterness. You chose to make your bed as a prostitute, lie on it and wait for Karma, cos you will share your future husband with prostitutes like you.
BTW, you really should focus more on your 7 yr old daughter that is with her father in America rather than come online to fight as you do most of the time.
Kisses.
p.s. The ability to sleep with any man does not make you special, it just means you are easy.
@SASHA-----YAWWWNNNNNNNNNN....(can u read at all??)-MRS F was right??in whose world??--i didn't address the bitch and she said shit to me--are you having a laugh sasha??-WAS I THE ONLY PERSON WHO STATED AN OPINION THAT DIFFERED FROM HERS?IF THE IDIOT WANTS TO STAY WITH HER CHEATING HUSBAND THEN GOOD LUCK TO HER..ABI???LINDA that i addressed IN MY VERY FIRST COMMENT did not ask me to go wash my mouth out with soap..WHO THE HELL IS MRS FOOLISH TO DO SO?-do i look like a mug?that some idiot on the net would talk smack to and then retreat into a corner??look here,i dont know about you or anybody else,but if you bring foolishness to me,i will bring it in a triple dose to you END OF--just don't have the strength to address you--too much happening in front of me now.
@PARIS---i LOVES ya girl--u say it as it is.and you read BETWEEN the lines.when "they" were singing from the rooftops that they will condone it,it was easy,now that i asked "them" to send their husband down to me for extra marital lessons,"they" don dey fear and get hypertension.
shioooo....Girl once again--i love ya--you read deeper into what you see.
see her yapping my mum abi?--I LAUGH--if only she knew who she was dealing with--a crazy twisted bitch is what i am--and somethings just don't affect me--lol.
@ANYBODY ELSE WHO HATES MY GUTS AND THINK I AM ANNOYING..
as if I was the one who started the whole mess..AND i couldn't care less.
I TRULY AM DONE HERE--GOT A JOB TO GET BACK TO...and anybody wants to have another go at me..PLEASE FEEL FREE--i am my own boss so i got the time to play around on the net..HA HA HA HA HA..
@LINDA---PLEASE BRING UP MORE CONTROVERSIAL TOPICS---:-)
ED..A.K.A
"voltron defender of the universe"
Prior to getting married I was so sure that if my man where to cheat there is no way in hell I would stay. However after being married for 6yrs and two kids later, honestly I'm really not sure what I'll do. One thing I do know is that staying married for the kids is not a good idea. What's a woman to do, it's a tough decision.
BTW has anyone thought about if things where flipped the other way. What if it were the woman that cheated. I find it very hard to understand why most men do not forgive and decide to stay with their wives when they find out she is cheating.
Excessive Diva pls dont act like an attention seeker now. Anyway, Rahama's attention has been brought to this blog and some stuff written about her marriage in the post before. She is curious to know who you are as she does not know you by your nickname. Send her a private email/text or call her if you as close to her as you make out. If you are not, she wants you to shut up and not fan the flames of rumour mongering by some of the stuff you have said.
Ed,
You are bitter. Seriously, I am single and agree with most of what Mrs F said, although I will not stay with a guy that cheats but I know that at this junction I may just be saying that but i reserve the right to change my mind if it ever happens to me.
Remember what happened to Cheryl Cole? So please drop the vulgarity and insults, state your case and agree to disagree with Mrs F, You also need to do some soul searching, there is definitely some anger and rage there that you need to let go of. It will hold you back from so much, Men will detect the spitefulness in you, women will see the jealous rage and anger in you and ALL will avoid you.
It sounds to me like you once slept with a married man , expected him to be with you, his wife found out and disappointed you by not leaving. I may be wrong but Your rage is all over the place.
I sat here and cowered every time i read your entries. I am sure you are just doing this for fun and don't mean EVERYTHING you wrote, but honestly, the smallest bit of the anger that is in you needs to go!!!!
ED you are a potty mouth bitch but you are hilarious. I aint mad at ya though, despite it all you are 100 percent correct. they can yahn all they want married or single this is not acceptable.
thanks
married 7 yrs with chidren
linda's blog rocks.ed and mrsf giv us more.ha ha ha ha ha ha
@"RAHAMAS" MOUTH PIECE--lol lol lol...i don't need to "attach" myself and prove anything.I'M SURE YOU ARE OVER YOURSELF THAT RAHAMA COULD DEEM IT FIT TO ALLOCATE YOU THE DUTY OF HER MESSENGER..ha ha ha...I AM MUCH MUCH CLOSER THAN YOU THINK..and lets see...the point of going by a NICK NAME ON BLOGVILLE..IS SIMPLE...to protect my anon status---so sending a text to rahma and saying "hi,this is e.d"--has defeated the whole purpose...
I don't shoot blanks from my arse as some people do..AND DO YOU HONESTLY EXPECT "RAHMA" TO SAY ..YESS...THIS IS WHAT IS GOING ON??HA HA HA..GET REAL..what i AM 100% SURE OF IS WHAT I SAY.AND ONE THING I WOULD NEVER DO IS SPILL SOMEONES WHOLE LIFE STORY ON THE NET...but y'all dont wanna push me...
SO TELL "RAHMA" TO FIND YOU ANOTHER POSITION OTHER THAN A CONFUSED INTERNET MESSENGER..YOU SUCK AT IT...
@ANON 6;15---keep it moving......
F.Y.I....moi?BE STUPID ENOUGH TO HAVE AND WAIT ON A MARRIED MAN??TO MARRY ME?? BUT FOR WHY NOW??
BUAHAHAHAHAHAHA...HA HA HA..ALLOW ME A SECOND TO STEP BACK AND LAUGH REAL HARD---
the only thing YOU JUST MIGHT BE RIGHT ABOUT IS THE FACT THAT I JUST MIGHT HAVE SLEPT WITH A MARRIED MAN--BUT ED WILL NEVER EVER SIT AROUND AND WAIT FOR HIM TO PROPOSE---IT IS AT BEST AN AFFAIR--(oya the self righteous ones,start throwing stones)--YOU SLEEP TOGETHER AND YOU KEEP IT MOVING...
UNLIKE SOME,MARRIAGE DOES NOT IN ANAY WAY TRIP ME--I HAVE BEEN CLOSE AND I WALKED---
as for MRS COLE--her life is her life--if she wants to stay with a cheating doofus,so be it.as for me IT IS UNACCEPTABLE..
ANYBODY ELSE FEEL LIKE HAVING A GO????
MRS F,WHERE ARE YOU HIDING??COME OUT AND PLAY WITH ME NOW.....
ED
"attention seeker"
@ANON 1;15 A.M
ET TU BRUTE???
and pray do tell?
WHAT CHILD ARE WE TALKING ABOUT HERE??
HA HA HA NOW I KNOW WHO YOU ARE--BABES YOU GOT JOKES--AND DAMN YOU MUST HAVE A VERY DARK SOUL--SO YOU STILL BELIEVE I HAVE A CHILD IN AMERICA?DAMN??
THERE IS A NAME FOR WHAT IS AFFECTING YOU.YOU DO KNOW THAT RIGHT??
SOMETHING ALONG THE LINES OF "COMPULSIVE FANTASIST"
I KNOW YOU WISH YOU HAD MADE MORE IN YOUR HOOKER DAYS,BUT ITS NOT MY FAULT YOU JUST LET THE MEN SQUIRT ALL OVER YOU WITHOUT PAYING YOU.
REMEMBER I TOLD YOU TO SMARTEN UP,YOU REFUSED.NOW ED IS LIVING LARGE OFF THE PROCEEDS OF BEIGN A HOOKER AND YOU STILL THERE LIVING FROM PAYCHECK TO PAYCHECK--EYAAAA
YOU STILL SPREADING THE RUMORS ABOUT ME HAVING A CHILD?
WELL CHILDREN ARE A GIFT FROM GOD,AND I WILL DEFINITELY SHOW MINE OFF,IF I HAD ONE.
AT LEAST I AM NOT LIKE YOU...HAVE THE DOCTORS FOUND SOMETHING THEY CAN DO FOR YOUR SITUATION??(u know...about all the abortions making you unable to have kids again??)shhh---i wont tell if you dont tell...:-)
SHAME HOW YOU WANTED TO BE MY FRIEND AT ALL COST AND I SAID HELLS NO---WISE MOVE EH??
YOU DO AM SOTAYYYY YOU STALKED ME UNTO MY BLOGS
I CAN ALSO SEE THAT YOU WERE AN AVID READER OF MY BLOG--FUCKING STALKER---
U SEE SOME OF US ARE ADVENTUROUS--MAYBE MORE THAN MOST--SO IF THAT MAKES ME A HOOKER--HA HA---SO BE IT..AT LEAST MY "HOOKERISMS" COUPLED WITH MY FANTASTIC JOB GIVES ME A LIFE A LOSER LIKE YOU CAN ONLY DREAM OF...
.....but if you are a good little girl and you apologise..then i will introduce you to the men you asked me to.
OF COURSE I KNOW YOU,U SENT ME AN EMAIL,WHEN I HAD MY FIRST BLOG ASKING ME TO HELP YOU UPGRADE YOUR LIFE.THAT YOU WERE A SMALL TIME RUNS GIRL..AND I TOLD YOU I WASNT A PIMP OR MADAME.BUT I GAVE YOU A FEW TIPS ON GETTING WHATS YOURS FROM MEN...AND YOU TOOK OFFENCE TO IT..NOW YOU WANT TO ASSASINATE MY XTER.
WHY SO ANGRY?
YOU SENT YOUR PICTURE,I TOLD YOU THE MEN I KNOW WOULD NOT EVEN DATE YOU,BECAUSE YOU DONT CUT IT.
JUST ASK THE FEW FRIENDS I HAVE MADE ON BLOGVILLE WHAT I LOOK LIKE..GIRL I AM STUNNING--NO JOKES..SO YOU WERE BORN UGLY--I TOLD YOU ,IN MY CIRCLES U CANNOT BE ACCEPTED..AND YOU GOT MAD AT ME??
HA HA AS IF I COULD CARE LESS--KEEP THE STORIES COMING...
NA ONLY SHIT YOU FIT TALK---
I WENT TO A TORTURE GARDEN RECENTLY AND GOT SOME SHARP THINGS STUCK UP MY GOOCHY---OYA MAKE A MENTAL NOTE AND USE IT TO YAB ME NEXT TIME..
FUCKING STALKER..DELUDED PIECE OF THREE DAY OLD SPUNK...GET AWAYYYY FROM ME----I CANNOT AND WILL NOT HELP YOU MEET RICH MEN---
ERANKO JAKU JAKU.
HA HA HA
HO HO HO HO
HEE HEE HEE HEE
SO WHILE YOU THINK OF WHERE YOUR NEXT MEAL IS GONNA COME FROM SO YOU CAN FEED,I HAVE A MEETING WITH SOME AMERICAN BANKERS TO DISCUSS SOME ISSUES--AND WHO KNOWS THERE IS ONE CUTE MARRRIED ONE AMONGST THEM THAT I JUST MIGHT FUCK TONIGHT...HMMMM..NICE..
@ANON--11;57 PM--thank you for seeing the humour in my potty mouthed bitchness--
@ANON--11;02 P.M--thank you--at least someone can see that i did not start this mess oh.
ED
"GUTTER BRED HOOKER WHO LETS MEN SHIT ON HER AND STICK ANYTHING UP HER GOOCHY"
COMON, ED AND MRS F,DONT STOP.KEEP IT COMMING.WHOSE TURN,IS IT MRS F OR ED,I THINK ITS MRS F. LINDA NA U BIKO,U ARE DA BOMB,UR BLOG ROCKS.MORE CROSS FIRE FROM 'THE 2 ANGRY FEMALES'.KEEP IT COMING LADIES.
'AT LEAST MY "HOOKERISMS" COUPLED WITH MY FANTASTIC JOB GIVES ME A LIFE A LOSER LIKE YOU CAN ONLY DREAM OF...'
I wish the mother that gave birth to you would see this.I thought I was making conversation with a sane person...kai
Mrs F
this anon 11.02pm, since ED and Mrs F have refused to stop attacking each other. I have made myself the referee. This is my judgement, so far ED has won three rounds, she addressed every attacked throw her way nicely with dignity and humor. You are truly the Voltron defender of the Universe and Your "GUTTER BRED HOOKER WHO LETS MEN SHIT ON HER AND STICK ANYTHING UP HER GOOCHY" talent is no match for the married Mrs.F who cannot defend herself but acted immature by being insultive when she, herself hasn't proven that she was well brought up by her mother. Wait a minute, did I state not well brought(excuse me! I know your mother did a damn good job bringing you up but you didn't listen or heed to all she instill in you) I know most people will agreed with me that you haven't acted different from ED, you are suppose to be the married one, the one that the title Mrs. has given power to belittle the single one and the one that Mrs status has given right to know it all when it comes to issues like the infidelity in marriage. Word of advice, Mrs F focus on your family and probably find out what is missing in you that makes your husband cheats and work on it than trade words with ED that has proven that she is capable to defend herself with everything you throw her way. She is probably something you wish you could be.
To everyone that something to say this statement. I am not in anyway defending or supporting ED actions. I am only stating my opinion based on their acts.
@ ED: Honestly, i'm laughing and crying and the same time. Even my pikin wey no sabi why i dey laugh dey follow me laugh kai. When i first saw Mrs F's comment directed at you, i just thought in my mind, "oh oh big mistake, she no sabi excessive diva oh" lol. Then i started scrolling down for your reply and saw your "replies" lmao big time lol.
One thing people don't know about you is that you love those that love you and are BRUTALLY honest. Finally, anyone that dares to insult you don enter serious yawa cos you always have the last word. Whenever i remember how you sat down and answered those anons that were attacking OVNB one by one...mehn i just keep rolling with laughter. Also, all those your curses in Yoruba...lmao. Girl, i miss you oh. Abeg reopen your blog now...please? And make you no cuss anoda pessin again oh like "olodo rabata" else i go disown you oh lol.
@ Linda: I got your text girl lol. Abeg make you write notice tell ya readers say everyone dey entitled to their opinions. Don't slate another person cos their opinion differs from yours. If we all agreed on the same issue, then the world would be so boring jare.
Finally, to answer your question, no, i won't leave my husband UNTIL DEATH DO US PART. Cheating is bad, and although it isn't fair, IT IS A MAN's WORLD oh. David in the bible killed a man to take his wife and God forgave him in the end. Men can marry many wives. The list goes on and on...
I'm not a saint and had enough fun when i was single, but i PROMISED God that i'll HONOUR my marriage vows, so i can't imagine sleeping with another man even if my husband does cheat on me. It's not my husband that i'm scared of, but God's PUNISHMENT.
If i leave my husband because he cheated, i may meet another man that's even worse...and so on...the cycle may never even be broken sef. So for me, better the devil you know. I go anoint myself cover myself with the blood of Jesus make STDs no go find us abi...AMEN. Lol it is very well oh.
Stay cool y'all
xxxxxx
MRS F--i think you need to give up.ED has won this battle hands down.When we trace it back,you started it now madam.And anybody that would know ED history on blogville will know that a lot of things she says is very tongue in cheek.And you must have issues to take her too seriously.(NO OFFENCE)
I have a feeling and from back in the days when she (ED)had a blog that a lot of naija girls posing as anons had a problem with her due to the type of lifestyle she lives.This was evident in the blasting she always gave the anons.
ED,i really think you need to chill.Some of us know and understand that you are a potty mouth bitch with no apologies to render to anybody.You do it with humor,but most people cannot see through that,hence all this aggravation.You are a grown women,you need to shed this "throwdown at the drop of a dime attitude".You will be surprised that i know who you are.Which is why i can reason with you a bit.Don't be known for been a fighter 24/7.its unladylike.And if your upbringing is what i know it to be,then you need to retrace your steps and go back there.You are a loose cannon.You have had the best in life,a background that most will kill for,don't put that to the dogs over a silly internet argument.A few of us see that MRS F should not have picked on you in the first instance.But she did,you dug into her ferociously,NOW LET GO.
If you doubt that i know you,ask your friend in Geneva about jamillah.
ANON WHO QUESTIONED EDS "RELATIONSHIP" TO RAHAMA.i am not here to open up anybodys family secrets.But if ED is the same person i have heard been spoken about,then she is truly thisclose to the babangidas.
to everybody else,please let us stop encouraging these women to tear themselves down.
this is disgraceful
Jamillah Sanni
KAIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIII
ED..u need deliverance
awusubilai.God forbid i enter a yabbing dispute with u.
MRS F...100-0.madamn,just leave it.u cnt win this one.that girl is crazy.like a rotweiler on crack.
Linda,see wat u caused.??
Simisola
Mrs F--i am amazed that you CANNOT see or read that ED is taking you for a ride.
MRS FOOLISH---U AGAIN??
U AGAIN??
ABEGIIII
WHEN WERE "WE" HAVING A CONVERSATION??
ABI ORI E TI DARU NI??
AT WHAT POINT DID YOU INITIATE A CONVERSATION WITH ME...
YOU THIS AYAMATANGA
TELL ME...FOOLISH WOMAN..YOUR EYE DON COME DOWN NOW ABI??
YOU WANT TO TAKE STYLE TO LIE(PINOCHIOOOOO)THAT YOU WERE HAVING A CONVERSATION WITH ME.
SO YOU INITITATE A CONVERSATION WITH SOMEONE IN YOUR VILLAGE BY FIRST OF ALL TELLING THEM TO WASH THEIR MOUTH OUT WITH SOAP CONSIDERING THEY WERE NOT EVEN TALKING TO YOU IN THE FIRST PLACE.
ARA E O YA FOR REALS...
I THINK MR.F HASN'T PERFORMED HIS DUTY IN A WHILE...ALL THAT CLOGGED UP PUSSY JUICE IS GOING TO YOUR BRAIN AND AFFECTING YOU.
ONIRANU...ENU E BI OBO MALU.
MENNNN..FUCK OFFFFF...
AKUNA KUNA...OGBANJE..DONT U EVEN HAVE ANYTHING TO DO?OLE,ONIJEKUJE.
U KNOW,THINGS MARRIED PEOPLE DO?OOPSSS..I MEAN THINGS MARRIED PEOPLE WHOSE HUSBANDS ABANDON THEM AT HOME TO CHASE SEXY TUTUPEPES DO???LIKE BRING OUT YOUR BIBLE AND GET ON YOUR FUKING KNEES AND PRAY TO GOD TO BRING MR.F BACK HOME TO U???
BY THE TIME I AM DONE WITH YOU..
YOU WILL BOW DOWN AND RESPECT ME BITCHHH!!!!!--OR RUN AWAY--ONE OF US WILL FADE OFF THIS TOPIC BEFORE THE OTHER AND IT WILL NOT BE ME.
SO IF ANYBODY FOOLS YOU AND TELLS YOU TO PLAY THE "BIG PART" AND QUIT,OLOSHI,YOU STILL AINT NO HERO.
AND I'M STILL WAITING FOR YOUR HUSBANDS DETAILS---
**P.S***--IF MY MAMA SHOULD SEE WHAT I AM WRITING KE??SAY WETING HAPPEN?WHAT AM I??MENTALLY CHALLENGED??I NEED MY MUMS APPROVAL TO DO MY SHIT??
HUN,MY MUM HAS DONE HER BEST---I CHOOSE TO BE WHO I WANNA BE--SHOVE IT OR LUMP IT,I DONT GIVE A FUCK--SO IF YOU LIKE TALK ABOUT MY MAMA FROM NOW TILL THY KINGDOM COME,I CANNOT FIGHT OVER THAT BECAUSE ITS ONLINE--BUT IF I WERE TO MEET YOU FACE TO FACE---I DARE YOU TO SAY THAT TO MY FACE--
WA GBA PE OTI PE TI AYE TIN LA PATTERN SI IDI
MA NA,MA NA,BASTARD SI E LARA---I WILL BULALA MY MUMS NAME OUTTA YOUR MOUTH,MR.F SEF WILL SEE U AND COME BACK AND THANK ME---SILLY LITTLE GIRL
NOW PLEASE TELL ME HOW LONG IS YOUR HUSBANDS COCK??SO I CAN SEE IF IT WILL FIT MY REQUIREMENTS???
:-)
ED...
"CALL ME WHATEVER YOU WANNA"
WOW,AMAZING HOW MY YORUBA HAS IMPROVED DEALING WITH ENTITIES LIKE MRS FOOLISH AND CO.
LORD I JUST WANT TO THANK YOU FOR BLOGVILLE,AND MOST ESPECIALLY FOR LINDA IKEJI FOR THIS BEAUTIFUL TOPIC SHE RAISED.LORD PLEASE GIVE LINDA MORE WISDOM AND INITIATIVE TO COME UP WITH MORE HOT,FLAMING AND CONTROVERSIAL TOPICS.SO I CAN GET ON THE NERVES OF PEOPLE LIKE MRS F WHO FEEL IT IS RIGHT TO TALK SMACK ABOUT INNOCENT PEOPLE LIKE ME.
AMEN.
And Lord an Angel told me that MR.F'S DICK IS JUST 1 INCH LONG.I WANT TO BELIEVE ITS NOT TRUE,SO PLEASE TOUCH MRS F'S HEART SO SHE CAN SEND ME THE MEMO ON HOW LONG MR F'S DICK IS.I HAVE PLANS FOR IT.
THANK YOU LORD FOR ALWAYS ANSWERING MY PRAYERS.
I LOVE YOU.
YOUR DAUGHTER
ED
ED
you are a sick twisted bitch.but i find myself loving you.
MRS F
please let it end.please.
So who won the fight? lol
This has been a interesting read. Chineke biko take away cheating husbands/ husbands to be from our sight so that they don't find us. Amen.
Thanks Excessive Diva for ur comments about being a messenger. I am not here to trade insults with u, My name is Zara and Rahama is a relative of mine. I have nothing to prove but you probably dont know her as you cant even spell her name right and you write like you dont really know anything about our family.
You are getting me wrong- I am not asking you to spill any beans. I dont need any information from you. My plea is simple - it is a difficult time but pls dont add to it by saying untruths.
Excessive diva, I hail you, you spin tales more than a spider spins webs, but here's the deal; This is your modus operandi when you get into a word match;
1. You abuse peoples’ mothers and fathers and spin tales to include your sexual depravity.
2. You talk of how rich you are.
3. You talk of how every body wants to become a call girl. Is that a career? I guess for people like you, who managed to escape Mushin, you have arrived abi?
I actually feel sorry for you, you are a prostitute, you have a bastard for a man who found out about your life and left you,(pretty woman is a movie for a reason, guess you had to find out the hard way, after trying to force his hand with pregnancy) he now has custody cos he got fed up with the neglect you were putting your child through. Answer why the man came to carry his child from you and then relocate to America? Did they not find you coked out of your mind and hiding under stairs while your child went without food for 4 days?
All this anger, put it to good use and get your life on track, you've started using again not so?
You already look way older than your age, continue spreading those legs for depraved men, hehehe; it is catching up to you not so?
Sorry eh, I know the truth is painful but I am doing this for your own good, since when did prostitution become a glamorous life?
Play of words; I dare you to deny your daughter, come back and deny your 7 year old daughter straight up. See guilty conscience.
You always make a lot of noise about having a great job and making a lot of money from prostitution, cover yourself with the most expensive perfume, you still smell putrid.
A prostitute is a prostitute is a prostitute. You are still beaten up, demeaned the same way, maybe more so, cos your johns are really some of the sickest mofos, plus you, you have gone soo far you think it is cool to have anal orgies with men you do not know, have orgies with bi-sexual men, have orgies with animals and men (by your own admission) have men shit in your mouth to get their cheap thrills, infect you with Hepatitis A and E, (by your own admission).
Is there anyone who will save this woman from herself? So you have Nigerian friends on Blogville? Because they are straight up taking the piss every time they egg you on.
You show up in Lagos, London “big girl”, men pass your stats as the go to girl for the most depraved sexual kinks. Shame on you. You come on line and blast people with “names”, you should know, they procure you for their circle of kinks and you are pissed off that they will not acknowledge you in the light of day. That you allow men to do sick things to your body will never put you on their level or their circle.
Kisses.
P.S. How is that hemorrhoid? I hear Preparation H helps.
Linda, Linda, I am having a lot of fun, as i'm sure you are too. This blog is on fire.
@ ED
This is getting too much from u. pls now tone it down. be d bigger person and dnt reply.
pls abeg.
@ANON 6;27 A.M..
HA HA HA HA HA ..HA HA HA
OH MY GOOOD GAWDDDDDD...
GIRL???
IS THAT REALLY THE BEST YOU CAN DO??
LIKE KINDERGARTEN YAPPS??
I THOUGHT YOU WERE GOING TO COME BACK WITH "DARKER" SECRETS TO EXPOSE??SINCE "we" KNOW OURSELVES SO WELL...
WHATS ALL THIS ED HAS A CHILD??ED IS A PROSTITUTE???
HUHN...HA HA HA HA
I KNOW WHO YOU ARE AS I SAID....
AND I KNOW WHY YOU ARE ON A PERSONAL VENGEANCE...
AND I STILL MAINTAIN..ITS NOT MY FAULT THAT THE TYPE OF PEOPLE I MOVE WITH WOULD NOT FIND SOMEONE LIKE YOU ATTRACTIVE ETC.
GIRL GET A CLUE NOW,ITS NOT BY FORCE.
YOU FOLLOW ME ROUND BLOGVILLE LIKE A FUCKING DISEASE...WAITING EXCITEDLY TO"SPILL" MY SO CALLED SECRETS THAT EXIST IN YOUR HEAD...
BUT YOU FORGET ONE VITAL FACTOR--IF I HAVE BLOGGED ABOUT HAVING HARDCORE SEX,GETTING SHAT ON ETC..IT AINT A SECRET ANYMORE...ITS NOT NEW...I FIND IT STALE...I HAVE ALREADY GIVEN YOU NEW THINGS TO WROK IT,SO CAN YOU GO AWAY AND GO AND RE-FOMULATE THE GIST SO AS TO COME BACK AND "SPIN" FOR YOUR AUDIENCE..
FEELING COOL ABI??
YOU WANT SOMEONE TO PAT YOU ON THE BACK AND SAY YIFUCKINGPEEDOO..."SHE TOOK ON ED"
ANU E SHE MI SERIOUSLY....
WHEREVER YOU ARE JUST BE THANKING THAT BABA YOU WORSHIP IN THE LITTLE SHRINE SET UP IN YOUR BEDROOM...SHITTT DID I SAY SOMETHING??DAMN,I'M SORRY I DIDN'T MEAN TO SPILL AGAIN ABOUT HOW YOU TOLD ME THAT YOU USE JAZZ ON MEN TO TRY AND HOOK THEM BUT IT DOESNT WORK.
MY DEAR,I'M SORRY THE FORCED FRIENDSHIP DID NOT WORK OUT,I'M SORRY I COULDNT HELP YOU GET A LEG UP IN "SOCIETY"
BUT YOU SEE ITS NOT MY FAULT THAT I WAS BORN INTO THE FAMILY I WAS BORN INTO.ITS NOT MY FAULT I AM RICH..INFACT SUPER LOADED...ITS JUST NOT MY FAULT...GET OVER IT..ALL FINGERS ARE NOT EQUAL..HOW DO YOU EXPECT ME TO TALK ABOUT WHAT I KNOW NOTHING OF??
THE LIFE OF THE POOR(PEOPLE LIKE YOU??)DOES IT MAKE SENSE DARLING??
WOW...YOU ARE A TRUE FAN---TRAILING MY "HISTORY" ON THE NET..DID U GET A PEN AND PAPER TO DETAIL MY TACTICS??
AND WERE YOU FROTHING AT THE MOUTH LIKE A RABID BITCH THAT YOU ARE??THINKING YOU HAD DISCOVERED SOMETHING??
UNEARTHED A SECRET??
YOUR CONTEMPORARIES(MOI--HEE HEE HEE)ARE DOING BIG THINGS FOR THEMSELVES,DISCUSSING MIND BOGGLING ISSUES ETC,YOU ARE RUNNING ROUND BLOGVILLE LIKE A GOAT WITH NO ROPE ROUND ITS NECK,DOCUMENTING MY "STYLE"
YOU ARE A TRUE STAN.."MY TEARS GONE COLD I'M WONDERING WHYYYY...GOT OUT OF BED AT ALL..MORNING RAIN CLOUDS UP MY..." OYAAA SING YOUR ANTHEM...
AND YOU KNOW WHAT THE SAY ABOUT STALKERS/STANS....THEY GET VERY ANGRY WHEN THE SOURCE OF THEIR AFFECTION IGNORES THEM...
AND PLEASE ASHEWOLETTE....DO YOU READ AT ALL?? I INSULT PEOPLES PARENTS??HA HA HA HA HA ...YOU GOTTHE WRONG BITCH---ADDRESS MRS FOOLISH WITH THAT ACCUSATION.
MAKE MONEY FROM PROSTITUTION KE???
HA HA HA HA
HO HO HO...LITTLE GIRLS BE WANTING TO PLAY BIG GIRL GAMES...
I LEAVE ASKING FOR MONEY TO THE YOUNG ONES LIKE YOU...
OWO O LE JO MI LOJU...
I CALL IT AS IT IS...
IF AND WHEN IM GETTING PAID FOR MY "HOOKER" WAYS,,,,I'M DEMANDING AND GETTING THINGS THAT THE MEASLY CENTS YOU ASK FOR CAN NEVER COVER IN A MILLION YEARS AND TEN LIFETIMES PLUS 20 GENERATIONS....
SO PLEASE EHN...TRY AND COME UP WITH SOMETHING WORSE,DIRTIER,SEEDIER...SOMETHING WITH THAT
"OH MY FUKING DAYS DID SHE REALLY DO THAT"
EVERY BORING THING YOU SPILLED ON HERE HAS BEEN HEARD FROM THE HORSES MOUTH.
F.Y.I
I LOVEEEEE BEEN CALLED A PROSTITUTE ESPECIALLY WHEN LIKE ONE GUY HAS HIS DICK UP MY ARSE,ANOTHER IN MY GOOCHY,ANOTHER IN MY MOUTH AND TWO IN MY EARS...OOHHHHH LALLLAAAAAA
OYA COME BACK AND "GIVE IT"TO ME....ABUNU.
I'M SURE YOU ARE FEELING ON FIYAHHH,MAYBE WITH A FEW FRIENDS SITTING ROUND YOU ABI,DASHING YOU POINTS,WITH YOUR NOSTRILS FLARING AND BLOOD PRESSURE RISING EVERYTIME YOU GET UNTO LINDAS BLOG TO SEE IF I HAVE REPLIED YOU ABI??
HA HA DONT WORRY,I WAS LIKE THAT IN MY EARLY BLOGGER DAYS...SO I KNOW HOW YOU FEEL.
NO MATTER HOW FAR YOU WANT TO THROW IT---I STILL INSIST...THE PERSON YOU ASKED ME TO INTRODUCE YOU TO SAID HE DOES NOT DATE CHAVS/BORDERLINE WALKING STD'S.
HAEMORRHOID??
NO IT SHOULD BE AIDS.....
PLEASE COME BACK...I FINISH MY FANTASTIC HIGH PAYING HIGH FLYING JOB IN AN HOUR,,GO TO THE SALON TO GET MY HIGHLIGHTS IN MY THOUSAND POUND EXTENSIONS BRIGHTENED,FILL MY NAILS OUT,,THEN WILL GO TO MY LOVELY HOME(BOUGHT CASH DOWN OF COURSE--MUAHAHHAHAHH..MUAHAHAHHAHA)---OF COURSE I'M DRIVING MY NEWLY ACQUIRED CAR OF COURSE...AND FURNISHING PAID FOR BY ONE OF MY LOVERS-RELAX IN MY CUSTOM BUILT MINI SAUNA....
ORDER MY HOUSEKEEPER TO RUSTLE SOMETHING LIGHT FOR TEA,,,,,SORT SOME THINGS CONCERNING THE FINANCIAL MARKETS OUT IN PREPARATION FOR TOMORROW..AND THEN COME BACK AND ATTEND TO YOU.
DO YOU KNOW WHAT IT FEELS LIKE TO BE ME??TO BE SO PAID??AND RICH??DAMN....MONEY FROM ALL ANGLES--FROM MY PROSITUTION,FROM MY JOB,FROM MY INHERITANCE AND FROM MY DADDY...DAMN,I'M A LUCKY LITTLE PRINCESS WHO NEVER HAS TO WORRY ABOUT ANYTHING.....HMMMMM...LIFE IS BEAUTIFUL.
EVEN THINKING OF DROPPING A FEW GRAND TO GET MY SKIN LASERED---U KNOW(wink wink)SINCE I AM BEGINNING TO LOOK "OLD" I NEED TO FRESHEN UP SHARP SHARP...COMPETITION IN THE WORLD OF HIGH FLYING HOOKERS IS HIGH O....
BUT YOU WOULDNT KNOW WHAT I AM TALKING ABOUT SINCE YOU SLEEP WITH EX CONS,LOCAL CHAMPIONS,JAGUDAS ET AL...
SO I AM GIVING YOU A HEAD START OF SAY....4 HOURS TO GO AND RUN ROUND BLOGVILLE LOOKING FOR MY MODUS OPERANDI THAT EXISTS IN YOUR HEAD AND COME AND SPILL IT.IF YOU NEED A DRAFT OF MY OLD BLOGS TO FURTHER SUBSTANTIATE YOUR STORIES PLEASE LET ME KNOW,WILL BE HAPPY TO OBLIGE YOU.
GO TO LAGOS KE??
I'M SORRY BUT MY "RUNS" ARE STRICTLY INTERNATIONAL...LONDON,MONACO,
GENEVA,DUBAI,JAPAN,...U GET MY DRIFT...INTERNATIONAL PUSSY ONE TIME..I DONT DO LOCAL--I LEAVE THAT TO THE UPSTARTS LIKE YOU.
AND PLEASE CAN YOU PROVIDE A PICTURE OF THIS DAUGHTER OF MINE?AND MY BABY FATHER?
STRANGE AS I DONT SEEM TO KNOW THEM---AHHH...
MAYBE I WAS TOO COKED OUT OF MY HEAD TO REMEMBER WHEN I CARRIED A CHILD FOR NINE MONTHS AND BIRTHED HIM/HER???
IF THE BABY FATHER PICTURE YOU PROVIDE IS CUTE ,I WOULDN'T MIND DOING HIM.....
:-)
@RAHMAS COUSIN---I STILL INSIST THAT I DO NOT EXPECT ANY OF YOU TO COME UP HERE AND CONFIRM ANYTHING---WOULD THAT NOT BE FOOLISH OF YOU??..AND I DELIBERATELY SPELL HER NAME LIKE THAT.BECAUSE I CANNOT BE BOTHERED WITH EXTRA A'S OR ANYTHING OF THAT NATURE...I SAY TOMATO YOU SAY???
ED
:-)
LINDA I LOVE YOU FOR NOT SHUTTING THIS POST DOWN...
@ANON 10:37 AM..my dear,i understand what you are trying to say,but for real,that bitch stepped on my damn toe.And i dont mind playing a little bit more.
but thanks for your suggestion though,i wish at this stage i was level headed enough to heed your advice.but i am too far gone.i just LOVE people looking for my trouble.
have a nice day
:-)
ED
ED,IS IT TRUE?READ ALL WHAT @ANON 6:27AM WROTE.JEZUUUUUUUS EXPECIALLY THE PART OF YOU HAVING HEMORRHOID(PILE).EYAAAA,ANAL SEX IS BAD O,SORRY MY DEAR.ALSO APART FROM PREPARATION H,TRY ANUSOIL AND INSERTING DUCOLAX.SORRY MY DEAR IT CAN BE REAL PAINFUL.AND I HEARD U NOW LOOK OLDER THAN UR AGE DUE TO EXCESSIVE SEX,MAYBE YOU SHOULD CHANGE YOUR NAME TO ES INSTEAD OF ED.ANYWAY,SORRY,YOU MUST REALLY BE A PITIABLE SIGHT NOW.
AS FOR MRS F,DONT GIVE UP,THROW YOUR WEAPONS AT HER.FORGET ES SORRY ED RANTINGS.LINDA YOU ARE DA BOMB.YOU SEE WHY YOUR BLOG IS D BEST
PEJU(AN INCORRUPTIBLE,INDEPENDENT JUDGE)
ewoooo
who asked about the winner?
it IS finished.ED has taking the crown hook line and sinker.
ED i respect you.Most people would have cowered under attack from different angles,yet you kept going.
You are hilarious.
@Anon 6;27 am.no offence but you are dry and you are not letting us into anything new.
Anon 2000
@CALLY-WAFFY BABE--HEYYY BABESS WASSUPPP...
SEE ME SEE WAHALA O...
AMAZING HOW SOME PEOPLE GET THEIR KNICKERS IN A TWIST OVER MY SWEET HUMBLE SELF....;-)
BUAHAHAHAH
THAT BLOG IS COMING BACK SWEETY---BUT YOU KNOW ME--I HATE TO DELIVER IN HALF MEASURES..ITS COMING BACK DIRTIEERRRRRR...SO MY STANS/FANS AND STALKERS..cough..cough..(U KNOW WHO)--can have something to slit their wrists over..
ED DONT PLAY..
@ANON THE REFEREE--lol..you are a trip,i know you are not defending me,but i appreciate that you are one of the sane few that can see things from different angles.BUT YOU SAID IT AS IT IS.
ED..
@ ED,READ ZARA'S COMMENTS.ITS A SHAME ON YOU.BURY YOUR HEAD IN SHAME,SLUT OR WHAT DO YOU HAVE TO SAY TO HER,LIAR.THEN GO DOWN TO THE ANON 6:27 COMMENTS THEN DENY THE 7YR OLD DAUGHTER STORY.GOING WITHOUT FOOD FOR 4 DAYS,WOW,YOU ARE A WICKED SLUT.PEOPLE KNOW YOU.EVEN IF YOU WILL NOT ACCEPT IT,BUT DEEP DOWN IN YOUR HEART,YOU KNOW THIS YOUR WAYWARD LIFE WILL EVENTUALLY LEAD YOU TO EARLY GRAVE.ALREADY,YOU LOOK OLDER THAN YOUR AGE.SIGN THAT YOU ARE GRADUALLY FADING AWAY.REPENT OR PERISH IN THE HOTTEST PART OF HELL
BATTLE ROYALE
WOW,WHERE IS MRS F.I SAID IT, THIS BLOG ROCKS.LINDA I REPEAT,NA U BIKO.MEANWHILE SOME PEOPLE SEEMS TO BE HITTING AT ED BAAAAD.WELL,THEY MAYBE MRS F'S DEFENDERS.ED'S PROTECTORS WHERE ARE U GUYS.THE BATTLE HAS LONG STARTED O.DIFFICULT TO SAY WHO IS IN THE LEAD.MAYBE AFTER 2 MORE DAYS.
AND TO MRS F AND ED,NUMBER 1 GOLDEN RULE IS THAT WHEN QUESTIONS ARE THROWN AT YOU,PLS DEFEND YOURSELF.MAKES IT MORE INTERESTING.LINDA I TELL YOU,THIS TOPIC WILL WIN THE AWARD AS THE TOPIC WITH THE HIGHEST NUMBER OF COMMENTS.WAY TO GO,KEEP IT COMMING 'ANGRY LADIES'
@ANON 6;27 am.
and the moral of your story is?
you seem to be mrs f mouthpiece seeing as she has gone into hiding.
but you are doing a very weak job at it.
i am amazed as someone else mentioned that you would not see that ED is a cheeky little cow.you in all this are potraying yourself as angry at something ED might or might not have done to you.LET IT GO.
You so deviated from the topic to bring in musty old news from past occurences.nobody cares.u might find it difficult to believe but as cally waffy babe said,some of us love ED for who she is.she SOLELY stood up to anons who tried OWNB,and brought them down one by one,when everybody else was sitting by enjoying the show.If nothing else that says a lot about her.and some of us will always look at her in that light,no matter how ugly a picture you want to paint her to the world.we love her blog,yaps,humor,adventure,scrapes she gets into.
what has everything you said,got to do with her issue with mrs f?
you are the one coming across as angry and bitter or maybe a tad bit jealous because a young black woman has the guts to go out there and do her irrespective of what the world thinks.
ED represents a tiny bit of each of us,that bit that atimes wants to say fuck you to the world,that bit that wants to just live and live.dont be mad that she is who she is.
stay on course and quit telling us all this daughter stories.i am sure if brutally honest as she is,she has a kid,the whole of blogville and then some would know.
if a woman can say she got shat on via sexual games,what exactly tops that again?
check yourself anon,you are suspect.
ED..
please,let it go.please.
all you jokers need to leave ED alone.
she has taken all of you on one by one in the funniest way,yet you are all still coming back for more.
y'all must be suckers for punishment.
@anon 6;27 am
girl nobody really cares what you have to say.
you are not as funny as ED.
Na wa for wire road, see gists! I wonder if the same people encouraging ED will invite her over for dinner with their husbands. Cally, shebi you love her, invite her over now.
@ cunni 4 real and others
i swear it is pple like u who stoke d fire of madness. how can y'all be encouraging ED.
instead of y'all to come here and ask for them to stop this u come here and ask who has won d fight.
d lot of u should be ashamed of yourselves.
when u become mothers is this how u will encourage pple who are fighting to keep it up.
@ ED
i am the anon who has begged u 3 times now to stop.pls. this pple who are egging u on are just doing it to see what next u will come up with so they can laugh.
i know u don't care but i find this whole thing worrying.
leave it alone abeg u my sister. abeg. kisses darling pls ehn.
everybody is claiming they know ED and she claims she know the stalker but neither wants to reveal the other's identity.
Is it b'cos u fear u might be wrong? If not, reveal these pple's ID so we can all know them cos indeed, I am intrigued by the lifestyle that ED claim she is living.
this anon the referee, I am loving all this rages. Linda Ikeji, you definitely rock. For those ED haters or whatever you choose to call yourselves, please back down, you are all no match for the Queen of smackdown ED.
ED, you once again proving that you are worthy of the fearless title "The Smackdown Champ". Can I hire you, wait a minute! I can't afford you but I need you to help me use your smackdown attitude to silents some fools who are meddling into my affairs.Let me know when you can start the job.
On a serious note: Can all these people that have beef with ED for whatever reason state their argument in a better way than result into childish ways especially when you all know that ED is the type of lady that will fearlessly state her answer to your childish ways in a more provoking manner to make you more angry or bitter (am not sure which is the right word to use as I can't really tell if you are angry or bitter)Why don't you all give up or just state your anger in a more civilize way and I am sure by judging from the way ED answer people, she will response back in a civil way.
This is for ED, I don't know you and I doubt if I will never know who you are; but you exhibited that you know who you are and no one can't break you down with words. Sometime in life, silence is golden. Learn to be the best you can be and stay true to yourself. Keep shining the "Smackdown Champ". In my book you are truly fearless.
Ed,
If you are as fearless as you are claiming you are, REVEAL who you are to all on this blog. you don't mess abi? You are a big chick abi? you are rahama's family friend abi?
Better still meet me in 02 on finchley road tomorrow at 9pm, and Lets see if I don't beat the living day light out of you!!
If you are scared to reveal yourself, meet me tomorrow in front of habitat 02 on finchley Road 9pm SHARP, don't be late!! No excuses no bravado. See you there.
the whole of this blog is invited, some one needs to teach this BITCH a lesson.
Mehn Linda, i don't know which post takes the crown anymore- this or your anal sex post last year??? I have headache from excessive laughing kai.
I won't lie o i like ED cos she's crazy arse funny mehn and livens up blogville. I ain't here to judge anyone, so all those prostitution or whatever stories just slide by me. If Jesus could forgive prostitutes in the bible, then who am i to slate anyone? Let he who is without sin cast the first stone. I enjoy the way she describes events and cusses out in yoruba. Abeg free her o shoo lol.
Truth is, Mrs F threw the first punch at her but that's just the way ED is. She says it as it is. If you know her, you'd love her. She's not really the way people think she is. She has her moments when she's really busy and stays away for a while. But when she comes back out like now and has a l'il time to spare for drama, na with falons and all lol. She is prolly sitting and laughing at every comment as she reads them and replies. She REALLY doesn't mean them. She's just playin with y'all, so don't take it seriously. That's just the way she is.Like i said, everyone is entitled to their opinions so people that think differently shouldn't be slated like she was.
Finally, i don't believe ED has a child cos if she did, she'd have said so herself. She has talked about crazier stuff on her blog, so she won't hide having a child. She has also talked about loving children to bits, so i'm pretty sure she'd have mentioned it if she had a child. Abeg y'all should see the humour in all this and not take it personal.
Linda hun, i'll hola when i've recovered from all the laughter. You never send me the thingy o...
Hugs
xxx
P.S.
To the person that asked where all ED's supporters are, calabargal is also on her way to back me up. Many people love ED beli that girl...lol
@PEJU and ANON 4;55 PM----its called BORDERLINE PERSONALITY DOSORDER FOR A REASON---YOU NEED TO TALK TO SOMEONE--CUS YOU ARE "SPECIAL" FOR REAL.--YOU DO NOT INTEREST ME IN THE SLIGHTEST WAY--GROW A MIND OF OUR OWN,JEKYLL??OR HYDE??AND STOP RELYING ON OTHER FOOLISH ANONS AND MRS F'S AND ZARAS WORDS TO MAKE UP YOUR COMMENTS.
@CUNNI--ABEGII O...I DONT REMEMBER ANYBODY ASKING ME QUESTIONS...JUST THROWING RIDICULOUS ACCUSATIONS MY WAY..AND I WILL GIVE THEM RIDICULOUS ANSWERS--HITTING AT MOI??ha ha-PLEASE LET THEM KEEP IT COMING--ED does not NEED anybody to fight for her o.FAR FROM IT.
Ed
@ANON/PEJU/U KNOW WHO YOU ARE...
I DONT MIND HELL,AS I ALWAYS SAY..SO LONG AS I AM ALLOWED A BAD ASS COUTURE DRESS AND KILLER BLAHNIKS I WILL GLADLY SIT IN HELL,OH WITH MY VACHERON OF COURSE,I LIKE TO KEEP TIME....
AT LEAST I'LL BE LOOKING FABULOUS IN HELL....
WHAT ABOUT YOU??
ED
@Cunni
are we reading the same blog comment?
ED has ripped this people new sets of arseholes one by one.
i just find it funny that people who take the stance of ED haters cannot see that she is taking them for a ride.as someone rightly said earlier.it IS amazing.makes them all look like fools i.m.h.o.
you can see that they are seething with so much rage and hate and ED is obviously having a laugh at their expense.
"i have a blog but i am too scared to leave my name"
DAMNNNNNNNNN
I go away for a few days and THIS?
oh my oh my.
ED-here is the crown-you are the unofficial QUEEN BITCH of blogville.You fight dirty.very dirty.NOW please let it go.yes we all know you have a potty mouth,you can yap,you don't take shit,you dont play.BUT you don't need to prove it any second longer.
you are a nasty bitch-some love you,some hate you.in it all you dont give a fuck.so now we get the story.please take a break off lindas blog for a week.
MRS F-you asked for it.you had no right telling her to wash her mouth out with soap.and as someone mentioned,you need to be focused on the real WHY as to you getting worked up on a single crazy woman with an alternative lifestyle commenting on a topic that was truely open to all.
Looking to posts before ED posts in the beginning,the first anon said the same thing,BUT ED in her usual way was extra passionate about it.This goes beyond this post.i have a feeling you are one of the anons who read ED blog and hated her for her lifestyle.
ANON TALKING ABOUT A KID AND BABY FATHER-i hate to burst your bubble but you don't make damn sense.you come across as you have been itching for an opportunity to make all these accusations.but you forget you are been made a fool of by someone who is utilising you to catch her online trips.because if you are as intelligent as you want to come across,you will see that ED writes stuff in response to you and others in a ridiculous way to make you all look foolish.YET you keep falling for it.dont try and take up position as PATRON SAINTS OF THE MORALLY UPRIGHT,truth is you could be WORSE than ED herself,but maybe you just keep your adventures close to your heart.
no offence of course.
CUNI;i think ED is the last person who needs defenders.that child is a fighter.
PEJU;if i didnt know better i would say you were anon and cuni.but i dont want to make wild guesses.you just come across as another angry "let me get my long hidden views about ED" out in this opportunity.
makes you come across as even uglier than you want us to believe ED is.
LINDA;i don't know if you are doing this because you are looking for much loved comments,but you need to shut the comments down.this is disgraceful,you own this blog,what are you really doing/gaining from it all??
My 2 pence
@PEJU-funny how you seem to know so much about ANAL REMEDIES??
HMMM....SEE HOW YOU EXPOSED YOUR FOOLISHNESS--SO YOU TAKE IT UP THE SHIT PIPE TOO??AND YOU HAVE HAD YOUR HOLE TORN A COUPLA TIMES---
HUN,WHEN THEY ARE TEARING AT YOU FROM BEHIND---LUBRICATE LUBRICATE LUBRICATE--IT SAVES A LOT OF HASSLE--DONT AND I REPEAT DONT LET ANYBODY USE SALIVA ON YOUR HOLE OH..IT DRIES UP TOO FAST AND THEN YOU WILL BE NEEDING ALL THOSE REMEDIES YOU SPOKE SO PASSIONATELY ABOUT....anal sex is sweet isn't it peju/anon/.......:-)
ED
Now THATS what i'm talking about.
ED-nuff respect,PLEASE show those bitches how its done.show those self righteous mo'fo's how its done.said,done AND dusted.
funny how naija girls are so quick to tear another girl they see as "bad" down,when if we search deep into their closets,they are even worse off.yess,THAT ANON,i'm talking to you.
Mrs F you felt your married status conferred some type of exclusive honor unto you to make you attack someone giving her opinion.ED made you BOW.
all other tatafos joining mouth,ED made you eat her shit.
NOW i SAID thats WHAT i'm talking about.
ED,u make LIL KIM look like a saint.complete with halo and a set of blinged out wings.or is that an angel?
BOW DOWN BITCHES,THE QUEEN DIVA RULES.
ED's number one admirer.
@CUNI-it is oh so obvious you are peju/anon.
technology IS a bitch isn't she?
ED ROCKSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSS
ED'S numero uno fan.
@Anon 5;15 pm.
i think you said it all.
it bothers me how the ED haters cannot see that she is on a mischief trail and stringing them along.Makes them look like the damn fool.
Simibabes
ED=BITCH
Excessive Diva,let it go.just LET IT GO.
Linda,i don't believe in the quest for garnering comments you let this go on for too long.
OH MARY MOTHER OF XIST.
my eyes have been violated.where did i keep that holy water?
oya ED,delivrance time.WHERE do you get the things you say from?
**opens mouth in shock**
**sprinkles ED with holy water**
you have the funniest yaps.
kai,no insult but you are a she devil
a scared anon.**shivers**
ENU E BI OBO MALU=CLASSIC
MRS F,please go and sit down somewhere,as someone said,you tried to take a "moral high ground" not knowing who you were dealing with.in the process you showed who you truly are.
You went far at first insulting ED's background.I suppose its okay if your kids get into squabbles and someone insults you.
In case nobody informed you,what you said is a classic sign of a local upbringing.If you want to yap ED,yap her as she did you.Not talking or making references to her mum.
ED,e don do jo.FREE THEM.
An ex-blogger
CUNNI-you is a fool for real.it's so obvious you are the same as peju/anon.
how low can you sink in trying to run ED down?
desperate move.let it go.she ripped your friends various arse-holes.you guys cannot win.when one person takes on so many people without flinching.babes,they can only be called one word-LOSERS.
why you had to come as various people beats me,and then u dnt realise,you "sound" the same.these things are easy to pick up even via the net.
Simibabes-and i dnt have anything else to say to you.
do all ED haters REALLY belive that rahama and her family will come online and say what is or what isn't?
it's like asking moji obasanjo to say truly her father slept with her on the net because she is attempting to dispute something.
Let us think deeper now.please.
A lot of times ED has said something about happenstances in naija circles,some have confirmed it to be true or some of us have even heard it to be true later.
Why all the hate towards her?
as some anon said,she obviously represents something in all of you that you wish you could be.
you can all come back and say "how can i hate a hooker"
"how can i want to be like her"
but your venom filled rants speak otherwise.she writes with fun/humour.
you haters write as if you truly MEAN what you are saying.
says a lot about you doesn't it?
and funny how if you are not all in the "game" together,you are acting as if she denyed you something.
if i were to pick sides,i would unashamedly deflect to ED.even in all her nastyness and madness and "slutyy" ways,there is still something real and sweet and genuine about her.
much of which cannot be said about most of you who just pretend to be better than the next girl.
ED,let them hate.
B.A
just gotta add ET TU BRUTE=another classic reply.
the smart ones among us will know the true meaning.
I have not laughed this much in a long time...so I am sorry anon...i ain't taking down nothing! What's life without a little fun and controversy? lol
@ED, Mrs F and all commenters on this post, I have to say a big thank u to you all for giving me my highest number of comments ever...its over 130 and still counting. And thank u also for making blogging fun for me.
@ED. u love and admire me? I'm honored.
Thank God for blogging.
Let's try not to take it too seriously and have fun with this...
Should I feel guilty for enjoying this? lol
LAUGHING MY FREAKING ASS OFF MAN!!
I was taking a study break & jst decided 2 hop on here 2 see what was goin on and DAMN DAMN DAMN!!
nigerians will never cease 2 amaze me. im still trying 2 figure out d source of this WAR.
this was CLEARLY a post on infidelity and NOT on what u think abt Excessive Diva. the chick jejely passed a comment and then all her WORSHIPPERS CAME 2 LIGHT. I mean u guys even claim 2 know more abt her than herself. HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHHAH
and incase u missed the memo that ur SHE'S AN ASHAWO CRAP IS PLAYED OUT LIKE THE 93 OLYMPICS. COME CORRECT ABEG! U GUYS MAKE ME YAWNNNNN.
ED U are officially a celebrity. chick i hope u are dusting ur shoulders off. it is not easy abeg.
and linda i love that u see d humor in this cos i am dying here men
i dare the next mugu 2 leave a comment insulting ED again.
@CALLY WAFFY BABE--NA SWEETHEART
KO LE YE WON NI--BUNCH OF MURRASUCKASSSSS....if ONLY they KNEW THE MAD PERSON THEY WERE DEALING WITH--SEE ME USING THEM FOR MY TRIPS AND THE BITTER HAGGARD BITCHES ARE GETING WORKED UP.DID YOU READ THAT BUTTHEAD ASKING ME TO MEET HER IN PUBLIC TO COME AND FIGHT??
HA HA HA..CALLY..ORISHIRISHI WERE LO WA...
and you said it IF OLORUN OBA,KABIEYSI CAN FORGIVE SINNERS AND ASHEWOS LIKE ME,WHO ARE THEY TO THROW STONES OH...WHO ARE THEY CALLY HELP ME ASK THEM MY SISTER..
AWON JEALOUS PEOPLE...THEY NEED TO LISTEN TO THAT EVII EDNA SONG..
**me putting ma reggae band round my head and dutty whining**
jealousyyyyy..oohhh..yeah mannn..jealousyyyy..ohhhh blaadclaat...jealousyyyy is the root of hatred...
LOOK AT THEM SEETHING WITH RAGE AND ANGER AND BITTERNESS...OVER ED...HA HA HA
AS THEY SAY..IF THEY AINT TALKING SHIT ABOUT YOU,YOU HAVENT ARRIVED...
@THE AGBERO WHO ASKED ME TO MEET HER AT 02(finchley)--are you for real??--ITS THAT SERIOUS??WHY SO ANGRY...YEEE PLEASE NOW..PLEASE DONT BEAT ME,I AM VERY AFRAID...
YOU WANNA BEAT ME UP??HA HA HA--OH MY GAWD....I HAVE MET THEM ALL--
YEBARIIBA SAMBORIBOBO..SWAGGA SWAGGA...
YOU WANT TO BE THE ONE TO TEACH THE ED A LESSON?
SHEY WON SHEPE FUN E NI?ABI AWON OLOSHI FEDI SI E??
WHAT DO YOU TAKE ME FOR?
I WIL TAE-BO AND GO MATRIX ON YOUR ASS...AYAAAAAA....GBOSA GBOSA...
ASKING THE WHOLE OF BLOGVILLE TO COME AND SEE YOU GET KILLED.MA PA E DANU,AND I WILL CLAIM TEMPORARY INSANITY AND GO SCOT FREE.
SORRY I DON'T DO 02.MAKE IT MAHIKI OR BOUJIS,AFTER A COUPLE OF COCKTAILS I WILL BE CHARGED UP..GRRRRR..TO DEAL WITH YOU.THATS IF YOU WILL BE LET INTO MAHIKI OR BOUJIS SHA CUS YOU STANK OF LOW CLASS...
IDIOT,OMO GUTTER DOTI.ONIRASE,OMO JATI JATI ABIKEYIN AJA.ABATA,A FI GBA PARO USED CONDOM.OMO TI O YE KI IYA E DA EJE NU.
BY THE TIME I AM DONE WITH YOU,THOSE THAT DONT KNOW U WILL CRY FOR YOU.
LOOK AT YOUR MOUTH LIKE MEET ME AT 02...DO I LOOK LIKE A THUGRESS LIKE YOU??
IS THIS THE POINT PEOPLE ARE MEANT TO HAIL YOU??AND SAY HEYYY SHE DARED ED...FOOL.
OYA---MAMA ALAYEEEEE..MAMA ALAYEE... MAMA OLOJA...ETE MI MOLE KE KOJA...MAMA MI LEKOOO....MAMA LONDON...MAMA NO SHAKING...
YOU WANT TO REPEAT THE ACT THAT GOT YOU DEPORTED THE LAST TIME ABI?YOU REMEMBER NOW,WHEN SILIFAT ALATAWEWE BEAT THE LIVIING SHIT OUT OF YOU IN THAT PLACE LOWLIVES LIKE YOU HANG OUT.POLICE GOT INVOLVED,YOU GOT DEPORTED.YOU CAME BACK WITH ORI OLORI..
BE VERY CAREFULLLL BE VERY CAREFULLL OH...
MY DEAR GOD KNOWS I WOULD LOVE TO MEET YOU,BUT THEN..UNLIKE YOU SOME OF US HAVE A REPUTATION TO PROTECT.
YOU KNOW,I KNOW YOU DO A 5.25 AN HOUR JOB AT TESCO(OR WHATS THE MINIMUM WAGE NOW??)
SO IF YOU FIGHT AGBERO STYLE,NOBODY BATS AN EYELID,ITS EXPECTED.YOUR LIFE REVOLVES AROUND STACKING SHELVES,AND THINKING OF STRATEGIES TO SHOVE THAT VALUE BAKED BEANS DOWN YOUR KNICKERS(BENI DEE??) SO YOU CAN HAVE A FEAST AT HOME....
BUT WHAT DO YOU EXPECT FROM SOMEONE WHO EARNS OVER 100K A YEAR??(O TI DUN.CHAI...ITS CHOOKING YOU..WERE TUTU)---
U EXPECT ME TO REALLY MEET UP WITH YOU AND GET INTO A PHYSICAL FIGHT??
DAMN...PLEASE LET ME LAUGH AGAINNNNN....
HUN??ARE U OKAY???
SECONDLY---YOUR ILLITERATE MIND DOES REALISE THAT I CHOOSE TO STAY ANON FOR A REASON RIGHT??
SO TELL ME,WHEN WE MEET,WILL YOU COME UP TO ME AND SAY HELLO I AM DIDIRIN,ABURO DODOYO...AND I WILL SAY I AM ED...
AND THEN YOU WILL START TO BEAT ME??
PLEASE GIVE ME THE DETAILS OH...
@IWALEWA MCDANIELS(LOVING YOUR NAME BY THE WAY)---I HAVE ASKED THAT MORON TO PRODUCE PICTURES OF MY BABY FATHER AND DAUGHTER--WHAT ELSE DO YOU WANT FROM ME?
SINCE SHE KNOWS WHEN I WAS COKED OUT---I WANT TO SEE MY "CHILDS" PICTURE.I WANT TO SEE EVIDENCE THAT I AM WHO SHE SAYS I AM OH...HELP ME BEG HER.
AND WHY IS IT SO HARD TO BELIEVE SOMEONE LIVES A CERTAIN LIFESTYLE?ALL YOU GIRLS NEVER CEASE TO AMAZE ME...YOU ALL NEED TO OPEN YOUR MINDS WIDER BEYOND WHAT YOU KNOW.THINGS ARE HAPPENING OUT THERE.
IF I TOLD YOU A CERTAIN GIRL IN NAIJA GETS PAID OVER 200K DOLLARS/EVERY TIME TO BE TAKEN ON CRUISES IN THE MED??
WHAT WILL YOU DO??
RUN CRAZYYYY????TEAR YOUR PANT??USE YOUR BRA AS SUNGLASSES??
BABES I DONT NEED TO PROVE WHO I AM TO NAMELESS FACELESS BITTER XERS ON THE NET.MY LIFE IS MY LIFE,AND I CAN ONLY TALK ABOUT WHAT I KNOW.LOVE IT OR HATE IT.I OWE YOU NO EXPLANATION.
@ANON 7;57 P.M---I would NEVER take a shit on my own doorstep..or how do they state that saying??
I LOVE ME SOME CALLYWAFFY AND THERE IS NOTHING ON EARTH THAT WILL MAKE ME SLEEP WITH THE MAN OF A WOMAN I LOVE--BUT MRS FOOLISHS HUSBAND? I GO FUCK AM DIEEEEE...
got anything else to say??
@ANON-9;34 PM...help me tell them o...lol...
@anon 9;05 pm..okayy...i will try and behave myself SO LONG AS another fool does not come and stand in my face again oh..:-)
ANYBODY ELSE FEEL LIKE ATTACKING ED??
ANYBODY ELSE NEEDS A BRAND NEW IHO IDI???
ANYBODY ELSE??
COMOOONNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNN
COMOOOONNNNN
EHH YEBARIIBA..OHH SAMBORIBOBO..
SWAGGA SWAGGA
ED
:-)
EHN NOW LINDA...I FIND YOU????.....DIFFERENT.and i like that.you do u.
@LINDA FEEL GUILTY KE??
FOR WHY??
ABEG CARRY GO--ENJOY ON...
MY OWN IS GIVE US MORE FLAMING TOPICS...
ED
FOR EQUITY SAKE AND TO HAVE A BALANCED ARGUMENT,I HOPE LINDA U WILL PUBLISH THIS.
@ SIMIBABES AND ANON 6:07 I DON'T NEED TO HIDE UNDER ANY OTHER NAME WHEN POSTING COMMENTS HERE.THAT MY INDEPENDENT COMMENT CAME IN BTW SOME COMMENTS THAT DO NOT SUPPORT YOUR PERSON(ED)DO NOT MAKE ME THOSE PEOPLE.ITS LIKE ME SAYING YOU GUYS(SIMIBABES AND ANON 6:07) AND CALLY-WAFFYBABE AND FEW OTHERS ARE ONE AND SAME PERSON SINCE YOUR COMMENTS SOMETIMES FALL IN PLACE TOGETHER OR EXPECIALLY AS YOU OBVIOUSLY SUPPORT ONE PARTICULAR PERSON.JUST FELT LIKE POINTING THIS OUT TO CLEAR MY NAME.LIKE I SAID WAY TO GO,LINDA,PLSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSS,DO NOT SHUT THIS OUT.IT WILL FADE OUT NATURALLY.IF FOR NOTHING,AT LEAST FOR EQUITY AND BALANCE SAKE. WHO IS LEADING?STILL DUNNO.
INDEPENDENT AND INCORRUPTIBLE JUDGE
@ ED,e don happen.u don read anon 10:10 comments?a beg do not go to habitat 02 on finchley Road o.a beg o.we dont want to hear that one of our very loose bitch that contributes on this blog is dead.your potty muth too sharp sef.no wonder dem say make u go wash am with soap.ashawo kobo kobo.if u know say u be big babe make u go there,make dem take your body do suya.
Pls this promises to be the fight of the century and it would be painfu to miss it.
can i suggest a neutral ground??/.
Hyde park in leeds. that will b perfect. loads of space so lots of pple can come.
lol.
Anon who asked ED to come meet her at O2.
but you are not serious are you?i mean do you have the ability to reason logically?
very strange people on the internet.ask yourself WHY are you so ANGRY OR BITTER.
what has ED ever done to you?
generally this is getting scary.
ED clearly you can hold your own anywhere.just ignore the haters.they have shown their true colors.those of us who are not biased can see that this has NOTHING to do with lindas blog.but a personal vendetta against you.
Just stop all this nonsense.ALL OF YOU.
my friend just discovered that his fiancee was two timing with another guy she claimed was an ex all along. It was painful even for us that were there when he proposed to her in a crowded restaurant - he has decided to forgive her and we all are like what! i think it is an individual thing, if guys are begining to forgive their mates for cheating, c'mon- u should judge each case on its own merit
nuff said
This is anon the referee, having read all comments posted after May 7, I come to one conclusion. All those claiming they love ED as a sister to please give it up, how do you all know that the rest of us that are not stating that she give up don't love her like a sister. I don't know ED and I doubt if our path will ever cross but I won't tell her to give it up because telling her to give it up is saying it is okay to let people walk all over her. I am almost in my middle thirties and what I can tell my sons is what I have told her and Mrs F from the point Mrs F threw the first punch. I believe some might be laughing from this whole fisaco but to be honest it is funny and at same time disappointing that people could stood so low to pass judgement on someone when they themselves haven't looked into the mirror. All those that are saying stuff about ED, whether it is true or false, I really don't want to know but what I know is have you looked at your own life? Is it right with God, if it is not then zip your mouth or if ED has offended you in a way that she might not have known or she did know but careless, why don't you state your anger to her in a different way than result into call her names. As far as I am concern the way ED choose to live her life should not be a subject of ridicule, even you don't agree with it. We all need to respect people's choice. Respect beget respect. I belief I have stumble into her blog like 2yrs ago and I was stunned by what I read but I never judged and I will never judge cause my life isn't perfect. I belief Mrs F has done an honorable thing by letting things go and I think the rest of you ED haters should take a clue and let ED be.
All those wanting Linda to shut this down can do me a favor, if you don't like what you are reading about the whole drama going on, you have a choice to leave, but don't decide whether Linda need to keep this going or shut it down. It is a free world. If some fools decide to act up and make a fool out of themselves on blogville with ED and ED decide not let their ranting go unanswered but response back in a more provoking manner to make them look more foolish than they were before. It is a choice they made and we(readers) also made a choice to either entertain ourselves with it or not. Everyone has a choice. Choose to keep reading or take a bow and leave.
Linda, once again you rock by not listening to those that want this shut dowm. You are truly a journalists.
LINDA,,YOU ARE HONORED THAT A WOMAN 'SUCH AS THIS' ADMIRES YOU?
YOU BETTER CHECK YOURSELF
EXCESSIVES DOG,, WHEN I MADE THAT FIRST COMMENT I DID NOT KNOW WHO YOU WERE YOU ONLY SEEMED UNCULTURED
THOSE WHO KNOW YOU HAVE SAID IT ALL,, YOU ARE A SHAMELESS PIECE OF SHIT
I AM DONE TALKING TO A 'SLUT' LIKE YOU
N:B MY HUSBAND WOULD NOT TOUCH YOU WITH A 50INCH POLE
ONCE AGAIN,, SHAME ON THE WOMAN WHO BROUGHT YOU UP
MRS F
@ ED- Lord have mercy. O gini?...What is the matter?...I bestowed on you the title of Voltron-defender of the universe and you have so earned it.
Ngwanu, O zugo. Please quit. I haven't read anything as vulgar since the days when i was so into Jackie Collins novels....I am alarmed and cringing at the same time. Can't believe a naija chick like me can talk so much trash.
But reading other people's post, i have come to understand sey na your way and you mean no harm. Fear catch me oooo.
I refuse to take sides so lets call it a truce, shall we?
@Linda- Please don't mind the anon that asked you to close this topic. For what reason?....Leave the damn thing open. I only ask that we keep the insults and the trashy talk out of it and have a civil conversation like the ladies that we are.
Well, Linda. I dont think anybody can contribute anything different from the previous 143 comments (WOW!!)
This is a sensitive issue and there is never a best choice answer. The right choice depends on the couple, the gravity of the situation, the kids, the cheating person feeling remorse and wanting to change e.t.c
I guess the best thing is infidelity never happens in a marriage (husband or wife)
(e don tey wey i visit this your blog oo)
Never wrestle with a pig in the mud...you will both get dirty and the pig will enjoy it.
Never wrestle with a pig in the mud...you will both get dirty and the pig will enjoy it.
Never wrestle with a pig in the mud...you will both get dirty and the pig will enjoy it.
naijabloke, thanks for hopefully steering this back toward the original discussion.. i have thoroloughly enjoyed the bruhaha but i think its time to stop the madness.. i don tire for naija babes.. now dem wan begin to commit murder, and even announcing it in blogsville!! Jehovah help us all..
ED, KAI !!, you win sha. May i neva cross your path and offend you : ).... lol..
naijabloke, thanks for hopefully steering this back toward the original discussion.. i have thoroughly enjoyed the bruhaha but i think its time to stop the madness.. i don tire for naija babes.. now dem wan begin to commit murder, and even announcing it in blogsville!! Jehovah help us all..
ED, KAI !!, you win sha. May i neva cross your path and offend you : ).... lol..
@ ED
I am TRULY DISAPPOINTED U DIDNT TAKE THE CHALLENGE TO FIGHT.
Y SO FEARFUL???
U ARE TRYING TO PRETEND LIKE YOU DONT FIGHT, OK MAYB FOR NO REASON, BUT WOULD U FIGHT WITH THIS ANON IF SHE INSULTED YOUR MOTHER???.
JUST ASKING COS I CAN REMEMBER U SAID U WOULD BEAT MRS F IS SHE INSULTED YOUR MUM IN UR PRESENCE.
SO HERE IS MY SUGGESTION
ANON WHO WANTED TO FIGHT WITH ED
MEET UP IN FINCHLEY,INTRODUCE YOURSELVES (IF Y'ALL DONT ALREADY KNOW EACH OTHER)
SINCE SHE SAID SHE WOULD FIGHT WITH MRS F IF SHE INSULTED HER MUM AM GUESSING THAT WOULD ALSO APPLY TO U
OYA AFTER D FORMALTIES OF INTRODUCTION
INSULT HER MUM
BOTH OF YOU GET THE PARTY STARTED
HOPEFULLY U BOTH ARE OF EQUAL STRENGTH WHEN IT COMES TO PHYSICAL FIGHTS( WE ALL KNOW ED IS D QUEEN OF YAPS SO THAT CROWN IS ALREADY TAKEN).
THROWDOWN HARDCORE AND AS I SAID HOPEFULLY BOTH OF U ARE OF EQUAL PHYSICAL PHYSICAL STRENGHT (NO CHEATING ED WITH YOUR ARISTOS AND NO CHEATING ANON WITH YOUR '' ORI OLORI'S AND AGBEROS'' THAT ED SAID U HANG OUT WITH). DO NOT BRING ANY BACK UP.
YES FIGHT TO THE FINISH AND HOPEFULLY BOTH OF U BEAT EACH OTHER EQUALLY AND WHEN I SAY BEAT I MEAN REAL BEATING, D KIND OF BEATING U WOULD GIVE A WOMAN IF U CAUGHT HER WITH UR HUSBAND( IF U ARE JUST SO INCLINED).
THEN HOPEFULLY BOTH OF U ( OR AT LEAST ED) LAND IN HOSPITAL FOR AT LEAST A WEEK.
4 ED THIS WOULD BE THE PERFECT OPPORTUNITY TO GET THAT LASER TREATMENT U WERE TALKING ABOUT.
4 ANON HOPEFULLY D PO-PO, FUZZ, POLICE, EKE, WHICH EVER ONE SUITS U CATCH YOUR ASS AGAIN AND DEPORT U.
IN BETWEEN ED BEING IN HOSPITAL AND ANON FIGHTER DEPORTED TO NIJA THERE IS PEACE AGAIN IN BLOGVILLE.
HOW DOES THAT SOUND AS A GOOD END TO THIS FIASCO.
ED
Stop faking as different ANONS and sending comments to prop yourself up.!!
Your illegitimate upbringing is obviously making you seek for attention because you were always the unwanted child.
I get it, you are upset because your biological dad's wife refused to leave your dad when your mum tried to trap him with pregnancy abi? you are now bitter because they are posing as the happy couple whilst you are still UNWANTED!!!
Mrs F , please understand that this girl needs all the attention she can get. You are way above her level
Look at her boasting about Boujis and £100k job a year.....you can tell this babe is a small babe when the average IT contractor in london is averaging that a year..Small minded bitch, probably lives in a studio flat not recognised by daddy, trying to get his attention by sleeping with his friends and colleagues, But most of all she wants what her mum never got to be MARRIED LIKE YOU RECOGNITION....Let's not give it to her. No one wants her, no man will marry her...and to all those babes supporting her, if they ever hear their brother is dating her, they will DISOWN HIM on the spot. SPEAK UP IF YOU WILL LET YOUR BROTHER MARRY ED..Hypocrites!!
Vacheron watch!!!.....isn't that like pure water in lagos for all those girls sleeping with House of Rep Guys.
Am so slow! I didnt even read the whole thing now that i have i've figured that ED is excessive diva? Nne when is your blog coming back? I miss that blog!
@ ED- I am curious now. Is your blog site still open?...I don't mind taking a peek in there. What is it called?...I wan check am out. i.e if it is still up. I deduce that it has been a while since you updated. Seeing as i am obviousy new to blogville and all.
I also noticed that Mrs. F has come out of hiding and fired a shot. Pardon her. Ndo biko...She was just stating her opinion in the first place. It wasn't supposed to escalate to this length. I am sure she didn't mean to rub you the wrong way. I am just trying to make peace here so don't crucify me....I no fit fight you....lol...
@MRS F OLORIBURUKU EGBON OLOSHI:
YOUR MR 1/2 INCH DICK HUSBAND WILL NOT TOUCH WHO WITH A 50-INCH POLE?
HONEY LET ME SPREAD UP MY VELVETY TIGHT PUSSY AND WATCH HIM GET ON HIS FUCKING KNEES AND WORSHIP---
I HAVE ALREADY TOLD YOU,PASS HIS DETAILS OVER,IF YOU KNOW YOU ARE THE TRUE DAUGHTER OF YOUR FATHER..OOOPS...I GUESS NOT...BASTARD--YOU MUST AND HAVE TO BE A BASTARD FOR THINKING YOU CAN LET LOOSE ON ME.OMO ALE,OMO ILENLE TI WON GBE SI ORI BED..WA JABO NI LAST LAST.
WHAT DO YOU THINK I AM.."OMO MUMMY"?
THINK I WOULD HAVE CRINGED INTO A CORNER WONDERING WHY SHALANGALISIOUS(PRODUCT OF A PUBLIC LATRINE)ELEMENTS LIKE YOU WILL HAVE A GO AT ME?
ARE YOU STUPID SIMPLE OR JUST PLAIN RETARDED?
LOOK AT YOU MA?BROKE DOWN BITCH--ACTING ALL SELF RIGHTEOUS BECAUSE SOME IMBECILE HAS MANAGED TO PUT A CUBIC ZIRCONIA RING ON YOUR FINGER AND BESTOW UPON YOU THE HONOR OF IYAWO.
AND YOU AND YOUR HUSBAND ORI EYIN MEJEJI TI BLOW DANU.
I KNOW YOU MA---DISTRIBUTED YOUR SLACK PUSSY ALL ROUND THE NEIGHBOURHOOD JUST LIKE YOUR MAMA TAUGHT YOU BEFORE SHE DROPPED DEAD DUE TO AIDS...
NOW YOU ABSOLUTELY CANNOT BELIEVE YOUR LUCK----
A WHOLE YOU,FOUND A HUSBAND---I KNOW HE WAS YOUR FAVORITE PUNTER...
BINGORELLA AJA ADUGBO(AREA DOG) LIKE YOU,YOU ARE STILL BARKING AND FROTHING AT THE MOUTH ABI?YOUR HUSBAND LET YOU OUT OF THE CAGE TODAY ABI?
YOU TALK ABOUT CULTURE?THE ONLY CULTURE YOU KNOW IS THE ONE THAT GROWS OFF THE YEAST INFECTION IN YOUR CUNT.
HA HA HA ..
ARA YE EBAMI WO AUNTY ONIDI RIRUN YIII..
YOU CALL CULTURE ADRESSING SOMEONE WHO YOU HAVE NO BUSINESS WITH AS GOING TO WASH THEIR MOUTH WITH SOAP?AS TALKING RUBBISH?
WAS I TALKING TO YOU??
USELESS WOMAN??JOBLESS BEAST.ERANKO.
ASHEWO TORO SISI....
OLUYA,WHO IS THE MAN WHO CARRIED YOU AS A WIFE SEF??
SHOW HIM TO ME AND CONFIRM MY WORST DOUBTS THAT HE IS A BIGGER MUMU THAN I THOUGHT.
I AM VERY VERY VERY SURE HE MUST BE THE LOWEST OF THE LOW.AN OBVIOUS INSECURE PIECE OF SHIT LIKE YOU.TWO MORONS IN A POD.
LIKE THE DUSTBIN AND ITS LID.THEY WILL ALWAYS FIND THEMSELVES.IN BETWEEN WE HAVE TRASH.
STORY OF YOUR MARITAL LIFE ISNT IT?
SINCE WE TALKING MOTHERS...HOWS YOURS?THE QUEEN HOE?YOU WOULD KNOW ALL ABOUT SLUTS SINCE A DIRTY SMELLY SLIMEY RABID CUNT BELONGING TO THE CHEAPEST OF THE LOT PRODUCED YOU.
OWU IYA GBON..OMO HAN---OH MRS FUCKEVERYTHINGISEEAROUND,YOU WOULD KNOW ALL ABOUT SLUTS WOULDNT YOU??
MUMMY WAS A HOE,DADDY WAS A CRACK HEAD PIMP.
TELL ME DID YOUR FOLKS HANG A PANGOLO ROUND YOUR NECK AND BEG ANY AVAILABLE LOSER TO WIFE YOU?HENCE THE WAY YOU CARRY YOUR MARITAL ISSUES ONTOP YOUR LARGE HEAD LIKE A CRAYFISH?BECAUSE ON A GOOD DAY..THE MILLION DOLLAR QUARE WOULD HAVE BEEN...
"WHO WOULD WIFE YOU"??
OR CAN YOUR PUSSY NOT BE LIKENED TO A SUNDAY OFFERING IN CHURCH?
IT GETS PASSED AROUND EH??AND EVERYBODY HAS A DIP IN IT--
HA HA---DONT FOOL YOURSELF MRS F,DONT FOOL YOURSELF...THE ONLY DIFFERENCE BETWEEN YOU AND I IS THAT TAG--MRS--YOU ARE A MARRIED SLUT,I AM A SINGLE ONE.CAPISH??
DONT GET DELUDED OR GET THE FACTS WRONG.
AHH..MAH PEOPLE CAN YOU SEE??
YOU ARE A BIGGER FOOL THAN I THOUGHT?
YOU ARE OBVIOUSLY MENTALLY CHALLENGED(AND I APOLOGISE TO ALL THE MENTALLY CHALLENGED PEOPLE OUT THERE)
SHE SAYS
"WHEN I MADE THAT FIRST COMMENT"
BETTER GO BACK TO WHATEVER INSSTITUTION THAT PRODUCED YOU AND LEARN THE MEANING OF THE WORD COMMENT.
WHILE WE AT IT..DON'T YOU HAVE ANYTHING TO DO???LIKE CARING FOR YOUR KIDS--OOOPPS I KNOW YOUR TYPEEE....
GBEBORUN...WON TI SIN GBERE TATAFO SI LENU--INSTEAD OF PERFORMING YOUR DUTIES...YOU FLIT FROM ONE PLACE TO THE OTHER.LIKE A FLY TO SHIT--DID YOU HEAR WHAT HAPPENED TO THAT FLY THAT WAS HELL BENT ON FOLLOWING THE CORPSE AROUND??
IT GOT BURIED WITH IT--WA KU NI LAST LAST--
AMEBO IS MY HOBBY,DOKO-DOKO IS MY ABINIBI.
WHAT IS YOUR ABILITY???
IYAWO MR.OKOBO--OLOKO FELE FELE
OMO MRS.OLOBO FIFE
COME BACK--PLEASE DON'T BE DONE ADDRESSING ME--BITCH--
YOU THINK YOU CAN FROTH AND BARK AT ME--???
HAVE YOU LOST YOUR DAMN MIND??
MA,LIKE THE DOG THAT YOU ARE I WILL GET THE CHOKE COLLAR THATS YOUR SIZE AND PUT IT ROUND YOUR NECK..
TRUST ME BITCH--
YOU WILL BOW AND RESPECT ME.
AND I SPIT ON EVERYTHING THAT CONTRIBUTED TO YOUR SORDID EXISTENCE
BITTER BOWL OF RUNNY SHIT.
NOW GO AND SIT IN YOUR NAUGHTY CORNER AND THINK OF YOUR SILLY BEHAVIOUR...NAUGHTY LITTLE CHILD.
@SASHA--:-)
it's one love.--let's shake hands and put any aggravation behind us.ATIMES ITS NECESSARY TO TALK TRASH WHEN YOU NEED TO STOOP DOWN TO THE LEVEL OF SOME GUTTER SNIPES.IF I BLOW POSH GRAMMER HOW DO YOU EXPECT THEM TO UNDERSTAND?THEY SPEAK GHETTO TRASH AND I GOTTA GO THERE WITH THEM.
@ANON 5;01 PM--
My dear sister,let them judge.as i say,and i think as someone has already mentioned and as you rightly said--funny how so many are quick to label anotheer "slut" "bad girl" etc--when if we check their closets they have the scariest bones sticking out.
talk about shallow graves eh??
i have ZILCH apology to render for my life,because i am TRUE to myself.
i am not like some who have spent their lives fucking around(and if we check their smelly pants)they still are,but because they are now "MRS" OR are in relationships or with partners,they feel they are all of a sudden better and have a right to a special position NEXT TO MR.JESUS--
HA HA BEFORE I GET KICKED TO HELL,I WOULD LOVE TO SEE THE QUEUE BEFORE GOD ON THAT DAY AS THE SELF RIGHTEOUS ARE BULALAD INTO HELL.
AND WHEN WE CHECK THEY ARE THE ONES WHOSE SHIT STINK THE MOST,THE MOST DEPRAVED ONES.THE BITTER DUMB ONES WHO MIGHT HAVE SPENT AGES SLEEPING WITH MEN AND GAINING NOTHING FROM IT(I HAVE SEEN IT ALL)--NOW THEY WANT ME TO PAY FOR THEIR STUPIDITY?AND ANGER?AND BITTERNESS??
WENCHES OSHI,I HAVE YOUR TIME TRUST ME.
THANKS ANON--BUT I WANT THEM TO KEEP COMING BACK.
YOU SAID IT ALL--THEY ARE COMING BACK WITH SO MUCH ANGER AND HATE AND BITTERNESS..AND I AM HAVING A JOLLY GOOD TIME.....HA HA HA
ONE LOVE ANON.
ANON 10;43;A.M
I WOULD HONESTLY BE DISSAPOINTED WITH MYSELF IF I GAVE YOU ANYMORE TIME OF DAY--FUCK OFF AND GO FINGER YOURSELF OR SOMETHING...KISSES
@PARIS--
HA HA --U CATCHING YOUR TRIPS ABI??
ME TOO OH MY SISTER--
AND I AM HAVING SUCH A FANTASTIC TIME--IF THOSE MORONS KNEW HOW MUCH THEY MAKE ME LAUGH AND PROVIDE STRESS RELIEF IN MY DEMANDING JOB,THEY WOULD GO AND JUMP OFF THE RIVER THAMES OR HANG THEMSELVES ONE BY ONE...PARIS,CAN YOU BELIEVE PEOPLE ACTUALLY GET SO ANGRY AND WORKED UP OVER ANOTHER PERSONS LIFE AND CHOICES??
HOW SAD CAN THEY BE??
I MEAN PARIS--JUST LOOK AT HOW ONE BY ONE THEY LET THEIR HATRED SEEP THROUGH THE NET---POURING WITH VENOM OVER INNOCENT LITTLE ME---THEY HATE ME,THEY HATE MY LIFESTYLE--YETTT THEY DONT KNOW ME---HA HA HOW SAD ARE THEY---INSTEAD OF THEM TO FACE THEIR LITTLE LIVES AND THEIR LITTLE WORLD AND BE HAPPY--THEY ARE MAD AT ME---CUS I HAVE IT ALL---I GOT THE WORLD AT MY FEET AND THEY ARE MAD AT ME--I AM EVERYTHING THEY WISH THEY COULD BE---YET THEY SOOO DEVIATED FROM THE TOPIC IT BECAME
"1001 WAYS TO HATE ED"
IF ONLY THEY KNEW---
ED IS A SICK TWISTED "SLUT"--
AND BABES I AM SO DUSTING THEIR SHIT OFF MY STELLA MCCARTNEY JACKET (E DON PAIN THEM,one of them will cry now that why stella jacket ooh ha ha )-LIKE A TRUE PLAYETTE--I MEAN IF I WAS THEM BABES I'D HATE ME TOO...
LET THEM KEEP GOING PARIS---FOR EVERYTIME THEY LAY THE GRILL STAND,I WILL KEEP PROVIDING THEM WITH GASOLINE AND MATCHES
TO ROAST THEIR ARSES---
happy studying dear..:-)
ED
:-)
@anon 10.12pm.... thank you o jare.
i was sent this comment section and have been reading all the noise till now.
when i saw that 'earns over 100k', calling boujis and mahiki (awon kate middleton posse) thats when i knew the babe was a fraud.
purlease, u dont do 02 Finchley Road ED? shey they have cinema's in Mahiki and Boujis? abi u only go to Electric for that? LOL.... mehn, even with 200k in the bank, i wouldnt snub nando's.... or come, shey ur too posh to shop at Habitat? or does IKEA and Argos do it for you? LMAO
meeting american bankers to talk kini? hiss.
her lingo oozes a classless woman thanking God for blogville to live out her fantasises while she continues to temp.
its alright ED, i feel ya pain!
and lets not front, the reason u couldnt introduce that babe to any aristo is because u dont know any yourself. other than the ones u meet in DDEN.... lmao... fake ass babe, with her gucci's from ebay.
from U KNOW WHO!!!
@ANON 12;12 PM
ahhhh..
i can see you have gone round blogville again to collect FACTS about me.
eyaaa--how sad must your life be???
YOU do all this ,and I am meant to be the sad,attention seeking one?
ho ho ho---hun,one thing you NEED to understand about me is that,anything you say,i have already said it.
ITS STRANGE IN YOUR WORLD THAT SOMEONE WAS BROUGHT UP BY A STEP DAD?(the most fantastic man,God rest his soul)
correction babes...LET ME GIVE YOU THE STORY SINCE YOU ARE SO INTERESTED.see ED is a very fair bitch..:-)
so i can give you something to work with--as i say few people who know me in blogsville know my story--nothing to hide,cus it aint special..
and i have never been one to be unfair--
you see my biological daddy is definitely someone y'all know--maybe its his genes that make me act all crazy--HA HA HA...
daddy met mummy,long time ago--they dated---BUT he was cheating on her--well in my christian ma's eyes it was cheating--in his muslim eyes it wasnt--shame how men never let you know their true intentions eh--ANYHOO..when the time came--he wanted to marry my ma and his present wife-MY MA AINT DESPERATE-LIKE MRS F AND CO..HA HA-SHE OPTED TO WALK--SHE WASNT GONNA SHARE HER MARITAL HOME WITH LADY MACBETH--
AND WALK SHE DID---BEST DECISION EVER---**are you learning??mrs foolish and ED haters***
if not she would have had to put up with various baby mothers etc...
she walked-WITH CUTE LITTLE ED IN TOW....(best angelic face here)-met my stap dad--and voila--ED gets the best of both worlds--A FUCKING RICH BIOLIGICAL DAD--AND AN EQUALLY LOADED FANTASTIC STEP DAD--AND GIVING THE CHOICE I WILL NEVER ASK FOR A DIFFERENT SET UP--HEE HEE--I GOT ALL THE LOVE AND ATTENTION--IN FACT A BIT TOO MUCH--SEEING I AM SUCH A SPOILT LITTLE PRINCESS---
hows that for a story--LONGER THAN THAT BUT U KNOW....U JUST NEED POINTERS.
come oh---how do u know that girls who fuk assembly men get given vacheron watches??
u must be one of them eh??
hun,the same way there is a lower end cartier and top of the range is the same way vacheron make theirs---SEE??I DONT NEED TO MENTION SOMETHING "BIGGER" IN YOUR EYES TO BOOST MYSELF UP--WHAT I LIKE IS WHAT I LIKE---WHETHER ITS A SWATCH OR AN IWC PRODUCT...GEDDIT.
ODENSON---SEE UR MOUTH LIKE AVERAGE IT CONTRACTOR WHATS MY BIZZWAX WITH THEM----
I DONT NEED TO PUMP MY WAGES---MY BASIC IS WHAT IT IS---EXCLUDING MY FANTASTIC BONUS--ADD THE INCOME I GET FROM MY STEP DADDYS ESTATE AND THE ALLOWANCE I GET FROM MY BIOLIGICAL DADDY AND FROM MY VARIOUS MEN-and of course the rent i get from property in 5 COUNTRIES-AND BABESSS I AM SWIMMINGGGGGGG INNN MONEYYYYY---
SINCE I KNOW U ARE AN ED STALKER(EVIDENT HOW YOU REGURG MY STORIES) U WOULD REMEMBER FROM MY BLOG THAT I SAID AT A POINT I DONT EVEN NEED TO WORK..
HUN NO BE JOKE OH BUT I ONLY WORK FOR FUN---I GOT MY CONTEMPORARIES WHO LIVE THE TYPICAL SLOANY GIRL LIFE---BUT NO MATTER HOW I SWING IT,I WILL STILL GO OUT THERE TO GET MINE..
SO PLEASE--DO NOT BE MAD----YOU CAN SEE I HAVE ADDRESSED YOU IN A CIVILISED WAY.
I KNOW YOU HATE THAT I AM RICH,SPOILT,ETC--BUT NOTHING I CAN DO ABOUT IT.I KNOW YOU CRAVE FOR MY LIFE,I KNOW---AND PLEASE NO OFFENCE TO ALL OTHER LEVEL HEADED "UNJEALOUS" NAIJA GIRLS--BUT ALL MY LIFE,THE ONLY HATE I HAVE HAD HAS ALWAYS BEEN FROM ANGRY NAIJA GIRLS--THEY HATE THAT I LIVE IN MY OWN HOUSE(STUDIO KE??)HA HA---I DID STUDIO PENTHOUSE AT THE AGE OF 18--CHELSEA BABY----
THEY HATE THAT I DRIVE A FANTASTIC CAR
THEY HATE THAT I DONT MOVE IN THE SAME CIRCLES WITH THEM
THEY EVEN HATE THAT I WONT INTRODUCE THEM TO MY BIOLOGICAL DAD(WHO CONTROLS NAIJA)--HA HA
HATE HATE HATE--GIRL DONT BE SO BITTER AS I SAID EARLIER IF I WAS YOU,I SWEAR I WOULD HATE MYSELF TOO..
I MEAN HOW CAN ONE GIRL HAVE IT ALL RIGHT??
HA HA O TI DUN WERE...HATER OSHI...
SLEEP WITH MY DADS FRIENDS TO GAIN ATTENTION??
HOW I WISH A CERTAIN BLOGGER WAS STILL AROUND TO SUBSTANTIATE A TIME MY DADDY SENT FOR ME TO COME SEE HIM ETC IN NAIJA---THAT MAN LOVES ME SILLY-EVEN THOUGH I HATE WHAT HE DID TO ALL YOU POOR FUCKERS--HA HA HA--AND I DONT NEED TO SEEK HIS ATTENTION---MY STEP DAD GAVE ME MORE THAN ENOUGH--HA HA HA HA
FUNNY HOW IF I HAD AND WAS NOTHING LIKE YOU,I WOULD HAVE OPENLY INVITED ANOTHER CERTAIN BLOGGER TO COME SPEND TIME WITH ME TO COOL OFF ATFTER A CERTAIN EPISODE IN THEIR LIVES...
LOOK HERE LITTLE ANGRY SAD GIRL--AND I WILL ONLY SAY THIS ONCE
IT IS NOT MY FAULT YOUR LAZY PARENTS WHILE THEIR CONTEMPORARIES(MY DADDY AND STEP DAD) WERE MAKING COOL MILLIONS,YOURS WERE RESTING ON THEIR OARS.NOW WE THE KIDS ARE ENJOYING THE CASH YOU ARE CRYING FOUL.KILODE??
IF YOU ARE NICE AND WELL BEHAVED,MY SISTER NEEDS A NANNY FOR HER BABY COMING IN JULY.TELL YOUR MUM THE POSITION IS OPENED.I WILL PUT IN A GOOD WORD FOR HER.AND WILL ENSURE SHE GETS A VISA TO GO TO SWITZERLAND(DO THEY DO DOMESTIC VISA?PLEASE FIND OUT SO WE CAN HELP MUMMY HATER GET A JOB..OKAY..)
BUT YOU DISSAPOINTED ME AS THE NUMBER ONE ED FAN---IF ALL THESE ED LOVERS ARE NAIJA ETC--CANT YOU READ,I LOVE ME SOME WHITE BROTHERS(DEPRAVED MUTHAFUCKERS U KNOW)
SO IF MY CHOICE IS WHITE,WHY WOULD I DATE ANY OF THE BROTHERS OF MY BEAUTIFUL BLACK SISTERS??
OLODO OLOJU EJA.
MY DEAREST LITTLE GIRL,ONE THING YOU FAIL TO SEE IS THAT MY BACKGROUND HAS NEVER BOTHERED ME.I AM SO OPEN ABOUT IT,AS WIDE OPEN AS YOUR PUSSY---EVER READY---
NOTHING TO BE ASHAMED OF.
SO ANY MORE REVELATIONS??
ANY MORE??
YES??
NO???
YESSSS???
NO??????
YES???
MY DEAR---ABUSE MY MOTHER FATHER STEPFATHER IN HIS GRAVE(AND I HOPE HE COMES TO TORMENT YOUR LIFE WHILE YOU SLEEPING),BROTHERS,SISTERS,DOGS,ETC
I JUST DONT GIVE A FERRRRKK!!
IF YOU LIKE CALL ME A BASTARD--
I LOVE MY WELL PAID LOVED GOT THE BEST OF ALL WORLDS BASTARD POSITION...
what of you??
your desperate I MUST BE MARRIED AT ALL COST SLUT OF A MUM clung on to your loser dad for dear life.BY the time she realised, it was too late to move on because NOBODY will do her??LIFE had battered her.
i know types like your mum hun,they are the ones who see my mum(BEAUTIFUL,YELLOW PAWPAW,MIXED FULANI AND TINGS LATILE)blinged out in her expensive handcut lace(u know there is a place in SW where they sell it like 1000quid by square metre)--u know the top top people in the food chain of the world buy their lace from there--so exclusive---ITS STRICTLY BY WORD OF MOUTH--
as i was saying--the type who see my mum--and talk smack-- they say ohh look at her---who does she think she is--they hate the fact that "AFTER ONE" she managed to get herself a fantastic single loving man.who adored her till his last days.
yet people like your MUM are the bitter ones,who life has so dealt with that they do nothing but vent vent vent--and you the sad product of their lives(apple,fall??tree??far??)learnt THE SAME DAMN THING..anger,bitterness,bile.FOR BEAUTIFUL SUCESSFUL WOMEN LIKE MAMA DIVA WHO HAD THE BALLS TO DO SOMETHING AND MOVE ON AND DEMAND THE BEST FROM LIFE.
GIRL--GET OUT OF YOUR CAVE---DETACH YOURSELF FROM UR LOSER MUM...STEP OUT THERE AND SEE WHAT THE WORLD HAS TO OFFER--YOU MIGHT BE LUCKY AND LIFE MIGHT SMILE ON YOU--QUIT BEING SO ANGRY---
YOUR PROSTITUTE OF A USED MOTHER HAS WASTED HER LIFE---YOU CAN STILL REDEEM YOURS...
DONT BE MAD AT ME--I CANNOT HELP BEING MEEEE--
I CANNOT HELP IT
and what is this you say about coming as various people to prop myself??
GIRL YIII..SHEY O TUN TI MU GBANA SHA???
LAY OFF THAT THING..ITS TOO STROONNGGG...YOU ARE STARTING TO HALLUCINATE AGAIN...
OYA COME BACK--I HAVE GIVEN YOU A LOWDOWN OF MY LIFE--GO AND CRY AND CURSE YOUR USELESS MOTHER FOR MAKING OBVIOUS WRONG CHOICES AND THEN COME BACK AND VENT AT ME
ED
:-)
@SASHA-and NICE ANON--lol...
my blog is coming back,but my job is wayyy too demanding for me to keep up with it,right now i am even in the office,and i hate doing things by half measures,hence i put it on hold.dont worry jare--i will personally let you know when i get it back up---:-)
ED
@ANON 8;07 PM--and can we know who this "mysterious" pig is....i'm waiting....
@ANON 8;22 PM--I SWEAR I AM A NICE SWEET PERSON---BUT I HATE PEOPLE TRYING TO ACT ALL "U KNOW" IN MY FACE--:-)
@ANON 8;43 PM---now YOU are hilarious.fear??i leave that to the littl people.but even in all my "classlessness" i still try to retain something.
so keep prodding and pushing---i still maintain--some of us have more to lose.
ED
@Anon who said ED is coming as different people.
I dnt understand why it is hard for you to see that some of us like her.
She has made a big fool of you and you need to go sit yo ass down somewhere.
And i guess i am free to say u r Mrs F and Cunni etc too?
Here is someone who is having her fun giving you a dose of your medicine in very bitter measures.And yet you keep coming back for more.You might not know it,but you are a very angry and bitter person.You decided to take this topic off post and attack ED personally.It shows the type of lady you are.
You tell us about her so called parental history,thinking we care.
I am a single mother myself.And no,i am not single by virtue of trying to push a child unto a man.Some of us make choices that we want to positively impact our lives,and if it means leaving a man who is no good to us,then so be it.You try and portray yourself as some morally upright person.Show us your closet and let us judge.As an earlier anon said,is your own life right with God.
You are the one who needs to be ashamed of yourself.Just judging wildly and foolishly and blindly.Someone you do not know and you will most probably never meet.You are sad and you need to get a life.
ED has wiped her ass with you.
So just go away.
And if you think i am ED too bad
Simibabes
@ANON--10;12 PM--MY DEAR SLUT..WE MEET AGAIN
AHHHH ...i just had to come back--DID YOU SAY SOMETHING ABOUT ME WANTING TO BE LIKE MRS FOOLISH??
MARRIED?RECOGNITION??
YOU JUST GAVE AN INSIGHT INTO WHAT YOU REALLY ARE..
INSECURE...U NEED TO BE MARRIED TO BE RECOGNISED??
U NEED A MAN TO BE RECOGNISED???
U CANNOT BE SOMETHING ON YOUR OWN??
DAMN-----UR USELESS MOTHERS BLOOD IS VERY STRONG IN YOU
SO I NEED TO BE MARRIED TO BE SOMEONE??
KAI...YOUR LIFE IS ALREADY WASTED...
HOPELESS....
OYA JUST GO..GO AND LOOK FOR A MAN TO LEECH ON....
ABURO MRS FOOLISH---BIRDS OF SIMILAR PLUMAGE CONGREGATE TOGETHER
WOMEN LIKE YOU ARE NOTHING AND WILL BE NOTHING WITHOUT MEN.YOU WILL NEVER MAKE IT IN LIFE.BECAUSE YOU ARE SITTING AROUND WAITING FOR A MAN TO COMPLETE YOU....AND THAT MAN WILL COME,TAKE A PISS IN AND YOU AND DO A RUNNER-----JUST LIEK MR FOOLISH DOES TO MRS FOOLISH.
AND I CANNOT EVEN ASK YOU TO RELY ON YOUR LOOKS BECAUSE YOU ARE CERTAINLY VERY DISADVANTAGED IN THAT AREA---SOMEBODY BEAUTIFUL CAN NEVER BE FILLED WITH SO MUCH HATE FOR A COMPLETE STRANGER.
UGLY MUCHECHE.
bloody peadophile
I KNOW YOUR NAME IS STILL ON THE SEX OFFENDERS LIST---FOR FINGERING UNDERAGED BOYS IN THE ARSEHOLE---YOU MAKE JOSEF FRITZL LOOK LIKE A SAINT--CORPSE PUSSY-- stupid, self absorbed piece of dog shit
Are you on drugs? Are you a coke head? Do you do/say things without thinking? Because that right from day one is the only picture I got about you? Are you normal? DO you need help? An intervention? Are you a schizo? Do you hear voices in your head telling you to do things or what??THAT YOU CANNOT RESIST MOI???
KEEP AWAY FROM MEEEEE----
STALKERRRR
WOULD I GO OUT NOW AND SEE YOU SITTING IN A CRAZY CORNER WITH A PSYCHO GLINT IN YOUR EYES?
WHERE IS THE 666 ETCHED IN YOUR SCALP--YOU SPAWN OF SATAN AND JEZEBEL---
ARE YOU MAD?
GETTING HOT FLUSHES??IS IT TIME FOR MENOPAUSE??
IS THAT WHY YOU ACTING UP?
ANSWER MEEEEE!!
THERE IS A SOLUTION TO EVERY PROBLEM
You are obviously on hard drugs because that is the only explanation for this irrational behavior
FUCK YOU!!THRU THE ARSE HOLE THIS TIME
You are like that man who wears thousand pound suits and keeps smelling something dirty, he points at everybody around him as the smelly ones but he forgets that his suit is only covering his dirty,unbathed,slimy,scruffy,stinkyself/soul(hey you are the archaic one here, work the analogy out)
AWARD WINNING DETECTIVE---ED WITCH HUNTER---SELF APPOINTED OF COURSE
I SEE A PICTURE OF YOU, AND TRUST ME, IT AIN’T PRETTY.
ED
@SASHA---you just sit and watch my dear---MRS F WILL RUN DOWN---shey she was released from her cage ni to come out and play...and that her mouth piece---all i wana say is she should keep coming back--
***yeah i'm talking to you anon that has decided to be MRS FOOLISH mouthpiece
please come back--BUT BE ORIGINAL--U ARE SERIOSULY BORING MY TITS OFF
I am sooo loving this, abeg make una carry on.
I agree with anon 10:12 pm, ED if you are soo superloaded with all your inheritance and daddy's money as you claim, you wouldnt be boasting about £100k job,nice car, nice pad paid for cash down,extension worth a grand,daddy's money and all. It shouldnt be a big dealto you. You sound like omo oju ori ola ri to me. You are definetly seeking attention.
my own two pence
ED entertains herself at the expense of haters
HATERS give themself high blood pressure over wetin no concern them
LINDA gets mad hits on her blog
AUDIENCE enjoy the showdown and free show
CONCLUSION?
Everybody is happy
My two pence
the only type of person that can support ED is a prostitute like her.eg that ho called London Chameleon.
anon who has it in for ED
I find it easy to believe the child allegation. Who remembers that ashionye post that Bella Naija had to take down the comments cos they were so
uncouth? That same person fought every and anybody using pretty much the same language and writing style that ED uses here. She claimed she had a child then. The question is, was she lying then or is she lying now? Either way, that person is one dark soul,beneath the mask of humour is one very hurt and suffering person. To those of you encouraging her, i suspect you are encouraging someone who needs genuine help. t
his behaviour defies taking the piss or tongue in cheek.
ED and Mrs F could just be the same person. Ed does not need to be provoked before she takes off her clothes and runs naked. Most of the posts that do not have comments on Bella naija's blog were taken down because of how uncouth and profanity laden Ed's comments became, as well as her personal attacks on public figures.
@ anon, 5: 01PM, i second that, true talk be wetin u just say. Adding to that, "our Linda be correct journalist."
loooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooool..wow!!!!..naija kwenu!!!!! u ppl will never make a dull moment in my life...damn!!!!....Mayne Mrs f...free the sturvz jo..this babe sound like say she dun KOLO finish!!!!..and ED..u self na wa oooo...i dun tire for u since tey tey!!!
@ED
U ARE SO SUPERFICIAL AND FAKE. I REMEMBER ONCE WHEN U LEFT A COMMENT SAYING U HATED HOW PPLE BOASTED AND WERE FLOSSING AROUND.
U ARE DOING D SAME HERE. ALL U TALK ABOUT IS HOW MUCH U MAKE AND SO ON.
WE DON'T WANT TO KNOW. IF U WANT TO INSULT PPLE DO IT STRAIGHT AND STOP TELLING US HOW MUCH U EARN.
THOSE PPLE WHO ARE REALLY PAID DO NOT NEED 2 SHOUT IT FROM THE ROOFTOPS.
@ ed
u keep saying u are at work when u write these comments... y dont u just quit ur job and let some one who dos not have an inheritance/ daddy's money/income from horism get it ehn.
biko u dnt need 2 work so let someone else get ur job ehn.
hehehehe....
to anon who called my name... thanks oh... but i could really do without the attention.
i never read ED's blog... i dunno what she's about... but one thing i know is that if everyone in this world was the same, then it'll be pretty boring.
so my motto is 'live and let live'
and as Christ said, let him without sin, cast the first stone....
Mud hut, nowhere village,somewhere in the west/northwest.
Verbal knocking heard . "Kpo, kpo"
Iya Risi - "Na who be that"?
Iya Labake - "Neighbour, Praiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiise the Lord"
Iya Risi - "Na wetin happen"?
Iya Labake - "My sister don born oh"
Iya Risi - "Ehen? Na wetin e born"?
Iya Labake - "E born woman"
Iya Risi - " Na wetin be e name"?
Iya Labake - "Excessive Diva"
Iya Risi - " Ah! We thank God oh"
If only they knew. SMH.
@ANON 4;24/10;28 PM--BECAUSE I KNOW U THE SAME--THAT SPLIT PERSONALITY ZONES NAH
HA HA HA HA
I GO AWAY FOR A DAY AND WHAT DO I SEE WHEN I GET BACK?
ANOTHER RABID BITCH FROTHING DELIRIOUSLY AT THE MOUTH---
DEM NEVA GIVE U UR RABIES SHOT ABI??
OH MY DAYS..ALLOW THE QUEEN DIVA TO STEP BACK AND POKE FUN AT Y'ALL YET AGAIN!!!
OMO TALAKA TON FI KPO MU TEA---LAST OF THE LAST--YOUR WHOLE FAMILY HAVE SIGNED A CONTRACT WITH POVERTY TILL HUNDRED GENERATIONS TO COME--ISHHHH----
I HATE ANGRY POOR PEOPLE--THEY GIVE ME RASHES---
SO I GUESS SOMEONE POSTING ON SOME ASHINYE TOPIC IS EXCLUSIVE TO THE ED AS OPPOSED TO BEING UNIVERSAL EH?SO I CAN SAFELY ASSUME THAT YOU ARE THE SAME ANON RUNNING LOOSE ON BLOGVILLE ALWAYS HAVING SOMETHING NEGATIVE TO SAY ABOUT OTHER PEOPLES ALTERNATIVE LIFESTYLE--
READ BETWEEN THE LINES MY DEAR---I AM CATCHING MY TRIPS AT YOUR EXPENSE AND THE FOOL THAT YOU ARE,YOU ARE FALLING FOR IT...SO PLEASE COME BACK WITH MORE "DETECTIVE" WORKS........
EYAAA....NO BABES--I DO FEEEL YOUR PAIN..I REALLY DO...BUT U SEE,ON A DAILY BASIS--I MEET AND TALK POSH POSH GRAMMER(O TI DUN WERE..HA HA )WITH BANKERS,FINANCIAL ANALYSTS,U KNOW PEOPLE ON THE TOP END OF THE FOOD CHAIN---NOT LOWLIVES LIKE U..SO ANYTIME I CAN COME ONLINE--LIKE THIS PERIOD, AND I ENCOUNTER ANGRY LITTLE NAIJA GIRLS--I DO WHAT I LOVE DOING BEST--
I WILL BEGI FUN GBOGBO YIN--MY STYLEE---IN MY LOVELY RICH LANGUAGE--I AINT GOT SHIT TO PROOVE TO YOU--THOSE WHO HAVE SPOKEN TO ME--KNOW I TALK SO NICE AND SWEET AND FRESH(KAI--WERE--O TI JA PATA E-)
U WILL ENTER THE MARKET PLACE NAKED NI LAST LAST--IDIOT--HATER OSHIII----WUUUUUU----WUUUUU---MAMALAWO--U WOULD KNWO ALL ABOUT WANTING TO MEET ARISTOS---FAILED ARISTOLETTE---TAKING UR ANGER OUT ON ME CUS YOU SPENT YOUR YOUTH FUKING THE WRONG PUNTERS---USED AND DUMPED--GOT ZILCH OUTTA IT??
ASK ME TO SHOW U THE WAY AND I PROMISE IN A MONTH YOUR LIFE WILL CHANGE--
IF NOT KEEP ON DOING YOU---TEMPING STAFF LOMO TITI LAILAI--HA HA HA--WE HAVE AN OPENING FOR TEAM SECRETARY AT MY OFFICE OH---DO YOU WANT THE POSITION???
I KNOW UR TYPE--FUCKING COCONUT--CANNOT BELIEVE U EVER LAND JAND--HENCE U SEE YOUR LANGUAGE AS RAZZ(GOD BULALA THAT COUNSELL OFFICER THAT GAVE U VISA AFTER YOUR 1000TH ATTEMPT OF COURSE)
ONIGBENDI---IF U WANNA FIGHT OYINBO MAN,HIM GO SPEAK YORUBA TO YOU?WONT HE SPEAK HIS LINGO??IDIOT?
I'M SURE U ARE A FAKE---ALWAYS WANTING TO PLEASE THE "MASSA"---
I LOVE LOVE LOVE MY YORUBA---WHEN FAKES LIKE U WERE BUSY RUNNING AROUND TRYING TO ENTER AND FEEL AMONG I WAS ENRICHING MY KNOWLEDGE AND CULTURAL FACTS/YAPS--BECAUSE I AM SOOO CONFIDENT IN WHO I AM---
IF I AM DISSING A NAIJA PERSON--BEST BELIEVES I AM DOING IT IN MY LANGUAGE----SO MA WUKO LO---MA GBEKO LO---I REALLY DONT GIVE A FERKKK...
WERE--O TI BU IGI JE TIPE TIPE---
OF COURSE MAHIKI AND BOUJIS WILL BE A BIG DEAL TO YOU---
DEM NO DEY LET YOU ENTER ABI??
BE THERE ON THURSDAY AND WATCH ME SPIT ON YOUR FACE AS I WALTZ IN----HA HA HA HA
SHOWS HOW TINY MINDED U ARE--EVERYTHING IS A BIG DEAL--AN IMPOSSIBLE MOUNTAIN TO CLIMB--LIFE HAS FUCKED WITH U SO MUCH YOU JUST RESIGN YOURSELF TO FATE AND HATE ON PEOPLE LIVING THE LIFE--
HEY---U KNOW I SAID I AM A VERY FAIR BITCH--SO PLEASE FEEL FREE TO LIVE VICARIOUSLY VIA MY BLOG/LIFE--LOSERRRRRRRRRRRRRR
THEY SELL GUCCI ON EBAY??REALLY??WOW-WHAT A REVELATION??IS THAT WHERE YOU GET YOURS FROM SINCE YOU SEEM TO KNOW SOOO MUCH---MY DEAR--OYAA--BREATHE IN AND OUT---YEEEHHH THATS IT---LIFE ISNT THAT HARD--
PERSON WEY NO GET TODAY CAN HAVE TOMORROW--NOTING GOD NO FIT DO--BUT WITH A JEALOUS HATEFUL SPITEFUL SOUL--YOU WILL NOT GET FAR AND GOD WILL NEVER BLESS ANYTHING YOU DO---SO CHANGE YOUR WAYS
SORRY BABES---WHATS DDEN??
PLEASE ENLIGHTEN ME--I AM ALWAYS OPEN FOR NEW SUGGESTIONS THAT I CAN BENEFIT FROM :-)
THE WORD HATER WAS COINED FOR A REASON----YOUUUU...
@ANON 6;35 PM...TA LO TI ENU AJA SI INU OGI?
EYAN SORO ERANKO FE LA ENU E--MY DEAR GET BACK IN LINE---YOUR NUMBER IS STILL FAAAR!!FOLLOW FOLLOW MAKE ME SHINE
@SIMIBABES--LEAVE THEM DEY DONNT KNOW WHO THEY DEALING WITH..
:-)
ED...
AHHHH...LET ME GO THINK OF WHAT I AM GOING TO WEAR FOR DRINKS WITH THAT SWEDISH INVESTMENT BANKER TONIGHT---
HMM...MY NEW 2000QUID BAG HASNT BEEN LAUNCHED--GIFT FROM A SAUDI ROYALE OF COURSE--HA HA HA HA
@London Chameloen-u r a bloody liar.i remember a comment of yours from ed blog.
ashawo number 2.liar like you.judst like ed.always lying.
@anon 3;28pm
But you REALLY know that this ED is catching her trips at your expense dont you?i mean you are not THAT dense are you?or gullible.
i mean my ten year old nephew would be smart enough to read that this girl keeps throwing you people a rope and you keep lunging for it.
smarten up abeg.she is obviously having a laugh.i used to read her blog,i have seen her comments floating around,and she is never one to boast.but if you notice,the anons were bent on making a show of nothing and saying irrelevant stuff and from what i gather she is giving back irrelevant info.
simmer down collection of anons.IT IS NOT THAT SERIOUS.
Now you all want to drag London Chameleon into it.na wa o.
who knows sef,all the anons might be one person or even linda herself seeking attention.maybe anon is even bobby taylor or bella naija.or taurean minx or toni payne or even 9ice or even tuface.
all of you go and sit down somewhere.
Violated Anon
@ANON 6;02 AM
WOW!!!!!NOLLYWOOD IS MISSING A SCRIPTWRITER--
ED
WEARING MY NEW CHRISTIAN L'S
PROENZA SCHOULER DRESS
AND MY 2GRAND BAG
Y'ALL SHOULD SEE MY HAIR---STUNNINGGGGGGGGGG
HA HA HA HA
O TI DUNNN WON--AWON OTA---
HA HA HA
SWEDISH MILLIONAIRE BANKER..HERE I COME..
KISSES MY DAHLING LOWLIVES--
WILL THINK OF YOU WHILE I AM LIVING THE HIGHLIFE YET AGAIN....
AND WHO KNOWS I MIGHT EVEN FUCK HIM TONIGHT.....:-)
ED
BYE DARLINGSSSS...
SLEEP TIGHT
DONT LET THE BED BUGS BITE YA--
@ANON 3;28 PM--
YEEPA
YOU MY DEAR ARE A STALKER
SO YOU STORE MY COMMENTS IN YOUR HEAD??
NO WONDER--U CAN NEVER GO FAR IN LIFE--NO BE CURSE--
KAI---KAI---KAI
BYE DARLING--
TOODLES..REALLY GOTTS GO NOW----MY CAR IS HERE--
ED
"THE SOURCE OF THEIR FRUSTRATION AND ANGER--AND THEY SHALL CRY BLOOD"
Linda i thot u were a true journalist, y did u not accept my comments.
Ed and co are using ur blog 2 perpetrate nonsense and u are allowing it.
once again i repeat it. Bella would not allow such hooligans on her blog.
ED,
COME CORRECT WITH BETTER YABIS, YOU ARE RECYCLING AND IT IS GETTING BORING.
An ordinary purse for the oppurtunity to shit in your mouth?
This woman have you no shame?Karrine Stefans and the energizer bunny have got norring on you. "Cocaine is a hell of a drug".Rick James.
@ED, ITS EITHER YOU HAVE TURNED EVERYTHING TO A JOKE OR YOU ARE A BORN CHRONIC LIAR. LISTEN TO WHAT YOU SAID 'MY NEW 2000QUID BAG HASNT BEEN LAUNCHED--GIFT FROM A SAUDI ROYALE OF COURSE--HA HA HA HA'... LIAR.
AND ANON 6:02AM,YOUR CONVERATION ON IYA LABAKE AND IYA RISI IS DA BOMB.BUT LET ME RE-PHRASE YOUR LAST SENTENCE FOR YOU,'IF ONLY HER MUM KNEW THAT ED WILL TURN OUT TO BE A DISGRACE AND A WHORE,SHE WOULD HAVE GONE FOR AN ABORTION'.
@ED, ITS EITHER YOU HAVE TURNED EVERYTHING TO A JOKE OR YOU ARE A BORN CHRONIC LIAR. LISTEN TO WHAT YOU SAID 'MY NEW 2000QUID BAG HASNT BEEN LAUNCHED--GIFT FROM A SAUDI ROYALE OF COURSE--HA HA HA HA'... LIAR.
AND ANON 6:02AM,YOUR CONVERATION ON IYA LABAKE AND IYA RISI IS DA BOMB.BUT LET ME RE-PHRASE YOUR LAST SENTENCE FOR YOU,'IF ONLY HER MUM KNEW THAT ED WILL TURN OUT TO BE A DISGRACE AND A WHORE,SHE WOULD HAVE GONE FOR AN ABORTION OR BETTER STILL FLUSH THE LITTLE ED THROUGH THE TOILET'. TUFIAKWA,ED,YOU ARE NOT FIT TO BE BORN. SLUT
@ANON 7;51PM,5;23AM,5;25AM,7;51AM AND 7;52 AM
CUS I KNOW YOU ARE ALL ONE AND THE SAME PERSON--MPD IS A SERIOUS AILMENT YOU KNOW...
YOU STILL ON THE HATERADE??NOW BIGGING YASELF UP??MAKING IT SEEM LIKE "DIFFERENT" PEOPLE ARE ATTACKING THE ED--HA HA---ISN'T IT OH SO POSH TO TALK IN THE OTHER PERSON--I LOVE DOING THAT--HA HA
PURSE FOR SHIT KE??
NO ANON--CORRECTION SWEETY--THE SAUDI ROYALE DIDNT GIVE ME THAT BAG FOR SHITTING ON ME OH,IT WAS SOMEONE ELSE SOMETIME LAST YEAR THAT TRIED THE SHITTING GAME.THIS ONE ACTUALLY BOUGHT ME THE PURSE FOR HELPING HIM SORT SOMETHING OUT HERE IN LONDON--HA HA HA HA HA
TRUST ME CUNT,I ALWAYS COME CORRECT--IF I GOT IT FOR GETTING SHAT AT--I WOULD SPEAK UP!!!
DRUGS???--ERRRR--NEVA TOUCHEED THAT SHIT--STRONGEST THING I HAVE DONE IS CIGGIES AND MAYBE SNIFFED VODKA BEFORE--SO COME BACK WITH SOMETHING ELSE
AND WHAT IS REALLY HURTING YOU?
ITS MY BAG INNIT??
I CAN LAUNCH IT ANYTIME I WANT,AND I LAUNCHED IT YESTERDAY---AND CAN YOU RE CLARIFY WHAT U WERE TRYING TO PROVE BECAUSE JUST QUOTING ME DIRECTLY LIKE THAT DOESNT MAKE SENSE MY DEAR--
AND OOOHH MA DAHLINGS--THAT INVESTMENT BANKER WAS DA BOMB---HE GIVES HEAD LIKE NO MANS BUSINESS--TSUNAMI TONGUE I TELL YA--RAVAGED MA GOOCHY...
KARINE WHO??I HAVE NOTHING AGAINST KARINE--SHE IS DOING WHAT SHE KNOWS HOW TO DO BEST SO WHILE "ANGELS" LIKE YOU ARE DIGGING AT HER--SHE IS LIVING HER LIFE AND COMING STRAIGHT ABOUT IT,
AS I HAVE SAID---SHOW ME YOUR CLOSET--LET US SEE WHO YOU REALLY ARE--CLOSET SLUTS--
AND YOU WOULD KNOW ALL ABOUT ABROTIONS WOULDNT YOU??---
EYAAA--OUT OF THE LIKE MILLIONS OF SPERM THAT THE MAD MAN WHO RAPED YOUR MOTHER DEPOSITED IN HER--YOU,ANON,YOU, WERE THE ONLY ONE THAT MADE IT--
RECYCLING MY YAPS KE??
HO HO HO---NONSENSE--IS IT PAINING YOU BECAUSE YOU HAVE BEEN TOLD YOU ARE DRYYYYYYYY!!!!
NO IMAGINATION NOTHING
YOU NEED TO KEEP QUOTING AND UNQUOTING THE ED BEFORE YOU CAN REASON ON YOUR OWN.
MODICUM OF INTELLIGENCE--NIL
GIRL PUHLEAZEEEE
AND IT TOOK YOU THIS LONG TO SEE OR READ THAT I HAD TURNED YOU ALL INTO A JOKE??IT REALLY DID??
DAMN---IS THERE ANY WORD THAT DESCRIBES SOMEONE WITH A LOWER IQ THAN A MENTALLY CHALLENGED 2 YEAR OLD?
YOU MA DEAR TAKE THE BISCUITS----YOU ARE HIGHLY BACKWARDS...
IT TOOK YOU ALL THAT HYPERTENSION,ANGER,HATE ETC--TO REALISE THAT I WAS WIPING MY GOOCHY WITH YOU??
DAMN---OYA JUST WIPE THE SPIT DROOLING FROM YOUR MOUTH--CORKY--
@LINDA--ABEG--KEEP IT OPEN--AS SOMEONE SAID YOU ARE A TRUE AND FAIR JOURNO---U DONT TAKE SIDES---SOMEONE HAS TO PROVIDE THE PEOPLE WITH THIS TYPE OF READING NOW ABI??
NO OFFENCE TO BELLA--BUT LINDAS BLOG IS LINDAS BLOG AND IF SHE WANTS TO KEEP IT THIS WAY SO BE IT--BELLA IS NOT THE ONLY BLOGGER IS SHE??
ABEGGGG
OYA COME BACK OH....
ED
"OMO IYA RISI--OR IS IT LABAKE??"
ED
you HAVE been joking right?i mean you really HAVE been taking these people for a ride.because if not.hmmm you need deliverance.one person cannot have the ability to insult so many like this.my dear,demons exist for a reason u knw.
ANONS;
is it THAT serious.something tells me ED is having a laugh and you are all getting worked up.naija girls your level of hatred for a stranger never fails to amaze me.
Mrs F;see what you caused?
why did you throw the first punch?now you have gone into hiding.disgrace.
Linda;
It's true,you are a true journalist.
this reminds me of dolly unachuku and regina askias public trade of words in city people.
someone has to let them air it out.keeo it open linda.
this is your blog and not bella blog.
@ANON-HATER
OH YEAH--AT LEAST IF SOMEONE IS SHITTING ON ME FOR A 2 GRAND PURSE,I AM HAPPY--WHAT OF YOU..WHAT ARE YOUR PUNTERS SHITTING ON YOU FOR?
A HAPPY MEAL AT MC DONALDS ABI??
TALK TO ME..GIRL..TALK TO ME..I WILL SHOW YOU THE WAY--I PROMISE YOU ONE MONTH YOUR LIFE WILL CHANGE--JUST 30 DAYS I SWEAR TO GOD WHO GAVE MY MUM THE SENSE NOT TO ABORT ME-HA HA--YOUR LIFE WILL CHANGE...
ED
"THE ONE WHO WASN'T ABORTED"
DISGRACE
every single one of you.right from mrs f,ed,anons,eggers on,
typical happenstances in a nigerian circle.
pick on one person and try and tear them down.and it goes back and forth.
all of you from mrs f,ed,anons,eggers on,etc you are all sluts.one slut is just more comfortable and open.
dusgrace to nigerian women,
and some man will marry you all one day.
may i never encounter anybody like you.dredges of society.
i dont care how many designer gear you have,ed you are still foul.
i dont care how much of a righteous front you want to put on,anon you are still filled with bile and the green eyed monster
mrs f your marital status has not made you come across as a mature,cultured woman,did you not know that there needs to be a difference between you and the so called "lesser" single women you so despise?
eggers on no matter whose side you are on,you are like those crowds on a street in munshin egging the area boys on to attack or put a rubber tyre round the neck of someone they suspect of doing something.whether true or not,nobody cares to find out.
linda,i have no comments for you.your blog,your choice.
disgraceful women.
kpakpando,i see you in there somewhere.u r one of the anons aren't u?
bobby taylor i see u 2.
ED,i dig your yoruba,but u need to learn to write it properly.you write it as you speak it.the flavour is still there though.me and my boys are just tripping on ur yapps.classic.u naija girls don kolo finish.
Anons,please give it up.this girl has won hands down.
Linda have you thought of starting a mag?i mean something like gossip filled?u will sell my dear.u r very fair.
naija boy
so ed, babangida na your papa abi, now i know this madness dey come from
READ ED'S COMMENTS ABOVE AT 9:55AM THEN YOU WILL AGREE THAT
THESE COMMENTS BELOW MUST HAVE REALLY PAINED SLUT ED.
Mud hut, nowhere village,somewhere in the west/northwest.
Verbal knocking heard . "Kpo, kpo"
Iya Risi - "Na who be that"?
Iya Labake - "Neighbour, Praiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiise the Lord"
Iya Risi - "Na wetin happen"?
Iya Labake - "My sister don born oh"
Iya Risi - "Ehen? Na wetin e born"?
Iya Labake - "E born woman"
Iya Risi - " Na wetin be e name"?
Iya Labake - "Excessive Diva"
Iya Risi - " Ah! We thank God oh"
If only they knew. SMH.
HAHAHAHAHAHAHA,THE ANON THAT FIRED THESE COMMENTS ABOVE,KUDOS TO YOU. AND ED,YOU ARE NOW BORING.WE ARE TIRED OF YOUR NUMEROUS,SAME INSULTS.CHANGE YOUR TACTICS.E DON DO,WE ARE BORED WITH YOUR SAME REGULAR INSULTS IN ENGLISH AND YORUBA.
HEY,BUT COME TO THINK OF IT,I THINK IT WOULD HAVE BEEN BETTER IF YOUR MUM HAD ABORTED YOU,HAHAHAHAHAHAHA. YOU ARE NOT FIT TO BE CALLED A WOMAN.PROSTITUTE.HAHAHAHAHAHAHA. OYA,COME ON THROW YOUR NORMAL INSULTS IN YORUBA AND ENGLISH.
ED THE OLD BORING PROSTITUTE.OYA WHERE ARE YOU.DO YOUR NORMAL THING.
Linda
who are the people saying bella would not allow hooligans on her blog?
last time i checked blogging was a free and open zones and everybody has a right to do and undo on their blog.
when did bella turn into the only acceptable blogger in the stratosphere.
or the yardstick by which other peoples blogs are measured?
disgruntled
na wa o....
this stuvvs is still going on?
anon... me lying? if only u knew! its takes just one or two people to stumble on my blog and its over for me. im proud to say, every thing on my blog is the truth. beleive if u like or not.
as a matter of fact, i made it a point NOT to read blogs that had the same subject matter as mine. i always got sent the links. i am not a hoe and will never tag myself as one which is why i blog abt different things. im doing my MBA, had a career, regular friends (rich and poor), regular boyfriends. it was only as night i became a diff person, oh, and my holidays and clothes were lavish. but mehn, i can rock primark with my fendi spy and u'd be thinking it was cavalli.
i dont front. why the hell will i wanna be pally with another person like me... this aint a club u know. i simply respect the choices people make.
so once again, tenks for the shout out.
peace out...
linda... ur a sensationalist (is that the right word?)
and regarding the actual topic at hand, NO I WILL NOT LEAVE MY HUSBAND IF HE CHEATS ON ME. IF HE GETS ABUSIVE OR FLAUNTS IT, NA DIFFERENT MATTER.
WHY YOU ASK?
BECAUSE IVE FUCKED OTHER WOMEN'S HUSBANDS, SEEN OTHER WOMEN FUCK MY DAD TO KNOW THAT ALL MEN CHEAT BUT DOESNT MEAN U WOULDNT GIVE THEIR LIVES FOR THEIR WIVES OR PUT THEM FIRST WHEN IT CAME TO THE CRUNCH. I RESPECT THAT, ITS THE WAY IT SHOULD BE.
PASTORS, PRIESTS, DRIVERS, PRESIDENTS, ROYALTY, HOUSEBOYS, FINE, UGLY, ...
SO LONG AS ITS GOT A DICK, HE WILL CHEAT OR ATTEMPT TO.
EVEN IF U GAINED 10STONE OR LOOK LIKE BEYONCE, AINT NO THANG.
SO WOMEN, MAKE THAT MONEY, ENJOY HAVING A STRATEGIC, EMOTIONAL AND PHYSICAL PARTNER, MAKE THAT PAPER, HAVE KIDS IF U WANT, JUST KNOW MEN WILL ALWAYS BE THERE WITH THEIR WAHALA. IF U LIKE, CHANGE THEM A MILLION TIMES. NA THE SAME THING GO JAM YOU.
JUST MAKE SURE THAT WHEN UR TIRED OF IT ESP AFTER UR HOLYGHOST PRAYERS FAIL YOU, YOU ARE COMFORTABLE ENOUGH TO KICK THEIR ARSE UNTO THE STREET AND GET URSELF A TOYBOY TO TAKE U INTO RETIREMENT.
ciao! xxx
p.s
no call my name again o... i have exams!
lol. yeh paripa.
Linda u don suffer.
person is now even comparing u 2 City pple.
if i were u i wuld reject.
tell them u are more like ovation.
Is this still going on? The crude jokes crossed the line a long time ago.
I agree with Anon 10:14.
I also should that I’m not referring to anybody but I must say...
Most rich people 99.99% will never come out and say they are rich, because it's no big deal to them. "awon omo oju orola ri" are always the one exaggerating/ fabricating stories.
Most people that take pleasure in insulting people usually have their own insecurities they are covering up (joke or no joke).
If you guys put just as much passion in a business you will do AWESOME!
WHAT???!!! Linda, so people are still commenting here? LMAO last time i checked, there were 147 comments and after reading your new post, i thought this one was old story. Don't know if i can even read them now before it reawakens all the laughter of last week abeg i don tire. People were just looking at me as if i was crazy lol. Maybe later jare.
Come on folks, give it up. It's becoming quite boring now lol.
lmao chammie, dem call ya name say you dey pally with ED abi wetin? lol. how dem come carry you add na lol wetin be ya own there? damn too many comments mehn. i just find myself quickly scrolling down. can't read 'em all. funny enough, i noticed that you only ever left one comment on ED's blog and anyone that read that comment would know that you both don't know each other. i remember you said something like wow interesting blog and ED replied saying thanks and welcome to her blog.
btw why are you even justifying yourself to anyone? so what if you're pals with ED? i still maintain that ED is aight. she's just crazy arse funny and behaves this way to people that get on her wrong side. she's very sweet otherwise. she's just playing with all of them and doesn't even mean all she says. i really don't get why people are taking all this too seriously when all i can see is humour. honestly, i think it's mad funny. well, i've always been kinda laid back...lol.
@ ED and mrs f: una still dey fight? ED i go disown you o lol. instead make you go reopen ya blog give us bera gist, you still dey camp here ah ah lmaoooo. mrs f abeg you too relax. take it easy ladies. stuff like these ain't really that serious. abeg kiss and make up jare. the world is so small...
thank you kisses to ED and mrs f in advance for calling a truce
muah muah MWAH!!!
xxx
@ANON-1;36 PM--
Oh really??
i didn't know,is he???
you tell me..lol.rumor monger
snake.....go sell your "exclusive story" to any rag mag willing to "buy" it.As if nonsense gist like that is NEW in our environment.Babangida ko,Babanriga ni.As if i cared less.
@Tola--Another one joins the ED-HATE bandwagon-ha ha--i now you are SLOWWWW for sure,WHY?u read Between the lines...You just HAD to come and drop your own abi?no idea of the head or tail of things,you just HAD to be heard..being a sheep is SOOO NOT a good loo u know?And isn't that "those who have don't shout" played out??
Maybe some of us SHOUT about it to HATERS just to NEEDLE them.has THAT in ANYYY WAYY occured to your numbskull??
Ever heard the saying I got the money,YOU know the name??it was devised for a reason...
Just to play the "justify" game to satisfy idiots like you--
so what if i wear designer from head to toe--HELL YEAH I CAN AFFORD IT.THATS WHAT I LIKE--
DONT WE ALL LIKE DIFFERENT THINGS??SAME WAY SOME WOMEN CAN SPEND HUNDREDS OF THOUSANDS ON JEWELLERY,I CANNOT BECAUSE I HATEE JEWELLERY
SO WHY IS IT SOOOO DIFFICULT FOR ALL YOU LITTLE MINDED LITTE KIDS TO SWALLOW THE FACT THAT SOME OF US ARE JUST WHAT WE ARE??
Since u just decided to hop on the train and left your senses on the platform let me school you on what has been going on---you see some idiots,(LIKE YOU)decided to think they could have their fun,saying shit about me,so i gave them what ANGRY PISSED LITTLE GIRLS would hate to hear--shey i'm a hooker abi??well then here is what my HOOKERISM got me--LUMP IT--
SO IF U SEE A COMPLETE PLAY ON A SITUATION AND TAKE THOSE MO'FO'S FOR A RIDE AS being an "OMO OJUROLARI"--then count me as one
BUAHAHAHAHAHA---BE MY GUEST--
I know who i am,and what i have,and trust me..Y'ALL HAVENT EVEN HEARD A TENTH OF IT.
DO AWESOME??I SPEAK FOR MYSELF--I AM DOING FANTASTIQUE--AND I ONLY JUST STARRRTEDDD..
WALKS AWAY IN HER BALENCIAGA BOOTS---HA HA HA
**ps..drop the "i am not referring to anybody""
come out boldly and talk straight,nobody is going to cane you ehn...***
ANON 2;23 PM---WHAT HAPPENED--NOBODY RESPONDED TO YOUR DRY "ACT 1SCENE 1" PLAY YOU JUST HADDDD TO REPEAT IT ABI--HA HA HA ---
HOW SAD IS YOUR LIFE--YOU JUST NEED TO VALIDATE IT IN YOUR HEAD THAT IT MUSSSTTTT HAVE PAINED ME,SO YOU REPEATED IT,SO THAT YOU CAN MAYBEEE COME BACK AS A DIFFERENT ANON AS YOU USUALLY DO AND THEN GIVE YOURSELF A POSITIVE FEEDBACK---OLORI MA SHE ANFANI--I TRUELY FEEL SORRY FOR YOU..
THE ED MUST BE A VERY IMPORTANT PART OF YOUR LIFE.IF YOU NEED MY EMAIL ADDRESS LET ME KNOW,I WILL SEND YOU PICTURES ETC,SO YOU CAN HAVE SOMETHING TO USE AS YOUR SCREENSAVER,PRINT OFF AND PUT ON YOUR WALL ETC.THEN YOU CAN TAKE THE SLUT WORSHIP TO ANOTHER LEVEL--CUS THIS FATAL LOVE IS BEYOND ME---BUT I CAN HANDLE IT--
@Cally---ONLY because of you o---ONLY BECAUSE OF YOU---
AND AS SOMEONE SAID UP THERE---EVERYTHINGS SOOO OVERRRR--I'M TRULY BORED...SO I GIVE ALL YOU ED WORSHIPPERS THE AUTHORITY AND BLESSING TO HAVE THE LAST WORD---
I AM OFF TO PREPARE FOR A BUSINESS LUNCH--AND GUESS WHAT??
I AM PICKING UP A NEW YSL BAG AFTER LUNCH--HA HA HA HA HA
I AM SOOOO DONE--BYEEE MY DARLINGS--IT WAS NICE HAVING FUN WITH YOU ALL WHILE IT LASTED--LETS DO IT AGAIN SAME TIME,SAME PLACE,AUGUST??
ED
"LET ME BE ANYTHING YOU WANT ME TO BE IN YOUR WARPED IMAGINATION"
i remember ED's blog and she NEVER boasted on it.i was one of her avid readers.so i dont know why everybody seem to be making a big deal out of her having a bit of fun here.it is so obvious that she is just having a good time saying all this things.
all the anons i think its time to just end it.
Tola was that really necesary .just ask yourself.a blind man will know u r talking about ed.and if she kick off again,u all say she started something.that girl,if u ever read her blog,never boasted,i remember reading a post one time where she mentione wearing clothes from topshop and zara to mix with designer.so what is all you people problem.
chameleon you really have time to be adressing these people who have already make their mind up about u?
everybody let it end please
taiye
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