Actress
Tonto Dikeh who had her traditional wedding yesterday August 29th,
shared this photo of herself and her husband kissing and wrote about how marriage has made her happy and settled. What she wrote below and after the cut...
"29-08-15 My best friend paid my dowry and I traditionally now belong to him.. In my culture after this event you can now move in with him as a family.. Am super proud of his confidence Am super proud of his courage,believe me he heard a lot of trash but stood firm and believed in his God & cut off anyone who spoken ill of me,Now thats a real man ..One reason I will for ever love respect & serve him with my life... #MrsX" ...
God has been faithful Court wedding- Done Introduction-Done Bride price payment and reception(BP CEREMONY)-Done Traditional and white wedding on the way.. We plan on celebrating every event all the way becos this is a wonderful Gift God has bestowed upon us.. I am A happy Woman I am A settled Woman I
can't express my heart,it's been all tears and thanks to my Potter(God)
who never stopped looking out for me even when Man thot they could
rewrite my story.. Thanks to my Husband and Sultan for a beautiful ceremony and All the love he showers on me.. I
reckoned a private life is the happiest one,we will publicly announce
the traditional marriage so u can all come out and celebrate Life with
Us... I
wish every woman out there at least a quarter of the joy this married
life has brought to me,I wish you all Love and Gods protection...
It was indeed a carnival and a Huge success,My community(RUMUOKWUTA) made me Proud..
What's the difference btw bride price payment and traditional marriage. Is it different in PH? I'm soo happy for Tonto. I wish them fulfillment and unlimited joy in d marriage.
Tomorrow don't come here n tell us dat u both are no longer together because of one tin one tin,as d love dey high u dey go just dey craze follow am...be like mercy J n loss ur senses to him abeg cos I no trust u @ all.God must change u n mk u a good wife to ur husby...believe me when I say am very happy u settled down,u were d very last person I expected to get married dis year.
Up up �� Jesus. Down down �� Satan. Tonto, l will sing the name of Jesus for you and your handsome and calm looking husband. It's the Lord's doing and it's MARVELOUS in our eyes. May the angels of heaven keep watch over your home. What God has joined together, let no man put asunder.
Foolish Girl no woman belongs to any man. Man & woman are together as a team to support each other. I tire 4 this your marriage. You were really frustrated before this catch.
Fuck u hater.... She has settled with mercy Johnson .... & if u expect karma my dear u will die of heart ache.... Repent so u own husband can locate u... Anuofia
Pray for who, have I finished praying for myself then it's dis one I will pray for. Who cares if she is a settled woman?Tonto just know if u married dis dude cause of d added fame u will get babe's u don misroad.Just keep ur mouth shut and face ur marriage.U r beginning to b irritating with ur endless sermons
Must she explain to everyone in details???... Nawa o! All dis our celebs like 2 attract unnecessary attention. Be calm and concentrate on your new home simple!
QUOTE "I wish every woman out there at least a quarter of the joy this married life has brought to me"......EXCUSE YOU??????????????????????
AS FOR ME....I REBUKE AND REJECT THE QUARTER OF YOUR HAPPINESS. GOD WILL GRANT ME MY OWN PERFECTION OF JOY......WHICH WILL NEVER EVER BE A QUARTER OR EVEN THE FULLNESS OF WHAT YOU CLAIM TO BE EXPERIENCING.MY OWN JOY GO PASS YOUR OWN.....1 BILLION TIMES TO INFINITY
ABEG MADAM TON-TO OR WHATEVER YA NAME IS,......... STOP SWEARING AT US WITH YOUR STYLISHLY CURSE CURSE PRAYER............MY FOOT PATH IS NOT YOUR FOOT PATH. MY JOY IS NOT YOUR JOY....KEEP YOUR SO-CALLED JOY TO YOURSELF AND LET US ALL ENJOY OUR GOD GIVEN JOY SEPARATELY.
YEYE WOMAN, PRAYING WE SHOULD HAVE QUATER OF HER JOY.............ELENU YAMA YAMA
Walahi, I don't understand this ur hate ooo. Just wish her what she wishes her self joo...na wa for u ooo. Can't u be happy for others? Some of us just lack compassion.
One actress into a married home,more to get married this year,T am so happy for u,very very happy ,please stay away from Some of the girls who used to be close to you,like Rukky,don't ever keep her close to u again,I noticed u gave her a distance and it's good,she is not good
All ds praises for Mr X. U really a lucky man. Bia! Tonto I pray after 3 to 4 years u will come here to continue more praises for hubby cos ds period is d most challenging yrs in any marriage. Calm down and take one step after d other. Marriage is good only if u r patient and tolerance else u break. One advise pls keep ur marriage out of social media if u want a fulfilled home. Chiba ukwu gi n'ulo biko.and reduce ur excess
You don't realise how much we love you in Nigeria, you sacrificed your pride for us to be happy and you're called names, proud of you die, you come marry into my tribe, we accept you love!
Poko darling..... I know rit now u re drunk in love but honi always remember to keep it private as u have always been and don't ever loose urself identity because of a man ps (never quit acting) cuz I know Dat is d next tin he will tell u to do. Thank me later
Lets see what life offers u. Perfect, evil and hateful humans out here. Linda is a jealous idiot. U hate Tonto but come here to lick d likes of Tiwa. U're a blogger stop being bias so u go marry ur own. Sigh. Congrats to Tonto and all the happily married wives.
Tonto. please shut up and face your marriage, why are you trying to prove a point so hard ? When you were mocked for the first fake into you did you went ahead to do a proper one, you were mocked that there is no connection be u and hubby you uploaded this kissing pic. stop contradicting your self, you said u married a long time but did trad now you are claiming court wedding upload the court wedding pics today I dare you liar! Tonto you are very beautiful but immature. Take a cue from Kim k she is my role model because she is the most insulted girl on the planet but she still does her thing.and is still successful. Coz nomatter what people would still criticise you as a human being. . She never tries to prove a point, you are here under anonymous attacking people obviously your new husband doesn't have your time because if he does you won't even have time for Internet or trolls. Mtcheeeewwes. Childish girl so you were this desperate for marriage and you were busy mocking others.. Hml I wish you all the best..
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Several years ago, quite a few years before now, when this phenomenon first reared its head as a novelty only beginning to be noticeable, this was how one alarmed, keen Nigerian observer in the Diaspora (the United States), Chukwudi Nwokoye, writing in a popular Nigerian Online blog, summed up his reaction:
“This has been the greatest issue affecting Nigerians [read Africans, in today’s times!] in the diaspora. Before, it has been about marriage breakdown leading to a bitter separation between the spouses and, consequently, divorce. In recent years, this issue has taken another tragic dimension of spouses killing their spouses. It is coming to an alarming rate and we Nigerians [read Africans, in today’s times!] living in foreign lands have to do something about it to preserve our existence.” (Emphasis mine).
Reverberating all though Nwokoye’s explosive (for that time!) exposition of the subject, was understandably a visible tinge of alarm and horror, but palpably meshed with a strong sense of hope, optimism, and expectation, that this was only just a temporary aberration which was sooner to run its course and out of steam in no long a time. Mr. Nwokoye’s narrative was in 2006. Fast forward, however, to today, and it’s 2015. And it’s been some 9 years since then.
And the situation today? One of a far deteriorated and much more desperate condition! But, by this time, though, NOT just for Nigeria; but for the entire Sub-Sahara Africa today – every country and society of it, whatsoever! Perhaps, today’s headlines in newspaper articles and Internet blogs, Radio and TV outlets, best convey the horrifying picture. “Domestic Violence Among Nigerians in the Global Diaspora,” reads one, “An Epidemic: Nigerian Men Killing Nurse Wives” another one announced, then another, “Beware: Diaspora Can Devour Your Marriage (Zimbabwe),” “What is Ailing African Diaspora Marriages,” “Rescuing African Marriages in the Diaspora,” “Why Divorces Are Now Rampant in Our Community [of African Diaspora],” and on and one!
We could go on and one and on with the recitations. But, put very simply, in short, from all objective indices, this Western plague is now becoming a near epidemic for today's Africans in the Diaspora, as their marriages have increasingly become seriously troubled, often alarmingly broken and literally deadly to the African spouses and to their children and/or in-laws, often leaving Diaspora marital couples and their children and families in nothing short of utter ruins – a life of bitterness, misery, disharmony, dysfunctionality, shattered life dreams, horrendous violence and unspeakable savagery, and even the shedding of family blood. This new study boldly confronts and seeks to remedy this most troubling Number #1 modern-day, African Diaspora conundrum. WRITTEN IN TWO VOLUMES, both of which are designed and meant to be read and viewed together as two interrelated, integral parts. VOLUME 1: The Systematic Analysis of the Core Root Causes VOLUME 2: The Surgical Remedies & Cures PUBLISHERS: Published by First Edition Design Publishers, Florida
=============================== Author Benjamin O. Anosike, who holds a Ph.D. in Jurisprudence (Law), has been a U.S.-trained and based Legal Counselor and Founder and President of PUSDAM (People United to Save Diaspora African Marriages). http://savediasporaafricanmarriages.com/the-marriage-book/
126 comments:
Congrats my dear!
Congrats my babe
Congrats! Stop talking and concentrate on ur marriage.
It's Ohk....ooh...we know u are married!
Congrats woman
it is well
It's Ohk....ooh...we know u are married!
What's the difference btw bride price payment and traditional marriage. Is it different in PH?
I'm soo happy for Tonto. I wish them fulfillment and unlimited joy in d marriage.
Big congrats.
OKORO UPGRADED**
Nice 1..gud for her
*cute bree*
Congrats b
Good for her.
I'm glad she is
I'm glad she is
I rejoice wit u 2 pray God bless us 2 I share in ur joy
Good for you
Good one.....God bless your home....em haters should go and hug the transformer
Linda take note.... that was her introduction not traditional wedding according to what she wrote.....Hmmmmmmm
Happy for her congrats
Beautiful message and well written!
I wish them the best!
Awwwwn! Congrats Poko
If she can over-look cheating...She will enjoy this guy! He's a correct guy.
Awwwwn! Congrats Poko
How does marriage make u a settled woman? Tomorrow you would say men are devils
HML and congrats!
I wish her all d best in marriage life and God bless her/hubby. Thumbs up and more power to her elbows.
Tomorrow don't come here n tell us dat u both are no longer together because of one tin one tin,as d love dey high u dey go just dey craze follow am...be like mercy J n loss ur senses to him abeg cos I no trust u @ all.God must change u n mk u a good wife to ur husby...believe me when I say am very happy u settled down,u were d very last person I expected to get married dis year.
Congrats to her once again....
Congrats ooooo bt serz ceremony 2 much o jare,no beefing.
Congrats once again, dear tonto.
Now i am smitten..*winks*
Awwww! Congratss
Up up �� Jesus. Down down �� Satan. Tonto, l will sing the name of Jesus for you and your handsome and calm looking husband. It's the Lord's doing and it's MARVELOUS in our eyes. May the angels of heaven keep watch over your home. What God has joined together, let no man put asunder.
She will truly make a good wife
So marriage has been her prob since and she was busy envying my mercy.. karma is a bitch tonto jst hold on a lill..
Lib freak
To God be the glory.
Awwww i so much luv u totolet,may God continue to bless ur union in jesus name all d best my dear.
Good for u
Good for her
Glad to know that she's really happy. All the best to her. Linda take note!
Glad to know that she's really happy. All the best to her. Linda take note!
Glad to know that she's really happy. All the best to her. Linda take note!
Congrats tontolet
Congrats sweetheart, it's not easy at all, but God has been faithful. am so so happy for you. May God bless your union.
Congrats sweetheart, it's not easy at all, but God has been faithful. am so so happy for you. May God bless your union.
Heeeya....congrats girl,God will sustain ur home for u.
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Well articulated, all d best in ur wedding girl, am proud of u
Nice one
Am Apy she is Apy, may dis joy never depart from her beautiful face
Awwwwwwww congrat dear...
For how long has she been married? I day?
Exactly
How sweet! Congrats darling
Pray for her
What do you want her to say?
Please stop hating
Misslolo
Aww! Dis is soo emotional. Tonto luv, kip lovin and living. Am soo happy 4 ya.
Good for her.
Congratulations
Congrats. Totolet
Foolish Girl no woman belongs to any man. Man & woman are together as a team to support each other. I tire 4 this your marriage. You were really frustrated before this catch.
Fuck u hater.... She has settled with mercy Johnson .... & if u expect karma my dear u will die of heart ache.... Repent so u own husband can locate u... Anuofia
Hater fuck u.... She has been Married for ages.... Onye ara
All I sense from these comments is a desperate and cynical deject trying to prove everyone wrong. Your being married doesn't solve your problems.
Bad belle* she don marry your expectation no come to pass. Be happy for a sister and stop making noise. Jor o
Doesn't Mr x have an IG account ? How come he hasn't posted anytin . Toto are u sure u aren't marrying ursef ? Just asking
Shutup Tonto. You are so annoying!
Excellent advice!
Seems you were so scared your sins were gonna find you out, Lucky you!! I love this D'Bang song. You don see mugu, you don see mugu
@Imasuen.If that's your wish for her, that's what will come your way.
am so so happy for u tonto
Correct babe...d anuofia part make sense...Miriam is just a hoe
Fu*k ur mother yansh....chineke kpo gi oku...
Can she keep shut and enjoy the marriage. Whew!
Pray for who, have I finished praying for myself then it's dis one I will pray for. Who cares if she is a settled woman?Tonto just know if u married dis dude cause of d added fame u will get babe's u don misroad.Just keep ur mouth shut and face ur marriage.U r beginning to b irritating with ur endless sermons
Must she explain to everyone in details???... Nawa o! All dis our celebs like 2 attract unnecessary attention. Be calm and concentrate on your new home simple!
Tonto aya Churchill, God bless your new home. Enjoy it darling
QUOTE "I wish every woman out there at least a quarter of the joy this married life has brought to me"......EXCUSE YOU??????????????????????
AS FOR ME....I REBUKE AND REJECT THE QUARTER OF YOUR HAPPINESS. GOD WILL GRANT ME MY OWN PERFECTION OF JOY......WHICH WILL NEVER EVER BE A QUARTER OR EVEN THE FULLNESS OF WHAT YOU CLAIM TO BE EXPERIENCING.MY OWN JOY GO PASS YOUR OWN.....1 BILLION TIMES TO INFINITY
ABEG MADAM TON-TO OR WHATEVER YA NAME IS,......... STOP SWEARING AT US WITH YOUR STYLISHLY CURSE CURSE PRAYER............MY FOOT PATH IS NOT YOUR FOOT PATH. MY JOY IS NOT YOUR JOY....KEEP YOUR SO-CALLED JOY TO YOURSELF AND LET US ALL ENJOY OUR GOD GIVEN JOY SEPARATELY.
YEYE WOMAN, PRAYING WE SHOULD HAVE QUATER OF HER JOY.............ELENU YAMA YAMA
Eyaa congratulations once more tontoh
Walahi, I don't understand this ur hate ooo. Just wish her what she wishes her self joo...na wa for u ooo. Can't u be happy for others? Some of us just lack compassion.
THE BOBO UGLY THO - SERIOUSLY. HE RESEMBLE SOMETHING I CANT REMEMBER NOW. HOW WILL THE JAW, CHEEKS, AND MOUTH OF THEIR PIKIN COME BE?
JUST SEAT BACK, RELAX AND WATCH THE SOAP OPERA OF THEIR LIVES TO SEE THE ANSWER TO THIS MY PERTINENT QUESTION.
LINDA ABEG POST
Congratulation girl nd may God bless your union.
Congratulation all the best
One actress into a married home,more to get married this year,T am so happy for u,very very happy ,please stay away from Some of the girls who used to be close to you,like Rukky,don't ever keep her close to u again,I noticed u gave her a distance and it's good,she is not good
All ds praises for Mr X. U really a lucky man. Bia! Tonto I pray after 3 to 4 years u will come here to continue more praises for hubby cos ds period is d most challenging yrs in any marriage. Calm down and take one step after d other. Marriage is good only if u r patient and tolerance else u break. One advise pls keep ur marriage out of social media if u want a fulfilled home. Chiba ukwu gi n'ulo biko.and reduce ur excess
You don't realise how much we love you in Nigeria, you sacrificed your pride for us to be happy and you're called names, proud of you die, you come marry into my tribe, we accept you love!
She will win all,that man is my kind... Love is beautiful thing when is nature!
Mechieonu gi there, she's simply happy. Deal with it.
Only ladies be beefing, every body has their own happy day. Stop beefing.
Ikwu ugwo nwanyi.
Are you God ?
Dowry is what a woman pays to marry a man. The right term here should be bride-price .....smh
Congrats tonto..ensure you make a good wife and keep e'm haters shut. Wish ya all d best.
Abeg tell her... Her own too much
Poko darling..... I know rit now u re drunk in love but honi always remember to keep it private as u have always been and don't ever loose urself identity because of a man ps (never quit acting) cuz I know Dat is d next tin he will tell u to do. Thank me later
Congratulations dear God bless your home!
Lets see what life offers u. Perfect, evil and hateful humans out here. Linda is a jealous idiot. U hate Tonto but come here to lick d likes of Tiwa. U're a blogger stop being bias so u go marry ur own. Sigh. Congrats to Tonto and all the happily married wives.
Tonto, am one of you, God bless your marriage. Linda take note.
Tonto am one of you, God bless your marriage.
Amen. I tap into ur happiness. Congrats girl
Men are vipers(serpents), ONLY God is Go(o)d...imagine u thinkg u're better than Tonto in anyway with such hate... RECEIVE JESUS ***
Congrats dear. I tap the blessings
Congratulation to and husband twins, twins 3 times
Tonto. please shut up and face your marriage, why are you trying to prove a point so hard ? When you were mocked for the first fake into you did you went ahead to do a proper one, you were mocked that there is no connection be u and hubby you uploaded this kissing pic. stop contradicting your self, you said u married a long time but did trad now you are claiming court wedding upload the court wedding pics today I dare you liar! Tonto you are very beautiful but immature. Take a cue from Kim k she is my role model because she is the most insulted girl on the planet but she still does her thing.and is still successful. Coz nomatter what people would still criticise you as a human being.
. She never tries to prove a point, you are here under anonymous attacking people obviously your new husband doesn't have your time because if he does you won't even have time for Internet or trolls. Mtcheeeewwes. Childish girl so you were this desperate for marriage and you were busy mocking others.. Hml I wish you all the best..
REQUEST. Please, could you help us get the word out about this newly released vital publication. Book Deals With, Perhaps, the Single Most Critical & Pressing Problem Plaguing Diaspora Africans Today!
ABOUT THE BOOK: Why African Husbands & Wives in the West Are Warring Against Each Other: The Solution For Saving African Marriages in the Diaspora.
VOLUME 1: Diagnosis of the Root Causes
VOLUME 2: The Systematic Remedies & Cures
AUTHOR: Benjamin O. Anosike, Ph.D.
Several years ago, quite a few years before now, when this phenomenon first reared its head as a novelty only beginning to be noticeable, this was how one alarmed, keen Nigerian observer in the Diaspora (the United States), Chukwudi Nwokoye, writing in a popular Nigerian Online blog, summed up his reaction:
“This has been the greatest issue affecting Nigerians [read Africans, in today’s times!] in the diaspora. Before, it has been about marriage breakdown leading to a bitter separation between the spouses and, consequently, divorce. In recent years, this issue has taken another tragic dimension of spouses killing their spouses. It is coming to an alarming rate and we Nigerians [read Africans, in today’s times!] living in foreign lands have to do something about it to preserve our existence.” (Emphasis mine).
Reverberating all though Nwokoye’s explosive (for that time!) exposition of the subject, was understandably a visible tinge of alarm and horror, but palpably meshed with a strong sense of hope, optimism, and expectation, that this was only just a temporary aberration which was sooner to run its course and out of steam in no long a time. Mr. Nwokoye’s narrative was in 2006. Fast forward, however, to today, and it’s 2015. And it’s been some 9 years since then.
And the situation today?
One of a far deteriorated and much more desperate condition! But, by this time, though, NOT just for Nigeria; but for the entire Sub-Sahara Africa today – every country and society of it, whatsoever! Perhaps, today’s headlines in newspaper articles and Internet blogs, Radio and TV outlets, best convey the horrifying picture. “Domestic Violence Among Nigerians in the Global Diaspora,” reads one, “An Epidemic: Nigerian Men Killing Nurse Wives” another one announced, then another, “Beware: Diaspora Can Devour Your Marriage (Zimbabwe),” “What is Ailing African Diaspora Marriages,” “Rescuing African Marriages in the Diaspora,” “Why Divorces Are Now Rampant in Our Community [of African Diaspora],” and on and one!
We could go on and one and on with the recitations. But, put very simply, in short, from all objective indices, this Western plague is now becoming a near epidemic for today's Africans in the Diaspora, as their marriages have increasingly become seriously troubled, often alarmingly broken and literally deadly to the African spouses and to their children and/or in-laws, often leaving Diaspora marital couples and their children and families in nothing short of utter ruins – a life of bitterness, misery, disharmony, dysfunctionality, shattered life dreams, horrendous violence and unspeakable savagery, and even the shedding of family blood. This new study boldly confronts and seeks to remedy this most troubling Number #1 modern-day, African Diaspora conundrum.
WRITTEN IN TWO VOLUMES, both of which are designed and meant to be read and viewed together as two interrelated, integral parts.
VOLUME 1: The Systematic Analysis of the Core Root Causes
VOLUME 2: The Surgical Remedies & Cures
PUBLISHERS: Published by First Edition Design Publishers, Florida
===============================
Author Benjamin O. Anosike, who holds a Ph.D. in Jurisprudence (Law), has been a U.S.-trained and based Legal Counselor and Founder and President of PUSDAM (People United to Save Diaspora African Marriages). http://savediasporaafricanmarriages.com/the-marriage-book/
Congrats tonto, i am happy for u
Dat ain't right to say dear.
* * * Linda's 1st Daughter * *
congrats dear, May our good Lord bless your union.Enjoy ur marriage. by dobis112@gmail.com
Lmao!😀😀😀😀😁😀
God Bless Your Home!
God Bless Your Home!
congrats dear Tonto
This lady sure knows how to shut haters up....congrats jare
God bless your home
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God bless your home
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God bless your home
ifesco99us@gmail.com
God bless your home
ifesco99us@gmail.com
God bless your home
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Wow...that's so emotional.I can imagine how you feel right now.The Lord bless your marriage,I'm so happy for youuuuu...One love sister!
Actually, I wanted to tell u bad word for all dis publicity, buh I think d joy n happiness u express got me.......so if ur dis happy plz do ve a HML
Which man doesn't cheat? Abeg shift
Congrats God bless your new Home
Congrats Tontolet, may God bless your union...Glory to glory
Okayoo, am still in Nigeria watching.
God bless your home
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Tontodike learn from Toke and keep ur business in your toto,....
I was there LIVE...!
Congrats Tonto...
Ikwerre meka o! Congrats dear... All d best.
How do u know the guy cheats has he had sex with u before?
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