Dear LIB readers: My husband said he can't go for more than a month without sex
From a female LIB reader
During a discussion with his friends last night, my husband said he can't go more than a month without sex, that he has never done it in his life. I'm not sure if I was supposed to hear that, but I did. I'm worried about this statement because I gave birth just five months ago and for about three plus months, from when I was seven months pregnant till about 6 weeks after I gave birth I didn't have sex with him. So does it mean he cheated in this period? Should I confront him about this? I've not been able to stop thinking about it since he said it
Lol. U be amebo n U re not supposed to hear everything buh now U heard it n U re upset. I know how U re feeling right now. Maybe U should ask him abt it Ubanagum
Babes are you a learner? Did you court this hubby of yours at all? Coz this your question seems like your parent just dragged you to the altar to marry a stranger.
Me and ur husband are the same ooo.. I sex my wife 5times in a week... What the big deal there if you actually love him.. post a free classified advert
If it bothers you, ask him about it instead of killing yourself with worry! Conversation shouldn't be underrated in a relationship, in fact it should be its bedrock!
Pele! Hes cheated on u if he said that and truly meant it. Men wouldnt take it lightly if its the other way round. Talk to him about it, of course he will deny cheating but let him know you know!
Madam you don't need any confrontation, it wasn't meant for your ears, only wait until it's for you then you can talk and don't let that ruin your thought because it's nothing close to what you thinking. The period you calculated, does it mean you two never had a romantic time that will make a man feel satisfied? There are some thoughts that ruin marriages I advice you don't reason it. Cheers and happy living.
Yes he's cheating. Atleast yours is open about it. Mine lies but he's d worst when it comes To cheating. ThankGod we don't make love anymore, just a matter of time b4 an nice man would help him sex me.
Did u see any signs that he cheated, or is cheating? Men always slip no matter how careful they try to be. Its possible he abstained 'cos of ur condition then, and its possible he didn't. My advice is that u shouldn't think too much about it. So long as he hasn't showed signs of infidelity. And PLEASE don't turn an FBI agent, 'cos u must surely dig up dirt. Shalom sis.
My question is, is this his first child? If yes, that makes it the second thing he has not done before. There is a first time to every thing. He is about to become more responsible because of fatherhood. He said that to you just to let you know that his libido is quite high. Keep your cool. You can only worry if his attention and commitment towards you during that period on no sex was questionable. If everything is still normal, why loose your peace. He just grew up due to new responsibilties.
Funny!! Y will y ask him...is it not bound to happen.huh!! so u think a man can stick to having sex wit only his partner...u r so funny..abeg cum of it...to me it's part n parcel for d men so I can't be surprised if my man is sleeping wit sum1 else. that's it
Yes, he cheated! And guess what? he knows you heard him clearly. Should you act immature and confront him over something that happened in the past just because you heard him now? There's no need for that! Concentrate and think about God's present goodness in your life and be happy! Is not everytime the devil knocks on your door that you must entertain him.
Yes, he cheated! And guess what? he knows you heard him clearly. Should you act immature and confront him over something that happened in the past just because you heard him now? There's no need for that! Concentrate and think about God's present goodness in your life and be happy! Is not everytime the devil knocks on your door that you must entertain him.
Some women just like fight pass quarrel. If he actually cheated what do you intend doing, are you going to reverse what has been done? Channel your energy into something peaceful and productive.
Ma dear 90% of men cheat.no Nid confronting him at least nt yet.jez let it b 4nw until u find real evidence 2confrobt him wif n b d best wyf u can n ofcos neva stop praying 4him.d Lord is ur stnght
Come to think of it. U have over starved him even even if his libido for sex is so low. A normal couple shouldn't stay that long except on strict medical grounds.
Sweetheart;for me,i'll advise you don't bother yourself with those stuffs. Just keep been a good wife and now that you know it, don't hesitate to give it to him,where ever and whenever he wants it. He is your man, so be totally submissive especially when it comes to that. Make him totally exhausted even before leaving the house for work,so he won't even have the strength to go out there for another. Most men don't like been accused especially when they've not been cut. I wish you a happy home ...NA ZO
I think you should,dat way you can put ur mind to rest.he may have cheated or maybe lying to his frnd(guys do that a lot to front to their frnds)discuss it with him so you can move forward!
Most men can't go a month without sex, maybe he cheated or not!! Just ask him, if he had sex during that time cos u heard him tell his frnds he can't go a month without it.
well...as unbelievable as it may sound,i think he cheated and is still cheating but he wldn't even admit it if u confront him,so i think u shld jst watch him closely,someday u'll catch him.I jst pray he doesn't infect u with some std
Madam, did u have complications in pregnancy? If not u shouldn't have denied him sex, I am 1 week shy of my due date buh I still have (initiate) sex with my hubby thou not as interesting as b4. Don't let wot u heard weigh u down. It might b a lie.
this is a first... Hi dear. I feel you shouldn't confront him, since he didn't tell you himself. it will only create an atmosphere of unnecessary emotions that could be avoided. he may have made the statement just to make his friends know that he's the MAN and probably to stop them from ridiculing him and making dirty suggestions. pray for him and keep being a good wife. your goodness will eventually make him repentant (if he is actually guilty).
Was he talking to you ? NO! Did you Catch him? NO! Are you supposed to listen to his conversation with his friend ?NO! So why do you want to confront him ? Are you u can handle the truth? Coz you know the truth already and you are still in his house! So if you know you are not going to walk out of union then move on with your life......
Oshee,he has been cheatn madam,jst dnt confront him or tink about it cos tryn 2knw wud hurt esp if he denies n u lata find out he cheated n lied,play deaf ears n blind eyes 2 it n concentrate on ur child,be happy,put it behind u, men wud be men.
Of course you should ask him, you should have asked him immediately he said it, maybe jokingly. He is surely getting it elsewhere, hence the reason he didn't pester you during your pregnancy.
#dnt ask..cos he's jus gonna lie straight to ur face..jus dnt thnk bou it and get it out of ur mind and since uve heard that..jus make amends and do ur wifely duties and make sure he doesn't go a mnth without Sex.
My dear. I suggest u let the situation slide since the marriage is at peace. N u just recently gave birth if he is cheating. God will catch him at the right time.
Women- funny and self-deluding creatures. They'll know the truth and yet be seeking it out. Aunty, believe whatever you want,given the right conditions, 99% of men will cheat. What with the scantily dressed women milling around us. My dear, you need to be a man to understand the type of psychological torture we undergo cos of the various varieties and species of breast and azuka we have to endure watching,or not watching depending on where you are at a point. Women,stop deceiving yourselves, admit it,it's almost impossible for us to be 100% fidel-with or without pregnancy. Forget the good boy impression some of us dish out. All na wash! Just pray he uses condom,and the other woman isn't ambitious. A lady left my friend cos she said she saw a suggestive text in his phone. Coincidentally, I visited another friend last week and saw the so-called born-again guy she left my friend for coming out of my friend's bedroom with another chic he took there to poke. They got married just this January!
Oh pls, I just don't know why some women just keep giving themselves unnecessary headache, he can't go one month without having sex, so? Na today? He could just b boasting to his friends, or he could actually mean it, so? Pls you just gave birth concentrate on your baby n stop bothering yourself over hubby cheat or not. If he con cheat wetin you go do,pack your bags n leave?, na only hear you hear and you can't stop thinking over It.... Abegi
Men talk a lot of crap when their friends are around. And the fact that this was not an issue until you overheard means all is actually going ok in your marriage. And lastly, even if he did have sex with a woman when you were pregnant, that shoudl be no threat to you as it was most likely just a function of the body and not cheating.
If ur husband feeds u well, doesn't beat u, respects you and treat u like a queen...u. Better leave him alone and count your blessings. Just make sure that y'all get tested Often so he doesn't give u any shit. Be wise. its not how things are meant to be but a man who pays the bills this days is literally a luxury
Pls, dear sis don't create problem 4 urself, jst take it off ur mind and pray 4 him.. Now dat u know he can't stay a month without, eida he is serious or joking, try ur best to satisfy him and leave d rest to God...
Pls don't. Track him and find out. And why are u even having sex just 6 weeks after? I thought medically, and religiously it should be 3 months after child birth. Correct me if I'm wrong LIBers
Ignore wot he said. Maybe he said dat just to boost his ego as a man. Some of dis our husbands say tins dy dont do. Mayb he doesnt want to b left out in dat discussion. Dont allow dat to affect ur relationship wit him.
I think you should take things easy with him don't pop up the big question on him for now just relax calm your nerves and keep a closer eye on him and you see all of his actions and movement that he will put up I think with that will be able to know if he's cheating on you or not! Though like the saying goes that men are born cheat but still you won't cast on net on that assumption maybe he asked it not knowing when it came out of mouth, like they say talk is cheap or may be he just said it to play a prank on you! So a step at a time will go a long way in finding out what he's hiding if there's any, so play smart so as not to scatter the relationship that has took you many years to put in order. That's just my own put of view. But if you still feel other wise then confront him period
Some men like to form when they r outside. They exaggerate things. But u can jjokingly confront him just to have a piece of mind. But pls do not snoop!
Just over look it my lady, it doesnt matter. There is no faithful man as far as TOTO exist. Focus on your baby and family, place less value to sex and you will be happy, because even if he cheats, the DK is still hanging in between his leg. Dem no cut am carry go. so girl relax and dont confront him.
Lol I wonder why woman stop having sex when they get pregnant. And nope it's mot harmful to the baby. If he did , it's probably your fault. He probably did or is Jst dronting for his guys. The question is are you prepared for his answer? If you are ready then sure go ahead and ask
It's possible he cheated. Every man want to look hot before there friends. He might have lied to his friend. But why stay away from sex at 6month wen you can have sex till your water burst?
Nne drop this topic. Don't discuss it. If it ain't broken don't fix it. Am also pregnant and in my eight month and due to complications, we have not had sex for over eight months now. Don't want to think about it. Be wise
4 how long did u want him stay, is one month not enough, is dat place 4 fancee is it not 4 d wok of kiri wawa dat is y u marry him, ar u not hapi 4 ur husband dimandin it. From u ? when anoda Girl wil tek ova dis wok which u ar deniyin ur husband so b4 u wil rializ ursefle water done pas, now ur husband neva becom cheatin husband now but dat ur ar pushin him 2 becom one , my sister 4 peace 2 ren giv it 2 him as he want he is ur husband d father of ur future children, a word is enough 4 wise, tank u.
My dear I don't know y u stopped having sex with ur husband during pregnancy u ve ur reasons though but one thing u can ve sex till d day u deliver and continue later once u ve stopped bleeding and not having pains. There re options in giving ur husband dat pleasure he craves for after ur delivery till wen strong enough to do all the aerobics u normally do wen fit. As for asking ur husband if he cheated my dear don't let this one pass. You now know he can't stay a month with out sex so up ur game learn new tricks to keep ur man satisfied so he would forget abt any fling if he had or has.
The world has changed women accept infidelity like it's a normal thing.. It's not normal. A cheating man doesn't deserve you period..#cheatingisnotnormal #womenknowyourworth if a man cheats on you he can also kill you cos it means he don't value you I refuse to belive cheating is normal.
My dear, lick ur wounds and move on for ur peace. Next time u get pregnant, don't let him off u for that long. There are so many positions u can assume in sex with pregnancy. It works for me. U only avoid sex during pregnancy ONLY on ur doctor's advice. If not, ur hubby go dey 'collect' from other girls all in d pretext dt u are pregnant. Sorry tho.
That method is old and its provoking, I get turned off and push away any girl that brings discussion on during sex. Only the mumu men will fall for that trick.
confront him for closure, but trust me he cheated on you during your pregnancy period, he is probably still cheating on you.....Men must always cheat. and you can always divorce him if you can take it...shikena!!
@lindaikeji I read the story and the only advice I want to give the young girl is that she should be very careful the way she deny her husband sex. She should learn how to love her husband and comply with him, love him and give him sex whenever he need it. I will tell you the truth even me cannot stay one full month without sex, likewise many other man. Meanwhile to conclude my comment find what your husband love most and give it to him that is why you are there. Thanks. Hope to hear from you soon.
Relax ur mind woman, he might nt mean wat he told his frnd, men brag a lot n r always jealous or envy of each oda, he might jst tell his frnd may b 2 spice him up
Goat! Go & kill yourself because of what somebody else said. What if he was bragging to his friends and says he kills people for fun, would you be scared and paranoid?
Don't ask him. If it was your bf, I would say confront him. But you guys are married already. The answer won't make a difference. It will just cost you heartache if he says he did. Let it go, it's not easy but let it go Hon.
We're both experiencing d same thing n it has gotten 2 d extent dat I'm not attracted 2 my hubby anymore n I can't even bear the thought of him touching me. We r merely roomies now.
Madam you didn't have sex with Him for almost 4months?! Like TF? 3months during pregnancy and 6weeks after birth. I can't even a go a week without fucking my wife. Bullshits! He fucking did the right thing cus obviously he must have cheated
It's women like you that get stuck in failed marriages. Communication is the key to making ur marriage work. If ur spouse makes a statement that troubles you, why the hell shouldn't you be able to confront him and discuss your concerns? Is it nw okay for men to cheat and get away with it? Do u think if tables turned , he would not confront you and possibly even kick you out of the house. We women are the ones who create a monster out of these men unknowingly. He will get worse if she ignores the problem. She should also do her best to satisfy her mans need always
Some men brag so much abt sex wit frnds so dey wil be seen as Mr macho,he probably was jst avin a man to man talk wit frnds,provided ders no sign of him cheatin...i'd rather u let sleepin dogs lie....
dats like d most daftest thing I ever heard hw is he suppose to stay from sixth month of ur pregnancy to five months after delivery.I do not know hw d womens hormones work but anyman who's banana is working properly like mine must av lost count of hw many times he has had sex within dat timeframe except he masturbates. (WESTINO said so)
dats like d most daftest thing I ever heard hw is he suppose to stay from sixth month of ur pregnancy to five months after delivery.I do not know hw d womens hormones work but anyman who's banana is working properly like mine must av lost count of hw many times he has had sex within dat timeframe except he masturbates. (WESTINO said so)
dats like d most daftest thing I ever heard hw is he suppose to stay from sixth month of ur pregnancy to five months after delivery.I do not know hw d womens hormones work but anyman who's banana is working properly like mine must av lost count of hw many times he has had sex within dat timeframe except he masturbates. (WESTINO said so)
dats like d most daftest thing I ever heard hw is he suppose to stay from sixth month of ur pregnancy to five months after delivery.I do not know hw d womens hormones work but anyman who's banana is working properly like mine must av lost count of hw many times he has had sex within dat timeframe except he masturbates. (WESTINO said so)
dats like d most daftest thing I ever heard hw is he suppose to stay from sixth month of ur pregnancy to five months after delivery.I do not know hw d womens hormones work but anyman who's banana is working properly like mine must av lost count of hw many times he has had sex within dat timeframe except he masturbates. (WESTINO said so)
dats like d most daftest thing I ever heard hw is he suppose to stay from sixth month of ur pregnancy to five months after delivery.I do not know hw d womens hormones work but anyman who's banana is working properly like mine must av lost count of hw many times he has had sex within dat timeframe except he masturbates. (WESTINO said so)
haba... this woman, you are wicked ooh. 6 months no sex for a married man, and you are now complaining. Even if he will put it there and not move.. you had better grab your husband and fuck the hella out of him to remind him you are his wife before another chicks takes over him o. Choi, my husband gets his doze 5 times a week, no shaking, if he decides to cheat after all that, I leave him to God
Better thank your God that your husband allowed your pregnancy stayed till you put to bed , am just coming from the hospital now since morning we have been at the clinic am barely two months pregnant he made love to me and blood came out, just here crying,thank God baby is intact nothing happened ,what kind of man is this but this time around i have learnt and will so abstain from sex wish he will just leave me till nine months,anyhow he want to satisfy himself let him do ,my pregnancy and the baby coming are my sources of joy.Lady ,be strong and ignore whatever he is doing dont ask him just beg him to use condom that HIV plenty lie to him that you know of innocent men carrying face as if they are not cheating that just contacted the virus,scare him with plenty HIV fake fake story,that you dont mind him putting condom in his wallet always. Truth is our mothers tried for this thing called men hand.
Lol. Dear Anonymous, do you think if he was concerned just one bit about her heart's condition, he would have made that statement to his lovely wife's hearing knowing fully well that once upon a time, he hadn't had sex with her for a period of 3months? After the confrontation, what next pls??? Will she not be pregnant again? Or will she not starve him for another 3months? Enlighten me! That you are a woman doesn't mean you should rant about everything and if u're asked you'll say u're trashing the issue when infact it's ur life u're trashing. People must learn to choose their battles. Now she knows and instead of confronting him, she should sit up next time and balance her husband's and baby's needs.
having a one night stand isn't cheating (for men). when a man is dating another girl while you're still in his life is cheating, but when is just sex and go, don't regard it as cheating cos you're still number one...
Instead of being stupid n waiting for anoda man to sex u in your matrimonial home, why don't u divorce him n be free to frolick as u want? D rules r different for men n women. Face it dawg
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Don't be lazy
All men cant. Sorry lov
Lol...initiate sex n while on top ask him lovingly...
That one na talk ? Wetin the man marry u for ? Linda, help us ask her if she is sick.
He even tried. But wat dyu wanna be doing staving him for more dan a month? He most definitely cheated dear, get over it
My dear, men must cheat u don't need to worry yourself over what you know is certain. U wanna live long? Don't let it border you dear.
Lol. U be amebo n U re not supposed to hear everything buh now U heard it n U re upset. I know how U re feeling right now. Maybe U should ask him abt it
Ubanagum
Congrat
My dear, men must cheat u don't need to worry yourself over what you know is certain. U wanna live long? Don't let it border you dear.
Well, i guess u were not meant to hear it, but guess the alcohol and jolly moment slipped his tongue.
Confront him for your peace and sanity so that u can have a closure.
Eyar.....kpele na......confront him......
APATA...............ROCK OF AGES
Madam, every man cheats. There are 2 many beautiful girls out there. Just advice him to always use condom. U are not alone in dis issue.
Babes are you a learner? Did you court this hubby of yours at all? Coz this your question seems like your parent just dragged you to the altar to marry a stranger.
Hmmmmmmmmmmmmm.
Some stories here just amaze me.
Oya confront him.
Me and ur husband are the same ooo.. I sex my wife 5times in a week... What the big deal there if you actually love him.. post a free classified advert
No, it doesn't mean he cheated
Men brag a lot about sex to their friends...
Before pregnancy, does he go a month without sexing u? If yes, then u have a reason to worry small...
Well, a discussion with a friend is different from dat with a spouse, so I suggest u seat him down and talk with him.
yes he slept with another sorry.
If it bothers you, ask him about it instead of killing yourself with worry! Conversation shouldn't be underrated in a relationship, in fact it should be its bedrock!
Hmmmmmmm
eye wey no see ....so no issues
Pele! Hes cheated on u if he said that and truly meant it. Men wouldnt take it lightly if its the other way round. Talk to him about it, of course he will deny cheating but let him know you know!
Hmmmmmm
You need to take a chill pill Mrs. Guys brag. It's that simple.
U still dey ask? Of course he was hitting someone else outside. U better sit up and reclaim what's urs. Dave now Daniel Craig
Hmmmmmmmmmm, men can cheat, confront him my dear
just because he brags to his friends doesn't mean he cheats on you
i know about the 6 week rule after a baby which gives room for the vagina et all to heal......
but nne...
whyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy were you not fucking him from month 7 till month 9?
He has said it all.
Madam you don't need any confrontation, it wasn't meant for your ears, only wait until it's for you then you can talk and don't let that ruin your thought because it's nothing close to what you thinking. The period you calculated, does it mean you two never had a romantic time that will make a man feel satisfied? There are some thoughts that ruin marriages I advice you don't reason it. Cheers and happy living.
So?
Yes he's cheating. Atleast yours is open about it. Mine lies but he's d worst when it comes To cheating. ThankGod we don't make love anymore, just a matter of time b4 an nice man would help him sex me.
Retard.
na work u no get. MEN BRAG A LOT,just to look cool in front of their friends....
What was his response?
Dis is wht I call second chance. Mayb he is just beating his chest b4 his friends. So our belove fellow LIB chill, and don't jump into conclusion.
Mayb u should confront him instead of dis choice of running down here to seek our advice. At least dis wil clarify ur doubts.
Let d sleeping dogs lie ok...its hard but let it go..
Sometimes men say things in front of their friends so they c them as macho,don't bother urself
Did u see any signs that he cheated, or is cheating? Men always slip no matter how careful they try to be. Its possible he abstained 'cos of ur condition then, and its possible he didn't. My advice is that u shouldn't think too much about it. So long as he hasn't showed signs of infidelity. And PLEASE don't turn an FBI agent, 'cos u must surely dig up dirt. Shalom sis.
#TeamBlessed#
He might be saying that to uphold his ego as a man. Or probably he must've been having it for real. Confront him. He'll definitely deny it.
My question is, is this his first child? If yes, that makes it the second thing he has not done before. There is a first time to every thing. He is about to become more responsible because of fatherhood.
He said that to you just to let you know that his libido is quite high. Keep your cool. You can only worry if his attention and commitment towards you during that period on no sex was questionable. If everything is still normal, why loose your peace. He just grew up due to new responsibilties.
Confront him and cause problem in your house....that how women ll be looking for trouble where there's none.
He never cheated on u,he just gave u a break during that period.
U Self Behaving like a Kid. Its Guys Stuff Na he never meant it #Lobatan
Funny!! Y will y ask him...is it not bound to happen.huh!! so u think a man can stick to having sex wit only his partner...u r so funny..abeg cum of it...to me it's part n parcel for d men so I can't be surprised if my man is sleeping wit sum1 else. that's it
Most men have enormous appetite for sex😈😈😈,don't bother confronting him cause he will deny having sex outside of your union.IG nickydarsh
Yes, he cheated! And guess what? he knows you heard him clearly. Should you act immature and confront him over something that happened in the past just because you heard him now? There's no need for that! Concentrate and think about God's present goodness in your life and be happy! Is not everytime the devil knocks on your door that you must entertain him.
A month? Its too far naa, some men one week twice a day.
Yes, he cheated! And guess what? he knows you heard him clearly. Should you act immature and confront him over something that happened in the past just because you heard him now? There's no need for that! Concentrate and think about God's present goodness in your life and be happy! Is not everytime the devil knocks on your door that you must entertain him.
Cheating no just helping him self
I have long observed that sometimes, what people say and what they do, may be 2 different things. Text Fortune to 33020.
Some women just like fight pass quarrel.
If he actually cheated what do you intend doing, are you going to reverse what has been done?
Channel your energy into something peaceful and productive.
~BONARIO~says so via NOKIA LUMIA
Madam, he obviously cheated on u during that period...
Ma dear 90% of men cheat.no Nid confronting him at least nt yet.jez let it b 4nw until u find real evidence 2confrobt him wif n b d best wyf u can n ofcos neva stop praying 4him.d Lord is ur stnght
Come to think of it. U have over starved him even even if his libido for sex is so low. A normal couple shouldn't stay that long except on strict medical grounds.
Hmm. Relax your mind.
What you heard may be true or not true depending on what he meant by that.
to help you on one part, discuss with him and express your worries and concerns about what you heard.
make no assumptions, rather seek for clarifications to avoid emotional torture on your part.
From the tone,manner and way he responds,you can then seek avenues to meet his sexual appetite.
It must not always be power packed but you can hold hands and do some cuddling and stuff.
Worries like this is not healthy for a nursing mother so do everything within your power to minimize them and give your best to your baby.
He may be bragging for his friends,don't let that worry you if he did not give you any reason to suspect him!
Perhaps he said it to boost his ego, or he really can't stay that long. But which ever it is he is a man. And most men are bound to cheat
maybe he's cheating but at the same time guys just say things when they are among friends, things that they dont really do, just to fit in the moment
Talk to him, let him know your fears. If it bothers you so, let him know!! Don't die in silence!
My sister, don't worry yourself...He survived by Masturbation...a ton of us do that when you women folk choose to starve us
U SHUD KNW HW FAR...TOMJERRYSWIT
Oga dey nack of a normal dubz
Madam you worry too much. Don't let ur
insecurity destroy ur marriage.
Sweetheart;for me,i'll advise you don't bother yourself with those stuffs. Just keep been a good wife and now that you know it, don't hesitate to give it to him,where ever and whenever he wants it. He is your man, so be totally submissive especially when it comes to that. Make him totally exhausted even before leaving the house for work,so he won't even have the strength to go out there for another.
Most men don't like been accused especially when they've not been cut.
I wish you a happy home
...NA ZO
See question.......He has said it alll....he cant go a month without sex...meaning he has someone else...
Some men sha!!! aaarrrhhhhh
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IF HE EVEN CHEATS ON YOU YOU ARE 100% THE CAUSE. YOU THINK YOU CAN AVOID HIM SEXUALLY AND GO SCORE FREE!
I think you should,dat way you can put ur mind to rest.he may have cheated or maybe lying to his frnd(guys do that a lot to front to their frnds)discuss it with him so you can move forward!
Hmm! the rate at which married men cheat on their wife is so appalling, as if it is their right to do so
Please it doesn't mean he cheated , it's an expression
He might jst say d@ 2 brag infront of his 4rends we guys do d@ a lot
Damn babe I wld advice u pretend u dint hear that Cuz u won't be able to on hear the things he will say Afta u confront him
Madam errrr you know the answer to your question...
Most men can't go a month without sex, maybe he cheated or not!! Just ask him, if he had sex during that time cos u heard him tell his frnds he can't go a month without it.
He might jst say d@ 2 brag infront of his 4rends we guys do d@ a lot
well...as unbelievable as it may sound,i think he cheated and is still cheating but he wldn't even admit it if u confront him,so i think u shld jst watch him closely,someday u'll catch him.I jst pray he doesn't infect u with some std
Madam, did u have complications in pregnancy? If not u shouldn't have denied him sex, I am 1 week shy of my due date buh I still have (initiate) sex with my hubby thou not as interesting as b4. Don't let wot u heard weigh u down. It might b a lie.
this is a first...
Hi dear. I feel you shouldn't confront him, since he didn't tell you himself. it will only create an atmosphere of unnecessary emotions that could be avoided. he may have made the statement just to make his friends know that he's the MAN and probably to stop them from ridiculing him and making dirty suggestions. pray for him and keep being a good wife. your goodness will eventually make him repentant (if he is actually guilty).
You goofed. Are u meant to take a leave on your hubby that long and feel comfortable with it? Get a life joor
Was he talking to you ? NO! Did you Catch him? NO! Are you supposed to listen to his conversation with his friend ?NO! So why do you want to confront him ? Are you u can handle the truth? Coz you know the truth already and you are still in his house! So if you know you are not going to walk out of union then move on with your life......
Oshee,he has been cheatn madam,jst dnt confront him or tink about it cos tryn 2knw wud hurt esp if he denies n u lata find out he cheated n lied,play deaf ears n blind eyes 2 it n concentrate on ur child,be happy,put it behind u, men wud be men.
Of course you should ask him, you should have asked him immediately he said it, maybe jokingly.
He is surely getting it elsewhere, hence the reason he didn't pester you during your pregnancy.
#dnt ask..cos he's jus gonna lie straight to ur face..jus dnt thnk bou it and get it out of ur mind and since uve heard that..jus make amends and do ur wifely duties and make sure he doesn't go a mnth without Sex.
I'd advice you keep thinking
Woman plz dnt even confront him ooo jst let d sleeping dog lie. His nt d first to hv cheated dat is if he has done it so plz Rest abeg.
Lib freak
My dear. I suggest u let the situation slide since the marriage is at peace. N u just recently gave birth if he is cheating. God will catch him at the right time.
Hey he is cheating on you
70% of men EVERYWHERE in d world wud cheat marriage is a contract. Marry sm1 dat wud give u nice looking smart kids & has money but also be indépendent & secretly stash sm cash away incase he decides to leave.
Our mothers taught us how to be good wives, how to preserve ourselves 4 our husbands sadly, no 1 felt d need to teach our brothers how to keep themselves 4 their wives (it even sounds funny) or be good husbands. So men look at themselves like d prize & d more women fight over them it emphasizes this feeling.
Don't be sentimental abt marriage.
our mothers wud say they were married 4 50yrs does it make d marriage successful? When d dads cheated is it bcos he didn't give them HIV dat they hv d guts 2 talk? Pls
If u confront him, and he lies, u feel beta. If he tells d truth u feel.
If its true & u rant wat if he says he's not doing again or wud u leave?
Weigh all ur options & scénarios b4 u decide 2 know "d truth"
Bon chance
P.s u may hv married d less than 30%
Confront him jokelly with lafe don't be harsh or rude about it
U hv to try and 4get about it because de discussion was not meant for u....nobody holy pass
Women always looking for a way to argue lol
Hmmm
Remove your mind from there jare
Women- funny and self-deluding creatures. They'll know the truth and yet be seeking it out. Aunty, believe whatever you want,given the right conditions, 99% of men will cheat. What with the scantily dressed women milling around us. My dear, you need to be a man to understand the type of psychological torture we undergo cos of the various varieties and species of breast and azuka we have to endure watching,or not watching depending on where you are at a point. Women,stop deceiving yourselves, admit it,it's almost impossible for us to be 100% fidel-with or without pregnancy. Forget the good boy impression some of us dish out. All na wash! Just pray he uses condom,and the other woman isn't ambitious. A lady left my friend cos she said she saw a suggestive text in his phone. Coincidentally, I visited another friend last week and saw the so-called born-again guy she left my friend for coming out of my friend's bedroom with another chic he took there to poke. They got married just this January!
He may not mean it,u knw some men like bragging a lot infront of their frnds
Oh pls, I just don't know why some women just keep giving themselves unnecessary headache, he can't go one month without having sex, so? Na today? He could just b boasting to his friends, or he could actually mean it, so? Pls you just gave birth concentrate on your baby n stop bothering yourself over hubby cheat or not.
If he con cheat wetin you go do,pack your bags n leave?, na only hear you hear and you can't stop thinking over It.... Abegi
Men talk a lot of crap when their friends are around. And the fact that this was not an issue until you overheard means all is actually going ok in your marriage. And lastly, even if he did have sex with a woman when you were pregnant, that shoudl be no threat to you as it was most likely just a function of the body and not cheating.
If ur husband feeds u well, doesn't beat u, respects you and treat u like a queen...u. Better leave him alone and count your blessings. Just make sure that y'all get tested Often so he doesn't give u any shit. Be wise. its not how things are meant to be but a man who pays the bills this days is literally a luxury
If u are faithful, yeah I guess u should
Pls, dear sis don't create problem 4 urself, jst take it off ur mind and pray 4 him.. Now dat u know he can't stay a month without, eida he is serious or joking, try ur best to satisfy him and leave d rest to God...
sorry babygirl, ur husband is cheating on you.of course did you expect him to stay without sex. lmao. u be winch o
Would you leave him if he says he cheated? If no, then don't ask him.
Woman 4get u heard dat,ur hubby mite jos say such trust men jos want to b macho so save ursef d stress n continue taking care of ur two BABIES
Pls don't. Track him and find out. And why are u even having sex just 6 weeks after? I thought medically, and religiously it should be 3 months after child birth. Correct me if I'm wrong LIBers
Ignore wot he said. Maybe he said dat just to boost his ego as a man. Some of dis our husbands say tins dy dont do. Mayb he doesnt want to b left out in dat discussion. Dont allow dat to affect ur relationship wit him.
Be loyal
Be calm
Be careful
Don't kill yourself in the name of marriage
Allow to be
Advice him to get condom anything he wants to go for away match
No need sweetheart... let it go and focus on other things.
I think you should take things easy with him don't pop up the big question on him for now just relax calm your nerves and keep a closer eye on him and you see all of his actions and movement that he will put up I think with that will be able to know if he's cheating on you or not! Though like the saying goes that men are born cheat but still you won't cast on net on that assumption maybe he asked it not knowing when it came out of mouth, like they say talk is cheap or may be he just said it to play a prank on you! So a step at a time will go a long way in finding out what he's hiding if there's any, so play smart so as not to scatter the relationship that has took you many years to put in order. That's just my own put of view. But if you still feel other wise then confront him period
Allow him to be, if he touch you those period you gave birth new, you will not allow him
Some men like to form when they r outside. They exaggerate things. But u can jjokingly confront him just to have a piece of mind. But pls do not snoop!
Just over look it my lady, it doesnt matter. There is no faithful man as far as TOTO exist. Focus on your baby and family, place less value to sex and you will be happy, because even if he cheats, the DK is still hanging in between his leg. Dem no cut am carry go. so girl relax and dont confront him.
And how is that a crime. Hes your husband for crying out loud except you prefer him on the loose. Madam abeg you have no case.
Plz i'do advise she focus on her baby,&stop looking for drama in her marriage. Let her take d message in dat discussion n stay happy.
Lol I wonder why woman stop having sex when they get pregnant. And nope it's mot harmful to the baby. If he did , it's probably your fault. He probably did or is Jst dronting for his guys. The question is are you prepared for his answer? If you are ready then sure go ahead and ask
Make we jus do lyk say no be lie
It's possible he cheated. Every man want to look hot before there friends. He might have lied to his friend. But why stay away from sex at 6month wen you can have sex till your water burst?
and how is that a crime. for crying our loud he is your husband except you want him on the loose. Madam you no get case abeg.
Nne drop this topic. Don't discuss it. If it ain't broken don't fix it. Am also pregnant and in my eight month and due to complications, we have not had sex for over eight months now. Don't want to think about it. Be wise
woman no go kill urseelf. sometimes men make statements to boost in public. that should not border u. wish u goodluck in ur marriage
4 how long did u want him stay, is one month not enough, is dat place 4 fancee is it not 4 d wok of kiri wawa dat is y u marry him, ar u not hapi 4 ur husband dimandin it. From u ? when anoda Girl wil tek ova dis wok which u ar deniyin ur husband so b4 u wil rializ ursefle water done pas, now ur husband neva becom cheatin husband now but dat ur ar pushin him 2 becom one , my sister 4 peace 2 ren giv it 2 him as he want he is ur husband d father of ur future children, a word is enough 4 wise, tank u.
Talk to am like joke
Hehehehe! Don't ask what you don't want to know the answer. Linda take note!
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All of u are saying men cheat, women don't cheat abi.. ?
He may be making mouth to his friends in order to feel cool among them. Sit him down in a loving way and ask him
My dear I don't know y u stopped having sex with ur husband during pregnancy u ve ur reasons though but one thing u can ve sex till d day u deliver and continue later once u ve stopped bleeding and not having pains. There re options in giving ur husband dat pleasure he craves for after ur delivery till wen strong enough to do all the aerobics u normally do wen fit. As for asking ur husband if he cheated my dear don't let this one pass. You now know he can't stay a month with out sex so up ur game learn new tricks to keep ur man satisfied so he would forget abt any fling if he had or has.
He is cheating,dats just d truth,men can b terrible oh,no put ur mind 4 any man oh,they are not worth it.
The world has changed women accept infidelity like it's a normal thing.. It's not normal. A cheating man doesn't deserve you period..#cheatingisnotnormal #womenknowyourworth if a man cheats on you he can also kill you cos it means he don't value you I refuse to belive cheating is normal.
Men are polygamous oooo oooh
My dear, lick ur wounds and move on for ur peace. Next time u get pregnant, don't let him off u for that long. There are so many positions u can assume in sex with pregnancy. It works for me. U only avoid sex during pregnancy ONLY on ur doctor's advice. If not, ur hubby go dey 'collect' from other girls all in d pretext dt u are pregnant. Sorry tho.
Make a brother happy joor..he may have or didn't..but make sure the D is satisfied. Dont be worried
That method is old and its provoking, I get turned off and push away any girl that brings discussion on during sex. Only the mumu men will fall for that trick.
Dis is wht I call second chance. Mayb he is just beating his chest b4 his friends. So our belove fellow LIB chill, and don't jump into conclusion.
Mayb u should confront him instead of dis choice of running down here to seek our advice. At least dis wil clarify ur doubts.
Dis is wht I call second chance. Mayb he is just beating his chest b4 his friends. So our belove fellow LIB chill, and don't jump into conclusion.
Mayb u should confront him instead of dis choice of running down here to seek our advice. At least dis wil clarify ur doubts.
Madam, are you into guidance and counseling?
Mumu didn't u hear her saying while she was pregnant are u suppose to climb a woman at early pregnancy
Yessoo, one month too much naa. I want it at least once every week.
Not just your husband but all men....so think less my opinion tho
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Trust me DAT shit doesn't work, been there and I lied flat....
confront him for closure, but trust me he cheated on you during your pregnancy period, he is probably still cheating on you.....Men must always cheat. and you can always divorce him if you can take it...shikena!!
Some women can't fit look for trouble sha. Ma dear am 6 months + and don't intend to stop having sex till my water burst.
Married people cheat more than singles these days. Am not eating my words simple fact .You intend to live long? Don't even bother yourself.
Maybe he said it to look awesome to his frnds.
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this has got to be the dumbest comments ever posted! like people are actually supporting that the man cheated!
For me your husband might be saying he can't stay without sex WITH YOU more a month. Nothing to fret about.
@lindaikeji I read the story and the only advice I want to give the young girl is that she should be very careful the way she deny her husband sex. She should learn how to love her husband and comply with him, love him and give him sex whenever he need it. I will tell you the truth even me cannot stay one full month without sex, likewise many other man. Meanwhile to conclude my comment find what your husband love most and give it to him that is why you are there. Thanks. Hope to hear from you soon.
Relax ur mind woman, he might nt mean wat he told his frnd, men brag a lot n r always jealous or envy of each oda, he might jst tell his frnd may b 2 spice him up
God bless u for dat sincere advice luv. To wit, u look dam pretty if datz ur pix.
Goat! Go & kill yourself because of what somebody else said. What if he was bragging to his friends and says he kills people for fun, would you be scared and paranoid?
na so
If he is your husband you should be able to ask him. His response and manner in which he answers u will give u the truth. I will definitely ask oooooo
Even if u have to ask him do it nicely and don't accuse him just ask nicely
Don't ask him. If it was your bf, I would say confront him. But you guys are married already. The answer won't make a difference. It will just cost you heartache if he says he did. Let it go, it's not easy but let it go Hon.
He is cheating.
Ask him in a lovely way! If he pause like 2 seconds b4 answering the question... Probably he cheated
We're both experiencing d same thing n it has gotten 2 d extent dat I'm not attracted 2 my hubby anymore n I can't even bear the thought of him touching me. We r merely roomies now.
Madam you didn't have sex with Him for almost 4months?! Like TF? 3months during pregnancy and 6weeks after birth. I can't even a go a week without fucking my wife. Bullshits! He fucking did the right thing cus obviously he must have cheated
What do you expect him to answer and what do you want the lady to do with the answer?
Gbam!
It's women like you that get stuck in failed marriages. Communication is the key to making ur marriage work. If ur spouse makes a statement that troubles you, why the hell shouldn't you be able to confront him and discuss your concerns? Is it nw okay for men to cheat and get away with it? Do u think if tables turned , he would not confront you and possibly even kick you out of the house. We women are the ones who create a monster out of these men unknowingly. He will get worse if she ignores the problem. She should also do her best to satisfy her mans need always
For Gods sake don't do it. Pray for him.
Just assume that he was only joking... but it is the truth that most men can't stay even a week without it.
I can ASSURE you, he got sex elsewhere, but DEFINITELY, he loves you. I'm sure and serious about this. He still loves you, so don't confront him.
Well at least he's not raping her like the one in this post - Bent. Bowed. Broken.
That one was brutal!
Some men brag so much abt sex wit frnds so dey wil be seen as Mr macho,he probably was jst avin a man to man talk wit frnds,provided ders no sign of him cheatin...i'd rather u let sleepin dogs lie....
So pregnant women don't have sex until the child is born? Wake up ladies...
Dis is wht I hate most in relationship. U already knw d truth bt still lookin for story.oya he is nt cheating. ..
Men re polygamous,overlooking and pretend as if u didn't hear anytin bcos if u ask him h e will neva accept it.so let d sleeping dog lye
dats like d most daftest thing I ever heard hw is he suppose to stay from sixth month of ur pregnancy to five months after delivery.I do not know hw d womens hormones work but anyman who's banana is working properly like mine must av lost count of hw many times he has had sex within dat timeframe except he masturbates. (WESTINO said so)
dats like d most daftest thing I ever heard hw is he suppose to stay from sixth month of ur pregnancy to five months after delivery.I do not know hw d womens hormones work but anyman who's banana is working properly like mine must av lost count of hw many times he has had sex within dat timeframe except he masturbates. (WESTINO said so)
dats like d most daftest thing I ever heard hw is he suppose to stay from sixth month of ur pregnancy to five months after delivery.I do not know hw d womens hormones work but anyman who's banana is working properly like mine must av lost count of hw many times he has had sex within dat timeframe except he masturbates. (WESTINO said so)
dats like d most daftest thing I ever heard hw is he suppose to stay from sixth month of ur pregnancy to five months after delivery.I do not know hw d womens hormones work but anyman who's banana is working properly like mine must av lost count of hw many times he has had sex within dat timeframe except he masturbates. (WESTINO said so)
dats like d most daftest thing I ever heard hw is he suppose to stay from sixth month of ur pregnancy to five months after delivery.I do not know hw d womens hormones work but anyman who's banana is working properly like mine must av lost count of hw many times he has had sex within dat timeframe except he masturbates. (WESTINO said so)
dats like d most daftest thing I ever heard hw is he suppose to stay from sixth month of ur pregnancy to five months after delivery.I do not know hw d womens hormones work but anyman who's banana is working properly like mine must av lost count of hw many times he has had sex within dat timeframe except he masturbates. (WESTINO said so)
talk to him about it
Point of correction! Not all men cheat, some of us are still faithful
Please tell her she is single
haba... this woman, you are wicked ooh. 6 months no sex for a married man, and you are now complaining. Even if he will put it there and not move.. you had better grab your husband and fuck the hella out of him to remind him you are his wife before another chicks takes over him o.
Choi, my husband gets his doze 5 times a week, no shaking, if he decides to cheat after all that, I leave him to God
Better thank your God that your husband allowed your pregnancy stayed till you put to bed , am just coming from the hospital now since morning we have been at the clinic am barely two months pregnant he made love to me and blood came out, just here crying,thank God baby is intact nothing happened ,what kind of man is this but this time around i have learnt and will so abstain from sex wish he will just leave me till nine months,anyhow he want to satisfy himself let him do ,my pregnancy and the baby coming are my sources of joy.Lady ,be strong and ignore whatever he is doing dont ask him just beg him to use condom that HIV plenty lie to him that you know of innocent men carrying face as if they are not cheating that just contacted the virus,scare him with plenty HIV fake fake story,that you dont mind him putting condom in his wallet always. Truth is our mothers tried for this thing called men hand.
Lol.
Dear Anonymous, do you think if he was concerned just one bit about her heart's condition, he would have made that statement to his lovely wife's hearing knowing fully well that once upon a time, he hadn't had sex with her for a period of 3months?
After the confrontation, what next pls??? Will she not be pregnant again? Or will she not starve him for another 3months? Enlighten me!
That you are a woman doesn't mean you should rant about everything and if u're asked you'll say u're trashing the issue when infact it's ur life u're trashing.
People must learn to choose their battles. Now she knows and instead of confronting him, she should sit up next time and balance her husband's and baby's needs.
Gd one. U luk pretty
A very serious case of amebo, ajere and Keti keti. You were sniffing around n heard what u not supposed to hear. Boink his brains out honey
Don't bother asking as long as he takes care of u and d kids
Anon tell her oh, the way ladies jump into conclusion tire me.
having a one night stand isn't cheating (for men). when a man is dating another girl while you're still in his life is cheating, but when is just sex and go, don't regard it as cheating cos you're still number one...
Instead of being stupid n waiting for anoda man to sex u in your matrimonial home, why don't u divorce him n be free to frolick as u want? D rules r different for men n women. Face it dawg
Said like a donness! Wise counsel. ' You will always dig up dirt'
My husband does me everyday and you are talking about one month? You got to be kidding me
why do women get scared of talking to their partner, do you even need to ask before confronting him?
All men cheat, forget asking him . Do your best and leave the rest for God
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