Linda I'm 40years old today and I'm the saddest person alive. So I'm writing this letter today to God through your blog hoping somebody somewhere can help me make sense of my life..
Dear God,I'm 40 today and I hate the life you have given me. This isn't living. Being dead is better than this. Haba God, after my sacrifice, after serving you in truth and in spirit. You bring me shame? I have no money, no kids, no husband and you want me to continue serving u. Haha, you are joking right?
Dear God, you no try! If I were you, I would have blessed me since. I never disobeyed my parents while they were alive. I read my bible daily, I was a virgin till I was 31 for Christ sake. Haba!
People
told me, leave ikotun and move to the island. There are husbands there. I
moved, nothing. They told me, change your church, I changed. Still
nothing. Lose ur virginity, men dont like mature virgins, I lost it. What
strategy have I not tried.
My mates that
aren't married have money, and if they don't have money they have kids.
Why have you chosen to humiliate me like this? Was I wrong
to give up my virginity at 31? Is that why you are not fair to me, if
that's the reason, all my friends and siblings stopped being virgins in
their early 20s and they are all married with children. So that can't
be. Or maybe my reward isn't here on earth. Oya take me, let me rest.
I'm asthmatic, I'm lonely, I'm poor and not happy. This is too much.
Too much
Linda, libers somebody, anybody, please
explain to me what I have done wrong. How does God work? Because I can't
seem to make sense of my existence here on earth.
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«Oldest ‹Older 201 – 400 of 894 Newer› Newest»There re some of this problems u can solve urself. 1. If u want kids u can ve one with somebody u like, just make sure u can care 4 d child. 2. Not every woman is destined to be married + we may lookalike as humans but our destinies re not the same, I know how hard it is to not compare ourselves to our peers but u must try to avoid such thinking coz it dampens d spirit. Everyone is special one way or d other, so try to keep ur head high always, never look down on urself or think that u worthless coz pple will only see what u want them to see n what u see in urself. It's not over until God says it is. SWEET ANONYMOUS.
oh my dear,
Just last night i was thinking the same and we are not even in the same situation (mine is better so i'm thankful) it seems like since i started attending church regularly and working for God things have gone somewhat blahhhhh.
I don't think i am very faithful to say the truth and maybe thats why or maybe I just think everyone else is happy and i'm comparing myself.
honestly God will not forsake his people....ACT by faith, do whatever you want but don't hurt yourself or your family and dont be jealous of them.
don't take yourself too seriously and have fun. dance in the rain, go to friends parties, you are not a failure and things will eventually work out in Jesus name. Amen.
your love will find you when you find yourself...no one likes a grumpy person (i deduce this from your msg)
i'm encouraging myself as i write this. everyone is fighting a battle. Trust me my insides right now down look like my outside (i'm amazing on the outside but dying on the inside) try exercising and healthy eating.
Honestly do whatever you want no one cares, you'll be judged whether you do or don't so do whatever you want and find what makes you happy and not WHO because only you can do that!!!!
God Bless You.
Dear Poster, if you know the God you serve, if he the same God i serve,the God of E A Adeboye of RCCG,Oyedepo of Winners ,God of isaac,jacob,Abraham,Ruth Sarah,Esther then he is not sleeping neither is he slumbering. Remember many of your mates with all the fore mentioned things are gone and forgotten. you are alive,healthy,you have eyes to see,hears to hear,legs to move from ikotun to island. Oba asekanmaku is still in the business of doing the rifht things at the perfect time. He says he makes all things and you poster beautiful in HIS time not your time not society,peer group,religion. I am so close to tears as i type this because you sound like an ingrate am not judging you but i just want you to see things from another angle that God not sleeping.keep serving him in truth and faith.
So many are married without kids, troubled marriages here and there, divorces flying around,domestic violence too dey,widows and widowers we are not mocking or making jest of them but his Grace he said is more than sufficient for us. Keep looking unto God the author and finisher of our faith. My dear poster, enjoy your life because it is beautiful, married or not.Like they say life begins at 40 so go celebrate his goodness and turnup for christ.
HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO YOU.....ENJOY
My dear,I can understand how you are feeling,I can understand the fact that you are frustrated even to the extent of questioning your existence.
You should know that somebody somewhere is having it worse than you at the moment and that person hasn't lost hope yet. You have come a long way trusting God,don't stop trusting and believing in him now.
We can't always blame God for the hardship we face,but we can always trust in him to improve and change things for the better.
You should know by now that God will not stop being God even if u take your own life,he will always be there and have you asked yourself why you are still alive? My dear you need to wake up from your slumber and re-adjust yourself,re-evaluate your life and start believing again because nothing positive can ever happen to a negative person. You have got to be positive and understand that you are still alive today for a purpose,find out that purpose today and get your life together. God never left you but you need to be positive to see his glory manifest in your life.
Do you even know how envious the dead are of you? They are dead but you are alive,they can't hope but you can,they can't change the situation of things but you can. Please start believing dear,its just too late to quit on God now,you have come this far so don't give up when things are about to change for the better. God bless you.
Sister take it easy . God still dey e go ans u soon
God will not forsake you.... what u need is just keep praying to him.... soon he will bless you. Sorry linda
He knos d plans he has 4u dear..it is of gud nd nt of evil..Go has beta plans
I felt your pain but before blaming God have u searched yourself, u need to look inward, yes u may believe you're upright and you do every just thing that there is to do..God is not man that ever fails, whatever plans/promise he has for us he fulfil it even in our unrighteousness.. the reason i said you should look inward is your character defines you, for instance i use to be a redeemer b4 becoming a catholic and in my parish there old ladies who does nothing but frustrate the effort of brothers in the church just to paint us black & in our closet most of this so called sisters do a lot of things that i need not say..awon agba ni ka mu ragba ta ragba "iwa ni baba n fe". if your communication skill is not right & your character portrays u as proud even you're not rich people will walk away from you.
just groom yourself and leave God out of this
Well u certainly won't get anytn from God with ds kinda attitude!my dear sister i rili cnt say i no wat u gng tru cus i dont bt wat i think u need is a change of attitude n u also need 2 learn 2 luv urself above all tnz,not serving God aint gng 2 help ur case now cus at 40,Jesus na d only way.u need 2 stop listening 2 wat pple say and focus on makin ur life better.being married dsnt bring happiness,if not y r so many pple leavin their marriages or being unhappy in d marriage.its cus so many people base their happiness on oda pple n as such wen u are alone,u bcum miserable.many of ds ladies who are 'churchy' lyk u have very bad judgemental attitude and stink of desperation which is a deal breaker for most eligble bachelors.happiness radiates from within and men luv a woman who can stand her own and dsnt act all needy n desperate.package urself wella,wear gud clothes,dsnt av 2 be expensive,alwyz luk neat,clean n happy even if u are dying inside remember evry1 is fightn their own unique battle,no cari ur own 4 head n face lyk (soldier wen wan go fight boko haram)keep serving God wit a cheerful,non accusatory heart and pretty soon twill be ur turn 2 smile.remember marriage dsnt guarantee happiness,u can also go 4 deliverance in mfm sumtyms such delays myt be spiritual.
one thing i want you to understand is, it is the owner of clay that defines the way his pot will be molded.
the pain you are passing through is what someone else out there is praying to atlst fal into, because there situation is worse than yours.
you r blaming God! if God should blame you bck, then you wil hate yourself.
jut keep caling and praising him, so many many people are marrie nd now wish they nevre married.
somes have money, and there problem is more than yours.
my dear, what matters is, "what willl God say about you at end of the day. Pls dont't feel bad anout this.
you should b grateful for him spring your life,
what do you wnt the person that is blind, feaf and dumb to do?????????
My dear pls give thanks.
TY
My dear,u of all people that has been close to God should know better than question God. U should know there's always a reason for everything. My cousin told me something a few days ago. He told me I ought to be greatfu fr the fact dah I wake up on my own wthout been assisted and I breath well. Ur happiness is all in ur hands. I know its hard been a nigerian lady @ ur age without a husband or child to call ur own but the truth is that u don't need anybody or anything to be happy. Its ur sole business to make urself happy. U might get all these stuffs and still be very sad and yes,it does happen. Start from this day and tell urself evry morning when u wake that u are a survivor and u refuse to be sad.may God help u.
Well, is not easy I agree and nobody can fully understand how u feel. But believe me what the world termed a fulfilled life isn't what God really sees.I don't know why u re in the position u re in oh but u got life and good health and is a good place to start from.don't use complains and all to spoil all your good works over time. Just don't give up on God cos he will never give up on you.
How I wish I have ur number or email address so that we ll have a close chat cos its that same God that u r trying to dump that ll save u in this situation
life deals us all different blows. life is of several hues...some light some dark...some good and cruel.
Don't blame God...some people are meant to have it all...some half of it and others not at all. Be courageous.
I don't know wht to say tho. But the psalmist says that's 'I was young now am old I've never seen the righteous been forsaken and same scriptures says they that know their God shall be strong and do exploit. My advice for you is to go back to God. No one strive with his marker an excel. Go back to God because the reward is not for they that start but of those that run till the end. And I want you to know something, when things ain't going right is not is not God's fault, check yourself.
Hello Linda please I would appreciate it if I can get this ladies info sent to godfrey.ivhurie@gmail.com so I can help the little way I can. Thanks.
Wat u just did. Is very wrong. U are nt talking to God bt humans. Did u forget job in d bible or did u forget Abraham. Get hold of ur self nd pronounce faith filled words. U Thinking as a human u will always find hope in d mist of tuff times nd in d mist of pleasure. Be wise
God works in mysterious ways dear.. He sees all these happening to u. Don't worry, He will open ur file soon! Cheer up!
Dear Poster, before I say anything else, my prayer for you is that even right now in this depression, you will know and experience and rely on the incomparable Love of Jesus! Many times, we try to earn His blessings, but God is not a debtor to anyone. He loved you and died for you while you were still a sinner (Romans 8). A lot of your friends who you think were messing around but ended up happily married, you will discover that many of them will tell you that they do not depend on themselves or their ability to please God. If we could woo God to act for us, then He is not God. God's ways are not hard at all. Psalm 147: 10- 11- God delights in those who depend on His love. If you keep trying to EARN His blessings, you will remain frustrated. My counsel to you dear sister is this: Favour means unmerrited blessings, not earned blessings. So please, relax and understand that God loves you dearly. God does not want you worried and desperate. He still is working out things for your good, so just focus on His Love... He has loved you with an everlasting Love. (((hugs)))
this is so pathetic buh remember His ways are not the ways of man.dont wish for death cos the best is yet to come.wait on the Lord and be happy.
Please, i know a lady that got married at 40 as a virgin and had children. It is not too late, the devil wants you to be frustrated and depressed. Don't give up. Give God some more time. Remember Job in the bible?
Hi sweetheart it is easy to blame someone for your problems, especially God. I do not think you have a problem or issue with your existence, your problem is comparison and society. You said you are poor but you can move from Ikotun to island and you can write Linda.. It is good you aim higher and have dreams, but the day you stop living someone's life and start yours, that day you will have reason for existence. God owns you nothing remember that you live for him. maybe is time you move to slum and see people that are poor. Please God hates ungrateful heart, be thankful and pursue your dreams purposeful and with dedication. You have better days ahead.
Believe me God sees all things & knows all things. Its good at times like this to be close to God. Try praising & worshipping him. Have an open heart. God will surprise you according to your desire. Its well
Hangin there sis. His ways are not our ways .My heart bleeds has I read your story, but trust me it is never too late for God to turn around your story.It pays to be a good gal. You are still the apple of Gods eyes
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THE ALMIGHTY GOD make things beautiful in HIS own time,just plead for forgiveness for the sin and errors committed and hope for the best, meanwhile always remember GOD does as HE pleases so pray for revelation of way forward.stay blessed.
Just keep on waiting on God your miracle is around d corner. Don't give up
I believe ur challenge isnt a problem, Kindly talk to the right person(GOD) I am certain he would hear you.
Thanks do have a great day
Dear Writer.
May the Lord comfort you. I see your pain and anguish, you must have read in the scripture; dont compare yourself with others, that is not wisdom. There is no temptation that you have faced that is not common among men,God will provide escape route through the same trial. With an open mind go through the book of Job again and receive strength to silent the enemy of your soul. What you need now is the word of God like fire in your bone. Remain blessed.
U have stated ur case like the Psalmist and like Job in the Bible. It is good you have decided to open up to God. 1 advice, speak ur mind as Job did and ask God to open ur eyes to see what u have to see. Plz, take note of ur dreams.
well dear, we all have moments like this in life,i think your deliverance is nearer than when you first believed,your moving location in search for husband proves your ignorant of his divine nature,now that human efforts have failed you believe me your miracle is on the way,the God i know works when all hopes is gone,if you had goten a husband the time you moved location to whom would you have given the glory?our GOD OF ZERO hour HAVE not forgoten you believe me,you are blessed.
Still have faith in the highest Abram left his father's house to an unknown place when he was over 70 years, he had his promised child when he was over 90 years, a journey that could have lasted isrealite for 40 days lasted them 40 years you ve 2 check on yourself thoroughly was might be responsible during all these intensive periods while u were seeking God it has been proven that God is not a lair have a bliss day and Remain blessed.
Omg! You may be sad now. You ve just succeeded in counting ur "misfortunes" you r 40 u said. thank God u r not 60. No kids? Thank God u don't have imbeciles. Asthmatic? At least you still breath free oxygen. No money? Yet you are not starving to death. U still got family. Younger ones with children who call you aunty. Lost ur virginity? Thank God your vagina is still intact and not rotting away from excess abortion. My sister! If only u will look well, you will see what more He has done for you.
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I believe ur challenge isnt a problem, Kindly talk to the right person(GOD) I am certain he would hear you.
Thanks do have a great day
Dear Writer.
There is a God and he loves you. He will answer yowu when he deems it fit. Just so you know, those friends you're talking about have their own problems, some even bigger than yours but they won't tell you. That you're 40 and unhappy is no reason to wish death upon yourself. Get your life together, don't stop believing in God (I know its hard but you have no other choice). MARRIAGE will not end your problems. You need to find the good in every situation and find happiness. God is not keeping you from being happy, you are. Happiness is a state of mind that YOU choose to be in. Stop ranting and take a step to better your life. So many people have worse problems than this. I think you need to spend some time at an emergency ward in a general hospital.
Go back to church. Maybe Ur pastor may / might finally marry u. Lol. My sincere advice is to remember Sarah in the bible.... ENGR Emy
U are d most stupid person dat has lived,may God ve mercy on u
There's nothing wrong with you, things will happen for you in God's timing. Surround yourself with true friends and continue to pray and go out and meet people.
When there's life,there's hope.U r still alive for a reason.Tho sorrows may last 4 d nite,Joy comes in d morning.Jesus dint promise us a perfct life but he sed we wud overcome d world if we believe.Continue 2 b steadfast.God sees all things.He has reasons.Instead be thankful 4 d life u av.Ts cos u r alive u can complain.
I'm soo sorry my dear.Dnt lose hope.Smtimes its as though God is silent but d fact remains dat ani1 who does his will must surely receive d reward.Dnt compare urself with ur frnds dat disvirgined demselves nd got married.u dnt knw wuh dey r passin tru.Mind u ani sin u commit nd repent from wud surely be forgiven but d person must undergo d punishment whether here on earth or in d life after.Let these words guide u.Just keep on strong its not easy I know.At 40 or more can can transform 4 u in one day.Sarah gav birth at d age of 99,God works in ways we cannot see.He wud make a way 4 u.Amen
God has not forgotten you. He is still in the business of doing good. You can only be happy with him, no human on earth can make you happy without God. Please don't insult God because of your present situation. God is still God no matter what.
Your life is not ended yet. Be hopeful. Your miracle will locate u. But U might be suffering from spiritual husband or ancestral cause. So rush now to a good church or where yr spirit directs you and have a deliverance. Never loose hope. Bless u
chei nne ...take it easy. God time is d best
Your problem is that you have been serving God but you never understood who you were serving and you also gave up on God. You don't have a personal walk with God. 2. Have you tried to see your problems from that of a foundation issue cos if it is, it will need a special approach and u need to deal with it. 3.God is not happy that you broke your virgnity and you wanted to find a solution on your own but the beautiful thing is that he still cares. 4. You have made mistakes personally which you know.
Solution: go back to God on your knees cos you have given up on him and you have sinned against him but the beauty of it is that he still cares. Go back to the word of God that's where the answer lies, study his word out of passion to know him. He cares about you and in no distance time you will laugh. Learn to pray with verses and scriptures. God never gives up on his children. Read isaiah 54 vs 4 He said he will take away the shame of thy youth. Don't do anything else but stay with God, keep on trusting him, if you take all the steps you wish to take, after much you will return to him cos he has all the answers . He is your helper stay with Him
If your story is real, I think you should know that not everyone's fortune is the same. My advise to you would be that, you should focus on yourself, go out and socialize, be open minded and live your life the right way and not the way your pastor or church doctrine wants you to. Since you are single, this is the time to work hard, think of a new business idea, get your career going that way if you eventually get married, you'll have all the time to spend with ur family than trying to combine all this things u should have done while single with family life.
Sister, this is how the human mind works, but remember God works in ways we cannot phantom.Yes it seems like a lot, in fact its a lot but know that when he wants to bless you, he will do so in such a way your mouth wont be enough to sing his praises. It is well.
Never Commented on Linda's Blog before i just and b fine and happy sometimes......
you made me cry i don't know wot to say but i still believe God is still with u....He just want you to be a living testimony to other people's Life...it will all make sense at the end
LIB readers don't have the answers to your problems, you might think you are not making head ways with your life but you are wrong because God is never wrong, maybe you should try going for deliverance if you think your case is spiritual, but have you gone down on your kneels and cry to God? have you spoken to him about your problem? it's not about complaining and stop comparing yourself with others. I repeat God never make mistakes.
My dear, take it easy o! Please, kindly go back to HIM and telll HIM u don't mean half of these things u just penned down! Then, ur miracle MiGHT just begin! Goofluck!
...It's well with you
Please, visit mfm for a special deliverance to separate you from your ancestral altar, your family altars fighting against your destiny, being born again is not enough to make this altars ineffective, bcos ancestors made a covenant with certain kingdom and except you do an altar separation or destruction that is if the whole family agrees, even men of God also go thru this..it is reason God asked Gideon go back to his family house to destroy the Altars there before embarking on God's mission, Abram separated and became Abraham. My sister, begin to use the blood of the Lamb(Jesus)to silence every altar speaking against u, everyday midnight at12-2am..Pls stay Holy if you must fight against demonic powers...whatsup me for guidelines 07031904621
u̶̲̥̅̊ don't need any pity or advice from anybody as far as am concerned..By blaspheming God and questioning HIM harshly would even make ur life more miserable!! Remember,age is just a number and its only ur FAITH that can deliver you!
Still have faith in the highest Abram left his father's house to an unknown place when he was over 70 years, he had his promised child when he was over 90 years, a journey that could have lasted isrealite for 40 days lasted them 40 years you ve 2 check on yourself thoroughly was might be responsible during all these intensive periods while u were seeking God it has been proven that God is not a lair have a bliss day and Remain blessed.
my dear....are u saved? to be saved does not mean working in church or paying tithes, or doing praise and worship...are u regenerated?..... thats the first step... u seem to be doing all this in hopes to get sumfn back from GOD..but u cannot bribe GOD WITH ALL THAT... he requires ur soul to be saved and sanctified... a heart that truly loves him..... deep down u know were is sumfn missing and that missing thing is GOD.........genuinely accept jesus as ur lord.....alot of ppl deceive demselves into thinking they are saved but they are not...being active in church does not mean u are saved......... see how fast u are in wanting to desert him... u don't truly love him..... ur relationship with him is more of give and take.... repent today...... GOD will save u by his grace amen
He is still God and can't change, He said He has good thought concerning you, to give you a hope and a future.
Things might be pretty bad that you cant fathom the existence of your life. I employ you to seek Him with all your heart, you still have some form of guilt and condemnation within thinking that He hasn't forgiven you. The Bible says there is therefore no more condemnation for those who are in Christ.
When you seek Him with all heart, He will found you and make your life anew.
You have read your bible and you didn't learn from Job. He was rich ae lost all he had. Trust me, having and losing it all is worse that never had. Job suffered worse than you did, yet he refused to curse God. Lady, you have an apology to make. And may God re arrange your life like he did Job's
Thank him you are not in sambisa with boko haram full stop
I feel ur pain and i know how u feel. BUT Trust me sister... There is GOD and the true reason why GOD create you must be achieve or come to pass before you will die. You are destined for greatness. One thing i want you to d is this... Please stop listening to people's opinion concerning your live. You are uniquely created and only you can make it happen just believe and it will happen. Cos of this ask GOD for forgiveness and see other things work in good shape... God bless u. #flashsmsng.
U a definitely nt d saddest person on earth 'cos if u were u woulndn't posred dis. D saddest people a in d hospitals, in war ravaged countries amongst others. U sure 've reasons to be happy atleast 4 d life he gave u. May i piont out too that u made compromises in ur service to God. God is nt happy with compromises.
I feel ur pain and i know how u feel. BUT Trust me sister... There is GOD and the true reason why GOD create you must be achieve or come to pass before you will die. You are destined for greatness. One thing i want you to d is this... Please stop listening to people's opinion concerning your live. You are uniquely created and only you can make it happen just believe and it will happen. Cos of this ask GOD for forgiveness and see other things work in good shape... God bless u. #flashsmsng.
Don't give up on God yet cos He hasn't given up on u and remember delays are just a steppingstone to greatness.
He makes everything beautiful in HIS own time.... Be encouraged. And think of those thing you have reason to be thankful for...
Hummm o Sorri.....its well
WOW! This story if real is actually disheartening. I feel so bad and want to hug you right now. But I will tell you ONE THING, God does not make mistakes. Your life is not a mistake, it might have taken long for you to be happy but you will be and when it does eventually happen, it will be permanent. Amen!
P.s
I think you should look for voluntary jobs and do to take your mind off your worries...... Assist in orphanages, hospitals and what have you. Get to meet amazing people. Your breakthrough can come from anywhere and I believe that YOUR breakthrough is already here. JUST BELIEVE!!!!
Ʊ sound more like a pharisee,,, being a virgin for 3decades of ya life or goin †Âº chrch even befor Ʊ were born makes no sense...look deep into ya life,,, for God's ways aint d ways of man so don't blame God for ya shortcomings and misfortunes....
Thank God you are not with Boko haram in sambisa
My dearest one, please don't be like this. I feel your pain cos i know what it means to watch things go by without being a part of it. Sometimes it seems our God is not listening while it is us that has stop hearing what he is saying. If its kids? you can get pregnant once and have triplet.Men plenty, na for you to find husband. Money may be hard to find but hard work will get you just enough.I can go on and on but that is not what you need. if Linda will permit . this is my email pulsar30@excite.com. With our God the possibilities are limitless.
Linda pls make sure this sister gets this i beg you. Let me start by saying that, your call to come and serve God is not to get but to give. The problem is you think you can work to get from this God. He does what he likes, when he likes and how he likes with our lives.He said i will have mercy on those i will have mercy, its not because you did or followed a certain lifestyle. You have been obviously taught wrongly by your pastor by thinking God rewards good for good and evil for evil. Start worshipping him cos you love him not because you want to use him to satisfy your lost. Be sold out to him through his word and believe me everything will make sense as your perspective will change. He scripted your life for a reason, whatever he gives you accept it and give him glory. He never fails. he sees your heart and knows if you're in this relationship to use him or because you love him for who he is. And by the way isn't spending eternity in heaven better than any earthly reward of 70 yrs?.
Dear, think about it , it could have been worse. I know its difficult but remember what God says. Praise Him in every condition. Praise God and see the wonders He will do. Do you know whether God boasts about your faith and loyalty? Praise Him and see what He will do.
U a definitely nt d saddest person on earth 'cos if u were u woulndn't posred dis. D saddest people a in d hospitals, in war ravaged countries amongst others. U sure 've reasons to be happy atleast 4 d life he gave u. May i piont out too that u made compromises in ur service to God. God is nt happy with compromises.
Linda pls make sure this sister gets this i beg you. Let me start by saying that, your call to come and serve God is not to get but to give. The problem is you think you can work to get from this God. He does what he likes, when he likes and how he likes with our lives.He said i will have mercy on those i will have mercy, its not because you did or followed a certain lifestyle. You have been obviously taught wrongly by your pastor by thinking God rewards good for good and evil for evil. Start worshipping him cos you love him not because you want to use him to satisfy your lost. Be sold out to him through his word and believe me everything will make sense as your perspective will change. He scripted your life for a reason, whatever he gives you accept it and give him glory. He never fails. he sees your heart and knows if you're in this relationship to use him or because you love him for who he is. And by the way isn't spending eternity in heaven better than any earthly reward of 70 yrs?.
Wow! I held back tears cos I'm at work. No words can comfort you but just like Job this is a trial and you will overcome. Pls don't loose hope, go to a church of prophecy. You need to know what has been done and what is to come.
This is quite saddening. No one can proffer an adequate answer to your question. All I can say is keep trusting God and quit imputing human suggestion in your relationship with Him. Your path in life is not the same with that of others so stop the comparison with other people who seem to be better than you.
I am so sorry to say this. But you believe that prayer alone will help. you need to work toward what you want in life, not praying only. Praying is very important but also working hard is also important. What have you done to work towards your goals apart from the religious aspect? I am not criticizing you, just saying my opinion.
Also, try to look at yourself from every perspective of your life towards your goal. Are you doing the right things at the wrong time?
Don't be sad and have belief in yourself.
He is still God and can't change, He said He has good thought concerning you, to give you a hope and a future.
Things might be pretty bad that you cant fathom the existence of your life. I employ you to seek Him with all your heart, you still have some form of guilt and condemnation within thinking that He hasn't forgiven you. The Bible says there is therefore no more condemnation for those who are in Christ.
When you seek Him with all heart, He will found you and make your life anew.
With all due respect to Linda and LIBers, this is not the right place for you ask for help. I am sure someone will insult or mock you for posting this here. I am a follower of @lekealder on twitter and he exhibits such practical wisdom like no one else online. I recommend you try him. Above all you need to look over the years search out how God communicates with you, you have probably lost that connection with Him without knowing and all you've been doing in church all this while may be going through the motions. Find your connection to Him and wait for His instruction. He will guide you on the next step for your life. Try to quite all the noise and anxiety around you. I am sure you will Hear Him. God Bless!
My Dear sister in life no matter what you are passing through do not lose your faith you are more better than lots of people. Hold unto God he will surly surpise you soon. I mean very soon
Why are you blaming God for actions you did or did not take? He gave you free will to decide for yourself. At 41, it may look too late to experience things you haven't, but don't lose hope. Everybody's path is different. Some people didn't even live to see 21 years of age. Just be thankful that you at least have life, and no matter what, don't ever contemplate ending it. Just have hope, you'll find your happiness.
It is never late for God to bless you,we all say one thing or the other coz of human flesh but never renounce God...There's purpose for what u re going thru.
Hello dear, one day of happiness against all odds will erase countless decades of this pain. Stay positive and be spontaneous. The element of surprise will come your way soonest. Trust me, we have been here.
THERE IS GOD...LIFE IS SOMETIMES CONFUSING...THIS ONE PASS ME THO...TEARS IN MA EYES...
We might have more than one million reasons to justify unfairness of God. But the bitter truth is he truly cares. Hold onto him, dont give up. He will show up at the right time.
My Dear sister in life no matter what you are passing through do not lose your faith you are more better than lots of people. Hold unto God he will surly surpise you soon. I mean very soon
My goodness. :( I don't even know what to say. This may sound cliché but It is well my sister. I believe God never forsakes his own.
Hello dear, one day of happiness against all odds will erase countless decades of this pain. Stay positive and be spontaneous. The element of surprise will come your way soonest. Trust me, we have been here.
don't give up hope.
without hope there is nothing.
wen frustration comes like this, its wen God wants to bring ur breakthrough. But the devil will look for ways to make ur faith, trust and hope in God weak. he will cause u to doubt. please just be strong. its working out for ur good right now.
don't give up hope.
without hope there is nothing.
wen frustration comes like this, its wen God wants to bring ur breakthrough. But the devil will look for ways to make ur faith, trust and hope in God weak. he will cause u to doubt. please just be strong. its working out for ur good right now.
Its never easy to trust God but you must learn to. Dont give up on God. He is the only one you can trust. God is never late. You will laugh again in jesus name. Look for a man of God who will lead u through prayer and fasting. Wake up at midnight to call on God, Isaiah 34:16; "none shall want her mate". Break ancestral curses. Its well with you in Jesus name.
i can feel your pains, it is sad. listen up, everything in life needs to be moderate to meet every needs. you dont please God and foresake everything about man and vice versa.you learn to do the two without found wanting in any side...it is called wisdom. maybe you wia taught to believe that Christians are programmed like robots that do not have will power to analyse and make choices to better their lives here on earth...at this point you need to rebuke that demon that is feeding you with lies there is always the brighter side of life!!...*rolls sk*...braska
From all of this, I can gather that you just believe way too much in religion n have little in tune spiritually. We Nigerians take religion n put it n blame it for everything while we waste away n spend little time focusing on our own individuality n achieving self fulfillment or even that of our nation. Might sound a little atheist, but take some time out from religion (not having a personal relationship with God oo) and just focus on yourself for a minute and take actions you can to better yourself o caz girls/women yapa for street. Na to offer something n bring something to the table apart from being a religion fanatic and I pray the good God guide you. Amen. God is mysterious but he is not wicked and spirituality doesn't necessarily involve religion o maa
Am not sure what you must have done or did to deserve such. But I know of the word called "Patience"..
relax my sister, i feel your pains. but know this that God is not a a wicked God, He works in mysterious ways..... when you think its over, then its just about to begin. trust me when i say your life is gonna be a testimony. DONT GIVE UP, DONT LOSE HOPE, YOUR MIRACLE IS JUST ABOUT TO COME. IF U WANNA REACH ME THEN MAIL ME ON jecintauyo@gmail.com GOD BLESS U.............
STFU and get a grip of yourself. there are people in hospital happy to be alive and your here blabbing.
If you are broke, get a job not everyone must be millionaires
if you want kids so bad, get pregnant or adopt better still
if you are so lonely surround yourself with people that care about you family and friends
we must not all have the same fate in life. use the best of what you have and love and support yourself.
happiness comes first from within. you obviously have a very low self esteem if you were my sister i would have slapped back your sense into your head even if you older for making such statements
you have to start living life for yourself and not preparing your womb for an unknown husband.
you have health and your asking for death... geez!
It's sad that you think living happily centers on having a husband. i mean ... "i just cant deal with this"... "am out!"
See dis fool. Ur not even sick and ur hia ranting. Better thank God for his mercies in ur life. What abt ur mates dat r Dead or d ones in d hospital or d ones in a dangerous and abusive relationships? I think say u get yarn sef. Look, if we all throw our problems in a pile u will rush and grab urs bk. Ewu can beer. To think u even blasphemed on top ur trivial matter. Wait till u see real walaha. I'm so mad at u. In fact I'm livid with rage.
WHAT CAN I SAY???
don't give up hope.
without hope there is nothing.
wen frustration comes like this, its wen God wants to bring ur breakthrough. But the devil will look for ways to make ur faith, trust and hope in God weak. he will cause u to doubt. please just be strong. its working out for ur good right now.
Please dnt quit there is a purpose for every allowed pain,disappointment.Stop asking God WHY and allow him to use you to show the world that scares can be beautiful and Valley are not ugly because of the Lily in every valley.
don't give up hope.
without hope there is nothing.
wen frustration comes like this, its wen God wants to bring ur breakthrough. But the devil will look for ways to make ur faith, trust and hope in God weak. he will cause u to doubt. please just be strong. its working out for ur good right now.
My Dear God works in mysterious ways. Why not start by thanking Him for the fact that you are alive. There are several people out there that you are better than. God has not forgotten you; His timing is always right. Just keep on trusting. Have faith, God is not done with you yet. You will surely get married and have children in prosperity. Please keep holding on.
Linda please is it possible for me to meet with this person? If yes can you post her email so I can mail her. Thanks in anticipation of your response.
It is good u vent out your anger but pls do not get angry w God. He is still all u need at d end of d day.A mad woman cannot remember being single; but here u re not mad; that is y u need to thank God.U also need prayer and counselling from genuine man of God;to solve d spiritual aspect of it...pls contact 08023135886.God is never a late God. Keep trusting still
Hello my sister. No matter what your problem do not lose faith. Hope on God he will surely surprise you. You are far more better than many people. Just Hold on
don't give up hope.
without hope there is nothing.
wen frustration comes like this, its wen God wants to bring ur breakthrough. But the devil will look for ways to make ur faith, trust and hope in God weak. he will cause u to doubt. please just be strong. its working out for ur good right now.
don't give up hope.
without hope there is nothing.
wen frustration comes like this, its wen God wants to bring ur breakthrough. But the devil will look for ways to make ur faith, trust and hope in God weak. he will cause u to doubt. please just be strong. its working out for ur good right now.
Dear, think about it , it could have been worse. I know its difficult but remember what God says. Praise Him in every condition. Praise God and see the wonders He will do. Do you know whether God boasts about your faith and loyalty? Praise Him and see what He will do.
When God loves someone so much,he expect the highest of standard from them.when God loves an ordinary church goer-christian,he loves them and that's all.ask enoch-walked with God n never came back,Abraham-to kill his son as sacrifice for him,shedrach,meschach n Abednego-u will ask why not save them b4 they get near the fire,Daniel-i always pray against Dog confrontation not to talk of lion.God can decide to loose a battle to win a war.If going by all you wrote I think God loves you sooooo much.Please i 'll advice u say a prayer after reading this about ONLY how much he loves you-not so easy but try n also know there is someone someone the feel ur pain.Shalom.
MY DEAR YOUR CASE IS AMONG THE PECULIAR CASES THAT I REFER TO AS THE IRONY OF LIFE TO WHICH YOU DON,T HAVE THE PRECISE EXPLANATION FOR. WE ARE HUMANS AND I ALWAYS ADVICE PEOPLE NOT TO LOOK FOR ANSWERS TO QUESTIONS THAT ARE NOT WITHIN THEIR REACH.
YOU ASKED WHERE GOD WAS? GOD IS STILL GOD. HE HAS NOT CHANGED AND HE WILL NEVER CHANGE. I HOLD A DEAR PHILOSOPHY TO LIFE THAT AS LONG AS THERE IS STILL THE LIVING BREATH IN YOU THEN YOUR CASE IS NOT HOPELESS. YOU ARE NOT THE ONLY ONE IN THIS SORT OF SITUATION. MY DEAR JUST REMAIN HOPEFUL AND LIVE YOUR LIFE. ALL YOUR CONCERNS IS NOT WHAT DEFINES A WELL LIVED LIFE. LIFE IN ITSELF IS A PRECIOUS.YOU NEED TO BE THANKFUL FOR IT IRRESPECTIVE OF WHAT YOU SEE AROUND YOU. ALL YOU MENTIONED ARE DIVIDENDS OF LIVING.
MY ADVICE IS NOT TO CURSE GOD AND DIE BUT LOOK ON THE BRIGHT SIDE. MARRIAGE IS NOT WHAT MAKES A WOMAN FULFILLED NOR HAVING CHILDREN AN AUTOMATIC BLESSING. IF YOU WANT ONE GO ADOPT AND MAKE URSELF HAPPY. PLEASE DO NOT BE SAD LIFE IS TOO SHORT TO EXPERIENCE SADNESS ALL THROUGH. GET A SKILL, DO SOMETHING. WHY ACCEPT POVERTY. AM SORRY BUT IF YOU REMAIN POOR IT MEANS YOU ARE LAZY. GET OUT THERE AND MAKE YOURSELF PRODUCTIVE. PLEASE HAVE A RETHINK TO LIFE. NO CONDITION REMAINS PERMANENT EXCEPT YOU LIE ON YOUR BED FOREVER.
Discover your talent... Find what you love and have patience for, you will find joy in life. Dont look at what others are doing, instead do what others will look at. For the record, you cant kill yourself over a husband in as much as every woman thinks they must get married, what if you dont get a suitor??? Are you going to compromise your joy for anybody??? Alot of people who are not married are happy and alot of married people feel more miserable than you. Find your joy and die being happy. My best wishes to you.
My Dear God works in mysterious ways. Why not start by thanking Him for the fact that you are alive. There are several people out there that you are better than. God has not forgotten you; His timing is always right. Just keep on trusting. Have faith, God is not done with you yet. You will surely get married and have children in prosperity. Please keep holding on.
question your existence not,but question your past mistakes
God doesnt create problem for man. check urslf,im sure theres sumfyn u know that we dont all know.
Hmmmm.... I am not 40 neither am i in your situation but i have gone through tough times that made me doubt my existence but i want you to know there is a God somewhere and he has seen all your services to him. You cannot give up now my dear its too late. i would employ you to dive into praises, stop the complaining and just praise God for your present situation. I know its a tough one to do but i can assure you would have a testimony to share. i would be praying with you and i know you would come back here to share your testimony. it is well with you and God bless you. Before i forget Happy birthday and this 40Th year will mark the beginning of great and might things in your life.
Discover your talent... Find what you love and have patience for, you will find joy in life. Dont look at what others are doing, instead do what others will look at. For the record, you cant kill yourself over a husband in as much as every woman thinks they must get married, what if you dont get a suitor??? Are you going to compromise your joy for anybody??? Alot of people who are not married are happy and alot of married people feel more miserable than you. Find your joy and die being happy. My best wishes to you.
Dear young lady i dnt have much to say here but pls call this number if u'r reading my comment and if ur testimony is true........08034708075!
I am a deliverance pastor....
The devil is a liar...pls just call dat number i gave u above.
Shalom!
My Dear God works in mysterious ways. Why not start by thanking Him for the fact that you are alive. There are several people out there that you are better than. God has not forgotten you; His timing is always right. Just keep on trusting. Have faith, God is not done with you yet. You will surely get married and have children in prosperity. Please keep holding on.
Your life will change the moment u stop asking God questions & start thanking him that ur alive. Stop wishing u were dead and start praising him for life. What of the saying "when there's life, there's hope". Sounds like a cliche but it's d truth. Thank God. U will get married someday, u will have kids someday. All will be well with ur soul. Mo-1
God says he has been attentive and has heard your cry for help. You will laugh and know no sorrow, pain or shame in 2 months. Trust him; He NEVER FAILS.
My dear, be not downcast with what the world presents to you, remember all we hav on earth is vanity, nothing counts. Would you wanna be like Job? Having everythin and loosing them under 1 month? Dnt give up on God, He's not ready tu give up on any of His children. Peace.
This is Very Touching Story and It attracted My first comment ever on this Blog.
No one can tell u exactly how God works because His ways are not our ways but the only thing I knw is that God is capable of Meeting you at the point if your needs. God Is still God.
My dear child,
I love you more than you can ever imagine. All you life I have reached out to you because I love you and I have great things planned for you.
Going to church and paying your tithes do not necessarily mean you have served me in spirit and in truth. Call upon me today, laying down all self and trusting only in the grace which i have made available to you by your faith in the Lord Jesus christ.
Call upon me today because my heart aches for you. Then shall you know that your tabernacle shall be in peace and that your seed shall be great and your offspring as the grass of the earth.
My dear one, I know your name, I have named every hair on your head. Rejoice in My correction and despise not the chastening of the Almighty.
I love you.
My dear,first you have to realize that God is not wicked,He is a re warder of those that diligently seek him,You still need to go before him in prayers to lay down your problems,remember he said "come to Jesus all ye that labor and are heavy laden"it may be that you are not saying the right prayers or there is something he wants you to do before he settles you,God is really faithful and cannot lie,Please do not give up so soon,remember God is also a God of Miracles,please also meditate on 1pet.2:21-23,Its well with you.
why are you limiting GOD? its obvious you are serving GOD for all the wrong reasons. are u serving GOD because you love him or because u want him to give u all u want. why are you envying others? is your destiny and theirs the same? do u know what GOD has in stock for you. You are special yet u cant see it, you are blessed, yet u don't know it. see u, do mad people or sick or dead people marry. yet u are not mad, sick nor dead and u are complaining. praise GOD for your breakthrough is near.
Our God is unquestionable, kabieeosi. Olorun mi ma fimi dara ti o da oo, ara rere ni ko fimi daa. Am so speechless
Listen dear...
God's ways are not the ways of man... Scripture says "He makes all things beautiful in His own time" ..do U know that there are married couples who are miserable in their marriages and would be wishing to trade their married lives in exchange for your single life?
I know U might say different strokes for different folks, but U should try not to measure Ur life in relation to the lives of the people U see around U, no two human beings are the same, life just doesn't work that way.
My aunty is single, She's 45, has no kids, has a job but ain't well paid, is a amajor church worker, yet there doesn't seem to be much light in the distant horizon, when viewed by the average eye, but I always marvel at how she makes herself happy, and fulfilled, she says "Happiness, Joy and contentment, is the true key to a fulfilling life, AND, it is up to each individual to make himself/herself truly happy"..
Consider things U should be thankful for: U are healthy, U are not a beggar, U are educated, U are sound in mind, U are alive, U are independent (Yes, whether U believe it or not, U are)... God just wants U to find a true, deeper meaning to Ur worship of His being, Do not worship Him because U want His blessings, Worship Him because He is God, Worship Him for His name sake, connect deeper with Him, and speak all Ur frustrations to Him, as U would to a friend.
Remember, things are usually hardest at the point right before the blessings arrive.
Be strong my dear, it's not going to be easy I know, but U have to truly love urself in order to be truly loved by the people around U, don't lose hope, don't lose Ur integrity, and don't lose Ur self esteem either. Ur miracle is on the way.
P.S: Remember, Marriage and children are not necessarily the symbols of life's greatest achievement, Only if U can be happy as a single person can U be happy as a married person.
Hello Honey, you have not done anything wrong that God cannot forgive, even when you fall on the way, He is still there and still God, no time is too late for Him! just hold on, painful yes, but don't give up, He is still God! I would advise you try MFM for deliverance. it could be some strong hold that needs to be dealt with, remember Daniel, God had answered but the Prince of persia withstood the answer but Daniel did not give up until God sent the Archangels to relief the angel with Daniel's answers, but Daniel continued in prayer, read Daniel chapter 10 -, It is a painful situation and I pray God cleans your tears and turn ur story to glory in Jesus name, Amen
my heart goes out to u but d truth is dis" we serve a living God who is a rewarder of all good tins".. Don't let ur sacrifice be in vain by uprooting ur seed with ur mouth,mind and tots.. Testimony will come out of ur situation and dis will happen fast.Speak wat u wana see
Ok am goin to pass on this bt one sentence i will drop is *He Forgets Not"
Life can truly b unexplainable... Pls dont b sad n dont try to question God, der is alwayz light after d turnel... Rem hw many process a raw gold pass tru b4 it become dat beautiful piece of jewlery... God is alwayz der for u lady...
chai pele. i pity u seriously. God is not your problem. i have many suggestion to ur problem but let me start the first one is ur self esteem. u need to work on it. get profeesional help or internet help. instead of fighting God draw him nearer.
what i will say is that u should keep up ur trust in God, neva give up, neva look back, don't compare yourself with others and don't praise urself for serving God. Please always remember that for those who trust in God all things work together unto good, also remember that the plans of God for u are plans of good and not of evil. Continue to serve him in spirit and in truth and he will surely reward u.
Go to GOD through baba Adeboye of RCCG
Greetings. I might sound somehow to you, but that is how I understood my creator.
I know you are human being right? You complained of no child, money, husband etc. Please answer these to your self.
How much did you buy the air you breath in forty years?
How much did you buy the eyes you see with? How much did you buy the body that you call yourself? Etc. These are only within yourself. I bet you do not have the answers at forty. That creator that created you has nothing to gain by putting you into suffering. You only misunderstood him. However, it is the approach that was available to you that lead you to accuse him. Try the only approach he approved. I did not guarantee you achievement of all you desire, because he does as he pleases. If he chose you not to have those things nobody can give you. In Islam, we are told that despite all that you do in terms of worship provided its sincere Allah can test you and when you have persvierance he rewards you here and after. A faithful Muslim sees your problem as a mere test. Remember father Abraham, he was blessed with child at old age and he remained loyal to his creator. I enjoin you to try Islam and you find answers to all you problems. Your contributor 07069167967/Lawal. DO NOT GIVE UP!!!
you are alive, and have access to the internet amongst many other good things, all you need is to be grateful to God and your time will come.
This is much,depression has set in. have you ever met a real man of God to lay hands on you,yokes can be broken,am a witness. Dont give up,you are at the edge of your break through.why dont u try this,it worked for me, u give up ur dinner for a month and do midnight praise and worship, nothing can withstand worship to God. My God never fails.
Cry not my dear, like the saying goes God's time is the best! Some of ur mates are in their graves some married and already widows, some in broken marriages, some still crying for fruit of the womb! Be steadfast and don't give up on God... ur story will be a testimony
U knw God is not a man..have respect for him..Gods time is the best..if u can't wait or do something meaningful with ur lyf..u can as well take it..A lot of pple don't knw wat they have till its gone..U are alive "dia is hope"..stop complaining..so many readers here are frustrated bt they don't let it pull dem down..ask willy moses n edreams they will tell u d secret......................#King
in life we all have moments like this,please dont let the devil rob you,your moving location in search of husband shows your lack of knowledge of his divine nature, for if you have gotten the husband then to whom would you have given the glory?now that your human wisdom have failed you he is about to work he is master of imposibles, the lion of the tribe of judia,who are we to query his perfect ways,i call him the GOD OF ZERO HOUR,PLEASE LINGER FOR A LITTLE WHILE,IT IS WELL.
Ehn, Aunty, u no go school ni, abi which one is you're poor and lonely, family nko? If u were truly a good girl as u claim, u should have your fam to rest on, so stop wt d poverty BS
This is the most hilarious Lib readers of all time.... If this is true then madam i can tell you that you have never served God whole heartedly, you are serving God expecting something back in rerurn 'more like God im serving you because i need something from you' ....that is not true devolution, you are not been sincere to yourself, 'you can't deceive God...! you better stop this blasphemy and go give your life to Christ and give it 4real this time without expecting anything in return... I am sure if you do this God in his infinite mercy will answer you..!
Happy Birthday sis...It is well
God is still God & will continue to be God,make something do with your life,don't subject yourself to pity @ 40..we all read Linda's story here,look around you and see how you can be relevant.At a point in my life,I will go to event venue and tie gele for whoever is interested @ 500naira each and go home with 5k or more..if its makeup you wanna learn or bead making or anything that will @least put food on your table.No man wants a liability,doing nothing could scare them away.
And I will recommend a serious deliverance @ Mfm prayer city,it works,trust me.you will be surprised @ d changes as well... Abba! Kilode? @40 God doesn't want to see you like this,take a bold step today.I L♥√ξ u..
God does not dissapoint those who seek him diligently.Never question God,life is tough yes! But remmber ur life is better than millions out there. U just might be at the verge of your breakthrough... Hold on let and God
If this story is real, take my comment serious. First of all, I think you should continue to serve God.You are not in a business relationship with God or a do-for-me-i-do-for-you relationship. Keep the faith. Allison Deziani (minister of petroleum) got married at 39. She has only 1 child......
You have to sit back and look at what you aren't doing right. your comments sounded like you lost focus at a point by trying different things and you kept mentioning money as if that would be a good substitute for a husband. The message hear is be focused. keep praying and live your normal life. You will find a man especially without desperation. You can also try out matchmaking programs on radio and sites. There are men with similar issues too.
are u on wheel chair?
are u on life-support?
are u handicapped?
I see u can even type with ur fingers..I see ur brains are still functionin..u can spell..U might be HOLY..but its "Grace" that u shld b prayin for..Its apparent u arnt TRUE-BORN again..when u ask God and u dnt get..u use the scripture as a weapon to pave the way..When others say, there is a casting down..u shld say 'THERE IS A LIFTIN UP"..and HE would save the HUMBLE PERSON..(JOB 22 vs 29)insults and aspersions has never been an option
Don't give up on God, God will make u smile and we all shall read of ur wedding dis year on d same blogs cus wit God evrytin is possible. Jst ve faith and don't doubt I promise u will look 4 me and thank me dat God never fails his children. Evrybody has deir tym and season God will still do it. My sist is a leaving testimony cus @ 42 she got married 2 d best husband any one could ever wish 4 and she s is vry happy 2dy. So God can still do it 4 u.
Wait on the lord noffin is too late
U are being ungrateful......if u think your life is a living hell what do you think the kidnapped girls life are like....give thanks in everything you do.....you speak against God like this and you asking for serious trouble.....you think you are in trouble now,just wait till God turns his back on you....job suffered worse but because he didn't speak against God his life became a testimony...I hope God forgives you for the things you have said....you and only you is responsible for whatever happens to you,don't blame God.
My dear i feel your pains, but one thing in Life is dat God is God even if u choose not to serve HIM again.My advice for you, try and be happy stay around pple dat make you happy and above all ask for God,s Mercy.
This is controversial Linda but you have to post this:
Quite frankly you're a victim, and there should be charities for the likes of you; this is a lesson to everyone: Take charge of your destiny or you could end up like this woman or even worse.
The problem lies with your premise; that "serving God" will bring you some (or all) of your heart's desires. You are clearly a victim of brainwashing, so many others are but they somehow manage to live with cognitive dissonance i.e. they parade themselves as religious bigots but abandon religion completely when it comes to important things like money, family. Why?
Deep down they have doubts and are not willing to risk their one shot (from what they are aware of) at life because of a fable which contradicts itself but somehow has a stranglehold on society.
may God bless this aggrieved person.. Lord pls help solve her problems
Mmm I undstand your feelings and it shall be well with you,try a deliveranc and be sure ur spiritually free,also mind you that its only the living that can marry so be gateful to God that ur still alive today and I asure you testimony is on ur way.Don't be discouraged there is no problem in ur life that hasn't been heard or seen before Just be focus,stay out of sin and bad behaviour ,God is still in the business of doing good, he remembered me at 36 with a set of twins and he will remember you soon,
If you really believe in God as you claim you'll be very content and happy with your life and be hoping for life in heaven not life on earth! Duh! Nigress please!
Please if the problem is from your village... Our God is a merciful God.. He doesn't do partsher when he want to bless.
Hi,
If this is really really true...pls dont report God to us o..we all report to Him.
The summary of what you've written is God i want a Husband or children or at least money as consolation.. but guess what, we read every day of people killing their spouses and or children? That tells me that a husband or child as good as they are isn't everything. We read of divorces everyday same time we hear of happy marriages too. (no doubt).
Want to encourage by telling you to go back to God..dont blame God. talk to Him..dear God im so pained..so unhappy..talk to me about this.
God cannot mismanage your life no matter what..im so sure
cheers
My dearest sista, I know this may sound like a cliché but trust me, God loves u more than u would ever know, N He doesn't need to prove it too....He already did.
I know that soon ur story WILL change for the best n soon too. Your cry out was good, albeit, it shoulda been private. Be careful not to blaspheme, not becos He would punish u but becos ur enemy the devil may capitalize on ur error. Try sowing sacrificial seeds in fertile grounds. N having done all to stand, stand therefore. Be encouraged precious one. No labour of love for God goes unrewarded (Heb 6:10). I will be praying for u. Ur broda in Christ.
Eehya! There's God oooo There's God oooo There's God ooooo. Dear u not the first person been wit such or rather will u be the last maybe u wher member of this church Jehova witness jst sayin #BringBackOurVirginity cos God is not happy wit u cos u lost it @31 afta makin a promise 2 God dat u will never lost it 2 ur husband. Dear nah ur fualt Abeg
Hello dear! I very well know how you feel. Have been through some of wat you have been thru. A man I loved so dearly has even left me and married som1else becos of my faithfulness to God esp in terms of sex. Ws one of d painful thins of my life.Have had so many delays in life even wit my fervent prayers and deligence to God. What you need to know is that u must have faith in God no matter hw bad it seem. Know that ur love for God is beyond ur circumstances. Don't look at wat others have to judge Gods love for u.In one day God can give u everything u have lost over the yrs.Never u lose faith. Continue to speak the word of God concerning the things u want to see.Also attend MfM power must change hands program and monthly weekend deliverance programme.Never u let the devil make u think God doesn't love u. Gods word must come to pass in ur life,scriptures cannot be broken. RI-TE
GOD is never late, keep ur gaze on HIM he'll surly wipe ur tears. You re special and beautifully made nothing is wrong with u. MAB
Dear, if truly you have served God faithfully, I am sure he is not blind or deaf to your situation. He does His things at his own perfect time. Please hang in there, don't lose hope. Remember how his servants were tested in the bible. You may be close to your time of happiness.
God can do it
Gods ways are not our ways Sweetheart, and you did nothing wrong by serving him. God never forsakes his people--- your restoration is close. A little more patience and strong faith is all you need.
It's her mentality that's holding her down... Right believing leads to right living. Why is she broke at 40? I didn't see anything about a job and business.. Trust me with the right mindset and prayer you can never go wrong, learn to be positive and all look forward to the best... If something bad happens don't dwell on it just take it as what was meant to be and look on to the happier things..
I serve God and he has been so good to me, yes I have bad days but because of my relationship with him I know he always got my back so it can only get better.
The sweet thing with God is that is never too late, so dear poster whatever you are going through trust in God and he will lead you. Firstly work on your mindset cos you can't go far with this mentality, I suggest you listen to messages from Joseph Prince and Joel Osteen, they are so easy to understand.
If you have a job or business don't try to cheat, just do it with your mind and pray watch how God will bless you... There is nothing impossible with him
I love you and God loves you more.
Xxx
May d lord strengthen you ma,he sees all u r labour n definately wud reward all ur efforts.I want 2 put it 2 u dat dere r people in dis world going tru worst situations n dey still glorify God..pls ma all I can say to u iis don't give up on God cos he won't give up on u.engage ur self wit positive thgs,thgs dat wud kip u busy,hav positive frnds n try by all means to be happy.delay is not denial b encouraged.God is till same 2day yestaday n everyday,his bein doin it n won't stop doing it.God bless u
My dear your existence is very important on earth. your destiny can be delayed but God can never deny it from you. You should thank God for your life. Seek thy kingdom first and every other thing shall be added unto thee.(God's Word not mine)
Remember the Lord's Prayer, forgive us who trespass against you.... God is not man, so stop reflecting on your past coz Your sins has been forgiven if you confess and repent. God is ready to forgive a zillion times. don't give devil a chance, this is a device to keep u depressed and stop you from inheriting that which God has promised you.
You are older than me and in our country once you clock 26years plus, you are expected to marry, 30 plus is late, 40 can be a miracle. As for me when the time is right, ur man will come. My advise is for u to change any negative attitude and embrace change. You can start your own biz esp if ur talented in a particular thing.
The right man will come, the kids will come, money will be controlled, career success will be yours and you will testify of his goodness. Amen.
Cheer up and enjoy life the way you see it.
OLA LIB
Ehay! Am sorry for ur condition my sister, I konw God hav a planne for U. Pls don,t give up. Blc with God all things ar possiable still belive in him, he is a faithful God an he will never put U in to sharm!
Don't give up on God no matter ur circumstances in Life! We alll must not be rich in life! I'm in my early 30's, no hubby n no money as well. I still thank God cuz I see tons of folks am better than. I'm content and grateful to God!
Dear SAD AT FORTY,
You have yourself to blame for the state of confusion you find yourself in. You think you have spent your life serving The Lord but I can tell you that you have only been serving your whims and men's wishes for you.
Please don't compare yourself to others more successful than you in various areas of life, because you have not applied yourself to experience the struggles of life the way they have. You may have even looked down on them in the past, you being in possession of something you hold above experiences... Bible or Religion or both. Unfortunately, you have failed to apply yourself the way The Lord would have wanted you to and derive True understanding of Life as HE expects of you.
You read the bible probably from cover to cover but can you claim to have obeyed HIS WILL all your life? You most likely are ignorant of what This WILL is, that is why you have the effontery to throd over HIS HOLINESS, attempting to reduce HIM through your petty sentiments.
If you had any regard for ALL That IS HOLY, you would have searched yourself ernestly for your faults and not accuse your Creator this way.
Anyway, your empty brags which amount to blasphemy means nothing to HIM, but spells Doom for you. HE Created Heaven, The Universe with tiny you, located in a minute part of it... so who or what are you to regard HIM in such a manner? HE can always create billions more of you and reject you if HE wishes. You think HE will run after you because you wish to loose your mind and throw caution to the wind?
Lady, you are on your own.
My dear, those temptation you are facing today is for a purpose. God has something in package for your life. don't fall for it remember our brother Job, what he pass throughout his entire life but atlast God visit him with a smile. not to talk of Hannah. take heart, don't cause yourself, you have done nothing wrong, God is there for you, he will visit you like he did to others. don't give up with your good works, continue and i assure you very soon people will speak good against you.
Hmmm...dis is serious,maybe u shuld try to speak with ur Pastor or sth...so u can pray & find out wot d real problem is...
My dear God loves u ,he still wants u to b faithful to him if u are as u said.just kip on praying but pls fornication is not a wise way of getting a husband .
Pls read this article...
MY RESCUE
In tears I cried, too soaked to lie
Searched east and west. Alas! A futile quest
Life lost its meaning, wished weren't living
The world showed no care, even in d scary snare
Bitter and weak, struggled for weeks
Strength turned weakness, All appeared useless
Layed on my bed, craving for death
Then came a rescue
Captured my heart so tight and showed me light
Sure didn't warrant the love yet He gave it all
He presented hope in the time of mope
Allowed a far sight for my plight...
I tagged him sir yet he called me friend
Sought for the price, all he said was know I'm CHRIST....
Really feel ur pain, d only prson u can run to still is diz Jesus, challenge him let him noe hw well uve lived n wat u think u deserve... dont condemn ursef... deir sometins he mite not grant us at a particular time bcoz he mite noe wat will come out of it..ask according to is will, afterall his blessings maketh rich n addeth no sorrow... think of d gr8 things he as done for u.. itz His will 4 us tu find d rite partner... pray against any demonic limitation...d weapons of our warfare arent carnal...wat boders u borders God... He feels ur pain... talk to Him in prson n hear wat he az tu say... I no it could b realy shameful no tu b married evn at d age of 40... dont compromise ursef again, stand for wat u bliv n b a 'marriable' prson. He will help u. Dont feel lik u ave d most problem. Asthma isnt gr8tr dan Jesus. Talk to ur pastor or so dat will help n pray wit u. Boost ur self esteem n pls dont settle 4 less. Remember God loves u and wants the best for u.
Emlash
Ewooo my sister don't utter bad words against the God almighty, he is the beginning n the end, he knows dat u are passing thru this trauma n agony, my dear just hold ur peace God ain't done yet okay. GOD will remember u, his love for us is infinite, just have in mind that u are not the worst person living today, what about those mad ppl out there? What about those sleeping under the bridge n those homeless ones? Just think about all dis n u will see that GOD is still faithful to u, sister as long as u are breathing there's hope for the living, pls stop murmuring ur husband is near believe me, that's all I got to say to u, GOD is letting u pass thru some trials for his name to be praised, dnt worry u will smile 1 day n u will forget all ur past n ur sorrows,pls say AMEN to dat. I'm done
Dear God, please help those whose pillows are soaked with tears every night. Send your Spirit to comfort them, minister them back to life and heal them.
one question for you, are you serving God because you want "things" from him or you are serving him because you love him?
the essence of our creation on earth is to serve God in spirit and truth..husband, children and church activities does not define us as individuals until you get that straightened out, my dear you will be frustrated..i pray you find peace
First of alll, stop comparing ur self with others. As u wrote, I saw myself in ur eyes. My story and urs is so similar. But God revealed to me to carry out family deliverance in my father and mothers compounds in the village. It works wonders I telll u. IAI
Oh dear....do nt curse God for whatever reason nd do nt lose hope. i hv seen ladies get married at 60. daddy Kumuyi's wife is a practical example. God is God nd he will surely honour ur service at d appropriate time
My dear...it is always darkest closest to dawn...do not give up on God cos he will never give up on you...its just a matter of time..I know it is not easy but God is God and that is just how it is...he can and will still do it...hold on...Adaora
THIS IS TOO TOUCHING, U HAVE REALLY GONE THROUGH A LOT BUT IS STILL GOD.
God dey
d most ugly person ondis blog is Bonita Bislam smbdy need to checked dis gal out on fb.#THAT AKWA IBOM BOY#
You've done no wrong. BUT you lack one thing, which is having confidence in what you are doing. Forget the pass, each morning you wake up, always take a deep breath, sit quite and meditate and smile or you can cry and tell God am happy for everything. Always tell him thank you.
Secondly try to know when you are actually serving God and when you are just doing it as a habit. The human being have three dimensions which are the social aspect, intellectual and spiritual. Balance each of these aspect and don't over do the other. Your life should be as follows, give God 30%, give your studies 20%, give your social life 10%, give your own self and your personal talent development 25%, and give your family 15%. Your life shouldn't be church, church all the time or else you will look too heavenly conscious and earthly stupid. Thanks and God bless you.
My heart goes out to this writer sha and I'm not even sure what to say. Have you looked on the other side; at what you do have instead of what you don't? Marriage isn't all it seems o; take it from me I'm married. Also, money isn't everything either but I can understand that when you're broke statements like that just annoy you. You can make sense of your existence YOURSELF. Sit down and think about what you DO HAVE. Life for one, I know people who have had all these things you crave in spades but are dead; then of what purpose is money or marriage or kids? A LIVE DOG IS BETTER THAN A DEAD LION. Take stock, move on, resolve to be happy, take charge of your life, count your blessings, shake the negativity, forget about who has what, clear your mind. ONLY YOU CAN MAKE THE CHANGE, do it today! I understand its hard, I will be 40 this year too and I'm not where I want to be but I sure am no longer where I was... BE STRONG AND MOVE ON! I really wish you all the best, but stop thinking either one of those things is what will complete or fulfil you; find a deeper purpose and walk in it. That way if they do come along its fine and if they do not; you're fine too. God help you *big hug*
Awwwwww.... dis life is hard 2 understand sometimes, its well with u. God please remember her and give every reason 2 keep living
You are not alone on this my dear. I've run out of questions for God. Well, just hang in there...maybe just maybe HE would come through to you some day. I wish I could convince myself of that.
Now tbh....am touched deeply by this....ur time is now In Jesus name AMEN
YOUR LETTER SUGGESTS THE TYPE OF PERSON YOU ARE. NOONE WILL WANT SOMEONE WHO GIVES UP ON GOD AS A WIFE.
BEAUTIFUL9JADELTABABE... Hmmmm babe u better b patient ohh and wait 4 God no b only u b 40 ohhh pple plenty wey b and more than dat self, God time is d best so just keep believing in him and dont lose ur hope in God.
GOD is alive and his in control,why not try to go a deliverance
Try imagining yourself as one of the Chibok girls...even better imagine you are one of the poor single women in Syrian war, or someone who is blind, single and lonely. You could either take 50 paracetamols and whiskey tonight or keep giving and loving God.
From ur statement u said u served church,my dear u served church not God. U served cos u needed husband,money or children. U never served God because of whom he is. Go back serve God don't serve church,ask God for mercy,rededicate ur life,u will have a testimony. Peace!
I understand what you are going through my dear sister, but it is not over yet...God cannot fail you, only if you still believe he is in the business of doing miracle....perhaps all you need is more concentration to him(God) and forget about other people and their achievements. This is hard to do but you just have to try to do it.....God is still very much interested in your case.
Nobody shd insult her,if u dnt av anytin to say to cheer her upnpls dnt comment,this is a serious challenge she is goin tru and I pray dat God wil arise in her situation
I seriously feel 4 u,bt I wil advice u 2 b patient nd prayerful nd know d@ dere's time 4 everytin nd God's time is d best.Just kip praying nd am sure ur time wil come....linda pls post my coment
My dear, i feel your pain especially at that age but i can assure you that God never brings hurt to people becos he is goodness himself, but i have realized that most people's problem especially we Africans(myself inclusive) are GENERATIONAL AFFLICATIONS or CURSES. You hear of people being so hardworking and have nothing to show for it, i have personally met ladies, Beautiful, smart, Good jobs, like there is no quality these girls don't have, yet they are unmarried,frustrated and before you know it, the frustration brings a health problem with it. Our Ancestors didn't know God hence they committed alot of atrocities,God made it clear that heaven and earth will pass but not an iota of his word,there is a part of the Bible where God said he will curse to the 3RD and 4TH generation of those who hate him and bless thousands of generations of those who love him(ie those who keep his commandments). i have also seen instances where some curses are targeted at one person in the family, that might also be caused by household wickedness and the likes. Trust me i'm not a spirikoko but i have realized these things through problems i too have had, and i know that as long as you remain with God,it will end one day
Eiya! Pele dear, keep believing in him.. He'l meet u wen its time.
Dear writer
i feel ur pain and i can imagine wot u're going through.If u're sincere with God all will be well wit u,God is not mocked, he knows us better dan we know our selves. if people were asking u to move up and down den u chose to obey people rather dan wait on God. if ur objective of severing God is 4 a husband not bcus u luved him truly den He sees our heart. I feel ur pain, Everything dat is good and perfect comes 4rm God and God is a rewarder of dem dat DILIGENTLY seek him. God OWES no one! look at ur life through d mirror of God's Word(Bible) and not wot ur pastor told u and u will find ur fault and retrace ur step. i know of a family friend dat married at 42, she has 2 children today, weda marriage comes or not, d disciples said even if they slain dem, they will still follow Christ. God luvs u and God bless u.
cheers.
Some time s not good 2 b doing OMO JESU, IYA IJO, it makes u look OLD, trust me men don't like women like dat. And maybe ur too selective B4, n now its too late 2 select. Just keep clam God will hear ur prayer very soon, 4get about u er looking 4 a husband, just look a good man 2 b ur baby daddy, Just like P diddy. It is well
God will surely see u tru in no distance time was in that suituation two years ago but im hapily married now dont give up is well he must i say must answer you
Feel like crying....dumbfounded
God will surely see u tru in no distance time was in that suituation two years ago but im hapily married now dont give up is well he must i say must answer you
Poster, pls do not loose hope, keep trusting God, he has not forgotten you, God will surely change ur story soon, in Jesus name, Amen
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