Tchidi Chikere, I read all you said about me and I laugh. Is that the best way to justify yourself? It is well. I will not exchange words with you still because there is nothing you say or write about me that will shake me because those that put their trust in God, He never fails them.
Why are you lying to people? For them to turn around and clap for you and justify what you did? Is it because people who know the truth are saying it and it's hurting you and you are now looking for a way to justify yourself. I give 10 years of my life and this is how you repay me? By disrespecting me and my family? Continue...You said I used juju to marry you. If truly I and my family used juju to hold you, let God who sees everything judge me and you.
You bring money for the upkeep of your kids and you are writing about it? Like seriously, are they not your kids? Whose responsibility is that? And who is disputing that with you? You said since you married me that I have not given you no love, no affection etc but you forgot the interview you granted to Punch newspaper in 2011 saying that I am the best thing that have happened to you.
You said I never had time for you? When you are always filming in the east and I won't see you in months. I played the role of father and mother to the kids...and I laughed the more when I saw where you wrote that I didn't feed you for 5 days.. Is this all in desperation to justify yourself? Wow!!
You said marriages are not contracted on the pages of newspaper and granting interviews yet you people have been granting interviews upon interviews since 2012.. Have I said anything against you? But I won't say anything against you. Keep saying lies about me thinking you can tarnish my image by putting up this childish and immature behavior.
Even if you say that I am a prostitute tomorrow or a thief, people who know the truth know the truth and God knows everything and sees the heart and he will pay everybody back according to our deeds. So am not shaking!!
I will never say anything against you to gain favour from people! No you can't hide pregnancy. I gave you my life for 12 years, gave you 3 lovely boys, gave you a home. And you always say to me then, I was a good wife to you and you know it. I was loyal to you and never cheated on you. I swallowed and stomached so many things just to make my marriage work. I turned deaf ears to so many things and covered my eyes to so many things.
I remember all the stories I heard about your escapades with other women, but did I leave you? I stayed with you because marriage is for better or worse and when you started your affair with Nuella in 2010, what did you say to me when I confronted you?
I stayed, endured and prayed every night. Have you forgotten the day I almost committed suicide? The first time you left me and the kids? I wanted to end my life but God saved me. Even as you left us in 2012, I keep saying to people that my marriage is intact and I never changed my name from Sophia Tchidi Chikere till date.
Have you not done enough to me? You are married now and still I wish you and your new wife well. Why can't you leave me alone to face my children and fill up the vacuum this has created in their lives? You say such evil things against their mother and they are hearing it from their schoolmates. Their schoolmates are taking about it and asking them questions everyday and yet your not satisfied. You claim you kept quiet because of them, yet you have been talking and tarnishing my image since 2012? Yet I kept mute. I have not and will never say anything bad against you. Vengeance is of the Lord, unless he is not on the throne.
You put up my pictures with my friend to use against me? You want to use it to justify what you did to me? What you put me through for years? You said he is my boyfriend that I go to see in London and I ask you Tchidi, when I was with you, did I not go to London 2 or 3 times yearly to buy clothes for my boutique? Everybody knows that I am a business woman and I buy my products from London and America. And so because I have a friend in London, I now go there just to see him? Lol He is my friend, my pal, my buddy and my best friend.
We started being good friends in 2013 after Chidi left me and ended our marriage. He is someone that is very close to me and my confidant. All these years I have had women as best friends and they all betrayed me, and I decided to have a guy as my best friend. We go everywhere together and he assists me in shopping and buying things for my shop etc I can't deny him. He is my friend. People that know me very well will tell you that I love taking pictures and so we took lots of pictures and the guy posted it on his Facebook page and some people copied it and started posting it online. I have also kept mute about it and I would have still keep mute if not that Tchidi raises it and wanted to use it to tarnish my name.
But is well. My kids read what their daddy wrote about me and they asked me to respond and tell the whole world that you are wonderful mother and that they know and they are seeing everything and won't say anything till they grow up! So am responding to this because of my three lovely boys that I live for, that am blessed with.
I want to beg Tchidi to please allow me to concentrate and train my kids with God's grace and help. I wish him the best in his new marriage.I bless his new marriage with his new wife and I wish them well. This will be my last statement. Even if Chidi pulls the mountain to paint me black.. I will not respond again.
Thank you
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After reading both stories from the failed marriage of these guys, I have always believed that failed marriages is first a result of selfishness!!! When all you are looking for in a relationship is always ...mine...and seldom his or hers.
In my opinion, a 12yrs relationship has failed because of selfishness that birthed suspicion and killed communication.
I think she is being more matured in her approach by deciding to stay calm and focus on her life and those of her children. We keep learning everyday.
My eyes are covered with tears. My dear sophia hold on to God I can feel ur pain. Trust in God and he wil never disappoint u.
This is part 2.Dnt knw who to beliv anymore
Nne dont worry God will take care of your situation watch out and see it unfolds.So sorry and so sad about this.From Igbandament
Bullshit. I believe Tchidi more
.......... So who shud we believe now?
Ok, don't waste ur tears, this long grammar doesn't still mean it is true. Only God knows who is telling the truth. Na their life drama
This is part 2. Wonder who is telling the truth. Anyways, life goes on
Tchidi Chikere" is a a BIG FOOL.....Yes u want us 2 believe u were d SAINT in d marriage.(VERY BIG LIE) People cld believe wat dey want 2 believe, but I can see tru u. Dose pictures came out after u left her, don't make it look like she was gallivanting while married 2 u.
U hv really got d time 2 rant on Twitter.... IDIOT!!!
Rship wahala...na wa! well, no 1 knows what actually transpired btw, them. only d both of dem and God knows d real truth, so let's leave it dat way cos both parties most look 4 a way 2justify demselves so Wats d point? Dear, Mr. and Mrs Tchidi chikere deal with ur problems and leave d social media out of it. I rest my case!!!
This looks more like damage control
*sighs* This is so pathetic..
Gosh! this woman is mature I never knew she can be ds mature. God is ur strenght my dear.leave ur boy of xxx hubby to be talkin rubbish.
And why won't you Linda upload comment on this post.
You were so quick to upload comment on that Loser Tchidi's rant.
Anon..To answe yur???? I tynk wen a woman loves more the man may tink its bcos of wat his got eg Materially,financially or physically...And dey tend to take dat woman for granted..To b sincere men cnt identify true love dey see you as being clingy nd misunderstnd ur care?? So take d love wher it wil b appreciated...As for Sophia jus takcare of ur kids,it is well o!!!
So touching! We are humans no how we must justify ourselves. Anyway,Sophia you have to take care of your kids is my advice!
Even if all the thingz Tchidi said 'bout Sophia is true(which I doubt)..Nuella is not any better bcos the Nuella I know is a BIG TIME RUNZ GURL...Rivers state Governor has alwayz been her lover and a host of other men old enof to be her father that aint into the limelight...Mr.Tchidi,Sophia has never for once condemned u public so why are u acting so shamelessly,embarassing urself not her..what is ur so called wife doing'bout this rubbish u'r posting on social media's??can't she put u to check...Mr.Man FACE UR NEW HOME AND BUILD IT..Leave the mother of ur sons aloneeeeeee...Nuella,hope u'r reading all wat ur husby is saying,so the day una split,this is the same thing he will do to u..in other wordz,TRY to make it work,watever obstacle u see in the marriage,Kneel down and pray bcos if u opt out...u'l be castigated on social netwrks by ur one-time lovin'husby...
God will see u tru dear. Those kids will wipe d tears in eyes n heal ur broken heart.
Babe don't respond again,enough is enough,ur x huby rant's too much,for d fact that dis woman went tro labor 3 good times u shuld give her that respect,what if in d process she lost her life?childish man!
God is never asleep! Babes move on with your life and lets see how it goes with them. Wickedness in high places.
God will see u tru dear. Those kids will wipe d tears frm ur eyes n heal ur broken heart.
Hat's off to this lady,dont know either of them but her reply was matured at least just for the kids,tchidi or whatever ur name is,do take note!!
God knows the truth in all these, is marriage nolonger 4 better 4 worse? Why is only d ladies that endure wen things go bad, I blieve that Tchidi must hav a lot of female admirers that will cos problem wit his family is normal 4 a celeb, as for sofia that ur story wit ur male frnd in London get K-leg, ur a married woman, u claim even wen d goin is bad that u stayed praying then if ur hubby doesn't want u associating wit dat guy u should stop, must u stay in his home? As for Nuella onu pomo God is watching u, men don finish? U claim ur following ur heart frankly ur hrt is blind wit no direction, are u that bad, that old, that desperate? Don't 4get that wat goes around comes around, enjoy while it last, Sophia I advice u 2 work hard, pray hard and live a gud life as u claim bcos blieve me if u misbehave ur kids will know and wen they give thr true opinion u will be wow. May d will of God be done
How come no one wants to comment for Sophia.... Odikwa egwu
I actually really have tears in my eyes right now. Tchidi, may God be the judge. 12years and it was only after u started dating nuella that ur wife turned to a devil. nuella is obviously the one using juju. She wishes u well, so concentrate on ur new angel(I laff) and leave the poor woman alone. Talking as if we dnt know about ur womanizing. Is nuella perfect? U are a big fool. Even if ur wife is not gud, hasn't nuella's prostitution been in our faces? Mumu
I don't understand when people start their statement with, " I will not give you a response" and then go on to give a 5page epistle... Lol
By the way, ending a marriage isn't always pretty, it can get messy, only one in 10 divorces or end of marriages , end peacefully, and the other person is telling tales in their own view alone ( standard).. I know this from experience, so the fact that they are actor or whatever these people are ( honestly I never heard of them till reading their whole saga on LIB) makes it harder to keep a lid on it, so I don't blame them, each wants to get their version out.. It is a painful period. So go easy on each, give no attention to them, and they will quietly go away.
Btw, Linda, I do hope you post this, I never posting comments anymore because you never post my comments, and yes I checked! Lol
Anytime I read about the Chikeres I can't help the tears of pains that drops from my eyes.this is the first time I'm commenting on.Nuella why did you allow the devil to use you and bring so much pains,tears,heartbreak,sleepless nights and hatred to this woman..I know its end time already,young girls now date married men for money and fun but why go to the extent of making this man whom I respect so much to lose every good thing God blessed him with? I know my God whom I serve with all my heart and after I finished my night prayer where I also prayed for tchidi,sophia and their three kids,God showed me clearly because it wasn't a dream, how you used charm(juju) from a native doctor to turn tchidis heart againts his family..God told me not to let it bother me because he's going to make a way for those kids and their mum..I want you to know that God is not happy with you! His wrath of anger is upon you. I'm not asking you to leave your marriaage to tchidi but you have to repent and give your life to christ other wise in the next couple of years to come a huge calamity will befall you,and it will be so mighty and by then it will be too late to make amends with God..and you need him to make your marriage work..the devil used you because you were too weak,don't see your self as a winner now because the battle is not yet over until you either give your life to God or his judgement will be upon you..Sophia please I want to beg you to let this go! Don't bear any grudge against your husband(because he's still yours in the eyes of God)..bring up your boys in the way that will please God and he will always be your comforter.I prayed to God in my full nakedness and he gave me this revelation..your husband didn't leave you with his clear mind he was being manipulated by powers stronger than him! Always remember him in your prayers because he is still the father of those lovely kids..Tchidi you might think you have finally arrived but I warn you to be ware of the unknown because Delilah is better than the new wife you married..Nuella there is no peace for the wicked soul,,you and I know that you have never had peace of mind ever since you started your evil plots to destroy the tchidis family..I say to you now that the only way you can have peace is to REPENT because you have brought the anger of God upon your head all because you wanted to enjoy the luxry of the earth at the detriment of your fellow woman and her three little boys..Linda Ikejis blog readers I want to let you all know that everything Tchidi said about his wife Sophia was purely manipulated by Nuella! He did it after much persuasion from her..but Nuella you know that is not what you need now! Instead of trying to win favour in the sight of men channel this efforts into seeking for the grace and mercy of God because without him we are all nothing!
I dunno sha. But I believe Sophia
God is watching
May god help us. Its a shame u were cheating on ur husband. Pls allow him enjoy the true love he has found.
May god help us. Its a shame u were cheating on ur husband. Pls allow him enjoy the true love he has found.
wow! i'm in tears already. Feel your pain woman. You have the best gift anybody can ask of. Your three boy. what reasonable man calls the mother of his kids out on twitter?
God will surely vindicate you sofia
Hmmmmm so who do we believe now? I advise u guys settle ur problems amicablly and not publicly. Its unfair how u two are tongue lashing each other, if not for anytin but for d sake of ur kids settle ur scores. How do u want them to feel? Biko u two or should I say u three should arrange urselves sharp sharp. Gudluck!
Dis is rily sad.no matter wat happened Tchidi was wrong for writing all dat on twitter he went too far.der r oda mature ways 2 handle such cases.nobody rily knws d truth bt Sophia jst displayed maturity.i wish dem both d best
Sophia, it is well with you. keep being mature by remaining mute. never depart from GOD because he never fails. marriage is for better for worse; no matter what transpired between you and Tchidi Chikere, he should be matured enough to keep his home if hes got fear of God and his kid's sake.
Tchidi, stop being selfish by thinking of yourself alone. what about your Kids? and you have the gods to justify your act.
As for Nuella, a 2nd wife will always be a 2nd field. if you didnt keep your 1st marriage with Obinna festac, how will you manage Tchidi that wants ONLY comfort in marriage?
anyways, i wish you all well. God bless.
Dear Madam u have my support on the way and manner u have handled this issue so far..U are managing it better than ur ex..Don't worry we hv seen his kind before..It's now that he knows that u hv been a demon all this while...When he was jumping up and down u he never knew u were a demon..Result::3 future leaders..Kindly stop talking or else u will look like him..
My sister -in-law was telling me abt how one of her sch mate that wanted to be enrolled in movie industry use to talk abt chidi tchikere's advances towards her, if she wants movie script to be given to her. Anyway, I'm not trying to take side wt any of the two but I'm blaming Nuella for occupying such a hot sit
It's just so obvious that this woman is trying to cover up.A man as ur best friend? Wat sort of relationship is that......As per the pic issue, you gat no point atall.
Sophia, it is well wit U̶̲̥̅̊ & ΰя luvly kids, may †ђε G̶̲̥̅Ơ̴̴̴̴͡.̮Ơ̴̴̴͡D̶̲̥̅ Lord giv U̶̲̥̅̊ †ђε grace 2 giv dem †ђε fatherly/motherly luv dey need as kids. Pls do not respond 2 †ђε rubbish U̶̲̥̅̊ Ơ̴̴̴̴͡.̮Ơ̴̴͡ on net, live Tchidi & his new found luv, let †ђε Lord be †ђε judge! Tnx
Sophia I can feel d pain in ur hrt,becus u re no longer togeda he is luking for fault but all u ve to do nw is to b strong nd luk after ur kids u need to know dat his part is ova in ur life nd dia wil always b a begining of a new page I pray he find d peace,luv,affection he deserves frm his new wife nd dnt leave her to anoda.a little piece of advice to nuella b careful nd dnt live like d marriage will last forever cus ur husband can also go for anoda woman nd tell us dis time u re d worst
Hmmmmmmmm!!! Let justice prevail oh!
oh please! enough of this rubbish. madam good wife and oga good husband.
My dear sohia dnt mind that good 4 nothing ex-husband of urs an bring up ur children so that they wil b better than dia so called father....matchwwwww
Chidi pls stay married naaa nd leave her alone! Since ur new wife z d best, leave this pretty girl alone. I just hope u can stay married this time around. Nd pls grow u nd stop distroyin her image, for God's sake she is the Mother of your sons. Don't allow ur sons to hate u. If u kip hurtin their mum, they will hate u. U re d one who left nd got married, not her. Please stay married nd let her be.
I have the feeling he did not marry his new wife because he loves her, he probably married her because he wants to spite Sophia. such a bitter man.
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I've seen ur type woman!!!u re a cheat abeg
Sophia my dear you have said it all I am a living witness I must confess I have been in your house so many times but for ones I have not met Tchidi at home even for ones,he is always not around which we believe is it is the nature of his job and you always cover up for him, loneliness made you to even always want ur sis ify and other members of your to come and stay with you, you have been married but single but put your trust in God the end shall speak.
Pls pple keep your private matters private. It very irresponsible for both parties to take their private affairs to social media. Abeg make una park well...K.Z
God is watching.
Abeg,you fools should act matured, shut the hell up and move the fuck on, hian!!! U guys won't be the first, and definitely not the last to have a divorce or a broken marriage....Mschew
Linda post our messages lindaaaaaaaa
Men men men......you have done your worst...its only childish to go this far... Chidi pls be a Man. This woman put up her life 3 times to give you children..that's enough to respect n love her. Pls let her be and face your new life..God pls take control!
And why the numerous pics in different locations with the so called friend when she has a home 2 concentrate on. Women always talking about the sentimental part of their problem and never the cause. Am not jugding though, just opined. God knows d truth.
Dear Madam hv ur peace..U hv managed this issue better than ur ex..We have seen his kind before..He is becoming restless because he has no peace which he pretends to hv..When he was going up and down u he never knew that u were a demon..3 future leaders is the result now and now he knows that u are a demon..hold ur peace soon all will see
Well only God knws d truth 4rm d crash nd just Him cn b d judge of d ish...
They are both immatured
Hmmm, so who do we believe now? Its not nice how u guys are washing ur filty linen publicly. Please settle dis feud amicably for d sake of ur kids, how do u want dem to feel or u think dey are too young to have feelings? Biko two of u or should I say three of u should sort urselves out and stop saying things u will regret later, goodluck!
He has said it all. That u even cry when u lie. For God sack why would a married woman be snaping with one particular man so many time. Na God no una case o
Only God knows who is saying the truth,but i want to believe the guy is to an extent..Ladies could be so dramatic....And pls both of you should lets hear word and focus on your life...The guy should face his new home and not forget his kids,i want to believe he wont though and the sophia should get a life too pls plus that guy is your boyfriend and not just a friend abeg,which kind picture b that wey una dey hold each other closely,a married woman for that matter,u can only justify u did that after ur marriage ended but that was too early for you to do if you were really responsible in that marriage in the first place,even if your marriage is experiencing some difficulties and ur husband is cheating on u at that moment,i believe as a woman you should be calm,talk to him and his family,pray and find ways for your family to come back,thats what strong and responsible women will do...most men are liable to cheat in marriage but strong women stay strong to their marriage and dont go ahead to cheat just because their man is cheating...
It is well o...God knws best ..
Hia! Nawaooo! I know that stupid man was trying to justfy himself,him nd dat okpono eys! Take heart my dear and ur children.
Marriage is not a bed of roses, it may seem beautiful and never-ending-fairytale at the beginning but would certainly turn soar, pale and a pain as it progresses. Couples should continue to mend their ways until it gets to the end, that was the vow they took together.
If Tchidi was the problem in his first marriage, he is still going to be a problem in his second marriage. For the sake of his kids, he should have derived ways to make his first marriage work.
It's so painful to read all this... I beg of you to let it go, God has its own divine plans for you,be strong.
Sophia u can lie for African I tout u said ur children cry to bed every nite bcos of deir dad is nt around hw come u are sayng nw dat he provide for his children Shut up sophia u started d ranting nw u want to concentrate stop using ur childrens names to find favour frm ppl chidi wrote dat. On his wall yesterday hw come ur children class mate are already asking dem questions in sch u can lie for Africa. A cheat will always remain a cheat both of u are cheat pack well jor. Mrs j say so
Hmmm,Tchidi is just acting immature,something tells me that Sophia is saying the truth. Tchidi shud just let her rest with the kids..... Apinex
It is well Sophia, You have done your best to make things work but alas it still went the way it did. U got up and decided to keep moving on even when Your hubby, his new "found love" and so called friends tried to pull you down. All I can say is Keep doing what you are doing and you will laugh last. God will not ignore ur labour of love while u were married and also ur care for your children. I was touched by your response. I also appreciate the maturity in which you responded instead using insults and curses. You will overcome and God will not allow you to end in shame. It is well with you and everything that concerns you. Keep on keeping on and God will give you the peace, love, blessings and favour you need to be all you can be. The future is bright for you. In a few years from now you will look back and laugh and thank God for being God in your life. He will not fail you and you will enjoy your children in due season.
Sophia may God continue to bless and keep u for those kids, u are a strong woman, a super woman, continue to be strong for d kids
WHY WOULD NUELLA MARRIES THIS WOMAN'S HUSBAND? WERE THEY DIVORCED ALREADY? KNOWING FULLY WELL HE HAS CHILDRED, SHE DOESNT HAVE CONSCIENCE. IS THERE NO MEN OUT THERE TO LOVE AGAIN? WHY DOES SHE FEEL COMFORTABLE PUTTING THIS FAMILY APART? U SHUD VE ENJOYD IS THING AND LET HIM BE COS OF HIS FAMILY? LAW OF KARMA AWAITS NUELLA, WETHER NOW OR LATER!! AND TCHIDI MAKESURE U TRAIN UR CHILDREN IF NOT.. I COMMENT MY RESERVCE, FUTURE WILL TELL U HOW FAR! NOT TO TRY TO BE ONE SIDED SOPHIA MAKESURE U LEARN LESSON FROM UR PAST MARRIAGE,IF U VE BEEN DOING WRONG THAT PUSHED HIM, FIX THINGS RIGHT NEXT TIME. I REST MY CASE BUT GOD CAN STILL DO SOMETHING DONT RELENT IN PRAYERS.
All is well,God will surely be there for you,no matter what.sophia
I rarely comments on posts but I'm forced to write on this one. Ours is not to dictate who is wrong and who isn't cos we truly don't know what went wrong. However, this woman strikes me as someone who has something fishy going on. How can a married woman describe another man as " He is someone that is very close to me and my confidant" even before d divorce is completed? She even goes to d extent of striving very questionable poses, dressed obscenely, in photo studios less than a year after meeting this man? For a moment, after reading Tchidi's blast and seeing the photos, was almost going to belive they were photoshopped cos of the razz looking man in them. Well, who are we to judge? I'ld advise you guys keep the rest of the information to yourselves and clean up yr mess remembering whatever has been posted online can neva be erased. Save yr future and save yr kids from this trauma.
Mehn! dis z is really serious....... Dnt knw who to bliv, i think they shuld jst move on *shikena*
Hey Sophia, to be candid even if u are looking for a best friend in a man to fill the vacuum you and your husband Tchidi created by chosen career over marriage or because female friends betrayed you, don't you think wisdom demand you respect your home by not being too close to that man in London you called your friend... Where on earth is it done to choose a man over your husband as friend to the extent of taking uncomfortable pictures with him and to make matter worse he posted on his facebook??? I am not here to judge, I just feel truth has to be told may be a lesson to some. Give your life to Christ peeps and let God be the chairman and everything in your home. It is well.
In as much as I blame the guy (Tchidi) for all his rubbish attitude, I also blame you Sophia for getting too close to that guy, your so called besty, because you (Sophia) have just giving Tichidi reasons to justify his attitude towards you.
Me too... *sobs*
Both of u are just two immature adults, who do we believe/? Anyway I believe Tchidi's part of d story,....
It's very obvious Tchidi is a womanizer, and it's also obvious the woman has been cheating on him. So in retrospect, they're both irresponsible parents. I only feel sorry for the kids, buh for the parents can go build a dam around their lives for all I care...wawaye.
Sophia,pls juz ignore him and let God judge. I pray God will help u take gud care of those wondaful bois. God bless u. Marriage @times isn't worth it...
I'm a man that travels a lot and it takes a courageous woman to get married to an actor anywhere in the world. Tchidi stop ranting and posting of aftermath pics. A sensible Nigeria man will not fight back his wife when he's doing b*llsh*t off home (Your wife is your wife cos women forgives in Nigeria and they know what you are doing out there - she never posted your pics and Nuella since 2010) Try this in South Africa and leave your wife to Nigeria for 4-days I bet you, no matter how faithful she's, she will taste 2 or more better guys before you get back. You broke your marriage cos you wanted to date a classy girl. If I'm a woman and my husband leaves me for another woman after 2(two)yrs so I should keep the place forever cos nothing like congee right? Mr. Landlord (Tchidi) travel and see. You broke your home please stop lamenting and leave her to be.
First thing first,I so dis like the three parties involved they are all teribble nollyhood things.the guy is the worst director ever,and the ladies jesus... But to you sophia just has ur have said don't reply this looser of a ex-husband useless man,the time he wasted writing up to make linda's blog happen he would have finished pry 6 to correct his sentences.
Other thing sophia l know u too wld have a bad side but just has u righty said may the good Lord judge the two of u.
Then to the NEW WIFe my advice for you is to find time and attend MFM or RCCG prayer meetings for strange women(if u knw what that means) because u have broken a home.
All is well.GOD known best,becos he will not let u fall.be strong for yourself and or kids.Sophia Neva give up on the God you are serving becos he will Neva give up on you also.peace
Men are naturally selfish. Once they suspect a thing they fill threatened, they loose focus and give up. They balme their wife for every of their failure and always have alternative spouse. A woman is pushed to the wall when she knows there's no more hope. I feel you woman. My husband complains about not eating and yet he does not provide money. He does not show affection yet complains that I do my own thing. They can't be pleased. The best is to be true to yourself and the kids. Your respite has come. Make the best use of your current life and learn from your past experience. I don't know you but I feel you....
Very foolish man to write all that's nonsense. Looking at it his trying to justify himself selfless man. My dear clean up d dirt n move on. But my pain is d children. Its well
I am dat woman.
$$k@y$$
I just don't know who to believe from this two
I just don't know who to believe from this two
I read her response and it brought tears to my eyes. I'm really just surprised at Nuella. You can never have peace when you tamper with someone else's peace.
i thank God for who he is. He is the silent judge and will and will surely fight for the righteous.
Sophia. it is well with you. As far as your hands are clean, God will intervene in ur matter.
this monster look tchidi is not mature at all , no matter what happened to his marriage , he should have made a selling point the bloggers , print and non print media . it is unfair to be painting the mother of his children this way just because of new found slot. an adage in yoruba says , the cane that we used in beating the first wife is on top of the ceiling for the second wife. the new wife should know now that she has married to a monster
I read her response and it brought tears to my eyes. I'm really just surprised at Nuella. You can never have peace when you tamper with someone else's peace.
i thank God for who he is. He is the silent judge and will and will surely fight for the righteous.
Sophia. it is well with you. As far as your hands are clean, God will intervene in ur matter.
Forget talk....you don't know guys o.... He probably has finished d girl before them.
...Another thing is that you (Sophia) can't be perfect just as you've narrated it on your comment, you must also be faulty somewhere somehow. Because if that picture of you with your so called besty hadn't show up on your friend's fcbk page you wouldn't have said anything about him or maybe you would have denied it/him outrightly. Though, Tchidi's attitude wasn't fair, he shouldn't be far away from his kids. Both of you are very wrong.
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In as much as I blame the guy (Tchidi) for all his rubbish attitude, I also blame you Sophia for getting too close to that guy, your so called besty, because you (Sophia) have just giving Tichidi reasons to justify his attitude towards you.
Wow... I thought as much and am really short of words now.. Men wit dere wahala sha. May God help us d women... In all we do, let us do good
She is a lair. How can she say that guy is just her friend? The pictures tells it all.
All I see from this message is 100% guilt , I was almost blaming the husband before reading this piece , she just shot herself in the legs .
This is the height of immaturity and stupidity, why cant they settle their issues privately??? Gosh! Everybody calls God as their witness, all the 3 of them. Clear conscience fears no accusations, the 3 of u should learn to be mature!
Tchidi just face ur new marriage and stop acting childish. See all the things you said about ur ex wife, u must be really immature. Can u swear that you didn't cheat on her? Now you are forming innocent. abeg park well
Why take it p??? Are u related to the lady
To me they both guilty, when a lady picks a fully grown MAN as best friend this 21st century mehn dey fucking PERIOD!!!
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You'av sais it all vengeance is of the Lord
It is well my dear, God will continually be with u and the kids. Take care
I just tire. To show how silly Nuella is, she went on a blog to reply people first, then came out with a statement and then got her new husband to come out with his own statement! Just silly to me. If your conscience is clean and you're happy is there any need to come out and start defending yourself? Till today Stella Damasus has not said a word about her recent husband snatching.
Awww I love u Sophia, ve followed ur case and I never believed tchidi's statement about u...some men sha, wanna spoil her image so bad, I believe all u said dear..just take care of ur kids, its well dear no matter what just be happy, dont stress, think, and live ur life to the fullest for the sake of ur children
It takes d grace of GOD 4 tins b normal in life 4 d wise. My comment is 4 u both- marriage is 4 better 4 worse! Tchidi if u ll agree wit me, stop ds paste or publishin of ur ex ok only 4 d sake of ur kids ad rsepect of GOD. Also take care of dem nomatter wot.ask our merciful Father who is on d thrown! d king of kings! ad d champion of all to assemble in ur home! There's bound to quarrel bt d wisest is to make up.Tchidi I believe u can stil change ds wrong in ur home. Stop publishin ur dirty lins outside. No one is perfect only bt GOD. U guys should'nt mind talks outside cos u guys re d cause, u brought it upon urself so aloue GOD to vist u to collcet d wrongs @ ur home ad it ll b well wit ur house. B bless
OKAY.... I JUST READ THE COMMENT FROM LUCHI PALVIC AND THAT'S A SHOCKER....
YOU ARE SO IMMATURE, COMING HERE TO BLAST SOMEONE ELSE LIFE STYLE AND MARRIAGE.
I DOUBT YOU HAVE A HUSBAND SEF. MUST YOU TALK?? WEREY PERSON!!!
GOD bless you ,he will fight for you cus he said it that he GOD is angry with the wicked everyday so I Believe that no matter how long it takes GOD will judge every one according to their deeds
Village She-goat....Razz thing.
@emmy stop comdemin sophia, is chidi dat strtd it all, must he come out and abuse his ex wife in social media. Dats vry stuip of him
Ur a big goat to have supported this tchidi guy. Do u Have a conscence atall? Animal! Can u try this in a western world where the man will pay tru his anus. Big FOOL Oshi. Mumu.com
My dear Mr & Mrs Tchidi, i feel your pains as husband and wife, people celebrate 20, 30,50 years and sometimes dies together as one, this never means that they no issues that sometimes threatens their lives in their marriage, but the way the resolve it is where the grace comes in. we are humans created in diff. ways. if i am not wrong, this woman was once the angel of your life and the man was your dream come through. God will never exchange your angel to a demon or your dream to be a seasonal dream episodes. Please Mr Tchidi you are now married be matured and allow the woman to face her life with your children and please try to be a father i wish you the best and more grace to tolorate the new woman, for all of them are the same. and former mrs Tchidi, learn to be closer to God and serve Him with all sincerity, yes you now have a friend in confident Pray for your ex husban, he is still the father of your children, the best you can do now is to love (Agape)him the most and let him be for all tha goes around will surely come around. God bless you both.
@Apple. YOU ARE A BASTARD!!!
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Hrt of gold sophia. May God reward u according 2 ur deed dis chidi wit him 1 leg mwee I dnt knw y fine sophia da wori her slf God bless u sophia.
for all i care... women will cried blood and call the name of God in vain just so the truth will never come out. A woman can even fight you just to cover the truth. So all this her stories will never move me. A man will never come out to tarnish a woman's image like this if he is not sure of what he is saying. So the lady should just shut up and stop galivanting everywhere. She is a looser for all i know. Even if men are never satisfued, they still cherish their wives because they are our pride. So Chidi good luck to you in your new marriage.
We've heard you...now go take one bottle of star
Married woman taking pictures that can question her fidelity? Why do girls always do stupid things and say it's friendship? Ok, let's assume you're saying the truth and he's your friend and in UK at "cool" places taking pictures and your husbands friends saw the both of you and rumours start flying and eventually got to your husband, do you think he will be happy? Pls women, be wise!!! Don't do things that will jeopardise your marriage/relationship in the name of friendship and show off. ..
How you take know that one oga?
Shut up you dirty mouTh
@Apple. It is obvious your life is in a mess. The internet is an avenue for you to make malicious comments. In your seedy home, you see all. SHAME ON YOU! FACELESS IDIOT!
Hmmmmmmmmmmmmm. Sophia it is well with you. Be grateful to God that you are alive and did not die in that Marraige. People will believe what they want to believe. Worry less about Tchidi he will come and beg u. When he will i do not know as for Nuella worry less about her, She is not happy that is why tchidi has time to be tweeting. As newly married couples they are sad if not they will not have time for the drama. Go and take care of your children. Tchidi just made you a Star.
This is pure emotional blackmail sophia... see all that d guy is to you.. hmmm. it takes a mature mind to read in-between the lines. both of you have made mistakes one way or the other but plsss sophia go and take a backkkk seat.
Yawns...
I have never commented on this blog but I have to.Tchidi acted so childish by putting up those pix n the nasty things he said.Who does that?I think he feels guilty and is upset Sophia has moved on.I strongly feel he still has feeling for her.I know for a fact he cheated on her countless times but most men do.Sophia I don't think that guy is just your friend,I think your dating but this most likely is after your break up.its ok to accept it,you should move on as people will say,but in the eyes of God your still married so you must keep praying for his return to you.lastly I strongly believe this two will come back together.and the strange woman will be left in the cold because it was never her man in the 1st place.may God's will be done.
Matured write up 4rm a wonderful woman,nuella so disappointed wit ur decision,tchidi u are so immature wit ur opinion•nuella marryin a father of 3. 4 wat,are u dat desperate
What?!Did I just read "best friend, buddy, confidant" ?No man can have a married woman as bestie without his primitive instincts urging him to slam the thingy.Yeye woman. You used your own hands to damage your marriage now keep quiet and marry your best friend
Linda,pls post my comment. Dis is my first comment 'nyways,see ehn dis story is confusing n I dnt support both of them cuz they've taken to social media to unleash their secrets. It started with Nuella n now she's in the background while these two have unashamedly exposed their ish. I just hope the truth comes out someday,for now I wish them all the best. Sophia,lick ur wounds n move on. Tchidi,enjoy ur marriage n be a good husband to ur new family.
Sophia is childish and a lair.
Madam, please move on with your life. Biko!
You all are pointing hands at chidi not being matures. If this mother of 3 was matured in the firat place she shouldn't have written a statement. The guy was quiet althrough till last night he posted pictures. My dear nobody is innocent.She said she loves taking pictures to the extent that a mother was dressing like a slut with another man and she could open her mouth to say she is always with him? Is that man single or what? So because chidi is firewood he should embrace you when you return from your trip? So you couldn't take one of your kids with you on your ao called trip? You must have taunted Nuella before ahw came out publicly with her statement. I am a guy too and from the way he sounding in that post yesterday you could tell he was pained. Now that the guy has had enough of this battle you are now callng yourself matured and realeasing statenents? Seriously babe. Your skin colour even looks brighter than your future. If you love your man, please never make him jealous because he will never forget.
TIS Tchidi is very useless sha,tis pix his posing 4 us was it not last year pix while he left d poor gal since 2010? dear Sophia pls move on jst ignore him n lets see how tis new marriage goes.Ur a pretty gal so GOD wil see u tru.
All of u stupid people saying u don't want to know what happened in their marriage are still nosy enough to read so just shut the fuck up cos it's obvious enough that u want to know what is happening.
This woman na ashwo how can a guy be ur best friend? You de tell mugus abeg go rest
enough of this rubbish. Both of them are cheaters.
This woman is a snake.
London boys de too like to f..k married women....I saw a lot of shit happen while i was there. Not judging you Sophia, but as a married woman......"ceaser's wife should be above suspicion".
Sophia the picture taker, I hail you!
So your kids read their father's allegation against you and advised you to reply! Again I hail you!
Lmao
"when a woman cheats, she is a whore
when a man cheats, it is normal, infact its not bad". says who??
The deed has been done. Sophia and Tchidi move on abeg. Hope you will learn from this. As for nuella, enjoy your marriage while it last.
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Who is d best spouse is a contest u both shud not get into,cos u wud fail,we kw he cheated on u but u also cheated on him while u were 2getda sophia I kw u very well and u were not d best wife,u had no regards 4 ur marriage u had open affairs so don't play d victim cos u both are.
My friend just shut your trap. Why won't he leave the marriage when he will be following every lead actress that features in his movies. Nuella go still hear am, that I am sure of. The worse is that she won't have half the patience Sophia had. Lindiway, do justice to my comment
I hope u Chidi will also tell nuella to stop acting just as u did to the mother of your kids Sophia I pray to God that u nuella if really your hands re clean in this matter or situation all will b well wit u but no u cause this my dear heaven bear us witness as mum I know hw it feel my prayer for is U will alway cry for the fruit of the womb unless u as for forgiveness openly
Hmmmm, na wa oh,so much stories already,anyways,u can't eat ur cake nd have it so leave Sophia alone weda she is a prostitute or not and face ur new found angel,Nuella #walksaway#
I can't like this comment enough...bestest ever! And to u Lindi sugar,, pls marriage can b sweet n lovely make them no scare you with this. @HSB
Tchidi Chikere, Please speak out oooooo, Don't die silently, You want happiness and a home, Kindly speak out and go for it!!!! 90% of Nigeria women are murders in disguise!!!!!
I gat ya back 100%!
Your sluttish mother who put u with different sperms to bed straffed even ur uncles.. be careful or ill expose ur nonentity self here.
Your husband is supposed to be ur bestfriend, not any other guy. And u're a married women, u shldnt take such pics wiv another man. You are such a terrible liar!
This is a lesson to all ya ladies out there, that you have his kids doesn't mean ya ve secured ya married! You cheat, you go!!!!!
Ladies will always want a man that is quiet,calm and willing to die slowly.....Look at those pics closely,and tell ask you self how long she has been cheating....
A man who openly disses a woman isn't a man, but a woman himself! Btw, he isn't even cool an actor... ppttff...
Tchidi is a Jealous Husband, He's d one cheating on d ex n yet he blames her. It wont take time before he does same to nuella. she took those pics cuz she wanted him to believe so, it ws a planned pics. n it obvious it only med matters worst. She stll loves Him Dearly. He'l come bak to his senses but den it wl b late. say i said so...
If your side of the story is true...then i would say your husband will one day return to you...but for the pictures of you i saw already mingling with some other person in the name of good or best friends, the chances are narrow...but i knw chidi is not that irresponsible to forget his kids...that i know quiet well. Lovelyn.
Its my first time to comment here any how Sophie messed up by showing her boy freind the very first time.
i don't want to be a judge here but the pictures your husband posted of you doesn't speak well of a responsibly married woman, friend or no friend.
Tchidi, i agree with you that your ex is not a good woman yet you stayed with her and have your three children. how manage? The same way you dumped her is the same way you are going to dump this new one. No matter what she has done, as a mature man you shouldnt have said all the things you said about her on the media. Remember you have children with her and one day they will ask you why you said all thats about their mother in the public. Things are better managed outside the media. I used to respect you because i worked with your sister as a banker but with these your statements about the mother of your children, i have lost every single respect i have for you. And for that idiot that married you, I pity her.
Let God vindicate who ever is sincere,that's my own.
I av never commented on you blog b4,but I can't resist this.The ex wife is deceiving u guys.she s been dating this UK guy only God knows when.Both of them r seeking for sympathizers.nonsense!
Tchidi might have cheated on you sophia likewise 98% of married nigerian men,i agree with you but i am blaming you for what is happening to you right now.u gave up on ur marriage to have time with your so called best friend.be honest with urself,u tfink peepz like omotola,joke sylva,adaeze igwe not experience what u went 2ru?You better go hide ur face in shame because you started all this!Am not and will never side tchidi,but you wd have shown more maturity earlier,its comin in too late!
chidi is just wasting his time! sophia is his wife and the moment he gives his life to jesus christ, his pastor ll send him back to sophia! if anything happens to chidi today, na hell fire straight. let God just keep him until he finds out this truth!
Chidi ur a whore... i do see u at afro lounge in enugu rocking sluts...dat was 2011. in my final year. If I could remember correctly u were still happily married. If Sophia is a slut Wat does dat make u? Any lady dat opens her mouth to support Chidi definitely slept or had sth to do wit d guy. For crying out loud why can't she b forgiven. For crying out loud ladies she's one of us.put urself in her shoes. Guys cheat and say dey are guys but wen ladies does its an abomination. Dats stupid.
this is d reason why they u ve to be ready for marriage.. (1)What is d foundation of dis marriage...(2).. Every marriage is bound to experience crisis or temptation.... Plss stay away from d media...
U re a moron, it's ok for men to cheat and dump there wifes abi? Follow tchidi steps and u will realise how messed up u ve made u life in Ur 60s
abeg this babe na serious ashawo ..when ur kids grow up they'll understand more ..
abegi this babe na serious ashawo ..when ur so called kids grow up they'll understand more ...u say his ur bestfriend?? u r a stupid mother . listen to your fucked up sef !!
THE ONLY THING I HAVE TO SAY IS"na wetin dem take beat the first one,dem go take beat the second" so the second wife should just keep feeling lucky.
abeg this babe na serious ashawo ..when ur kids grow up they'll understand more ..u say he is ur bestfriend?? u need to listen to ur fucked up sef madam u bi serious disgrace to marriage ..
This woman lied here, atleast with regards of the man in the picture she claimed it's a friend assisting her to buy things. how can you explain this. Look at the way the guy is holding her, and she is leaning on him. Please madam you can't deceive us most women will support you because they are just like you
Your Father.....lol
You just said my mind....no need to insult either of them. But I hold the woman responsible more.
Honestly Nigerian married men can really push their wives off the limit. They have no respect for marriage. to worsen the case those single girls out there don't care about the marital status of the guy they are dating as long as he has money. They don't care how the wife at home feels, they call at night, send txt messages very early in the morning, Whatsap any form of gist and postures. It's really bad
Seriously, this is interesting. i have so much respect for Tchidi. He's one of the best writer and director in Nigerian movie industry. But this story about him is what i am not pleased with. May be he should not have said anything about his ex. If he has chosen to walk out of the marriage and move to another, he should have done so without blackmailing her. Sophia if u are sure u are justified before God and man, then let go and let God come through for you.
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Bia luchi or what do you call urself. Sophia graduated from IMSU. I wonder were u got ur info from. Bad belle.
Ure just a fool,she is lying?if she is soo bad as she is painted,aw come she has 3 Kids for him?so u wer expecting her to remain single when her husband left?am sure ure a woman,and marriage is neva easy..a woman dat is bad can neva be patient to av 3 kids.dey always av one and run wild on d street.stop judging her.av neva commented on dis issue,but I have to,today.she dsnt deserve d pain,what is gud for d geese, is also gud for the gender.as long as he can cheat,and remarry,she reserves avry damn right to do so, too
Ode oshi.ure d type ur husband will marry 2 wives on u,and u will be playing African woman,na una no make nigeria grow.please visit the psychiatric hospital, and see aw how many woman has fone mad,on top man issue..some pple just come on ere, and write rubbish...so many women get beaten avryday by dier husbands,but bcos dey are ashamed of what a fool like you will say,dey stick on and continue bn beaten and some neva live to tell the story...am not supporting sophia,but we all know men cheat, and d actors are even worse..we didn't hear anything,until she pasted pics on line,is Mr tchidi saying dis lady dsnt have a right to date someone else? av seen marriages dat dsnt survive a year,just bcos of bad behaviour from either the man or woman.soo aw can a marriage survive 10years,if she is really dat bad?,he would have left a long time ago..some men are terrible, a waka waka woman can neva be patient to have 3 kids lailai....if truly his accusations are true,he would neva have left her
..some African men are soo brainless,with due respect to all the men..just spoke my mind..
You friend indeed
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TCHIDI just disappointed me. i never heard a complaint from sophia the wife so why write all those long thrash about her????first your new wife and now you. i love her mature response..
#as if we dont know you men...!!!
i donot know whats between the both of them, but the woman's response is the loudest. very mature response. the guy shud grow up and let her be.
Ndi iberibe abuo, mtsheeeew
Only fools generalize their statements. After ranting, u turn around to say "let God be the judge" looking at it from another perspective what if she is all he says she is?
SAD....messed up stuff
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Tchidi. Wot point were u trying to prove? So immature of u. Shame shame shame on u....
Tchidi were u trying to shut her up with doz threats? Ok now dat she didnt, oya disgrace urself further more. Childish fool!
From omoT to Geny to Tonto etc, Tchidi have slept with all of them, funny he playing the poor me card.
Oboy! rilly dnt knw wat to say anymore.. Tchidi shud giv up cos pple wud always take sides wit her cos of d kids...I personally tink Tchidi cheated alot n even if she cheated at some point,she did out of frustration.gbam...Me sef dis is my last comment on this matter. whew!
husbaND AND WIFE ISSUE,my hand no dey dia..
Lol. No vex
Well, if she's saying the truth (which i want to believe she is) why then did she give the ex-husband the opportunity to rant by taking affectionate pictures with a man who is not her husband while she is married. We dig our own graves though.
Nuella started it all - dis drama. You have decided to marry someone's husband why seeking justification from public. I still wonder if Tchidi actual tweet these rubbish knowing full well that he has 3 boys from previous marriage or somebody else did it on his behalf. He should have known better. How do u want public to see dis children bastards abi afterall their dad said so. Please respect these Children and b matured. Strange in Igboland
Whr're/dem/commentators???
Ibu onye iberibe...men who think they are gods!!stupid ibo men that only think about marrying just to bear children.see ur mouth like get nuella pregnant
Why would u support a woman that is so shameless. Didnt u read her story? How can a married woman and a woman for any reason have another man as her 'best friend'. Was she expecting her ex husband to stay home and look after d kids? She would av still complained if he had done dat. Whn ur husband goes out to fend for u and ur kids, comes home to takecare of u all and pay d bills, why watelse does a woman want. Hope she's happy to do it all by herself and marries her 'best friend'
Haba. U r talking like an uneducated person. If they r legally married no one can throw her out of any house. I'm not saying she's right. I'm not saying any of them is right
But u should know that barbarism is fast fading away.
U are the bigger fool. If ur mother had been parading d streets wt a man friend, wldnt ur father av kicked her out too? Ewu
The woman shd av thought abt her kids before starting a show down wt her husband. The woman has her own faults wch is are silent abt jst to cry wolf abt men. if Tchidi was ur brother wld u be saying dsame thing?
No matter who is right or wrong,for tchidi to come on a social media to continually bore us with this issue he's a big fooooooooool.......
May God bless you so much my sister. Even from her statement u wld knw she's a slag. A married woman frolicking around wt another man she calls her best friend. shameless woman.
Ask a man in ur family why he's doing it. He is shaming a slut!
This is one of the most sensible comments. U hit d nail on d head. Hope her besty will marry her now.
Cannt u read. She jst admitted to having a man on the side she calls her best friend. Married woman having a male best friend cos she thinks women will always betray her like she's nt a woman herself
If u werent walking on d path, no one wld av accused u of infidelity. Simple as. No more crocodile tears like sophia's
Stupid comment. Whn did Tchidi sleep wt omotola u nasty liar? Omotola is not like any of those cheap actresses and why she can celebrate her marriage in ur jealous face, bitch.
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