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Wednesday, 2 April 2014

LIB Exclusive: Sophia Tchidi Chikere replies Tchidi Chikere

A few hours ago, Nollywood director Tchidi Chikere took to Twitter to rubbish his estranged wife Sophia Tchidi Chikere (If you missed it, read here). Well, Sophia has responded to all the accusations leveled against her by her ex. She just sent me an exclusive statement. Find it below...
Tchidi Chikere, I read all you said about me and I laugh. Is that the best way to justify yourself? It is well. I will not exchange words with you still because there is nothing you say or write about me that will shake me because those that put their trust in God, He never fails them.
Why are you lying to people? For them to turn around and clap for you and justify what you did? Is it because people who know the truth are saying it and it's hurting you and you are now looking for a way to justify yourself. I give 10 years of my life and this is how you repay me? By disrespecting me and my family? Continue...
You said I used juju to marry you. If truly I and my family used juju to hold you, let God who sees everything judge me and you.

You bring money for the upkeep of your kids and you are writing about it? Like seriously, are they not your kids? Whose responsibility is that? And who is disputing that with you? You said since you married me that I have not given you no love, no affection etc but you forgot the interview you granted to Punch newspaper in 2011 saying that I am the best thing that have happened to you.

You said I never had time for you? When you are always filming in the east and I won't see you in months. I played the role of father and mother to the kids...and I laughed the more when I saw where you wrote that I didn't feed you for 5 days.. Is this all in desperation to justify yourself? Wow!!

You said marriages are not contracted on the pages of newspaper and granting interviews yet you people have been granting interviews upon interviews since 2012.. Have I said anything against you? But I won't say anything against you. Keep saying lies about me thinking you can tarnish my image by putting up this childish and immature behavior.

Even if you say that I am a prostitute tomorrow or a thief, people who know the truth know the truth and God knows everything and sees the heart and he will pay everybody back according to our deeds. So am not shaking!!

I will never say anything against you to gain favour from people! No you can't hide pregnancy. I gave you my life for 12 years, gave you 3 lovely boys, gave you a home. And you always say to me then, I was a good wife to you and you know it. I was loyal to you and never cheated on you. I swallowed and stomached so many things just to make my marriage work. I turned deaf ears to so many things and covered my eyes to so many things.

I remember all the stories I heard about your escapades with other women, but did I leave you? I stayed with you because marriage is for better or worse and when you started your affair with Nuella in 2010, what did you say to me when I confronted you?

I stayed, endured and prayed every night. Have you forgotten the day I almost committed suicide? The first time you left me and the kids? I wanted to end my life but God saved me. Even as you left us in 2012, I keep saying to people that my marriage is intact and I never changed my name from Sophia Tchidi Chikere till date.

Have you not done enough to me? You are married now and still I wish you and your new wife well. Why can't you leave me alone to face my children and fill up the vacuum this has created in their lives? You say such evil things against their mother and they are hearing it from their schoolmates. Their schoolmates are taking about it and asking them questions everyday and yet your not satisfied. You claim you kept quiet because of them, yet you have been talking and tarnishing my image since 2012? Yet I kept mute. I have not and will never say anything bad against you. Vengeance is of the Lord, unless he is not on the throne.

You put up my pictures with my friend to use against me? You want to use it to justify what you did to me? What you put me through for years? You said he is my boyfriend that I go to see in London and I ask you Tchidi, when I was with you, did I not go to London 2 or 3 times yearly to buy clothes for my boutique? Everybody knows that I am a business woman and I buy my products from London and America. And so because I have a friend in London, I now go there just to see him? Lol He is my friend, my pal, my buddy and my best friend.

We started being good friends in 2013 after Chidi left me and ended our marriage. He is someone that is very close to me and my confidant. All these years I have had women as best friends and they all betrayed me, and I decided to have a guy as my best friend. We go everywhere together and he assists me in shopping and buying things for my shop etc I can't deny him. He is my friend. People that know me very well will tell you that I love taking pictures and so we took lots of pictures and the guy posted it on his Facebook page and some people copied it and started posting it online. I have also kept mute about it and I would have still keep mute if not that Tchidi raises it and wanted to use it to tarnish my name.

But is well. My kids read what their daddy wrote about me and they asked me to respond and tell the whole world that you are wonderful mother and that they know and they are seeing everything and won't say anything till they grow up! So am responding to this because of my three lovely boys that I live for, that am blessed with.

I want to beg Tchidi to please allow me to concentrate and train my kids with God's grace and help. I wish him the best in his new marriage.I bless his new marriage with his new wife and I wish them well. This will be my last statement. Even if Chidi pulls the mountain to paint me black.. I will not respond again.

Thank you

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Anonymous said...

It is well with u Sophia, God will be with u and see u through all d pains and discomfort, I can understand your plight cause am married too but if your faith in God isn't shaken, u'd be the one to triumph at last just hang in there, d lord is your strength.

sarah isaac said...

Just so confused...God help her
...God u alone knows best...when tchidi wrote his own yesterday it was so touching,now dis is touching too..i don't know what to believe o....

Unknown said...

Hmmmn!

Blessing said...

Na wao, no be small drama bi dis oo. God knws d real truth.

Anonymous said...

So sad we dont even know wat to bliv anymore wen both parties speak they both sound so tru na only God know now let him be d jugde.only tym wil tel

Twista said...

This is serious tho. Truly, there are always two sides to a story. Next!

Unknown said...

Face ur children Sophia n let God d all seeing n all knowing b d judge... some pple n drama tho...

Unknown said...

Sophie! move on jaree, God will give you the grace to provide for your kids and you will sure find ya self another man..move on honey

Anonymous said...

Same here. Couldn't believe I cried while reading this. Things women go through in Nigerian marriages and yet keep smiling to the world like all is well. May God give her the strength she needs to go tru this phase.

Anonymous said...

Sophia..dunno what to type sha..Just let God be the Judge..Its well with you and the new couple.

Anonymous said...

Na wha o.u ppl are not being matured about dis.at d end its gonna be on ur kids and dey will hate one of u.

Anonymous said...

My heart is broken after reading this article!Sophia please my dear,be strong God is with you and your adorable kids.

Anonymous said...

Tchidi is an mbasie man, nuella is an imo gal! Thhats imo ppl 4 u!!! Very wicked thnggs!!!

Anonymous said...

Tchidi and nuella..may God have mercy on u both...sophia take care

Anonymous said...

It is well oh! Only God knows wat happened between this two bt its so obvious that they still love each other.Nuella is only a pawn.it is well!

Anonymous said...

This sophia self. I have a feeling she's just trying to be sentimental. Women are very manipulative. Trying to manipulate d readers of this article with her sentimental outburst. Talking abt God and all. Best friend indeed. D way u were al ova dat guy in those photos tells me more. Abeggi.. Linda pls post my comment

Anonymous said...

Fool Tchid while u wia busy wit all dis female prostitutes in d movie industry & abandon ur marriage 4 months u expected ur wife 2 remain Mother Theresa? She needed a man,a companion daz why she chose 2 marry u cos if not she wld hv gone 2 b a Rev.Sister. I knw d problems in many marriage,u men alwaz want 2 taste all sorts of soup.U re promiscuous& daz what u re suffering frm. Sophia neva insulted u all diz while,which shows she is a gd woman. U wil liv & pay 4 all d evil u brought 2 ur sef by ur sef. Useless man.U disgust.Fool

Anonymous said...

One of u guys must be lying but only God knows who d culprit is. Enough of all these media fight between d two of u. Each party should move on.

Gracy said...

Madam sophia I didn't read anything meaniful from what u said,u are just beating round the bush...pls cover ur face now...Madam I love to snap pictures

Unknown said...

Ok. Pele dear.

Anonymous said...

Marriage!!!!!! Only the strong can survive.........

Anonymous said...

She was raining curse before, now she is calling God. The same mouth u use to curse, is now being used to bless. I don't buy the story. Please Linda stop campaigning for this woman. U we're not in their marriage to know what went wrong.

angel said...

Madam, nice and tidy statement from you. This man you married is a coward..no man worth his salt willl wash his dirty linen in public and disparage the mother of his kids like that just to curry public sympathy. If you won't abuse him,i will do so on your behalf. Tchidi,you are a worm!!Marry another woman if you want but for heaven's sake shut your trap and accord some respect to the mother of your boys.If she is no good,why did u stay with her for 12years and sire 3 kids??? Animal!

Anonymous said...

Dis man Tchidi is shameless

Anonymous said...

God wil see U̶̲̥̅̊ through

fortune said...

4rm de way she sounds,I sense fear..

Little_lady_by_Ariel said...

Mmmmmh now who are we suppose to believe wen both parties claim to b d saint. Sophia have respect for her marriage regardless ov his so many bullshits buh chidi in the oda hands is tryn so hard to paint himself d saint by putn up pix ov his wif n her friend without no respect or regard for d children's feeling, won't judge cos I no dey there buh wat I know for sure no mata wat no nija man go allow him wife no give am food for 5days wifout pannel beatin d woman unless he is as quilty as FUCK.u guys shld growup already especially u chidi abeg 10yrs for marriage no b beans.

Anonymous said...

Just so confused now, this woman sounds so real & mature too. I really can imagine what those children are going through in the hands of their school mates. Well, the truth will surely prevail.
~GoodnewS~

Anonymous said...

Thcidi Na fool.

Anonymous said...

Na wa ooo.let God judge

Anonymous said...

She said that man na her best friend. Na there I catch am. She is a liar

Anonymous said...

A married woman with 3 boys likes taking pictures and d best she could do is to take with her friend and buddy, not 1 pix but plenty pix up 2 d point dat dat buddy of hers used it on facebook. Please let's get seriouse, that alone is enough to put u on check.

Anonymous said...

Wash.. so u wan confuse us sey d guy no dey chop u? If I hear.

Anonymous said...

I think Sophia is telling the truth. Tchidi is a doggy dog. The Dog himself...

Little_lady_by_Ariel said...

Abeg wen una dey do sophi I love u chidi I love u too una no call us o wen d chorus change una come dey disturb our peace abeg u guys shld nt allow us wey neva marry de fear to marry

Anonymous said...

It is well with u sophia

Unknown said...

I wonder d sanity of a man dat will abandon 3 grown up boys for a Short time fling called marriage.

Anonymous said...

Stories that touch the heart!!Conffused... May God settle it ffor dem..

miz understud said...

go gurl! you are truly matured, pls face your kids coz dey are your future, and leave dat sick cattle alone.

Anonymous said...

U re only trying 2 deceive people only 2 justify ur evil deed. 4wiaa! God no b pikin u go fit deceive. C who claims he cries 4 food. Ewu hausa. I neva believed a single tin u said abt ur 1st wife. Nuella must hv compelled u 2 write dat shit so dat pple won't stone her 2 death. Both of u re evil doers. Nuella was dumped by her sex mate sum tym ago & out of frustration she Jazzed de available Tchidi just 2 answer Mrs! Shame on u & d 2 families dt gave dia blessing 2 dis Alu marriage. Repercussion is on d way!

Anonymous said...

Almost got swayed until I read the part that the guy is your confidant! That gave you out woman!
You go to London and US to buy stuffs for your boutique and do side shows by the side??
Not saying Tchidi is right and clean but you have your issues and could have left him when you knew about his moves with Nuella.

When will people grow up and take responsibility for their lives??

Well, the cookie has crumbled; you gotta move on as there is a future ahead with the children.

Wish you both all the best.

Leecia said...

Seriously am speechless,NW I dnt knw who to trust but as long as we re all alive d truth will unfold 1day,but 4 d mean time tchidi keep quiet and dnt reply bcos we re tired of u guys.

Anonymous said...

Linda....Hmmmmm, Post my Comment ooo, since 1hr now,i never see my comment...Hmmmm.!!! (Mimi)

Anonymous said...

Sofia you are mad honestly.........You still talkin lyk Seriously!!!!! D guy s your best friend? & as a married woman took your tyme takin loads of romantic pix wit him......Abeg shut up joooor.........I was initially cursing chidi & new wifey nt knwing you'have done worse tinz yrself.........Plzzzzz face your kidz, biz & oder men in your life........I dnt pity you any longer & must tell you.........You are a BIG Disgrace 2 Womanhood.........Dammit.........pls dnt send anytin 2 Linda again..........You'have rubbish yrself enough..............I am vry angry rite nau honestly..........

Anonymous said...

You are a strong woman,God will fight for you and you shall find your peace

Anonymous said...

Call a spade a spade, u both cheated "simple" make una stop dis una grammer n drama... I see story EVERYWHERE, mana OBAGO!!! lol...One love!!! @chubiggs

tomisyn said...

Wow! Ds issue keeps coming on too strong...I just hope the two parties could act the mature way and let the matter die down. They shld pls consider the children and stop bringing their personal issues to the public cos tbh the public won't help,dey'd only mock dem

Unknown said...

Eya,painful n touching.

Anonymous said...

But u started the whole thing. Because Tchidi replied, now u are backtracking and blessing his new marriage becos u want everybody to feel sorry for you. Why you no curse again now? Make Tchidi come open your yansh. Gosh, Nigerian women are the most manipulative witches ever.

Anonymous said...

Sophia don't worry, if truly you weren't at fault.God will vindicate you.

Unknown said...

Why do pple des days like to put their whole life on the internet? It doesn't worth it. So please stop.

Anonymous said...

I am truly getting tired of this matter! All parties involved are not behaving maturely! Let each mind their our affairs.
Good luck to all of them!

OJAI baby said...

Ojai says" it's well my dera. Just concentrate on ur kids. They are ur source of joy now

Unknown said...

Now...who's lying and who's saying the truth? 😞

Anonymous said...

Both of them ve a serious problem b'cos if they had gone 4 marriage canceling dis wouldn't ve append, now it seem to be over ' husband acted lyk a guy while d wife lyk a girl' to me is by. Getting ur self another wife ll be the solution buh how well. Tchidi remember no one is perfect not even the new bride .

Anonymous said...

Chidi shld keep mute and face his new marriage asap

REXOVIC said...

hmmm,
when marriages go thru hell like dis the kids suffer.... i believe her bcos she accepted having a friend and she deserves to be happy pls..... my opinion!!

Anonymous said...

I have always known tchidi to be a horrible actor, now it is showing off.according to you, your wife is a prostitute, cant take care of u etc.but who stays with a prostitute for so long and she gives birth to children and u do not doubt their paternity. You call them yours.can u hear urself? Now I believe age is not a sign of maturity and that is y u can't produce blockbuster movies cause of your line of thought. I know u. Ur work is to sleep with upcoming actresses like balloon mouth and since she was able to hook u and u have left ur wife and kids .fine.stay married, keep quiet and enjoy your self.as for sophia, please let this be ur last statement. Take care of your children, have a great life and God will see you through. As for balloon mouth ."the broom wey dey sleep inside house, soon them go use am sweep outside the house"

Anonymous said...

She is jst a bloody liar

Anonymous said...

It's normal for most naija men. They like tarnishing their ex's image after separation just to justify their actions. Even if wat he said about his wife is true...was he a saint then? is Nuella any better than his wife with all her scandal with sugar dads? Does Te even respect his kids at all? He's such a boy and should grow some balls, nonsense!

Anonymous said...

U guys should seTtle dis wit peace ioo pls

Anonymous said...

Chidi shuld keep mkute and face his new marriage asap

iykon said...

Am confused Abt d whole tin o(it only God dat knows D best o)

Anonymous said...

Chei. It's well

Anonymous said...

Marriage....is a mysterious institution...she has her ups n downs but yet beautiful, if you appreciate it!

This union is for better for worse...My opinion is that no matter what the reasons were they should have made it worked!!!

Full Stop.

Unknown said...

AAaaaaaaw, My prayers are with u Sophia

Anonymous said...

It is well

Anonymous said...

The move tagged: WHEN LOVE DIES produced by Tchidi Chikere, and directed by Sophia. Please, you guys should be mature here. Nuella, I pray yours doesn't crash too.

Anonymous said...

Ghud 4wnd indeed.. Liez i tel ya.. All liez

Unknown said...

Linda dis ur disclaimer na WA. Hope sum1 hasn't harassed u? And ope its not olamide? Lol.

Anonymous said...

This man is such a child I feel so sorry for him.

Anonymous said...

Nobody knows exactly what happened between them but then they have 3 kids together. It cld'nt have been as bad as Tchidi painted it. They were close enough to conceive 3 times. He should have stayed to work things out. Their divorce is barely or maybe not even concluded and he is off already. He can never justify this second marriage.

DrealMimi said...

I almost started believing her but this woman dey lie. That guy is definitely not her friend/best friend. Hmm stories that touch. They are both at fault.

esteechoby said...

wow datz so sweet of her....i m impressed she is truly matured...kudos gurl

debra said...

My dear Sophia don't stress yourself. Men are wicked they would never remember anything you suffered yourself to do for them!

mama lilly said...

Tchidi isnt going about this well at all, y r u fussing about ur ex wife days after ur wedding?, how wud ur new wife feel about it? How do u want ur kids to feel going after their mother like that? Ur not exercising any form of wisdom at all. If u want to upset anybody deeply, go after d persons mother, u will unleash demons, especially young kids whose minds r still building up. The beauty of social media is gabage in gabage out, this is soo gonna hunt u, u need to call ur family together privately and apologize then move on with ur new wife.


Im so disappointed in u because of the make believe movies u make, u no dey learn from them?

Pls be wise

Anonymous said...

Only God knows the one telling the truth and the one lying. But for wat tchidi did by saying those things about his ex-wife he is a BIG fool.

Anonymous said...

Don't mind him sophia take care of d kids, we are igbos and divorce is notting in igbo land since u have given him boys. No shaking girl. Even if u were seen with a man or is having an afair after he left is not bad cos am a woman and u needed some one 2 cry on...chidi must suffer 4 all this may be not 2day or 2moro but some day.. Move on sophia, enjoy ur life and 4get useless chidi that has no shame. I know his type and I know how they end up.. He is just a cheap shameless player.. Am lilian

Unknown said...

Abeg enuff already., wats even wrong wt u both? Shameless pple! Kip washing ur dirty linen in d public! Sophia pls 4get dz ur cry 4 help n move up wt ur life! Ur ez is married so u shld condt wt ur life n stop disgracing ursef! Abi u dnt eva wna get married again? Pls 4get dz n leave d rest 4 God!! He alone knws wat happen btw u 2! Nawa

Anonymous said...

Pls linda stop posting some people's family issues here,let dem sort themselves out jor.when things were going well we re nt in d picture so y put us in now?nonsence

JaCkSoN said...

Well let the hatchet be buried. Life goes on. But my vex lies with Nuella. How can u gladly marry anoda womans husband hus yet to divorce??
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Anonymous said...

Nuella Oun Ikpu rubbish girl that eat second hand husband go and fine yours I dnt another woman husband and keep Ƒσя you

Ok said...

Kai,I can bliv everything except that the other guy is just your friend ..some of of the pics were a little too friendly ,lol

Rachel emegara said...

all is well with you sophia, you will need to be strong at the trial time

Anonymous said...

Wat a touchin story. I feel 4 u Sophia bt dnt wori d lord is still on d throne nd knows both d known nd unknown. Jux thrive on, we knw it aint easy

Anonymous said...

Honestly men can be very heartless. Yes, I said it . *tongue out

Anonymous said...

My God#sadface# wat can we women ever do to plz men?i can feel her pain,coz even my mum went tru diz kinda tin. Men go out to womanise and forget abt der wife but only remember der children...even if she had an affair wit some1 else I won't blame her coz I know how such men like tchidi treats women. God is ur strength sophia

Anonymous said...

This guy looks like a real womanizer. He left an a actress just to marry another actress.
Hmmmmmm.....I wish him what he wishes himself
As for Sofia,only God knows who's saying the truth
Silence is golden.....face your kids.

Chuks said...

My Dear take heart and live everything to God like U said, He knows our Hearts. Pull Yourself together and take care of Ur Boys.

Anonymous said...

Awww, sowi i knew chidi was saying that to justify himself, is well take care of your three boys...

Unknown said...

That man should grow up.a lovely wife like this, u are treating her dis way..Woman, no dey fear wati dey sweet man dey tire ham..he go soon tire for he new wife..keep watching them.

Anonymous said...

Tears full my ears. My dear take good care of ur kids God knows the best

Anonymous said...

I always new der is somtin about dis tchid of a guy,trrying o justifly is acts.dear u are a gud mother keep it up

Anonymous said...

This woman should get out of here. The man kept quiet but you cursed him and his new wife. Now he is talking, you are now blessing him and his new marriage. This is what Nigerian women do. If the man no reply, she would have gone on and on to make him look bad. Madam, it takes two. U both did somethings to each other and he refused to stay in the bad marriage. Now move on please!

omosexy said...

It is well with u dear

Sadie said...

This s the best reply any woman with brain should give to a lost sheep like chidi rather than trading words with him. Go on girl and train your children, leave the rest to The Lord and He shall see you through. I'm a mum of three boys too and I know how hard it is bringing them up on your own, pls save your energy for their upkeep and your well being my dear. Reply this kid no more!!!

Anonymous said...

God bless u, u are a good person

Unknown said...

Leave him to God, not that am taking sides but you have a point about the kids, he should respect his children atleast.

Anonymous said...

sophie may d lord blesss n guide u

Anonymous said...

My dear don't worry the God of vengance will advenge you're adverseries speedingly.

Linda's Elder Sister. said...

So pathetic, Tchidi even if not for anything for the sake of ur kids u wldnt v done this, did u hear that their mates in school a asking them about it, this ll make them feel inferior b4 their friends, most ppl a in marriages bc of their kids bc the whole effect of divorce is on kids. But sophia those pixs a too close for a married woman.

Anonymous said...

May God give u the grace to hold on! Ur boyz r ur joy,ignore d ranting man n face ur future.it is well with u sophia

Unknown said...

Men can be so stupid!! Whch 1 is she n her family used juju 2 hold u? Must u say dat? Must u rubbish her family name like dat? U married her 12yrs ago n u were notting then.u weren't even dat rich then so y wld she use juju on u? Were you d prsident of 9ja or wat?? Men always using juju 2 justify there act!! Tchidi pls stp ranting like a mad man n act mature 4 once!! U both r jst pissibg me off! I hope u enjoy seeing wat pple write abt u guyz??? Ndi ara

Anonymous said...

This is seriously looking like the script of one Nollywood movie, I believe things shouldn't get this bad no matter what. If u guys have no respect for each other, at least respect ur kids.
Finally, na all this kind things go dey make young boys no go wan marry.

$tainl€$$

Anonymous said...

This guy actually acted childishly posting crap on a social media on his ex wifey...and that's bad wallahi. I think he should face his new family now and stop acting childish

Anonymous said...

What do u expect from an Mbaise man? It is well with u dear...Let God be d judge

Anonymous said...

Take care Sophia. God wd heal you of Ure pains. I stay in the same estate with u and I see the way u take care of Ure boys.

Anonymous said...

Wow!!I feel her pain...sophia God is with you.

Anonymous said...

the truth is bitter.i cant judge u but looking at tht pics,hmmmm omo na only jah knws best

Anonymous said...

Only God will judge cos He alone knws d truth.

Anonymous said...

It is so touching ws speechless after reading... Well sweerie take hrt God knows da best.cynbaby

Anonymous said...

The lord is your stength woman, may he add more grace to you. Stay strong!

Anonymous said...

I don't really understand y a man like dat will type such immature words to his ex, he's sayin all dis cos he's married to anoda, he's so childish nd senseless 4 doin all dis, wat is he really tryin to do, well tchidi chikere, we all know ure nothin but a devlish bastard nd mrs sophia, take care of urself and children, God is on ur side.

Stroud said...

Well all i can say is the good Lord knows the truth. But the fact remains both parties are not blameless. Both of them in one way or the other contributed to the divide! But an advice; If you are in relationship (not to talk of marriage) especially which has a flush with celebrity its always better to avoid public audience like taking pictures with a third party no matter how close, buddy, confindant or what ever(which is where i am not satisfied with Sophia cos Men are so quick to label ladies as cheaters not knowing they could be the worst!). However who are we to judge? The ONE who uses this terrestial ball as a foot stool knows the truth...i'll leave it for HIM

Anonymous said...

Nice respond God will Help You

Anonymous said...

i am so disheartend at the manner at which naija actresses jump into other homes to break it,it started lately with Mercy Johnson,then to Funke,Now Nuella of all people...after all the accusations and denials....so mmany other actresses especially yoruba hv bin into these....ebube nwagbo is fingered also...i pray God to let these women realise that they cant find their own destined life partner by breaking others matrimonial home.poko#

Evelyn said...

Honestly I feel terrible for Sophia......but God is ur shield...never to worry he will fight for u, jst take gud care of your lovely boys......

Anonymous said...

Tchidi, agbaya of the highest order! Sophia I love ur response, very matured. Good riddance to bad rubbish.......tueh!

Unknown said...

Some men should just be stoned to death

Anonymous said...

The mouth that says I love you can and do turn around to say I hate you. Easy!!!!

Anonymous said...

Tchidi go talk hm own, it would seem all true, Sophia too go talk her own u go wan pitty her. Anyways na God sabi d truth sha. Why would Tchidi b seeing anoda woman (openly) while still married and why would Sophia (as she admitted) be getting too close to a man, am sure it was d same way Tchidi strtd wit Nuela. So both get dia fault. When u ar in r/shp, pls aviod unnecessary distractions. I rest my case.

Millypee said...

Oh God put an end to this. I don't know them but I am crying.

Anonymous said...

Dat tchidi is a confuse guys,it's written Al over his face,u left ur lovely wife nd 4 boys to go marry another.shame on you.now the world knows the truth,there nuting u say that anyone will believe nw.....sofia it is well.

Anonymous said...

Nameless.....
How evil can men be...Sophia it shows He doesn't deserve a virtuous woman like you.He is obviously a dummie like His Kind....I call them TIME WASTERS...Wishing you all the best in life...The God of Women is strongly with you.

Anonymous said...

Nameless.....
How evil can men be...Sophia it shows He doesn't deserve a virtuous woman like you.He is obviously a dummie like His Kind....I call them TIME WASTERS...Wishing you all the best in life...The God of Women is strongly with you.

Anonymous said...

Which tears do you have in your eyes? Did you see those scandalous pictures. Useless runs wife.
Tchidi you too try sef. But maybe you caused it absentee husband.

Anonymous said...

Ur frnd n ur snapping such pictures with him? Abeg go sit down for putuputu. Happy married life to tchidi n nuella. Cheap wife like u.

Unknown said...

I couldn't help crying and I sense reality in this. It is well. Woman you have your three boys, take solace in that, live your life, ignore every other tantrums and let God take control.

Monkey Face said...

Well this is really sad.

On Chidi's letter, I 'll still insist it was chaired by Nuella. If he claims Sophia cheated on him while they were married y didn't he react earlier? Why wait to cement an adulterous relationship with ONU KPOMO before ranting on Twitter?
Mtcheeeew.

Sophia, believe it or not, u can go on without this childish man.

TONIX said...

IT IS REALLY A PITY THIS IS HAPPENING. IT IS MY OPINION A MAN SHOULD BE A MAN, IF YOU HAVE MOVED ON LET THE WOMAN BE. WHATEVER SHE DID, YOU DIDNT DIE SO LET HER BE.
FOR GOD SAKE YOU HAVE KIDS TOGETHER DONT WASH YOUR DIRTY LINEN IN PUBLIC.

OUR OPINIONS DONOT MATTER, WHAT MATTERS IS YOUR FAMILY. HE WHO BRINGS AN ANT INFESTED FAGGOT HOME MUST BE READY FOR A VISIT BY THE LIZARD. DONT THROW DECENCY TO THE DUSTBIN, NO MATTER WHAT YOU DO TCHIDI, I WONT SUPPORT YOU. EVEN IF SHE CHEATED YOU DONT HAVE ANY REASON TO RUBBISH HER IN A PUBLIC FORUM LIKE THIS.

BE THE MAN AND PROTECT YOUR WOMAN COS U R STILL MARRIED AND YOUR CHILDREN. PLS STOP THIS NONSENSE.

Anonymous said...

Sophia take heart, vengeance is for God! I have 3 boys too nd i'm a widow but God has seen me thru all, even my late husband was a cheat nd put me thru hell in our marriage but God saw me thru and I'm still standing. Take care of your kids and Let God do the rest. Stay blessed dear.

Anonymous said...

Nice reply by Sophia. I read all Chidi wrote as well,but is dis d best platform 4 such issues? Husband's & wife's, divorced couple all taking to social sites to get to each oda is rada childish & uncalled 4.

Anonymous said...

All of una no get shame at al. Even Sophia, really! how have u defended ur self in ds gibberish u have composed? You all should make life worth living for yourselves. Peace!

Anonymous said...

Nuella came from a polygamous home ,it's common for them to brake relationships same way his sister who is nicknamed priceless took away my fiancée am happy he didn't get to marry her at last

Anonymous said...

C wat couples dat av lived 4ten yrs are doin on net...choi wat a world

Unknown said...

This is really Confusing ..don't know who to. Believe anylonger..sophia just focus on your kids and move on...let. God be the judge

Anonymous said...

Tchidi nawa 4u oo.

Anonymous said...

Nuella or do I call you home breaker, it is not too late to make amend oo. Have you suddenly forgotten Igbo tradition? For crying out loud this woman has giving Tchidi what every Igbo man wish for (3 boys). They are the head and will always be. Your just wasting ur useless time with Tchidi cos I believe that one day u will surely regret your actions. Those innocent boys are very angry with you and they will surelly deal with you when the time comes. As for Chidi, think twice.

Anonymous said...

Ur frnd n ur taking such picture with him? Pls tell dat to d birds... a married woman taking such pix wit a guy n u claim his ur frnd. ur a bastard......

Anonymous said...

Sophia the drama queen, na now day break for ur eyes ikwa? The fact that u have 3 boys for him doesn't mean that u love him or u ppl had a happy marriage while together. I don't support men cheating on dere partner at all but like they always say,its a man's world. You were hearing stories abt him and oda women for yrs while still married to u and u kept queit ( which normal for african woman) but the moment he heard abt ur own he left u ( which is also. Normal for african man ). Two wrongs does not make a right. Nxt time dnt have an affair just bcos ur man is having one, men can't stand that. So face ur kids and ur ape boyfrnd and leave every tin to God.

Anonymous said...

Nawa ooo anyway na wetin dem sell we go buy #pity d both parties

Paul said...

Very emotional, stories that touch the heart

Anonymous said...

The truth hurts! U guys keep embarrassing ursefs! Ashawo jam Ashawo!

Anonymous said...

Tk very good care of ur kids n leave d rest to God...tym shall tell coz after readg dis I cried.

Anonymous said...

Nawa ooo anyway na wetin dem sell we go buy

Anonymous said...

He is ur best friend and confidant! I don't think so dearie. Just stop talking, u are still bearing his name andu have a best friend that snaps pix with u and put on his wall and u think there's nothing wrong with that? Haba babes! Ur husband isn't a saint! He is a bad man that is never there for his family, but u filled his void by getting a "lil some some" outside too. So the both of u are really bad people! Hope u learnt from ur mistakes tho. Wish u luck

Anonymous said...

After reading this, I have respect for Ms Sophia. Going through all this is not easy as a woman. The lord is your strength and will always be. If Nuella started dating your husband in 2010, then she is indeed a very very wicked woman, who cannot catch a single bachelor for herself. You will always be one step ahead of her because you got a single man and stayed for 12 yrs with him.

Kenphil said...

Reading this gives one ghost pimples. May the Lord be the judge like you said. I like your spirit. Move on with your kids.

Anonymous said...

u like taken pictures ? a single man is your best friend and are proud of saying dat ?... woman your wrong

Anonymous said...

All I have to say about dis Sophia and her ex is dat God kws d true we r nt to juge any one.one thing I understd abt them is dat sophia dat want to stay under Tchidi and as a woman u r might to b under a man.hw can start sanping pic wit ur boy friend at early stage of ur broke up,it shows dat u hv b seeing dis guy since.I dnt kw u or Tchidi,men dnt like it whn there wife r always on d road.my sista marry is sweet bt how u want urs to sweet like.he have to make money to feed his family nt u leaving ur kids to london 4 month bcs u r a business woman. Am siding any body bt wht Chidi said and wht u r saying now we can see d truth,God bless u all

Anonymous said...

Tchidi is just trying to vindicate himself. Wah he did was totally wrong. No matter the issue u hv with ur wife u shuldn't hv left her and ur kids. Marriage is for better or worse. Anyways we wish u well in ur new marriage.
And may Jehovah strengthen you Sophia to take care of ur 3boys and urself

Nneka said...

Relationship!!!!
Think before going into one people.
Everytym Drama

Unknown said...

I feel these r just lies.

Anonymous said...

A house wife calling another man her best friend? I think dis woman lost her cap 2 another b4 realising d worth of what she had. Chidi too cnt be without his faults but dis woman, i bet she is crying foul, just my take!

Anonymous said...

I tot ur husbnd was supposed to b ur best male friend?? Abeg its not cool joor! anyways shaa, dis Tchidi fellow should shut up small nah. e don too much.

Unknown said...

I think Tchidi went too far,if he have respect for his kids he won't go this far! Who knows what this kids will be tomorrow! This could be used against them,no matter what happened you both should bear it in mind that you have kids to protect.

TIMI said...

In your first statement Sophia you said this is your first and last statement.now you have said same.in your first you said you won't respond,yet you wrote an epistle.same here.
The two of you should pity your children and zip your lips.bloggers and mags are just using your story to make money.
Sophia,borrow a leaf or several leaves from Kate Edoho and be quiet.she learned her lesson from the first time.have you heard from her since.
Please,hush it.

Unknown said...

These r just lies.

Unknown said...

These r just lies...

Anonymous said...

My dear Sophia, I have never supported your husband. A married woman doesn't go about snapping pictures with every male all in the name of I like taking pictures. You do everything with him in London & you want your husband to believe it's harmless? Haba! Check it. Please keep to yourself and raise your kids. Let God do the judgement. He is not the son of man, He is God. $£.

Anonymous said...

Oh God! Were does love go, I don't know!

Anonymous said...

Dis one na seansonal movie, rily enjoying ma sef

Herbert Kasiemobi said...

Well am confused here don't know which party to believe....hmm

Anonymous said...

Relationships go through struggles all the time especially when u ve been married for long like this. Couples should fight for their marriages and not Just give up. There will always be differences like or not because you were not raised together even twins re not the same, your struggles in marriage Does not give anyone of you the right to start having extra marital affairs it doesn't matter if you were right or wrong, I can't say Tchidi is right or Sophia is wrong but I'm sure you both contributed to this stress you ve both put yourselves. To Tchidi- according to you, Sophia is a Monster wife, terrible mother blah blah but marrying someone else is not the solution it is pure Adultery (a sin) why not hand your problems to GOD in prayers. In the next Ten years re u sure Nuella will still give you the same happiness she is giving you now? I wish You both all the best.

Anonymous said...

Relationship sucks

Anonymous said...

9ice respond...

Anonymous said...

No matter how terrible she was tchidi,u owe it 2 ur kids 2 shut ur trap,afterall u went ahead and got married 2 sm1 else b4 her (who u dint jus meet)means all ur allegations on her r thgs u'r guilty off. When u were both madly in luv if I recall some yrs bck and den u were still cheating everywhr nobody came 2 d public now u open dat leakn booth u call a mouth 2 complain after 12yrs,u'r a wicked man and weak too,face ur marriage and be hapi cos u dnt have any excuse 2 be on d pages of any paper rite now,ur jus seekn attention and pity,signs of guilt.y dint u complain den in d papers wen u say she was being a bad wife 2 u,if u dint complain den y open ur dirty cheating gutter now,y not jus move on.....u married sm1 u were regularly on set wiv but u wnt tell us how many yrs u and ur present wife were messing arnd 4 while u were still married.

Anonymous said...

GOD BLESS THIS COUPLE....TEACH THEM UR WISDOM...GIV THEM D KNOWLEDGE N STRENGHT TO STAND DIS STORM IN FORM OF DIVORCE.IT IS NOT EASY BUT CHIDI N SOPHIA...PLS STOP DIS...CRY UNTO GOD INSTEAD OF MAN..MOST PEOPLE DNT EVEN CARE WAT HAPPENS TO 2 OF U..OTHERS JST WANT TO GOSSIP ABT IT.I PRAY PLS FOR D SAKE OF UR CHILDREN..MARRIAGE N LOV R BEAUTIFUL TINZ.PLS DNT SCARE UR CHILDREN.

Herbert Kasiemobi said...

We don't know which party to believe....hmm

Unknown said...

Obviously I don't bliv chidi,all wat sophia said is 2ru nd u chidi hw du u kn ya wife used juju on u?? Dats not an excuz,I want u guyz 2chek it out.... Hw can a married woman wit 3kids b flirtin wit another guy?she didn't denie him nd ah lik her for that,some times u jux hav 2b strong 2over look som finz,chidi is wicked,I don't bliv him

Jimcateringservices said...

This is incredibly sad! I know for sure men can tell mountain of lies to justify themselves in situations like this. My dear sis, move on with your life. God will justify and honour you. Stop replying him. Tchidi and Nuella, blow away, we are watching because what goes around comes around.

Anonymous said...

Ije DI....

Unknown said...

Nollywood don see film to act. One story line with many titles. lol.....pls Sophia ur boys r far more important. God help u.

Anonymous said...

This is so embarrassing, you two are literally washing your dirty linens outside and its so not cool.
Dear Sophia, its clear that you and your ex husband had other underlying issues long before now, maybe even besides Nuella...I may believe all you just said....But now you denying your lover and boyfriend is ridiculous. ..aint nobody buying that 'best friend, pal, buddy' bullshit you're trying to sell...Now speak no more and give it a rest and stop trying to sound like a saint that you're not..Only God truly knows what happened so let him reward each of you accordingly. Sorry about your failed marriage, I know it hurts...but you need to try and move on, help raise those kids the best way you can and remember happiness is a choice.












PRETTY GIRL

Anonymous said...

Jus rememba,both 4 u,sophia and nuella dat karma is a bitch so every guilty party its surely coming 2 u,dassol

Anonymous said...

It is well. Take girl of ur kids. Rili shorta words

Anonymous said...

Nawaoooo what a sad one!relationship palava though.if it is not who build the house labourers keep working in vain

Anonymous said...

Gosh, so razz

BBK said...

Tchidi is so immature and unwise sha. To tink i used to luv his movies! Arghhh! Shebi he claims he has met his missin rib and we have heard. Y cant he jst live his life quietly and stop showin us his level of stupidity? Sophia, move on wit ur life and do woteva makes u happy. Any man dat causes his wife grief will neva prosper and u r his only original wife any oda one is a counterfeit. So bros Tchidi, shut dat maggot infested mouth of urs on dis case. We r tired of readin abt ur life. Its becomin so borin. #yawnin# ...next pls!

Unknown said...

TCHIDI AND NUELLA.........I SEE DOOM FOR BOTH OF YOU.....YOU KNOW WHY? GOD NEVER FAILS THOSE WHO PUT THEIR TRUST IN HIM.

Anonymous said...

Nuela,may GOD punish u.and this ugly tchidi or wateva,u hav a beautiful wife 3 luvly boys,n u throw al dat away 4 dat ugly bitch.without thinking wat this could do to ur boys.oloriburuku somebori.thunder fire u with ur big head.

Anonymous said...

As u pple r callin God God b sure of wat u r sayin oh "dat shall not use d name of d lord in even ooooo".

sena o said...

Wow d best reply may God repay you with kindness

Anonymous said...

E no go beta you nd ur new marriage.hegoat

Anonymous said...

Wen u read the truth,It will touches ur heart bcos ur heart belongs to God and God is truth......I believe Sophia,pls Tchidi shud go and apologise to dis Kund woman with a kind heart or his Old age will be a Mockery.....Ekucha go m

Anonymous said...

As u pple r callin God God b sure of wat u r sayin oh "dat shall not use d name of d lord in invain ooooo".

Anonymous said...

Awwww!!!!!! Can't believe I cried reading this piece. God will judge everyone. Take care of your kids Sophia they re your joy.

Unknown said...

I believe sophia

Anonymous said...

Omo I don't knw was 2 believe again... but I think d guy will be d 1 lying

Anonymous said...

Dem both no dey clean o, I jus feel for d kids sha.

Anonymous said...

Is all gud dear, God knws beta. I thank God u av ur kids wit u. He can onli b a regular visitor if he cares...lol

lauhrex said...

All d best sophia,wish u nd d kids a gud lyf.

Anonymous said...

Dem two no dey clean sha, I jus feel for d kids

Anonymous said...

Very nicely written , there is truth in her words. Let God be the judge

Anonymous said...

Madam, so una never complete divorce you sef don go get best friend wey be guy? then your husband don marry another woman.You both deserve the public humiliation you are getting. Dysfunctional couple.Mtchewwwww!

Baby oku said...

I feel for dis woman,3 boys. ok na we will hear more form Tchidi Chikere and he's new Lolo

Anonymous said...

Yeah ur ex husband is funny like mad,he is married now u got the absolute right to date anyone or make friends with anyone,wen I saw what chidi did yesterday I knew he was just trying to justify himself.i just didn't believed him atall.

Fact gaskiya said...

Women ar home builders.Sophia,u allowed ur home to crumble.Evn if ur hubby cheated first,must u revenge? U firstly abused his new found love whom he has taken to be part of him,so dnt expct him t keep quiet.Sophia u ddnt manage ur home well.Women stop equatn urselvs to men,u ar not the same

Anonymous said...

Yeah rightttttt. Friends. Friends with benefit.

Anonymous said...

dis 1 na family mata, so d only tin i go say b God help u guys to fall in love again

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