While I was in school, I was 22 when I dated a 52 year old very rich man
because I needed his money. He made sure we were as discreet as
possible and I never got to know anything about him or his family, I only
knew his name.
Fast-forward to seven years later, I met this gorgeous gentleman who
has shown interest in taking me as his wife. Now
he took me home to his mum and I discovered his late dad was my former
sugar lover.
Do I tell him the truth as regards my relationship with his dad since love has no secrets or forget about it since the man is dead?
You really don't need to tell him since the dad is late and u mentioned that what you had with him was discreet,hopefully there wont be anyone to come and testify.
You should not disclose this information to your man at all. His father/ your former "Sugar Daddy" is deceased. Why unearth a secret that has now died?
Hey my goodness 52 years old man. what is happening 2 our girls hey hey hey how many times did I do dat? Don't try it or do u want 2 die? Do u no spirit is still exists? Our girls don't want 2 struggle follow any boy anymore. kai is a pity mtcheeeew
Pls tell him oh. If he leaves u bcos of it then your relationship was never meant to be. That's called reaping the fruits of your labor. But seriously tell him. U don't know who else could see u later in life and tell him for um. Believe me, it would be worse then. Would u prefer that?
I read this same story on WEDDING DIGEST on facebook yesterday. who is copying who??? Its obvious you fabricate stories cos what i read on facebook was the guy who wrote it, not the lady.
My dear, better forget about it if you know you want to marry him, because in the african tradition he is not supposed to sleep with a woman his father has had, such a woman is considered the father's wife.
kip ur mouth shut.dat was ur past.nd u were not proud of it.no mater hw he loves u he wl feel bad weneva he remembers it.men cn b funny at tyms.thank God d man s late
This is called original gone. Mehn, I don't know what to advise. Telling your hubby the truth or not are both very risky. May God guide you in whatever decision you make. Its a lesson for all of us, whatever we sow we reap.
Don't tell him u screwed his dad but u can tell him dt u just knew him and leave it at dt. After all, no matter how discreet u were, someone would likely have seen. If it comes out, ur guy will wonder why u never mentioned it and dt would be trouble.
pls oh dont attempt it oh what happened in the past stays in the past abeg old things have passed away and all things have become new besides knowing men and the love they have for their mothers immediately u tell him he is bound to dump u cos he will generate instant hatred for u. pls my dear since de old man is dead God is giving u a new chance at happiness not everyone gets that chance abeg. don't spoil ur happiness ooooooh.
It will jeopardise ur relationship, don't even dare.....since u said u were discreet n dint know about each other except for names,abeg no take ur hand pour san sand for ur garri.asiri e abo o.......zainab
You want to do what at poster? Tell your guy that you once dated his "late" dad? How old are you by the way? Nna na wa o! Why not keep quit and let things be or na love dey catch you?
Babe don't him. Dead or alive. Dat's if you want him for kips. By the way u said love has no secret? For me Love is giving. Wisdom is profitable to direct. Better use ur akoluche.
Tell him wat, if god has serve u d trouble of him dieing b4 u got dere den kip ur mouth shut dnt even tell it 2 even ur frnds or it will b leak, u wan tell ham n u tink he will marry a gal. Dat fuck d dad or still love u since love is blind wake up gal, love is nt blind oh, i dnt date married men nt even in person of dangote n God made u escape so kip shut
This story get as e be. Is it d new block buster on nollywood. But u knew the man's name nah. So wen u met the young handsome dude with d same name as ur papa lova you for jst break it off dere n den instead of thinking its jst a mere coincidence
Don't even think of it o. That would be a very wrong move; this is coming from a guy so you cant trust me on this one, this is good advice.
You would just open old wounds, and spoil the image the young man has of his late father, especially if the man seemed like the model father while alive.
If you tell him, its almost 100% certain that he would take a walk, and if he does not, its only because God's grace is t work in your love life.
If this is true, just as the table turned on you coming back to the man's son, the table will surely turn on the secret. He'll find out someday whether you like it or not. This is no game. Put your selfishness on the alter of your relationship. Be ready to move on if he cant handle it. Tell him the truth- if you truly love him.
Like seriously? Pls in no account shld you tell him this. + I think you shld let him go.. Asin, leave him. This is too twisted. More over fast, pray, mourn for all you sins including dating a married man. You knw God really hates dat. I did somefin like dat wen I was in school too, kept me feeling worthless n I vowed neva to do dat or encourage any1 to. Wen u read your bible or speak to the wife of whom u r cheating wit, dats wen you undastand d extent of adultery. We young gals shld flee frm it.
Forget o.. The man is dead, Old things are passed away...u are askning us because u do not want to tell him, a lot will say don't tell him...I think u should, if love conquers all, he'll accept u and ur past.
Hehehe c gobe..tel him if he truly loves u he'l go ahead wit d marriage bt if u dnt n he finds out u'l liv his house n trust me diz tins av a way of comin out
Do you like yourself at all? Walk out of the relationship before your friends decide to blackmail you in the nearest future. I mean every bit of this. It is bad enough you have slept with father and son already; marrying this guy will leave you miserable and embarrassed sooner than later
My dear abeg carry on with your marriage and forget about what happen in the past because I can assure u that if u tell him that is the end of th relationship.
Let ur secret be buried with him or do you think after telling him u had an affair with his late father he will love u more? U better wise up and let the sleeping dog lie #myopinion# *that Bayelsa mama*
Babe zip it since d man is late. Most guys won't take it. It wud hav been a diff scenario if he were still alive. So zip it or padlock it nd trow away d key in2 d lagoon. I have talked my own.
Keep ur mouth shut, parrout mouth, he is dead and gone wit d past... Lucky dat he is not alive to ruin ur marriage.... 4get d matter and move on.... Tell him & see dat his undyin love varnish in few seconds... Be wise
My dear, let sleeping dogs lie. Leave the past in the past and let it stay buried with the old man. Don't allow your past ruin your future. Naija men are not that matured to le such things go.
My dear, let sleeping dogs lie. Leave the past in the past and let it stay buried with the old man. Don't allow your past ruin your future. Naija men are not that matured to let such things go.
Which of the decisions can u leave with? Now, telling him means u re ready 4 d consequences which might be loosing ur man. Secondly re u remorsful/repentant? If u truely re then I ve to say u re meeting ur karma in lighter form by the father being dead. Are u the only one with d knowledge of the affair? If so u can take d risk of not telling ur man but if there is some other my dear play it safe n tell him b/4 he finds out from d other person. At d end it falls on u to make d choice u can leave with 4 d rest of ur life. Sweet anonymous.
Nne biko forget about it No put sand sand for your own garri o! The man is dead, its not like you went home to meet his family and met him And all you "runz gehs" pls be careful of who ur doing o! Before you do your husbands entire male folk in the name of "runz" A word is enough for the wise!
Well i think some things are better kept secret to prevent problems, provided there is no means of the truth coning out from a third party.. If you think it will, then its better he knows the truth from you
My dear forget about it;the father is late and you no longer have any business with him.Do not tempt this love by telling him because it might change the whole thing(backfire)
Lmao, a recreation of a story I read on wedding digest yesterdy. Hmmn mention it ooooo cos your dead sugar daddy has a friend tht knew u both, nd he'd gladly tell ur finace alll he knws...
monkey! u don't need to tell him.God has already buttered ur bread yet u want to expose yourself. The man is already dead please don't ruin good memeories for the family.Move on if u cant live with the guilt.
This story get as e be. Is it d new block buster on nollywood. But u knew the man's name nah. So wen u met the young handsome dude with d same name as ur papa lova you for jst break it off dere n den instead of thinking its jst a mere coincidence
Tell him. No details. Esp no graphics....men could never handle that no matter how hard they pretend or try. And they have a funny way of sticking out the 'betrayed' or 'lied to' me card. If what you both have is worth it, it won't matter. If not...early riddance is best.
If you're keeping it away, make sure its forever but I think you should let him know if you're so sure about his love for you. I'm sure he will understand since its in the past.. We all have a past
I wil advice u 2 forgot abt d past and go on wt ur relationship,xcept u want 2 loose ur man,d old sugar daddy is late and gone,cos no reasonable man wl lyk to marry a girl dat his dad has tested b4,save ur secret and go on wt ur relationship.
Take a zip and close ya mouth. By the way, what is it with all these telling secrets? Why dig up something that happened 7 yrs ago? And of all things something like that? Girl are you sure you're old enough to marry? The clause is this, if you are feeling funny about the issue that you feel it might affect your relationship down the line,, then speak up, but be ready for whatever the result is. The guy might be all cool about it, and for the typical Nigerian male, you might read about your story on linda ikeji blog after calling you every name in the book aside from the one your parents gave you. Good luck with this your story.
U better shut the hell up. Except u want to ruin ur marriage. U r even lucky the man is dead. What do u think will happen if u tell him. Do u think he will forgive u?
Mcheww.. E be like say u no wan marry. Go and tell him na.. Rubbish. He will so dump ur ass,even if he forgives you,he will never forget so just shut it since the old man is dead
ARE YOU A BIG FOOL? ABI ARE YOU A LEARNER?! KEEP YOUR MOUTH SHUT AND MARRY THE GENTLEMAN! DO YOU THINK HE HAS TOLD YOU EVERY DIRTY SECRET ABOUT HIMSELF??!!
Tell him and risk your marriage. Some things are better left unsaid. Aferall, Abraham did same. that guy can never marry you if he hears that, abi you go like share one okpozo with your mama?
stupid hoe. if he gets married to you and eventually gets broke. you will sleep with your landlord. the way young girls in Nigerian colleges esp in the east flirt with older males is so disgusting. try going to clubs in Enugu awka and owerri. flooded with imsu, esuth, Nau and so on HOES.
No you don't need to tell him such a bitter past.just make sure you will not abadone him later because of another rich sugar papa.akpiri ogologo things
There is bound to be someone who knows about you and the late father. Either one of your friends or one of his.
If all goes well and leads into marriage, marry the son. Make sure you secure your finances with your husband. Meaning, make sure you have your own money and you're able to support yourself.
Once you're married and all is well, you can reveal your secret to your husband -- IF NECESSARY. Especially, if your hubby finds out and confronts you about it.
When and IF the truth comes out, stress to your husband that it was a matter of survival. You regret it. You feel bad about your actions. You wish you could have been honest about it. But it was in your past. Seek his forgiveness.
If your husband kicks you to the curb, you have no worries because you've secured your financial future.
Twenty years pounded yam can still be very hot... Now that u are meeting your so called sugar daddy again, what is the assurance that he won't call for me, if he truly used to enjoy the time u guys spent together... Am sure he will object the marriage.
If you are wise,you better not tell him after all the father is dead,and dead man can't say nothing. If u fool your self say love no get secret then u loose the boy mumu. That na even question wen u suppose ask? Mumu better marry him and move
Its in ur past so let it live dier an don't eva tell him cos it might cost u your relationship exept u want to try ur luck an it might just come out as badluck
Terrible tinz young ladies, especially university students do dis days.They're jst terrible.Dey hav sex wit anytin 4 money.I pray God help 1 find a gud 1 among dis public toilets 2 settle wit.Smh!
Terrible tinz young ladies, especially university students do dis days.They're jst terrible.Dey hav sex wit anytin 4 money.I pray God help 1 find a gud 1 among dis public toilets 2 settle wit.Smh!
Some details change someone's view. Do you think he can manage the truth regarding that. If not, forget...the man is dead u said.RIP... U thank God, and hope one uncle doesn't knw abt ur thing
hahaha dis is really a bizarre okay tell him since love has no secrets but I wonder how u wan tell am say u shared his father's D**k n his own D**k lol the thing funny die
You have two options here missy... 1.) Come clean and tell him, but also be prepared to end the relationship. 2.) Shut ur ass up!!! The guy don die. It's not like you will have to interact with him and make for some awkward moments. Honestly, you don't always have to tell everything. Keep a few sins to yourself. Or if you must, don't expect him to forgive and get over it. Be ready to pack ur cargo!
Are you mad. Poster you better shutup and continue with the relationship. If you tell him. He will never forgive you. Never. There will be no love left to salvage
pls tell him d truth. marriage shld b built on luv n trust as well as mutual understanding. he will b angry n may threaten break up bt he wil com bak n he will learn 2 trust u cos u told him d truth abt urself right 4m d beginning. make sure its a relaxed atmosphere, especially when he is telling u Hw much he luvs u.then u can start by saying u want 2 have a lasting n honest relationship. it works.
Don't lure d@ young man into building his home on a foundation of atrocity.He's 2 gud 4 U.Pls leave him alone.Ma sincere advice else it'll neva be well wit u.
Plz for ur own gud, dnt tell him bcos there is no amount of Love dat wil make him to accept u, even if he does his Love for u will neva b complete. Plz keep it for urself and don't tell ur friends!
If you don't tell him, you'll be back on LIB in two years talking about how your husband found out you had an affair with his father and asking how you can make him stay with you. The way people think is if you can hide this from me, you can hide anything from me. You may think you two were discreet but his father had friends and his friends have wives. Before you know it whispers will start. You're also just selfishly talking about yourself and your man. Even if you don't tell him now and he finds out later, he may recover. Your mother-in-law is another case. How will you sleep at night knowing that you added to the pain of the woman who will be like your second mother? I wish you good luck sha.
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«Oldest ‹Older 201 – 400 of 512 Newer› Newest»looool gurrl yous a hoe hoe hoeeee! loool plus if you tell him he would leave you. i dont think anyone wants someone their parent has been with....
I think u should just let sleeping dogs lie,his late.let it remain dead and buried!!!cause ur handsome bf might not trust u anymore!
You really don't need to tell him since the dad is late and u mentioned that what you had with him was discreet,hopefully there wont be anyone to come and testify.
Pls tell him becus to me am of d view dat a guy should nt sleep wit any gal who has had a relationship wit his close relation.
You should not disclose this information to your man at all. His father/ your former "Sugar Daddy" is deceased. Why unearth a secret that has now died?
Just tell him. Cos it is better u tell him than he finding out himself.
Hey my goodness 52 years old man. what is happening 2 our girls hey hey hey how many times did I do dat? Don't try it or do u want 2 die? Do u no spirit is still exists? Our girls don't want 2 struggle follow any boy anymore. kai is a pity mtcheeeew
It is an abominable act. You cannot date a man and years later date his son. End the relationship fast and pray for forgiveness.
Pls tell him oh. If he leaves u bcos of it then your relationship was never meant to be. That's called reaping the fruits of your labor.
But seriously tell him. U don't know who else could see u later in life and tell him for um. Believe me, it would be worse then. Would u prefer that?
Abeg no tell am o. Keep it to urself, it is in ur past biko. No spoil ur relationship
I read this same story on WEDDING DIGEST on facebook yesterday. who is copying who??? Its obvious you fabricate stories cos what i read on facebook was the guy who wrote it, not the lady.
Don't tell him...is ur past life n thank God dey man don die
My dear, better forget about it if you know you want to marry him, because in the african tradition he is not supposed to sleep with a woman his father has had, such a woman is considered the father's wife.
Dont even try yourself you better keep your mouth shut forever with time the feeling of guilt will die down.
kip ur mouth shut.dat was ur past.nd u were not proud of it.no mater hw he loves u he wl feel bad weneva he remembers it.men cn b funny at tyms.thank God d man s late
This is called original gone. Mehn, I don't know what to advise. Telling your hubby the truth or not are both very risky. May God guide you in whatever decision you make. Its a lesson for all of us, whatever we sow we reap.
Poster better keep ur mouth shut, say nothing cos even after marriage that guy will never respect u.
This slut better her mouth shut!!! Hw would you tell a man his dad's dick was in your mouth and expect him to be cool about it?
You had better keep quiet and enjoy your new relationship, it is when you tell him that you will realise that love is not what you think it is.
LOL!!! Funny story.... The family blood sure loves u!
Just like u said! Forget about it since d man is dead
Don't tell him u screwed his dad but u can tell him dt u just knew him and leave it at dt. After all, no matter how discreet u were, someone would likely have seen. If it comes out, ur guy will wonder why u never mentioned it and dt would be trouble.
My dear i'll advice u to bury the matchet since the man is dead and thank God that his wife never knew u were involved with the husband .
#Milito da great#
Dumb question..huh
Just let it go..
pls oh dont attempt it oh what happened in the past stays in the past abeg old things have passed away and all things have become new besides knowing men and the love they have for their mothers immediately u tell him he is bound to dump u cos he will generate instant hatred for u. pls my dear since de old man is dead God is giving u a new chance at happiness not everyone gets that chance abeg. don't spoil ur happiness ooooooh.
I laugh in tongues..
Don't ever tell since he's dead.
It will jeopardise ur relationship, don't even dare.....since u said u were discreet n dint know about each other except for names,abeg no take ur hand pour san sand for ur garri.asiri e abo o.......zainab
Since the man is dead, you don't need to tell his son anything o.
na wa o, all dis ur stories sha. hint and hearts magazine tins. dont stop cooking dy r feeling u tho.
U dey craze woman, I pity U, if u like dnt kip ur mouth shut n move on, b there thinking abt telling him n watch as d young man leaves U
It's indeed a small world
You want to do what at poster? Tell your guy that you once dated his "late" dad? How old are you by the way? Nna na wa o! Why not keep quit and let things be or na love dey catch you?
Chai poor girl, dis is the problem most our girls will be facing due to porverty including me but I pray not, tell him make him understand ok
Babe don't him. Dead or alive. Dat's if you want him for kips. By the way u said love has no secret? For me Love is giving. Wisdom is profitable to direct. Better use ur akoluche.
There's nothing like the truth dear, it sets u free coz u don't get to worry all d days if ur life.
Forget abourrit. Afterall he's dead. And you chopped your father inlaw's money. Na your own
Tell him wat, if god has serve u d trouble of him dieing b4 u got dere den kip ur mouth shut dnt even tell it 2 even ur frnds or it will b leak, u wan tell ham n u tink he will marry a gal. Dat fuck d dad or still love u since love is blind wake up gal, love is nt blind oh, i dnt date married men nt even in person of dangote n God made u escape so kip shut
He is dead just let the secret die wif him,why ruin smtn nice
Pls forget about it ,the man is dead already don't spoil what u ve with his son
Please why will u want to tell him, why??????
Tell him n see if d r/ship ll still continue. Don't dare T̶̲̥̅Æ ̴͡ voice it out. Ω̴̩̩̩̥o man I̶̲̥̅̊n̶̲̥̅̊ his rite sense ll kip his fada's mistress as a wife S̤̥̈̊o̲̣̥ b careful
U better keep ur dirty mouth shut... d man don die and u wan talk... over sabi housewife Wey dey call hin husband brother...Msheeew.
This story get as e be. Is it d new block buster on nollywood. But u knew the man's name nah. So wen u met the young handsome dude with d same name as ur papa lova you for jst break it off dere n den instead of thinking its jst a mere coincidence
My dear if you really love the guy and you want to be with him then don't tell him because the moment you do, he goes. Moreover,the man is dead.
Don't tell him,do not ruin smtn nice u hv goin on 4 u now,since the man is dead let d secret die,sm issues re beta off nt said
Tricky one but my first instincts says DON'T!!!
Conversely, when the love is true, no secrets!
i think the fair thing is to tell him and let him make the choice of staying or leaving.
Don't even think of it o.
That would be a very wrong move; this is coming from a guy so you cant trust me on this one, this is good advice.
You would just open old wounds, and spoil the image the young man has of his late father, especially if the man seemed like the model father while alive.
If you tell him, its almost 100% certain that he would take a walk, and if he does not, its only because God's grace is t work in your love life.
Go on with ur Life....the man is dead and gone... the Good thing is dat u guys were discreet!!!
Please don't tell him... That's my opinion.
Tell him
No think amooo!!! The man is deead and gone and secret is best kept by one.
My dear u better shut up and dnt say anytin, cus some people can't bear d truth.
As soon as u found out young handsome dude had a same name as you papa lova, you should have taken off thereby avoiding this akward situation
If this is true, just as the table turned on you coming back to the man's son, the table will surely turn on the secret. He'll find out someday whether you like it or not. This is no game. Put your selfishness on the alter of your relationship. Be ready to move on if he cant handle it. Tell him the truth- if you truly love him.
Like seriously? Pls in no account shld you tell him this. + I think you shld let him go.. Asin, leave him. This is too twisted. More over fast, pray, mourn for all you sins including dating a married man. You knw God really hates dat. I did somefin like dat wen I was in school too, kept me feeling worthless n I vowed neva to do dat or encourage any1 to. Wen u read your bible or speak to the wife of whom u r cheating wit, dats wen you undastand d extent of adultery. We young gals shld flee frm it.
Forget o.. The man is dead, Old things are passed away...u are askning us because u do not want to tell him, a lot will say don't tell him...I think u should, if love conquers all, he'll accept u and ur past.
Babe better forget oº° if U̶̲̥̅̊ love him!!!
Respect yourself.
Let the past stay in the past. GOD is giving you a fresh start with his father being dead, please don't ruin it...
This one is nollywood film. Rita Dominic, Enebeli Elebuwa and Pat Attah.
Hehehe c gobe..tel him if he truly loves u he'l go ahead wit d marriage bt if u dnt n he finds out u'l liv his house n trust me diz tins av a way of comin out
tell him, let him decide if he wants to stay or go!
Do you like yourself at all? Walk out of the relationship before your friends decide to blackmail you in the nearest future. I mean every bit of this. It is bad enough you have slept with father and son already; marrying this guy will leave you miserable and embarrassed sooner than later
My dear abeg carry on with your marriage and forget about what happen in the past because I can assure u that if u tell him that is the end of th relationship.
Forget it
Forget it my dear,dont mention it cos it wld destroy ur relationship.But babe u get mind ooo twice ur age,,,,haba
Abeg o no tell am let sleeping dogs lie
Don't tell him oh,thank God d man is late..
Pls don't tell him cuz he will nrv knw...
Babe!!!!! Let ur lips have a zip code!!!! Don't tell him. You are blessed the man is dead! Don't wake the ghosts of the past.
Let ur secret be buried with him or do you think after telling him u had an affair with his late father he will love u more? U better wise up and let the sleeping dog lie #myopinion#
*that Bayelsa mama*
Keep your lips sealed
Tell him for what?Its your past,let it remain there.Men never forgive such oo.So if u decide to tell,be ready to say bye to him.
Babe zip it since d man is late. Most guys won't take it. It wud hav been a diff scenario if he were still alive. So zip it or padlock it nd trow away d key in2 d lagoon. I have talked my own.
Keep ur mouth shut, parrout mouth, he is dead and gone wit d past... Lucky dat he is not alive to ruin ur marriage.... 4get d matter and move on.... Tell him & see dat his undyin love varnish in few seconds... Be wise
babe, shut the hell up! DOnt you dare open your mouth to tell him anything, dont try it! your past is your past, let it go!
Wat is ur problem? Abegi, forget am and move forward!
My dear, let sleeping dogs lie. Leave the past in the past and let it stay buried with the old man. Don't allow your past ruin your future. Naija men are not that matured to le such things go.
Let the sleeping dog lie pls unless u dnt want dat wedding to take place!simple
U better shut dat ur mouth,which love???d bobo ll dump u without looking back
Better keep quiet. You're lucky the man is dead
My dear, let sleeping dogs lie. Leave the past in the past and let it stay buried with the old man. Don't allow your past ruin your future. Naija men are not that matured to let such things go.
Fabu story culled from hint magazine. Next please!
u shld be honest regardless of wat his actions will be
Are u a learner? Let sleeping dogs lie pls!
Which of the decisions can u leave with? Now, telling him means u re ready 4 d consequences which might be loosing ur man. Secondly re u remorsful/repentant? If u truely re then I ve to say u re meeting ur karma in lighter form by the father being dead. Are u the only one with d knowledge of the affair? If so u can take d risk of not telling ur man but if there is some other my dear play it safe n tell him b/4 he finds out from d other person. At d end it falls on u to make d choice u can leave with 4 d rest of ur life. Sweet anonymous.
Nne biko forget about it
No put sand sand for your own garri o!
The man is dead, its not like you went home to meet his family and met him
And all you "runz gehs" pls be careful of who ur doing o!
Before you do your husbands entire male folk in the name of "runz"
A word is enough for the wise!
Ginger
Well i think some things are better kept secret to prevent problems, provided there is no means of the truth coning out from a third party.. If you think it will, then its better he knows the truth from you
My dear forget about it;the father is late and you no longer have any business with him.Do not tempt this love by telling him because it might change the whole thing(backfire)
Babe forget am o. Let sleeping dog lie abeg.besides d man in question is dead. Veronique
forget about it! leave the past in the past
Lmao, a recreation of a story I read on wedding digest yesterdy. Hmmn mention it ooooo cos your dead sugar daddy has a friend tht knew u both, nd he'd gladly tell ur finace alll he knws...
4get it. If u tell him, u loose him sharply. Just 4get it. Thank your stars he is dead
Tell him jooor after all d man is dead!!! If d guy is matured he will definitely undastnd.
Is that even a question? Rolls eyes and walks away.
U can tell him moreover his dad is dead,so he won't b worried!u r lucky is dad is not alive.
monkey!
u don't need to tell him.God has already buttered ur bread yet u want to expose yourself. The man is already dead please don't ruin good memeories for the family.Move on if u cant live with the guilt.
Some secret are best kept when it cums to marriage esp now dat d old man is late.
Pls Tell him d truth,he needs 2 know! Just free ur mind pls cos if he finds out d truth sumwere else,it will b more dangerous than u tink!!
Better keep it to yourself o!
He is dead, there's no need telling him, back in the days first sons inherit their father's youngest wife
This story get as e be. Is it d new block buster on nollywood. But u knew the man's name nah. So wen u met the young handsome dude with d same name as ur papa lova you for jst break it off dere n den instead of thinking its jst a mere coincidence
Nemesis
Better dnt tell him, must u tell him everything abt yourself? Nawa oh! Do u think he has told u everything abt himself...
tell him!
Tell him. No details. Esp no graphics....men could never handle that no matter how hard they pretend or try. And they have a funny way of sticking out the 'betrayed' or 'lied to' me card. If what you both have is worth it, it won't matter. If not...early riddance is best.
Too bad.....
If you're keeping it away, make sure its forever but I think you should let him know if you're so sure about his love for you. I'm sure he will understand since its in the past.. We all have a past
Better shut dat ur mouth!
Don't tell him!
#MpamaQuestion
Rosie Said........You said that the man is dead right?........Then bury him with the secret,why stir up a hornet's nest........just my take.
Leave d past in d past
Hmmmmm it beta u let it remain dead with the man, cos if ur guy undastnd d mum will nt ooooo.
You have to tell him to free your conscious,if he truly loves u,he will forgive.
Since his old man his dead there is no point telling himm.....
I wil advice u 2 forgot abt d past and go on wt ur relationship,xcept u want 2 loose ur man,d old sugar daddy is late and gone,cos no reasonable man wl lyk to marry a girl dat his dad has tested b4,save ur secret and go on wt ur relationship.
The man don die the secret don die that na past tense o forget it
HELL NO
Abeg who send dis honest mugu message... Me I dey find husband pls tell me. Good gal.
Its difficult. .follow ur heart dear....pls how can I publish a story on this blog..I hv a bothering issue I nid your views pls
Tell him and its over..no man will knowingly sleep with the same woman his dad slept with, talk more of marry. Where I am from, its an abormination.
Tell him nothing... good news that d man z dead. Believe me, if u tell him anything everything will negatively change.
Oh my goodness. This is a perfect storyline for a movie. Abeg they should make a movie out of this. wow. wonderful.
You are lucky the father is dead yet you want to complicate matters by telling your man? Are you ok at all?
Take a zip and close ya mouth. By the way, what is it with all these telling secrets? Why dig up something that happened 7 yrs ago? And of all things something like that? Girl are you sure you're old enough to marry? The clause is this, if you are feeling funny about the issue that you feel it might affect your relationship down the line,, then speak up, but be ready for whatever the result is. The guy might be all cool about it, and for the typical Nigerian male, you might read about your story on linda ikeji blog after calling you every name in the book aside from the one your parents gave you. Good luck with this your story.
You better shut up. Before you use hand to destroy ur life. Old things have past away n new things have come through Christ .
U better shut the hell up. Except u want to ruin ur marriage. U r even lucky the man is dead. What do u think will happen if u tell him. Do u think he will forgive u?
Not unless there is a potential whistleblower who might let the cat out of the bag in the future. What you don't know can't hurt you!
Ode! U no go kuku ma leave mata the way e be nd quietly marry ur man nd nobody gets hurts, tell him now nd u return to square one #getbrain
Please don't tell him! Eji eziokwu eshi ofe?
Ur past has caught up with Ʊ, Ʊ beta tell him, ur secret won't be 4eva and to free ur mind and conscience, so Ʊ will be happy...
Please don't tell him! Eji eziokwu eshi ofe?
Mcheww.. E be like say u no wan marry. Go and tell him na.. Rubbish. He will so dump ur ass,even if he forgives you,he will never forget so just shut it since the old man is dead
ARE YOU A BIG FOOL? ABI ARE YOU A LEARNER?! KEEP YOUR MOUTH SHUT AND MARRY THE GENTLEMAN! DO YOU THINK HE HAS TOLD YOU EVERY DIRTY SECRET ABOUT HIMSELF??!!
Tell him,
Just keep shut. The man is already dead
forget it..d dead cn tell no stories.
The power of money can make a woman 2 fuck his husband best friend!Madam u better let d guy cos if he eventually finds out hell will be let lose.
Tell him
omo mehnnnnnn
Tell him,
bura'ubaa
No need abeg. Except you don't want to marry him.
Forget abt it, ur witness and intruder Don die. Are u a learner?
R u mad! Y would u want to tell him wen u knw ur relationship will be off and since d man is dead, wats d use??
Hi Miss,
Don't say anything about it. Past stays in the Past. Present is important. So don't tell him. Just say you dated a old guy and full stop.
Tell him and risk your marriage. Some things are better left unsaid. Aferall, Abraham did same. that guy can never marry you if he hears that, abi you go like share one okpozo with your mama?
dont try it o.... just take it as theres a reason for everything
You r strictly OYO! If u r real, search ur heart, u knw wot to do...bt u shd b ready fr any outcome if u tell him...
stupid hoe. if he gets married to you and eventually gets broke. you will sleep with your landlord. the way young girls in Nigerian colleges esp in the east flirt with older males is so disgusting. try going to clubs in Enugu awka and owerri. flooded with imsu, esuth, Nau and so on HOES.
Ask God for forgiveness,and move on with him
No you don't need to tell him such a bitter past.just make sure you will not abadone him later because of another rich sugar papa.akpiri ogologo things
There is bound to be someone who knows about you and the late father. Either one of your friends or one of his.
If all goes well and leads into marriage, marry the son. Make sure you secure your finances with your husband. Meaning, make sure you have your own money and you're able to support yourself.
Once you're married and all is well, you can reveal your secret to your husband -- IF NECESSARY. Especially, if your hubby finds out and confronts you about it.
When and IF the truth comes out, stress to your husband that it was a matter of survival. You regret it. You feel bad about your actions. You wish you could have been honest about it. But it was in your past. Seek his forgiveness.
If your husband kicks you to the curb, you have no worries because you've secured your financial future.
***Lush
Forget it,the man is dead!
The man is dead. Leave the dead to bury their dead.
If I was the one I won't tell him anything,cos I promise you once you do,u will loose him 4eva.let's dis secret be dead and buried.
Don't say anything especially when the man is dead. That is your past. Just keep quiet!
Tell am,eegbe:)
Abeg this is a fake story jor. Somebody been watching too much nollywood. Gtfoh
Forget it else ur hunt for a hubby az jez started.....Be wise
Just let the sleeping dog lie
Don't tell him if u knw u can't handle the way he will react to it
Forget about it.
Twenty years pounded yam can still be very hot... Now that u are meeting your so called sugar daddy again, what is the assurance that he won't call for me, if he truly used to enjoy the time u guys spent together... Am sure he will object the marriage.
take a gun...put it on ur head...den pull d trigger
U just might lose him but u shld tell him cos karma wld do a nasty job 4 u if u dont
Sweety keep this to yoself,trust me its for the best.You dont want to ruin your relationship over something that happened in the past.
IF YOU ARE READY TO LOSE THE MAN; GO AHEAD AND TELL HIM.
AM NOT SURE YOUR HUSBAND WILL EASILY DIGEST D NEWS AND ACCEPT U THAT WAY.
IF HE'S MY BRO; I WON'T ADVICE HIM TO MARI U.
KAMA JST CAUGHT UP WTH U AND U HAVEN'T TOLD US HW MANY OTHER SUGAR DADIS U 4LOWED TO HAVE A CHUNK OF THEIR MONI.
THIS IS WHAT MILLIONS OF U GEHs DO 4GETIN D WORLD IS A VRY TINY PLACE.
note: UR LATE FATHER INLAW FRNDS MAY KNW ABT U. SO DNT CONSIDER IT SUCH A BIG SECRET
PROUDLY A VIRGIN!!
APPLELIPX
If you are wise,you better not tell him after all the father is dead,and dead man can't say nothing. If u fool your self say love no get secret then u loose the boy mumu. That na even question wen u suppose ask? Mumu better marry him and move
Close your mputh and erase it from your mind!! Don't even dream of telling him as your relationship will not survive it at all
Its in ur past so let it live dier an don't eva tell him cos it might cost u your relationship exept u want to try ur luck an it might just come out as badluck
Dont bother telling. Let bygone be bygone.
Forget it o,he's dead let bygone be bygone biko
I don't think is wise to tell him, sweep it of d carpet,, and move on.. if u talk huh,, consider it over...
Damn gal 4 once am short of words I say tell him dnt tell him, honestly am confused follow ur guts
*****A-BELLE*****
Terrible tinz young ladies, especially university students do dis days.They're jst terrible.Dey hav sex wit anytin 4 money.I pray God help 1 find a gud 1 among dis public toilets 2 settle wit.Smh!
U be fool?? Must u talk ? Your mouth dey leak?? U better shut up and live your life....thank God the Man is dead already...
This gist na concocted by Linda. No problem sha, na fun.
Terrible tinz young ladies, especially university students do dis days.They're jst terrible.Dey hav sex wit anytin 4 money.I pray God help 1 find a gud 1 among dis public toilets 2 settle wit.Smh!
Hmmmmmm jst listen u will hear wat God wants u to do, d ans to ur question can come in diff ways jst listen. Ms white
Some details change someone's view. Do you think he can manage the truth regarding that. If not, forget...the man is dead u said.RIP... U thank God, and hope one uncle doesn't knw abt ur thing
Forget about it.
hahaha dis is really a bizarre okay tell him since love has no secrets but I wonder how u wan tell am say u shared his father's D**k n his own D**k lol the thing funny die
Gush! Did u just ask dat......4 COL he's dead.......u shouldn't mention such or u loose ur relatnshp
Old things are pass away and all things become anew. Leave the dead in the past jare & enjoy ur future.
Don't ask don't tell
You have two options here missy...
1.) Come clean and tell him, but also be prepared to end the relationship.
2.) Shut ur ass up!!! The guy don die. It's not like you will have to interact with him and make for some awkward moments.
Honestly, you don't always have to tell everything. Keep a few sins to yourself. Or if you must, don't expect him to forgive and get over it. Be ready to pack ur cargo!
Look better leave d@ inocent young man alone & go 4 ur type.God'll surely punish u if U lure him into atrocity unknowingly.Go 4 ur type DOG.
Tell him
Oshisco...flipshairnwalksaway
Have you heard of don't ask, don't tell? My dear, it is your past, face the future.
Are you mad. Poster you better shutup and continue with the relationship. If you tell him. He will never forgive you. Never. There will be no love left to salvage
pls tell him d truth. marriage shld b built on luv n trust as well as mutual understanding. he will b angry n may threaten break up bt he wil com bak n he will learn 2 trust u cos u told him d truth abt urself right 4m d beginning. make sure its a relaxed atmosphere, especially when he is telling u Hw much he luvs u.then u can start by saying u want 2 have a lasting n honest relationship. it works.
Don't lure d@ young man into building his home on a foundation of atrocity.He's 2 gud 4 U.Pls leave him alone.Ma sincere advice else it'll neva be well wit u.
Are u dumb?? Don't be that stupid. What r u going to gain 4rm telling him....husband is scarce oooo.
Plz for ur own gud, dnt tell him bcos there is no amount of Love dat wil make him to accept u, even if he does his Love for u will neva b complete. Plz keep it for urself and don't tell ur friends!
If you don't tell him, you'll be back on LIB in two years talking about how your husband found out you had an affair with his father and asking how you can make him stay with you. The way people think is if you can hide this from me, you can hide anything from me. You may think you two were discreet but his father had friends and his friends have wives. Before you know it whispers will start. You're also just selfishly talking about yourself and your man. Even if you don't tell him now and he finds out later, he may recover. Your mother-in-law is another case. How will you sleep at night knowing that you added to the pain of the woman who will be like your second mother? I wish you good luck sha.
I don't know u but I love u... ur comment rocks. Lmaooo
i saw this from your husband himself on weddingdigest so looks like he knows already. my take is discuss this together and talk to God as well.
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