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Wednesday 22 January 2014

"Not having sex for 2 years feels good" -Dencia says in new interview

The singer and businesswoman tells Encomium magazine
"Sex is overrated and sex is for lovers who are trying to make babies. I am not trying to do so, it is not in my agenda. Not having sex for two years feels good. I am saving energy and mileage. I have better things to waste energy on. I want to wait till after marriage because I am not in a rush. Marriage is a commitment. I just don't see myself falling inlove, having sex and being both heart broken. I have never been heartbroken. I can't take a heartbreak..and men these days expect anything from them. To avoid heartbreak, if I meet any serious man we will meet the families, no sex for over six months, so in the process they might find out they don't like me so I can quit easily."

189 comments:

ST. KIZITO BOUTIQUE IG: @stkizitoboutique said...

We have heard you. Are you a virgin?

ST. KIZITO BOUTIQUE IG: @stkizitoboutique said...

Well, I love ya mindset

Unknown said...

this babe is serious!! why not enter convent babe

Unknown said...

Blooded liar , n u do sexy Tings to attract men

Anonymous said...

Nice...

Igor said...

So cobwebs go don full for there.

Mrs E said...

If it works for you, then good! Stick to it

Unknown said...

guess she decided this, after several heartbreaks, sorry girl...
Now Miley Cyrus will come and tell us, she has never twerked for 2months. mtchew

Mr_SouL Get Naija Twitter/IG followers/7AB109CB said...

Oh she shed just shut up already, I bet she has varieties of yam tubber sized dildos in her drawer.

Anonymous said...

Take several sits pls..if u don't av sex in 2 yrs keep it to ur self, y d announcement? Like we fflw u everywea to know weda u av sex or not, ode oshi.

Cute G said...

It encouraging to hear pple talk abt abstaining frm sex b4 marriage.its never too late to realise that.Chastity is indeed a virtue.

Eyeshadow said...

Keep repping me Dencia,,but all thses ashawo's girls cannever zip up

FDJ said...

Easy to say

Bonita Bislam said...

Who cares even if ou decide to date a monkey? Ur business abeg

Unknown said...

I just hate dis dencia after she insulted me way back on twitter, immediately i stop following her..... Well, madam me to i never have sex for the past 21 days but still who cares. See madam, my bed dey over comfortable if ur bed no dey sweet yu to sleep bcos na wetin u need nw..... Miss whitenous or wetin self....

Anonymous said...

Dont you use vibrator sex toy?
i learnt it makes ladies reach multiple orgasm than male d**k?
@dancia

Peejay said...

She's making sense although I'm not sure I believe her claim of abstinence.

GREAT love said...

She looks like a runs girl. Meanwhile its very possible especially in the life of those who have Christ.

PUMPKIN said...

Ok Dencia..good for you

mimi pearl said...

Hmmm...so true

VIVA said...

nyc strategy against hrtbrk...celibacy rocks joor.@lest d tot of stds nd pregnancy is avoided

Mich said...

I like how she uses mileage as a metaphor for how many people she actually had sex with prior to the 2years of celibacy.
Go eat a D,Dencia.

Anonymous said...

xoxo....true talk...sex ain't a big thing...u regret afta doing it especially with someone u don't love...kip it up gal... #kisses

Anonymous said...

Stupid girl! I pray it doesn't take time Bfor she understands.

AnnMarie said...

Dencia u havent met the right person who would sweep u off ur feet and both of u be rolling on his bed in a few weeks

Unknown said...

If this is true then is good...keep it up.

Occupy nijja said...

Soo what is the Qver exposure of breasts and body for ? Is not to invite SEX.

Anonymous said...

Dis is serious are u sure about it not having sex for 2year now,dat mean u are not a virgin?

Unknown said...

She is soooo vain n shallow!!!! gosh !

Anonymous said...

Ok gd buh stop makin a big deal out of it,v nt had sex in my whole lyf n m 25 already*rolls eyes*

Anonymous said...

With diz are NONSENSE dresssing abi... buh am soooo sure she is masturbating. IDIOT

Anonymous said...

Isn't that supposed to be a personal stuff? Just wondering... #Mr Lucky

Akeem Rotimi said...

*clear throat* nice 1

Anonymous said...

oh plsssss and so what, do u hve to broadcast that, and i seriously dnt bliv u for a second.

chibaby said...

Story!!! abeg go poss for your masturbating machine for ur room and leave story joor.

Unknown said...

So because you're not straight we no go hear word again?

~~Success Has No Limitation~~

Anonymous said...

Wise words Dencia.

Anonymous said...

Sup with dis chic?? Cos she abstains from sex means the whole world must know! That's not the prerequisite of getting married..

Mab said...

no wonder she is always looking sex starved in her pictures, am sure she has like 5 dildos

Unknown said...

Gud 4 u

Unknown said...

#word

Unknown said...

Hehehehe. Oķ. Gud for her

Anonymous said...

Ur damm ryt my sis ooo. I wish I can b lyk u

Anonymous said...

Ur really ryt Nnem

Les Miserables™ said...

Put this at the back of your mind, that fornication and adultry is a sin, and no human civilization can ever change that!"

Anonymous said...

lamest thing anyone ever said....

♥ ȊƦȋƺȟ ƘƦȋϻ ♥ said...

Lol u go grl u re rite wth men of dese daiz anytyn cn hpen

LL said...

If this lady has nothing to do or say, she should just shut her bleached mouth up. whats up with her and sex sef? who is punishing her? who is deceiving her?

Abeg make she pack well jor! her matter don tire people. pscheew!

Unknown said...

Hmmm, u don see mumu like u. the words in holy book is very easy to read but to practise is very HARD. ⌣̊┈̥-̶̯͡»̶̥♡thanks ⌣̊┈̥-̶̯͡»̶̥ 

Anonymous said...

NNE WELL DONE. WITHOUT SEX,ONE WILL STILL LIVE AND IS ALSO FREE FROM FEAR OF STDS AND UNWANTED PREGNANCY

Mikun said...

Nice one

Toronto Finest said...

But you have a sex toy right?

Anonymous said...

So what u do wt ur energy is masturbation then. Ok o if that will save ur hrt from pain,carry go.

LINDA said...

Good 4u Dencia. Buh reali hw do u knw how bn heartbroken feels if uv never experienced it b4 like u said? Jst wondering..

Fuck your opinion said...

This dis thirstyhoe. U wish. Be deceieving ur papa.

Anonymous said...

Dencia may not be having sex as she has put it but I know for certainty dat she is deriving so much pleasure worth more dan d sex she said she hadn't....who knows she may be one of dem...d fact dat she isn't been f**kt by a man doesn't mean she isn't aving something els

Anonymous said...

I hear u miss Dencia......#yimu#

Apple said...

OK I DON HEAR.

Unknown said...

For mind now what are you feeling like? Deceive yourself wella u hear. next news abeg

chinny baby said...

Nice one babe, its better that way than to feel jilted after sex #very annoying

Unknown said...

Uuuuuuuuuuuuu liar.But u masturbate shaa?i lie?

Unknown said...

I jx cant believe ds#ana ekwuyeri

Anonymous said...

If she is not decieving us then she is a true African woman, forget her skin... na bleashing cause am.... kelvin cares

lovlyivon said...

Mine 7months and counting if it's true then uv tried

Anonymous said...

Who this gbovo de lie for? If I hear!

FAMMIE said...

Ok, her business

Anonymous said...

Holy mary

Anonymous said...

You havent had sex in 2yrs so we should cook party rice! Please go and sleep!

Anonymous said...

Yes o. Well said. Her toto needs to go on vacation.#okbye.

Anonymous said...

Words of a woman battling the urge. Yawn! Boring!

MY TURN said...

just last month i would have yabbed you and told you to stop fooling yourself but now i am on #TEAMCELEBACY... Sex truly is overated and most times leads to heart ache. All the best girl.

Anonymous said...

ENOUGH OF YOU BEING A CELIBATE!!!!!!!!,WE HAVE HEARD,THANK UUUUUUUUU.SHIOOOOIOR.

Anonymous said...

U talk like this cos u r so afraid! And fear will omnlky makme u meet d wrong ppl who will break ur heart sMh

Anonymous said...

we av heard now Dencia....its nt a new tin. am 23 an avnt had sex b4 wats d big deal....haba...am sure linda is even a virgin n she isnt shouting about it...

Unknown said...

Hmmm as 4 me I dnt believe u

bravest hrt said...

Huh aunty its easier said dan done and ryt now all I tink is dat u r overrating dis ur celibate ish...keep it 2 urself stop annoucing it,how can u say u r not planning on aving sex til after marriage n u pose like a sex slave or sex figure...sister uv gat issues

lord Yugo said...

Its obvious she doesn't know anytn bout sex or d benefits of sex ,mayb research more on d term ASEXUAL

Debbie Chelsea said...

Hahahahahahahaha #sipsmyzobo# Lindodo NEXT

Anonymous said...

Maybe it's d body odour dey perceive from ur 'brightening' cream naim dey keep d men @ bay

AB said...

Good for Her

Anonymous said...

How dumb can this lady be. So after married and sex u don't mind being heartbroken lol

AB said...

Good for her

jannygurl said...

Nice one. But why cant u just keep it to urself. Must u go on broadcasting it? Resolutions like dis r beta kept to oneself jare. Anyways I wish u d best.

Anonymous said...

Good for you.

Anonymous said...

E concern her,she shud continue masturbating n making noise anyhow

MISSPERFECT said...

Waitin glow ur skin like dis?

Anonymous said...

Nice 1 dear I like that, I have stay for over 10yrs not haveing six keeping my self for christ waiting for the rite man that will value it......I pray for God to give u the grace he has giving me more and more grce and at the end I know we wiill have a testimony

Karlsson said...

Congratulation.

Unknown said...

uwa nmebi! so dat is y u use all d oil wey dey ur house take rub body? abeg reduce d modelling oil Biko its giving ur skin a melting plastic look. u ve nt had sex in two yrs so? mayb d last guy dat hit it is still in coma. shior!

Anonymous said...

4 ur tiny mind ni..easier said dan done..bt itz gud

Anonymous said...

Hehehehehehehehe #dildo tinz

ANYA IKENGA said...

Akuko. How many albums u don sell take do whitenicious? If u like tell us say u no de shit.

Ochuko Tonukari said...

Your words give you away as someone who is satisfying herself with dildo and stuff like that....

Unknown said...

d sex toy u re using, is dat not part of havin sex? lol

Anonymous said...

Lol,don't worry the guy will wait till a year and ve sex wit your whitinixious ass. Funny u,we know u prefer dido to a Manz genital. Things like dis sud be kept secret n am sure u dnt want to be rapped. Olodo***@Bukkenny. Sisi linda do post

Anonymous said...

Who is she deceiving pls this story is rubbish let her say it to the birds #bright bravo#

MissW said...

well said, sex complicates things jare. Me na after marriage things o

Anonymous said...

oh we hear,gud4u...if u r makin noise lyk diz coz of jux 2yrz den i wonder wat virginz wil say#yawns#

dhobiz said...

The no sex part is okay every other thing she's saying doesn't make sense

Anonymous said...

abeg go siddon, ur mate plenty outside wey be virgin, u na ony two years, n u dey brag,,,abeg go look bush joor,,,,,,,,,,yaxx

Anonymous said...

Swt linda u dont knw how hapi i feel ds days just readin my comments on ds blog may GOD continue to bless u,as for ds Dencia of a girl she shud go n tak several seats al ds her notice me s bcomin too much

dudette said...

Wow guess you ve got the best vibrator in the world!!!.....

Anonymous said...

Am surprised! Such a comment coming from ab leaching expert.

Anonymous said...

Shut the fuck up

somfabulous said...

Most of ol dis celebrities tlk n think lyk children.....rubbish. ..

Naija Movies Nollywood said...

Seriously, is that from Dencia I know?

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Anonymous said...

Good for u if its true,but........I hope u re not bisexual,cos I suspect u have other means of having sexual pleasure............Pretty T

Unknown said...

Nice if its true. Na taste and see dem r out to do. Go girl

Anonymous said...

Me too.I have not had sex in 30 yrs! Yeah right!who the heck is dis person?one of the so-called celebs u only see in dis blog.pls seriously who is she?

Unknown said...

Sure??

lynzzeve said...

Hmmm, if I hia!

Unknown said...

Na lie jooooor!!!!!!!!!

Anonymous said...

Ok, I really don't get it, u don't have sex for 2years and u want d whole world to know, @lesat it's for ur own good. I hope wen u finally have sex u would let us know too and tell us how sweet or awful it is.

MissBusyBody said...

Welldone girl...

Anonymous said...

Mtcheew Who cares , linda biko talk another tin

Anonymous said...

Michael Essien Nko has it been two years since we heard they were dating?so they weren't sexing? Na wa and they were playing love games on Instagram chai

Diary of Dido said...

'......They might find out they don't like me.....' - For some reason, I really like that phrase- Very humble.
Some self-important celebs would spout it the other way round, 'I'll find out that they're not my type, bla-bla-bla'.
Good one Dencia. And, your sentiments are quite correct, assides lovemaking being only for rearing children.

Anonymous said...

Help me tell d ladies oh, am tired of seein chicks datin and sleepin wit all d so called boyfriends in d cause of findin mr right...

Anonymous said...

Yes o plz tell dem o infact i respect ur decision joor. Dats d best way eva.

ONE HUNDRED KAY said...

Lol! They write learner for my forehead?

Unknown said...

Keep decieving your self...who cares if you sex or not? Must you publicize it to the whole world?...smh

Anonymous said...

Lmao...

Anonymous said...

Is she losing the Whitenicious effect? She's looking less ghostly in this pic. Only she and her god know if this story is true. Some people say anything for attention.

Anonymous said...

Girls of nowaadays sef.How una go just come linda dey lie say u neva sleep with man for two years.The fact still remains if u aint a virgin den u still a whore!

AdeGUCCI...omo Agba

Aby said...

That's a good thing

Anonymous said...

Here someone is bloating about two years abstinence! For your info, it's my 6th year now...as a matter of fact, I had sex previously because I wanted to please my man but discovered I was fooling myself. Each time I did, I felt deeply guilty afterwards and asked God for forgiveness. At a point, I was sure I was deceiving myself and had to stop. And no, I don't masturbate, I've never touched myself in my entire 28 years!

Miss X said...

Sticking your tongue out definitely doesn't make your pic anymore sexy than it originally will be OR will not.

That said, erm...u haven't had sex in 2 years? Lets see how long you can hold out! Some people just don't have it in them.

Anonymous said...

Whether u hv sex or u don't hv sex is ur biz, who cares anyway? Keep it to ur self! The way u parade ur self doesn't justify ur claims. Shut ur trap gal. @SHoK

Uloma said...

Dts ur wahala dear.

Anonymous said...

lolz...*choppin kola nut*

Anonymous said...

I like that girl,keep it up,u r indeed a virtious woman,it's only a fool who think that sex is d primary aim in a relationship,and for those who critisize you because of your good and godly descision,you all have a *little mind*(mind of a fool) be while,expecially ladies.

Unknown said...

Still on still, i dey jealous yu o......

Anonymous said...

She is not beTter than dos havin sex, cos she is killing men with dis her sexy outfits witout given them s*x... And she end up using vibrator...

Anonymous said...

HIGH FIVE TO HER. CORRECT GIRL.6 MONTHS SMALL SEF! AM WITH YOU. (SK)

Anonymous said...

Don't worry soon our legislators will come out with ANTI-SEX TOY policy. I will know how u will survive it. Onye Ashi

Anonymous said...

She is not beTter than dos havin sex, cos she is killing men with dis her sexy outfits witout given them s*x... And she end up using vibrator...

Anonymous said...

Understand wat? Idiot

Anonymous said...

See how small n tiny u are. Are u not suppose to be in school or on the street? See wat free internet n cheap phones has caused

Anonymous said...

Dat won't make u a virgin. If u like no fuck for ages na ur tin why boring us wit what should be private. Abi na so u wan take market am?

Anonymous said...

Can u do it? Anu inpama

Anonymous said...

jux 2yrz n u makn all diz noise???if u were a virgin den wat wil hapen??#yawns#

Anonymous said...

U knw she is a hoe how? Cos u have slept wit her or she is like the hoe suffocating ur neck in ur profile pic. Be decieving ya mama

Anonymous said...

liar.... whats the big deal, go to china or philippine, u will see a lady that had not had sex for 12 years and above, just 2 years u have not had sex u are broadcasting it... what about the dildo and the vibrator i saw u using...?

Anonymous said...

And u are a woman. Prostitute show thy self. Cheap satin girl

Anonymous said...

U knw she is a hoe how? Cos u have slept wit her or she is like the hoe suffocating ur neck in ur profile pic. Be decieving ya mama

Anonymous said...

At least it will be an excuse for u pple to eat rice. How many years now?

Anonymous said...

Me wanna join Ųя group

Anonymous said...

Oops!!.guess this is a scopish tin to get a man...lol...#general#

Anonymous said...

You know just bc a woman is celibate doesnt mean she doesnt clean her vjj. There's brazilian waxing, brazilian hair laser removal. It doesnt have to look like the amazon. Not having sex for a while is good for your vjj... the muscles get to relax too. And just bc she's not doing the nasty doesnt mean she is not using products to stimulate. She just said she is not having sex with anyone (I.e. human being)

Anonymous said...

Hate is a strong word.

Anonymous said...

recycled virgin.......good luck

Livvsreamblog said...

Enough of all this abeg,do u think anyone call celebrity will come out and tell u i had sex last night or one night stand?

Anonymous said...

Spoken like someone who has suffered a nasty heartbreak. Good for her on the sex thing. Hilary Obiorah

Unknown said...

Sex till after marraige indeed! You started havin sex at an early stage of ur life, u just tired of it and wants to chill for a while. Enjoy been lonely.

Unknown said...

oh my God, hw is dis news? dear Dencia we have truck loads..no keke loads of celibate ppl walking arnd, so dear say anoda tin nd greet james(ur dildo) for me

Anonymous said...

A man can still not like u after six months. As the same for a woman. Most of us can do with out sex for long. But I don't care for your sex life @dencia.

Anonymous said...

Spoken like a woman who has had a nasty heartbreak. Good for her on the sex thing. Hilary Obiorah

vivian obey said...

She never had sex since 2yrs,nd she poss like dat in her pix,seducing me,pls my dear look for another lie

Anonymous said...

does that include vibrator orgasm?

Unknown said...

LWKMD! DENCIA CAN LIE FOR AFRICA!!!!

Anonymous said...

Paparazzi is that you?

whizzev said...

gud 2hear

djmakson said...

I laff in spanish. U bragging abt not having sex in 2 yrs. Wot shld virgins now do o.

Amarachukwu said...

Not two yrs n u are making noise so wetin virgins go do?

Anonymous said...

Who ask her story

Anonymous said...

Aunty dencia am 22 goin to 23 nd am stil a virgin so close ur mouth biko

Gbenga said...

U made it ur business the moment u started writing ur comment...

Anonymous said...

No be say she be virgin, she said she neva av sex for d past 2yrs.. Abi anty dencia? Mtcheeeeww oniro oshi.
*adefunke*

Anonymous said...

You're dis century's biggest fool.

Anonymous said...

True talk, that's just the fact

Anonymous said...

You who is calling someone a fool is just dumb, what this individual said makes sense a lot you just dumb enough to understand it

Anonymous said...

smart move, Dencia. I didn't have sex with my last bf. I'm still a virgin and proud that I didn't lose it to him, because lo and behold after 6 months, I guess he realized he didn't "love" me as much as he said. so basically he was in it for just sex. we broke up because he couldn't do without sex. whatever. I don't regret anything at the end of the day, because I did not give him my body.

Practice caution ladies. men will say any and everything to get into your pants. And then the mofos realize they don't really love you and come up with excuses to leave you. I'm lucky I escaped with my hymen intact and luckily his intentions were easy to read like an open book. from the very beginning. watch his actions. do they match his words? use your head.

Anonymous said...

for her to brag about 2 years abstinence you know she a hoe. lol. leave her now. 2 yrs for her is a big deal.

what of all you women judging. I'm sure you can't go one week without doing it once .

sundayotuns said...

surgery damage the nervous system.that is,one who umdergo surgery cannot feel anything when you are smooch or given a bj because the nervous have been tampered with.It is because of dancia boobs and butts job that is why she lost appertite in sex for years.
*surgeon*

Anonymous said...

U are the idiot! Foolish bastard

Anonymous said...

Idiot, its still not her business

Mystik falls said...

Am sure your vibrators are made in America cos if it was a chinese product u wudn't have lasted this long without sxx.

Anonymous said...

ANOTHER OLODO

Anonymous said...

Who's this babe fooling? We don't need to know you're celibate.

Blunt Fuck said...

Dencia, it is obvious you are looking for a husband. Flaunting your new found celibacy status is a desperate way of preventing your pussy from reading DAMAGED, and luring a man to marry you. You only know the number of Mandingo dicks that have penetrated the depth of your 'kept pussy'.
Sorry, you DON'T strike me like a wife material.

gfame odey said...

Sex and scotch.... Me luv

Anonymous said...

Nope she is a lesbian

Unknown said...

Thank you VIrgin Sista.

Anonymous said...

Dencia must have a stream of sex toys and machines in her wardrobe, anonymous must have had her pumpkin mutilated, thus the 6yrs is like one week.

Anonymous said...

so wetin you want make we do na

Unknown said...

u think u can predict ur life.wake up girl

Unknown said...

u think u can predict ur life.wake up girl

ZeeZee said...

I don't understand people, someone says something positive, they go HAM insulting the person... is negative talk what you want? Encourage her - it's good to be celibate virgin or not.May God help us IJN

Walata said...

Who knows maybe she's telling the truth anyways babe come here make we jolly joor lol

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