Dear LIB readers: My husband says if I get pregnant again he'd leave
From a female LIB reader
"I have three sons but I want a daughter desperately. My husband always said he wanted only two children and after the birth of our second son, he warned me not to get pregnant again. But because I wanted a girl, I got pregnant again but had another son. I still want a girl and I'm ready to go through the birthing process again but my husband says the day I tell him I'm pregnant again, he would end the marriage and walk away. I don't know how serious he is with the threat but I'm afraid to test him. What should I do? I love my sons but I really want a daughter
I feel your pain, but have you thought about cost of raising these four blessed ones you already have? Nigeria is hard on the pockect and there are stormy roads ahead (school fees,medicare and upkeep)
He will not leave...but he will also not forgive u...the only reason he doesnt want is because he wants to be able to take care of them properly...4 is a crowd in these modern times o....except ofcourse ur husband is Aliko Dangote or Adenuga...be guided accordingly...thank God for ur boys and move on...coz ur next trial may even be twin boys!
Relax 1st....dnt rush him....just keep looking sexy and attractive to him....who knows...my man may score again even cos he knowing he scored bcos he cant resist ur sexsy luk....But let me ask, if d 4th baby is a boy again nko? Cos am among dos dat want only 3 kids.
Try to convince him. You are both adults, no need to take measures behind his back to get pregnant. Besides, what are you gonna do if you give birth to another boy after deceiving your husband?
Ha!that u shouldn't get pregnant again?na u dey nack ursef get belle ni or na the man dey nack get belle,if he doesn't want u to get pregnant again,they he should use condoms or u guys should go and do "Family Planning"
And u sef,na waa for u o,3 boys and u still dey find more,the wahala wey 3 boys dey give u never reach u?if u train them well they will do all u want in a girl child,
Ha,when no be say u sef bi baby factory...wey u just dey produce babies dey go,lol
Simple. A heart to heart talk with your husband stating the reasons you desire so strongly a girl child will do the magic; afterall he is your husband whom you fell in love with, right? But, does your family have adequate financial and other resources to cater for another baby if he/she arrives? That might be why your husband expresses his reservations concerning having more babies. But, do please have a chat with him. Good luck and God Bless You.
Ok mine is d other way around, he wants a daughter after 3boys but I'v worked so hard for years to get to a gorgeous size 12&I don't want to ruin my body.Cos wat"s d assurance dt it'l be a girl next
Personally, I don't think you should. I once attended a seminar and this kind of topic was brought up. It could make him resent you which would slowly make the marriage crumble. I advise you to be patient and rather attack it through prayers that God would make him change his mind. I don't think you want to go down that road my dear.!
He's your husband and the head of the house. If he says he doesn't want any more kids, then I think you should respect that. More so, what's the assurance that if you get pregnant again it will be a girl? Unless ofcourse, it's you who will be responsible financially for the kids. Nonetheless, if he says no more children then no more children!
Why do we humans like to test God. Children are gift from God. Gifts should be ACCEPTED not EXPECTED. What if you get pregnant and have a set of twin or even triplet boys. It is good to have an understanding of what marriage is all about, compatibility and compromise. Your husband told you before time he wants 2 kids, you accepted just for him to marry you or you thought he was joking. We all should think, talk seriously and candidly before jumping into marriage. Talk with your husband to know why he wants 2 or maximum of 3 kids, explain your desire to him candidly, maybe he will change his mind, then pray that the great sower may grant your heart desires. What a world! some are praying for pregnancy, a child only and those who have 3 are eager to upset their marriage because a particular gender. Anyway, wish you luck.
4get havin d daurra nau unless u wanna end u marriage. But wait no b him go giv u d belle, abi u do mak out wf him wen he's asleep?? Or drunk?? #Curious#
oh my dear I really undastnd ur reasons n fears. sit him dwn talk 2him n beg him dearly. mak him undastnd d need 4u 2hav a dota bcos beliv me dear dotas are savin grace 2dia parents mor dan sons. u cant just be an Aaron 2hav washed ur hands 2crack kernels only 4fowls. even dough all chldrn are equal but u can neva fil relaxed or fufild in ur dota inlaw's hse, d way u'll do in ur own dota's n ur dota inlaw wil neva b fully ok wit d idea of anyof her chldrn 2liv n look afta dia grand ma wen ur old but no mata wat, ur dota wil alwz b ok in lettng go any of her chldrn 2stay n luk afta her aged moda (you) Wmen are alwz more previledged n hav enof time 2tak imagin linda ikeji buildng a duplex 4ha parents but if na man did somtn lik dat. him wife go dey show level n boundary. gudluck dear!
What if u give birth to another son? Would u keep on trying 4 a girl till u have a football team? Please be content with what u have! I can understand ur need for a female child but know that God knows why He has blessed u with male kids! Relax n enjoy ur boys!
First of all,ur husband is self -centered and selfish.if U both can have three kids and take care of them,a last one wud not be much of a problem to cater to,if he's lookin at it on d financial basis.my advice to U,talk2 him,make him reason wit U. A home without a daughter equally falls shortage as a home witout a son.
Be contended and thank God for he has given you 3lovely nations! The man in your life feels it's ok, you both should arrive at a point,,,,economy of naija do not allow for too much child bearing bcos we av no govt!!!! Join hands with your hubby and raise
Aww I get the feeling. ..my aunt also tried and tried gave birth to three boys before she gv birth to the girl finally lst wk.she was full of joy in fact hmn
I will advise u to seriously heed to his warning. Its barbaric and archaic to ruin your home 'cos u want a girl-child - That's even a form of discrimination against the boy-child. Besides you're not raising the children on oxygen so you really have to take into consideration the economic responsibility of taking care of 4Children in this country today. What's even the probability that the next one will be a girl?
Madam plz 3 is oky...lik me I ve both sex tho 2 bt am ok wit it cos of my nature of work,jus manage wat God hs given u or if u r rili in desprte nid of a girl talk 2 hussy mayb he wil undstd bt dot do it witout his consent.May Almighty God help IJN Amen.EBY
I tink u should go with ur husband's decision since he aint ready 2 father anoda child, u should desire less 4 a daughter now cos u dnt knw; he might b serious.
Please dear, i know how you feel but pls DO NOT get pregnant again. Give the boys all the love, care and attention they need pls.
What happens if you get pregnant again and have another boy? What will you and your husband do? We all do not always get what we wish for in life? Just make do with you have now. Look after your boys and like i said, Take Pregnancy off your mind!
PEOPLE DO NOT UNDERSTAND THAT A CHILD IS A TWENTY TWO YEAR INVESTMENT PLAN, SO U HAD BETTER BE READY TO DO THAT, AM A WOMAN N I THINK TWO INVESTMENTS ARE ALL I WANA CARRY, BE IT A BOY OR GIRL, A CHILD IS A CHILD
I am a guy looking for a girl but cannot continue looking if I continue to have boys which is the situation I am in right now.
You have to be reasonable, how many trials before you stop? What if the next 3 kids are boys?? Abeg, we need time to care for our children not just money.
For me, I don stop oh. No try your husband oh, enjoy life with the 3 boys. I take God beg you.
Belllllllaaa!!!!! Don't try urself o!! All less u can play d game...abi he won't slp with u anymore...just conc on ur sons maybe later all will fall into place*winks*
My mom was in this situation and end up with six boys. Just give yourself sometime like 5 -7 yrs by then your husband will calm down. Then u will have your girl.
Wow! I think u shouldn't try him o! Although he might not mean his threat but don't be too sure, u know him better, but trust me as a wonan I would do anything to have a female child, he would get to love and appreciate her later....They are the best.
I understand but u av to respect ur husband n c it frm his point of view.if u want a little girl dat much then sit him down n have a heart to heart talk with him.he will tell u his fears abt havin a large family.am sure u cn relax after dat.u can also adopt.I knw families where there no female kids n d guys do everytin so I dnt tink its a big deal....Yinkus
This sounds like a story i know. If i am right (Lagos recently moved to Abuja)Don't let him scare you i know he's only shouting but once the baby is here you would be shocked with his loving reaction. Trust me.
NA BYFORCE? BE GRATEFUL FOR THE ONES U AV AND MK DUE WIV DEM....U GO FILLUP D WHOLE HOUSE WIV CHILDREN WEY HIM NOGO FIT TRAIN JST CUS U WANT A GURL CHILD?? USE UR BRAIN O. DONT SADDLE HIM RESPONSIBILITIES HE CANT HANDLE.
What happens if u have another son? It is wise to let it be and not try to find out if he's serious or not. He may want a better upbringing for the kids, the smaller in number the better. And mind you, raising children is a huge investment. Be wise and be grateful u have sons.
i reckon you close your legs. Its appalling how insensitive women are. The man is fully aware of the financial implication of raising kids but you are just bothered about actualizing or realizing your selfish desire of having a girl.
Ironic how if the tables were turned and the man wanted a boy after having three girls he will be regarded as antediluvian.
Some men sef, is dis enough reason 2 end a marriage. *RUBBISH* He wanted only 2 kids, did he bother 2 find out WHAT U WANT, OR IS IT JUST ABOUT HIM? Dat is why some issues such as dese are better sorted out during courtship.... SOME MEN ARE JUST SO IMMATURE. NOT EVERY GUY THAT WEARS TROUSERS SHLD BE CALLED A MAN. Some are just kids. My dear sit him down and talk some sense in2 him,let him reason with u. He has no right 2 threaten u with a divorce for dis reason.
What happens if u get pregnant again, ur husband leaves u then ur baby turns out to be another boy? the fact that ur 3rd child came as a boy shows u shud be satisfied with what u have. What will a baby girl give u that ur precious boys can not? The cost of raising kids nowadays is another issue. Do u know if he is considering that also? Will u pay d cost of raising that fourth child from birth to adulthood? I don't think so. Think about other ppl and what u NEED other than yourself and what u WANT.
What kind of person is this? Do you work? Are you the one paying the bills in the house? You must have a girl, who will cater for the needs of all the children you will have in your queer desire to have a girl?! Re you this selfish? Not thinking of the financial implications in having more children than you can take care of? I'm sure if your husband leave you and the children so you can fend for them and yourself for just a year, common sense will finally enter your head! You agreed to just two children, why re you imposing your need oover that of the family? Besides, you think that girl child you're desperate to have will be your friend? I laugh o. Better be thankful for your boys, train them to value you and be responsible citizens. I have just one boy, I recently had an accident and I tell you, he has been more than three children to me! If you finally have that girl, you will spoil her life and God knows it will not augur well for either of you so deal with your boys, love them, and in the end, you'll gain three daughters.
My dear 3 children is very ok..Let's stop attaching so much emotions over noting. U can always go to orphanage,your family members,friends and treat their daughters treat them like u would have treated ur daughter. Make the best out of 3 u already have and to being desperate over this kind of ish...Brendan
Just respect ur husband's wish, a child is a child irrespective of gender,nd wat makes u tink if u re preggy again,d baby won't be a boy. Just take care of ur 3 boys nd njoy motherhood. Gone re dose days wen pple give birth to a football team,3 is ok for u
Sebi surgery don make decisions like this easy?! ...well since u no do am b4 u born, u still fit go do sex change fr ur last baby now... ...next topic!
IMO: You better don't test him really......besides op you я aware that the male determines the sex of a child?! Meaning ųя husbands chromosomes seem far 2 strong 4 urs 2 make female baby so, keep ųя boys.....they'll marry & give ųя 3daughters as wives & possibly granddaughters. Don't do anything stupid that 'would' ruin ųя marriage!!!!
Helo lady try an be greatful to d ones God gave u whether boy or girl only children is children ,pls don't try and tempt ur man just obey him and train d ones u hv unless u might start crying had I knw at last .or beta stil if u insist u rather go and abduct a girl since u luv a girl child tanks and bye.
Please reason with your brain! How much money are you even bringing in to this household? It is not easy to caring for kids these days! Trying again and again is no assurance that u will have a girl. Please just stop!
Firstly,how financially buoyant are you guys?if you are buoyant,have a heart to heart talk with your man and make him see reasons with you......But pls,dont tk his threat with levity as you may regret it......
Firstly,how financially buoyant are you guys?if you are buoyant,have a heart to heart talk with your man and make him see reasons with you......But pls,dont tk his threat with levity as you may regret it......
Madam please let the matter be for now since its a sore subject. You can always adopt a baby girl later in life or God willing have urs then and ur boys will help look after her <3. There's nothing our God cannot do, he can even change ur Hussy's mind. Am talking out of experience. I have cousins who r 8 girls in their family, cos they were in search of a baby boy. You can't force it. Don't ruin your marriage dear cos of your desire. Just give it time. God's grace on ur decisions.
I know ow u feel tho! But God determines d sex of d children we have! Wot if u get pregnant and d baby is a boy again andur husby walks away like he threatened!!! Buh if its a girl is wot suffering for cos dts wot u truly want... Buh will advice u to jst stop...and pray for ur children to grow and make u a proud mum...it is well wit u
Woman don't test him o!!! A child is a child whether male or female. God has given you capacity to love them equally and have them love you back equally and trust me with the right training male children could be just as homely as females if that's your issue. Don't test your man o... He's probably planned his finances around a family of four and extra person wouldn't be that much of a big deal but two!!!! Haba madam!!! Diapers, school fees, books, music and art lessons are very expensive lets not forget medical bills and holidays... Every responsible man wants to be able to cater to all the needs and wants of his family comfortably. Be a good wife to him and be a good mom to your kids and all will be well. God help you
You may dsobey him n end up with another son. Let d issue rest for nw, bt continually pray abt it. One day, God wl lead him to b d one to remind u of it, or wen d guys becom teenagers, u can try for another bby or even adopt. Respect God's constituted authority in him for now.
Listen to your husband. I have two sons & I would really love to have a daughter but my husband has said no, no. I have to respect his stand. But let me ask you this. Are you willing to sacrifice your marriage just to have a daughter? Think about it.
Nos it is the woman that is wanting. Please, listen to your hubby. what is the 4th happens to be a boy, will you ask for a 5th. The man knows what he is capable of supporting. I think u both never had a mutual agreement before marriage. Please woman, kindly adopt!!!
And what happenes if you have another boy? You try for a fifth child?? You better listen to your husband, there are people looking for kids with torchlight, you have three, Give thanks...
My dear, first of all you should be thankful to God Almighty you have someone to call husband and father to your children, secondly, you have three children and all are boys. Common wiffy, don't be an ungrateful being. What you're even asking for that wants to make you disobey your husband and also to break your home, God has already given you in lots some, all you need to do is to exercise patience for your boys to grow and before you know what's happening you adopt three daughters from your sons' wives. I will advice you not to provoke God and your husband rather appreciate what you have. Ayo lo pa yan!
I really do not know what to say but i think you should listen to him and then put it in prayer then who knows, God may change his mind and decide you should get preggy. Don't forget, it is better to obey and you being obedient may change his mind and also bring about your blessing having a baby girl. God said we should be submissive to our husbands so try it and let's see how it goes but do not forget to pray and obey your hubby ok! I hope this helps
Money is very powerful oo, i wonder if BONARIO will even have time for himself, becos he's always on linda page commenting, anyway shaa, na linda money they work, 100k, e no easy o.
My dear just be happy with the boys u have although I feel ur pain.. but it's not about making babies, it's being able to provide for them and having a happy home , in this period of economic crisis..so just chill till he is ready or u can talk him to be,but if he isn't try not to make a big deal out of it...take k
I HOPE HE ALSO KNOWS DAT U DONT GET URSELF PREGNANT.... He had better take preventive measures too & ensure dat u adhere, its not enough 2 threaten u with a divorce. D FACT DAT HE THREATENED U WITH LEAVING U IS SO DISGUSTING & ANNOYING. May be if u had had three girls, he might hv been telling a different story.. Some men sef.....Mtchewwww. Talk2him, if he still refuses. Obey him my dear!!!
AND WHO SAYS U CANNOT ADOPT A BABY GIRL IF U SO DESPERATELY NEED ONE? MY ADVICE TO U WILL PROBABLY BE DAT U GO AND ADOPT A BABY GIRL AND SAVE A LYF OUT DERE WHO HAS NO ONE TO CALL MUMMY OR DADDY (BT U NEED TO DISCUSS WITH UR HUBBY FIRST BEFORE TAKING ANY ACTION) AND GOD WILL DEFINITELY REWARD YOU DAT I KNW
*********************************** How on earth can he mean it??? That threat is very telling! He'll LEAVE YOU for falling pregnant with HIS child. What nonsense. Why even entertain such idiotic threats?
IF he doesn't want a baby then tell him to either get the snip or take the male pill.
It takes two to make a baby. ********************************
haha men! When they want boys and you give birht, they will try it again and again. Now you want a girl, he doesnt! AT the same time you have to understand! FINANCE! really important and I believe your husband knew why he only wanted two kids in the first place. SO you better listen to him or turn one of your sons into a girl
Hold up, stop! Did anybody read what she wrote at all. This is 2014. If her dumb husband isn't responsible enough to buy a condom then he should f**king shut up. So women have become gods. I'm just tired of this Nigerian mentality that a man can't be blamed for anything in his life. Does the sperm not come from him. Useless asshole. Linda publish this o
All of you here talking are not sensible. If she had all 3 girls, the man would have insisted she try for a boy, but now the reverse is the case... and stop insulting the woman, she didn't say she wasn't working! aaaah! Men!!!
If it had been the other way around, am sure he'll desperately want a son. Dunno why some african men feel their wives have no say. In the end, ur sons get married n move on. Only a daughther bothers to look bk and tk care of her parents. True story!
Ungrateful woman. People are begging God for just one child and u r being ungrateful and looking for a dota. What makes u think u will have a girl eventually if u try one more time. Don't try God. In all situation give thanks and be grateful lady. I rest my case.
I can sympathize with you cos i'm almost in the same shoes with you, though slightly diff cos i'm not desperate for a daughter.I ve had 3 sons in 5 yrs and i really wanted a girl.But i thank God for the ARMY GENERALS he has given me and have decided to adopt a daughter later on in life. Accept your fate and thank God cos there are women looking to God for just one child, any sex at all.
Your husband said he will walk away if you get pregnant again. OK, as your husband asked you how many kids he wants or he's just been selfish. There a thing called dialogue. Sit your husband down and ask him questions why hes harsh on having more kids. State your own reasons why you want a daughter or another child. Heart to heart talk lies the solution... Good will be your strength...
This is very interesting! I bet you if it was the other way around, the man will make her have more babies till a boy comes!!! I feel for you! Daughters are wonderful gifts!!!
Lmao but why!!!.... don't worry your sons will give you daughters. this reminds me of my aunt sha. she was on this "have a boy by fire" thing until she had 6 girls!!! then she had the last baby which was now a boy. so she has 7kids, and sad thing is she died 2yrs ago. The husband wasn't a supportive one until she died sef.... my advice to you... Be thankful for what u have and adopt if u want.
Don't worry, you can have d 4th child at the expense of your marriage. Whichever one you prefer. If d story is d other way round women will nag......what else do you want?!
Lmao, someone said "if he doesnt want more children he shud stop sleeping with her" Na dis kain ppl dey cause men to dey comot house cheat, olodo ni! Madam, use ur head, stick to your original plan, Give thanks to God. Or have your girl(maybe) and marry her to ursef! Nuff said.
You are a very silly and selfish woman! How easy is it to raise so many kids. Instead of thanking God for the ones he has blessed you with and thinking about how to give them the best. Nonsense!!!
I think you're obsession with having a daughter is a problem, but also your husbands demands are strange, so talk to him and if he remains strong headed like most naija men make a decision if you badly want a daughter or you want to remain married Love from Miami
I met a woman with with twin boys.She already had 3 boys so five boys in all. When she had just the 3 boys, she was looking for a girl and her mum told her she should try once more for a girl. Alas, she conceived twin boys. Abeg, the three boys are ok. Your husband's temper must have been tried with the third child and you are still considering a 4th one.I understand it can be really difficult for you, but let understanding with your husband come first.
Olodo ma ni eleyi o, o gbon rara......... U tink say na beans to cater for dose kids bah, u wan try a man's patience wen he is not goodluck? Issorai try ur luck and see wat happens #yinmu
You guys saying she should adopt are really funny o. Is it the man dt is carrying the pregnancy? Its the extra mouth to feed dt he doesn't want so if she adopts a girl won't that still be the same thing?
Be joyful and thankful for what God has given you, some have none. I gat two boys and am expecting my last and third son. Can't wait to have him. Am so bless.
I had to address this foolish comment made by a retarded miscreant. You are an idiot for this nonsense comment. It just goes to show that you are the true definition of illiteracy. Your brains are in the sewers. Wheew! I had to get it all out. On a lighter note, sexual encounters dosen't necessarily have to lead to pregnancy(ies). Moreso if the woman understands her ovulation period and menstrual cycle , of which the poster clearly does...heck she 'tricked' him into having the 3rd baby. So anon 11:14, my 2 cents, go back to nusery 1.
Now I understand how foolish u r, so because his husband is having sex with her she should allow her self to get pregnant always..ur comment is so daft.
Thank God for your three blessings and be satisfied. If you cannot raise and fully provide four children by yourself, don't make a stupid mistake. What happens if you have another boy? Then you'd have four boys and no husband.
He wanted two children for a reason...maybe because of finances? I find it selfish to take that from him, esp since it's a 50/50 chance of having another boy.
@jennifer Alozie, so sorry to hear of comment your husband made. It's quite unfortunate and makes me wonder what type of man he is. Did you marry him in the village? God help you in that marriage.
It happened to my Mum as well. She said my dad wanted just 3kids, she at the end had 6children despite all threats from my dad. They live happily and thankful for the 6 (3boys 3girls)
Wicked woman i don't have kids yet but i know what school fees costs and am sure your boys attend good expensive schools... boy or girl pikin na pikin selfish woman na dis kain go wan go summer siddon for business class. Ozwo better lock up.
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He will not leave...but he will also not forgive u...the only reason he doesnt want is because he wants to be able to take care of them properly...4 is a crowd in these modern times o....except ofcourse ur husband is Aliko Dangote or Adenuga...be guided accordingly...thank God for ur boys and move on...coz ur next trial may even be twin boys!
If you try it again you'll give birth to twin boys...why not adopt if you are in desperate need of a girl...think of those without anyone at all
Go an adoption!
Be contented.
Relax 1st....dnt rush him....just keep looking sexy and attractive to him....who knows...my man may score again even cos he knowing he scored bcos he cant resist ur sexsy luk....But let me ask, if d 4th baby is a boy again nko? Cos am among dos dat want only 3 kids.
I'm sure if you had 3daughters first,he'd keep pushing till you get a son for men. The things some of our men do!
Try to convince him. You are both adults, no need to take measures behind his back to get pregnant. Besides, what are you gonna do if you give birth to another boy after deceiving your husband?
Ha!that u shouldn't get pregnant again?na u dey nack ursef get belle ni or na the man dey nack get belle,if he doesn't want u to get pregnant again,they he should use condoms or u guys should go and do "Family Planning"
And u sef,na waa for u o,3 boys and u still dey find more,the wahala wey 3 boys dey give u never reach u?if u train them well they will do all u want in a girl child,
Ha,when no be say u sef bi baby factory...wey u just dey produce babies dey go,lol
Simple. A heart to heart talk with your husband stating the reasons you desire so strongly a girl child will do the magic; afterall he is your husband whom you fell in love with, right? But, does your family have adequate financial and other resources to cater for another baby if he/she arrives? That might be why your husband expresses his reservations concerning having more babies. But, do please have a chat with him. Good luck and God Bless You.
Irony of life. She has 3boys and am looking for just one child.
Ok mine is d other way around, he wants a daughter after 3boys but I'v worked so hard for years to get to a gorgeous size 12&I don't want to ruin my body.Cos wat"s d assurance dt it'l be a girl next
Personally, I don't think you should. I once attended a seminar and this kind of topic was brought up. It could make him resent you which would slowly make the marriage crumble. I advise you to be patient and rather attack it through prayers that God would make him change his mind. I don't think you want to go down that road my dear.!
Na wha for u oooooo...... What if d next results to male child again? Abeg, be satisfied with what God has given u.
He's your husband and the head of the house. If he says he doesn't want any more kids, then I think you should respect that. More so, what's the assurance that if you get pregnant again it will be a girl? Unless ofcourse, it's you who will be responsible financially for the kids. Nonetheless, if he says no more children then no more children!
Na you dey train the children? Calm down na.
Why do we humans like to test God. Children are gift from God. Gifts should be ACCEPTED not EXPECTED. What if you get pregnant and have a set of twin or even triplet boys. It is good to have an understanding of what marriage is all about, compatibility and compromise. Your husband told you before time he wants 2 kids, you accepted just for him to marry you or you thought he was joking. We all should think, talk seriously and candidly before jumping into marriage. Talk with your husband to know why he wants 2 or maximum of 3 kids, explain your desire to him candidly, maybe he will change his mind, then pray that the great sower may grant your heart desires. What a world! some are praying for pregnancy, a child only and those who have 3 are eager to upset their marriage because a particular gender. Anyway, wish you luck.
4get havin d daurra nau unless u wanna end u marriage. But wait no b him go giv u d belle, abi u do mak out wf him wen he's asleep?? Or drunk?? #Curious#
oh my dear I really undastnd ur reasons n fears. sit him dwn talk 2him n beg him dearly. mak him undastnd d need 4u 2hav a dota bcos beliv me dear dotas are savin grace 2dia parents mor dan sons. u cant just be an Aaron 2hav washed ur hands 2crack kernels only 4fowls. even dough all chldrn are equal but u can neva fil relaxed or fufild in ur dota inlaw's hse, d way u'll do in ur own dota's n ur dota inlaw wil neva b fully ok wit d idea of anyof her chldrn 2liv n look afta dia grand ma wen ur old but no mata wat, ur dota wil alwz b ok in lettng go any of her chldrn 2stay n luk afta her aged moda (you) Wmen are alwz more previledged n hav enof time 2tak imagin linda ikeji buildng a duplex 4ha parents but if na man did somtn lik dat. him wife go dey show level n boundary. gudluck dear!
Wierd what type of says that to his wife. My opinion is you should listen to ur husband if he says he dosnt wnt another child he has his reasons
What if u give birth to another son? Would u keep on trying 4 a girl till u have a football team? Please be content with what u have! I can understand ur need for a female child but know that God knows why He has blessed u with male kids! Relax n enjoy ur boys!
tell him to stop pouring it inside
Nd u wil end up having 10 Sons...lol
First of all,ur husband is self -centered and selfish.if U both can have three kids and take care of them,a last one wud not be much of a problem to cater to,if he's lookin at it on d financial basis.my advice to U,talk2 him,make him reason wit U. A home without a daughter equally falls shortage as a home witout a son.
Be contended and thank God for he has given you 3lovely nations! The man in your life feels it's ok, you both should arrive at a point,,,,economy of naija do not allow for too much child bearing bcos we av no govt!!!! Join hands with your hubby and raise
Aww I get the feeling. ..my aunt also tried and tried gave birth to three boys before she gv birth to the girl finally lst wk.she was full of joy in fact hmn
I will advise u to seriously heed to his warning. Its barbaric and archaic to ruin your home 'cos u want a girl-child - That's even a form of discrimination against the boy-child. Besides you're not raising the children on oxygen so you really have to take into consideration the economic responsibility of taking care of 4Children in this country today. What's even the probability that the next one will be a girl?
Are the boys not children? Get belle again and find yourself under the bridge.
He is tinkin abt d future, I tink u shud do d same
Madam plz 3 is oky...lik me I ve both sex tho 2 bt am ok wit it cos of my nature of work,jus manage wat God hs given u or if u r rili in desprte nid of a girl talk 2 hussy mayb he wil undstd bt dot do it witout his consent.May Almighty God help IJN Amen.EBY
I guess he has a reason 4 his action, bt I'll advice u nt 2 get preg again, 3 guys …e don do na ………
Some people have no child and yet they are happy u 're greedy and ungrateful to God
I tink u should go with ur husband's decision since he aint ready 2 father anoda child, u should desire less 4 a daughter now cos u dnt knw; he might b serious.
Please dear, i know how you feel but pls DO NOT get pregnant again. Give the boys all the love, care and attention they need pls.
What happens if you get pregnant again and have another boy? What will you and your husband do? We all do not always get what we wish for in life? Just make do with you have now. Look after your boys and like i said, Take Pregnancy off your mind!
PEOPLE DO NOT UNDERSTAND THAT A CHILD IS A TWENTY TWO YEAR INVESTMENT PLAN, SO U HAD BETTER BE READY TO DO THAT, AM A WOMAN N I THINK TWO INVESTMENTS ARE ALL I WANA CARRY, BE IT A BOY OR GIRL, A CHILD IS A CHILD
I am a guy looking for a girl but cannot continue looking if I continue to have boys which is the situation I am in right now.
You have to be reasonable, how many trials before you stop? What if the next 3 kids are boys??
Abeg, we need time to care for our children not just money.
For me, I don stop oh. No try your husband oh, enjoy life with the 3 boys. I take God beg you.
I think you should examine your reasons carefully. Is this a vanity project?
Weigh the costs and risks against the benefits: what if you end up with a platoon of men? Who is going to pay school fees and all the other stuff?
You could also give it some time. When the boys are older, and there is sufficient gap, you can revisit the issue
Belllllllaaa!!!!! Don't try urself o!! All less u can play d game...abi he won't slp with u anymore...just conc on ur sons maybe later all will fall into place*winks*
@peacfullyahead!!%
Go and find a job, start contributing financially to your family upkeep then have that conversation with him again.
U can adopt a daughter...
Hope you know as the country b
dont get pregnant again
the world has changed no man wants more than 3 kids so he can provide for them and still be comfortable.
hmm... Oro naa so si mi lenu o tun bu iyo si pelu, iso re kose' ponla bee ni iyo re ko see tu danu...
My mom was in this situation and end up with six boys. Just give yourself sometime like 5 -7 yrs by then your husband will calm down. Then u will have your girl.
If you try again you still have 80% chances of having a boy,so is better not to tempt your husband..
Wow! I think u shouldn't try him o! Although he might not mean his threat but don't be too sure, u know him better, but trust me as a wonan I would do anything to have a female child, he would get to love and appreciate her later....They are the best.
I understand but u av to respect ur husband n c it frm his point of view.if u want a little girl dat much then sit him down n have a heart to heart talk with him.he will tell u his fears abt havin a large family.am sure u cn relax after dat.u can also adopt.I knw families where there no female kids n d guys do everytin so I dnt tink its a big deal....Yinkus
You have to obey him we men can be unpredictable. Abeg just relax.
This sounds like a story i know. If i am right (Lagos recently moved to Abuja)Don't let him scare you i know he's only shouting but once the baby is here you would be shocked with his loving reaction. Trust me.
NA BYFORCE? BE GRATEFUL FOR THE ONES U AV AND MK DUE WIV DEM....U GO FILLUP D WHOLE HOUSE WIV CHILDREN WEY HIM NOGO FIT TRAIN JST CUS U WANT A GURL CHILD?? USE UR BRAIN O. DONT SADDLE HIM RESPONSIBILITIES HE CANT HANDLE.
Should have adopted a girl after your second son.
Did u agree with him when he said just 2 kids....if dat was da initial plan den just chill aiit probably hez considering finance
What happens if u have another son? It is wise to let it be and not try to find out if he's serious or not. He may want a better upbringing for the kids, the smaller in number the better. And mind you, raising children is a huge investment. Be wise and be grateful u have sons.
Please dnt tried it;cuz u tried u re fire so please listing 2 him.
what if u have another boy? just be satisfied with what u have. some people don't have kids at all
i reckon you close your legs. Its appalling how insensitive women are. The man is fully aware of the financial implication of raising kids but you are just bothered about actualizing or realizing your selfish desire of having a girl.
Ironic how if the tables were turned and the man wanted a boy after having three girls he will be regarded as antediluvian.
Ooo Girl.. Naija Hard ooooo... 3 Done Do.. Your husband is probably looking at the financial implications in raise 4 children.. Try to Understand..
My Husband dis, my Husband dat....
Some men sef, is dis enough reason 2 end a marriage. *RUBBISH*
He wanted only 2 kids, did he bother 2 find out WHAT U WANT, OR IS IT JUST ABOUT HIM?
Dat is why some issues such as dese are better sorted out during courtship....
SOME MEN ARE JUST SO IMMATURE. NOT EVERY GUY THAT WEARS TROUSERS SHLD BE CALLED A MAN. Some are just kids.
My dear sit him down and talk some sense in2 him,let him reason with u. He has no right 2 threaten u with a divorce for dis reason.
Sister abeg don't try it cos if he is a man like me. U won't see me ever again
What happens if u get pregnant again, ur husband leaves u then ur baby turns out to be another boy? the fact that ur 3rd child came as a boy shows u shud be satisfied with what u have. What will a baby girl give u that ur precious boys can not? The cost of raising kids nowadays is another issue. Do u know if he is considering that also? Will u pay d cost of raising that fourth child from birth to adulthood? I don't think so. Think about other ppl and what u NEED other than yourself and what u WANT.
Adopt a child
What kind of person is this?
Do you work?
Are you the one paying the bills in the house?
You must have a girl, who will cater for the needs of all the children you will have in your queer desire to have a girl?! Re you this selfish? Not thinking of the financial implications in having more children than you can take care of?
I'm sure if your husband leave you and the children so you can fend for them and yourself for just a year, common sense will finally enter your head! You agreed to just two children, why re you imposing your need oover that of the family? Besides, you think that girl child you're desperate to have will be your friend? I laugh o.
Better be thankful for your boys, train them to value you and be responsible citizens.
I have just one boy, I recently had an accident and I tell you, he has been more than three children to me!
If you finally have that girl, you will spoil her life and God knows it will not augur well for either of you so deal with your boys, love them, and in the end, you'll gain three daughters.
My dear 3 children is very ok..Let's stop attaching so much emotions over noting. U can always go to orphanage,your family members,friends and treat their daughters treat them like u would have treated ur daughter. Make the best out of 3 u already have and to being desperate over this kind of ish...Brendan
Just respect ur husband's wish, a child is a child irrespective of gender,nd wat makes u tink if u re preggy again,d baby won't be a boy. Just take care of ur 3 boys nd njoy motherhood. Gone re dose days wen pple give birth to a football team,3 is ok for u
it is beta u stop or
Sebi surgery don make decisions like this easy?! ...well since u no do am b4 u born, u still fit go do sex change fr ur last baby now... ...next topic!
IMO: You better don't test him really......besides op you я aware that the male determines the sex of a child?! Meaning ųя husbands chromosomes seem far 2 strong 4 urs 2 make female baby so, keep ųя boys.....they'll marry & give ųя 3daughters as wives & possibly granddaughters. Don't do anything stupid that 'would' ruin ųя marriage!!!!
Helo lady try an be greatful to d ones God gave u whether boy or girl only children is children ,pls don't try and tempt ur man just obey him and train d ones u hv unless u might start crying had I knw at last .or beta stil if u insist u rather go and abduct a girl since u luv a girl child tanks and bye.
Please reason with your brain! How much money are you even bringing in to this household? It is not easy to caring for kids these days! Trying again and again is no assurance that u will have a girl. Please just stop!
Sis....it's a matter of usin condom or u pple shd go 4 fomily planing.shikenaaa.may b d man dey fear bcoz of iregula salary.so i no blame am...
Is three not enough??
Firstly,how financially buoyant are you guys?if you are buoyant,have a heart to heart talk with your man and make him see reasons with you......But pls,dont tk his threat with levity as you may regret it......
Firstly,how financially buoyant are you guys?if you are buoyant,have a heart to heart talk with your man and make him see reasons with you......But pls,dont tk his threat with levity as you may regret it......
Hmmmmm
Stop oo,datz my advice
Madam please let the matter be for now since its a sore subject. You can always adopt a baby girl later in life or God willing have urs then and ur boys will help look after her <3. There's nothing our God cannot do, he can even change ur Hussy's mind. Am talking out of experience. I have cousins who r 8 girls in their family, cos they were in search of a baby boy. You can't force it. Don't ruin your marriage dear cos of your desire. Just give it time. God's grace on ur decisions.
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I know ow u feel tho! But God determines d sex of d children we have! Wot if u get pregnant and d baby is a boy again andur husby walks away like he threatened!!! Buh if its a girl is wot suffering for cos dts wot u truly want... Buh will advice u to jst stop...and pray for ur children to grow and make u a proud mum...it is well wit u
Woman don't test him o!!! A child is a child whether male or female. God has given you capacity to love them equally and have them love you back equally and trust me with the right training male children could be just as homely as females if that's your issue. Don't test your man o... He's probably planned his finances around a family of four and extra person wouldn't be that much of a big deal but two!!!! Haba madam!!! Diapers, school fees, books, music and art lessons are very expensive lets not forget medical bills and holidays... Every responsible man wants to be able to cater to all the needs and wants of his family comfortably. Be a good wife to him and be a good mom to your kids and all will be well. God help you
You may dsobey him n end up with another son. Let d issue rest for nw, bt continually pray abt it. One day, God wl lead him to b d one to remind u of it, or wen d guys becom teenagers, u can try for another bby or even adopt. Respect God's constituted authority in him for now.
Listen to your husband. I have two sons & I would really love to have a daughter but my husband has said no, no. I have to respect his stand. But let me ask you this. Are you willing to sacrifice your marriage just to have a daughter? Think about it.
Simple, get a job then get pregnant
abegii forget that thing!!!!!what type of nonsense is that?????
Choi,is dis 1 ok?what has Linda got to do with this now
Nos it is the woman that is wanting. Please, listen to your hubby. what is the 4th happens to be a boy, will you ask for a 5th. The man knows what he is capable of supporting. I think u both never had a mutual agreement before marriage. Please woman, kindly adopt!!!
your problem, not mine winks
And what happenes if you have another boy? You try for a fifth child?? You better listen to your husband, there are people looking for kids with torchlight, you have three, Give thanks...
My dear, first of all you should be thankful to God Almighty you have someone to call husband and father to your children, secondly, you have three children and all are boys. Common wiffy, don't be an ungrateful being. What you're even asking for that wants to make you disobey your husband and also to break your home, God has already given you in lots some, all you need to do is to exercise patience for your boys to grow and before you know what's happening you adopt three daughters from your sons' wives. I will advice you not to provoke God and your husband rather appreciate what you have. Ayo lo pa yan!
If u want to keep ur marriage, do as he says. My parents marriage almost come to an end bcos of same problem.
I really do not know what to say but i think you should listen to him and then put it in prayer then who knows, God may change his mind and decide you should get preggy. Don't forget, it is better to obey and you being obedient may change his mind and also bring about your blessing having a baby girl. God said we should be submissive to our husbands so try it and let's see how it goes but do not forget to pray and obey your hubby ok! I hope this helps
Calm down 4 now pls!!!!!! Dis 3 are owk, if u really need a gurl,go and adopt
Money is very powerful oo, i wonder if BONARIO will even have time for himself, becos he's always on linda page commenting, anyway shaa, na linda money they work, 100k, e no easy o.
zee baby
Looool, this is a serious matter ooo
My dear just be happy with the boys u have although I feel ur pain.. but it's not about making babies, it's being able to provide for them and having a happy home , in this period of economic crisis..so just chill till he is ready or u can talk him to be,but if he isn't try not to make a big deal out of it...take k
Madam..kindly appreciate the ones you have...if a girl child was in God's plans for you...you wouldn't have had three boys...so let it go
LoIz ...............omugwo
Hmmmmm
@anonymous 12:17... na me oo. show ur face..
LoIz ...............omugwo
@anonymous 12:17... na me oo. show ur face..
I HOPE HE ALSO KNOWS DAT U DONT GET URSELF PREGNANT....
He had better take preventive measures too & ensure dat u adhere, its not enough 2 threaten u with a divorce.
D FACT DAT HE THREATENED U WITH LEAVING U IS SO DISGUSTING & ANNOYING.
May be if u had had three girls, he might hv been telling a different story..
Some men sef.....Mtchewwww.
Talk2him, if he still refuses. Obey him my dear!!!
AND WHO SAYS U CANNOT ADOPT A BABY GIRL IF U SO DESPERATELY NEED ONE?
MY ADVICE TO U WILL PROBABLY BE DAT U GO AND ADOPT A BABY GIRL AND SAVE A LYF OUT DERE WHO HAS NO ONE TO CALL MUMMY OR DADDY (BT U NEED TO DISCUSS WITH UR HUBBY FIRST BEFORE TAKING ANY ACTION) AND GOD WILL DEFINITELY REWARD YOU DAT I KNW
In 2014 this is what will come from your mouth? Have you not heard of birth control?
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How on earth can he mean it??? That threat is very telling! He'll LEAVE YOU for falling pregnant with HIS child. What nonsense. Why even entertain such idiotic threats?
IF he doesn't want a baby then tell him to either get the snip or take the male pill.
It takes two to make a baby.
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haha men! When they want boys and you give birht, they will try it again and again. Now you want a girl, he doesnt! AT the same time you have to understand! FINANCE! really important and I believe your husband knew why he only wanted two kids in the first place. SO you better listen to him or turn one of your sons into a girl
This one na real serious matter oo.
Hold up, stop! Did anybody read what she wrote at all. This is 2014. If her dumb husband isn't responsible enough to buy a condom then he should f**king shut up. So women have become gods. I'm just tired of this Nigerian mentality that a man can't be blamed for anything in his life. Does the sperm not come from him. Useless asshole. Linda publish this o
God bless you. One of the few sane people here
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My mate is one of 10 (TEN BROTHERS)!!!
His parents tried repeatedly for a girl
but after going for genetic tests were told that as a couple they could not procreate a female child.
It would only be possible if different egg/sperm was used.
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That's why your name sounds like shit
what would have been the case if she had three girls? i guess we would never know
All of you here talking are not sensible. If she had all 3 girls, the man would have insisted she try for a boy, but now the reverse is the case... and stop insulting the woman, she didn't say she wasn't working! aaaah! Men!!!
Imagine a woman with three boys complaining whay of Linda without hubby and a child? ??
Is it Linda that is mad, or the woman hell bent on overpopulating Nigeria?
hmmm, Adopt one
Have patience for now.
If it had been the other way around, am sure he'll desperately want a son. Dunno why some african men feel their wives have no say. In the end, ur sons get married n move on. Only a daughther bothers to look bk and tk care of her parents. True story!
Ungrateful woman. People are begging God for just one child and u r being ungrateful and looking for a dota. What makes u think u will have a girl eventually if u try one more time. Don't try God. In all situation give thanks and be grateful lady. I rest my case.
I can sympathize with you cos i'm almost in the same shoes with you, though slightly diff cos i'm not desperate for a daughter.I ve had 3 sons in 5 yrs and i really wanted a girl.But i thank God for the ARMY GENERALS he has given me and have decided to adopt a daughter later on in life.
Accept your fate and thank God cos there are women looking to God for just one child, any sex at all.
Why not try adoption, there are tons of innocent kids out there who needs the love of parents!
Your husband said he will walk away if you get pregnant again. OK, as your husband asked you how many kids he wants or he's just been selfish. There a thing called dialogue. Sit your husband down and ask him questions why hes harsh on having more kids. State your own reasons why you want a daughter or another child. Heart to heart talk lies the solution... Good will be your strength...
This is very interesting! I bet you if it was the other way around, the man will make her have more babies till a boy comes!!! I feel for you! Daughters are wonderful gifts!!!
Lmao but why!!!.... don't worry your sons will give you daughters. this reminds me of my aunt sha. she was on this "have a boy by fire" thing until she had 6 girls!!! then she had the last baby which was now a boy. so she has 7kids, and sad thing is she died 2yrs ago. The husband wasn't a supportive one until she died sef.... my advice to you... Be thankful for what u have and adopt if u want.
havn known d answer, most pple ask some disguising question.
Ure the bigger STUPID he is her husband
IF U WANT A DAUGHTER PRAY FOR D ECONOMY TO CHANGE OR FINE HE GOOD JOB WITH GOOD SALARY
Don't worry, you can have d 4th child at the expense of your marriage. Whichever one you prefer. If d story is d other way round women will nag......what else do you want?!
Lmao, someone said "if he doesnt want more children he shud stop sleeping with her" Na dis kain ppl dey cause men to dey comot house cheat, olodo ni! Madam, use ur head, stick to your original plan, Give thanks to God. Or have your girl(maybe) and marry her to ursef!
Nuff said.
U re a foolish woman to want more..
You are a very silly and selfish woman! How easy is it to raise so many kids. Instead of thanking God for the ones he has blessed you with and thinking about how to give them the best. Nonsense!!!
Pls remind ur hubby that HE is responsible for the gender of ur children. If he wants a boy then HE should provide male sperm abi?
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I think you're obsession with having a daughter is a problem, but also your husbands demands are strange, so talk to him and if he remains strong headed like most naija men make a decision if you badly want a daughter or you want to remain married
Love from Miami
Imagine that the 4th pregnancy is quadruplet! and all boys! hehehehe
You're very stupid.....pls I dnt wanna go to jail #new pass bill by badluck jonathan hahaahhaha lol
I met a woman with with twin boys.She already had 3 boys so five boys in all. When she had just the 3 boys, she was looking for a girl and her mum told her she should try once more for a girl. Alas, she conceived twin boys. Abeg, the three boys are ok. Your husband's temper must have been tried with the third child and you are still considering a 4th one.I understand it can be really difficult for you, but let understanding with your husband come first.
LMAO. Sign of miscarriage. LIBers are funny.
The Q is for intelligent people not morons. I'm sure u were dozing while reading the post or u are so dump to understand the Q.
Olodo ma ni eleyi o, o gbon rara......... U tink say na beans to cater for dose kids bah, u wan try a man's patience wen he is not goodluck? Issorai try ur luck and see wat happens #yinmu
You guys saying she should adopt are really funny o. Is it the man dt is carrying the pregnancy? Its the extra mouth to feed dt he doesn't want so if she adopts a girl won't that still be the same thing?
after all as a nigerian woman u have nothing to put on the table, y would u not want another child. idiot take a seat
Be joyful and thankful for what God has given you, some have none. I gat two boys and am expecting my last and third son. Can't wait to have him. Am so bless.
I had to address this foolish comment made by a retarded miscreant. You are an idiot for this nonsense comment. It just goes to show that you are the true definition of illiteracy. Your brains are in the sewers.
Wheew! I had to get it all out. On a lighter note, sexual encounters dosen't necessarily have to lead to pregnancy(ies). Moreso if the woman understands her ovulation period and menstrual cycle , of which the poster clearly does...heck she 'tricked' him into having the 3rd baby. So anon 11:14, my 2 cents, go back to nusery 1.
Godwin, you fall my hand sha. Please refer to the reply I gave anon 11:14. I'm done typing. Its her body so she wields the power.
You are the devil himself.
You are a home wrecker. I wouldn't pray my enemies get married to someone like you. #youareevil
You b winch!
Go back to nusery 1.
R u serz?
Screw you!
Ode!
Go back to your biology textbook (if you ever had one)
I pray something good happens to you guys this month. IJN.
I for say make d poster park well but she nor get motor
Can I ask a question? Am a guy by the way. If a man really feels he is done with kids why not get a vasectomy?
How can you blame your wife for taking in when you are the oga at the top.
On a lighter note, we are all boys because my mother kept looking, she finally gave up
low and behold she now has a grand daughter that even looks like her.
Sometimes the universe just works itself out
My dear. Adopt a daughter na. Na same omugo and wedding dancing go happen
Adopt. Simple.
My dear. Adopt a daughter na. Na same omugo and wedding dancing go happen
Now I understand how foolish u r, so because his husband is having sex with her she should allow her self to get pregnant always..ur comment is so daft.
Thank God for your three blessings and be satisfied. If you cannot raise and fully provide four children by yourself, don't make a stupid mistake. What happens if you have another boy? Then you'd have four boys and no husband.
He wanted two children for a reason...maybe because of finances? I find it selfish to take that from him, esp since it's a 50/50 chance of having another boy.
Olodo oshi. is that what we are talking about. would you rather the man be having extra marital affairs
On point
@jennifer Alozie, so sorry to hear of comment your husband made. It's quite unfortunate and makes me wonder what type of man he is. Did you marry him in the village? God help you in that marriage.
Exactly
It happened to my Mum as well. She said my dad wanted just 3kids, she at the end had 6children despite all threats from my dad. They live happily and thankful for the 6 (3boys 3girls)
Exactly. ...what if its anoda boy. ...really...nd d bible says a wife shld be submissive...so submit nd keep ur womb shut!
Wat do u mean by dat !! Doesnt she av a right to d no of kids she wnts...
respect ur husbant n take care of ur son
u mite end up with another boy
Wicked woman i don't have kids yet but i know what school fees costs and am sure your boys attend good expensive schools... boy or girl pikin na pikin selfish woman na dis kain go wan go summer siddon for business class. Ozwo better lock up.
relax! Boys are a blessing too. Don't get pregnant - it will be alot on him to bear don't be selfish (from a fellow female)
i can't really believe that i am with my Ex-Husband back after when he broke up with me with 4 kids i thank Dr Atakpo of (dratakpospelltemple@gmail.com) for helping me getting back my man back, My Name is Mrs Rhona Cole i am from England and my man name is Mr Alan Cole, my happiness turn to bitterness,my joy turn to sorrow,my love turn to hate when my husband broke up with me last week,i was so frustrated and i could not know what next to do again, i was so unthinkable and i could not concentrate any more, i love my husband so much but he was cheating on me with another woman and this makes him broke up with me so that he can be able to get marry to the other lady and this lady i think cast a spell on my husband to make him hate me and my kids and this was so critical and uncalled-for,I cry all day and night for God to send me a helped to get back my man until i went to Westmoreland to see a friend and who was having he same problem with me but she latter got her Husband back and i asked her how she was able to get her husband back and she told me that their was a powerful spell caster in Africa name DR ATAKPO that he help with love spell in getting back lost lover's back and i decided to contacted the same Dr Atakpo and he told me what is needed to be done for me to have my man back and i did it although i doubted it but i did it and the Dr told me that i will get the result after 24hours, and he told me that my husband was going to call me by 9pm in my time and i still doubted his word, to my surprise my husband really called me and told me that he miss me so much Oh My God i was so happy, and today i am happily with my man again and we are joyfully living together as one good family and i thank the powerful spell caster Dr Atakpo of dratakpospelltemple@gmail.com, he is so powerful and i decided to share my story on the internet that good spell casters still exist and Dr Atakpo is one of the good spell caster who i will always pray to live long to help his children in the time of trouble, if you are there and your lover is turning you down, or you have your husband moved to another woman, do not cry anymore contact the powerful spell caster Dr Atakpo on his email: dratakpospelltemple@gmail.com and he will answer you, i am a living testimony and i will continue to testify of his goodness in my family,he turn my family to paradise and today we are all happy together Dr Atakpo i say thank you in one million times thanks Dr.
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