I just have a simple question to ask your readers, Linda. Would any of you ladies marry a man who has four kids by three different women but has never been married? Why and why not? Please awaiting your answers. A man like that just asked me to marry him
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1 – 200 of 235 Newer› Newest»I wont marry him...shows u the kind of man that he is. he is likely to be unfaithful in a marriage..these are some of the signs people see and ignore and go into a marriage only to be basking in bitterness, misery and loneliness in the name of love. tell him to go in a different direction. someone out there would be willing to take him in just not u
Ask Funke Akindele, she's the best person to answer this question. No pun intended..
lets ask Annie Idibia...
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lets ask Annie Idibia...
Ladies, beware of the owner of this bb pin 267D2992. He is into money making rituals... He gave me a ride at isolo and drugged me. I used my last strength to scream for help when he stopped at a petrol station to buy fuel.. He pushed me out of the car and sped off. Ladies, beware. His name is Godspower and he claims to be from Imo State.
Likely from a yoruba. Yoruba's should hv a better answer.#Razzthings#
Hell No! Wats d assurance i wont end up being anoda BABY MAMA?
Am not Annie Macaulay i cant Marry him biko.......................................
Hmmmmnnnn! This one hard o! Ask Annie Idibia, she's experienced.
Hell No! Wats the assurance i wont end up being anoda BABY MAMA?
Y not, its nt a new tin, ntn we haven't see, annie married 2face sm mnths ago..n she's happy, I will o, It jus depend on how committed I m in d relshp..its no biggie
If d woman is alive dont go but if she has gone 6ft,u can go nd take over.
Its about personal choice,personal I wouldn't n I'm saying dt becos I'm not in ur shoe bt if u can pull throw it n u luv d man very much n he wouldn't let dt repeat itself den I think u can marry him. N/B your children won't b his first( you know wat dt means). Annie Macauley wud hv a beta advice for u
Lady, do you know TuFace Idibia? Do you know Annie Idibia? If you know them and their story then you have the answer to your question.
1st 2 comment money or no money,I'll nt do it...I won no where problems go cm 4rm abeg,3 women=3 troubles.abeg I nor fit
Go and ask Annie marcauley.
My dear unless he's a music star.lolz
If Annie can,why not? atleast she's enjoying it now.
~BONARIO~says so via NOKIA3310
mtcheeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeew.. na my own husband God go giv me dat my daily prayer.. linda start prayin d same
No I wouldn't. Hour can't be a faithful husband.
Who would?
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Ask him why he has all these children from different women, and doesn't want to marry any of them? Ask him face-to-face, and see if u can get an honest answer from him. Seems fishy. If he cannot answer your question satisfactorily, please take a walk.. It's never that serious..
Oge (OMA)
You want to join d list? Soon u will have ur own child for him. Still counting.......
Hehehehehe when I never mad! Even me wey be guy no go marry dat kin man if I were a woman!! I don't even wana knw d reasons as to why or hw he got himself in such a situation! Make immm dey carry dey go!
Shake ur head to the left and now to the right....repeat the next time he asks
Annie idibia shld be able to shed more light on dis ur question oh
Madam! Annie story pass your own jooor....
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No thank you. There will be too much wahala in future, and he will still be sleeping with at least one of them when she come's to "discuss" baby matters..
Pls o run!
Pero is that u? Tuface ask for ur hand in marriage? Run ooo, Animalcalling don collect am already o.
Nne pls send a personal msg to Annie Idibia. That's ur divine choice helper
find those other women and get their stories...by the time u speak with all 3 of them, you can figure homie out
If u love him so much den u nid 2 no y his neva bin married 2 any of his baby mama,if d excuse is good enof n u r convinced u go ahead n marry him.
if u love the guy why not, give it a shot, but no guarantee oh.
Why are you asking for people's opinion ?thinking................ Oh now I get becos you know in the depth of your heart that something is fundamentally wrong with your man! So my dear advise yourself
Y not.annie sha marry 2face...lol
Men are not finished na. I wouldnt want to. 3 kids by 3 different women? whats his excuse? Ha!
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He might be a changed man.
use 2face as an example, annie married him so u csn marry ur if u love him.. but is the guy a celebrity...lol
Hell NO!!!!!!!!!!!
WWAD... What Would Annie Do? Buhahahahaha
hmmmm
I can't marry him, because more children might still come from other women. And he would be distracted by too much responsibilities.
Hiss, Do u think we have NOTHING better to do that comment on rubbish ...NEXT !!!
Linda Linda u self (eyes rolling ***)
1. It depends if age is no longer on ur side..... den u can opt for him.
But as for me (CAPITAL NO)....
You for try ask Mrs Idibia ohhh.....
I can't o cos his children will always come fisrt n his not d committed type! But ur case might be different sha. But will I? Hell no!
He'lld probably impregnate u too and u'lld join d numbers...u betr run for ur life... Except u ar d type who also enjoys drama.. Cos ur life will be full of drama trust me...
U must be a fool of d 21st century for even asking a foolish questn, nnywayz u fit marry afterall annie wed 2baba so u won't be d 1st *hiss*
Run! Run! Run...
U r going to be the fourth baby mama though with a certificate. Abeg na hermaphrodite u wan born for am? I am sure he has male/female kids already. His baggage is heavy. Only you can tell if you hv space for the baggage. Bt as for me and my closet, we shall flee.
I will if he has most of the qualities I want in my husband. And by the way, I love children.
NOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO. He will never have good economy because of child support.
Is the man Jide Obanikoro by any chance?? Don't marry him o. He will eventually dump u and your kids will soo suffer.
Is this Annie's sub?
Annie macaulay did it. so dont be scared. chungchi
dont
Hmmm! dont know what to advice.Anie Macauley Indibia should know better...
No because I don't want baby mama drama . But he may be a different man now and those women obviously didn't have what he saw in you to make him ask you to be his wife . Your obviously special in his eyes
Oh...Well,if u can date him,then u can marry him.
Atleast annie married 6baba. So u sef fit marry this 4baba. Me I no fit sha.
Lol..ask annie-badoo-
SHE SHOULD ASK 2BABA.LOL
Why do i have a feeling that this is Linda's story under the guise of 'LIB Reader'??? Hmmm Linda!!! You wan marry Alhaji abi?
Anyways, i dont believe that this is the best platform to get the much needed advice ye seek...How will you choose between about 200 comments/opinions expected on here? I have my advice but i'll rather you talk to close friends and family instead. Goodluck
@willadebo
If you ask me i would say nothing can make me marry such a man..... mehn he's so irresponsible. lipssealed
U mean 4kids? I will marry him if he is loaded but will always hv in mind dat his first to fourth luv is out there.
If you ask me i would say nothing can make me marry such a man..... mehn he's so irresponsible. lipssealed
Ask Annie Idibia, #straightFace. Since u ve been single,Has anyone asked u weda u kip 4 sale,or u re 4 sale? #raised Eyebrow# count ur teeth wit ur Tongue!
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No, cos history has a funny way of repeating itself.
My dear, it's going to be a complicated life for you. Men are not worth it.
This question should be answered by Annie Idibia. MtchewwwW
Is he a billionaire? If yes! Then why not?
If you ask me i would say nothing can make me marry such a man..... mehn he's so irresponsible. lipssealed
My answer to Why not..
1.Y didn't he marry any of the 3?
2. What transpired b/w him and his Baby Mamas..
3. Who says ur not the next baby Mama?
4. Y does he want to marry u?
Most Men(not all) who already have kids do not really value a spouse. I think u need to be sure about it.. Is he looking 4 a caretaker..? What does he want Linda abeg post my comment
At your own risk, proceed with the wedding. This man, you said, has 4kids from 3different women, how are you sure he is not about to add you to his growing list of conquest? How are you sure he doesn't have other kids out there that are yet to surface?Are you ready to be a step mom? U better borrow yourself brain&start asking yourself good questions.....
Marry him na...hope he's rich n famous like Tuface
nope......are u okay? start praying for your own man
I am married to one who has two kids with two different women in his younger days. He is mature now, in his forties and I in my thirties, we got married two years ago. It worried me a lot at first, I almost pulled out but i had to take time to study him and found out he is a good man, dependable, God fearing, works his ass out for our comfort and 90% of his income is spent on the family. Doesn't smoke, drink nor keep late nights and very dependable (which was actually what i needed in life, having had a dad who wasn't all that there for us). Try and study your man, he is just like any other guy who has dated girls but his case is just different because for some reasons, his girlfriends chose to keep their pregnancies. Lots of guys out there have procured several abortions for lots of women before getting married. My case is ok cos only one of the kids live with him, the other has been with her mum from birth, although her dad takes care of her needs, which i encourage him to do more. And both women have gone their ways for years and already married before i met my husband. Its a huge sacrifice especially when all the kids live with their father. But all the same be wise in your decision, the man's personality and family matters a lot in this case. Also are the women responsibly married or still single? If you decide to marry him, make plans for your kids while you support him in building your family. Love his kids and don't on any account try to harm any of those kids or sow a seed of discord cos at the end of the day, they will be your kids' siblings and what you sow is what you will reap. Good luck!
Taaaaa sharap there !!!!!, ar u a learner! Isn't it obvious !!!!!!
ask annie idibia she's d perfect person to get advice from
Ask 2face nd Annie, lol
The name Tu-face comes to mind.
Ask Annie Idibia!
Ask Animal Calling.
No I can't but some women can...Like anny married 2face but to me I can't oh..coz wen he marries u,am 1000% sure dat anoda woman or women would ve babies for him...Soh tink twice
Sister wat do u mean by 'a man like that'?. R u perfect? R u even a virgin? Abeg if u luv d guy just go for it bc dats all dat matters. See eh, there r lots of things dat has happened in our lives dat we don't even hv explanations 4. Believe it.d fact he has those kids by those women doesn't mean he's a bad guy.
Nop I can't coz I won't ve peace of mind tinking dat oda women would still ve children for him
God forbid.....for wat na
dat one naa tubaba in the making. i cant shout mbanu i no fit
Anne idibia 2face did it, no b new tin
Avoid a man with a bunch of kids from different women! He didn't marry them when he got them pregnant, why do you think he'll treat you differently?
Y not? Jus ask God to gv u de kind of hrt annie macaulay has dats al. #bitessugarcane
Ask annie idibia
Annie Idibia >>> Oya, answer this question!!! You are in a better position to comment.....
A man with 4 kids from different woman n I'd still single? My dear better run for ur life! Such a man is not responsible at all. How would u enjoy ur marriage when there are kids scattered all over d place from different women? D marriage just won't work.
Annie Idibia >>> Oya, answer this question!!! You are in a better position to comment.....
You r nearly on the verge of being the fourth woman to give him a child or children. But ur case will be a little different - he married u but will surely dump u. The truth is that any food that cannot be cooked in 3days, there is a likelihood that same food may also not be cooked in 30 or 300 days. Watchout and run 4 ur dignity.
Ehn?? 4 kids from 3 women?Dem don swear for you? That man has serious issues o,marriage is not by force abeg
Well we all make mistakes. Every child is a blessing fron God but if he's someone that's not acknowledged his mistakes....then marrying him would be a disaster. Infact marrying him, u'd need wisdom cos the children will have different doctrines n upbringings cos they are from different women. I reject such man from crossing my path. Amen
--Teeteelahyo--
RUN THE OTHER WAY!!! Such a man has alrady shown the kind of person he is. He is not someone you marry! Besides that, you will always have to deal with 3 baby mamas and 4 children that are not your own. Abeg, don't do that toyourself, there are many reliable men out there, go and find one!
Why not....
*2face tins*yes I wil depending on d circumstance dat surrounds deir birth,if he was jus bin a cassanova hell no,buh on a second tot it cld b u 2
Ma dear u wil be d fourth womam in his life nd another after u so I guess u try someone else
Hell no!
Can you spell deadbeat loser!
Run! And run fast!
I bet you are soon gonna be baby mama number 4 cos I'm sure he also used the 'marry me' line on the other women. Shine ya eyes very well o
Haba y not...go ahead n marry him bt just ensure ur name is Annie Macaulay n d guy is Tuface...ode
sure why not if he treats me right and he has a bright future (financially capable).
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No matter what all the responders say. They would if he had Dangote type kishi
My Dear, just ask Annie Marculey Idibia!
Shebi annie idibia do am, and she say she luv 2baba, if u love d man y not na?!
Linda, pls check d date on dis email....
I bet it was sent 2 u last year or so....
I bliv dis is ANNIE IDIBIA....
How come u r just publishing dis mail now dat she has married d guy wif 4 kids??
Linda, pls b proffessional...
Stop slacking honey...
*rme*
Billie jean
OF COURSE!ANNIE IDIBIA DID IT!
Ask Annie idibia
when i'm not funke akindele
I thought Ann "Macaulay"2face Idibia has already answered this question. Sweetie, the truth is that you have the power to choose who to marry. Do what works for you.
Hmmm
Congrats on ur proposal from the father of many nations!#rme#
It's a honour' for you to be the first woman he wants to commit to,but believe me the battle is not going to be easy amongst yall(babymamas,u and three kids)!
But if u are an established troublemaker or diplomat,carry on else BACK OFF!such a man will still have more kids outside wedlock.
Without thinking it,I will not. Too much bagages! Step children aint easy,d guy too is not stabilised. My answer is no no! Are u unsatisfied wt ur job... Add me 26882dc2 let's chat
Sweetie I will not, My ex fiance has 4kids by two women @ first I thought I would cope but my sister wit time I discovered I can't, Reason num1: those women will b part of his life forever, Reason num2; they are his first priority, Reason num3; he can easily cheat wit dem anytime especially when they re unmarried, Reason num4; be ready to listen to his complains abt d welfare of his kids.....My dear its not a good experience nd less I forgot in my own experience the kids are white o nd dey live abroad but I couldn't cope. So pls think twice.
Is he as rich or better still richer than 2face??? How long hav u been dating him?? Does he love u as 2face loves Annie?? I kip mentionin 2face cos hez d only person I know dat survived dat... One more question for u,, "Sho lee bi Annie"?? I pity u... Infact,,u bera run o...
MYRAYA
Baby Mama number 5 loading!!!.....very soon.
Hmmmmm.....think am well o. As for me,its a no.
He is irresponsible sleeping around without protection!
Ask annie idibia
U must be stupid for dat ?,
Haba! Is evry man tuface!
Beta run away from such a man!
Use ur head!
Do you know one Annie Marcauley Idibia ? She will help provide answers to your questions but if you ask me, stay away from such men. There is more to life than money but ojukokoro no dey let you ladies learn
I'm eagerly awaiting d answers cos I'm in d same situation, only dat dis guy has 2 kids from d same woman
Eg tuface? Won't u?
~D great anonymous!
Ask Annie Idibia
NooooOOOoooo!!!!. 1) four kids???. Dude likes to sleep around. And without condom too. 2) I want peace of mind for my children when I die, and it definitely won't happen with this man.
3).The man is just irresponsible. Four kidssss? And he couldn't marry any of them?. He now wants fresh punani abi?. Biko, leave already. Leave him for more desperate women if u want to stay alive for ur mother.he could go ahead and marry them traditionally sef, after wedding u. Its allowed.
Linda seriously,I met a man just lyk dat...Supposed to be a pastor.Pastor wasiu amao...Same picture.kept talking about marriage,with 3 kids from 3 different women.pls my sister,run.
Don't entangle urself in such rubbish.
You deserve better
Annie Macaulay.
Its gona b difficult 3 women 2 contend wif is no joke,is a no 4 me pls.
I pity you. What is the guarantee that your marriage will last? It shows the guy is wayward and may be habouring some stds since he no dey use protection. In future, you will be battling with step kids.
Dearie, ask Annie Idibia,she'll be in the perfect position to advise u!!! Cos if u ask me, I'll say forget it. Cos he wud have promised those other women marriage too!...
Depends on what your answer is to "will he do it again?"
You should ask Annie Idibia. She just did that. so you see, its do-able. You can go ahead and say " I Do". Na you go wear the shoe.
NO! Reasons being:I intend to have 3 kids,and it's not even up 4 debate,I can't suffer for his refusal to use a condom.He has 4 already.Dat makes it 7 except he's a millionaire or something,how will he take care of the WHOLE family in this harsh economy??
My dear ask Annie macaulay i.e if she's ur role model,as 4 me o,he's being a serial father n lover is scary,I might be wrong tho buh U̶̲̥̅̊ are d one in a relationship wif dis guy,U̶̲̥̅̊ know him berra,so if U̶̲̥̅̊ luv him enof 2 ova luk his weaknesses,who re we 2 judge??jayboo!
Ask Annie Macaulay...... Just remembered she was one of the three women. Listen girl, stay away from men with too much 'issues/baggage'
ANNE MACAULAY DID IT AND SHE IS HAPPY ISNT SHE?
anne macauley did it and she is happy isn't she?
ANNE MACAULAY DID IT AND SHE IS HAPPY ISNT SHE?
why did u date him at first? or u didn't know? u r here asking questions when you've already made up your mind on what to do. mscheew
Yes I'll marry him keeping in mind that I'm going to give him his 4th child and another diff woman will give him 5th child. Like that like that
WHEN A PERSON SHOW YOU WHO THEY ARE, BELIEVE THEM THE FIRST TIME! HE HAS A TRACK RECORD THAT SPEAKS FOR ITSELF, NUMBERS DON'T LIE :)
I usually don't reply posts on this blog, but this your question just agitated me. Ask yourself if the tables were turned and you are the man, would you marry a lady who has four different kids for three different men? Sometimes the true answer to what you seek are glaring right in front of you, yet you'll still fall into the ditch. Be wise and dare not make that avoidable mistake. Peace
hmnn....no try am!!!dat one na if u go hear sha.
Ask annie idibia she should know
"Is glaring" typos
hmnnn....no try am!! Dat one na if u go hear sha!.
If you don't marry him who will?
Run 4 ur life dear,dnt you tink d tin dat keep chasing the other ladies will soon caught up with you wen you eventually G̲̣̣̣̥ε̲̣̣̣̥†̥̣̣̣̇̇̇ married †o him?
I won't!! Evrybody is nt as lucky as Annie Idibia n am sure ur using dat 2 giv urself hope..he wil hav more!
Jamb question with many confusing identical answers....lol
It is not encouraging, unless you are willing to share his love with his kids and you won't get jealous in the future. Secondly he is just looking for someone to take care of his kids.
What do you have that the others don,t.The bible says Ethiopians cannot change their colour.You will become statistics if you marry him.
Sorry Dear,I'm in no position to respond buh google ds man wife,AIBIDI she fit talk small
He proposed?So fucking what!Don't u think he asked d other women to marry him too?My advice:dearie,run for ur dear life and dont leave ur shoes behind except u wanna be d 4th woman with thd 5th child.
He's a predator and u're just another prey!Run and dont look back wyl u still can.There r berra men out der.Dis one no b am at all!
Ask 2face wife annie,,
u will know better
Never!!! 3 kids 4rm 3 women? There's a likelihood dat i myt end up d 4th,it shws irresponsibity on d part of d man,2 me,d man is a flirt nd a player,notin less.
Never, Who says he wnt leave ♍ε too after having a child for him n who wants †☺ face his Chidren Aπϑ their mother's palaver
T̶̲̥̅Ñ’e̶̲̥̅̊ guy is sure a polygamist Aπϑ dt is nt for ♍ε never
Well darling, I don't have the answer but I know who does....Annie Idibia.
Actually it depend on d condition in which d previous marriage ended up.since it not a sin i tink i can,specially if d dude gada *wink*
It is not encouraging. Don't accept his proposal. Are you ready to deal with his baby mamas? Are u willing to share his love with his kids? I am talking with experience. Runnnnnnnnnn. He is looking for someone to take care of his kids.
Somebody married Tuface. Didn't they? Please this is not even a question. If you can lock him down, it's your life. Enjoy it or not.
He obviously not into protection...hope he doesnt bring any disease home! Is he tubaba? Jst askin o. First to comment!
My answer is a big NO.be wise and see beyond
if u love him go ahead, but be ready to face the music
no ...find someone else
U can do it if u love him n sins annie macaulay can do it,sure u can.but u for ask annie oh..she is sure enjoyin her marraige sha.but m,I CAN'T.u wud av to share him for d rest of ur Life.if u can,carry go..leggo
The guy appears 2b a serial heart breaker. 4 children from 3 different women appears to be a worse record than our african king/queen star (u no wat i mean?). Well u may have 2 count your teeth with your tongue, else, sooner or later you would be biting your tongue with your teeth.
Pls direct dat question to ann idibia
Mrs Idibia is dat u?
If he now has a closer relationship with God, after all the missteps, i'll say give it a chance. But if he is still in the world & doesnt know better now than he did then, i'll say jaaaaa for your life!
HELL NO!
ANNIE IDIBIA IS NOT COMPLAINING SO WHY NOT
You will always come in 4th place. You will forever deal with drama from the diff women and their families. You will forever be praying against attacks. The children will despise you and fight with your kids. Do you love him that much...what were the circumstances of his breaking up with three women who have kids for him?... you have to go into this with your eyes very wide open enough not just to seebut realise the amount of bbaggage you are about to carry. Afterall ask yourself will he marry u if you have 3 kids from 3different men??
Heheheheh chineke moooo biko which one is animal calling* libs una no go kill me wit laf
The question is direct, but answering such a question with a direct answer is relative. The man, clearly comes with excess baggage. As a woman, you have to know, and be certain of the kind of relationship that exists with he three women, i.e. why is he not married to at least one of them, what roles the women play, etc.
I do not know the tentacles hanging around the situation, but to give you a direct answer, I will not. Why? A man with kids with one woman poses a complicated situation not to talk to four kids with three women. Wow! I smell drama all around you...bad bad drama!
Lmfao!
Had a very good laugh
Annie ti ri ogo ooooooooooooooo.lmao
Idiot is Annie yoruba
This question is very stupid abeg mtcheeeew, so you dont know he has 4 children before you agreed to date him & jump into his bed ? Use your brain !!
Please beware....... Don't be another baby mama. It is well
DR. FIBROID
will he marry me if i had 3 kids for another man?
will he marry me if i had 3 kids for another man?
If he didn't marry the others what makes u special? If u are not 40yrs pls look for another man.
Ask your mother what she thinks...
Ure such a mad fellow!
Retard oshi..
He must be Joseph oduah... He has 3 kids from 3 women and is seriously looking for a fourth mugu lol
Chai Annie has suffered. Billie goat you are such an idiot. Linda talk true, na you be this?
Ah rituals? Why you just collect BBM PIN like that? Ewu.
hell No!
Must u ask us?pls use yur stones 2 break ya AKI,,,u gana end up thrown like a piece of pomo ,,no go fink,,,nd linda way post ma comment Oº°˚˚°Âº
U better run cos if u don't,ur future is at stake.
U better run 4 ur life cos if u don't ur future is at stake.
Looool lobatan
For you to have to ask this question definitely shouts that you are not sure and if there is one thing about marriage I know, it is that you should absolutely be 100% sure before making that commitment. I would suggest you hit your breaks and think long and hard about it because you don't want to live a life of regret. As for me my answer is no I know the type of woman I am and I could never live with that regardless of the love. Someone else out there will love me.
Linda no BIG DEAL.Whitney Houston married Bobby Brown. Never mind the drama that followed them. They were in love for most part of it until the PAPS separated them by ALL means.Kayode
The fact that this lady is asking this question means she already knows the answer. is it LIB readers that will tell you who to marry or what to base your decision on?
Ekene kwaam gi
Looool what???
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