People who know me very well will tell you that if there's anything that I'm very good at it's ignoring people/things. My mum will tell you that I can ignore someone so bad that they would start to doubt their own existence. She used to slap me around a lot just to get my attention when I was much younger. Half the time, she still didn't get it. I was that bad..:-)
Growing up I kept to myself a lot. I was introverted. Didn't socialize much and didn't have that many friends. I'm a totally different person now. You know what they say about age and maturity. I have friends now and I socialize more now. With the kind of job I have, I can't afford not to...:-). Please continue...
I talked about how good I was at ignoring people (I'm not so good at it it anymore) because a lot of things have been written about me that I have ignored...and people have wondered why I don't address these things on my blog. What's the point, really? How many are you going to respond to? It's never going to stop as long as I remain a blogger and I plan to be around for a very long time, so the sooner I accept that and focus on the important stuff, the better for me. Also, people will believe what they want to believe regardless of what you say...but there are those who keep an open mind and will only reach their own conclusions after hearing your own side...but then again, how many people are you going to explain to? Do you even owe anyone any explanations? At the end of the day, I know who I am and I love who I am so it doesn't really matter what a lot of people think...
But for some reason, I kinda feel like I owe you guys - LIB readers - an explanation. You guys have changed my life in ways that I can not even begin to tell you. Just four years ago, in 2009, while a CEO of a modeling and events company, I went to the ATM to withdraw money from my account. I checked my balance and it was N800. I wanted to withdraw N500 but the minimum balance you can leave in your account then (don't know if it's same now) was N500, so the ATM didn't give me the N500 I desperately needed. I tried to withdraw N300, but found out the minimum one can withdraw from an ATM is N500. I went home feeling down, wondering when my life would turn around.
It has! Just four years later, I am a self-made millionaire. Sometimes I have to pinch myself to believe this is really my life and I thank you guys from the bottom of my heart for changing my life. Whether you like me or not...as long as you've opened this page...I say thank you...because without you guys, the brands who pay me a lot of money to get advert space on my blog won't do so. Thanks LIBers!!!
Now to the point of my letter. Just to clarify some things you probably have read about me:
*I don't belong to the illuminati...I'm not even sure I believe in its existence.
*I'm not a fraudster, wouldn't know how to defraud someone even if I tried.
*I'm not a blackmailer, never blackmailed anyone in my life, never will! I don't have the liver to do such, plus I was raised better than that. Don't know how anyone can stoop that low..
*I don't collect money from people to take down stories from my blog...that's like using my own hand to ruin myself. People can use it against you later, with evidence sef. Seriously, I would be foolish to do that. Any blogger would be foolish to do that. Don't do it! You either take down the story out of compassion or you don't!
*I've never dated Jim Iyke...I've only ever met him once in my life.
*I've never dated Ikechukwu the rapper, only met him a few times at events.
*I'm not dating any celebrity, don't plan to.
*I'm not a husband snatcher. I'd sooner cut my head off before I date a married man. The married man is not yet born.
*I'm not a runs girl...Jeez! Puke! Lol. That's beneath me. I've been working hard since I was 17 and only made it after I turned 30. I'm proudly self made...:-)
I don't know what else you've heard...but it's most likely not true. The only thing you can believe a little if you hear is that I'm rude. I'm not a rude person, most people will tell that I'm nice...but I can be rude. I have been rude. It depends on how you approach me. I'm great to most people I meet but a few people have seen the other side of me. Thing is; a lot of people want this and that from me. My phone never stops ringing with people making all kinds of requests...but I can't give everyone what they want. Sometimes I have to tell people off. Not verbally, it's mostly just ignoring people.
The one thing you can believe a lot about me is that I'm a gossip! Duh, I do that for a living...lol
Anyway, more stuff will be written about me and I'm cool with it. I write about people so it's only fair that others write about me. You know what they say; you get what you give! I know that. I understand it and I accept it. And I don't plan to respond to most of the talk...sometimes I will but most of the time I won't. You choose what you want to believe and what you don't. And those who are worried about my reputation, don't be! You see, when God stands by you, no one can bring you down. Plus none of the people writing are holier. Besides, it comes with being on top. So many people will try to bring you down, but you never ever give them the chance. They can try, just don't ever let them win.
The thing is, I plan to be around for a long time. I'm only 32 and I'm just starting. Blogging is just a starting point for me. I'm planning to build my own studio here in Lagos, produce TV shows and be a media mogul. That's my dream and I'm already on that path. I'm looking forward to my future!
Also I'm starting a youth empowerment program where I will not only guide and mentor young girls, but also help finance their small scale businesses. That starts in August. It's my way of giving back.
Having said all that let me give advice to all the young people reading this:
1. What people think about you is not important...because they will have an opinion and there's nothing you can do about it. But remember, it's what you think about yourself that matters the most. Don't ever let anyone tell you that you're less than what you are. Never let anyone make you think low of yourself. Always think up. Remember, whatever you think about yourself, that's what you are!
2. You can be anything you want to be. For all the dreamers out there, here's something you need to know. The time while you're waiting for your dreams to come true is not a bad time. All you have to do is keep moving, keep believing, keep fighting, keep working hard and keep praying. You see the God we serve? He's not a foolish God. He's a marvelous God. His ways are not our ways. There's an appointed time for everything. When He's ready for you, you won't believe what hit you. When your dream takes off, you're going to be running, trying to keep up with it. Your dreams will come true because you deserve it. Just never give up! I'm a living testimony!
3. Remember, one day this life will be over...so while you're still here, you must live the best life you can. You owe that to yourself. Feel as much love, as much joy, as much happiness as you can handle. You can have a good life. You deserve to be happy. You deserve good things. Be good to yourself and others and all good things will come to you.
All the best!!!
I will be missing in action on LIB for at least 24 hours. After 20 days here, I'm flying back home.
Catch you soon.
Kisses
L
1,532 comments:
«Oldest ‹Older 1401 – 1532 of 1532Linda Ikeji, just remain focused. The more they talk about u, the more your famous and success. Carry Go unstopable blogger, God will continue to bless you in all the aspect of life Amen.
Aunty Linda...like seriously you've really inspired my entire life..may God bless you for me in Jesus name Amen! Safe Trip back home..
Nice one. I love ur blog: lindodo
Point,ALWAYS BELIEVE IN YOUR SELF! I always appreciate people that are hard working..KEEP IT UP!
M UMU talk abeg park well
Good bless u miss ikeji, I love u so much. I've been mute whole my stay in where I currently liv, outdated..bou my lovely cousin introduced ur blog 2me..mehn m d most updated guy now..never get tired of readn ur blog..God bless u linda..ur words ar so touchn n inspirational, I'm certainly sure dat one day..my dreams wil ol come true..#team Linda
Madam, we don hear!!!
If you read all your comments you'll know you are really appreciated.im 14 yh and im an introvert with suffering from a bad case of complex. I have loads of dreams that i'd love to carry out, the earlier the better and ppl keep laughing or saying negative things not that i ever cared but sometimes i think can i actually do this? i know i really can because of this, lemme go start my own hustle ;) thank you soo much.
really nice blog and the best it
dats my linn baby...go girl!!!
Hello Linda, have never commented on ur blog, but after reading this I thought I should let you know that you are doing a good work, just keep it up and God bless you.
Hmmmmnnnnn...you cannot do anything to satisfy anyone....you can only continue living your life...you owe no one any explanation...keep up the good work..you are my inspiration and you have inspired many into blogging...so keep the fire up...dont be down and keep it coming..Love yoouuuuuuuuuuuuuuuu....
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Linda pls hw cn stop dis ur weekly mtn play of a tin am tired of it.......AM WAITING
o'gal,u no get news again? wetin be all dis about dis your story wey don stay here for how many days? U better post somfin jare!
linda i love you you jare......please i need some tips sha on how to get traffic..here is ma blog oh http://www.omobar.blogspot.com thanks
Linda dear, i luv u for ur blog and just for being u. No matter d lies, truth will always prevail. I pray dt their evil prohecies and prayers will NEVER come to pass on ur life and even mine IJN. Amen
Inspiring piece 4rm u,Linda.safe flight back home.love u!
Inspiring piece 4rm u,Linda.safe flight back home.love u!
a yes 4 me!!! i got u & tnks Linda for sharing....Inspiring words, I know hater wont like ds but go on girl i got ur back...**NEXT**
Nice Words Keep up the good work linda.
lINDA, YOU ARE REALLY A DARLING, YOUR STORY IS SO INSPIRING, KEEP IT UP! CHEERS!
The best thing about this blog is that linda is very real. She pokes fun at herself as well as her subjects. She allows all comments, whether they flatter her or not. Not like a certain BN blog I also frequent. Here at least it feels like she's keeping it real for her fans. Kudos
Now i wanna fuck u more Linda, Gonna fuck u or die trying......
Love you linda @BL u yarn well.
I cried reading this piece from u. May God bless u for those words and everyone struggling to make it in naija. It's not easy to survive in this our country but with God n hard work,one will get there. Thanks n God bless
Encouraging but Linda ain't no body got time for that, why don't you write an epistle like this about this girl child situation, aren't you a woman? don't you reach a couple of million people world wide? What you are saying here is the standard expectations of celeb' life, wrap your head around it, get used to it and as they say may the Lord increase your coast.
Only ass kissing comments posted.... Definitely biased..to be expected its your blog. I see now you don't post other perspectives of yourself ...
...And every1 don dey claim "dis s my first time commenting on ur blog" I go soon knw if na witch dem dey comment snc!
@least we knw d likes of bloglord, prince charming and d oda prince, great anonymous, pearlie, diva, hw can I 4get bonario vaseline, d numerous anonymous, et al!
nice one linda...........thanks and God bless you
W.M
She didn't deny or accept d accusations of her being a lesbian in dis somewhat sincere letter. I just see fear when u all see sincerity.
Linda approve ma comment and not d ones you want to.
It seems only the positive comments are shown but d objective ones aren't
Touching story love your blog dear
hello Linda,
I mostly do not comment on your updates but I inevitably had to place my fingers on the keyboard this time.
I really couldnt believe I read your long letter from start to finish. I am happy you already know those issues are ingredients of success. who will gossip about a poor girl on the street?
thanks for your advice, they make sense.
Cheers.
Very touching story keep it up you are the best
More than 1000 comments!!! Haters go hug Transformer then jump lagoon !!! I love u linda *kisses*
well said .....we appreciate ....have a cool tomorrows ahead
Bless U
***Last comment***, Linda, I admire your style but please take note, no body is self made..., that is a wrong concept that Nigerians especially are fun of saying. There is no self-made (bill)millionaire etc on this earth.
Good story line. but i do not see how you intend mentoring young ones by posting nude pix on your blog.pls think well.
Linda, 24hrs never reach? Abeg come jare. I don miss U die
Wooow! this is very interesting God bless you (y)
Woooow! this is very interesting God bless you Linda. (y)
I love you Linda. Your words inspire. God will continue to bless and strengthen you. Much love
Thanks Linda, I love you so much you inspired me to start my own blog. Keap the flag high
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Here in OAU, my collegues call u the greatest gossiper yet i envy u cos with something people criticise, u made it... Congratulations.
Linda I am an avid fan and somehow like most of your fans we feel like we know you personally. I have been wondering when you will put out a post about your haters.
Hold your head up gal! The good lord has done you well! May he continue to bless your hustle IJN
Kool story
I share in ur success n achievements Linda. Don't allow all dat distract u remain focus, I luv u.
Freaking hell, looking for a space to write .keep scrolling down and down. 1349 comments. girl Linda am really proud of You. you are an inspiration not just to Young girls out there but Young people in general . You will still get bigger dear and I wish You success in your new endeavours. your story is truly started from the bottom. Now this is my first post on your blog been a Lib reader for 2 years now. thanks for been personal
Linda!!! WiLl u stop making me fall 4 yhu!!! Is dat ur pix???. Lett em talk jOor. Afterall is their mouth. Just no let am pinch you
Wow am inspired dear,keep it up
OperaMini made me like your Blogsite... My Mum told me you are a Millionaire because I asked if Bloggers are ever rich... Keep The Work Up! Kudos!
Hello Linda, am really happy for you and God will keep enlarging your coast. I look up to you alot. Just do one thing for me pls, drop me your direct contact via my email, jemmygentle@gmail.com. The other number is your business line and each time I call, your secretary or someone else picks it. No silly talks. Expecting your reply dear, God bless.
Is gossiping a virture? Absolutely not! Miss Linda Ikeji DON'T try to justify it because you make money out of it.
those of you who pray fall and die prayers...you see that it is actual human beings that you target? Whether the gist is true or false , where did Jesus teach us to mix voodoo abi african traditional religion and Christianity? To call for the death of a person that Jesus died for?... hmmm! Serious matter !So assuming but not conceding that Linda threatened the ministry, is it not God's ministry? leave her to God her judge and her maker...we are really in the last days where any and every dey church...Plus it could be a serious misunderstanding, a bad belle posing as Linda to cause wahala... Naija! sensational stories everyday
I like you even more now Linda. Really happy you're successful, u sooooo deserve it... Well done.
I love linda lyk Mofedaku!! God bless you
---Taemy---
Linda, good for you. You don't inspire me. Everybody got their own story to tell. I accidentally stumbled into your blog last year, the topic was oral sex, the comments made me laugh, and since then I have been hooked to your blog because of the comments, some of the stories you post here, I read them from their original source. Some of the comment are brilliant, some hilarious, some are are full of hate and spite, while some are outright rude. This is to be expected-ALL KIND OF PEOPLE. Happy blogging.
Wow..wt inspiration letter..kudos to u, wishing to av u s a wifen js to listen to dt early morning inspiration, God bless ur hustle
the moment people stop talking abut you, then you are nobody. so pls let them talk ooo...
Linda be ma suga mama na!beauty n brains n pleti money!ur husband must b superman!
Linda , you dint post my comment.(Flips hair and walks away annoyed).
Still like you though.
Linda, We love you the way you are! Ride on girl! you are an inspiration to many....I couldn't resist commenting...:-)
Thank you for considering giving back to our society! it is indeed the way to go. Love you loads and may God continue to bless you in all your endeavours...you shall soon be a self-made billionnaire....Amen ;-)
Hardwork pays...if you are a youth seeking for info and opportunities, visit, www.devsynergy.blogspot.com, you'll be glad you did.
Ciao!
Hey Linda, kip the good work up, I enjoy ur blog anyday anytime.
I know haters go begin dey wonder how this post has pulled so mch comments, yeahhhh, lindiway noni! But plsss, don't try any nonsense wv Men of God again whether Fake or True, plsss,let God be their judge Cos they answer to God and not Man. I love u always! XoXo
P.S; LIBers, we're doing a great job, kip d Comments n lov 4 Linda rolling, let's shame dem hatersoflife#bbmtongueout#
Pels!
Babe, some people use your name to collect money from people o! I know a friend's gist that came up and there were these stories then that you said you needed money. But I remember a sister's friend said she knows you and you will never collect money and so that he shouldn't give anyone but simply confess to his wife and get his wife to ask you to take off post for his family and children's sake.
Somebody want to 419 the pastor, kind of a misunderstanding.
Keep the good work girl!
well said...bravo!!! #standingoviation
I have never commented on ur blog,but i cldnt helpbbut comment nw.....felt like u were talking to me.im inspired. Thanks and keep being who u are
Love u!!!!!!
Wow! More Dan one thousand comments! Dats great,
Really I have read some things about u being a fraudster, but that doesn't bother me at all, cos I love you and love ur blog, and I am convinced in my spirit that you are a good person
Keep the good work dear, the Lord is ur strength
Wish you more success and more blessing and more love
Kisses love u dear.
God bless you sweetheart....
I love u Linda and i will always do.God bless you.
Encouraging but Linda ain't no body got time for that, why don't you write an epistle like this about this girl child situation, aren't you a woman? don't you reach a couple of million people world wide? What you are saying here is the standard expectations of celeb' life, wrap your head around it, get used to it and as they say may the Lord increase your coast.
I wanna be the last to comment. Linda No need for all these, we love u n we don't intend to relent... I believe ur earned digits haven't reached their potential limits... I see trillions to come, jst keep doing u... I personally will be beside u on the Isle. Love u mucho.
Charlestol...
I wanna be the last to comment. Linda No need for all these, we love u n we don't intend to relent... I believe ur earned digits haven't reached their potential limits... I see trillions to come, jst keep doing u... I personally will be beside u on the Isle. Love u mucho.
Charlestol...
Awww Linda, I am (was) one of those who didnt like you. Right now I am filled with remorse. You inspire me. AND you are right about everything.
You seriously didn't post my comment............
And twas my first......ever.........and twas a good comment; I'm guessing not to you though.
*sigh* Whatever! Keep up the good work. I read your blog more often these days. That should be a good thing abi.......Kudos!
Go girl; truly inspiring, may GOD Bless ur handworks & mk ur dreams com true
Truly inspiring words, May GOD Bless the works of ur hand & help u achieve ur dreams gal, if u can conceive it ofcos u can achieve it. Go girl!!
& cheers to more success!
Linda that was a great motivating message for our young school leavers who are out there looking for Job, now that you have proven to them that one can become a millionaire just blogging, hope the got a lot to learn from you, keep it up dear!!
first time to comment on your blog, love this piece, it has always been and will always be that some people dont want you to move up, but the only thing that matters is your belief in yourself and God's belief in you. Thumbs up
Linda,You rocks.The Lord is On Your Side.
YOUR SUCCESS is as a RESULT of HARD WORK Linda. KEEP it UP.
Nice piece Lindy.. Quite inspirational and spirit lifting too buh Me go talk my own oh...
I culdnt help buh reread d part were u said we made u a millionaire (directly or indirectly) #hehehe#. Me dey expect ma own share oh... Show love ohh! No chop am alone...
Hey! I've got so much respect to this blog, but you've got to improve on your English writing skill. Please don't think am being an ass to your blog, its what I notice and remember, your readers learn from your professionalism.
I am actually surprised that you Linda, will write to clarify things. That is like dymystifying the Ikeji personality. But I believe you. Why?
I have known you since Unilag days and sat with you to attend lectures. Even back then, me and my friends see you as a snub(not necessarily rude). Linda you owe nobody any explanation for being successful.
Oh yeah Linda, you rock.i got this one.
Very well said Linda...may GOD continue to bless all your hustles...
I hope all those gals who feel the only way to succeed is to grace the beds of wealthy old men are gonna read this and learn!
It pays to work hard and pray even harder!
This is my first time here and I'm glad this is the first thing I read....well done L! It's good to see that there are still women who work their way up through sheer determination and hardworking. All the very best in your endeavours, truly inspired.
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when nobody talks about you then, then you're nobody. That's 2face talking! Take that advice from him, it's helpful, honestly i just fell in <3 linda!
I like this.. Or should I say I love this... It encouraging and motivating! Won't say much though,. Am a singer and song writer looking for a sponsor, I have been a Libier since 2011 till date and will continue to be... I do comment as Anonymous but that's me! Don't mind my Expression am still. A Learner. Am mostly looking for a sponsor. Am Churchill by name and my pin is 2378CFCD tweet @iam_ccent. Hoping to premiere sooner here on Linda Ikeji's Blog Thanks.
I love this write; so on point.
I will make it.
Lin, Lin. hmmmmm. I heard of it and I know the reason behind this letter. So funny how the hunter is now turning out to be the hunted.
no matter what i read or hear about u Linda,i don't care.I love u,may God continue to bless u.
The fact that the comment moderation is enabled simply means you only post comments you feel comfortable with. I sincerely think your blog should be interactive. What are you afraid of?
This brought me close to tears Linda..I'm in a bad place right now. Not even sure how i got here but this is very encouraging. Thank you for your sincerity.. I love you..always have and always will. God bless your hustle.. xoxo..
Av a safe flight drearie
The people who inspire me are not millionaires.
Welcome back sweety,luv you scatter,no homo please,glad you to have you back
@Linda Ikeji, I am more inspired by you everyday. You have taught me how to believe more in my dream and I will forever be grateful to Hod for having ladies like you in my world. I wam hoping to meet you one day. I learnt how to ignore too because that's the only way I can be more focused. God bless you.
WHOM GOD HAS BLESSED NO ONE CAN CURSE...............WELLDONE U WERE IN MY OFFICE IN 2008..BOUGHT YOUR BOOK THEN.WHEN I SAW U I SCREAMED CAUSE I NEEDED JUST A COPY AND U DROVE DOWN........HUMILITY HAS BROUGHT U THIS FAR...........REMAIN BLESSED....KIKKY
Nice...
...I'm inspired
Nice...
...I'm inspired.
Continue what you know how to do!!!
That's great!! I'm trying to make it too.
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hello linda nice write up rilly lykd dah. bout d rumuors been told bout u, u dnt ave to say anifn bout it cos u knw wen ur makn a name pple will def ave smefn to say to bring u down ts always lyk dah.im a fan of ur blog im always on it to see d latest especially celebrity news. just wnt to say keep it up gal good wrk im one of d youngest nigerians dahs happy to ave pple lyk u. n talkn bout ur program startn august id lyk to b part of it. well ave a nice day lots of love.
You're an inspiration Linda. More grease to your elbows.. Fingers rather!
Been following you since 2006...or is it 2007... whatever... I still am your biggest fan... I must admit I find you a very great personality (for a gossip!)
Okey Azubuike...
Quick Question :Well said .....enough money made and will be made...you are getting older not younger ....Don't you think its time to find your self a Man and raise RugRats .... Peace !!!
Pls Linda I love u....if we were dating I wild have proposed to u today.....u are simply amazing,I pray to marry a lady that's like you....and I know God just heard me
Pls Linda I love u....if we were dating I wild have proposed to u today.....u are simply amazing,I pray to marry a lady that's like you....and I know God just heard me
Much love and thank you linda.
Hey Linda boo,
I love you #nohomo# and theres nothing anyone can do to change that. You make my day.
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Linda very Nice one from you...really proud of the way you've gone about your life...its an inspiration to others...keep it up
Lol...if you must Chop ...they must talk...cos they all know direction to your bus stop...MI was right boo...you talking and making some people Chop abi you didn't know you were part of the "they" MI was referring too... lol...no mind am.. CityPeople pay am...
Nyc one dearie.thumbs up.
''Sometimes we go through life and we don't appreciate the things that we have and the things that are around us. We take a lot of things for granted and sometime we don't even realize that we're doing it. A lot of people don't understand that we can be HERE one moment and GONE the next''.
There is never a perfect situation
LIFE IS SHORT.
I love my honest Linda
*I don't collect money from people to take down stories from my blog...that's like using my own hand to ruin myself. People can use it against you later, with evidence sef. Seriously, I would be foolish to do that. Any blogger would be foolish to do that. Don't do it! You either take down the story out of compassion or you don't! pls explain this.dnt get.
happy for you linda... please dont say you are self made. God did that except you know otherwise!!!
There is NEVER a perfect situation.
Linda darling, u are a fantastic person.... I hv always admired ur fantastic work.... I love everything u represent.....God bless u hun.....
You're right there is always a process to any success unfortunately nobody cares about process that leads to event(what people celebrate)
If you have not taken your life into your hands by not slaving away for any selfish boss, you would not have got to this place.
For you to have got started was courage.
Thanks so much, i remember when i got started in internet marketing and blogging way back 2006, I didn't know I will come this far both in success and fulfillment
Linda ,tank u so much...u rili hit d spot.God bless u
Linda please address the real issue. A text message was received. Prove to your readers it wasn't you.
thanks for inspiring us.Go girl!!!
Inspiring words! Thanks Linda!
Me I love Linda (no homo, even when she will not respond to my mail I understand you probably have thousands to go through every day. What I admire most about Linda is her strength.....also you work really hard and am happy for you that its paying off now. God bless you dear.
K
Lool you people saying 'blah blah blah' ,*yawn*, 'long story' and stuff like that make me laugh abi you didnt go to school immediately you open this page, shes making money :p, so use your sense and leave a sensible comment. Love you linda and i hope youre money multiplies ;)
wow thank you for that!
Linda I love You. You are simply great. You have defiled all rules of African gravity. I'm married if not I would have given u my number. I love u alk the same. Keep soaring high. I love ur smile
I'm touched by this comment of yours... You are not alone. Just don't give up, keep pushing and it will soon happen by God's grace.
Cheers.
Touched and seriously i will keep it as my daily manual. God will continually inspire you.
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