Stop encouraging these failures,no husband no child why her waist no to tiny? If u want to be like her u are free just don't marry and don't have kids. I don't fancy this kind of person. Life is you have to be given birth to,then live,then marry,have kids and live as a family of ur own apart from ur previous family ( parents and siblings ). To me that's fulfillment and success anything less of that is a total failure no matter what anyone says. I know some waste ones here will say immediate family is not by force or some will say marriage is not by force,hey stop deceiving urselves bcos a Person who is average in life with family (spouse and kids) is far better and more successful that a person who is a billionaire Without family ( spouse n kids ) . Yes I said it if u like start consoling urself by saying it's not by force ,if u like try make urself feel good by saying it's a choice . Ranging from oprah W to Janet jackson and to anyone out there who is super rich but no spouse and kids. Success is not only about how many cars you have got or how much money you make but how successful is you super home and how much you have been able to touch lives bcos they say charity begins at home. So be rich in ur home which is ur immediate family Has to be happy fanancially n emotionally before u come in public to boast of anything. I am writing a book about this hopefully you will get to read it. I don't care how u feel bcos u are in the category of people who haven't found a spouse or have kids and thinks yea afterall it's not only me that is single without a child,hey wake up bcos a family (marriage and kids) is the greatest asset anyone can boast of Anywhere. If u are looking for the right person to settle with is not a reason or excuse,are you a right person ? Hope u are nt left looking for right?bcos u won't see right if u are left. U won't see a perfect spouse if u are nt perfect if at all there is anyone perfect. You can't discover ur real spouse if u don't discover yourself first. Here are some tips to finding a spouse, First is to discover yourself, love urself , always tell yourself the truth, find something meaningful doing not staying jobless. Don't mind any typo u see pls bcos I am writing from my phone and really don't have time to screw up and down to check spellings bcos I am typing this in every red light and stop signs I come across.
She is indeed looking good for her age. She has come a long way and paid her dues too...so please give her a break. She deserves to look fabulous and be happy. #justsaying
You are obviously a very bitter person from the way u sound. Why does it bother u so much how someone else chooses to live her life? U have ur standards of success, others have theirs. Some have same standards as u but are yet to achieve them. Quit trying to be a know-it-all and all judgmental. U actually sound jealous; hope u aint. We are all entitled to our opinions! Don't come here and start preaching selfish, bitter nonsense. I suggest u go and take care of ur family and 'perfect life'. This is coming from a person who has similar standards to urs, but I don't bring down or castigate others for choosing a different path. It's different strokes for different folks!
May you be forgiven for referring to another human being as a failure. I'm sure you are all perfect. Can't wait for your book though. I'm sure it's gonna be full of the bitter, angry, selfish, judgmental, ignorant intelligence you have displayed here. Olodo!
Yes she luks gud! I'm sure both pics av bin severely photoshopped! Saw a pic of Demi Moore on Fashion Police n nxt 2 it was an air brushed pic...miracle happened! While Janet may luk stunning in in pic real life may b diff!
Bia Sleek biko, all dis epistle u wrote to console urself abt being married, me I'm married & still have challenges, but seriously being married is not the epitome of everything, you are the reason why some women commit suicide forcing marriage down their throat, my aunty committed suicide over 12yrs ago cos she wasn't married no kids or anything, I'm sure she met people like you that told her she was a failure without "manage" or kids & my dear my aunty was highly educated so plsss stop dis bullying of people about marriage, happy easter
She looks good but I won't be surprise to know that she achieved this by liposuction, is not that she hasn't done any work on her self before, so where is the natural beauty?
This Sleek person needs to calm the hell down. Just as being rich isn't the definition of success, just having a family is not the definition of success either. A lot of these rich people you mentioned have touched tons of lives in various ways. There are also women who have had kids and worked on their bodies and could still look like her so please hush about the children. I've come to realise that lots of Nigerian "happy families" are just hypocritical - going to church and singing and judging single women when their husband is sleeping outside, they're maltreating their housemaids and their children are little brats. AND THE LOUD-MOUTHED ONES ARE USUALLY THE BIGGEST OFFENDERS. Everyday on this blog we hear about all kinds of domestic and child abuse. I won't be surprised if a fraction of those women had comments to make about their perfect homes at some point.
Who send you to marry and have children. Na by force. Abi you never see women wey don marry, have several children and still know how to take care of themselves to look presentable.
If you like no go take care of yourself. Make you siddon der dey yahn okpata. Lazy fat misshapen pig.
Na una type dey give womanhood bad name. Abi na by force I ask you again.
@ Sleek April 8, 2012 1:16 PM you obviously are jealous of Janet Jackson ( tooo baaad). I am sure you are one of those people who got married early and now regretting being married. because you didnt enjoy your singleness long enough
i am thinking who can remember the marital status, of Winston Churchill, or Albert Einstein or even the Wilmer brothers. Jesus christ (was definitely no failure). Obviously you are one of those people who need a partner to feel like at least a human being. Looking good and slim has a lot to do with how old you are and not how many kids you've had. thats why you see 21 year olds with kids looking as slim as ever. it also has to do with your genetics. please. Give janet jackson some credit at over 40, and wake up from your stone age ideologies
AND ON A FINAL NOTE Dear Illiterate, its 'scroll up' not 'screw up'
@ seek go jor y ll u call any body God created a failure cos they r not married with kids ... N u dare justified it ... They r not u so pls ... Am single n I took care of all my sibling whn I lost my parent ... That is success to me n am as tiny as she is in my late 20s ... Yes I want to get married but if I dnt life is not all abt that ... I hv alway given people's life a meaning n that is wht count , d impact in made while u where on earth
@sleek... I totally understand, but disagree with you. This is your opinion and u need to understand not everybody shares this same opinion about family being the yardstick to measure ones success, some ppl find all the love and fulfillment they need in their jobs or career..strange but true and hence they are not interested in having a fam. Sleek you need to understand ppl are different and hence have diff value and moral system and they do not subscribe to the generally accepted norms.
So u don't know its cosmetic surgery. Google it to know how much surgery n implantation she has done. Linda abeg do u findings well before u start posting photos of ladies who did cosmetic surgery to achieve deir looks. Abeg if its not natural shape or look, pls don't post it. We want to see original shape n get motivated to trim down n not fake shapes like day our Janet,jlo,rihana and oda naija ladies day did surgey, breast implant etc. Am not blaming dem for doing cosmetic surgery to look good. But am blaming you Linda for not mentioning the secret behind deir looks but u prefer to post deir pics and make some ignorant lib readers to think deir looks are natural. Abeg Biko, do ur findings well. As usual, don't post my comment like u normally don't cost am always blunt to u. The most I pt thing is day u AV read it. By d way, tanks a lot for deleting day pics of day lady in wedd gown day used her the fuck sign. If u deleted it cos of how I critcised you n perhaps oda people criticsed you too, den I really tank u for listening n responding to feedbacks
@sleek I understand and respect ur opinion afterall it's urs to have,but I don't get why u are trying to shove it down other people and make dem see life and happiness from ur perspective,I dare say that not only having a family makes people fulfilled,happy and successful,it may be the high point of your success but it doesn't make it mine. A lot of people who are average with a family are very unhappy and they feel trapped cos of their kids most of dem even die unhappy,u need to see the upbringing some kids get nowadays u will weep cos such kids will grow up to cause misery to their parents. Afterall d bible says there will come a time when people will say blessed is d barren that never bore and d womb that never gave suck. Don't get me wrong I love kids but I hate the judgemental way in which u wrote ur comment,it's always easy to judge people cos u are married and have kids, try and see things from others perspective.enof said -Palo
@ sleek stop hating! Just because you're married does not mean you are successful! To each his own. Define what successful or failure means to you in your life and leave others to define it for themselves. A WOMAN HAS THE RIGHT TO CHOOSE HARD WORK AND WEALTH OVER FAMILY without people like you vilifying her. It takes courage, strength of character and wisdom to choose wealth over family and achieve it in the face of women whose timidity and jealousy has made them ordinary and pushes them to stop at nothing to prevent other women from being extraordinary. YES I SAID IT, BEING A WIFE AND MOTHER IS ORDINARY!!! VALUABLE YES BUT STILL ORDINARY, BECAUSE EVERY WOMAN CAN DO IT IF THEY WANT TO. IT IS A NATURAL ABILITY!!! RISING ABOVE SOCIAL STIGMA, PREJUDICE E.T.C. TO ACHIEVE IS EXTRAORDINARY!
@ sleek mrs marriage counselor and how to find a husband guru. you sound like someone who is lacking something and is consoling herself with "at least i am married" Marriage no be achievement o. e easy to marry and born pikin. To make millions hard for anybody (man or woman)not to talk of billions of $$. Abeg shut up. na jelousy dey worry you!
@sleek why the projection of your opinion? Success is RELATIVE, meaning you should allow people define what success means to them than shoving yours down their throat.
She is a chubby person...I give her 2 months and her thighs will fill out again. She is going to end up like Oprah ....who upon all her struggles to be thin woke up one day and just gave up and admitted she was never made to be skinny. In oprah's voice...."there is a higher calling" perhaps to be fat
Dear Anony 1:16, Calm down abeg. You have no right to call an unmarried person a failure. How could u for Christ's sake? We all came here with different destinies. Just becos u are married and have kids and bla bla doesn't mean others are failures. Thank God for giving u all dat instead of saying d stuff you just said. Everything is still GOD'S WILL at the end of the day. Remember to include that in your book. Many women are doing all dat you said but their husbands would find them at GOD'S TIME. I don't wanna be unmarried and hanging around people like u cos that's wat makes most women so desperate they marry the wrong men so they won't be called failures. Ehen, and make sure u 'screw' up and read this comment well as u no fit 'screw' up to read your own.
@ Sleek, All this long writing and for what eh? Just to let us know that by your own definition of success every person on planet earth MUST marry and born plenty children abi? Sleek tell me, does it make sense to you? And to think you don't give a hoot what others think. Your opinion should rule eh? Now that you are off the home of illusion I suggest you go to sleep on this subject and gather your freinds together on a round table with some drinks to add and discuss this subject and see if some of your friends will not start stoning you. Mr. Sleek, everybody has the right to either be celibate, single or married. No one and not even your fantasy can take that right from humanity.
Sleek.....U took da words right outta my mouth!Her figure is like an Hour glass coz she's never been pregnant,stretchmarks and all.How miserable......shame!
@ sleek, I strongly disagree. Janet looks great! Oprah we all know is not married but doing a great deal to support mankind & that is success. Your set goals in life would clearly be different from JJ's, Oprah's or anyone else but that does not in any way define success. Success is achieving those goals you have individually set for yourselves. Is it education, family - marriage kids, health and wealth. What is your goal? Your mindset is again important in achieving those set goals. Hope this so called book of yours will not be misleading - poor Waterstone Bookstore or Amazon the dumping ground.
Sleek, I do not know wether you are male or female but the way you kept saying that you do not care about what others think about your opinions says a lot about you. In as much as I think that Janet's picture especially the one she is wearing a gown is photoshoped,I totally diagree with you about marriage and kids being the only thing that will make one complete,and before you jump into conclusions,am female, happily married with two kids.In no way do I ever look down on other women or even men for that matter who choose to be single or do not want to have kids.There is no way the whole mankind will like the same things.And do not forget that Janet was once married,so its not like she abhors marriage.Oprah had a baby that died shortly after birth as a tennager,so they are not your typical examples.
She don almost turn 50 & na sugery she and her family just dey waste money on . Y won't her body be like dat when she said she wouldn't carry a baby. Kudos to her but I won't be surprised if na operation she do by taking some ribs out & compressing her waist. Hollywood things #shikenah
@ Sleek, I see u have very strong opinions about your definition of success, but I totally disagree with you. Being successful isn't just about being married and having kids- that's a very myopic way of looking at life; there's a whole lot more to it! If you- Sleek, define YOUR personal success by those parameters, then that's fine, but it is wrong for you to call someone else a failure because he/she isn't married or doesn't have kids!
*We'll excuse your typos, but if you're really planning to write a book, you certainly need to work on your writing skills!!!
* Oh! One last thing- You don't 'screw' up & down to check for errors. You SCROLL up & down.
U are very foolish! So people that are not married and those that do not have kids for one reason or the other should kill themselves? Because in ur words, they are failures abi? If I slap u eeeh.... Its people like you that would tell women to remain with abusive spouses until they are killed. Olodo!
Pls who is this person? You are one of d people who pressure people into marrying the wrong people n then they end up losing their lives.
So until a person gets married, he/she is not successful...abeg parkwell, when you get to heaven, God would not ask you if you were married or not, he'll only want to know if. You fulfilled your purpose.
I'll suggest you drop the idea of the book o...mscheew
What a senseless comment, can y'all try and think before u type??? Who sold michael to illuminati? And wat does it hav to do wit her waist being thin?? Sorry o
@ Sleek you are too funny! And you are right, she hasnt had any kids and I am not sure whether she is married at present cos she was previously married. Janet Jackson has never been a slim woman from day one and she yo-yo's with her weight! She is always trying to loose weight for years just like oprah only to loose it then gain it back horribly! I have always loved her music but I dont think she is truly happy. By the way she might be wearing body magic...lol!
I'm afraid u don't make any sense. That's to say that people who do not have kids any reason are not whole. I'm married and have kids but I don't agree with you one bit. Would u let ur daughter stay with a wife batterer because you want her to be married and have children. Life is all about making choices. Make urs and allow others to make theirs madam book writer!!
Sleek, I lack words for your ignorance and stupidity. Ur bitterness is eating u up. Pls do quick and write this book of urs. I'm interested in this modern day olodo-ness. So ur standards of success must be everybody else's? And what if she just hasn't found the right husband? May God forgive u for calling his creation a failure though. Mr/Mrs know-it-all. Abeg shut the hell up and stop embarassing urself here joor!
Marriage isn't the be all end all. I guess it's a Nigerian mentality that looks down on unmarried(single) pple. As for Janet, plastic surgery or not, she looks good
Sleek, something is definitely missing in ur life, that's why marriage was ur consolation price. I'm so happy I don't have a mother like u, or anybody like you around me. Please remain there o, even if ur husband is killing u, don't leave. So u will answer MRS in heaven or wherever. No wonder girls do all sorts to get married nowadays. Its cos of people like you.
God punish u. Please don't listen to her. I'm married with kids and I still regret leaving my booming career to get married to a man that makes me beg 100 times before he buys groceries and other household items. I just resurrected my career 2 years ago and I have all my respect and earning power back. Please build ur career, that's what will pay u and ur children's bills wen the so called man starts spending his money on young girls outside.
@sleek from your right up, it shows you are a man and wonders shall never end ehh. let me ask you a question are you yourself married please answer???
have you not been reading the news of recent in nigeria where a lot of spouses are killing themselves ehhh or are you leaving in kuku land i think sooo.
coming to run your mouth like tatashe tap you there open that your stinky gutter you call a mouth to say if you are not married you are not fulfiled!!! well i got news for you buddy it is better to be single and happy than to be married and misearble or even dead in the hand of your spouse okay and for once in your life appreciate women that are single and sucessful of which i am one of them and for your information, i make no apology for being single and very successful okay now get back into that you little box nonsense!!!
ONOME says.................. Sleek sleek.lolllllllll.I be no wan talk before o as everything that needs to be said has been so thoroughly said.I like my Nigeria peeps.They no dey fail.See as they don arrange u for pot,mamar u down and serve u back properly cooked!lolllll.I sure do hope u have learnt a thing or two from those that educated and opened your one track closed mind.lollllll.
Marriage sha:))))The pressure from society on the womenfolk is too much.After school people begin to ask " so when will u marry?" After marriage next they do tafia again and ask" so when will u born?"After u born one these foolish amembos will ask "so when will u give Jane/John a brother/sister????????Can't we just live and let live????????
Sleek, life is not lived by your rules.We all have the right to seek for our individual happiness the way we see fit.Get off your high horse and be quiet!!WHO THE HELL ARE YOU TO PASS JUDGEMENT ON ANYONE?nonsense.People make it sound as though marriage validates you;well ostrich,remove your head from the sand;it doesn't !!!!!It is good if you have found the right person to marry and have children and I hope those who are seeking for such find it.However those who still remain single are not failures.I am married with children and I have never for one sneered at my unmarked friends or made them feel inferior at my married state or bored them with how my life is so wonderful with my husband in it cos it's not true.Marriage is a lot of hardwork.So get off your high horse u silly cretin!!!
You are so stupid that words can not begin to encompass just how stupid you are. Go and sit down somewhere and stop spewing your ignorance, you entity of no commercial value.
Sleek, U are only entitiled to ur opinion and not to other people's opinions. Always remember that when u talk and write. If not, you come out sounding like a bully. I don't like ur comment, but I will spare u cos u aired ur views, even though u refused to entertain other views.
Sleek.......I have not seen so much ignorance compressed in just a few sentences. Don't get me wrong! Everyone is entitled to their opinion without necessarily being apologetic about it, but the foolish and "failures" try to force theirs down others' throats. You come across as one of those fools that try hard at achieving this. My 2 cents.......you should live your life to encourage others or at worst, live it without influencing people! Going down the way of opening your mouth to pour out venom that could discourage others from living their lives is unecessary. You may want to rethink publishing a book as this might be a mission to destroy others..........get a life outside of marriage! Common, live......stop existing. By the way, I am "very" married to a loving husband, we are blessed with children, I have a great job! Above all, I am well equipped for all challenges ahead of me because I have God.
I see my comment really hut hard in you all criticizing my comment. You have to comment on the topic not on my comment bcos I didn't mention your name. It's just like trying to console yourselves I understand ,I know all the people who attacked me are runs girls or have one way or the other felt my write up as they fit into it lol. If u divorced or decided to be a baby mama bcos u want to be free to sleep around then I advise u to retrace your steps and face marriage squarely like your mum and dad did. Don't be scared afterall no one or even the bible didn't say marriage is always rosary ,face the challenges,face the fun,the happiness and the crisis in it. Don't always console urself with other people's failure or downfall. Some of u lame girls will say afterall Oprah is single so it's not bad to be single hey wake up and face it squarely pls. Stop taking every man u see as ur bf and be entitle to one and not people's husband ooo. I know for some of u who dont see marriage as a good thing will prefer single and rent apartment to be able to corner people's husband,club and sleep around and say afterall you are not questionable to any man. So stop criticizing my comments and comment on how and what u feel about the post not about my comment. Peace y'all
I don't know who this sleek person is but I'm sure she's stupid. How can u judge another person with ur own pathetic standards? I think you should get a life and stop dreaming that you're better than others.
@ sleek, get a life please if ur fufillment in life is hinged on ur husband &children.when children grows up and are livin their life,then wat do u do? U realize u didnt achieve anything personaly.then depression sets in and u become d wicked mother in law pokin nose where she is not?let ur fufilment come frm God and personal achievement. Read about the proverbs 31 woman. She had her life &added to her husband's. U dont need a man to make u fulfilled! Pls. Spare d world dat book u want to publis so u dont destroy our daughters' life with ur mentality.
This is the most annoying comment I have read in a while. Sleek, biko, face ur marriage. Marriage is not for everybody and career is not for everybody too. People just have to find where they fit in and develop themselves there. Unmarried people are not failures and married people without careers are not failures either! Daalu!!!
Sleek u r sick if u see nothing wrong in ur post ... If calling God' s creation a failure cos they r not married u r very very sick ... N ur defence is that the r runs girl replying ur comment ... I want to google u pls my dear I want to learn frm u put up u real names ... Pls go n read TD jark book The Lady Her Lord Her Lover ....
Thank God I read that book very early in my life so pple like u ll not jt talk
Sleek abeg go learn how to write english well or just write pidgin like me. First you write SCREW instead of SCROLL. Now you don write ROSARY instead of ROSY. SMH Lord have mercy.
U show the characteristics of a big bully and a stupid person who will remain stagnant in life because he refuses to learn. So now u r saying anybody that doesn't get married is a run girl. I must say u r even more foolish than I first thought cos u continue to write nonsense here. Keep basking in ur ignorant world, stupid idiot
This sleek person is obviously mentally challenged and bitter. Sleek, give us ur details let's help u before its too late cos am sure something is seriously wrong with u.
OMG! This level of ignorance and stupidity is too much for one person. Sleek! With everything u have written here, u are lucky no one has killed u or maimed u for life.
please my fellow sane readers, please do me a favour...biko, ejo, mbok, please, ignore sleek. he/she is trying to crawl under our skin and get u to commit sin by responding. lets all ignore him/her and just say GOD BLESS YOU SLEEK FOR YOUR OPINION. WE"LL LOOK INTO IT"
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Linda, u no dey go church? Anyway, she isnt luking bad
Find thang! Can look @ that all day. Black is beautiful.
Hian!
Look at that nose.#Irestmycase.
Aaaaww perfect. Hawt.. This woman never gets old.. I wonder wats the secret. #DropDeadGorgeous
Why fretting, lin? She'll get all fat again...and now she's in her 40s...she'll most def end up a fat bleached black oldie.
She sure knows how to work it!.
Whao! It's just slim enof for my hands to grasp without breaking. So thin
You forgot to add she had a couple of ribs taken out a decade ago.
-tiny
Whao! It's just slim enof for my hands to grasp without breaking. So thin
Na today mscheeeeeW,biko next
Now that her face is beginning to look like a cat, no doctor has been accused of negligence and sent to jail abi???
Shebi dem don sell micheal jackson to illuminati??? Hw her waist no go thin?? Yeye!!! Ehen...linda i wan marry u ooO..aswear
Shebi dem don sell micheal jackson to illuminati..hw her waist no go thin?? Ehen..linda i wan marry u ooo
niceeeeeeeeeeeee
Linda, u no dey go church? Anyway, this is clearly photoshop. Its screams FAKE to me.
photoshop - the waist-hip joint is so unnatural
She should learn from what happened to her brother. She has always been fine and sexy o!
One word , 'Quintessential'. You exude class and quality.Way to go, my lady!
SWAG is for girls, while CLASS is for ladies.
Stop encouraging these failures,no husband no child why her waist no to tiny? If u want to be like her u are free just don't marry and don't have kids. I don't fancy this kind of person. Life is you have to be given birth to,then live,then marry,have kids and live as a family of ur own apart from ur previous family ( parents and siblings ). To me that's fulfillment and success anything less of that is a total failure no matter what anyone says. I know some waste ones here will say immediate family is not by force or some will say marriage is not by force,hey stop deceiving urselves bcos a Person who is average in life with family (spouse and kids) is far better and more successful that a person who is a billionaire Without family ( spouse n kids ) . Yes I said it if u like start consoling urself by saying it's not by force ,if u like try make urself feel good by saying it's a choice . Ranging from oprah W to Janet jackson and to anyone out there who is super rich but no spouse and kids. Success is not only about how many cars you have got or how much money you make but how successful is you super home and how much you have been able to touch lives bcos they say charity begins at home. So be rich in ur home which is ur immediate family Has to be happy fanancially n emotionally before u come in public to boast of anything. I am writing a book about this hopefully you will get to read it. I don't care how u feel bcos u are in the category of people who haven't found a spouse or have kids and thinks yea afterall it's not only me that is single without a child,hey wake up bcos a family (marriage and kids) is the greatest
asset anyone can boast of Anywhere. If u are
looking for the right person to settle with is not a
reason or excuse,are you a right person ? Hope u
are nt left looking for right?bcos u won't see right if
u are left. U won't see a perfect spouse if u are nt
perfect if at all there is anyone perfect. You can't
discover ur real spouse if u don't discover yourself
first. Here are some tips to finding a spouse, First is
to discover yourself, love urself , always tell yourself
the truth, find something meaningful doing not
staying jobless.
Don't mind any typo u see pls bcos I am writing from my phone and really don't have time to screw up and down to check spellings bcos I am typing this in every red light and stop signs I come across.
Looking cute Janie...thumbs up!
Ohhhh wowww!!!! this is greatiliciously fantasticified!!!!!!
This woman is just too beautiful for words.....wow!!!
She is indeed looking good for her age. She has come a long way and paid her dues too...so please give her a break. She deserves to look fabulous and be happy. #justsaying
You are obviously a very bitter person from the way u sound. Why does it bother u so much how someone else chooses to live her life? U have ur standards of success, others have theirs. Some have same standards as u but are yet to achieve them. Quit trying to be a know-it-all and all judgmental. U actually sound jealous; hope u aint. We are all entitled to our opinions! Don't come here and start preaching selfish, bitter nonsense. I suggest u go and take care of ur family and 'perfect life'. This is coming from a person who has similar standards to urs, but I don't bring down or castigate others for choosing a different path. It's different strokes for different folks!
May you be forgiven for referring to another human being as a failure. I'm sure you are all perfect. Can't wait for your book though. I'm sure it's gonna be full of the bitter, angry, selfish, judgmental, ignorant intelligence you have displayed here. Olodo!
Yes she luks gud! I'm sure both pics av bin severely photoshopped! Saw a pic of Demi Moore on Fashion Police n nxt 2 it was an air brushed pic...miracle happened! While Janet may luk stunning in in pic real life may b diff!
Lmao! Dear sleek, u̶̲̥̅̊ can lyk 2 write a book o!
Fake thang u mean?? She has done Enuff surgery to look this way. Biko open ya eyes #nothating. Bibi
Chai. Wat an epistel. L☺L@Screw
Bia Sleek biko, all dis epistle u wrote to console urself abt being married, me I'm married & still have challenges, but seriously being married is not the epitome of everything, you are the reason why some women commit suicide forcing marriage down their throat, my aunty committed suicide over 12yrs ago cos she wasn't married no kids or anything, I'm sure she met people like you that told her she was a failure without "manage" or kids & my dear my aunty was highly educated so plsss stop dis bullying of people about marriage, happy easter
She looks good but I won't be surprise to know that she achieved this by liposuction, is not that she hasn't done any work on her self before, so where is the natural beauty?
Dis is d result of a Liposuction or Liposculpture *mtchewwwww*
This Sleek person needs to calm the hell down. Just as being rich isn't the definition of success, just having a family is not the definition of success either. A lot of these rich people you mentioned have touched tons of lives in various ways. There are also women who have had kids and worked on their bodies and could still look like her so please hush about the children. I've come to realise that lots of Nigerian "happy families" are just hypocritical - going to church and singing and judging single women when their husband is sleeping outside, they're maltreating their housemaids and their children are little brats. AND THE LOUD-MOUTHED ONES ARE USUALLY THE BIGGEST OFFENDERS. Everyday on this blog we hear about all kinds of domestic and child abuse. I won't be surprised if a fraction of those women had comments to make about their perfect homes at some point.
Who send you to marry and have children. Na by force. Abi you never see women wey don marry, have several children and still know how to take care of themselves to look presentable.
If you like no go take care of yourself. Make you siddon der dey yahn okpata. Lazy fat misshapen pig.
Na una type dey give womanhood bad name. Abi na by force I ask you again.
This is how I wanna look like whn am that age
@ Sleek April 8, 2012 1:16 PM you obviously are jealous of Janet Jackson ( tooo baaad). I am sure you are one of those people who got married early and now regretting being married. because you didnt enjoy your singleness long enough
i am thinking who can remember the marital status, of Winston Churchill, or Albert Einstein or even the Wilmer brothers. Jesus christ (was definitely no failure). Obviously you are one of those people who need a partner to feel like at least a human being.
Looking good and slim has a lot to do with how old you are and not how many kids you've had. thats why you see 21 year olds with kids looking as slim as ever. it also has to do with your genetics. please. Give janet jackson some credit at over 40, and wake up from your stone age ideologies
AND ON A FINAL NOTE Dear Illiterate, its 'scroll up' not 'screw up'
I want to look like this when i get to her age..sexy,young and beautiful...money is good oh.
@ seek go jor y ll u call any body God created a failure cos they r not married with kids ... N u dare justified it ... They r not u so pls ... Am single n I took care of all my sibling whn I lost my parent ... That is success to me n am as tiny as she is in my late 20s ... Yes I want to get married but if I dnt life is not all abt that ... I hv alway given people's life a meaning n that is wht count , d impact in made while u where on earth
Pls enuf of all dis daft illuminati talk! Ahnn Ahnn!! Warrisit?!
@sleek...
I totally understand, but disagree with you. This is your opinion and u need to understand not everybody shares this same opinion about family being the yardstick to measure ones success, some ppl find all the love and fulfillment they need in their jobs or career..strange but true and hence they are not interested in having a fam. Sleek you need to understand ppl are different and hence have diff value and moral system and they do not subscribe to the generally accepted norms.
So u don't know its cosmetic surgery. Google it to know how much surgery n implantation she has done. Linda abeg do u findings well before u start posting photos of ladies who did cosmetic surgery to achieve deir looks. Abeg if its not natural shape or look, pls don't post it. We want to see original shape n get motivated to trim down n not fake shapes like day our Janet,jlo,rihana and oda naija ladies day did surgey, breast implant etc. Am not blaming dem for doing cosmetic surgery to look good. But am blaming you Linda for not mentioning the secret behind deir looks but u prefer to post deir pics and make some ignorant lib readers to think deir looks are natural. Abeg Biko, do ur findings well. As usual, don't post my comment like u normally don't cost am always blunt to u. The most I pt thing is day u AV read it. By d way, tanks a lot for deleting day pics of day lady in wedd gown day used her the fuck sign. If u deleted it cos of how I critcised you n perhaps oda people criticsed you too, den I really tank u for listening n responding to feedbacks
@sleek..u just wrote a book of how many chapters and pages...and your point being???????
@sleek I understand and respect ur opinion afterall it's urs to have,but I don't get why u are trying to shove it down other people and make dem see life and happiness from ur perspective,I dare say that not only having a family makes people fulfilled,happy and successful,it may be the high point of your success but it doesn't make it mine. A lot of people who are average with a family are very unhappy and they feel trapped cos of their kids most of dem even die unhappy,u need to see the upbringing some kids get nowadays u will weep cos such kids will grow up to cause misery to their parents. Afterall d bible says there will come a time when people will say blessed is d barren that never bore and d womb that never gave suck. Don't get me wrong I love kids but I hate the judgemental way in which u wrote ur comment,it's always easy to judge people cos u are married and have kids, try and see things from others perspective.enof said -Palo
@ sleek stop hating! Just because you're married does not mean you are successful!
To each his own. Define what successful or failure means to you in your life and leave others to define it for themselves.
A WOMAN HAS THE RIGHT TO CHOOSE HARD WORK AND WEALTH OVER FAMILY without people like you vilifying her.
It takes courage, strength of character and wisdom to choose wealth over family and achieve it in the face of women whose timidity and jealousy has made them ordinary and pushes them to stop at nothing to prevent other women from being extraordinary.
YES I SAID IT, BEING A WIFE AND MOTHER IS ORDINARY!!! VALUABLE YES BUT STILL ORDINARY, BECAUSE EVERY WOMAN CAN DO IT IF THEY WANT TO. IT IS A NATURAL ABILITY!!!
RISING ABOVE SOCIAL STIGMA, PREJUDICE E.T.C. TO ACHIEVE IS EXTRAORDINARY!
Can't u see d plastic surgery?!?! Excuse what black person has that nose ?!?!
@ sleek
mrs marriage counselor and how to find a husband guru. you sound like someone who is lacking something and is consoling herself with "at least i am married"
Marriage no be achievement o. e easy to marry and born pikin. To make millions hard for anybody (man or woman)not to talk of billions of $$. Abeg shut up. na jelousy dey worry you!
@sleek why the projection of your opinion? Success is RELATIVE, meaning you should allow people define what success means to them than shoving yours down their throat.
Linda why dnt u eva post my comments?Yet u post some useless comments more than once.
She had some of her ribs taken out years ago....not impressed....vanity upon vanity
She is a chubby person...I give her 2 months and her thighs will fill out again. She is going to end up like Oprah ....who upon all her struggles to be thin woke up one day and just gave up and admitted she was never made to be skinny. In oprah's voice...."there is a higher calling" perhaps to be fat
Yes photoshop too . The waist looks disproportionally thin
Wow. she's still one of the most beautiful celebs.
The best skincare advice and products are now available at www.thestunninglady.blogspot.com
Sweet jesus! All dis for comment
Sorry to burst ur "happy and fulfilled" bubble but u just typed a whole load of bullcrap!
Was her nose also photshopped or is she now seeing MJ's doc as well?
Her tiny waist is as a result of her rib removal linda. Sleek get a life, whether she wants kids or not is no one's business
I see.. she has now joined those clients of modupe ozolua right ? Lol
Mr sleek, why so angry??
Please stop taking panadol for someone else's headaches
Loooool
@ sleek shut up. Does having kids and husband the ultimate price in life. Abeg get out jare, make another person talk.
Why so bitter? Is it our fault that you're a fat ugly bitch? Mtcheeew
did she touch her nose like her brother? i hope another monster wont surface again in the future
I wish she would marry Tyler Perry.she deserves a Good guy like him.
Are you mad or stupid or foolish or all three put together? U must be a retarded buffoon to say what u just said.
Is that so? Google here i come
Nice shape ooooo
I'm i supposed to read all this pls?
Dear Anony 1:16,
Calm down abeg. You have no right to call an unmarried person a failure. How could u for Christ's sake? We all came here with different destinies. Just becos u are married and have kids and bla bla doesn't mean others are failures. Thank God for giving u all dat instead of saying d stuff you just said. Everything is still GOD'S WILL at the end of the day. Remember to include that in your book. Many women are doing all dat you said but their husbands would find them at GOD'S TIME. I don't wanna be unmarried and hanging around people like u cos that's wat makes most women so desperate they marry the wrong men so they won't be called failures.
Ehen, and make sure u 'screw' up and read this comment well as u no fit 'screw' up to read your own.
Very good plastic surgeon no ni
I am, the no Sender.
@ Sleek, All this long writing and for what eh? Just to let us know that by your own definition of success every person on planet earth MUST marry and born plenty children abi? Sleek tell me, does it make sense to you? And to think you don't give a hoot what others think. Your opinion should rule eh? Now that you are off the home of illusion I suggest you go to sleep on this subject and gather your freinds together on a round table with some drinks to add and discuss this subject and see if some of your friends will not start stoning you. Mr. Sleek, everybody has the right to either be celibate, single or married. No one and not even your fantasy can take that right from humanity.
Oh pls na today. After some time naw she go replace back her full figure.
Sleek.....U took da words right outta my mouth!Her figure is like an Hour glass coz she's never been pregnant,stretchmarks and all.How miserable......shame!
Keep it up and soon u will have no ribs!long hiss!!!!
All these procedures are getting out of hand.
wish hr waist could get her a husband
@ sleek, I strongly disagree. Janet looks great! Oprah we all know is not married but doing a great deal to support mankind & that is success. Your set goals in life would clearly be different from JJ's, Oprah's or anyone else but that does not in any way define success. Success is achieving those goals you have individually set for yourselves. Is it education, family - marriage kids, health and wealth. What is your goal? Your mindset is again important in achieving those set goals. Hope this so called book of yours will not be misleading - poor Waterstone Bookstore or Amazon the dumping ground.
She's pretty and for her age too. She works out like crazy.
photoshop!!!!! surgery!!!
Sleek,
I do not know wether you are male or female but the way you kept saying that you do not care about what others think about your opinions says a lot about you. In as much as I think that Janet's picture especially the one she is wearing a gown is photoshoped,I totally diagree with you about marriage and kids being the only thing that will make one complete,and before you jump into conclusions,am female, happily married with two kids.In no way do I ever look down on other women or even men for that matter who choose to be single or do not want to have kids.There is no way the whole mankind will like the same things.And do not forget that Janet was once married,so its not like she abhors marriage.Oprah had a baby that died shortly after birth as a tennager,so they are not your typical examples.
She don almost turn 50 & na sugery she and her family just dey waste money on . Y won't her body be like dat when she said she wouldn't carry a baby. Kudos to her but I won't be surprised if na operation she do by taking some ribs out & compressing her waist. Hollywood things #shikenah
Na true u talk
@ Sleek, I see u have very strong opinions about your definition of success, but I totally disagree with you.
Being successful isn't just about being married and having kids- that's a very myopic way of looking at life; there's a whole lot more to it!
If you- Sleek, define YOUR personal success by those parameters, then that's fine, but it is wrong for you to call someone else a failure because he/she isn't married or doesn't have kids!
*We'll excuse your typos, but if you're really planning to write a book, you certainly need to work on your writing skills!!!
* Oh! One last thing- You don't 'screw' up & down to check for errors. You SCROLL up & down.
All the best!
Yeah, very true!
U are a fool! A big one at that!!
U are very foolish! So people that are not married and those that do not have kids for one reason or the other should kill themselves? Because in ur words, they are failures abi? If I slap u eeeh.... Its people like you that would tell women to remain with abusive spouses until they are killed. Olodo!
If only I could get my hands around ur neck, I would strangle u. OMG!, I have not been this angry in a really long time!
Pls who is this person? You are one of d people who pressure people into marrying the wrong people n then they end up losing their lives.
So until a person gets married, he/she is not successful...abeg parkwell, when you get to heaven, God would not ask you if you were married or not, he'll only want to know if. You fulfilled your purpose.
I'll suggest you drop the idea of the book o...mscheew
Na wardrobe malfunction!
No, dnt rest ur case, come and talk, tell us wt d nose did to u. Pscheeew!
Who told u she is bleaching?? Its obvious u dnt hav sense, u jst wana see ur comment on d blog so u say anytin dt comes to ur weak brain.
Don't make ur point of view a standard!
It's just d way YOU view life.
What a senseless comment, can y'all try and think before u type??? Who sold michael to illuminati? And wat does it hav to do wit her waist being thin?? Sorry o
*HEAVY YAWN* save this epistle for ur so called book madam, we dnt need it here biko.
No, dnt rest ur case, come and talk, tell us wt d nose did to u. Pscheeew!
@ Sleek you are too funny! And you are right, she hasnt had any kids and I am not sure whether she is married at present cos she was previously married. Janet Jackson has never been a slim woman from day one and she yo-yo's with her weight! She is always trying to loose weight for years just like oprah only to loose it then gain it back horribly! I have always loved her music but I dont think she is truly happy. By the way she might be wearing body magic...lol!
I'm afraid u don't make any sense. That's to say that people who do not have kids any reason are not whole. I'm married and have kids but I don't agree with you one bit. Would u let ur daughter stay with a wife batterer because you want her to be married and have children. Life is all about making choices. Make urs and allow others to make theirs madam book writer!!
'I know some waste ones here will....' You are an idiot for writing that sentence. Live ur life and let others live theirs.....
Sleek, I lack words for your ignorance and stupidity. Ur bitterness is eating u up. Pls do quick and write this book of urs. I'm interested in this modern day olodo-ness. So ur standards of success must be everybody else's? And what if she just hasn't found the right husband? May God forgive u for calling his creation a failure though. Mr/Mrs know-it-all. Abeg shut the hell up and stop embarassing urself here joor!
People and their opinions sha. I don't blame u!
Linda please publish my response to Sleek's comment. I'm so irritated with what she wrote.
Did she have anoda rib removed again
Did she have anoda rib removed again
Pls spare d sleek person,evry1 is entitled to deir opinion nd dey expressed deirs,no matter hw it sounds.d name calling nd insults on dis blog ehn!
Nice comment!janet's weight yoyo's like crazy!so skinny today,like a muffin tommorrow!
Sending u kisses wherever u are. And hugs too!!!
Marriage isn't the be all end all. I guess it's a Nigerian mentality that looks down on unmarried(single) pple. As for Janet, plastic surgery or not, she looks good
Linda ogini? U no post ma comment. Janet hs made her choice...leave her alone.
Sleek, something is definitely missing in ur life, that's why marriage was ur consolation price. I'm so happy I don't have a mother like u, or anybody like you around me. Please remain there o, even if ur husband is killing u, don't leave. So u will answer MRS in heaven or wherever. No wonder girls do all sorts to get married nowadays. Its cos of people like you.
Sleek, STFU and get a life. There are other things in life than being married.
God punish u. Please don't listen to her. I'm married with kids and I still regret leaving my booming career to get married to a man that makes me beg 100 times before he buys groceries and other household items. I just resurrected my career 2 years ago and I have all my respect and earning power back. Please build ur career, that's what will pay u and ur children's bills wen the so called man starts spending his money on young girls outside.
Mtttccchheeew! Sleek, na u get ur mouth sha. Each to his own!!!
@sleek from your right up, it shows you are a man and wonders shall never end ehh. let me ask you a question are you yourself married please answer???
have you not been reading the news of recent in nigeria where a lot of spouses are killing themselves ehhh or are you leaving in kuku land i think sooo.
coming to run your mouth like tatashe tap you there open that your stinky gutter you call a mouth to say if you are not married you are not fulfiled!!! well i got news for you buddy it is better to be single and happy than to be married and misearble or even dead in the hand of your spouse okay and for once in your life appreciate women that are single and sucessful of which i am one of them and for your information, i make no apology for being single and very successful okay now get back into that you little box nonsense!!!
ONOME says..................
Sleek sleek.lolllllllll.I be no wan talk before o as everything that needs to be said has been so thoroughly said.I like my Nigeria peeps.They no dey fail.See as they don arrange u for pot,mamar u down and serve u back properly cooked!lolllll.I sure do hope u have learnt a thing or two from those that educated and opened your one track closed mind.lollllll.
Marriage sha:))))The pressure from society on the womenfolk is too much.After school people begin to ask " so when will u marry?" After marriage next they do tafia again and ask" so when will u born?"After u born one these foolish amembos will ask "so when will u give Jane/John a brother/sister????????Can't we just live and let live????????
Sleek, life is not lived by your rules.We all have the right to seek for our individual happiness the way we see fit.Get off your high horse and be quiet!!WHO THE HELL ARE YOU TO PASS JUDGEMENT ON ANYONE?nonsense.People make it sound as though marriage validates you;well ostrich,remove your head from the sand;it doesn't !!!!!It is good if you have found the right person to marry and have children and I hope those who are seeking for such find it.However those who still remain single are not failures.I am married with children and I have never for one sneered at my unmarked friends or made them feel inferior at my married state or bored them with how my life is so wonderful with my husband in it cos it's not true.Marriage is a lot of hardwork.So get off your high horse u silly cretin!!!
Sleek,
You are so stupid that words can not begin to encompass just how stupid you are. Go and sit down somewhere and stop spewing your ignorance, you entity of no commercial value.
Sleek, am too angry to write anything right now. All I can say is may God forgive you. I hope u don't raise ur children with this mentality though...
Sleek, U are only entitiled to ur opinion and not to other people's opinions. Always remember that when u talk and write. If not, you come out sounding like a bully. I don't like ur comment, but I will spare u cos u aired ur views, even though u refused to entertain other views.
Sleek.......I have not seen so much ignorance compressed in just a few sentences. Don't get me wrong! Everyone is entitled to their opinion without necessarily being apologetic about it, but the foolish and "failures" try to force theirs down others' throats. You come across as one of those fools that try hard at achieving this. My 2 cents.......you should live your life to encourage others or at worst, live it without influencing people! Going down the way of opening your mouth to pour out venom that could discourage others from living their lives is unecessary. You may want to rethink publishing a book as this might be a mission to destroy others..........get a life outside of marriage! Common, live......stop existing. By the way, I am "very" married to a loving husband, we are blessed with children, I have a great job! Above all, I am well equipped for all challenges ahead of me because I have God.
I see my comment really hut hard in you all criticizing my comment. You have to comment on the topic not on my comment bcos I didn't mention your name. It's just like trying to console yourselves I understand ,I know all the people who attacked me are runs girls or have one way or the other felt my write up as they fit into it lol. If u divorced or decided to be a baby mama bcos u want to be free to sleep around then I advise u to retrace your steps and face marriage squarely like your mum and dad did. Don't be scared afterall no one or even the bible didn't say marriage is always rosary ,face the challenges,face the fun,the happiness and the crisis in it. Don't always console urself with other people's failure or downfall. Some of u lame girls will say afterall Oprah is single so it's not bad to be single hey wake up and face it squarely pls. Stop taking every man u see as ur bf and be entitle to one and not people's husband ooo. I know for some of u who dont see marriage as a good thing will prefer single and rent apartment to be able to corner people's husband,club and sleep around and say afterall you are not questionable to any man. So stop criticizing my comments and comment on how and what u feel about the post not about my comment. Peace y'all
What the nose did is serious surgery...so fake looking. Annon April 9, If u don' t know, now u know. Defender of the Jackson family!!
And why are u all replying her with Anonymous? Foolish sleek. Learn to type correctly first. Screw ko..Scroll ni.
I don't know who this sleek person is but I'm sure she's stupid. How can u judge another person with ur own pathetic standards? I think you should get a life and stop dreaming that you're better than others.
@ sleek, get a life please if ur fufillment in life is hinged on ur husband &children.when children grows up and are livin their life,then wat do u do? U realize u didnt achieve anything personaly.then depression sets in and u become d wicked mother in law pokin nose where she is not?let ur fufilment come frm God and personal achievement. Read about the proverbs 31 woman. She had her life &added to her husband's. U dont need a man to make u fulfilled! Pls. Spare d world dat book u want to publis so u dont destroy our daughters' life with ur mentality.
This is the most annoying comment I have read in a while. Sleek, biko, face ur marriage. Marriage is not for everybody and career is not for everybody too. People just have to find where they fit in and develop themselves there. Unmarried people are not failures and married people without careers are not failures either! Daalu!!!
God Bless You jare
@ Sleek, be smart aπϑ remember, "one man's meat, is another man's poison".
@ Annoymous, stay there dey do mumu. Illuminati is real.
Janet Ʋ fine aπϑ I dey seriously beef Ʋ. However, Ʋ r not real. Ʋ r more like a plastic barbie doll.
All the same, I still admire aπϑ beef Ʋ ;)
Sleek u r sick if u see nothing wrong in ur post ... If calling God' s creation a failure cos they r not married u r very very sick ... N ur defence is that the r runs girl replying ur comment ... I want to google u pls my dear I want to learn frm u put up u real names ... Pls go n read TD jark book The Lady Her Lord Her Lover ....
Thank God I read that book very early in my life so pple like u ll not jt talk
Sleek u r sick
Sleek abeg go learn how to write english well or just write pidgin like me. First you write SCREW instead of SCROLL. Now you don write ROSARY instead of ROSY. SMH Lord have mercy.
U show the characteristics of a big bully and a stupid person who will remain stagnant in life because he refuses to learn. So now u r saying anybody that doesn't get married is a run girl. I must say u r even more foolish than I first thought cos u continue to write nonsense here. Keep basking in ur ignorant world, stupid idiot
Can someone call the grammer police for this stupid person? Thanks in advance!
Sleek, I now know u have a screw loose in ur head. Get a life looser!
This sleek person is obviously mentally challenged and bitter. Sleek, give us ur details let's help u before its too late cos am sure something is seriously wrong with u.
U are an idiot. Stupid ignoramus!
OMG! This level of ignorance and stupidity is too much for one person. Sleek! With everything u have written here, u are lucky no one has killed u or maimed u for life.
This guy is obviously uninformed and deeply foolish. Let's spare him. Its not his fault. Illiteracy and poor reasoning does that to people.
Sleek is bitter because he can't find a wife. Hahahahahahaha. That's why he is frustrated and pouring his anger out here.
this is photoshop naaa! abegi
please my fellow sane readers, please do me a favour...biko, ejo, mbok, please, ignore sleek. he/she is trying to crawl under our skin and get u to commit sin by responding. lets all ignore him/her and just say GOD BLESS YOU SLEEK FOR YOUR OPINION. WE"LL LOOK INTO IT"
who would marry sleek ehh what an idiot...
Nowadays everything is illuminati, why don't u people say sundays bombing was done by the illuminati, foolish ignoramus
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