Tchidi and Sophia Chikere
This is not gossip o, this is a press statement sent to me by Tchidi's publicist. Read below..
After nine years of union that produced three wonderful boys, respected movie producer, Tchidi Chikere and wife, Sophia will be going their separate ways. The couple who have been trying to make things work for nine years will be calling it quits.
They reached this painful decision after several break-ups and efforts to make the marriage work failed. The relationship was taking its toll on the children and affecting personal happiness of the couple.Continue reading...
The three children are with Sophia for now and Tchidi will be solely responsible for their upkeep and continue to play the role of a responsible father.
For the sake of the children and others involved, Tchidi Chikere will not be granting interviews or running down Sophia on the pages of newspapers. He enjoins members of the fourth estate and public to respect his privacy and help protect the children from emotional torments.
Tchidi wants an amicable process and protecting the wellbeing of their three lovely boys remains top priority to him, especially during this trying times. He thanks friends, fans and families for their prayers and support at this time and wishes that their (Tchidi, his children and ex-wife) privacy is respected especially for the sake of the three lovely boys. He wishes to remain friends with Sophia as much as possible within the circumstance.
158 comments:
hmmmm...SMH...A woman dt wanna Flet cos her husband is a Flet have herself to blame....hmmmm
Don't even know the dude. Never heard the name before this 'press release'.
What is going on? cant we ever read anything positive again?
Marriages ending, bombs blasting, people dying, govt looting, susan p porshe posing, LIB commenters cursing...
Everything negative..
Wetin come cause ds break up naw? na wa ohh! i have nothing to say than na waohh!
Oh dear...
I like d release though, hopefully no fbk and twitter wars. Btw, also heard of doris and daniel's case too. Really hope it's not true.
Does he have a hard on i mean..... well its not even big enough to talk about.
So they decided to end their marriage, did she just find out he wasn't just cheating with numerous actress'es but also actors?
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TCHIDI PLZ DONT DO THIS YOU LOOKS VERY RESPONSIBLE. THERE IS NOTHING OUT THERE MUCH BETTER THAN THE ONE YOU HAVE TRUST ME. SHE MAY THINK YOU RE THE WORST KIND OF MAN OR THE OTHER WAY ROUND, WAIT UNTILL YOU BOTH ARE OUT THERE THEN YOU GUYS WILL KN YOU HAD IT GOING ON.YOU TWO SPENT 9YRS FIGHT AND COULD NOT SOLVE WHAT EVER IT WAS, SO WHY NOT STOP FIGHT AND START LOVING AND SEE THE ISSUE SOLVE? 9 YRS WITH 3 BOYS WHAT ELSE CAN BOTH OF YOU BE SEEKING? I WONDER. MAKE NO MISTAKE YOU HAVE THE BEST. GOD BLESS,BOTH OF YOU WILL BE IN MY PRAYERS AND MY TOT
Kokoqueen is popping champagne with Dbanj money...I am first on LIB today....#dancingazonto#
I don't even know what to say but for the sake of commenting let me say they have sensibly done the most senseless thing. I now think I've said something sensible. Why build a house just to tear it down. It's senselessly senseless. (Let me go before my wife wakes up.) bye
Hmm. Didn't know they had kids. 3 for that matter. I don't condone divorce. I don't see how person go marry, come promise say na for life....then come divorce, as in throw way the history and memories they had! If the nigger isn't abusing the wife and kids, what else could cause them to separate?? Anyway sha, I hope Tchidi will respect his ex-wife and continue to cater to his kids needs. Nigeria don spoil finish o
Na wa for kokoqueen ooo... Nw nw nw she don conclude say d woman de 'flet' .... Issorai... Too bad marriages these days don't last so long. I wonder how they could have been struggling since their first year in marriage. Y then did they get married?
May God grant their kids the grace to cope with this separation.
What is flet?! Ohw u mean flirt!! Try pronouncing it wiv d actual 'ir'smh at some nigerian english!
This publicist needs to be fired. Too many grammatical errors. It made reading the entire post a little painful. Well,whatever happened to marriage these days. People divorce when things get tough.What happened to through thick and thin? Baba God we need you
ok ...and ? what actually led to their breakup... was it so bad that they couldn't even work it out? and from the way it is, they have obviously bn fighting for a while
BLABLABLABLABLA IS THIS NOT THE SAME SOFIA THAT SAID A FEW MONTHS AGO OVER HER HUSBANDS AFFAIR WITH NUELLA THAT SHE DOES NOT CARE WHAT MATTER IS THAT SHE LOVES HER HUSBAND AFTER 9 GOOD YEARS THEY COULD NOT ACCOMODATE,TOLERATE AND UNDERSTAND EACH OTHER WHAT A SHAME!
Wat is going on in naija , also i read yoruba nollywood actor Daniel ademinokan and wife doris don break up. it all over blogs n also fathia balogun confirmed it on twiter telling fans to beg d couple to make up. Some blog n media sayin Daniel had affiar wit tonto dikeh... hmmmm Linda Wat ur take on dis juicy story.. lol
WOW! she has three kids? she doesn't look like she's had any. she looks good. i remember commentators abusing her for the pouting lip, mustache, and pink lip stick. KAI! and whats up with the picture of him? looks so darn GHETTO.
anyway, its sad to hear when people divorce, so sad! but its no news that he does his "business" with up and coming actresses. i guess maybe she couldn't tolerate it anymore. or maybe he gave her an STD.
@Menakaya's Baby, its not just physical abuse that causes pain and/or suffering. NA WA FOR YOU.
@bloglord...lolol
@kokoqueen...1st ke??...popping palmwine #dancing windeck#
LMAO..........obviously, Nollywood marriages are fast going Hollywood. A pity.....and three lovely boiz.
Hahahaa! Bloglord has killed me oh! Abi oh...to be honest eh, b4 that BB porsche drama..I NEVER KNEW WHO SUSAN PETERS WAS! And I'm not kidding. I watch Nollywood films and I haave never seen or heard of the babe sha...Linda thanx for giving her small publicity..atleast now I don hear of am...lol
When you enter marriage with an exit clause in mind then the marriage life is numbered. But if the consenting spouses believe that this is it, no retreat, no surrender, then its bound to last.
Maybe he's the celeb that was recently caught shagging some random in a car??? Well, heard so many nasty rumours about them so I guess it's about time they called it a day!
@Anon04:03, haaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa!!!
Tchidi is never a responsible man and i know what i am saying.My brother once told me how he go around sleeping with girls and i even heard he was dating one girl in Nolloywood.I am not surprise for there breakup .
Sorry for Sophia because she would have married Ifeanyi Eboh from the same village with her Arondizuogu who used to live in Spain and this Sophia of a girl's father is so rich and he seems to be a well known man in Arondizuogu,Anyways,that serves Tchidi right because he might not get someone who is like his wife.All i can say is GOD be with the kids.I don't like that Tchidi of a guy .ONYE ARA ka obu and Linda if you see them or any of them tell them NDO.Life goes on
I noticed one thing.The wife bleach somehow and maybe he cant cope with her demands too.It is painful that they have 3 innocent kids that will now grow up and have early memories of this separation.Try to work this out oooo and not start dating other people immediately ooo(My Own Advise)Lets Keep praying for them.
Well he has been cheating on her with Tonto Dikeh and a few others for a while, divorce might not be a bad idea.
Haaa. Sophia, best advice of ur life, hold onto tchidi ooo cos as u keep face, person no go gree look ur bad make up face oo, ds 1 way look u, na I'm u wan leave. I don talk my own oo. Anyway hope u guys sort it out. Divorce aint d best oo
She tried sef! This man has fired all de Nollyhood Hoodrats!!! Scruffy looking dude with lame accent! Next pls!
Young couples are not willing or ready to sacrifice anything they just want to move on and be single parents and they don't know what dangers it holds for their children its so not fair our own parents sacrificed awhole lot for us. If you are not ready to get married then don't rush into it and start having children.
Lolllll@ kokoqueen what the hell is 'flet'!!!!! Is that supposed to be 'flirt'?
I don't understand all these people singing "don't do this".. Seriously with all the stories about this man and actresses allover the place this woman is lucky if she is getting out of this marriage without an STD. I get the whole for better and for worse thing but it is not about all the better for one and all the worse for another. I'm not saying the wife was perfect cus I don't know them but I've read enough stories about this dude to say his wife deserves a medal for sticking around this horny dog for that long...
I really donno what is happening with these theatre boys and girls in Nigeria. Divorce now seems to be the latest style in town. It was that between Doris and her husband few days ago. Same Doris brings so much joys to my heart - and even that of my wifey- whenever we see her act in movies. They are not ready to walk the talk as all these divorce cases negate their personal values when compared with what they preach in movies. I may have to stop watching the movies soon.
na wa oh. rily sad sha
TCHIDI CHIKERE IS A CONFIRMED DOG...HE SLEEPS AROUND WITH EVERY TOM DICK AND HARRY...HE LITERALLY BEGS WOMEN FOR ACTION...HIS WIFE HAS TOLERATED AND SWALLOWED SO MUCH CRAP FROM THIS FOOL
What sort of bleaching is this one now? See her face. Haba. Snow white.
Y do pple mak dese vows and end up breaking dem in d name of iriconcilable differences,dnt it mean anytin to dem anymre....dis is so sick and annoying..God be with dem kids n nt even dem d parents*YIMU*
so sad
wendu
They are following Hollywood trend. It is in fashion to be divorced. Why bother marry. We put pressure on people to marry and then put pressure on them not to divorce. I think he was an adulterer I think and she had had enough. Better now than later. But ladies don't think you can change a man cos you married him. Better not to marry.
ohhh! this generation! c our parents celebrating 50yrs in marriage(golden jubilee)30 yrs, 25yrs anniversary....all in togetherness.
these days all we hear is 72days in marriage n irreconciliable differences tears them apart, 2 years n its better we part ways to become 'kenny saint best'
Marriage is so sacred. lets not insult the sacrament of matrimony.
LINDA u see wat i mean wen i tell u to stop sreaming husband! husband!!
Dont rush in to fly out. Easy!
Ive always said it, its better to be single n happy than married n frustrated.
its not all abt d wedding, its about d marriage. slow n steady wins d race...
Its so easy to do nw, we really adapt so quick to western culture... After d whole celebration, they just path way. Too much oversea trips and tv.
Please you guys should be gentle. He has pleaded he doesn't want to be made a discussion topic (as if its even possible in this kind of issue). 9 solid years with 3boys.....They tried and are probably tired of trying. The issues they couldn't resolve must have been pretty much and really difficult. That statement he made about not wanting run his soon to be ex-wife down in the media may not go down well with her.
Na waoh, i knew there was a crack in d marriage cos chidi is a die hard womaniser. Flirting wt almost everything in skirt in nollywood... There was a story sometime abt hm and Nuella Njubigbo' secret romance, heard they were together at a party in Asaba frolicking together and Sophia had to call a friend who was also at d party to confirm it but she (d friend)smartly denied anytn... Sophia has bn running her mouth in recent times on how she loves her hubby and whn asked why she always appears in skimpy tns, she said cos her hubby only approves of those... I knew she was just fronting... Too bad they couldn't work it out... Also heard ysday abt Daniel and Doris' breakup... What is happening to our so called celebrities... I least expected ds.. God have mercy... Am out..
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lol BLOGLORD aint you ever heard "no news is good news"....therefore only BAD NEWS makes news.
Anyway i never heard of him either. What matters is they came to a concensus decision. Its better than forcing a marriage thats a sham. The kids are better off loving their parents seperately than hating them together.
Lmao@ susan p porshe posting.lololololol#accurate!
You commentators are so ignorant it hurts...why stay in a marriage if it is not working? That is why most Nigerian women are so sad in their marriages and cheating undercover. Too desperate to continue to answer a Mrs so so and so.*hiss* BTW...I have a crush on Tchidi so wifey, move over jare...
them dey issue statement? who cares? this e wife wey no like to be married woman so. you cant eat ur cake and have it. be married and act married.
A time to marry and a time to divorce what was married. A time to hate and a time to love. It nobody's biz y if they go separate ways, they may come back the same way. Pls respect their wishes
And she's hot o, 4 a moda of 3
Am not married but men did they try the love dare...could send it to them if they choose. its not over yet they can still make it work, love is a choice...Good morning good pple of LIB
Mmm. . . Tchidi who directs romantic happily ever after movies has not been able to make his own happily eve after. One cant be too judgemental in issues like this. From personal experience, I know that marriage is tough even for the best of us with the best of intentions. So does one have to live mserably for the rest of one's life? That I believe is a personal decision. So to each his own. I wish them all the best and pray that the kids do not come out too scarred.
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Married about 12 years ago with a boy. From the first day of the wedding to date it has been trouble in the marriage. Sex starvation and others. The woman did not only say she will kill me but she went ahead to describe how she will do it. We are still living in the same house all for the seek of the lovely boy.
Don't judge dem until u know d reason why dey went as far as divorce. It cud b somethn as bad as d kids being molested or finding out a patner is gay. Des r d serious reasons why u will have no option but 2 divorce. D reason might b worth it. U neva know.
I agree with bloglord
Marriage is for better for worst! Very correct, but when life is threaten u have to let go. They must have tried to work it out and is not working, he dat wears d shoe knows where it pains him. Let's just pray God helps us cos marriage either make u or destroy u. Wish them well.
wow i thought they will neva.but anyway na una knw o
They should understand that there is nothing out there. People need to fight and hold on to their marriages.
Tchidi i realy love u n ur work which u are very good at. why is it divorce, disengagement, killings and all sorts that is making waves now. we want better news from our celebrities. pls u guys should try and work things out, cos u r breaking the hearts of your lovely fan. i wish u guys the best.
hmmmm.... atimes the way couples discuss failed marraige as though it is homework dat was enforced on them......struggling n tryn to make it work but still failed,pls i dont understand. besides this couples in entertainment industry,do u people really love urself or the social events n camera most? dats y ur marriages dont last....both of u want to b in d limelight. one person wants to b identified more over the other......yeye.
Nine yrs n u wana break up? No mata d kind of problems dat erupted, i bliv u can stil sort it out. Don let dese kids go tru d psychological trauma of growin up in a broken home. U guys shld jst try n mend d situation if u stil feel sth 4each oda. I bliv true luv tolerates al tins.
May Gopd help.
I like this Dude, never even knew he was married with 3 lovely kids....chaii, divorce is now the order of the day bcos most people marry for LUST and not LOVE!!!
Why all these people marriage no dey last sef.....
Dr Loveth u r such a wonderful woman,i love ur advice to them cos just as u said, wen bof of them go out there and see how terrible it is, dats when dey will know wat dey hav lost,marriage is not a bed of roses so mistakes fights etc are bound to happen,anyone who claims that hes is perfect shud come out,and for the sake the boys dey shud just try and work it out,this is a mans world,pls women dont even boda urself tryin to cheat cos ur spouse is doin it cos everything will fall back at u.
I dont blame her, he cheated numerous times, people can research and you will see he has admitted to cheating on her throughout their marriage the babe try oo,he is one of the best producers!
Imagine the embarassement for her actresses are sleeping with her man! Some of which she could have acted a film with, whilst she was acting back in the day.
Well, that reality of life. Its a pity that the kids would suffer for all this. Marriage is not a fairytale. Unfortunately a lot of us go in thinking it would be all lovely dovey all the time. No it is not. Two people from totally different backgrounds coming together would not be easy. Once you realize that and are determined to make it work, with Gods Grace, it would. But if you go in claiming your right and cant tolerate nonsence, you are squarely on your own. About to be wed, take note
This lady looks like a girlfriend not a wife materrial, so i am not surprised. Guys stop putting these kind of women in your house, they have zero tolerance. Someone like Linda would make a good wife.
sad. wish them well.
heard she's a lesbian while he's a flirt.dunno if its true o
Oh well, another one bites the dust!
Is this also part of imitating the outside world...'Hollywood couples',dis is too bad
Whatever happened to d phrase 'for beta for worse'
Getting married to d wrong person is bad decision and getting divorced is nt any better
What happens to the three boys...this can also affect their mindset bout divorce negatively or positively and if its negative...u both have just started a long chain of divorce in your family from generation to generation
To SINGLES,we still have a chance to make d decision of choosing a life partner,most importantly let's make dis good decision based on good grounds...protect your children and their future
I think I have said enough...so help us God
@bloglord, ok dts hilarious..... but seriously its sad afta 3kids... dey know better.
@blog lord u took the words right out of my mouth. God bless you.
oh God please help realize that marriage is a life commitment and nt a game to play in and play out when tire. AMEN.
Its like most of these "celebrities" dont know what marriage is all about and the sanctity attached to it and that's why one minute they are all over painting the town red and giving people the impression that all is well and the next minute,,,its another story entirely.........the truth is marriage will never work if the couple involved do not know the AUTHOR....GOD,,,an get familiar with HIS MANUAL,,,there's no way u can use a machine effectively without getting very familiar with the author's manual.......anywayz,,i wish them the best with their new decision!!!
They both look so.......irresponsible. Not surprised
der s nothing responsible abt divorce.i realli dnt kno d wife but tchidi has always been a womanizer.
It's so easy to comment and talk badly about this couple but you guys dont have a clue about what really went down. As far as i am concerned, its better for a couple to seperate and live in peace than to raise their kids in a war zone. You will be amazed at the kind of violence and abuse children witness btw their parents. Whether you believe it or not, this affects the kids and their thinking.
I also noticed that there's a new stigma in the making - 'children from broken homes'.i can mention several great men that were raised by single parents and i can equally mention mass murderers, rapists that were raised by both parents.
9 yrs is a long time, they tried and it didnt work. Make your peace with God and go your seperate ways. Shikena!
I know God's 'cousins' will attack me for this comment but i thank God that none of y'all will be the gatemen at the gate of Heaven, if so bouncing go plenty! Lol!
God abhors divorce but he is also MERCIFUL.
Our entertainment industry is taking funny turn. Children outside wedlock and divorces...hmmm
hmmmmm.... divorce here and there in the entertainment industry. pls oo they should take it easy. its not the best. cos am going into the experience right now. infact they should look 4 a way to reconcile cos the children pls. its senseless ting to do now. Sophia life is not easy out there pls.
so I wonder which one was the cause Nuella or Tonto and which one will be perambulating in public with him now? She claimed happiness, but who can be happy when your husband is freely whoring in public? No suh.
Men cheat but can't stand it when they get cheated on. Guys, why do u serve us meals u cannot eat urselves? This is wot happens wn a man is served the same meal he's been serving his woman...he can't eat it.
All this fake people self
Yer,and all of u r saints!*better&long hiss*
Hypocrites!
Anonymous March 15, 2012 12:03 AM
God will bless U lol ... he's not cheating only with actresses but also with actors hahahahahahahaha
Looking at this picture, they seem like two people who despite being married dont want to grow up. they still want to have that fun, feel young instead of working on their marriage. marriage is not by force if you cnt handle it ls dont enter.....
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Tchidi used to be one of Nollywood's finest directors in those days and when he did African Queen, I thought he'd switch to music directing but, no. I would just subscribe cautiously to what Dr. Loveth has advised but to put in the same vein that should it involved violence, it's better separated than through death.
I'm just scared of what the country is turning into with the divorce stories everywhere. Does it mean marriage is no longer interesting? Two can only walk(in every sense) together when they agree. Thanks!
Iwu Gideon.
Why can't we hear positive news abt celebrities! Na wa oooh... Actors & Actresses brking up evri nw & den gosh!!! May God remove dis badness of brking marriage in d movies industry IJN.
IT IS REALLY A PITY WHAT WE HEAR EVERYDAY IN NAIJA. WHEN DID PATIENCE STOPPED BEING A VIRTUE? WHY CANT HUSBAND AND WIFE RESPECT THEIR VOWS AND STICK TO ONE ANOTHER COME SHINE COME RAIN?
WHAT REASONABLE EXCUSE COULD THEY POSSIBLY GIVE THEIR KIDS TOMORROW? I STILL RESPECT MY PARENTS TODAY FOR STAYING TOGETHER FOR US. HOW WLD THEY CORRECT THEIR KIDS WHEN THEY ALSO BECOME RECKLESS WITH THEIR RELATIONSHIP AND FROWN AT COMMITMENTS?
IF YOU CANT STAY MARRIED, DONT BRING IN THE KIDS TO SUFFER FROM UR EXCESSES. STAY SINGLE OR ADOPT.
DONT GIVE ME THE CRAB OF REMAINING FRIENDS. NONSENSE.
Sophia has done the best thing possible for her sanity and health. So that, that nasty philandering tchidi does not finally bring home a disease to the poor girl!! This man will fuck everything and anything!! he sleeps his way through every film set he is on, sophia has put up with so much over the last few years. from one of tchidi's sordid affairs to the other with the actresses he puts in his movies. I was expecting this separation alot sooner, i'm surprised she endured 9years with this disgusting man!! Everyone in Asaba knows him and his dick, how many times in the year is he even with her in lagos? hE's mostly in asaba coupled up in a hotel on a film set with some chic. Sophia you have finally seen the light!! Good on you girl!!!
Na wa oooooo,dnt u pple go to church or read bible? Have u pple forgotten dat God is against divorce? Why is it dat pple of dis days dnt respect God nd commandments? I pray dat God will open our eyes to see d implications of dis evil,we do all in d name of civilization.Both of u should think am well ooooooo.
kokoqueen, not! stop the childishness.
This press statement is Igbotic. How can he be solely responsible for the care and upkeep of his children while they live with their mother. This notion assumes that care of children begins and ends with throwing money at them.
WHY CAN'T PEOPLE STOP GETTING MARRIED?!!!!!I'm not a marriage fan and people think am stupid.I cant compromise,I JUST CANT !!!
And a lot of people are trying to please the world and displease themselves which is the worst sin in my opinion to one's self.
who are they anyway?never heard of either of them not being rude but are they responsible to any one?this is the problem wuth these so called celebs,they always feel they are important(their privacy?0do they have any?just go and look after your boys
dont even know them.they should go and look after their boys instead of looking for cheap publications
Tchidi used to be one of Nollywood's finest directors in those days and when he did African Queen, I thought he'd switch to music directing but, no. I would just subscribe cautiously to what Dr. Loveth has advised but to put in the same vein that should it involved violence, it's better separated than through death.
I'm just scared of what the country is turning into with the divorce stories everywhere. Does it mean marriage is no longer interesting? Two can only walk(in every sense) together when they agree. Thanks!
Iwu Gideon.
waow! people r saying things..see wat someone(allegedly close to the duo) said
"When Sophia is hanging out with oge-ugly we said it nah didn't we? They are both hanging out looking for men cos their marriage has crumbled tey tey!! Mtchew!!!
Tchidi fhucks all the actresses, and lives out of town, Sophia is wakaing about looking for men!! Mtchew! What jokers!!! I no go bloody pray for una cos I never finish praying for myself jare!!"
"Genefhuckingve was also fhucked by this tdichi man! He has sampled them ALL so genefhuckingve is part and parcel of this marriage break up!! god go punish that genefhuckingve for being part of it!!!"
N i say NA WA!
People always think the grass is greener on the other side and that you might have a better time with another partner. The euphoria of being madly in love wears off after a while and then everyone comes back down to earth. Marriage is work and people should learn how to make it work. Not just giving up at the first opportunity.
When couples take those vows before God,they should mean them with all seriousness. Unless there is a threat to one's life, as in domestic violence is involved, couples should learn how to tolerate and forgive. Nobody is perfect.
TCHIDI HAS ALWAYS BEEN A PASSAGE THRU FOR ACTRESSES TO MOVE THROUGH TO STARDOM ALL THE A LISTERS HAS HAD TO WARM HIS BED, 2 OF OUR A LISTERS HAD FOUGHT BECAUSE OF HIM, SOME LOVED HIM TO BITS AND ALMOST SUCIDAL WHEN HE BROKE UP.... OTHERS TATOOED HIS NAME ON THEIR BODY, SOME USES SPIRITUAL MEANS AND ALL SORTS, ABOUT 90percentage Of ACTRESSES HAD SEXUAL AFFAIRS WITH HIM, ALL THESE SOPHIA HAD TO PUT UP WITH. BUT WE HEAR HIS LATEST ESCAPADE BY THE NAME NUELLA NJUBIGBO IS THE REASON HE WANTS A BREAK UP WITH HER. SHE WANTS TO MARRY HER. I HOPE SHE WILL BE ABLE TO COPE WITH IT WHEN THE TIME COMES...AS FOR TCHIDI MAY GOD SAVE YOU FROM ALL THIS ISSUES
All Sophia needs now is our prayers because this issues just got out of hand.
I must say i saw this coming. With Tchidi Chikere's news on frequent filandering...I knew it was not going to last. Plus the wife na fine woman so she go don dey get offers too.. God help us.God help our mariages
E yaaa !!after all the shakara with ds guy?Sophia shared d same hostel with me in IMSU and she made so much noise about ds guy.Now see,though its too late for him.So sad she married a dog..
Good for you Sophie, Marriage is not a do or die affar. Stay and die miserable just to please a bunch of people who are not there to share your heartbreak and miserable nights alone. She is already raising the boys alone as a single mother. Good for her, bold step.
Wicked to marry one wife and keep at home while you go around is a no no, either stay single and mess around or marry and respect the commitment
why now?it is well
May God be ur strength
Na wah for all these comments o! So becos u have become wife u have to die there even if na window you take enter and the place no be for you! Please ask how she enter. Some women will know the man get Kokoro eye for women and they go still fight to marry him come dey cry after. Shiooor. Sophia knew what Tchidi was like and she did everything possible to marry him, Tchidi no wan marry. There will always be divorce when a woman marries a man who does not LOVE her
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What a shame! how can dis luvely couple allow wordly fings to come btwn them. I pray so hard dat our so called celebrities will embrace God, seek his face in order to get married nd remain married. All dat glitters are is gold.
Its not only celebrities that is divorcing, its everywhere these days. Most ladies are the cause of the divorce happening, they make life unbearable for their spouse, nagging and accusing them of infidelity when there is no proof. some always like to start a fight just to lure the man in hitting her. infact so many things are going wrong in marriages today!
This is so sad.This was one couple
i admired especially as she has been part of most of his movies.Its all good though-wish them all the best as he who wears the shoes knows where they pinch him most
It us ibvious that Some of u dont read ur Bible at all. The Bible supports divorce on grounds of infidelity. Obviously this couple have been unfaithful to each other and if they were not able to work it out or turn a new leaf, then they are justified to divorce. But they should not forget that infidelity/adultery is a severe sin in God's eyes. So divorcing each other does not remove that cloth of sin from their body, except they ask God for forgiveness and walk in his path.
Nuella!! Just bcos you have him now doesn't mean he'll stick with ur ass!! He's been with sophia for 9years and through all that time he did nothing but stick his bended dick in one hole or the other!! I know this for a fact bcos he begged my friend to date him. He wud drive from his house in maryland to surulere to beg for sex! One day I left them in the room and was eaves dropping on them and cud hear him begging her "please now, please now" then I heard her say "go to ur wife if ur that horny" u shud have seen he's face when he came out of the room! Any girl tchidi sleeps with he will definately boast abt! How did we know he slept with a popular married actress!! Everyone knows this bastard in Asaba!! I'm happy the actresses he slept with and boasted abt are more successful than he is! Atleast their making money and much more celebrated than that sent from the devil reject! I can't stand a man that 'kisses and tells' thank Goodness I talked my friend out of having anything to do with that ghetto lout!! As for you Nuella, you better get yourself tested!!
Firstly,may d good lord 4give u!2ndly,seriously?u must hav such poor taste!
Finally!a kind,unselfish comment!
@ Dr Loveth Orajiator,
Abeg make u help us tell thm ohh, weda dem go gree Take ur advice.. dem nor know say that place wey dem de go, road nor de ther
Please people do not give any pop psychology advice. It is only the ones that wear the shoes that know where they pinch.
I am not surprised pple marry these days for the wrong reason(beauty or wealth)The real marriage is not that heavy ceremony ooo nah after the ceremony :but if nah bcos of adultery or threat to life (so that we no go have another Arowolo case) you can go ahead if not make una try work it for the sake of your lovely children. They need your love not just the money.
This is sad :(
i am from a broken home and know how heard it was and still is for me.i have not been able to settle down till date. i remember how i use to cry and sometimes still do when i see people with their parents and just wished my parents were together but i guessed God knows best. my advise to the couples is to try and see a terapist to help put their marraige together cos what they have are boys and not girls.
why cant they practice what they act for once? why cant they learn from the movies and make it come true or become real for once? y do they think love is easy- going? they better wake up to sacrifice being made to prove u actually love someone. There is norin like forgiveness.
NUELLA NJUBIGBO karma is a bitch...get ready
Heard the gist he was sleeping around with numerous actresses....it was just a matter of time jor.See beautiful wife wey give am three boys yet...men are never satisfied.
Wonders cannot ease to end.. I looked at you couples as one of the most responsible & respected couples. But, this have showed that both of you are not so matured to go into marriage. Matured couples, no matter what happends, either the wife will hold the relationship and call the husband to order, or the husband will hold the relationship out from the public and calls the wife to order with LOVE & CARE !
Linda I want you to start a new post titled "Why Should Married People Stay Together if they are both not happy" -
my stand is if you make a covenant with God for better for worse you stick it out no matter what (our parents generation did) - but the argument amongst todays many youth and young married ones is "If You are Not happy just let it go" - Its all about how one FEEEEEEEEEELS these days " I dont FEEEEEEEEEEEEEEL happy. I want us to talk this out, It will be great post.
I have mix feelings on the Tchidis separation but i wont judge cos i am not in Sophias shoes. I reserve any comments.
nne or watever u cal urself u are so stupid by say dat sophia looks lk a girlfriend nt wife material idio u'r jelouse cos after 3kidds she stil look lk a virgin nt u dat hv nt drop any yet u look lk my grandmother idiot let me tel u if u dnt apreciate good ting good ting wil neve cm to u,how can u see a beautiful woman lk sophia after 3kidds stil look dis young,sexy and pretty instead of u to thank God u are saying rubish involving linda name rubish and u miss juwon u talk too much wt dat ugly picture of urs beter remove that pic and hide under annonymous lk other i dnt knw y ugly girls lk flunting there ugly face and pics and wen they see bueatiful ones they wil start trowing abuses on them,infact i hate jelousy and over sabi sabi people anyway i dnt blame u guys i blame tchikere 4 not cherishing d beautiful wife God gave him dat has warrant those dat are nt even upto her hair to insult her instead of praying for them 2get bck. anyway chikere i beg u in Gods name go back to ur wife who gave u wat so many couples are looking for but she gave u 3 at ones yet u are nt admiring them pls go bck to ur wife b4 u regret ur actions.
I think I remember this name from Linda's blog. Something about how she will keep her marriage inspite of her hubby's activities.
Well it takes two people for a marriage to last. I wish them well. They could reconcile or on ther hand, the husband will remarry and LIB will report it and we will read it live, with some possibly 'praising' him
What I dont get is why its the wife who keeps trying to keep the marriage together? WHY CANT THE HUSBANDS ALSO 'SUFFER IN SILENCE', AND TRY TO KEEP THEIR MARRIAGE TOGETHER?????
I mean just read this story! http://efemenaoreoluwa.blogspot.com/2012/02/husband-cries-she-was-raped-right-in-my.html
The audacity of the hubby playing victim!
Mena
No b today wey Tchidi begin dey cheat on Sophia, it haf rily tey shaa. Congratz Sophia... Divorce is beta dan havin a Pig as a husband :)
No b today Tchidi begin dey sleep wit any kyn gutter-girl, it haff tey since. Congrats Sophia... 'Tis beta to Divorce dan to b married to a Pig!
Oh i love this couple. I hope they settle their difference soon.
Oh, this couple are a beautiful, i hope they settle soon.
Whatever may have caused their problem?
Marriage doesnt work because you find a good partner or bad partner. People grow and they change. the thing that makes marriage work is the CHOICE.
If both of you are determined to make it work then it will.
The key word is BOTH of you.
I have seen bad people married for many years and good people break up. i have also seen good people married for many years and bad people break up.
Good or Bad, guess why it lasted, because they wanted it to last.
Another truth is that you can never tell what will last because God has not given any man the power to see into the heart and mind of another.
That is why it is the world. Strange things happen.
So please dont post any ridiculous judgemental rules here.
I believe in the power of prayer but i am the first to say that, wisdom is also necessary but even with the two combined, things can go wrong.
May God make the lines fall for all of us in pleasant places and just incase things dont work out like you planned. Trust that they will work out the way HE plans.
THE PREACHER!
Who cares if u don't condone divorce....clumsy oaf
Thank u said her husband is a flirt abi,must he flirt at d first abeg free d woman jor,first to do no dey pain second to do dey enter bone p:
WHATEVER IS THE REASON FOR THE BREAK UP.I THINK ITS BETA SAVE THAN SORRY.NO NEED TO STAY THERE AND GET INFECTED.THERE IS JUST ONE THING I HATE SO MUCH ABOUT NIGERIA WOMEN.DIS BEING A MARRIAGE WORSHIPPER .OGINIDA NA WAOOO.PERSON GO DEY DIE GO STILL DEY BEAR AM PHEW!I HATE HEARING ITS FOR BETTER FOR WORSE ABEG RUBBISH.LINDA ABEG WAKA COMOT BEFOR U GET AIDS
LWKMD...I always look out for BLOGLORD's post on every of Linda's update.
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Need I say, I have never been disappointed.
Always funny!!!
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BLOGLORD, you got a fan here.
@ TRUSON,
U r too much! lets kip reading their gists n throwing in our thots via comments naaa..abi?
one love..am with u all d way
Hmmm....if what "chick" said is true, then Na wa for tchidi jare!!! But come o! dis wife of his actually looks extremely white.
Flet? Oga o
Lol. Dick size pro!
I do recall there was an interview with her where she supposedly said something about dressing the way she does because that's the way her husband likes her to dress... Its a shame that they are going through especially with 3 children to consider
i think Tchidi shouldnt be criticized over this situation, his statement on this issue is so humbling.i wish both of them the best in their individual lives.
You didn't have to scream î†, bro! Using caps 'in internet parlance= screaming!
I'm sorry to digress but I can see that TruSon has taken down his display picture.I don't blame you bro especially after being propositioned by 'Miss Pepeye' the other day in that lewd manner..All these chicks sef that give the rest of us a bad name..
The couple who have been trying to make things work for nine years will be calling it quits - HUH? So from day one it has NOT been working? Na wa o. I wonder who filed for the divorce? What does this statement mean? Whoever wrote this statement ought to be fired, copying how the Hollywood publicist write but can't even do it right.
I feel bad for their sons, I hope that they try to maintain some decorum, end this amiably so they can ease these children's hurt and pain.
I hope she gets a good job, starts working for her own money so she can take care of her boys and not wait for Tchidi alone to provide financial support. It is always best for a woman to have her own money, I don't care if her husband is a billonaire. She should not act again, abeg abeg abeg. She was one of the worst actresses in N'wood which is why she was only always seen in his movie. The gravy train has rolled to a stop, get a job, girl and pull yourself up by your bra straps and be a positive role model for your kids.
Which Female has Tchidi not slept with in Nollywood - Lets go down the list starting from 10 yrs ago till now.
If you are as handsome as he is the temptation in this industry is strong. At least his is not drugs but pussy.
Divorce is NOT an easy option, try to work out your differences. Stop being a quitter. I've been married for seven years now, it's been extremely TOUGH for the last two years. Divorce has crossed my mind. But, let me tell you I am NOT going anywhere, until we both figure our marriage out and we know deep down inside that we gave it our best shot. My husband, later came on board with me that he wants to fight for our marriage. We are both going to counseling, learning to forgive, trust each other all over again. People if you can just work a little harder, give it another shot, knowing that marriage is another thing that you have to fight hard for, then divorce will not be an option.
dnt knw these guys but one look at the girl in the picture n i am not suprised at the news n i am indeed suprised that she made 9yrs- walahi, ahe try applause!!!!! wen u see wife material u go surely know.
@Caroline
Tchidi will just not stop sleeping around so do you want Sophia to hang in there till he infects her with HIV/AIDS? Who will take care of the boys then? In your case, your husband was willing to come on board to make your marraige to him work. In Tchidi's case, he refuses to remain faithful and Sophia has tried trying to stay in such a relationship for 9 years. Let them go their seperate ways because Tchidi is addicted to sex and cannot stay faithful to one woman. Chikena!
NiIs there anything that naijas don't copy copy. Naijas stay true to your morals and culture.
Linda see drama on FB Film group! No be you Egor Efok friend be this?
Emeka Nwokaka: what rubish? Must a marriage b/w nollywood artistes never work out? Shameful.
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Egor Efiok: My own annoyance is why he put out a public press statement to embarrass the mother of his 3 boys. The woman that went through agonizing labour pains to give him 3 whole sons. Na beans be that? Doesn't he have a heart? She has suffered recent abuse for going out looking worse for wear. People see others outside and don't know the inward pain they are suffering. Some deal with it by going out a lot in their quest to dull their pain. When i saw that very beautiful lady's photo recently not looking like her usual self, i guessed something was amiss. People were insulting her not knowing that she was hiding a great pain. And then Tchidi had to come and brutally let the cat out of the bag with his rubbish press statement from his English challenged so-called "publicist"! How dare he? Does he think that God is asleep? Why couldn't he have just had a discreet divorce since he had already made up his mind? Who cares about his nonsense razz statement? I have never liked Tchidi; he is arrogant and thinks the sun shines outta his fake arse. For embarrassing his wife like this in public, he will definitely feel the judgement of God. That lady will surely bounce back. Many men that are even chronic cheats at least have the decency to respect their wives. That press statement that Tchidi put out to humiliate his wife has made me dislike him even more times ten!!! Karma is a bitch. Vengeance is mine saith the Lord. Tchidi, bask in your glory for now oh, but reality will hit you full on in the face one day so hard you'd be weak. Useless wicked man!!! Mchewwwwww!!!
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Shebi I talk for NFC... Tchidi will start to fail in all his endeavours.. No peace.. As for nuella or wateva her name is.. If is true that she broke some1else's home.. She will Neva conceive.. Wat has Sophie done to deserve dis sort of humiliation? Nuella ur pains and shame shall knw no bounds.. Tchidi is a callous fool.. I hate u so much.. Tchidi d most precious thing to u.. God will take it off u.. U will start to sink from today.. People of Nigeria will collectively call u a failure.. U wouldn't end well.. Dis exactly wat led to a friend's suicide.. Sophie just bear in mind that God will strengthen u, and u r in our prayers.. I can only imagine d shame and pain u feel now.. Brace urself.. U r a beta woman, u deserve d best..
The Fleash has limits...
Look for something more profound.
All the newness wears out in r/ships and marriages.
What is your true self without the physicalities... That determines who you really are.
Try 'relationshipping'( permit me) for a while, cos then the swagger will wear out and you can 'deal' with the real McCoy...
Sophie is been adviced rightly.. Keeping mute in all these madness is the best for her sanity and also for d sake of her children.. I can't believe an ibo man can actually do wat her ex husband done.. Going to d press and all wat not.. He must b a fool, couldnt he just move on wivout making public? He must think he is a mega star.. I seriously don't get it.. There are worst men than him in terms of womanising yet they knw their limits.. You disrespect a woman who stood by u for nine yrs, def she is no saint, she might b a nag or watever but she endured all d Shame u threw at her..
Chidi u could v carried on cheating on her as usual but going this far.. I swear something must b wrong.. U r o nu in d game of cheating so wat would make u abandon ur home? It wouldn't b easy for u as well but pls reconsider ur actions and decisions..
Dat Sophie must have lost her dignity as a woman and a human being.. Like someone said put urself in her shoes.. Her pain must b 2 much.. D grass Is o greener on the other side trust me.. U can make it work.. U two need some time together so as think it thru..
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