"Lola is my girlfriend, my best friend and the mother of my child. She is a wonderful woman, there's no doubt about that. We've not had any quarrel since I met her. She is not in my life only because she's the mother of my son, but because she's a wonderful and a very understanding person" - Peter Okoye
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God Bless them both...
Haters, begin in 3... 2... 1...
I like the fact that he speaks well of her...
Then do the honourable thing and marry her Peter!
Put a ring on it,Peter.
then marry her, nonsense! why are you afraid of commitment? na akata mentality be that!
if she is as wonderful as he paint her to be why not marry her then?!....just wondering.....
una never quarrel before? if that is true then something is wrong with you guyz r/ship because two people who are together must disagree at one point or the other.
if you love am like that then make an honest woman of her and marry her ojare its not by professing your love on twitter or newspaper.
Awwwwww...that is so sweet. So when are you guys going to jump the broom Peter?
if so then put a ring on it fool!
I still dont get his point.... she is a wonderful woman,is it to have as a wife or to have as a babay mama
aw...sweet....
dis sounds like an open relationship
Na by force to marry??
A lot of the divorced folks said sweeter things than this.
If he not emotionally ready, he should not...to please 'us'.
End of Story.
Yall must understand that wedding is just signing of paper, marriage is deeper than being labelled man and wife, its an emotional thing. In peters context, he is married to his bestfriend. They dont need label or signing of paper to justify their love to everyone. Its their private life and let them do as they please. I wish them the best
Well, Im Glad she understands that her man is public property and we're Fucking :) i mean, thats all it is, he's a great guy but i keep fighting the love we hav cuz i know i dont want 2 marry him.
that is so sweet of him to say
wendu
'Lola na ur girlfriend, best friend mother of ur child, not in ur life becos she's the mother of urson, wonderful X 2, very understanding'
Wetin be all this Peter? Who ask you question? If this girl is all of the above, then wetin you dey wait for before you do the honourable thing and make an honest woman of her.
Marry her now!! Or you dey wait for your son to grow and propose to her on your behalf? Orishi rishi Mwchewwwwwww.
Na your shadow dey chase you joo. I beg marry her or hold your peace
It looks as if he wants to marry her but some people are against it because she is older than him.
He should marry her secretly because it is happiness that matters. She is not after his money like most girls out there.
THAT IS REALLY NICE OF HIM TO SAY..AT LEAST HE IS ELEVATING THE MOM OF HIS CHILD..VERY NOBLE OF HIM AND I REALLY APPLAUD THAT..THAT IS A REAL MAN TALKING>>>
HOW COME ON THE OTHER HAND HE IS SAYING HE WANTS TO BE LIKE FELA HIS ROLE MODEL??? ANYWAY I KNOW HOW IT IS WHEN U THINK U HAVE ARRIVED AND THERE ARE SO MANY WOMEN TO CHOSE FROM AND CONSIDERING HE IS FAIRLY YOUNG CONFUSION SETS IN, AND MAKING A COMMITMENT MIGHT BE A STRUGGLE!!1
@ Ze Soul Child - all that you've said is good and well but if something happens to him tomorrow, what legal standing does she OR her child have? She has no legal authority to make any decisions concerning their lives together, her interests and that of her son are not protected in anyway because she is NOT his legal wife. The court does not recognize girlfriends or babymamas. In Nigeria, If (God Forbid) yawa gas tomorrow, if he turns out to be a jerk, she is out on the street with nada.
If she is all that he has said, why can't he marry her and legitimize his son? They don't have to have a big to-do, pick up the licence, two witnesses and a pastor and sign the papers at home. Simple!
blah blah blah put a damn ring on it idiot! you no even pity the girl say she don dey old.. nonsense.. this is what happens when older women open thier thighs for kids they are old enough to mum! mscheewww
I've been married. It's overrated. If their relationship is good, leave them be.
On that note, please don't tell my mother I said such a thing...she's still praying for her son-in-law.
Then marry her abi....mscheeeew! isn't her dad an oil exec? yeah you better speak well of her Peter before you turn up missing
Lol @ lola being on the street if the man abandons her.
SMH
You obviously dont know that her pedigree is way higher than his.
SMH
Sharrap there..
Make a honest woman of her and give her your name!
Lola he means it but you need to step up your game and get the RING! or another woman might and Linda will still write about that one too.Donot be foolish....
Surprised Peter said this. But i'm totally happy for them. MARRIAGE? If they aren't ready, they shouldn't rush. It doesn't pay to rush in and rush out. Commenter ME "U re jst dying for Peter Okoye. Wishing he..." Stop trying to cause Lola heartaches...
Marriage is not for everyone. If they are happy with what they have going for them, fine by me.
Peter's statement is pure bullshit. Action speaks louder than words. If you love her so damn much then stop humiliating her and MARRY HER! The anon that said something about her not having any legal standing should something happen to Peter is so on point. Courts do not recognize baby mamas and girlfriends.
And what does he mean by, "she's understanding"? Is it that she'S understanding that he gets more ass than a toilet seat and its okay with her that he sampling women left and right? I mean, WTF!
Unfortunately, this Lola won't probably leave his stupid ass and will stay their by the wayside hoping that he comes around. And if he ever comes around, it will be when he is well into his 40s and she is in her 60s by then. He will then marry a younger, slimmer, finer chick. That's how men do.
She is not in my life only because she's the mother of my son, but because she's a wonderful and a very understanding person"
WTF does that phrase mean? Negro speak something somebody can decipher!
Awwwww! Don't I just love you Peter? Hmm,so sweet of you. God will guide you to do the honourable towards this Woman.
i recall lola saying years ago she wasnt interested in marrying him. when his brother said he didnt think they would be getting married there was a meltdown on bella naija comment section.
perhaps she was serious... SHE doesnt want to marry him. isnt that possible? to provide for his child and her ll he has to do is write a will. in Nigeria even if your married without a will you are on shaky ground if ur husband dies.
If marriage/wedding is just about signing a piece of paper, why be scared of it?
*ajalahtravel*
ode! chicks will put up with crap sha...
monogamy is not for everyone...
marriage is not for everyone...
EVEN IF THEY GET MARIED TODAY, UNA GO STILL TALK THAT SHIT WEY FULL ONA MOUTH. BIG BOY PETER, GO ON WITH WHAT PLAN THAT YOU HAVE IN YOUR MIND.
Maybe they do have some kind of stuff to figure out before they join again
WHAT ABOUT PAUL? SOME PEOPLE SAY HE IS GAY COS AS A MATTER OF FACT WE HAVE NEVER SEEN HIM WITH A GIRL. IS HE REALLY GAY?
of course she is understanding.
very understanding.
since when has marriage become a must do thing, live and let live, so far they are both happy every other thing follows
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of course greencow,she is understanding..bla bla bla..then fucking marry her.
Your outthere frolicking with ladies and content that u have an understanding woman?bullshit***nyways,Lola is a gbogboz big gal by al defn..Just wonder why she fell for ur stupid charms
The way people r going on about her age baffles me.Is she not 35 or 36?and how old is he 30..?So that makes them to be in same age group.Plus or minus the difference b/w their age will 5 or 6yrs difference is no big deal.I tire for naija people.Peter do the right thing n marry her don't mind what people will say.She's a luvly woman.
na der d story go end??we r hapi u acknowledged dt fact,so wat r u scared of??abi d walk down d aisle sounds very scary????abi is it d tot of ending ur days as a bachelor dt scares u more????abeg do d ryt tin if she is all dt u claim she is b4 someone dt has more guts dan u beats u 2 it ooooo!!!!!!
'We've not had any quarrel since I met her' that is either not true or its weird!!! how can 2 people have a relationship, any kind of relationship, and not quarel??? I bet Peter must have quarelled with Paul some time let alone someone u get down on!
make una carry go sha, anything una talk, we gree. Make time just waka dey go, e go tell
Xena, it's a ten or eleven year gap. Whatever rocks her boat. I thought they were not together anymore. He keeps talking about her as if he has to justify something. I know his Mum is sitting on some serious prayers for that pretty girl. LOL!
She's quite close to Modupe Ozolua too. LA connection i believe...
Then get more serious,Peter.....He said she's very understanding,,maybe she doesnt mind the fact that Peter could be doing other babes out there....
@ME.....just shut ur trap and dont try to make urself important here,,,,u see it as an achievement on ur path fucking around with another woman's property,,wat makes u think Peter loves u or think u are on his marriage plans that u say u're fighting the love u have and u dont want to marry him??Dummy gurl....
Why are people soo shallow? must marraige be the all in all? Have u guys thought about the fact that they might both not be interested? Is it not better that they have a good relationship like this, than they marry, divorce and become enemies? Understanding loo matter, and if they are both happy with their arrangement, then FREE them, it's their lives not yours, they are the ones wearing the shoe not you all Haters and I TOO KNOWS.
Why must you guys resort to insults..damn!!!Some Nigerians can be so aggressive, just take a look at the comments here...I fear for una o
@Anon 8.31, Paul is so not gay.actually he is d very emotinal one.he writes all d love songs u hear them sing.he dated one girl all thru our university days.n d gal he is dating now(n has been dating since his final year,ie 6yrs now),they ve bn together even when he was a hungry boy.her name is Anita. Pls get ur facts right b4 u spill.MHO
she is @understanding' means, she allows me to fuck around and come back to her as and when. just his brother and most of the celebs who claim to have girlfriends and or babymothers. people think someone like 2face is the ONLY bad one....he is not! Dem plenty. what annoys me is the crap they now release or say in interviews and some people just fall and assume it is the whole truth because they said so. NO IT IS NOT. Not one of them is any good. The women in their lives are not happy at all. they go through hell and result to so much to get so far.
na wa 4 haterz. wetin do u jst hatin 4 no apperant reason? Yet u still listen to psquare music... the guy does not care bout u. Peter keep doing ur thing watevr rock ur boat pls do n let God be the judge.
Buzz for album sales. *Yawn*
go and do the right thing marry her today
Mixed race women can be very needy *yawn*
Anonymous@8.31am, Paul is not gay at all. He is more romantic than Peter.
On a foreign TV show; we saw all the clothes and shoes that he brought for his girlfriend who was an undergraduate at the time.
He was crazy about her. He can spend any amount on girls.
why don't you guys allude your minds to the fact that she might not want to get married or be under the control of a man,must you criticize always.
am sorry but you can't have quarrel in an online relationship, Peter or Paul or whatever the hell your name is...
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