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| The new baby mama, Bukky Godis |
A: Yes I did
Q: Rumor has it that 9ice went into that affair because you went into a new relationship, how true is that?
A; That is not true, he has been in that relationship before we separated. In fact the day I found out about it, I confronted her over the phone and she reported me to him. He came to fight me because of that and later called his parents (Alhaji Azeez Akande, Tawa Oshodi) to come and pack me and my son out of the house.
Q: Some ave alleged dat she was d one who broke ur marriage. Is this true?
A: yes she was the main reason along with issues with his family. All that ruggedman story was rubbish, I'm not even attracted to ruggedman cos he is like a brother to me. Aside that, his manager was feeding his parents false stories about me cos he wanted me out of the picture cos he thot I wanted his job and also his brother Dr Wale Akande convinced them I was after his property because I stopped d brother from continuing with building our house after noticing some monies where unaccounted for. Mind you I met my husband when he was struggling, none of his family members sent him then. We were staying in my family house and his apt with Jahbless in Ikorodu and I loved him regardless, so what property could I have been after? I toiled night and day with him so why would I want to cheat him. The parents would come to the house to fight me, yelling curses, trying to frustrate me out of the house, the mother tore my dress one day and I ran for mine and my sons safety. This caused a lot of tension in our relationship but instead of him to stand by me he ran to another woman.
Q: What was ur reaction to the twins news wen you heard it? Were u angry? Did u call him to ask about that news of a woman having a child for him?
A: Yes I was understandably angry because from day 1 he knows I don't want polygamy for my children if I can avoid it and also cos I felt he shud have divorced me first and married her before engaging in such. Like what example is he setting for his son. Lastly I felt if he would impregnate anyone it should not be the woman who broke our home.
Q: Why have u been quiet all this while about your marriage break up?
A: I tried very hard to protect him even when people rubbished me. I never said OK he was the one who messed up because I felt he would be wise and consider my sons interest, when taking life changing decisions that could affect Zion. A part of me wanted to believe he would never put his own bloods future at stake for cheap thrills. I changed my mind about talking when I read a recent paper and noticed his manager was already trying to twist things to make it look like he moved on and got someone pregnant cos I'm engaged, I'm NOT engaged, so I just felt enough is enough, I don't know why they must always bring my name up to justify their mistakes. I had to ask myself, Why am I protecting a man who continues to make me look bad to protect himself. I felt it was time to be true to myself and quit deceiving myself that he will soon feel remorse for his actions.
Q: Was it because you wanted reconciliation?
A: No, I just felt I should protect him because I guess a stupid part of me still loved him and felt he would come to his senses and at least do right by my son even if we never reconcile. At d end of the day I'm human and have emotions too, guess I never predicted things would get this bad.
Q: For the very 1st time, can you tell me what broke your marriage?
A: Simple: 3 things broke my marriage: His family's interference, His Manager's interference and His affair with Vicky Godis
Q: Whose fault, your or his fault?
A: I can't say I was perfect, but I NEVER cheated on him. I was pregnant and later nursing the entire time we were married. Also, before I got married I knew what being loyal is, I also knew there is no way I would ever cheat on my husband. Its not my way. Yeah I would get angry when he cheated on me, I felt it was a normal reaction when you love someone and they are doing things to hurt you but still I never left him. The separation was not my idea. My son was 11 months old, a week before his 1st birthday, his parents threw us out. My son spent his birthday in a hotel. I was sitting in my house when his parents came, they packed my things and my sons things into my car, I have pictures I took as evidence and I drove off with my son to a friends hotel in VI where I stayed for 3 weeks. Meanwhile he was with Vicky in Abuja while it was happening.
Q: Is it true you have asked for Divorce
A: Yes, I have. He is yet to file. If he is so sure he doesn't want to be married he should have no problems divorcing me. Allow me move on and give my son a family life he deserves.
Q: Do u see room for reconciliation?
A: I am not God so I can't say yes or no but he has hurt me too deeply to just go back. It would take a lot of healing, although i've moved on forgetting the pains is not that easy. At the end of the day, only God know where our future is headed.
Q: Some accuse you of forcing yourself on him and that you are older than him and that he couldn't just say no
A: I never forced myself on him. He did all the chasing, even when I said I can't marry a musician, he never stopped, he kept assuring me that if he got famous he would not change and I trusted him. What people don't know is we got engaged in November 2007, even before Gongo Aso became a hit, some said its because I was pregnant, that is not true, I got pregnant 5 months after we picked a wedding date. I am not older than him, that report is also false. He is older than me.
Q: Can you let us into how u fell in love wit 9ice? Who toasted who? Did u make the 1st move or he did?
A: He toasted me, I resisted in the beginning because I did not want a musician boyfriend, I later agreed because I felt he was sweet and sincere. How he changed so much is what I'm not sure of. Maybe bad advisers around him.
Q How did you feel when the news broke that you are dating ruggedman/ Did u ever date him?
A: I have said this hundreds of times, I Never dated Ruggedman, I was never caught with Ruggedman or any other man. At first I did not take it serious because I knew it was a lie. Iv known ruggedman longer than any guy in the industry, we have always been friends but never dated. Till date, we have been and still are like brother and sister. That ruggedman story was a terrible attempt to destroy my reputation. I'm not loose, I don't sleep around, I don't jump from man to man, I know the consequences of cheating so why would I engage in it. Why would I build with a man, when I know I still want to play around. Why would I destroy my home carelessly. I'm not stupid. That makes no sense to me. I thank God I have a fighting spirit because I did not let the lies or insults bring me down.
Q: How did u meet 9ice? For how long did you date before marriage?
A: I first saw him in Oct 2006, he came to back ruggedman up at Gbenga Adeyinka's Anniversary. We dint hook up till the following year. I went back to the states and we would chat online and talk on the phone for hours. We got married in July 2008.
Q: How true is the story that you were too overbearing on him?
A: I do not think I was overbearing. I wanted the best for him so yeah I may push him to strive for the best. I don't think that's a bad thing or something worth breaking a marriage over.
Q: How come it didn't work out
A: It takes 2 to make a marriage work, if one party insist they don't want it to work it will cripple any effort made by anyone. The mistake I made was entering with my heart and not my head. I should have taken his family background seriously and made 100% sure he had the same family values as me.
Q: Let's get to know about ur growing up years Where were you born?
A: Though my family decent is Ogun state, I'm a Lagos baby. My childhood was fun, grew up and only child but had a lot of cousins to play with. Let's say I had a sound childhood.
Q: How about your growing up years and Schools attended?
A: I shuttled between America and naija as a child and till now so I attended primary n secondary in both countries but finished my university education at California state university north ridge
Q: Having studied in the US, what professional/education courses did you take?
A: I studied video digital art
Q: Your parents how did they influence you, It seems you are closer to your mum?
A: they taught me to be very open in all I do. Yes my mum and I are close, shez always been there for me.
Q: Your career choice, Why showbiz?
A; Showbiz is something I stumbled into since about 1999. I started it as a hobby and eventually turned it into a business. I'm happy I did.
Q: You are into Modeling Music and Beauty how did u find yourself in all these?
A: life has drawn me into everything I do now. Something always transpires that leads me to my calling. Plus I'm a business minded person, very driven and don't mind getting my hands wet in new ventures.
Q: How do you cope with managing artistes? People say that can be wild
A: I am blessed with artists that don't engage in bad activities so I count myself lucky.
Q: Tell us about your label. How many artistes do you manage?
A: I currently manage three artists; Adol, Zara and Olamide and all three are focused people. Olamide and Adol just released their albums titled Rapsodi and Orin, respectively. Zara is currently working on her debut album
Q: Did you ever manage 9ice How did you cope fitting the 2 roles?
A: I took care of his international relations as well as some PR. I did it because I wanted him to succeed not because he hired mee or was paying me. Its what I love doing plus I was very passionate about his music so it came easy
Q: Marrying a star means u coping with his female admirers. How did u cope?
A: Well, I'm in the industry as well so I know it comes with the territory. It didn't bother me so far he kept it professional.
Q: What are your full names? Toni Payne sounds oyinbo, How come?
A: (laughs) Toni is short for Antonia and Payne is my last name. My Yoruba name is Seun
Q: How come you and his manager don't get along?
A: he disliked me because he felt I wanted his job. I believe it was ignorance disturbing him. I wasn't interested in his job. I just wanted to be helpful to the process by contributing my knowledge. Guess he knew he was horrible at his job hence the insecurities. For me I dint care who managed him so far the person was doing a great job.
Q: When the news broke dat you were marrying 9ice in 2008 many felt you rushed him. Did you?
A: in 2008, no we did not rush. We were engaged before he got popular so because the marriage took place around the time people started appreciating him, they felt it was a new decision when it wasn't.
Q: Then Zion came isn't dat a rush?
No, I was of age and so was he. We discussed it before, its just because everything was happening around the same time people wanted to know more about him. It wasn't a new decision at all or something that just happened. No.
Q: Is it true that this lady that had kids for 9ice has always been 9ices girlfriend before you came into the picture?
A: (laughs) No, that is not true. My husband met her a few months before our separation. I believe in September 2009 or thereabouts. Her name is Vicky "Bukky" Godis. She works at ECOWAS in Abuja.
Q: What id being a mother change in you
A: it made me more tolerant at the same time more protective. A mother son love is unique. Very special feeling.
Q: Any regrets about how your marriage went?
A:In life there are always two sides to things. People never gave me a chance before judging me. I received so many insults, hate mail over something I did not do. It was painful knowing I was innocent yet a lot were quick to crucify me. Ill just say to those who judged me blindly, may God forgive you. Next time find out facts before castigating an innocent person. In Nigeria women are usually judged unfairly and this act has to stop. Its very very unfair.
130 comments:
so all this while the problem was from his family.... I wish her all the best in her new life...
9ice is a foolish man he might not even realise wat hes doin now until later n future, i see dat all d fame is goin into is head.mr foolish
I will Hust say to Toni Payne, I feel your anger, pain and frustration. Women we are our own worst critic and enemy.
People wonder why there are only few women in Politics and say men dont want women to grow beyond them, but I kept wondering that with all the women in PDP not one of the voted for Sarah Jubril if atleast to support each other. Why because we are all so envious of each other.
Toni I pray God continues to be your strength and Keep being a good mother to your son Zion, and I believe Marriage is an institution ordained by God, and since you married your husband and from this interview I know you still love him, no woman born of a woman can steal him from you, whether she has 20 set of twins for him. She will not find happiness there(No be curse), especially if she broke your marriage.
And to the ladies here before you crucify Toni, think this could happen to you, and no one would wish someone steal her husband. Respect people's marriage. We are meant to support and up lift each other not being hateful or spiteful.
Toni just in case things never work out with 9ice, just know that the God will never take you to where is grace wont cover you.
And yes you have a lot to be angry about, and who is to blame you for that. And Bukky or Vicky Goodis, leave another woman's husband and find yours.
9ice grow up and be a man.
Eeyah!!!
Naija men will always be naija men. They will never evolve unlike their oyinbo counterparts. Thats why they have never invented anything, pen, mobile phone, TV, aeroplane, car, suit,and so on.
Their head is somewhere else and they have zero respect for women except their mother and maybe daughter.
Nuff said.
I've always known 9ice was stupid, but this is on another level
Toni Payne I feel ur pain(no pun intended), hun I know ur reading this, you are strong and you will defn find a way out of this!!!. It seems terrible now but promise, it will get better with time. Dont even bother urself about him bcos u are too much for him. His one hit wonder song will fade away, but you will keep on going strong in ur career and life. Watch karma bite Vicki in d behind. Most defn will.
I've always known dis lady was inocent but many didn't give her a chance. I even asked some; what if she was their sister, will they abuse her so and will they allow people say so many hateful tins to her? I know tins will turn around for her soon. It happened to 2face, now everybody is eating from his palm. It's the turn of Christ Brown so i xpect Tony Payne 2 have her turn soon. Haven said dat, i tink she's still in love with 9ice.
As far as I'm concerned any woman that knowingly dates a married man or a man in a committed relationship has very low self esteem. Women we need to respect ourselves if the men can not control themselves, let us say no.
If Toni's version of events is true I really feel for her, I've seen so many marriages destroyed by family interference. I hope she can move on from this and be strong for her son
the part that is sickening to me his 9ice child celebrating his birthday in a hotel. if ever the woman was guilty why put ur child in such trauma? this is what u get when u don't share same family values as ur partner. he's from a polygamus home so its safe for him to continue in that light. ever since this whole saga started i have had thiss thing for 9ice and his career. i almost choked everyone in my house with his songs...na i barely listen to them. Olamide futured him on one of his song and i didnt buy that album becoz 9ice was on it. my reasons are even if u wife actually did what she was accused of..u should have defended her for old time sake..atleast for the tiny love u once shared...
Aww...I feel her pain..:( (I thought she was gon' rip the interview..hehe)She sounds like she still loves him...:(
Toni, be strong darling.Kisses to ur son...:)
I know this is hard to deal with Toni, i feel ur pain but i suggest u be a lil matured about it and keep quite, silence dey say is golden n d best ans 4 fools. goin abt puttin updates on fb/twitter will just mk dem feel u r hurtin so much n u hvnt gotten ova it. as painful as it is hun, leave it to God. no more interviews or comments about it. let ur hair down n hav fun...God will surely see u tru...
Twins not just a baby girl or do you have more information Linda?
Hymmm, Toni Payne now looks like a saint? I knew his family had something to do with their break up.
As for Bukky Godis, I don't think anybody should blame her. That was what 9ice wanted instead of Toni from Day 1.
Toni lied by saying she did not push herself on 9ice. She helped him but did not have to marry him. The family problem was there and will remain there.
Some difficult Yoruba families don't want their sons to remain married and happy unless the wives can stoop low and behave like fools. Toni did not fit in, even as a Yoruba girl.
It'sn a sad story and I feel bad for Toni. I guess the biggest lesson is that men do NOT change after marriage - She hinted that he was cheating on her before the separation but she stayed because of love. He therefore didn't behave unexpectedly with Ms Godis.
All my ladies out there, don't ever make the mistake of thinking you can change a man. Make sure you like his colours before mariage. Because he will reveal even more of those true colours when you are married.
Sorry again Toni, hope you find God's healing at this time.
Am in tears reading her story and could not believed a woman can go so far to suffer insults upon insults to protect her husband's career....Wow! I would love to marry a woman like her, looking out for her husband. May God Bless you Toni Payne. You are a great Black Nubian Queen. To those who judged her, including me when her story first came up...I beg God to please forgive me and everybody that judged her wrong. I have learned a big lesson to never judge until you know the full story. God please forgive me and to Toni Payne, i am so sorry....
I dont send both of them
But i was rooting for them to come back
For the sake of zion
How sad
Anon 7:35 You hit the nail on the head. I hope and pray to the Lord they evolve someday.
Someone needs to fire the interviewer. Lazy and unprofessional interviewer. How do you cast assertions like that?
What happened to the other Glow chic 9ice was also dating? I saw him and his manager in Dublin with two 9ija girls in his hotel room. This dude is going to be worse than 2face with baby mamas. His manager is not helping him especially with women, since they both sleep around with different women and is not going to favour his career to be sleeping around with different women in and out of the country. I hope he wears condom and please don't let fame overshadow your commonsense.
i'm nt a fan of either of dem but let us be realistic wen everyone hs issues with you check urself
hw come his uncle,manager and parents have issues with her
in yoruba land you have to tread carefully with your in laws
9ice shud also manage stardom wisely
enuf said
i agree with didi dt silence is really golden
If all Toni Payne said in this interview is true, then, I feel sorry for her. If it is true, it shows she has really suffered in the hands of everybody (9ice, 9ice parents, the public, her family etc). I pray God makes a way for her where there seems to be way. I pray that God's perfect will be fulfilled in her life.
You will be fine dear. Godbless
@ anon 9.42 have so wondered y everyone has issues with 9ice? ID CABASA, ruggedman, jahbless, his wife and son? in other words Toni has issues? oh pls! i have a step mom that has a beautiful heart, but my dads people think she's the discouraging my dad not to send them at all. my step mom is always the telling my dad that this pple r u family o, but the dude is adamart for personal reason known to him so when they say my step mom is bad i just laugh coz this is the woman rooting for u all and u here giving her names. it was only time 4 9ice to prove himself which he did....have u seen him of late? have u listened to his song-appetizer...so diff. from 9ice i used to admire...what will be will be..but truth is Toni be true to urself... Bukky was there b4 u guys married and i read some interview were 9ice was asked about this same bukky and he denied it saying it was only toni in his life and no other. but sha this is the begining...we await interview from 9ice and Bukky..
dis might sound very crazy but i believe we all deserve hapiness i wld not want to break my marriage for anythin in d world and most especialy while kids re involve so when my husband start cheating i ll do d same and still pretend all is well jus for d sake of my hapiness and the kids, toni im so sorry u had had to go thru all d pain but in life som tins jus have to happen for us to realise ow important som tins re i know it ll get beta somday
9ice try and use condom.
AIDS no dey look face o!
every other thing is secondary.
You can never do right with Inlaws in Nigeria, especially with inlaws from the husband sides. If you sneeze they will complain and no matter what you do they always believe the wife doesn't want them to jeun omo(when they didn't even give a damn about him when he had nothing) They are major problem of young broken marriages apart from infidelity in our country and i sometimes don't blame many of our young couple residing abroad, who refused to come back home to deal with crap from inlaws. I heard his father is married to 5 wives and no means of supporting them except thru 9ice. My advise to the new baby mama and women out there is to learn a lesson and don't forget that what goes around comes around. Pashon ti won fi no iyale wa loke aja fun iyawo.
never ever like that 9ice guy from the start............. mstchewwwwwwwwwwww
Really really Sad ! I av always knew she was innocent . For God's sake if she didnt cheat on him when he was a nobody, why would she do it now ? Nigerian Men , dat's what dey do wen they are tired of a woman . Coward! He cant even deal with his own family ? I wish Vicky or watever her name is a good luck . What goes around comes around! Hers is one the effinn.......... way ! I just wish u read the signs TONI ... cos i am sure they 've always been there . He's an asshole and he can go f... himself. Move on and pls be happy . Dont even care abt what pple say or will say abt u . U deserve to be happy and u are still very very young.
wow this story is so pathetic.i actually feel sorry for her,cos i heard a lot of negative things people said about her cheating on 9ice with ruggedman,i like 9ice as a m,musician and i hope he realise the error of his ways b4 its too late,but we cant cast stones at anybody cos there are two sides to a coin.am sure 9ice will also have a story that will favour him to tell.
Why is she putting the Goddis girl out like that and even publically airing where she works and stuff? Does she have to go that far?
Secondo, If you meet someone in 2006 return to the US and marry in 2008, when do you really date and get to know each other? An artist at that with such a long distance?
How can you be so confident the Bukky lady was not there all the while warming up his bed when you were in the states?
Now,Toni did tweet a picture of herself with some dude on the beach all over the web and wants to cry betrayal because the dude had babies from another woman?
I'm sorry but it looks like another marriage that was on very weak foundations has crashed. It's really a pity that the children must pay the price. She even sounds like she is still in love. If on the year zero of your marriage you don't have some sort of bliss or at least peacein your home what do you think is going to happen by year 2-5 or 10? African women need stop this martyre bullshit and learn to cut their losses. There was really nothing here worth fighting for.
My advice to her is get on with you life and let him get on with his.
WHAT GOES AROUND, COMES AROUND!! Don't worry iya Zion, the Lord is ur strenght!
9ice should be ashamed of himself! now the story is finally out.
that guy's music is so whack and he doesnt even have good looks on his side to distract you from such. maybe his bank account silenced women, who knows! 9ice is nothing to write home about. YES I SAID IT! NOW KILL ME!
9ice is an IDIOT. I was one of the people who judged her but hearing her speak now, I feel for her.
I'm yoruba and will say Yoruba inlaws are the most difficult to deal with. Nobody is never good for their son esp the ignorant illiterate ones. The mothers always try to do voodoo to chase the wife away. I don't get it, they act like their sons should be married to them. VERY STUPID
anon at 9:42pm what do u mean by how come everyone has issues with her. Seems like you don't know how some families can be. In my family, no matter how horrible the wife may be, my parents will not rain curses on her and they will not pack her things out of the house.
Toni said she didn't know when 9ice changed ..... sorry he didn't change. He was who he was but she was in love with him and she didn't think with her head. She was hopeful, romantic and what not.
People, family background is not a small matter at all ........ a man or woman is a product of his growing up environment and most times, unless that person makes a conscious effort to change, he/she will revert to those ways.
That being said, i don't think 9ice loved Toni, I think she was new frontier for him as he came out from obscurity. If he loved her, even with his gutter background, he wouldn't have behaved the way he did. That is hard to swallow though cos of course Toni would want to believe that 9ice's intentions at the beginning were good.
and no silence is not golden ....
This is her side of the story. Like my wonderful papa always said, there are three sides to every story- the two different views and the truth.
So 9ice don dey slip around. U can neva predict naija men. Wen dey want smetin, dey are saints. Afta gettin it, dey turn to wolves. Toni, v alwz lovd u 4rm d start, even b4 i knew u wit 9ice. U'v bn a big girl. U r a go getter. Move on and live ur life witout 9ice. U r more dn all he's got.
Toni, I pray God will strengthen and protect you and Zion. You have done well to have remained silent all this while; let it be and let God take control.
As we reap so we sow; if this woman thinks that she can come and break a home and build hers' instead - we are all here watching and we shall see her fall as well.
When will naija inlaws learn to back off? How dare his mum put her hand on Toni; how dare they pack her clothes and that of her son. Toni pls move on! It is sad, yes, but God holds a good future for you, trust in Him. And if you and 9ice are meant to be, it will still be. I have always been rooting for you both but wasn't aware of the family bit - and for us all who are reading this; let us also try and be good inlaws to those who have come into our families.
God Bless xxx
Guys can b vry nasty,dnt knw y 9ice wud av involvd his parents.i tink he's nt matured for marriage.take heart baby en i wish Zion al d best.am sori u've got a nasty dad
@Anon 10:44 PM
it was a girl called Debola not Bukki. The other girl worked at glo. u are mixing up the two ladies. I have followed their story since day one. I am still following.
Linda, Great Job.
i feel sorry for her. alwys had. just had this hunch that she got the short end of this stick from day one.
This is truly sad. i pray God gives her the fortitude to move on and find happines.
Marriage is far more than love, values, class, education and other such stuff cannot be in disparity
o God i feel for her,though i criticized her wen it happened but now i know the truth,i av read bout toni payne nd known her to be a big girl even be4 she met 9ice,God will continue to be ur strength nd shield,just continue to be the good mum u've always been.wish u all the best in life.
i alwayz knew toni payne wasnt wrong, she has all the attributes of a true woman and mother.
weda bukky or toni was 1st who cares? the most important thg is that he got married to toni, and wat God has joined together no 1 ''MUST'' put asunder.
if nothg at all y should u throw ur son out or allow ur family members to do that. the bible says a man that cant handle his home affairs is worst than an infidel..
i hope nice realizes b4 its 2 late
toni, i love ur courage, take heart, av been 1 of ur strongest supporters and i believe u,cos u r on point. i wish u and zion the best,Gods support, peace and love
@DIAPIKIN....You are so right!!! the truth of the matter is that the foundation of this marriage was not based on mutual love...when love is one way,its a matter of time that the relationship would collapse. In a marriage, 2 individuals who are in love are the most relevant, family or inlaws, fame or conditions are just side attraction, those things can not collapse a marriage based on mutual love, they would try several times and fail and just leave you alone....its obvious 9ice never loved toni, she should just learn to count her losses and move on,he can never change.
Women Girls Ladies....Please open your eye before you lead yourself to permanent hell on earth. Please when choosing a husband establish that he is
Loyal
Stable (emotionally, Not double-minded)
Disciplined
A man of Honour
Protective of you against his family
Able to provide for you and your family
Forgiving
Patient
A lover
Doesn't hang out too much/Talkative
A leader
.................Listen if you dont look before you leap, you will end up going from one deliverance to the other, begging people to talk to your husband on your behalf everyday.
I know there is a lot of pressure on Naija woman to marry but its important that you marry Right!
Thats why i have little sympathy for her.
Toni shouldnt cry fowl of betrayal.. How can you get married to a man and leave him just because of Business.. You left your husband .. fly back to the states after Marriage.. even when she was pregnant she still didnt dimmed it fit to come back to her hubby early.. is the dude not human ? Secondly Toni posted picture of him and his new lover boy all over the internet .. I had an argument with my friends over that but since its a separation any of them could do what they like depending on if they still wanna come back or not.. but putting up pictures of yourself and your lover all over the media and yet you expect a man you claim you still love not to go ahead with his own life too .. The truth is Toni is a PR person and she knows how to handle things and cry and make it seem like she has done no wrong.. thats the problem with 9ice his management lacks PR and in the modern world you can succeed as a celeb with your PR person ... I so much wish their marriage to be back but heaven knows best .. Toni was over pompous in the marriage.. thats a lesson for our gals studying and living abroad ..once you are married you should learn to lay low.. we have a culture and not even the westernization in you would take that away ... God bless You Toni and God bless 9ice.. I only feel sad for the poor child .... 9ice and Toni were both at fault ... none of them should claim saint.. The shit pisses me off ..
Here we go again people are beginning to pass judgement.. I dont trust both parties. Am waiting fora better picture or the court ruling if they are willing to go...
Toni Toni Toni still bitter are we??? Please get over yourself, You are such a big fat liar. This interview is a 'save face' interview. Adigun NEVER and I repeat NEVER accused you of cheating on him with that Rugged or whatever he's called. He never accused you of cheating on him with any man.
You all are quick to judge Vicky,9ice's parents,his manager and all, forgetting this is exactly how you all were quick to judge Toni herself when the gossip(i refuse to call that rubbish allegation news) broke in the media.
Toni I wonder why you left out the part of how condescending and insulting your egoistical ass was towards his mum, workers and manager. This same manager everyone knew you had absolutely no regards whatsoever for and all of a sudden adopted a 'suckitome' attitude towards when your marriage to Adigun crashed...Little wonder these same people will come to matter eventually. You claim to have covered for him because you loved him, really??? or you figured in ur 'genius' mind staking it out will change him, you didn't come to the media when all y'all did was fight over his numerous affairs did you... pls tell them about the many times you embarrassed him publicly with platonic friends, telll hem about the time you openly insulted his mother in everyone's presence and how he beat the crap outta you landing you in the hospital...You were such a good woman he ran to Abuja to avoid your trouble every time he could. Omo you didn't check yourself on time and yes you wrecked yourself bad. Toni you know damn well Adigun's folks didn't throw you out of his house, you are a barefaced liar and it irks me bad.
Back to Vicky, she was dating 9ice at the same time you were dating him (that's for y'all that are quick to judge her based on Toni's imaginary version of events)as a single man. She might not have 'suffered'(laughable shit if u ask me) with him like you claim you did but she was in the damn picture....but of cos as a sharp babe u carry belle go siddon for yankee till 3months when Adigun know.
Please what wedding date did u pick b4 u got pregnant? an imaginary one i guess. Because u know know how to manipulate the media (city people) doesn't make your lies true. Am not here to promote 9ice's agenda...in my opinion he is not a saint and frankly he handled the situation badly with no regards for his now ex wife and mother of his child, but pls folks lets tell it like it is not the way we want it to be. When the love was strong he was the best, now not so much.
And please just so u know calling out Vicky is bloody tacky of you, she didn't have babies for Adigun whilst y'all were married. She has a nice quiet life so stop hating, didn't work with you, never would have, cut your darn loses and move on already. Wish you and your child the very best of luck in all your endeavors but plsss i beg u stop telling lies.
@Anon 10:44 PM shey una no go leave Debola alone? Debz don free 9ice tey tey nau. The girl has a good life going for her in the states... Talk abt getting the short end of the stick, she did and didn't cry foul in anyway. Tony biko check yasef oh, no one hates u, just get off ur damn high horse.
@ Anonymous April 5, 2011 12:14 PM, if you are so true about this story why not leave a name as you have talked so convincly and you say you are not on 9ice side.
man and woman living together as husband and wife is not easy. it is very challenging with so, so many challenges, temptations, fights, good and bad times etc.
ladies...(and men 2) open ur eyes, get real and stop living in 'mars' ...MEN DO AND WILL FOREVER HAVE GIRLFRIENDS' no more no less.
if u will pack comot house when ur husband get gf then ur not being real. no be only 9ja men dey do it oyinbo men worse.
girlfriends, u2 can catch ur fun...('aiye nse ru e...)
all these men bashing is useless talk.
Toni, you're still protecting 9ice sha in this interview. You still haven't mentioned how many times the guy beat you with his own hands or how he left you and Zion to catch taxis while dashing out cars to succubi disguising themselves as human beings. You know some of us know you reach your house and we saw all this coming, all of it happening and what has come out of this. There is absolutely no need to save face anymore, the man has rubbished you THOROUGHLY! You might as well be 100% honest.
Like I've told you many times, this negro doesn't deserve the civility you're giving him and doesn't appreciate it.
As for anonymous 12:14PM, na you know o. But pray tell, how can you have any regard for a manager who stays arranging babes for your husband anyhow, and flaunts the fact in your face? I'm not sure how exactly I would handle my parent's inlaw praying for my husband and his side chick so that they can live together happily, while I'm swollen and pregnant for their first grandchild? You're quite right though, Toni's in laws didn't throw her out of the house, NIZE did, he literally beat her out of the home that her money helped build.
Anyways you live and hopefully this time you learn.
TONI didn't we all advise you to remember that water get levels? Why didn't you marry on your own level ehn? When you stoop down, they will drag you down EVEN further. Chei
@Anon April 5 12:14 PM
so according to Toni's account and yours, 9ice mama/family dey beat am, 9ice sef dey "beat the crap outta" Toni landing her in hospital.
Na wa o. And your innocent Vicky, living the quiet life in Abuja, welcoming the one who beats the crap out of his wife allowing him to come and cool off in Abuja.
According to you "Adigun NEVER and I repeat NEVER accused you of cheating on him with that Rugged"
But he let people go on hating on the mother of his child because he refused to decisively end the rumour!
No one is perfect. I don't know Toni, doubt if I'll ever meet her but her weakness (her attitude) according to your account is no excuse for her to be beaten constantly! And she never made this public all this while to protect her husband and his family..?!
For God's sake she was young woman and not above mistakes, she still was on a learning curve. She also had the added issue of having two backgrounds, a bit of allowance should have been made for her haba 9ice.
I have neva believed since the story broke, i always knew that razz foolish person cald 9ice was the cause of their broken marriage... his crappy look, song and foolish way of singing irritates me like forever. Toni is too good for him, only God will judge him, wish he gets crushed by a trialer. I wish toni and zion all the best, am so glad i was right all along. Foolosh, razz, tin legged,horrible looking mr. 9ice,only crappy girls deserve u. Crazy motherfucker, its people like u that make other men look bad. Hissssssssssssss.
@anon april 5,2011,1:10AM...... well said! it is better to marry a bad wife than having a bad inlaws.
9ice is not nice atall bcos i was expecting him to reconcile with his wife for the sake of Zion no matter what really happened to both of them which i dont really care.
Toni Payne... just take heart, God shall surely be with you and Zion and i pray to God to soften 9ice mind bcos i hate divorce more than anything.
@Anon April 5 12:14 PM
una really see Toni finish abi? y'all lucky she grew up partly abroad so she didn't totally understand the culture of not laying all her cards on the table. y'all read her like a book especially the manager and kicked her off!
I can now tell Toni was good for 9ice. From her interview, all her efforts concerning his music/brand was considered a threat by his manager. All of a sudden, there were 3 in the marriage (shame 9ice didn't see or appreciate the attack on his marriage)
Toni dear, you failed from the get go. If you had street smarts you would have handled that manager and put him in his place. You see your self, miss Ecowas be like that rat wey dey chop person leg when dem dey sleep dey blow am small make e no pepper dem i.e.
1. show no interest in handling his career (this will make sure manager is not scared of you taking his bread and butter
2. Allow him to cut shows (he can even come straight from having sex with his wife) and jump straight into yours, welcome him prepare him a meal and straight to the bedroom for more actions!!
3. wether im brother dey chop im money, just turn the other way (the house will still be built)
You're like me my dear, we wear our hearts on our sleeves. Marry someone of like mind. Not someone like 9ice. Wish you happiness second time around, may it come to pass.
But seriously, what do u expect a pig to do with pearls but to roll it up in the mud. Its a pity and a mistake she stopped so low 4 love sake. U need to checkout that bastards background wt parents that cant speak a word of english. Y wont they be intimidated? For once they hv a light at the end of the tunnel(9ic) and the think its heaven.
Move on girl and forget that one-hit-wonder.
God please forgive me.... I think she came out a little bit late. Also Toni still loves him, thats wat i tot.
OK. Waiting to hear/read 9ices' side of the story.
From what we in Bariga know by friends of 9ice's manager(Dehinde) he was dating Bukky and some other girls while married. We all in Bariga know that Dehinde is 9ice's PIMP, they are bunch of irresponsible men sleeping around with different women. 9ice make sure you wear Condom o! i beg you o! i know fame is not easy but your life is more important than sleeping with different women. At the rate you are going, you go break 2face record of baby mamas. The Glow girl was very smart to take off to the US to get out of the relationship with 9ice.
MEN WHEN U GET MARRIED PLEASE DO NOT TAKE YOUR WIFE TO LIVE IN YOUR FAMILY HOUSE, IF U CAN'T AFFORD ACOMODATION STAY UNDER THE BRIDGE WITH HER OR BAR BEACH
Why are we surprised about 9ice sleeping around? this is not the first time and won't be the last time. I have nothing against you, Toni or 9ice but my free advise to Ms Bukky, keep your eyes and ears open with Inlaws from HELL. You can never ever do right by them no matter how good or kind you are to them. They are terrible, wicked and don't give a damn about you. Just wait till another woman comes into 9ice's life. Please stay in Abuja and far away from them and the closer and more you get to know them,the less they feel for you.
This is the best line i’ve read here from Anon 12.14 - Omo you didn't check yourself on time and yes you wrecked yourself bad.
I’m singing “you gonna check yourself before you wreck yourself!”
She still loves him and it’s so obvious. I’d like to hear all (the 3) sides of the story just for laughs!
Am still in shock that 9ice used his wife to sell"once bitten 2wice shy" knowing very well that it was not about her and he did not come out to clarify it. This dude must be very wicked to let his baby mama and son go thru such. We have lost our true family values for the sake of seeking wealth...
My advise to 9ice...Please stay away from Marriage. Marriage is for grown men and not for small boys.
After reading this interview by Toni Payne, i was expecting all out and no holds barred dish. This woman is still protecting her husband. This one done pass me o! abi na juju 9ice use for Toni? why are you still protecting him? He came out with his Abuja Baby mama story in the Punch newspaper. I don't blame Toni for finally speaking up but her love for this guy is wack...How can you still protect him? Please go and check if the guy used juju on you o!
i am waiting for 9ices side of the story and until then i cant insult him or the report of the court verdict.
Initially i thought twas rugged man to the extent the two(9ice and rugged man) wrote songs to insult themselves now its being said it was rumour...SIGH
Now it was manager, mother inlaw and Vicky.
Honestly too many things in the picture so lets patiently wait and hear from 9ice or the court and then i can comment.
I beg make una no blame my boy 9ice, him dey follow him Papa footsteps with 5 wives.
9ice is not a good person but his manager is the one leading him to hell,this is a fact...his manager is evil...toni tried to protect 9ice,i knew toni was innocent but am sure she over reacted in some cases that made dem see hger as a big threat....na so woman dey sha when it comes to their husband....Good luck toni...u need a good man like moi hehe
Hmm, some people are just chatting rubbish. Av known Toni ever before she met 9ice and I wonder why she has refused to air it all. Nice is a bastard, he was always beating her and never respected her for once because he knew Toni loved him wholeheartedly. Well,I know for a fact dat it was his Manager(Dehinde) dat pushed him into all these rubbish. Dehinde was threatened by Toni's smartness and was 9ice's Pimi.
Toni even tried, she didn't say it all. This girl went thru a lot, I tell u. I am waiting for 9ice to grant his interview, dat is when I'll truly go to the press myself to let pple know who he really is.
9ice acted immaturely and just used Toni to get his fame, I bet u he'll soon wreck himself at d rate he is going, FACT.
This is what happens when you marry someone that's not on your level. She had no business marrying him in the first place.
why do I have a feeling anonymous 12:14 PM is no one but Vicky. are those the lies he fed u? Check yourself you this ashawo 10 kobo. He will soon do the same to you so lets see if you are talking the same story. I am a close friend of Tonis and I was there the entire way and still am. I remember the night sh got kicked out, I went to bluesea hotel to see her and Zion. I never liked 9ice and she was warned. Toni has pictures proving all she has said and we that know how shit went down are ready to support her. My only beef with her is that she waited this long to cast the bastard. We advised her to speak up since and she was doing like mumu. mscheewwww. Love ko hate ni
i feel sorry for Toni sha. If only we can see the future ..... she would not have married 9ice. Regardless of who was at fault, this is a total mess.
I doubt the new baby mama will have a problem with the in-laws. She probably is not too far way from them in morals. If Toni had attitude, van u blame her. So when u see the manager arranging women for your husband, u should just sit and grin.
It's a total mess is all I know. Toni please just gba ka mu. Let them be ... I know it can be painful. Enough naija women have killed themselves because of what their husbands showed them. My aunt lived in the boys quarter while her husband and the new wife lived in the main house. Character cant be hidden .... even if u snatch a man, u should be able to put in a word for the 1st wife abi. What do u expect, when the man had stroke in later life, she wouldnt even help him do anything. she got him a nurse and that was it. Thank God the man had money and so he didnt suffer but did he have joy in his old age?
The healing process will be painful no doubt but eventually one day, there will be light at the end of that tunnel.
Please refrain from tweeting stuff about them anymore. Refrain from even talking about them. Just hold your head up with dignity and you will be fine.
What Toni doesnt understand is that God is fighting for her. Im close friends with ajayi brothers and 9ice is currently not in the same state as he was with Toni. I heard from 6 cars he only has 1 left. He only dates the Vicky because he is no longer reigning and she gives him upkeep and buy him gift in return for sex. He is bitter and angry because he release 8 new song and nobody is talking about the songs. He said his album will be out March 2010, this is April 2011, a year and one month after and no album. He is not getting awards again. We discuss all these and I say its Gd fighting for that girl because he has wicked her.
I bet ruggedman is smiling right now. See Vindication. Choi!
Toni is my girl and 9ice is a STUPID IDIOT!
I can break 9ice in half with just my pinky toe!!!
isnt it obvious that anon 12.14 is vicky herself..he/she obviously isnt 9ice cos he cannot construct one sentence in english.
guys, please why is it that old women now find joy in breaking homes/ sleeping with boys they are old enough to mother.i dont know toni from adam but let me tell you vicky.. it is a naural law.. no woman opens her legs for a legally married man or breaks a home and goes scot free with it..what if he dated you while dating toni? what u should think of is why did he not marry you and married toni?i am 100% sure that i will read your story in this same city people soon!
And to toni, to say i am dissapointed in this interview is an understatement, you obviously are still holding back alot of info.. now let me tell you! any man that gives you that sort of public disgrace/pain should not be spared.. if a man thinks he will wreck my image, i will wreck him first..
Zion will be a great man.. please move on with your life, get yourself a good man and settle down and pls stop tweeting silly pictures of you and anyone. if i were you, i would keep my love life in the quiet for now. you need to be loved and cared for. I wish you the very best!
I am more worried by 9ice's career.
It seems to have lost direction.
Dude is just singing load of crap songs that all sound alike.
Don't even get me started on the videos and his tacky dressing.
Twins or no twins, the one person 9ice ever truly loved is that Debola girl. But i like the girl too much as she never allowed herself to be drawn into this his nonsense. As for toni, im not surprised she's fighting this new baby mama bcos na so she dey do, so so call she dey call every girl wey even smile with 9ice
Lesson learned to always look into family background before you marry. Toni should have seen the red flag(his so called father was not in his life and the so called mother abandoned him at infant)this came from 9ice's TV interview about his life. The guy had a terrible upbringing without any loving but greedy parents and psychologically 9ice is doing the same thing to his son. It is now up to Toni to show their son uncondtional Love and support that 9ice did not get from his parents...I wish them well.
To the idiot that thinks toni is bitter..i know you're an insider and you think you know what's up..have you forgoten when you and your so called adigun had nothing and Toni took you ass holes in an treated 9ice with love when you had no home, unknown to her that he wasn't a human being but a user that had motives...have you forgotten when he had no money to promote his cd and Toni would lend a helping hand from abraod??? how soon people forget..They say never bite the hands that feeds you....9ice did and he'll get what's coming to him..Him and his Gay manager Dehinde...Remeber, there's nothing hidden under the sun the truth shall be exposed...i Pray for Toni and her son Zion..She did what any woman in love would do..and to those who have judged her..may almighty God forgive you. To Bukky..Enjoy while it last.God bless your innocent twins. To 9ice and Manager...Everybody Dies But not Everybody lives...Food for thought.
Poor Ruggedy Baba,Sorry for this mix up o! my brother you are now vindicated by God's Grace,May God Bless you. Shame on you 9ice for that stupid ruggedy video you made of him and making us believe your stupid song was about him and Toni...You a very wicked animal in human skin.
Bukky or Vicky Godis...guess what
'pason to fi na iyale...is coming speedingly to the iyawo!!!...YOU REAP WHAT U SOW!!!!!!!.....
Toyin.....dont worry , u will find a man that will apprediate you 100% you will be dazed....it will be like the bible in Isaiah ' when the lord turned around the captivities of Zion...they were like them that dream.
The Lord will turn AROUND YOUR SADNESS.....and soon you will meet the bone of your bone and the flesh of your flesh...
Please dont talk anymore about 9ice....dont give interviews...infact promise youself that it will be the last u talk and think about him....
You will find happiness soon...IJN
my thots are with u and Zion.
Linda, na wa for this your blog oh! I believe that 9ice, Toni and Vicky, have all posted comments here anonymously.
OKAY lets assume Bukky was there before toyin and 9ice got married.....so why didnt BUKKY herself dissapear? or couldnt she see clearly that if 9ice actually send her in the first place, he would have married her instead of TOYIN? but he didnt...but I guess 'babas' concotion was good enuf to 'call' 9ce back to her...
Bukky word of advice....if u get favors from the devil...there will be lonterm reparcaution o!!! you know that I know what I am saying!!!!!
Bukky, tip: u remeber Aunty B....
OMG! Has anyone else noticed that this Vicky girl has a BIG NOSE. lwkmd. is it me or does she look 10years older than 9ice? im sure she is one of those washed up women that have used their youth to sleep around and when nobody wants them, they find the next young married maga to trap. Wont be surprised if she is fetish because 9ice is seriously acting out of his senses.
Wow, I feel sorry for her. I pray God grants her healing. . .
TONI MUCH AS I FEEL FOR U I MUST TELL U THE TRUTH,
1. NICE TO ME IS NOT MATURED ENOUGH FOR MARRIAGE
2.YOU ALLOWED URSELF TO GET PREGNANT BEFORE GETTING MARRIED IS LIKE HELPING NICE TO MAKE UP HIS MIND ABOUT MARRYING YOU, ALLOW MEN PLS
3. DID YOU TAKE IT TO GOD FIRST
4. ALMOST ALL THE YORUBAS I HAVE MET WITH ARE VERY DIPLOMATIC, BUT YOU SEEM NOT TO BE, NO MATTER THIER BACKGROUND I.E AMERICA , LONDON ETC
5. YOU DID NOT GO FOR MARRIAGE COUNSELLING BEFORE GETTING MARRIED
6. YOU DID NOT LISTEN TO YOUR ALL YOUR HEART WAS TELLING YOU, YOU JUST WANTED NICE
7. AND YOU THOUGHT YOU COULD CHANGE HIM
8. MY SISTER I HAVE COME TO KNOW IN LIFE A MAN CAN NOT HAVE HIS OR HER OWN WISDOM PLS PRAY WELL AND ASK GOD FOR WISDOM
IT IS WELL
Ine
anon 11:34 PM oh please spare me. The same Debola that used to dance for 2face and Banky? That was sleeping with 2face knowing full well her best friend Annie was in love with him. That has slept with half of 2face's management team including Nazi. is it the same Debola that even after going to work at glo has opened her toto for the likes of Ruggedman, Blacktribe etc. That same toto to trick a man into doing visa for her and accomodation to go to the US. Me and Debola are close but we all know she is not pure and 9ice cut her off a long time ago. even with her desperate attempts to come back. do you know how many times she tried to get me and some other friends to try to help her leak stories of her and 9ice just to torment Toni so she would leave and we kept warning her to leave their marriage alone. This is the same girl that when 9ice was a nobody, she used to go on about how dirty he is, all of a sudden he hits it big and she thinks he is cool. He was just using her to catch chip thrills I beg and she knew it and did not mind becuase he was spending cash on her, even bought her a car while his wife was catching cabs.
Toni, Toni, Toni......This guy was too pedestrian for you. Even this your Baby Zion will ask you in future how you ended up with him?
Ladies learn....stop all this I will change him crap ...i am yet to see any woman change a man.
If he was a pig before you met him , it never really goes away. He and God are the only ones that can change him.
Like I always say...better to be single and happy than to be married and frustrated. Yet the more happy you are the men would be bent on conquering you and taking that happiness away...kpele.
@ENE: WOOOOW! u and deola are close yet ur here airing out her dirty laundry? smh...a clear example of how disgusting girls are. uv said shes ur friend, u warned her about stuff alotta ppl already know BUT y come here to chat shit tho? these r d kinda ppl we need to flee from, im talking about this ENE character. Its not right! free deola if u think shes a bad person!
Its very obvious that anonymous 12:14 is Vicky. Aunty Agbaya, homebreaker..... na this country we kuku dey,u go soon hear am. Thunder fire ur yansh.
Dehinde is bisexual, everyone close to him knows that... He has wrecked 9ice's career.
ananon @ 11: 44pm....ODE ni e!...see u? which advice are u giving? msheeew! u married? u obviously seem biased with girls who are quite independent...
Kai, this is some serious shyt..meanwhile is 91ce still making music???
I had so much respect for Nice..but i see he hasnt attained maturity..he cant tkia of his responsibilities...he's just shameless...Dear Toni dis's so u know he aint worth u..u deserve better.it's gon b hard but forget him..my momma taught mii to love those who love mii..n wlk away frm those dat dont...not to wori wen d tym comes,gongo a so lori Nice..hav a gr8 lyf ahead n let ur son b ur source of joy...
Let all be pragmatic for once.
In average 9ija setting we know how it is when our broda bring americana home, please be real here.
No need to apportion blame to any party, weather you are good or bad,Literate or illiterate it is only God that can save your marriage.
Why pastor marriage dey break, why marriage concellor dey divorce? Get answer to all these issue of life.
To marry yanky gurl no easy ooo, particularly wen u are from a ploygamy family. Love me love my dog, check within your family or neighbourhood and u will see a similar story.
Most parent are not preparing thier daughter for real world. Hmnnn, Ile eko ni ile oko je, ki eniyan gboran, ki o bi omo ti o yan ju ni ere ibe.
We all need to get it right, devil no like marriage and is always looking for a way to break it.
9ice, Tony, Zion, Vicky, Dehinde, ruggedman and everyone all must have a story to tell.
God is a witness in everything wey we dey do.
Igbeyawo wa o ni daru oo, Our marriage will not break.
All the best to all the commentator and moderator
So sorry evrybody is talkin negatively about u cos u give anybody a room to believe dat fool he think dat's the end. Vicky or watever ur name is ur own is comin a proverb says {the stick dey used for smeone is still there for u expect dat soon......... So Toni pls takekia of ZION good boy.........
If your story is true,then an average nigerian will put the blame on nice,but for me i wont blame him..i believe he is trying to fit in his fathers shoe..if u guys eventually divorce,i guess the judgement will still favor him cos i know the judge will be a polygamist...nice na jazz man now..maybe your prayer is too much and its disturbing his jazz..
If Deinde and 9ice are so close, i wonder if it's true about them having a sexual relationship?
To the anon that thinks 9ice himself is here typing, personally I doubt it, I don't that illiterate knows how to turn on a computer much less log onto the internet and post anonymously.
If Toni is the same Toni I knew in the US, I have NO DOUBT whatsoever she's all up in these comments and using it as an opportunity to leak the rest of the truth as she knows it.
I don't know about that Vicky Godis, she looks haggard as hell and she no fine AT ALL. her face is not trying.
Anon @ 10:18am, I totally agree with you. I've read all 98 comments and there is none of them that 9ice can possibly write...except he now has a Secretary who helps him to type out what he says in Yoruba LOL.
@Ene,
wow! you sound very bitter o! You "claim" this debola girl is your friend and yet you say trash about her. Gtfoh!!!! She slept with 2face yet annie and her are best friends, get your story right abeg, knowing annie and the way she dey craze for that 2baba, she no go ever be friends with anyone wey even cut eye for 2face o, that one na big fat lie you talk there! you sure say you no like this 9ice boy for closet? all this girls sef i fear unaa, na one mouth una go say person na your friend wth the same mouth una go destroy that person, na why i like guys at least them no they pretend give each other. But pple like this Ene make we fear them o, cos them fit kill, friend indeed!
Th fact that she never mentioned one thing sh did WRONG will never make me believe her storyyyyyyyyy..I don't want to believe 9ice was 100% at fault thuus only a daft and senseless fellow would judge based on one-sided story. How are you so sure she didn't fabricate it all?
nawa oo ah ah u guys should also hear the story from 9ice point of view before you guys decide to curse him!!
good to know this 9ice we are waiting for the reply pls
This is very interesting.
Some anonymous comments seem to close to home, seems like friends of interested parties are commenting to fuel the fire.
With friends like @Ene, that Debola Glo girl should not have enemies.
Seems like Toni Payne is behind some of the comments sha... too vindictive.
People should stop blaming Oladehinde, 9ice is a man and does what he likes.
People should free the Glo Girl, she has moved on to bigger and better things.
LOL... Linda this picture of Vicky is bad na,you got this one off fb, and you had so many to choose from oh.
Vicky and I were friends back in ABU Zaria... She dated one guy (Bisoye Obasanjo) for years. Please ladies before you crucify her, remember you don't know her, you only know what you read about her.
Frankly i don't even get what the attraction is, she's not even 30(that's for those of you calling her old) so i can't call it desperation. I guess 9ice was/is her 1st rebound after Beasty.
Someone said her nose is big, pls have you seen Toni's nose? guess the common denominator here is the nose... 9ice loves 'em with the big noses...LOL.
Toni and Vicky are way beyond this guy's class...Makes one wonder if there isn't more than meets the eye. just saying
@ Anon 6:04 PM
Then tell your friend that she is a homewrecker. Im sure the Bisoye man is thanking his stars he did not end up with her because a woman who can sleep with a married man or go as far as having babies by him will fuck all his friends. Please congratulate Bisoye. He made the right choice. I know he is laughing at her now, see the puclic disgrace she has brought on herself chasing married men.
As for Toni, I never really liked her but pls she should also count herself luckv, good riddence to bad rubbish. Maybe Bisoye and Toni should hook up. Lmao
@ Anon 3:35 PM aka Debola
I know your parole so do not come here under the guise of being anonymous. My comment was close to home? e pain u? Before you travelled to america did I not warn you to leave 9ice and his family alone? Isnt this why you are no longer talking to me. Where i went wrong in my post was saying we are friends. I meant were friends.
toni, forgive those dat been saying rubbish about you, u will surely fine love again(ijn )although i know it kinda painfull at first, but u never kn , wat GOD has in stock for you and ur son,nice is just been foolish.may GOD help u , toni
The person that called herself Vickys friend, you say she is not what we think yet she just had babies by a married man who recently split with his wife. Last I checked gestation is 9 months. So she is either a home wrecker who has been seeing the married man hence his quickness to leave his wife and child OR a Ho who sleeps with men she just met without a condom. Either way your friend is a poor excuse for a woman
@Anon April 9, 2011 7:06 AM
Before you give yourself cerebral aneurysm on something you don't know shit about...You better read the story/comments again. Vicky has always dated 9ice... she was his girlfriend while he was single..Toni can't say she didn't know that. I condemn what she's done. But she didn't break any home. Did she put a rope around his neck and force him to leave Toni?
Vicky will get what she deserves eventually but you cannot blame the breakdown of Toni and Adigun's marriage on her. He walked into his marriage eyes wide open and walked out of it same way. So except you know every side of this story, either show Toni support with your prayers or whatever or STFU and stop calling someone you don't know a ho. idiot.
i pray people read this, i read ur comment oladeinde fajana were u are hiding ur identity, sorry for 9ice bcos he just start, its just unfortunate that people that ought to talk refuse to e.g cabasa,jahbless,2phat and all his codedtunes people.
them still dey protect you by not talking tho you hurt them too.
Am sure 9ice can remember names like debola of glo, how she cried after you broke her heart, that was when i knew 9ice was just a liar.
his parent kicked out the wife bcos they thot she will block them from getting things from lore.
i read ajayi brothers tweet and listen to seriki new song all alapomeji comment is all geared towards covering 9ice bad tracks
Ajayi brothers can NEVER blow because they are back stabbers,bitting the finger that fed them, seriki is the greatest ingrate with all cabasa did to him, i remember when they came to ife how sweet cabasa was talking about him, Now u left codedtunes all of you 1 question UNA DON BLOW?
no is th answer, the annoying part is cabasa and his people not talking, well he might think is humility but i call it cowardise. 2phat will not talk,ajasa will not yet 9ice don offend all of dem?
karmar law is at work abolore taofeek akande!
your lies over toni has finally been revealed, the idiot that said lore was dating the abuja bitch before now should tell dat to the dogs, we know who you are deinde, u denied when we interviewed you that u re not aware of the abuja babe all of a sudden you are changing you comment bcos your lies are not covered again.
read my lips OLADEINDE FAJANA u will destroy lore and urself
Anon April 9 12.12am aka Vicky. u are a cheap maggot infested dirty ho. u are an ugly desperate and inferority complex stricken cheap ass prostiute.
U are the kind that give women bad names. Having kids with a married man. If u where dating him why did he leave u and marry Toni? Why hasnt he wifed u up till now? If u like have eight more he will neva wife u. He knows that u are cheap ass with low self esteem that u dont deserve more than been a bastard producing hooker. U will neva be a wife but a married man`s BABY MAMA. Do u need a rope around a man`s neck to make him leave his family?? no u dont all u did was to open u legs again for him after he dumped u and married Toni. You lack self worth. I feel pity for u. U where all up on Anon 7.06am for calling u a ho. U are not just a ho but a whooker, prostiute, cheap ass, shameless home wreaker bastard producing baby mama. Now sue me. OLODO.!!!
Linda make sure u publish this.
All in all, it's sad that Toni Payne has not realized that if the man u claim to love will rather be with other women but u....u must be the problem.
How about u look into the mirror and fix yourself first.
Hope women learn that u can't force a man to love u or be with u.
Toni go back and try with tbillion
SMH @ most of the comments half of which were written by Toni.
Sweetie, I'll advise you to give it up already. It is so apparent from your interview that you are still in love with him. If I were you I;ll take this as a cue to bow out. 9ice obviously doesn't respect you and has proven that you're not worth fighting for.
Face zion and your career/biz.
PS: Let's just say I know u're commenting because your friends have big mouths.
at anon 7:14 like Toni has time to come here and comment it's only a jobless idot like u that would sit in the computer all day commenting....dude has a son and a biz to handle...for ur information this is a tip on the ice berg wait till she reveals everything that went down and u all would scream...i told her to go and a live tv and let them invite 9ice so that we would see who lying/telling the truth...expect 9ice to come out with his own story soon...this is the begining...
ok Linda my Linda...dis is ur best head line so far, ppl cant stop coming back to comment and am so loving it...wen i come to ur blog i just scroll down 2 dis topic..thanks 4 making my week.
Now bak 2 Toni..Toni...Toni
i knw ow it feels wen u re in luv wit a loser bcause ve bn in ur shoe b4, all my friend,family n ppl dat care abt me told 2 let go of my Ex but i was so much inluv n i was scared to start all over again but believe me once i made up my mind it just a gud feeling.it very hard dt gt me wrong.
i never believe am still atracted 2 any man but to my surprise i met a wonderful man dat luv n luk after.he just bought me a nice condo(flat)in london,who can tell my pussy stil expensive...ha ha ha..my new man he's rich,young,ve family value. am still single but very happy in my relationship wit my new man.
let me tell u something, i work in fashion/entartament industry in london and i ve met ur so called husband..i ws introduced 2 him by a friend,dis a guy dat cant even speak gud english, he ve a zero personality... very razz guy.
Toni u need prayer as am thinking maybe dis guy use juju 2 gt u b4 u submit urself bcause it luks like u re stil blinded by some evil forces.
I love u toni and pls gt over dis idiot guy,i knw is ur baby father but it better 2 be single n be happy dan 2 be married unhappy.
And to u vicky u might not ve much problem wit ur inlaw because u live far away frm them but judgement wil catch up on u very soon.
i cant wait for u and 9ice to batch each other in news paper..i will buy d paper for myself n all friend...bcause i can see a happy ending in dis relationship..uselles old cargo.
Anon April 9th 3:52PM,
That chuvinist statement of yours will not fly. So, all the men that have left their wives who stood by them when they were broke but then were dumped when the man became rich should fix themselves right? Go and check out that post with Tyrese Gibson on the Wendy Williams show where he said that being good to a man will not keep him with a woman. It is why I don't blame Naija women who seek already made men. It is because they know most men are a bunch of ingrates. Keep it up and you men will die lonely in old age because you people have refused to be fathers to your children. You have chosen to be sperm donors! When the kids hit it big you will now come back with your shameless selves asking they take care of you. I hope the kids don't!
@Nkechi April 9, 2011 2:33 PM
Wa fun ra e ni stroke mehn... You think coming here to call Vicky names will change anything? Ode oshi. No go siddon for house before them gba oko lowo eh. FOOL.
y'all spend all the time y'all have judging people's lives abi? okay oh, for those that are not married and think they have the 411 on marriage on lockdown..wait till then na. And for those who are married and think their hubby's won't cheat...hmmm. just chill till one smallie has his time. And for the bitter one's venting here cos dir hubby's are already shagging one smallie and will rather be with her in a night club than home with you and your kids, quit being bitter, love him,shag him,cook for him(remember to take care of ur body oh and don't become a hippo oh),talk to him, support him with prayers and keep making the extra effort to make it work or just drop his frigging cheating ass. Leave Adigun,Toni and Vicky. they will all get what they deserve. shikena.
Morning Linda,
My name is Funmi and I am a good friend to Toni, in fact I was the one who notified her of this post on your blog when she came to my house on tuesday. When I told her, the first thing she said was "free it, dont even get involved cos I know you" I did respect her wishes and never placed a comment till now. Reason for my comment is I noticed 3 or 4 anonymous comments (same person) out of the 114 comments had to go as far as accusing Toni of placing comments. Are you so heartless that you find it difficult to comprehend that people are actually standing up for this woman. Is she also the ones commenting with hundreds of facebook and twitter accts that are in full support of her?
Please lets get real, yes I will admit I am close to Toni but one thing I wont do is comment on the topic because as she said to us, stay out of it, this is Gods fight not hers so we should not try adding our two cents of what we know, she has said he piece. I believe her because the support even from big named Nigerians have been immense.
Toni is busy planning a major event today and working on her career while you madam just cant stomach it out of jealousy. yes, they tried to break her but she is still standing, taller, smarter and sharper. It really pains me to see how vindictive people can be under the guise of being anonymous. Linda, I think you should disable anonymous comments, at least people on facebook and twitter are speaking their minds but with their real names.
yes, i have chosen to drink another mans panadol this morning, but if you know Toni like I do, you would know she has a heart of gold and for her to keep quiet this long is priceless. i will not say much because ill still respect her wishes and not devel into this post but that whole Toni is the one commenting thing pissed me off and i could not stomach it longer because i know better.
To those who have left words of encouragement for her, God bless you all. May you not go through such in your life.
lastly:
@ 3:52 PM and 7:14 PM (same person)
Since when does a man need an excuse to cheat on his partner? I know exactly who you are because there is only one person that would mention tbilz. The same one person who lied to 9ice that Toni was dating tbilz when she wasnt. so you are still sitting on top of that rumor, upon all ur yankee u still never free 9ice and Toni matta. O ga ju. you caused a lot of damage and yet you are still here talking. If only Toni had allowed us give you a beat down back in 2008. All I will say to you is you started all this but hide under annonymous or in another country. It does not stop nemsis from catching up with you. Trust me, Nemesis will catch up with u, sooner or later because ur sins are HUGE, and u know it. Tonis creator and Zions creator will not let u rest. Emi Funmi ni mo so be
@anon that said Toni was beaten by 9ice and she ended up in the hospital. why are you such a vindictive liar, please show me the hospital records proving that ever happened. when i read that post, I had to ask toni if there was something she did not tell us and she said "let them run their mouth, it is not true, have you visited me in a hospital before" so please the lady said she wasnt hospitalized for such so please stop it.
Linda, I bid you to disable anonymous comments, lets know who is who, at least that idiot wont have mouth to accuse Toni of anything.thank you
@Anon April 10 5.22am aka Vicky. LOL!!!!! E dey pain u. Next time u decide to put up shop with a married man and birth his bastards u Shd be ready for some bad mouthing. Couldnt make sense of all the rest of ur gisberish post. OLODO, EZI OFA, ASHEWO, ANUPAMA. Get a life and start whoring around to take care of ur bastards cause we all know that 9ICE has fallen on hard times.
Miss Payne I dont know who u are but it is about time u forget this worthless fool and move on. My best friend went thru what u are going thru and I can tell u that the pain is excurtiating but guess what. U WILL BE FINE and all this will just be a blur. As for the ashewo Vicky that has been posting nonsence her. Her consience is obvliously pricking her she will get her reward. Just a matter of time.
These comments are so funny.
Since most of the commentators on this post are familiar with each other, lets state some fact.
Toni and Lore are both guilty of different things.
Lore was sleeping around, Toni has slept around.
Lore was physically violent (when he beat her the day of the Hiphopworld award) and Toni was previously physical (when she laid her hands on him in US ... smart move)
Lore had family influences from his parents and brothers, Toni also had influences from her family in surulere
Toni helped Lore claiming she paid for him to get to this level, Lore paid for toni by paying her cali mortgage and helping her brand (whatever happened to toni payne cosmetics and t shirts?)
its obvious everybody got what they deserved from this situation, lore got fame, toni became relevant and she is doing this entertainment thing as she always wanted.
I really hope Toni can move on, obvious Lore already did.
In any case this is entertainment to us the readers.
There are several sides to this story, depending on who is telling the story.. and Toni knows why I know all this gist, bariga full ground. Coded
@ funmi aka Toni payne
we know you................
@Anon 12:21 AM
I am confused by your post. You say Toni used 9ice to become relevant and he helped with her cosmetics. I know a lot of blog readers can prove you wrong because I was an avid reader of her blog and she has had a successful cosmetics and clothing business before anyone knew who 9ice was. If I can recall Toni shoved 9ice down our throats always talking about his music. I did not even know who 9ice was then.
Lastly, you claim to be coded yet I follow Toni and Cabasa on twitter and from the way things look Coded Tunes is in full support of Toni, not 9ice. About Toni moving on, it looks like she has. Her tweets show no indication of bitterness. Just a bubbly, friendly, hardworking mother. Besides I feel Adol and Olamide have more talent than 9ice.(My opinion)
I don't understand how people come here making baseless comments like yours and expect us to believe it. Some of us have better understanding and reasoning capabilities
Talllllkkkkkkkk. I am listening.
A lot of Nigerians ar fools...
How can u all be so quick at judging? Toni had spoken... & so fucking what? Why would a woman so much hurt be silent dat long?.....guess she was takin her time to cook up cockamamie stories!
Leave them 4 themselves.
Go tend to ur houses.
Ma una go sew ur cloth 4 where dem tear....
I have never seen an African woman so badly damage that will keep mute over such allegations..Never! forget about Toni been brought abroad,she is an African woman.
why is she now coming out to say her side of the story over the fact 9ice is having a baby?
This lady is a professional PR, so she must know how to play her card well and common that other Lady is far prettier older or not.
Toni has been around and she still goes around,people that knows her can tell and now she looking for a mugun naija boy all in the name of helping him.
9ice is also a foolish man if you marry a for fame ,you will get treated like dirt. To me they both got what they wanted and hopefully each has learn from this just a pity to the outsider dragged into this.
This was never a marriage based on love from the beginning which they both know .Enough of their story and PR stunt each person knows the truth and so does God.
APRIL 12@ANON 7.53AM aka Vicky again, so u are the poor outsider dragged into this mess. Ashewo, baby mama no be work oh!! ODE.
Who told u that u are finer than Toni with ur big nose and eyes. If u are so beautiful u couldnt get a decent man to wife u but u end up being a baby mama to a married local fool.
Gongo ti so meeeeen!!!!!
Please people stop calling Vicky a prostiture. That is an insult to all the prostitutes. A woman who does what she did is worse than a prostitute. I know from experience Karma will still catch up with her. What 9ice did to his wife, he will do 50 times worse to her a common bedmate. Let's also not blame 9ice, men that are not disciplined will stick it in any available hole. How are we so surE 9ice is the only married man she is bedding? He was probably the only one mugu enough to accept those babies. He had better get a paternity test. Foolish BOY
Wow this is really interesting, Just because I made a comment and gave my opinion,Now I am Vicky.....LOLs Cant stop laughing at the folly of some ill-mannered people.
Vicky indeed!
Uncultured!!
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