Letter to the Fellas. Volume 3. (Do we Intentionally give ladies false hope? Or is it unconscious?).. Why do Ladies always have to ask us one of the most famous questions ever "Who am I to you?"
As guys deep inside our "Id" i.e our reservoir of Emotions and Feelings ; we know that a Lady may not be the one for us or be our type yet we stand in her way of moving on and getting a man.
We play the role of Boyfriend
to a lady who we don't see as our Girlfriend. We fill her head with
Imaginary love, buy her nice and expensive things, introduce her to our
family, meet her own family yet she doesn't know you're on gear 1 while
she's on gear 6.. I've been guilty of this as well and I hope I've
learned to know better.. But my Question is do we men STRING ladies
along Intentionally ? or is it unconscious? or are we just Mean and
Insensitive?..
Both men and women are guilty of stringing people along
but men have a Phd in Stringing Affairs because of our Ego and
Machismo.. Some men see having a lot of ladies around them as an
accomplishment. Most times the ladies who are victims to this lost years
of their lives being enslaved to a guy in Imaginary Love just to find
out that he's not that into her or he's engaged to another lady who is
his true type or preference.
As fellas I know we all have that selfish
trait and want to be needed and adored by ladies even if its at their
detriment.. Please let's try to respect the emotions of ladies and
realise that sometimes it takes more time for a lady to move on than a
man.. Also, to the ladies ; if you have to ask a guy " WHO AM I TO YOU?"
More than 4 times then rethink that relationship, also try to look for
the signs that a guy is just stringing you along because the more time
you spend with him the more emotionally attached you will be.. I must
also say it takes a strong man to put his selfishness aside and let a
lady move on with her life if he knows he doesn't have serious plans for
her..
Dear Fellas stop blocking the entrance if you're not willing to
step up or your relationship isn't defined. Any relationship that isn't
defined is a waste of time. Ladies make sure he tells you who you are to
him. Its a form of Relationship Insurance. #DoktorMofin #Psychology #LetterToTheFellas Vol. 3
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ReplyDelete>>>>> couldn't have said it better "Dear Fellas stop blocking the entrance if you're not willing to step up or your relationship isn't defined. Any relationship that isn't defined is a waste of time. Ladies make sure he tells you who you are to him." lovely piece<<<<< corcake@yahoo.com
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ReplyDeleteHe's right.......when u ask a guy that question, u'll see hw evasive he becomes........God punish that guy that would intentionally string me along
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ReplyDelete>>>>>>Dear Fellas stop blocking the entrance if you're not willing to step up or your relationship isn't defined. Any relationship that isn't defined is a waste of time. Ladies make sure he tells you who you are to him. lovely piece. <<<<<< corcake@yahoo.com
ReplyDelete>>>>>>Dear Fellas stop blocking the entrance if you're not willing to step up or your relationship isn't defined. Any relationship that isn't defined is a waste of time. Ladies make sure he tells you who you are to him. lovely piece. <<<<<< corcake@yahoo.com
ReplyDelete>>>>>>Dear Fellas stop blocking the entrance if you're not willing to step up or your relationship isn't defined. Any relationship that isn't defined is a waste of time. Ladies make sure he tells you who you are to him. lovely piece. <<<<<< corcake@yahoo.com
ReplyDeleteDts true
ReplyDeleteis this really helpful? tell them ladies the things to look out for
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ReplyDeleteTrue talk,ladies be wise
ReplyDeleteMay God help us #ladies# deliver us from time wasters...
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ReplyDeletetrue talk...
ReplyDeleteHe has done it b4
ReplyDeleteAh think am one of the guys he's talking bout..being deceptive
ReplyDeleteGuys,una don hear?we gals should be careful 2
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ReplyDeletenoted
ReplyDelete'Any relationship dt is not defined is a waste of time' Me likey..#1000 likes.
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ReplyDeleteHe's absolutely right
ReplyDeleteCrazy talk for d gods
ReplyDeleteHmmm. Does his telling you really serve as an insurance or is it just another string
ReplyDeleteThank God you mentioned is both for boys and girls, ladies do it as well maybe because they get some free stuff from the guy. It's all good, your advice is noted.
ReplyDeleteLet them reason it within themselves
ReplyDeletelet them not quarrel about it
so true mehn....not just guys though sum ladies do dat too...but it's pretty much something guys r guilty of doing
ReplyDeleteAlmost every man do it....but dats what gals want to hear b4 dey gives u what u want frm dem
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ReplyDeleteAlmost every man do it....but dats what gals want to hear b4 dey gives u what u want frm dem
ReplyDeleteYou let yourself be strung along if you let it! No matter how hard a person tries to deceive you, I want to believe that your mind and heart can see through all the charade but we choose not to see it because of our blind emotions and want to try or hope.
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Ehnn now...after u self don finish doing ur own...stringing like 6 ladies life already..u con dey advise!!! Thank u oo Mr Doktor!!!
ReplyDeleteThis is very true. A guy tried that with me once. Guys, don't toil with a girl's emotion if you are not ready for something serious with her. Guys are just too egoistic to admit
ReplyDeletea.k.a EDWIN CHINEDU AZUBUKO said...
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Rubbish and nonsense thats all i see here.
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Guilty as charged but i concur tho
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ReplyDeleted issue is many ladies don't know what what they want there4 can't ask necessary questns wen in a relatnship.
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ReplyDeletena today... its been long when guys started deceiving ladies as for ladies they should be smart to know when a guy doesnt love them.
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ReplyDeleteIt's better to be truthful.
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ReplyDeleteTHANK U SO MUCH MR. OLUMOFIN. HELP ME TELL THEM. GUYS, I HOPE U CHANGE FOR THE BETTER.
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ReplyDeleteThem no dey hia...
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ReplyDeleteWell said. Hope we all learn (both men and women)
ReplyDeleteThat's a wise one....I do believe men do this intentionally. That's not fair tho, cos it is really heart broken..
ReplyDeleteAnd Madam Linda, do you even post any of my comment at all,cos I haven't come across one since the very first day I decided to join the commenters..I have been a member of this blog for 2 years now..but doesn't like commenting but I think it's fun now..promise to keep it on.
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ReplyDeleteThat's a wise one....I do believe men do this intentionally. That's not fair tho, cos it is really heart broken..
ReplyDeleteAnd Madam Linda, do you even post any of my comment at all,cos I haven't come across one since the very first day I decided to join the commenters..I have been a member of this blog for 2 years now..but doesn't like commenting but I think it's fun now..promise to keep it on.
Joro my man.
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ReplyDelete'but men have a Phd in Stringing Affairs because of our Ego and Machismo' lol. am guilty as charged. Thank God am now a VGBG.
ReplyDeleteplease unless we hold a national conference and broker peace between players and playees mugu and magas ... we shall continue kana ji kwo?
ReplyDeleteyours sincerely Player
Why do men always promise women marriage? When they know clearly no plans are in it for her ? So sad
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ReplyDeleteA man will lie to a woman for years and dump her bcos he met a better choice.
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ReplyDeleteWomen stop allowing men decieve you for your years.
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ReplyDeleteLinda Thanks for posting this article. God bless you
ReplyDeleteindeed some do ... no most do ..lol
ReplyDeletehow long is his tie?
ReplyDeleteAdejoro Olumofin. Nice Article
ReplyDeleteThis is cool... And its a shame that I'm admitting to fall in this category of Fellas! Would make amend.
ReplyDeleteWhy do women fall for men ?
ReplyDeleteNice write up. Linda Nice one
ReplyDelete...All the LIB ladies in here been screaming tell them
ReplyDelete...Note; he said most girls also play the string game, it's just that guys seems to have Phd in it
...But without being biase, what he said is 100% true!
Highly needed
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ReplyDeleteseriously, who else didn't know this before now? Don't need no attention freak to tell me this really.
ReplyDeleteAkuko uwa...olakel1@yahoo.com
ReplyDeleteWhy r u still asking why guys do it when u have done it in the past or still on it#dunno? Ladies do it to guys and guys do it to ladies atleast one faction started it and the other chorused
ReplyDeletestrong words "doktar" hope the guys listened very well.
ReplyDeleteNa so guys dey do, nikkyqueen2013@gmail.com
ReplyDeleteTime wasters!!!! Tell them.
ReplyDeleteAbeg help us tell them.
ReplyDeletethis is very dull for an actual psychologist. u went to school to study psychology and THIS is what you come up with? this is so dry and so easy for anyone to come up with.
ReplyDeletedon't rush urself in the future. take time to come up with more interesting and mentally challenging.
Yes that's right but when u tell a man u don't think it's going anywhere he doesn't want to live u alone and move on
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