Ladies, come in here! Want to know why your kid sister(s) or girls who grew up before your eyes are already engaged or even married while you can't even boost of a serious boyfriend?
Here is the singular reason why; "Being real". Every man has his 'mumu botton'. At the same time, every man has a particular type of girl he's been envisioned to settle down with (It might not be known to him until he finds the mrs right).If I'd wish to settle down with a Loud person for instance, and you are a loud person but pretends to be all quiet and cool, you don't expect to get a ring from me.
Message been, be your true self at all times.
Somebody wants you the way you are.
Someone has been searching for you all his life.
It might be true that a bunch of guys might have used and dumped you but that's surely their lose.
Continue been real...verily I say unto you, you are worth more than billions to one cool gentle man out there. A man who has it all and currently searching for you.
Don't expect to meet your man in one of those scenarios you've read in novels or love stories. Wedding ceremonies, on a plane or all have you. He might come in a very weird unbelievable scenarios you might look down on. That's why you should be on your best behavior at all times.
Cheers! Merry Xmas and a happy new year.
David King
David King? Is he frm jos? We have an OAP named David King in jos. Nice advice
ReplyDeleteHope Linda herself pick a word or two here.
DeleteI still can't get over the ordain Linda narrated from a flight in 2011 or thereabouts. Hope you remember Linda. I will not forgive you of that till I see your wedding pictures.
Blackberry gives you the best and make you forget the rest.
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David (dave_gino)
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David don too try. Nice grammar
DeleteTrue talk!
DeleteWise one..
Delete@sandra No... it is that artist (Dixlow) from jos that sang chere cheremo.
DeleteHis name is David Eze. But like using King instead. not everyone knows this sha.
Good to know and I hope all the SSS {single seriously searching} ladies are reading this
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That's a consolation. Some don't have good character and they want a PERFECT MAN!
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hmmm nice write-up
ReplyDeletemeanwhile email me to know how you can enlarge your joystick
Don't expect to meet your man in one of those scenarios you've read in novels or love stories. Wedding ceremonies, on a plane or all have you. He might come in a very weird unbelievable scenarios you might look down on... FOR ALL THOSE GIRLS TURNING ME DOWN ON LIB, Y'all Better Accept me now Or!!
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.Disclaimer:: Raise Your Words, Not Your Voice. It Is Rain That Grows Flowers, Not Thunder..
Meeting a man for you can happen in the unlikeliest of ways. Open ur mind to possibilities. As the saying goes "what you've been looking for in sokoto may be right there im your shokoto"
DeleteNonso Okoh via SAMSUNG GALAXY SMART PHONE.
What do you have to offer a woman apart from your dick? Be productive to yourself first
DeleteYou nailed bro
ReplyDeleteNice piece by king david,God bless you.
ReplyDeleteMiss indomie says so.
Compliment 2u too...
ReplyDeleteNice msg but...
#Royal Priesthood#
Fake girls everywhere.
ReplyDeleteU can meet ur spouse anywhere
ReplyDeleteInspired.
ReplyDeleteNice one
Be your best.
I pray they listen
ReplyDeleteWell written : there's a yoruba adage that says "character is beauty"and remember the scripture also talks about a virtuous woman.but in all let's add God to whatever step we take. It is well. Prov 3:5. Prov 31:10-31
ReplyDeleteTrue talk,appreciate
ReplyDeleteBoring story,next please
ReplyDeleteYou nailed it bros
ReplyDeleteD best msg thereof I grab is "Continue b real"...
ReplyDeleteGrt msg 4d ladies...
#Royal Priesthood#
You nailed it bros
ReplyDeleteAnytime your own comes, take it. Don't COMPARE yourself with ANY OTHER PERSON.
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Truer words have never been said
ReplyDeleteI pray they change their ways and find Mr. Right.
ReplyDeletehmmm...Its not brain power...But let God direct your path.
ReplyDeleteI love this so much... like he is talking to me.
ReplyDeleteOk ooo
ReplyDeleteBut some girls re very real,but husband no gree come o,so wetin those ones go do.
ReplyDeleteBoda ode,pls comment just once,put all d shit togeda...
DeleteDavid King...Nice one frm our fellow esteemed LIB Reader...
ReplyDelete#Royal Priesthood#
Well. I think Dude's kinda right.
ReplyDeleteThis is a load of crap!!
ReplyDeleteEvery Tom, Dick & Harry is a wannabe relationship counsellor.
If a woman or man is being abrasive, negative or whatever. That woman or man needs to deal with his or her issues/hangups/demons.
Look for help, fix yourself and love yourself - then you will give others a reason to love you.
Telling people to remain with their "craze baggage" and someone will come and marry them is a dangerous prescription for disaster in the ensuing relationship.
This is a load of crap!!
ReplyDeleteEvery Tom, Dick & Harry is a wannabe relationship counsellor.
If a woman or man is being abrasive, negative or whatever. That woman or man needs to deal with his or her issues/hangups/demons.
Look for help, fix yourself and love yourself - then you will give others a reason to love you.
Telling people to remain with their "craze baggage" and someone will come and marry them is a dangerous prescription for disaster in the ensuing relationship.
the singulars should take heed of this advise. while the plurals should always advise the singulars.
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So true...ladies really need to b on deir beat behavour..dnt pretend
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True talk
ReplyDeleteLib ugegbe
That's cool.
ReplyDeleteNoted
ReplyDeleteWell said I concur
ReplyDeleteNice
ReplyDeleteOK O..HEARD! GOOD LUCK TO THEM SINGLE SISTERS...
ReplyDeletehmn....nice one. dislike pretenders anyway. Be it relationship or not..................
ReplyDeleteCul
ReplyDeleteDEAR LIB READER, BEING SINGLE HAPPENS, MOST PPL WITH THIS BAD ATTITUDE U MENTIONED ARE MARRIED OR IN A RELATIONSHIP,THERE ARE SO MANY LOUD WIVES/GF'S THAT INITIALLY PRETENDED TO BE QUIET, GOOD POINTS THO
ReplyDelete#FACT#
ReplyDeleteTrue! True!! True!!! I totally agree with you bro
ReplyDeleteHe who have ears should hear the word...and the message is for most women or ladies who are picky when it comes to choosing a life partner #oyo
ReplyDelete#Omoh
You should always be careful about choosing a husband. You can't just marry any Bria that smiles at you
DeleteFinding the right person is just God. Some ladies have tried bn real but yet got their hearts broken. So for that aspect i don't think the book or plan that worked for Miss A will work for Miss B. Everything na God.
ReplyDeleteNice write up! True talk....
ReplyDelete"but that's surely their lose" proof read next time Mr Advisor
ReplyDeleteGreat advice.
ReplyDeleteVery straight to de point...... I like it
ReplyDeleteU right sir.there re a whole lot of fake ladies out there. They forget that it doesn't take anything to be real, being fake takes a whole lot of energy. Please tell them.
ReplyDeleteNice one man
ReplyDeleteVery straight to de point...... I like it
ReplyDeleteVery Good!
ReplyDeleteNice one! I quite agree
ReplyDeleteExactly , be true to urself, there's someone for ur type
ReplyDeleteTrue talk
ReplyDeleteWho TF is he again? Linda Nwa Ikeji, biko bia, must you publish any mumu write up? What sense is in this? Nigga can't even spell. Happy New Year in Advance.
ReplyDeleteWho TF is he again? Linda Nwa Ikeji, biko bia, must you publish any mumu write up? What sense is in this? Nigga can't even spell. Happy New Year in Advance.
ReplyDeleteTrue talk ooo jaare ny brother
ReplyDeletevery encouraging words......
ReplyDeletetosinfunmi23@gmail.com
David King please work on your grammar and pls stop patronizing single girls with nonsense epistiles. Rubbish talk!
ReplyDeleteOkay. Words of wisdom
ReplyDeleteGlad som1 is saying this... same thing I keep saying... there is a man for every lady. just be your self... dnt be wat u are not just bcos u wanna make som1 happy. BE YOU!!!
ReplyDeleteNice piece
ReplyDeleteHe has spoken well... lol
ReplyDeleteI hope our sisters pick from this pieces and they should stop comparing themselves with men...Cheers
ReplyDeleteNice... I share ur thought too... Times have so changed wen girls are betrothed to marriage... Now, jus be yourself & ur right Man will notice u.... But again, girls need to avoid been rude...
ReplyDeleteBe real but not too real! Leave some things for him to discover later. Be like an onion, every layer bringing new surprises! If you show him all of you at once, he gets bored.
ReplyDeleteNice1,msg tu us.M aalwaiz real
ReplyDeleteCrap....ds does not work for everyone
ReplyDelete@Galore
Simply for women
ReplyDeleteTenx David I needed that
ReplyDeleteLindy this advice is for 10% of the ladies out there,which you will not find them single,ask me why,ladies believes so much on fake life this days,everything about them is fake..**EMZEALLOUS**
ReplyDeleteNice1!
ReplyDeleteOro nla. He said it all!!
ReplyDeleteEnough said ladies...enough said!
ReplyDeleteBunch of nonsense! Some people want to achieve a couple things before we get married! N y y y is it always about the women doing this or that! Of cus an ignorant man wrote the article!!!
ReplyDeleteWell said
ReplyDelete#word
ReplyDeleteyea true talk! som women jus lyk pretending
ReplyDelete#*karlishah*
True talk .tnx bro
ReplyDeleteseen
ReplyDeletescrew you David King, who told you that every woman's aim in life is to get married?
ReplyDeleteNice piece... Be on ur best behaviour at all times... That's wots up!!!
ReplyDeletegirls getting married to the wrong persons because of societal pressures.
ReplyDeleteI guess he ιƨ SSS... Lol. Αℓℓ the best ladies and gents
ReplyDeleteWhat about the men? Because I know several men looking for good wives as we speak and they just can't seem to find. What advise would you have for them too? Cos this thing tire me sef!
ReplyDeleteI guess he ιƨ SSS... Lol. Αℓℓ the best ladies and gents
ReplyDeleteBULLSHIT!!!!! Nigerian men especially this new breed (well most) won't know real even if real slapped them in the face. Why else do you think all the girls in Lagos all look the same (make up biz is booming). Even the ones that naturally hate make up and weave do it and when you ask, they tell you it's the struggle. Later now, you start hearing the men complaining that their wives changed after marriag. Honey, she didn't change, she only reverted to her real self.
ReplyDeleteLet's face it, a lot of men are clueless. Haven't you met that naija guy who complains about weaves and make up and you turn around and see his girlfriend and you are like "dude, your gf is make up and weave personified".
Everyone is hustling for a better life so we end up in this rat race of pretending to be someone else so we get better. At the end of the day we continue the cycle of sham and miserable unions. Truth is there really is no one-size-fits-all guide. Some men like real, some like fake and some women have perfected the art of faking their lives so well for a while that people around believe it is real.
Also, all this women must struggle to marry BS should die already abeg. It only breeds a generation of lazier men. Just aim for happiness and live a happy life regardless of your marital status. TRUE happiness is difficult to fake and true happiness is relative (it might be a so called fake life for some)
Gbammest!!!
DeleteHonestly!!!!!! This should be the real article!
DeleteLinda, what will it take for you to give us the ability to up-vote some comment and down-vote some of the crap comments that are on here?
DeleteBros! 10 Gbosa for dia! You be correct pesin.
I tire for all dis wannabe counsellors wey dey open mouth anyhow and the mumu peeps wey dey accept all manner of nonsense wey dem no even use their number 6 analyze am first!
Best comment ever
DeleteA word is enough for the wise.
ReplyDeletenice post there cool..
ReplyDeletehope the ladies are reading this.
sometimes the scare us the guys away with their unrealistic needs and wants.
you end up telling your self that,this lady is not my type oh,her taste is high,just be ur self ladies,like the poster said,be in ur best behavior at all time,cos eyes re watching you never know wen you jst pissed off ur mr right.
I met a gurl in a cab,she was all bittered and stuffs saying swear words and all that,i almost concluded that dis lady must be hash or something cos of her out ward behavior,so when I tried to say hello,i thought I was going to gt scolded by her,but she responded very well,we became friends...she said it was cos of mood,she just lost her cell phone,her mood was elated,and all.
all the same what am trying to say is ladies be ur in best behaviours.
compliment of the season.
Thanks David King. It's a food for thought
ReplyDeleteBack consolation or encouragement you dey give yourself linda...you hope you read it line by line
ReplyDeleteAs much as I would have agreed with your article because the reason you gave is correct (being one self) I totally disagree that's the sole reason single ladies have not gotten married. Your reason given is just one out of million reasons people don't get married on time.There are lots of real ladies who are still not engaged not to talk of getting married.
ReplyDeleteNot completely true! A lot of guys want fresh blood because they believe younger is fresher. But it's not necessarily true because the world is losing its essence and the kind of things some16yr olds get into immorally, a lot of 28 yr olds can't even boast of. A lot of guys rather jump at "youthfullness" because they believe they are opting for a better quality by choosing someone of a younger age as supposed to someone slightly older. That's why a lot of younger sisters are getting married before their older ones. Although not all these cases are mistakes but a lot of guys find out their err after the get married and realize not all that glitters is gold and wish they had gone for character and maturity instead of looks and age. I'm speaking from experience. Just look at the divorce rate of regular Nigerians today and check out the ages those wives got married...... #wisdomiskey
ReplyDeleteThis person should be arrested for letting out series of grammatical blunders... but this is some sense in what he or she is saying
ReplyDeletethe guy no get editor bah
ReplyDeleteYes, like me, I really need a loud lady that knows when to draw the line in her loudness.
ReplyDeleteThank you David King, we don hear....hehehe
ReplyDeleteBut who wants to settle with a loud person tho? Lol Abeg Linda try dey edit these stories...enough typos
ReplyDelete@thewriter, completely lies.... what makes u think those single ladies aren't real? It may not just be their time, okay! And stop saying they are not 'real'.
ReplyDeleteBullshit!!!
ReplyDeleteLinda, why are you sharing a letter for you with us???
ReplyDeletenoted David!
ReplyDeleteEngee said so...
True talk Linda is real this time around.
ReplyDeletea.k.a EDWIN CHINEDU AZUBUKO said...
ReplyDelete.
Guy yu go enter heaven......
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ReplyDeleteAbeg shut up linda.
ReplyDeleteNa now dem dey wake up, make Una continuer #in mama peace voice....don't look down on any broda I swear, see his vision and drive.....
ReplyDeleteTrue talk
ReplyDeleteWe don hear
ReplyDeleteI think you should focus on correcting your grammar and let us single women worry about our own selves. Cheers
ReplyDeleteHmmmm
ReplyDeleteWe don hear!
Haha!Nice...He spoke well
ReplyDeleteArticle of the year. I just hope dey adhere to it. Cuz dis days gals are too fake. Angela don turn angel. Josephine is nw Jessie. Isalright#
ReplyDeleteLet me sit down and read comments.
ReplyDeleteSo true,niceone,May God help us
ReplyDeleteTrue talk my lady
ReplyDeleteDis guy nailed it. On point bro. Pray I find mine pretty soon.
ReplyDeleteWELCOME TO LIB
well said......#true.....well my cousin met her husband on facebook,,,,,
ReplyDeleteThumbs-up.
ReplyDeleteTanks for d advice hope u r married ur self.
ReplyDeletelolozzzzzzzzzzz
ReplyDeleteHope Linda herself pick a word or two here.
ReplyDeleteI still can't get over the ordain Linda narrated from a flight in 2011 or thereabouts. Hope you remember Linda. I will not forgive you of that till I see your wedding pictures.
Blackberry gives you the best and make you forget the rest.
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David (dave_gino)
»Commenting from my BLACKBERRY 9900«
True talk,but they will never hear.
ReplyDeleteTrue talk, being real pays a lot
DeleteDis is crazily true, met my husband wen I went to smoke! A weird way to meet someone right? D funny tin is its not lyk I'm a crazy lady or something, I just happen to hv a crazy side dat I hide which he met first and liked. If I was told to go on a date with him d normal way for d first time, smoking weed would b d last tin I had mention
ReplyDeleteare u talking to the ones that have already bleached their soulS?
ReplyDeleteYou got it right bro. I totally agree with you 100%.
ReplyDeleteTrue tok oh
ReplyDeleteNice one,I love that.......#Gmooore'sTaLk
ReplyDeleteThe English language has just been battered.
ReplyDeleteBe selling mumu dreams, some of u will never ever get married. It hurts but it is true
ReplyDeleteMaybe but what about the money factor? Girls of nowadays will look at your net worth, them go weigh you well well.
ReplyDeleteTanks jare better talk
ReplyDeleteHmmmm....kinda true
ReplyDelete100% fact
ReplyDeleteShut up already Mr Real. I bet you don't have much and from terms like ***-What have you, an old Nigerian English slang- *** it's obvious you aren't even in the dating scene anymore. Don't worry about daughters and so on, worry about your own life. Part of what you said might be right but still, it's no excuse for our daughters to aim low or conform to what you see as *real* Got a problem?
ReplyDeleteDuke it out with my daughter on her blog Www.Organics11.com
Message to Linda.
ReplyDeleteMessage to Linda.
ReplyDeleteTell them o....lol! So true
ReplyDeleteTrue talk stay real single ladies God will meet evryone at their point of need
ReplyDeleteSuch appalling English...Lol!!
ReplyDeleteSuch appalling English...Lol!!
ReplyDeleteTrue talk
ReplyDeletelol,true talk tho...#Chizzy says so..Lib addict
ReplyDeleteNice write up
ReplyDeleteYou are mad
ReplyDeleteAnd they should dress well I beg, some of their dressing na 'ogadinma'
ReplyDeleteAwesome advice 😁 tell them girls
ReplyDeleteAdvice on point.Dont mind them ladies o.We,have alot of them in Nigeria and in LIB pretenders.It pays to be YOU!!!
ReplyDeleteDavid King...
ReplyDeleteJ Town Repping
Love your talk dear
ReplyDeleteThat's the reason?
ReplyDeleteThanks David king....very well scripted
ReplyDeleteAww...i like
ReplyDeleteYou're right
ReplyDeleteBeing real, true is the key
#Commenting thru Glo 4G LTE
so tru!
ReplyDeleteThanks.... na true talk
ReplyDeleteThank u oo
ReplyDeleteOk heard
ReplyDeleteIt should be 'being' real. Please this your english just made me stop reading halfway.
ReplyDeleteI think they girl is on point
ReplyDeleteOkay.heard
ReplyDeleteKing David go sit your butt down somewhere. Some ppl were just born to be single, that is their destiny. Jesus was single, Elijah was single, Buddha chose singlehood after marriage, Mother Teresa was single, Elizabeth 1 was single, St. Francis of Assissi was single, Nikola Tesla was single. Are all these ppl's accomplishments and value that they added to life on earth any less because they did not marry? Marriage is not an accomplishment.
ReplyDeletewell said,and I shall agree with u,Mr David King only 80%,becos its nt abt being real or what but also playing ur game as well as packing too.I say so becos most of the young gals married today may nt be half inch compared to most unmarried ladies bt bcos dey were smart and did d needful,therefore dey got wt dey wntd.Bt d question is"wt is most important,getting married or staying married" .wen we have been able to ans dt,den we can actually say for a lady to stay married she needs to b real.
ReplyDeletewhile points mentioned is true, thats not the only real reason.
ReplyDeleteWord bro. I hope our unmarried Nollywood female celeb will grab this
ReplyDeleteTruth be told.
ReplyDeleteA beg park well! What fake girls..
ReplyDeleteTruth be told.
ReplyDeleteGood talk bro,A word is enough for the wise.
ReplyDeleteWaiting for that groundbreaking message to men to shape up or they're also "doomed" to be single forever. Turnabout is fair play.
ReplyDelete"It might be true that a bunch of guys might have used and dumped you but that's surely their lose.
ReplyDeleteContinue been real...verily I say unto you, you are worth more than billions to one cool gentle man out there. A man who has it all and currently searching for you"
((((((((((((GBAGAUN)))))))))))))
When you tell a lady to be in her best behaviour wat do u mean, what if her best is your worst. Just asking
ReplyDeletereevolution101@gmail.com
When did being single become a problem? Issues of getting married, acquiring college degrees etc are simply societal expectations, people should learn to follow their dreams and be fulfilled in achieving same
ReplyDeleteNice word and advice
ReplyDeleteFinding the right person is just God.
ReplyDeleteAm not married and am not bothered one bit, besides am a lady, men pursue me left right center both single and married but they are not interested in marriage only sex, food and money. I don't succumb to there advances.
ReplyDeleteSo if the men do not want to marry whose fault is it. None but the society too many young ladies that have no means of livelihood are offering them selves to men for peanuts, I mean prostituting them selves.
Then a good majority of the single men are jobless,the economy is so bad that you have girls/women sleeping around like dogs for as little as 500 Naira and the young men without jobs now prefer to have single working class women having children for them raising them alone by them selves while they disappear hoping to appear later to claim na my pikin.
The state of the economy have wrecked havoc on our society.
Talking about been real,guys should know that this fake life ladies display is prompted by guys..how? you may ask ..most present day guys will go for a well packaged lady at first not considering her source of income and also moved by her pretentious ascent just to mention but a few..so in this prevailing circumstances,many other ladies will tend to emulate this in order to get the guys attention
ReplyDeleteMost girls, are not ready to settle dawn ooo
ReplyDeleteI needed dat encouragement cos i had already given up! i knw i kip meeting guys dat brkup cos dey said i am too good for dem n it mks me wanno cry cos m jst being me.
ReplyDeleteHmmmmn, we'll said. The last line says it all....Selah!
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