From a LIB reader who thinks no man is faithful...:-)
Dear LIB readers, I have always thought my husband was faithful until I
saw this in his FB box. We have been married and blessed with 2kids and
he acts like a saint all the time. I am shocked at this and more upset
because the conversations are with both married and single ladies. What can I do in a situation like this? Do I just stay mute and move on
like nothing happened or talk to him about it. Even if I do. I know his
still going to deny it..
She shud grow up.lindaobserve
ReplyDeleteShe shud grow up.lindaobserve
ReplyDeleteLol
ReplyDeleteAre u a learner abi na white man u marry? We love cheating dear
ReplyDeleteJust talk it over but that wont stop him.
ReplyDeleteLol
ReplyDeleteWhy post it
Hmmmmm....i smell a rat...husband!
ReplyDeleteSo wetin come concern us..
ReplyDeleteMEN!!! Very wicked beings *smh*
ReplyDeleteSo this means they fucked abi? OK!
ReplyDeleteLol lemme ooh really angry wife.no man can ever b faithful even pastor's r not faithful no b my mouth una hear ooh.my sister if u want to ask him don't ask wit a fight ooh ask gently
ReplyDeleteMAdaM DS IS SO CHILDSH, DEAL WIT UR UNFAITHFUL MAN..LYK U KNW DEY AINT NO SAINT..DO WAT U WANA DO N LIV LIB WIT DS KNDA THNG...TOMJERRYSWIT
ReplyDeleteLinda, really nothing about both comments suggests that he is cheating. Mere flirting
ReplyDeleteStop entering unauthorized territories, otherwise u keep harming urself.
ReplyDeleteShe will injure herself finally if she continues like this! The most painful part now is that somewhere out there a faithful guy is getting recklessly cheated on!! #Irony
ReplyDelete#FiZz
Men αи∂ their unfaithfulness
ReplyDeleteI'd rather u tell him o
Confront him αи∂ show him †Ñ’ξ chats....
Lemme nw see hw he will deny it
Whether he's been sendn those msgs to his ghost friends...
Buh whatever u do, pls don't endanger ur relationship with him
Do that with humility αи∂ respect, though he doesn't deserve it
Nothing might be going on after all.....he might just be using that to pass time αи∂ have fun
women stop checking ur husbands fones if u no wan get BP jst face ur work make ursef pweety chat travel if u can go n av funnnnnn dnt kill ursef.
ReplyDeleteYell at your husband about the chat, scream at him Sooo much till he gets mad, leaves the house, drives straight to one of these ladies n bang her silly
ReplyDeleteLolz... its obvious ur hubie is just catchin fun. though it's wrong bt it's nofin crios. He ws only chatin wt an old friend of his. Excercise patience n let it go. Askin him won't change him, Infact, it wl only mak him smarter. Best advice 4 U is to stay off his fones, else, U may nt live long 4 ur kids ooo...cos of high BP.It is well wt U.
ReplyDeleteNo man is faithful. They all cheats and bunch of assholes. Let him know, you are aware it. Even if he denies It, at the back of his mind he will feel guity.
ReplyDeleteLMAO... ur husband always acts like a saint... indeed...
ReplyDeleteCut his dick
ReplyDeleteOk na!
ReplyDeleteThey all cheat,its nothing new.
ReplyDeleteHorny bastard!
ReplyDeleteLet bygone be bygone....everyone has past
ReplyDeleteGoing into the net with your relationship issue is like demeaning what you have. The world they say now, is a global village. Mind you; a village, not a town or city. Meaning everyone can have access to everyone information and anyone business can become everyone's business. In here, we all are the elders, even the priest of the village. Yes! Everyone is entitle to say and speak to whoever freely. What you should do should have being to talk to your husband after you've prayed about it. Just brace yourself for both the negative and positive response. Oh maybe sympathetic ones.
ReplyDeleteKindly click
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Niggas aint loyal.......
ReplyDeleteTeam snoop
ReplyDeleteAs u don know who ur "horse band" be now.... Better they use condom with am...before hr go carry disease come greet u for house
Sorry dear
These men aren't loyal
Ladies no go go marry...na person husband dem dey shook eye put
Men too...make una dey respect una wife now
@Galore
Nobody forced her to marry him.....,she should carry her cross alone and not come here to show us this. which sensible woman doesn't know all men are cheats..., if you can endure u stay and not complain...., if you cant,you leave. Everybody must not get married.
ReplyDeleteMy dear cheaters can't change cos a leopard can neva change its spot so pretend as if u don't knw wts going on until he will rope himsef in...!!!! Pele dear.
ReplyDeleteAnd since u wnted to be curious to see if ur husband cheats..you found out so wat next....u shud hv known dat majority of men cheat..if dey aint cheating with a woman..perhaps dey re cheating on u with a man..its no use trying to hurt urself..just talk over it like a family
ReplyDeleteSad. I think you should have a talk with him. Do no shout or cry. Be as calm as possible. Let him know that you know. Ask him why he did it? Discuss you sex life. Is there something he wants that you are not doing etc. Am not saying it's not going to hurt believe me it will. Pray about it. Tell God how you feel. Also examine urself. Mayb u r holding back too. You can be ur hubby's whore(Forgive my choice of words) am sure u know what I mean. Some women are too reserved or shy in d bedroom. Men love sex pls don't let them get it outside. Am not making excuses 4ur hubby. I will probably slap him if I see him, but ask urself what you want. Am sure u want to save ur marriage. Do not stay mute bc u will only suffer in silence and then resentment sets it and dear wife it's so dangerous believe me.
ReplyDeleteHehe.. Real Gobe!
ReplyDeleteHow To Attract Your Own Husband
Statistics say most pple (men and women) wud cheat if they knew they'll never get caught.
ReplyDeleteFidelty takes discipline and self control which many people don't hv... We catch our men cos they don't cover their tracks whc to me is annoying bcos I think its distasteful and disrespectful.
Sigh! I just tire
go and die!!
ReplyDeleteMy sister the Lord is your strength. Men can be so annoying but what can we do? Linda take note!
ReplyDeleteMy sister the Lord is your strength. Men can be so annoying but what can we do? Linda take note!
ReplyDeleteMy sister the Lord is your strength. Men can be so annoying but what can we do? Linda take note!
ReplyDeleteMy sister the Lord is your strength. Men can be so annoying but what can we do? Linda take note!
ReplyDeleteGuys= Pigs
ReplyDeletePlease who are these people that seek advice on this blog? For real do people really take advice from here?
ReplyDeleteOops.
ReplyDeleteSome Men ain't Loyal.
Bringing your family matter to lib, going to solve your problem?
ReplyDeleteWhat if he sees it and decides to chase you out of his house?
What will you do?
Being unfaithful is not a good thing but bringing your family out is worse.
I can comment on this because i think bringing his chat here is wrong.
Stop checking his facebook messages.
Useless men...and even more useless ladies always flinging themselves into married men's arms.... My dear wife!!! Dont ruin ur childrens happiness because of this man. God will still keep his punishment for him. Its sad but sometimes they say happiness comes from knowing less :(
ReplyDeleteLinda I'm a victim of this ooo if not for Facebook. the babe told me she is not legally married ooo only for me to find her on fb and from her picture comments see her guy, went to the guys page and saw their wedding photos. on her page no picture of the guy and her together. she was one of my ex that we did a lot of things together. the sex we had in this live both of us will never forget it. lol. each time I call or she calls me... the disscusion ends on dick and pussy and how wet she is for my big dick lol women.
ReplyDeleteAre you kidding me? What sort of question are you asking woman? He is your husband for crying out loud. You should talk to him about it. Let him know how much it hurts, if he repents forgive and move on. If he tries to defend his actions, still forgive and move on. The most important thing is talking to him about it. Best wishes dear!!
ReplyDeleteLol. my lips are sealed
ReplyDeleteConfront him first and hear his own side of the
ReplyDeletestory b4 u can take any action.
Hmmmm, i trust no man no even my father.#lindaobservekimberly
ReplyDeleteHmmmm, i trust no man no even my father.#lindaobservekimberly
ReplyDeleteOh my, it is well with you my sister. Just pray for the strength to overlook it and the mercy of God to change his mind to drop such habits. Because, nagging would not do any good.
ReplyDeleteMa gal dis will nt change any tin! D best tin dat u can do ur self is to pray to ur God, thank u
ReplyDeletechai dis man n woman tin na wa oooooo.
ReplyDeletethis is realy sad, for a married man to be indulging with other women carelessly on social media, my dear fellow wife, to live long and have peace, desist from reading your husband private msgs, its not right, u are invading his privacy, am sure u have seen some things or suspected him b4 going to his fone, am so hurting for u, so i can imagine how hurt u must have felt seeing such a cheap betrayal, if at all he wants anything from those women its cheap sex, thats all, most men are selfish and unfaithful, just be a good wife, love him and keep praying for him, ur children should be ur consolation, be there for them and forget whatever ur husband does with his fone. MEN WILL ALWAYS BE MEN AND CHEATING/UNFAITHFULNESS IS IN THERE GENES! QP.
ReplyDeletehmmmmmmmmmmmmm, its common dis days oo,
ReplyDeleteWomen create a fairy tale world in their heads where their husbands are faithful to them. I saw many messages like this, the messages lost their shock value over time. This I know, no matter how saintly or perfect a guy seems to be, he's cheating on his girlfriend/wife either with old flames or new flames, but there will always be flames in a man's life and it's hardly ever one or two other ladies, say maybe 5 at least. Women, wake up and be true to yourself. Being in a relationship or marriage means you have chosen to accept the man that way. Men take vows they have no intention of keeping. If you don't want to accept it, then don't be in a relationship, or you have an open relationship with no hard feelings.
ReplyDeleteThis cheating issue.... My dad cheated on my mum.. had another child sef and she stayed. My sisters husbands cheat on them (i don't think they know). My uncles cheat. So when my boyfriend cheated... I was mad and hurt(the feeliing is so painful esp when u r faithful) but I'm still with him after begging and drama.. (Still can't wrap my head arnd why he did it)
ReplyDeleteGuess what... I don't know any different.
I don't know it can be better.
Oh these are all Doting, Intelligent, Accomplished, Christian Men. Who take care of their immediate families very well
Any ideas?
Hmmm men, loose fellows, if ma husband wants me to stay faithful in our marriage then he should too, if cheating is d way, lets both cheat then. zzzzzzzzzzzzzz
ReplyDeleteLinda pls tell her to go and send you more oh... I have ordered for nkwobi and a bottle of #orijin
ReplyDeleteThis couple are living in calabar.....this man is a typical calabar man + Parliamentary is a place in calabar .
ReplyDeletemen are cheats and they want women to stay faithful, noway....
ReplyDeletegosh i hate men 4 dis, they will neva stay faithful to their spouse.
ReplyDeleteLADIES!!!! TRUST ME WHEN I SAY NO MAN IS 100% LOYAL... LOVLIEST HUSBANDS AT HOME ARE THE SMARTEST CHEATS... THEY DO EVERYTHING NORMAL & YOU CAN NEVER KNOW EXCEPT HIS GRACE HAS EXPIRED..LOL.. THEY DON'T HIDE THEIR PHONES OR STAY OUT LATE, BUT THEY HAVE THEIR MEETING WITH THE OUTSIDE CHICK.. THE CHIC WON'T EVEN TRY TO CHAT HIM UP WHEN HE'S AT HOME.. MOST OF THE CHICS UNDERSTAND AND DON'T TRY TO ACT BITCHY. HE DOES ALL THE CALLINGS AND ALL THE BOOKINGS, BUT HE STILL COMES HOME WHEN YOU NEED HIM..
ReplyDeleteEVEN MOST MEN WHO ARE KNOWN TO BE STRICT AND PRINCIPLED, HAVE TIME FOR THEIR PLAY TOOLS..DON'T BE DECEIVED..
LIKE RICHARD SAID IN HIS ARTICLE, TO SAVE YOURSELF OF HEARTACHES, BELIEVE HE HAS ALREADY CHEATED AND FORGIVE HIM EVEN BEFORE HE DOES IT... ***SHARON STONE***
Trust me when i say, don't say anything. Say nothing about it. Just keep watching. He will deny it and make you look like you have a bad mind and you shouldn't be suspecting him. He will deny it and you will not achieve anything but create bad blood between you guys. Let it go, I know it's hard, but pretend as much as you can that you didn't see anything. And try not to go through his messages, cos i assure you, there will always be something or the other that would upset you. It's not worth it, he's not worth it, those women are not worth it. Make yourself happy as best as you know how and ignore that part of your life.
ReplyDeletestay in there and fuck your husband well. If you don't she will continue helping you
ReplyDeleteStop digging and u ll enjoy ur marriage. Men do flirt once in a while, no man is 100% faithful so please save ur marriage n stop acting detective.
ReplyDeleteSo the best thing for u to do is bring ur relationship out to d public? Pls ensure u let us know when next u guys are having sex or when u guys have a quarrel as couple since we need to know everything in ur home.
ReplyDeleteMadam focus on Ur marriage and leave this rubbish....
ReplyDeleteHmmmmmm
ReplyDeleteDear Married Woman, it is very wrong of you to shame your husband like this. Communication is key in every marriage. its better to talk to ur husband rather than posting his private messages for the whole world to see.
ReplyDeleteThey are all the same my dear.
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ReplyDeleteCheating is wrong but snooping dose no one any good. I have been married for many years, i don't touch hubby's phone and he doesn't touch mine either, we have decided to stay married till death do us part and we trust each other. He has my pass word i have his. Stop snooping and have peace of mind. MO.
ReplyDeleteOshi.....some of dis beast(men) aint loyal....
ReplyDeleteCalabar Suntin! Ekaete Ghen ghen!
ReplyDeleteCalabar things...
ReplyDeleteThe mistake she made was checking his inbox. Anyway, just talk to him n iron things out. No more saint n spouses aren't loyal
ReplyDeletemen and lies,,,,, uhm
ReplyDeleteAll men are the same
ReplyDeleteToo bad. i can imagine how hurt she feels to read an erotic conversation btw her husband and a married woman.
ReplyDeleteMy opinion is to ignore this message, spice it up a little (e.g those things that you don't do or maid does wash, cook, sex,) and back it up with prayer. It may work wonders. If you lash out, it won't stop him from using another strategy.
why would you check his FB inbox?na u buy the phone give am. sometimes it is the ladies that cause wahala for themselves.......
ReplyDeleteidoma boi said so
I don't comment on LIB so please know it's important for me to help.
ReplyDeleteI am in a similar position however we are not officially married.
Don't even make the mistake of confronting him.
He will do it and be more careful meanwhile your relationship will suffer since its a shocker for you.
First know it's not about you. You didn't do anything wrong. Go meet someone he respects so much, forget that don't get a third party involved shit, you need to secure your relationship for yourself and your kids.
If possible meet your religious head but not someone related to his work. And hopefully not his family member. Someone he really respects, show the person and ask for advice. Don't suggest to the person, say you don't know what to do.
Beyond that pray and maybe fast that God changes him fast. Don't confront him ever.I can't ask you to pretend that all is well, just manage to be a good person and be calm, a lot of women go through shit like this and are cool with it. I can't be cool with it but I can be wise about it. That should be your story...peace
Oh you should congfront him! However, before you do, do this:
ReplyDeleteTell him that you have a friend who is cheating on her husband. That you are very upset that she's not faithful. Wait and see how he runs his mouth, which he most certainly will! After he finishes his lashing, show him the messages. Let him crawl into his chair.
He is a pig. He is not only seeing one woman, but multiple women. And from the message, it sounds like he had a threesome with his friend. Madam, you have your hands full with this one. How can you not say anything when your husband is seeing multiple women. And you know it is more than the ones you found on facebook. How about work? Church? Instagram/twitter? I'm sure he has many there as well.
Abeg, make we hear word jor... wetin d guy do nah????? He has not said or done anything out of the extraordinary. .... u beta shut up and continue to love ur husband... nothing wrong wit a niccur flirting once in a while
ReplyDeleteOh oh! Tough one. I always believe if u go searching for something, u will find something and you may not like wat u see. Unfortunately, you will have to talk to him about your findings. He was only flirting (which most of us are guilty of.) Pray to God for direction and if necessary, seek a professional counselor. Good luck!
ReplyDeleteWoman, deres nuttin u can do, u simply mid your business
ReplyDeleteThe husband is sure jobless
ReplyDeleteMoye says so via BB Passport...Courtesy LIB....
Calabar man!
ReplyDeleteUr. Husband is a cheat.....we ladies are trying sha
ReplyDeleteAkwuna nwoke. If his kids are grown,show them what their father is doing.
ReplyDeleteTHIS IS 75% REASON FOR MOST BROKEN HOME, ANY MAN THAT TRULY LOVES AND RESPECT HIS WIFE AND MARRIAGE WILL NOT LOOK OUT TALK MORE OF SLEEPING WITH ANOTHER WOMAN. MEN SHOULD LEARN TO BE FAITHFUL TO THEIR WIFES. IF I CAN STAY FAITHFUL IN THE MARRIAGE THEN MY HUSBAND SHOULD DO LIKEWISE, ESPECIALLY FOR THE 1 THAT HAS BORE U A CHILD/CHILDREN, LAYED DOWN HER LIFE AND GIVES HER ALL FOR A CHILD THAT WILL BEAR YOUR NAME. WOMEN DESERVES TO BE TREATED AS QUEEN,MEN PLEASE RESPECT AND APPRECIATE THEM. GIVE YOUR WIFE THE BEST TREATMENT, SHOW HER LOVE, TAKE HER OUT, BUY HER GIFTS, MAKE LOVE TO HER, PRAY TOGETHER, SHARE YOUR PROBLEMS WITH HER, TALK TO HER WHEN SHE'S MOODY, PLAY LIKE KIDS, GIST, GOSSIP, SCOLD EACH OTHER, QUAREL AND MAKEUP IMMEDIATELY, DONT GIVE ROOMS FOR SUSPICIOUS ACT, LET HER ACCESS TO YOUR FONES, SEND HER SMS,CALL HER OFTEN, CHOOSE CLOTHS TO WEAR FOR HER, CHOOSE HAIR STYLES FOR HER, MAKE HER FEEL YOUNG,COMMEND HER COOKING, ASSIST HER IN THE KITCHEN, TAKE HER ON DATES, MENTION IT WHEN SHE WRONGS YOU,TELL HER YOU LOVE HER EVERYDAY, TELL HER SHE'S THE ONLY ONE IN YOUR LIFE. BE A CARING FATHER AND HUSBAND. THEN YOU SURE WILL HAVE A HAPPY HOME.
ReplyDeleteNB: WHEN YOUR WIFE IS HAPPY WITH YOU, HER HEART PRAYS FOR YOU.
GOD BLESS EVERY GOOD MAN.
GODLOVER
As bad as it seems its not evn dat bad compared to so many dat I av come across... if u confront him... it means Uve bn snooping n if u dnt u jst going to run mad thinking abt it... jst weigh ur options dear.n wrk accordingly!!
ReplyDeleteHonestly my dear havent ur husband been treating u fine? From ur statement he has been a saint, why then dig for dirt, why look for unrest in ur marriage? Now ur mind is torn apart, u aint happy, well confronting him about it could save ur marriage or destroy it. Just pray and keep ur home happy so that he would always find joy and happiness in ur arms, keep making ur home the first place he thinks of when he closes from work, make ur home his safe haven.
ReplyDeleteNa wah o, dis marriage of a thing shouldn't be a do or die affair
ReplyDeleteWhy flirt n do shit wen u married?..u should b Don wiv all dis iranu n OJU kokoro rada dan hurt ur partner. Sit him down n tell him ur church mind or get a friend who'll act like a bf so he too stumbles on dem to get ur attention. Eissshhhhh
ReplyDeleteI think it's d bitter truth,I'm yet to find anyone that'll tell u a man can be completely faithful(except for the extremely lucky women)i pray in wrong Sha cos it hurts to think that,but when u brace urself for the worst, it reduces d hurt!
ReplyDeleteDis is sad but sharing it here isn't d solution.shes obviously hurt but she has to forgive him n move on. Snooping is just a bitch cos it leave u hurt each time
ReplyDelete*sighhh* it is well
ReplyDeleteCala bar?
ReplyDeletebabe forward it to him so that he knows u know, and do not say a word even if he harrasses you or try to talk to you. believe me, men know that SILENCE IS DANGEROUS. he would be scared and wonder all tru the week what you are capable of and in that way, he wil think twice before he messes up again.
ReplyDeleteNo need asking him,just take care of your lovely kids and allow God deal with him. No man is faithful. just think about things that makes you happy and do them.
ReplyDeleteAsking will not stop him. Trust me.
Where Are you? "Parliamentary". hmmmmmmmm!!!! This has to be people based in Calabar. Heheheheheheheheehehe. My pple no dey carry last for this kind thing. Very shameful.
ReplyDeleteHehehe!..gbegee!!!,ur hubby is a bad guy shaa
ReplyDeleteUseless men! My dear just overlook it. Ur hubby's own is even beta than mine. If u can cheat- carry go. If u can't retaliate (like a must-make-heaven lady like me) ignore and move on ohhh. Bottom line- remain steadfast. The fear of God is d beg of wisdom.
ReplyDeleteWow! Don't even know what to say about this.
ReplyDeleteShe saw exactly what she wanted to see! Hope u are satisfied now! My advice is leave ur husband and go meet ur sugarBoy! Instead of u to confront ur husband and sort things out with him, ur opening ur yansh in public! What other advice do want? God have mercy on u when ur husbands gets to see this rubbish u sent to LINDA! Fish brain!!!
ReplyDeleteDese guyz aint loyal at all. Lolz
ReplyDeletePamscrib.blogspot.com
My girl needs this kind of surprise to sit up. I'm on it. No time again.
ReplyDeleteOh no!.....I think you should have talked it out with him before going public...I know you're hurting but communication is everything in a relationship/marriage...I pray you both settle this with maturity, best wishes..
ReplyDeleteAnd what does this change in her life? I dont know why this should be put up on social media
ReplyDeleteEl oh el. This actually sounds like MR O. Famously known as oko dayo.#oludee
ReplyDeleteAhhhh!!! This man, there is God ooo
ReplyDeleteI can't proffer any substancial suggestion because in my considered opinion, you are bn frugal with this story and your claim to crying wolf ain't "entirely" valid to me.
ReplyDeleteThat said, try not to have a coronary cos of your husband and what ever action you decide to take, thread with caution.
when you look for wetin no concern you , then you come dey ask for advice. abeg live with it and stop snooping around your husband text messages. i can assure you that 90% of us married men have such conversations ones in a while but never leads anywhere. Men will always be men. this extra marital relationship thing to me is just over-rated. let these women chill jare. after all said and done it is only two generations old
ReplyDeleteAwwwwww. busted! he cant deny dis. he can only say he was just joking and dint mean any of what he wrote.lol
ReplyDeleteLet him know how you feel....They derive pleasure in talking shit and being raw with other women if though they ain't having anything to do with them at that moment( will still have sex with them if given the chance though)... if he knows how sad u feel and how badly ure hurting, they will gradually desist from it...But u still need to check up on his personal stuffs once in a while...
ReplyDeleteNa wa o! FBI wives on rampage! Thinking ur man is faithful...hmmm. Now that u Snooped and found,what will u do?
ReplyDeleteAM SO SORRY DEAR THESE HURTS A LOT.HMMM MEN
ReplyDeleteHahaha! D man cant forget his ex in a hurry
ReplyDeleteJUST KIP SILENCE,AFTER ALL ITS WAS A PAST ISSUES!
ReplyDeleteLol! Hope say no be the paliiamentary wey I know.
ReplyDeleteLol. Dis is serious but hw did u get into ur hubby's facebook inbox hmm u r tough checker
ReplyDeleteLinda this marriage this now no get meaning again ohhhh. I am married but see how women dey try me from all corner married and single so many couple does have respect to those stuff any more. from office romance to old friends hook up. i ran social media cos i needed to protect my marriage its that bad.
ReplyDeleteI AM ANGRY WITH THE WAY THIS MAN IS CHEATING ON HIS WIFE.
ReplyDeleteI WOULD SUGGEST THE LADY SHOULD REVENGE BY CHEATING TOO. AFTERALL HER ORISA IS STILL INTACT.
WOMEN SHOULD NOT CONTINUE TO STAND AND COMPLAIN, I ADVICE HIS WIFE TO OPEN HER LEGS FOR THE GATEMAN.
A WAY TO TEACH HIM A LESSON. YAH!
IN FACT LET HER COME AND DO IT WITH ME SO THAT NEXT TIME THE MAN WILL NT CHEAT HER AGAIN. MY NEPA POLE IS EVEN BIGGER THAN HIS OWN
- mabiola41@yahoo.com
na true
ReplyDeleteno man is faithful
some even have multiple accounts to cover up their acts. stop bothering yourself woman.
take good care of your kids cos no man is worth the headache.
Linda one day u go post as person take shit.... u dont need to give us all this trash
ReplyDeleteDo your bit and speak to him about it.
ReplyDeleteSpeaking to him wouldnt change much but will help ease ur worry.
For me, i don't even go to my husbands fone, i dont touch his bbm, whatsapp, fb.......... I feel it is none of my business sneaking and sniffing around his social media platform looking for what will make me worried or cry.
Abeg my work takes my time All day from Monday to Friday. Lmao.
Please be more of a praying wife....
Sometimes men just want to be naughty and get a different feel...Do talk to him about it though, it helps sometimes.
ReplyDeleteDo your bit and speak to him about it.
ReplyDeleteSpeaking to him wouldnt change much but will help ease ur worry.
For me, i don't even go to my husbands fone, i dont touch his bbm, whatsapp, fb.......... I feel it is none of my business sneaking and sniffing around his social media platform looking for what will make me worried or cry.
Abeg my work takes my time All day from Monday to Friday. Lmao.
Please be more of a praying wife....
na wa oh.. what is this mess bikonu...
ReplyDeleteToo bad
ReplyDeleteOKORO UPGRADED**
Madam he simply had a memorable past that you cannot erase. The truth is that 80% of married experience this kind of situation I have seen up to 17 cases similar to this one and goes to show that all the indiscriminate sexual intercourse people engage in at campuses and on the street reflects on some folks matrimonial home. Madam just bear it.
ReplyDeleteCheats
ReplyDeleteMen re disgrace
ReplyDeleteO ga o, I think she shd show r hubby n talk tins out wt him.
ReplyDeleteO ga o, I think she shd show r hubby n talk tins out wt him.
ReplyDeleteBoys would be boys - always naughty. Women would not understand. Same way we don't get to understand them
ReplyDeleteThis is so immature.I can't believe this. Why would anybody post this on social media? For a bunch of strangers to decide for her what to do? smh!
ReplyDeleteWoman think! Stop drying your dirty laundry in public. Address the issue with your husband or leave it be. There 3 people in a marriage you,your husband and God. Talk to God if you can't talk to your man. Next time when you are angry,take time out and think things through before you act.
He's loyal, some guys just like to flirt via fb and bb, but would not dare act it out in real life, she should not worry. Just make home more exciting
ReplyDeleteCopied to clipboard, men this is just cock and bull story! NB : all stories said here are just imaginary! #in olu jacob's voice
ReplyDeleteNa today! No man is Innocent just take if your kids n let him live his frivolous life he will get tired soon or they teach him a great lesson, no man is worth the stress or you end up with short life span, stay happy, play alot av fun with your kids live life like it's ending tomorrow without doing anything outside the word of God, just be av peace within.
ReplyDeleteHmmm! dis one na moi moi compare to my own case.
ReplyDeleteNne..dis niggas ain't loyal..me av learnt to stay off my guy's fone..for my sake. I cant be getting upset everytime cos surely, i know i will see something smoothing that will make me bitter. Talk to him, tell him how this conversation makes you feel and also how disappointed you are. But dont raise your voice at him cause it will complicate matters. Just be as calm as possible, he will sober up and regret his actions.
ReplyDeleteSo wats new here??? Dez people re old frnds biko no find trouble where trouble no de abeg!!
ReplyDeleteEya madam I wish u didn't have to open his messages. And d most annoying part is dat it's your husband dats pushing for d naughty chat..... *crying*
ReplyDeleteBest Bet, Don't talk to him about it because he would then understand you went through his messages.
ReplyDeleteWhich you were not supposed to go through in the first place if you trusted him.
But of cos, curiosity kills the cat.
Act maturely, he would turn around. there's no place like home trust me.
Make the memories he have of you pleasant and don't nag.
He would definitely turn around...
I wish you all the best.
The man is not serious. He's just a player. If u talk to him he will be angry u went through his phone. If u don't u will keep hurting yourself. Infact talk to him. I can imagine how you are feeling. Please don't fight him. Pray for him too. All the best.
ReplyDeleteThey all deny and say they are faithful. Mine even tells me if I don't trust him he can't trust me (reverse psychology) to keep you imprisoned in thinking that you are wrong. If your guts tells you strongly that your hubby is cheating, most likely he is. How do you explain when your hubby doesn't sleep with you for 4 to 5 months and you sleep on thesame bed. When you ask him, he gets into angry fits and says you're accusing him. Just pray sis and handover to God.I think some of the men think that if its only a fling , then they are not cheating. After all it's nothing serious at the other end
ReplyDeleteChaii....Your hubby know try ooo,u should report him to his parents with enough proof den make ur final decision.
ReplyDeleteHmmm na wa o! May God deliver us from all these type of men. Haba! Some married men eh!
ReplyDeleteParliamentary Village in Calabar?
ReplyDeleteNo one seems to be loyal these days....
Calabar
I can imagine how she feels... but its better she confronts him cause she won't have peace of mind if she doesn't + it wud make her bitter sealing it up
ReplyDeleteHe deserves a slap
ReplyDeleteThere's noting serious in this chats abeg. My boyfriend gave me his iPhone and didn't log out from all his social media accounts, I almost fainted with the diff sizes of breast and pussies I saw there and romantic messages of how they fuck themselves over phone. This chats is just a mere flirt pls ignore it and don't let anything scatter your home abeg you.
ReplyDeleteIf you dey find waiting your husband do especially when you go to his FB Phone and other social media he uses then you go see plenty tire!!#team@seybyth IN D CLUB DROPING SOON DOP SHIT
ReplyDeleteNo man is a saint. She should learn how not to washer dirty linen in public. My advice he is cheating then leave him if u can't. So y bring ur marital problems here. Go and marry ur father.
ReplyDeleteHahahahahha.Linda watch
ReplyDeleteshameless dogs
ReplyDeleteUmu.nwoke na akwuna akwuna. Nne move on jare. Useless beings.
ReplyDeleteMy husband also flirt with women.... Both married and single. I don tire. Don't know what to do to him.
ReplyDeleteFoolish and jobless woman.
ReplyDeleteSo the next thing to do is publish their chat online.
What were you looking for in your hubby's FB? If you want to be heartbroken, then keep reading and you'll get yourself a very serious HP cos some women would send msg to your partner even when he is not interested in them. For example, looking deep into this conversation you shared shows that your hubby is not in any relationship with the lady currently . What I advice you do is pray for your man not to stray.
ReplyDeleteHmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm
ReplyDeleteThis is flirting and not cheating.
ReplyDeleteSo not cool
ReplyDeleteMy own opinion sha, stop going through your hubby inbox, sms and etc so that you wont see anything that will kill you quick
ReplyDeleteThe first chat is clear enough.... might be his ex before u two get married but on a second tot why going thru his phone? U will definitely see something that will hurt u just like if ur husband try doing so to u he will see the same thing .. Am a lady and I wonder why we don't like minding our business i.e taking care of our home. Ur husband attitude still remain d same, he respect u and has never giving u any reason to doubt him and u choose to find one urself. Let me ask u.... are u a saint?
ReplyDeleteJust like mine pretends and swears all d time he doesn't cheat but yet shows all d signs of a cheating man.. And a very smart one, u cnt catch or see anytin in his phone yet he always clings to it... Deletes his msgs after reading. One day God wil do it His way n he sure knows i cant live an extra day wit him aftr d revelation.
ReplyDeleteAHH!!!! OKUNRIN......
ReplyDeleteabsolutely atrocious! you have to call him out! the girl can't even speak well and sounds like an illiterate. this is highly disrespectful and you need to call your husband out. he is your husband not your boss so you should be able to confront him but without yelling, just speak maturely and make him look like the fool. so dad. I'm so so sorry.
ReplyDeleteHmmm this is heart breaking, talk to him abt it nd share it with God.
ReplyDeleteWhy coming here to disrespect your husband?
ReplyDeleteIf there's peace in d house better stay mute let d peace continue or talk and see bitter days...buh illegally obtained evidence ain't legally admissible
ReplyDeleteThis is not a man!! disgusting!.... I'm married and I can't imagine doing this ever. Not all men are like this. I am not!
ReplyDeleteHmm..sad,d rate @ which married ppl cheat dz days is so alarming. Confront him with it,hear wat he has 2 say abt it. Mind u,u dint do well 2 bring it here on LIB,its husband n wife matter,so settle ur differences,n keep it off social media.
ReplyDeleteThis is serious...
ReplyDeleteA man will always be a man... They were just reminiscing about their past... Its nothing.. She should get on with her life
ReplyDeleteEeyah.. Sorry lady. No calabar man is faithful..
ReplyDeleteP.S parliamentary is a popular place in calabar so this happened der
Those niggas ain't loyal! SADDDDDD.
ReplyDeleteGood trash talk!
ReplyDeleteThat's a calabar man ...Lol parliamentary
ReplyDeleteAnd dey say dese hoes ain't loyal
ReplyDeleteMy dear..its everywhere ooo...my hubby of 6yrs disappointed 2wks ago...i trust him so much n was reali down,even til NW wen I found out he's BN cheat on me al dis while.d main person on board is even a married woman without hubby,wch is among d numerous young girls..d worst I learnt again was DAT he smokes secretly,wch has BN lik DAT b4 I married him..he was shocked wen I confronted him in d middle of d night but trust he denied everytn...we av nt BN on speakin n gist term since den..am stil in shock...he is a man u wil c n say "dis is a perfect husband"pple envy n tell me dey wish 4 my type of hubby..he gives me everytn n we even run a joint acct buh av Neva questioned his spendin..my family n his believe am d luckiest woman alive...am current pregnant n av change frm my usual beauty queen look...dont knw HW 2 get @ him n seriously make him think otherwise...
ReplyDeleteTrust no man.#Don't be a fool#
ReplyDeleteHAHAHAHA...COPIED TO CLIPBOARD
ReplyDeleteEND OF STORY MAKE E NO LOSS,
BAD GUY
Hahahahaaa. Madam u are lucky u saw it. My own chats with anything that look like a woman irrespective of ssize age or color. A chronic cheat that pretends to be a saint at home. A man that can cheat with babes from PH to lagos,buka babes,call center babes,supermarket,petrol station,work,market,fast food,name it, my happiness is,im not at risk of stds n Aids cos we don't sex anymore, we r just doing see finish.
ReplyDeleteMy dear sister,please dont get yourself worked up,just let it go because he will deny it try not to be sad,my hubby lied to both married & single women that he married his wife because his F-I-L begged him to & that his divorce is in a few weeks,hmmm what men do because of expired p****
ReplyDeleteDis is too much y go dis extra to publish. If every woman shud come out and say her own she wud marvel bt it has nt come to u publishing ur husband conversation. He is still ur hubby u nd to respect that and also the sanctity of marriage
ReplyDeleteListen,
ReplyDeleteThere is hardly anything here to destroy your marriage over. Two things, he is only playing with the idea, and he is got the potential to cheat if and whenever the opportunity arises.
Now, on your part, you definitely can't stay mute about it. But, you must approach with caution. Don't make it Contentious, but stay firm. Hey honey, are u chatting with strange women and talking about s e X? You may say this even as you walk by him...don't wait for an answer or lies, irrelevant.
Move on, be happy and enjoy your life.
First of all...do you NOT know that evidence illegal acquired IS NOT ADMISSIBLE in court? If you had feelings your man was stepping out, you should have asked and NOT SNOOP! Now you've found what you were looking for (hopefully) would you abandon your marriage and 2 kids for another woman to reap where you sowed? How do you heal from the wounds and lack of trust you've created between you and your hubby. You'll remain paranoid coz you think he's cheating, he'll stay guarding his social media accounts and media items with his life. I tell you...snooping has never helped and NEVER WILL! Carry your cross
ReplyDeleteI can relate with this woman, my husband does same and does not see anything wrong with it, i think he does it just to boost his ego and also to know if hes still desired, its pathetic i know but what can i do,my advice to you is to pray and hand over everything to God, let me know that you know and you're not happy about it.
ReplyDeleteHmmmnm....too difficult to delve into. Issues with couples can best be resolved by both parties. Btw, there are still faithful men out there. Joshe
ReplyDeleteMy dear, i symphatize with you. I too was a victim of this a few months back. My husband used to act like he was holier than the Pope!
ReplyDeleteI have been married for less than 3 years and blessed with a wonderful son. I accidentally stumbled on messages between him and a whore on facebook and bbm to which i confronted him and all he could come up with was "the messages were not meant for him"....long story short, now i know he is just as useless as the other men out there and i can assure you your hubby would deny those messages even if Jesus Christ asked him for explanation.
My advise is you move on, focus on your children and leave him for God to judge or walk out of the marriage if you feel you can handle that.
its unfortunate but i now know that the man i married is not the man i thought i married....in summary, men are lying, cheating bastards and i wont be surprised to see more women in heaven than men!!
I dont know if your husband is cheating on you via those text messages; however, since you didnt meet him a virgin, you are fully aware that he had girlfriends before you...because he married you does he prevent him from talking about the past with his exes? thats the question. In your shoes, I wouldnt say anything bad to him.
ReplyDeleteNawa ooooo!! All dese men dat play saint, yet na dem do pass.
ReplyDeleteTake heart my sister!!!
Hmmmmm men are wicked. I will poison him .if its happnd to b my husbad.. not been faithful. Cheats
ReplyDeleteEwo!!!
ReplyDeleteA married man huh??..lord help us,where d heck has "being faithful nd dedicated to one partner gone to?""#bbm confused face smiley.
She needs a job.
ReplyDeleteIt is better if she doesn't jump to conclusions, for the sake of her peace of mind, the happiness of her children and the stability of her home. She should just go down on her knees and pray to God to protect her husband from unnecessary distractions, while continuing to show him all the love, respect, support and encouragement expected of a wife.
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