Dear LIB readers: Did my ex-GF marry another man while pregnant for me?
From a male LIB reader
My girlfriend and I broke up just four months ago in April and I found out she got married this past weekend.
At the time we were dating, she kept asking me to marry her. In fact that was the reason she broke up with me when I told her I wasn't ready to settle down. We are both 28.
I was surprised at how fast she had found someone else when I heard she was getting married in Asaba on Saturday only for me to see the wedding photos and see she's heavily pregnant. She's at least seven months pregnant. This lady and I were lovers up until she ended our relationship in April. And I remember she was very anxious to tie the knot back then but she never mentioned she was pregnant. Could the child she's carrying be mine? I don't know why I have this feeling it could be. Should I ask her? And if the child is not mine, it means she was pregnant for this man back in April when she was begging me to marry her? But I believe more that she's about to give my baby to another man. What should I do?
Great SEX is always great but does SEX guarantee you a great life?
As a LADY don't you think you should value the triangular"sanctum" between your thighs more?
As a MAN is lasting for several minutes in bed your only manly prowess and attribute ?
Is having a python between your legs as a MAN your only source of pride?
Forget STD's....we have condoms! Forget unwanted pregnancy! We have pills and hungry doctors!....there's always a way out !...
BUT
Why let your DIGNITY and VALUE wither my ladies! How many relationships have you been in my sisters? A dozen or more? Wasn't sex a constant in most of them if not all of them? Did SEX ever help your love affair work? Instead most of them boys ran to the exit window once they got their fill...close your legs my sisters and think with your heads....Find love in the confines of your heart ! Love is real
And to my BROTHERS,
In your quest for sex..what have you killed? Your integrity? Your goals?your aspirations? You live the FAKE life till the FAKE life is not possible to LIVE and LEAVE! You've got talent beyond the four corners of that bed
Redirect your steps! Find your essence and try your best to find love..I pray its not too late for you.
Those who live in glass houses don't throw stones! I'm a sinner like you and I'm throwing a stone at my piece of glass too....
Dnt i jst heart u @ceeflo,i wish ladies out there will listen to this,love is nt sex,always keep ur legs closed and uphold ur dignity,a guy who truly loves u will wait around even wen u tell him no until after marriage,ladies gotta wise up and start respecting theirselves @poster,seriously?anoda r/ship drama okwia?#yawns#u're 28 start thinking of settling down instead of sleeping wif ur gf lmao i guess i wasn't really helpful#runs outta thread#
I waited no sex , still a virgin till I got married ... Guess who I got married to ? A homosexual !!! Homosexuals and men on down low and a truly God fearing man are the only men who will wait.
You used the word "girlfriend"..how serious were you with her? How old are you? Are you ready to settle down? If she was still with you would you have kept the child or asked her to get an abortion? If you really want the child then you can contest! You can demand answers...if not! Then its better the way it is
CeeFlo God bless you Amen. Mr asker Why are you bothered about a girl you didn't want 2marry.? I'll tell you something man. Live your life and stop wondering, don't even ask, don't even look at her wedding photos cos she asked u 2 marry her, maybe loved u and u didn't not that I blame u cos it's not by force. Ill tell you what.. if I'm pregnant Ill ask the guy if he'd ever want 2 marry me. If he says no. I aint even telling him I'm pregnant because then he'll marry the baby and not me plus I don't need no dude crying she tied me down with pregnancy like I was the 1 scrwing myself. Long story sha but how about this 1. She never loved you and was pregnant 4 another man while with you cos you never loved her either or maybe she loved you but still got preggy 4 sm1 else cos you wouldn't marry her. Now walk away very quietly ----C21
So after doing DNA test, what then? If he wasn't ready to be a husband, will he suddenly be ready to be a father? Some people just don't think and reason, all they do is cause trouble and problems for others. Ok, let's say he waits till the child is born and does a DNA test. By then, let's assume he's also finally ready to settle down and now has a fiancé or wife. You think she too will be happy that her new husband or husband-to-be already has a baby-mama? So he'll be causing problems in his ex's marriage and also in his own marriage/relationship before it even starts. Some people just go out there and find problems for themselves just because of stupid ego. She moved on to a more responsible man and wasn't hung up on you. GET OVER IT AND GET OVER YOURSELF!! ....... Just Me
This your question na only google fit answer am o. Why don't u confront her and hear what she has to say. it is even possible she is not that far gone in terms of the pregnancy. Some women at four months their stomach Is as big as if they are already seven months gone. So confront her nicely. Sikena.
if she never mentioned she was pregnant all those while. She may never tell you the truth about the child's paternity. She is married! You can find out from her family or close friend,how...i dont know.
Mr man act fast...in this situation i will advice you to go for 50-50...the pregnancy might be yours or the new man she married...you need to confront her asap or else another man will be taking care of your child which am very sure you don't want that to happen.
guy you should be thanking God for saving you cos ur ex babe was about giving you someone else's child cos its u she loves and when she realized u were not ready for marriage she decided to take it back to the owner. the man she got married to is not daft to accept a pregnancy that is that grown if they have not been having sex before u guys broke up.
my dear the baby is either yours or his or even for another man entirely.... If i were you i will contact the man and tell him this story, there is nothing wrong with it. She doesnt even deserve to be a wife... Or else it will hunt you for the rest of your life. So contact the man and clear your mind
Some of these comments are just daft! First of all, didn't she give him a chance to marry her? But he said he wasn't ready and she moved on. Secondly, do you guys think the husband would be daft enough to accept a 7month pregnancy if they've only been dating for less number of months? Either the guy has also been sleeping with her for that long or she's told him everything and he still loves her and accepted her with the pregnancy. I don't understand how somebody who wasn't ready for marriage is suddenly jumping around, thinking of how to go and claim a baby and potentially breaking a new home. Some people are just so destructive. #smh
You re a useless nd good for nothing person for this stupid comment of urs, u wanna break some1's home. I jst knw ur type losers dt keep making trouble. Contact the man..Hisssssss
Most women are evil , they don't have conscience . In the end when nemesis hits them , they turn to prayer warriors forgetting the person they hurt in the past . Fear women ooo.... They can lie for the world but end up calling it being smart
You're an idiot! Talking out of your ass. How did she hurt this guy? Wasn't he the one who wasted her time then told her he wasn't ready to get married? What should she have done? Wait for him forever? Men commit different levels of atrocities in their domestic and social lives on a daily basis and women still bear it and try to remain strong whereas men hear speculations about women and they'll start belly-aching and lamenting about how women are so evil, can't be trusted etc. so it is men that can be trusted, right? They are the ones who have a conscience? Just do us all a favour and STFU!!!! ........Just Me
Firstly try to seek audience with her for the truth, of course she will deny anyway. Wait for the baby to grow till 5 year-old and look for any resemblance. If you are so convinced you can request for a DNA test through the court. But mind you, whether the baby is yours or not after the DNA you may have broken a home
Bros,I dey com,make I go baff,I get feeling say as I graduate frm English dept dix year,I go focus squarely on dix blog cos I get many fictional stories to write frm dix blog (short story or novel)make I baff 1st. Sweetest
She was eida cheating on U̶̲̥̅̊ or d bayb i̶̲̥̅̊s̶̲̥̅̊ truly urs. N b4 asking or doing anyfin stupid U̶̲̥̅̊ need to b sure n ready cos U̶̲̥̅̊ myt b breaking ha new home n rem U̶̲̥̅̊ r d1 who i̶̲̥̅̊s̶̲̥̅̊ not ready to settle down .
Try and contact her and hear what she has to say! Buh why were you fornicating when you knew you weren't ready for marriage..it isn't right to have sex before marriage! Contact her and you guys should dialogue! Col 3:5. BishopDammy#
I just hate the word begging you've used up to hw many times, which one is ur own nau guy,According to u,she begged u to marry her nd u refused dat u re nt ready, why been surprised dat she is pregnant for another man nd getting married, Use your number (6), she followed the method of NEVER LAY UR EGGS ON ONE BASKET
U need a DNA test to knw if the baby is truly yours but in terms of tradition its not urs,he married her with the pregnancy,the babies is his. Face of lib
You know what linda,over a long period i used to think this your dear LIB were stories you made up until you brought up two stories that i know personally those that such happened to...and now this is just like my own story too...dated a lady for two years,had slight misunderstanding and she left me to marry another man in less than 3 months..+ the pregnancy drama..I knew she was up to some mischief when she "locked up" like 4 months earlier...i knew she was planning something..painful i never double dated when i was with her i could have switched as she did but i have moved on.Guys shine your eyes...have a contingency plan..they call it PLAN B...
ANGELRAY SAYS Abeg go and sleep joor, why did u not marry her when she was begging u, u said u are not ready but now u are eying her pregnancy, what u should do is to stay away from another man's wife. chikena.
Very funny,she cnt b giving ur child to him,she left u cos she was pregnant.she had always known u were nt ready.she needed a good reason to leave u n still look like a vitim.Dude u ve been used!
ANGELRAY SAYS Abeg go and sleep joor, why did u not marry her when she was begging u, u said u are not ready but now u are eying her pregnancy, what u should do is to stay away from another man's wife. chikena.
ANGELRAY SAYS Abeg go and sleep joor, why did u not marry her when she was begging u, u said u are not ready but now u are eying her pregnancy, what u should do is to stay away from another man's wife. chikena.
Mahn..u wernt intrested in marrying d bea ryt?y u be intrested in if d baby be urz or not....you'v lost both d baby nd marma...move on wiv ur life...ur loz. ..hehe
ANGELRAY SAYS Abeg go and sleep joor, why did u not marry her when she was begging u, u said u are not ready but now u are eying her pregnancy, what u should do is to stay away from another man's wife. chikena.
ANGELRAY SAYS Abeg go and sleep joor, why did u not marry her when she was begging u, u said u are not ready but now u are eying her pregnancy, what u should do is to stay away from another man's wife. chikena.
I know the guys prob, one thing wit most guys wen they break up wit a lady, they wanna see that lady been single witout a man for so long, den they will start feeling too much, u see as I leave no man gree date her. Since she found herself some1 so fast, dat is ur headache, sorry to disappoint you man, the baby isn't urs, chill
Hmm. If I were you, I'll ask her; if you are sure she's 7 months far. It's either she cheated on you with the now husband when you were both dating or she lied to the husband about whose baby she's carrying and how far her pregnancy is.. Smh.
YOU ARE A VERY BIG FOOL. YOU DON'T WANT TO MARRY HER BUT YOU WANT TO DRAG HER BABY WITH HER. MAY GOD PUNISH YOU TIME WASTER. YOU STILL WANT TO GO BREAK HER NEW HOME YET YOU DON'T WANT HER IN YOUR LIFE. THAT IS WHAT FITS YOU ALL LADIES OUT THERE FUCKING LOW LIFES.
Dude, that baby is not yours, don't disturb yourself. The truth is, most guys feel like they are players, but females are the ultimate players. We guys think like 'checkers' players, girls think like 'chess' players when it comes to matters of relationship and dating.
Most girls have a regular boyfriend they love, a maga boyfriend,and another man on the side that they can take off with if and when you fuck up.
And the interesting part is that they sleep with the three. Your girl probably loves you and wanted you to marry her before you found out she was pregnant. But when you didn't marry her, she had to make the run for it and marry the other guy while she still had the chance.
Do a little investigation and you would find out the other guy is probably wayyy older...maybe like in his late thirties.
May be she was already preggy for d guy she married and wanted to hang it on your neck by persuading you to marry her because she loves or loved u more.if dat baby is yours she would have used it to get u to marry her.
What are u still waiting for? Confront her to know the truth. if you not well convince, DNA will be the best for both of you after delivery. ⌣̊┈̥-̶̯͡»̶̥♡thanks ⌣̊┈̥-̶̯͡»̶̥
You should consider the following seriously: if you asked and she says NO, would you require DNA test to be certain? And if the DNA is negative, you would look stupid and petty! If she said YES, what will you do? Claim the baby and her? Or claim the baby only? You will still end up looking PETTY. The thing is, the truth will be revealed in due time. Besides for the guy to marry with big belle means he was sleeping with her when you were active with her too. So maybe it's your manly ego that's hurt!
You be mumu.. when you were busy filling her pussy with your fucking sperm did you call me? Please let us be.. olodo guys most ladies are coming to you because they need husband. They don't love... don't do without condom . Call me LIB 1
The world is better now. Wait for her to deliver d baby and den u'd bring up d mata, if she wants to take it d worst, den proceed for a DNA test. If its urs afterall, fine. And if it isnt urs, u av notin to lose
Funny before you broke up were you guys not seeing each other? Touching making love and doing every other things couple dose? How can you not notice any changes in her body?. If honestly you did not notice any then please you are not worth to be called a dad relax and let the father be the father. Donating sperm dose not make anybody a father
I don't know how credible this story is, but if in fact it is true, I've got choice words for you. First off, you were not ready to tie the knot so why do you bother whether the unborn child is yours or not? You claim you are 28 n I opine that your reasoning is nothing short of a child. Listen up slim, real men raise children and just don't make em. Now in my view, there culd be 3 possible scenarios, #1 is brace yourself up to see ur so called child call another man daddy.#2 it might be the dude's child n your sorry ass is here all delusional n finally, the baby probably belongs to neither of you fellas. So what do you do? Suck on that and MOVE the f@#k on. Don't come up here telling this lame ass story a.. hole.
You are asking what you should do? Go and hang period! Let the lady be,she deserves to be happy. You were not ready to settle down with her. This should keep happening to idiots like you wasting a girl's time then moving to another one tomorrow. Sultana
Lay claim to the baby when delivered, go to court and ask for a DNA test on d baby and cost to borne by u. Even the husband will b glad to know the real father of the baby she is giving him.
U sound like u r nt African...in most cultures, u r not d daddy unless u r married to d girl.....any child birthed by a girl before marriage belongs to her family.....court my pretty little ass.....mttchew
Geeerout!since you aint ready for Marriage,will u now be ready for fatherhood!better leave her alone,its her decision to let u know or have ascess to the paternity of that baby when born!u gave up that responsibility when u refusé to tie the knot!i wonder what alwYs makes the mâle homosapiens think that they can eat their cake n have it!
Abeg go rest! You be fool.u think say na only guys dey smart? Ladies are not smiling,she knew she couldn't depend on u so she kept u on reserve from day one.go n rest, no be ur pickin.
It appears you still like her but I will say you should move on. You even said there's a possibility that she was pregnant with the man's child while you were dating. If you are in doubt then leave it. At the appropriate time God will do yours.
Sorry bro the baby is not urs..it is obvious she was cheating on you and wanted to tie d knot wen she got d pregnancy from another man... Forget her and move on
Oboy she dey f**k dat other guy for your back,,but she love u pass so dats y she wanted to marry you,but sorry man dat child is nt your's,,,dats y I say never fall in love,,only have fun..irebisibrown@yahoo.com.sg
Hmmm jamb question, any ways for me oo I tink u shuld just call her and question her abt d pregnancy and pls b matured abt it, and if she insist dat d pregnancy is not 4 den let her b
wait till she put to bed,thereafter you confront her and ask fo a dna test of the child then if the result turn positive you can ask for your child.thats if she will comply.bcus if na me make i no lie o,i cant give away my child to a man who wont marry me,so that my child wont suffer in the hands of another bitch!.
There is nothing wrong in asking, Find out now so that you can be @ peace with yourself. Sorry but I don't like that your gf , she might not tell you the truth
Dude u must be so dumb to think the baby is urs, so it didn't occur to u dat she was seeing that man behind ur back and found out she was pregnant but didn't know who the father of the baby is? Damn! U some dumb ass, u refused to marry her and the 2nd second agreed to marry her and take responsibility of the baby, so sit ur dumb ass down and let her enjoy her marriage.
If you weren't interested in marrying her then when she was begging you to,why are you now so bothered about whether the pregnancy is yours or her husband's own ??? Move on and allow her enjoy her husband.
You were busy polashing and not ready to settle down. By the way, why are you sharing the story? We should help you and beg or ask her if the pregnancy is yours? Guy, carry your cross.
Is only a mother dat knows the father of her child...plz mr just let her be..in peace ,plz don't break her home...if d child she is carryin is really urs..God will prevail..plz leave her n her conscience to God plz..
If u ask me, na who I go askkkkk, well d truth is , u have to approach her, there is every tendency dat she was double dating, and d child might be urs or d man's own, and she was actually looking for someone to hook..
Laffing matter, u no wan mother na pikin u fit keep. Na ur bizness sha. Wait if she had told u. What will u have done. Am so sure u will hav rejected it. Shame yimiyohanna@gmail.com
I wonder how ppl say dey dnt want marriage and be looking for responsibility to take care of u no marry d girl leave her na dis is how ppl bring problem to odas and demselves
If I curse ds stupid nd hopelx boi now Linda go vex.....if am 2 b d gal nd d bby is urz I wil nva gv u....she wasn't gud enuf fr u 2 marry bt u want 2 tak her bby abi? Y r u sooo paind she moved on so fast 2 marry afta she dumpd ur sowi ass eh? Move on wif ur pity of a life nd leav da gal alone. Dnt use ur depress self nd infect her marriage plz....... Sum boiz cn b stupid I swear,u cnt marry her nd she moved on bfr u nd ur pissd.naija galz eyes don open wela ooooo,if u dnt put da ring sum sharp guy wil.she is inluv wif u doesnt mean anoda guy is nt @ d corner lovin nd wishin 2 b wif her 4eva. #lessontoguys# Value wat u ve cos she wil move on anytym. Rubbish boiz evrywea
What she did is wrong, but y didn't Ʊ ask her y she wanted marriage badly, dis is 1 of d reasons hate pple dat re age mates dating, d fact is d ladies always get ready b4 d guys nd wen she starts talking abt it he says she is desperate but if its ur sis, Ʊ want her married in time, dis is Africa, were ladies re supposed to settle dwn after scul, anyway, feel Ʊ shud call her nd ask her, if its ur child get ur baby, even if Ʊ av 2 go 4 a DNA test,babies re priceless..though if d baby is urs,it will cause her lots of headache in her home but she asked 4 it..#Nifemi#
Your level of reasoning is questionable. The lady got the pregnancy from the other man or another guy outside the two of you and had wanted you to marry her as soon as possible that you or her family may not find out her condition, because you are intimate. Yet you are asking foolish question. Go and date/befriend a little more of women so as to learn more of their ways, it will help you in many things you do as a man; you are a small boy.
My man please dont be deceived. my guess is that she had a one time off and wen she noticed she was pregnant she wanted to push it to you but as u no gree she had to meet with the owner of the baby........ Lucky you that u didnt end up training another man's kid
Bro she might have being dating the guy behind your back and cos she 'loved' you, she wanted you to marry her before the belly become prominent! Or she might be carrying your baby and marrying another! But I think she is carrying her husband's baby, cos no sane man would knowingly father a child that's not his! So it is his.
U r d biggest fool of life."No sane man would knowingly father a child that's not his".......ur thinkin is wat's wrong wit d world today....thank God some pple actually realise dat kids r a blessing from God and nt a curse....I'll parent any kid cos if they cross my path....then there's a reason God let it happen......Fool, dnt be shallow
My take is that the lady probably can't figure out who the real father is of questionable number of men in the pool. She just chose to give the child a surname, anyone would do..... now, move on with ur life and use protection if u can't hold body!!!
Marry, you no wan marry. The girl moved on and married somebody else and you're now following her about, wondering about her. Why don't you mind your own business! It sounds more to me like you're jealous she moved on so fast, you would have preferred to have wasted a couple more years of her time on you while she still stresses over you trying to get you to marry her. You don't like the realization that you ain't 'all that' after all. Another man stepped up to the plate and you can't bear it. Now you are flirting with the idea of ruining somebody else's new marriage. What is wrong with these unserious, time-wasting guys sef? Is it you who wasn't ready for marriage that will now start taking care of a new baby? Or you just want to ruin their marriage? Grow up mahn!
My brother, Everything happens for a reason. You are hurting I know but I will advice you to move on. In some years time when you look back at the situation, you will be glad you did. If she really did that, you should be thankful you didn't end up with her. It shows she was double dating. The young gal is married now. What will you derive from putting asunder? Let it go bro.
Hi Asker, Has it occurred to you that while you were dating this lady, and she kept asking you to marry her without telling you she was potentially pregnant, there was a possibility that she was actually cheating on you and tried to pin the baby on you!? I mean if it was you r kid, why was she keeping it away from you, and then married like immediately after you broke up......*just saying* *sipstea*
Oh boy u berra zip up and move on ohh.The child surely is urs but she did not tell u cos she knew u were not ready to settle down, so she gave it to the next suitor available and she will def not agree u are the owner unless u tell insist the child takes a dna test besides y do u wnt d child wen u were not ready to marry the woman abi will u takia of the child if u find out it's urs? jst leave the girl jare she has moved on so u go ahead wit ur own life.
My dear I think it's so needless going to confront ur EX as u can see, she have moved on with her life, and God so faithful there's a man waiting by the side. If u want to be happy in life move on with your life and allow her enjoy her home and baby. Confronting her would break her home and she would dislike you & your generation with her soul. You wish she remain single Untill she dies???? Abeg!!!!!
In Law any child born within a marriage in every legal sense belongs to the husband, so now she is married that child belongs to her husband. who provided to sperm is irrelevant..
hahaha these hoes!!! these hoes!!! I had a feeling my gf will eventually put me in this kinda box, so I quit..
I love her so much, but when a woman's self centeredness is so strong, she destroys the lives of those she loves, you better run..
For real my nigga, only God knows the truth, and I swear this babe will keep the secret till she dies. Best thing for you is to either come out clean and ask for a DNA test, because this is not about you, this is about your child.. A woman this diabolical can never ever ever be a good mother to your child.
All of you that are supporting this woman, insulting the guy and calling him names, may my enemy never ever encounter you and fall in love with your type talk less marry you.
Why are you all selfish??
You are talking about a sham marriage made out of convenience (no condition is permanent), over a child whose destiny might be destroyed by a vile, ungodly and selfish woman.
What kind of evil is this??
What kind of demons do we have as women these days??
Some are even claiming that the woman has a right to be smart
What is of the next generation, if they will suck of the breasts of these daughters of Jezebel??
Anon 7:35pm. Abegi! Go and lament and ponder about all the serial male adulterers, fornicators and cheats who will have a wife at home and have several females outside. Some already have kids for them and go on international trips with them etc. Or the fools who marry or have a faithful woman whilst still struggling but decide it's now time to find someone more befitting once he becomes successful. Or the man who leaves his wife and kids at home and travels for days or weeks at a time under the guise of "business" while he frolics around with useless girls. Or the man who gives all his money to concubines and comes home to tell his wife that 'there is no money'. Or the man who contracts STDs outside due to his wayward ways and takes it home to his faithful, dutiful wife. Or the man that has an argument with his girlfriend then goes home and take it all on his poor wife. Or the guy that wastes I decent female's time for years after she's been loyal all through and given up so much of her dreams for him only for him to say he's found someone younger and she's too old. And this is just to name a few. Address all those unsavory and unfortunate characters of men before talking about how women are evil and demons because of just one scenario that you're not even sure if the baby is really for the husband she married. Her only crime seems to be that she moved on too quickly, she didn't spend the next few years depressed and heartbroken because an unserious guy refused to marry her. Men's one-track minded mode of thinking just flabbergasts me sometimes! And you that you're so comfortable to call women all these names and daughters of Jezebel, I presume your mother is a woman too; right? If this generation is producing daughters of jezebels, guess who is among the jezebels?..... I rest my case
All said but one.... Asking this girl will be a waste of time!
If she didn't tell u then, what on earth makes u think she will tell u now? because she wants to destroy her marriage? I don't think so!
Come to think of it, dis girl may not even know the true paternity of the unborn child because obviously she was a promiscuous person sleeping with d two men if not many others who are not even in the entire picture! If d second case be d case, she obviously can not tell u what she doesn't know!
Another way could work but certainly asking her won't.
Uo nw ready to father aa child bt nt ready for marriage. Whn last did uo see ur period? For those of uo answering LIB Prince, LIB Syndrome, LIB Addict, Face of LIB etc be careful. I did nt jst bring d concept 'LIB Princess' sometn prompted it. Vry soon Anuty Linda wil officially bring it 2ur notice dat Gnomic Pretex is d LIB Princess!
All said but one.... Asking this girl will be a waste of time!
If she didn't tell u then, what on earth makes u think she will tell u now? because she wants to destroy her marriage? I don't think so!
Come to think of it, dis girl may not even know the true paternity of the unborn child because obviously she was a promiscuous person sleeping with d two men if not many others who are not even in the entire picture! If d second case be d case, she obviously can not tell u what she doesn't know!
Another way could work but certainly asking her won't.
Sincerely, I don't think the baby is yours. I think she tried to pin some other guys pregnancy on you. That's why she begged you to marry her... Begged you in quote! In all, I guess you know better... Instincts!!!
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When you have something precious hold on to it,the child is yours but when you rejected her you rejected your child and a smart man that knows her value did what you wouldn't have done in another 8years.Learn from this and try to be a better partner.
Please ask her. I don't even know why you are bringing this to an online forum instead of to your family and hers. If that child is yours, you cannot allow h/her to be raised as another man's child, by an irresponsible mother nonetheless. If I were you, I'll be getting to the root of the matter instead of sending e-mails to Linda Ikeji.
leave d woman alone to enjoy her marriage, afterall she gave u a chance 2 choose btw responsibility n flexing like u guys call it bt u choose d later.Now u want go use ur reggae spoil person blues.
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ReplyDeleteGreat SEX is always great but does SEX guarantee you a great life?
As a LADY don't you think you should value the triangular"sanctum" between your thighs more?
As a MAN is lasting for several minutes in bed your only manly prowess and attribute ?
Is having a python between your legs as a MAN your only source of pride?
Forget STD's....we have condoms! Forget unwanted pregnancy! We have pills and hungry doctors!....there's always a way out !...
BUT
Why let your DIGNITY and VALUE wither my ladies!
How many relationships have you been in my sisters? A dozen or more? Wasn't sex a constant in most of them if not all of them? Did SEX ever help your love affair work? Instead most of them boys ran to the exit window once they got their fill...close your legs my sisters and think with your heads....Find love in the confines of your heart ! Love is real
And to my BROTHERS,
In your quest for sex..what have you killed?
Your integrity? Your goals?your aspirations?
You live the FAKE life till the FAKE life is not possible to LIVE and LEAVE! You've got talent beyond the four corners of that bed
Redirect your steps! Find your essence and try your best to find love..I pray its not too late for you.
Those who live in glass houses don't throw stones! I'm a sinner like you and I'm throwing a stone at my piece of glass too....
God bless you
CEEFLO
Dnt i jst heart u @ceeflo,i wish ladies out there will listen to this,love is nt sex,always keep ur legs closed and uphold ur dignity,a guy who truly loves u will wait around even wen u tell him no until after marriage,ladies gotta wise up and start respecting theirselves @poster,seriously?anoda r/ship drama okwia?#yawns#u're 28 start thinking of settling down instead of sleeping wif ur gf lmao i guess i wasn't really helpful#runs outta thread#
DeleteI waited no sex , still a virgin till I got married ... Guess who I got married to ? A homosexual !!! Homosexuals and men on down low and a truly God fearing man are the only men who will wait.
DeleteThat sounds somehow
ReplyDeleteOh so dramatic.
ReplyDeleteI think you ask her.
You used the word "girlfriend"..how serious were you with her? How old are you? Are you ready to settle down? If she was still with you would you have kept the child or asked her to get an abortion? If you really want the child then you can contest! You can demand answers...if not! Then its better the way it is
ReplyDeleteCeeFlo God bless you Amen. Mr asker Why are you bothered about a girl you didn't want 2marry.? I'll tell you something man. Live your life and stop wondering, don't even ask, don't even look at her wedding photos cos she asked u 2 marry her, maybe loved u and u didn't not that I blame u cos it's not by force. Ill tell you what.. if I'm pregnant Ill ask the guy if he'd ever want 2 marry me. If he says no. I aint even telling him I'm pregnant because then he'll marry the baby and not me plus I don't need no dude crying she tied me down with pregnancy like I was the 1 scrwing myself. Long story sha but how about this 1. She never loved you and was pregnant 4 another man while with you cos you never loved her either or maybe she loved you but still got preggy 4 sm1 else cos you wouldn't marry her. Now walk away very quietly ----C21
DeleteU better ask o,b4 she gives ur child to anoda person....if there is any contention,go for a DNA test after d child is born!!!
ReplyDeleteSo after doing DNA test, what then? If he wasn't ready to be a husband, will he suddenly be ready to be a father? Some people just don't think and reason, all they do is cause trouble and problems for others. Ok, let's say he waits till the child is born and does a DNA test. By then, let's assume he's also finally ready to settle down and now has a fiancé or wife. You think she too will be happy that her new husband or husband-to-be already has a baby-mama? So he'll be causing problems in his ex's marriage and also in his own marriage/relationship before it even starts. Some people just go out there and find problems for themselves just because of stupid ego. She moved on to a more responsible man and wasn't hung up on you. GET OVER IT AND GET OVER YOURSELF!! ....... Just Me
DeleteThis your question na only google fit answer am o. Why don't u confront her and hear what she has to say. it is even possible she is not that far gone in terms of the pregnancy. Some women at four months their stomach Is as big as if they are already seven months gone. So confront her nicely. Sikena.
ReplyDeleteJust walk away man
ReplyDeleteGrls avoid pregnacy bfor marriage...its not a guarantee dat d guy will marry u.
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ReplyDeleteMy dear me I no know abeg, this one tire me jor. CHI.
ReplyDeleteSomeone tell this guy to confront the girl sharply. Haba!!! Did she conceive through the Holy Spirit ???
ReplyDeleteif she never mentioned she was pregnant all those while. She may never tell you the truth about the child's paternity. She is married! You can find out from her family or close friend,how...i dont know.
ReplyDeleteMr man act fast...in this situation i will advice you to go for 50-50...the pregnancy might be yours or the new man she married...you need to confront her asap or else another man will be taking care of your child which am very sure you don't want that to happen.
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ReplyDeleteDIFFICULT SITUATION.......... EVEN IF D CHILD IS URS, SHE MITE NOT TELL U SINCE SHE HAS MARRIED SUMONE ELSE.
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guy you should be thanking God for saving you cos ur ex babe was about giving you someone else's child cos its u she loves and when she realized u were not ready for marriage she decided to take it back to the owner. the man she got married to is not daft to accept a pregnancy that is that grown if they have not been having sex before u guys broke up.
ReplyDeleteMost reasonable comment!
DeleteSure right
DeleteGod bless u, pple wey stil get brain stil dey dis world o. #notinmore
DeleteSee gobe!!!
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ReplyDeletemy dear the baby is either yours or his or even for another man entirely.... If i were you i will contact the man and tell him this story, there is nothing wrong with it. She doesnt even deserve to be a wife... Or else it will hunt you for the rest of your life. So contact the man and clear your mind
ReplyDeleteSome of these comments are just daft! First of all, didn't she give him a chance to marry her? But he said he wasn't ready and she moved on. Secondly, do you guys think the husband would be daft enough to accept a 7month pregnancy if they've only been dating for less number of months? Either the guy has also been sleeping with her for that long or she's told him everything and he still loves her and accepted her with the pregnancy. I don't understand how somebody who wasn't ready for marriage is suddenly jumping around, thinking of how to go and claim a baby and potentially breaking a new home. Some people are just so destructive. #smh
DeleteHahaha contact the man Ke? That's too much
DeleteYou re a useless nd good for nothing person for this stupid comment of urs, u wanna break some1's home. I jst knw ur type losers dt keep making trouble. Contact the man..Hisssssss
DeleteChimarokee,u intentionally want to ruin the marriage haba
DeleteChimarokee ure very stupid wit DAT comment u made.home breaker.....
DeleteMost women are evil , they don't have conscience . In the end when nemesis hits them , they turn to prayer warriors forgetting the person they hurt in the past . Fear women ooo.... They can lie for the world but end up calling it being smart
ReplyDeleteYou're an idiot! Talking out of your ass. How did she hurt this guy? Wasn't he the one who wasted her time then told her he wasn't ready to get married? What should she have done? Wait for him forever? Men commit different levels of atrocities in their domestic and social lives on a daily basis and women still bear it and try to remain strong whereas men hear speculations about women and they'll start belly-aching and lamenting about how women are so evil, can't be trusted etc. so it is men that can be trusted, right? They are the ones who have a conscience? Just do us all a favour and STFU!!!! ........Just Me
DeleteGo on nd ask her nw
ReplyDeleteFirstly try to seek audience with her for the truth, of course she will deny anyway. Wait for the baby to grow till 5 year-old and look for any resemblance. If you are so convinced you can request for a DNA test through the court. But mind you, whether the baby is yours or not after the DNA you may have broken a home
ReplyDeleteBros,I dey com,make I go baff,I get feeling say as I graduate frm English dept dix year,I go focus squarely on dix blog cos I get many fictional stories to write frm dix blog (short story or novel)make I baff 1st. Sweetest
ReplyDeleteShe was eida cheating on U̶̲̥̅̊ or d bayb i̶̲̥̅̊s̶̲̥̅̊ truly urs. N b4 asking or doing anyfin stupid U̶̲̥̅̊ need to b sure n ready cos U̶̲̥̅̊ myt b breaking ha new home n rem U̶̲̥̅̊ r d1 who i̶̲̥̅̊s̶̲̥̅̊ not ready to settle down .
ReplyDeleteyou had your chance and you blew it. get over her and move on.
ReplyDeleteAnon 10:23am God bless u for DAT comment cos dis guy is really pissing me off
DeleteTry and contact her and hear what she has to say! Buh why were you fornicating when you knew you weren't ready for marriage..it isn't right to have sex before marriage! Contact her and you guys should dialogue! Col 3:5. BishopDammy#
ReplyDeleteHahaha. bishop Dammy no go kill mw with laf sha
DeleteHahaha. bishop Dammy no go kill mw with laf sha
DeleteNa wa o.
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Maybe she was cheating on u wen u guys were dating.. D pregnancy might not b urs tho
ReplyDeleteMaybe she was cheating on u when u were still dating.. The pregnancy myt not b urs
ReplyDeleteMaybe she was cheating on u when u were dating.. The pregnancy might not b urs.
ReplyDeleteI think she was seeing both of u at the same time. Confront her and ask 4 a DNA.
ReplyDeleteI just hate the word begging you've used up to hw many times, which one is ur own nau guy,According to u,she begged u to marry her nd u refused dat u re nt ready, why been surprised dat she is pregnant for another man nd getting married, Use your number (6), she followed the method of NEVER LAY UR EGGS ON ONE BASKET
ReplyDelete#gbam#...and now he wants to b a daddy,thunder fire u rite der
DeleteMaybe she was cheating on u wen u were dating. The pregnancy might not b urs
ReplyDeleteoops ... that's a sorry arse state you in
ReplyDeleteU need a DNA test to knw if the baby is truly yours but in terms of tradition its not urs,he married her with the pregnancy,the babies is his.
ReplyDeleteFace of lib
Maybe she was cheating on u when u were dating.. The pregnancy might not b urs.
ReplyDeleteYou know what linda,over a long period i used to think this your dear LIB were stories you made up until you brought up two stories that i know personally those that such happened to...and now this is just like my own story too...dated a lady for two years,had slight misunderstanding and she left me to marry another man in less than 3 months..+ the pregnancy drama..I knew she was up to some mischief when she "locked up" like 4 months earlier...i knew she was planning something..painful i never double dated when i was with her i could have switched as she did but i have moved on.Guys shine your eyes...have a contingency plan..they call it PLAN B...
ReplyDeleteA man that dsnt double date? May u find a better woman ----C21
DeleteI belive u should ask her..politely#ab1
ReplyDeleteANGELRAY SAYS
ReplyDeleteAbeg go and sleep joor, why did u not marry her when she was begging u, u said u are not ready but now u are eying her pregnancy, what u should do is to stay away from another man's wife. chikena.
Very funny,she cnt b giving ur child to him,she left u cos she was pregnant.she had always known u were nt ready.she needed a good reason to leave u n still look like a vitim.Dude u ve been used!
ReplyDeleteVery true, you were probably her plan B.
DeleteAnother sensible reply.
DeleteANGELRAY SAYS
ReplyDeleteAbeg go and sleep joor, why did u not marry her when she was begging u, u said u are not ready but now u are eying her pregnancy, what u should do is to stay away from another man's wife. chikena.
ANGELRAY SAYS
ReplyDeleteAbeg go and sleep joor, why did u not marry her when she was begging u, u said u are not ready but now u are eying her pregnancy, what u should do is to stay away from another man's wife. chikena.
Mahn..u wernt intrested in marrying d bea ryt?y u be intrested in if d baby be urz or not....you'v lost both d baby nd marma...move on wiv ur life...ur loz. ..hehe
ReplyDeleteANGELRAY SAYS
ReplyDeleteAbeg go and sleep joor, why did u not marry her when she was begging u, u said u are not ready but now u are eying her pregnancy, what u should do is to stay away from another man's wife. chikena.
ANGELRAY SAYS
ReplyDeleteAbeg go and sleep joor, why did u not marry her when she was begging u, u said u are not ready but now u are eying her pregnancy, what u should do is to stay away from another man's wife. chikena.
ReplyDeleteI know the guys prob, one thing wit most guys wen they break up wit a lady, they wanna see that lady been single witout a man for so long, den they will start feeling too much, u see as I leave no man gree date her. Since she found herself some1 so fast, dat is ur headache, sorry to disappoint you man, the baby isn't urs, chill
Gbammest!! He's just pained. Didn't want to see her move on and happy.
DeleteHmm. If I were you, I'll ask her; if you are sure she's 7 months far. It's either she cheated on you with the now husband when you were both dating or she lied to the husband about whose baby she's carrying and how far her pregnancy is..
ReplyDeleteSmh.
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YOU ARE A VERY BIG FOOL. YOU DON'T WANT TO MARRY HER BUT YOU WANT TO DRAG HER BABY WITH HER. MAY GOD PUNISH YOU TIME WASTER. YOU STILL WANT TO GO BREAK HER NEW HOME YET YOU DON'T WANT HER IN YOUR LIFE. THAT IS WHAT FITS YOU ALL LADIES OUT THERE FUCKING LOW LIFES.
ReplyDeleteU think u can fool and dump her right ?ur not ready to settle down and she's 28 u will never know how smart women can be
ReplyDeleteDude, that baby is not yours, don't disturb yourself. The truth is, most guys feel like they are players, but females are the ultimate players. We guys think like 'checkers' players, girls think like 'chess' players when it comes to matters of relationship and dating.
ReplyDeleteMost girls have a regular boyfriend they love, a maga boyfriend,and another man on the side that they can take off with if and when you fuck up.
And the interesting part is that they sleep with the three. Your girl probably loves you and wanted you to marry her before you found out she was pregnant. But when you didn't marry her, she had to make the run for it and marry the other guy while she still had the chance.
Do a little investigation and you would find out the other guy is probably wayyy older...maybe like in his late thirties.
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Olamide you're correct most women always have a plan B,and most women don't like to put all their eggs in one basket.
DeleteMay be she was already preggy for d guy she married and wanted to hang it on your neck by persuading you to marry her because she loves or loved u more.if dat baby is yours she would have used it to get u to marry her.
ReplyDeleteWhat are u still waiting for? Confront her to know the truth. if you not well convince, DNA will be the best for both of you after delivery.
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I feel you shld ask her n besides u aint ready to get married. R u ready to father a child?
ReplyDeleteThank you o!! Help me ask the fool.
DeleteThen go ahead and comfront her,is she says d baby ins't yours,wait till she deliver d baby and go for DNA simple
ReplyDelete########LIB M BAD HABIT########
You should consider the following seriously: if you asked and she says NO, would you require DNA test to be certain? And if the DNA is negative, you would look stupid and petty! If she said YES, what will you do? Claim the baby and her? Or claim the baby only? You will still end up looking PETTY. The thing is, the truth will be revealed in due time. Besides for the guy to marry with big belle means he was sleeping with her when you were active with her too. So maybe it's your manly ego that's hurt!
ReplyDeleteYou be mumu.. when you were busy filling her pussy with your fucking sperm did you call me? Please let us be.. olodo guys most ladies are coming to you because they need husband. They don't love... don't do without condom . Call me LIB 1
ReplyDeleteThe world is better now. Wait for her to deliver d baby and den u'd bring up d mata, if she wants to take it d worst, den proceed for a DNA test. If its urs afterall, fine. And if it isnt urs, u av notin to lose
ReplyDeleteSo many bastards on the road,it is only women that can tell the real father of her children....may God safe men
ReplyDeleteFunny before you broke up were you guys not seeing each other? Touching making love and doing every other things couple dose? How can you not notice any changes in her body?. If honestly you did not notice any then please you are not worth to be called a dad relax and let the father be the father. Donating sperm dose not make anybody a father
ReplyDeleteabegi move on.. pple like u na hin dey put san san 4 person garri!! uv left her afterall... mtchwww
ReplyDeleteI don't know how credible this story is, but if in fact it is true, I've got choice words for you. First off, you were not ready to tie the knot so why do you bother whether the unborn child is yours or not? You claim you are 28 n I opine that your reasoning is nothing short of a child. Listen up slim, real men raise children and just don't make em. Now in my view, there culd be 3 possible scenarios, #1 is brace yourself up to see ur so called child call another man daddy.#2 it might be the dude's child n your sorry ass is here all delusional n finally, the baby probably belongs to neither of you fellas. So what do you do? Suck on that and MOVE the f@#k on. Don't come up here telling this lame ass story a.. hole.
ReplyDeleteTell him!
Delete#just move on. lobatan.
ReplyDeleteif i slap your mouth your not ready for marriage but your read for child respect yourself and leave the girl to enjoy her marriage.
ReplyDeleteYou are asking what you should do? Go and hang period! Let the lady be,she deserves to be happy. You were not ready to settle down with her. This should keep happening to idiots like you wasting a girl's time then moving to another one tomorrow. Sultana
ReplyDeleteLay claim to the baby when delivered, go to court and ask for a DNA test on d baby and cost to borne by u. Even the husband will b glad to know the real father of the baby she is giving him.
ReplyDeleteU sound like u r nt African...in most cultures, u r not d daddy unless u r married to d girl.....any child birthed by a girl before marriage belongs to her family.....court my pretty little ass.....mttchew
DeleteEnemy of progress, leave the girl alone. You are just bitter that she finds a better man. If you value your life, let the sleeping dog lies.
ReplyDeleteNo comment joor. Linda no dey post my comments so no more comments again.
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Nothing. You didn't marry her, she has moved on. Do the same.
ReplyDeleteGeeerout!since you aint ready for Marriage,will u now be ready for fatherhood!better leave her alone,its her decision to let u know or have ascess to the paternity of that baby when born!u gave up that responsibility when u refusé to tie the knot!i wonder what alwYs makes the mâle homosapiens think that they can eat their cake n have it!
ReplyDeleteYou had better call her out or confront her. Cos your suspicions could be right.
ReplyDeleteAbeg go rest! You be fool.u think say na only guys dey smart? Ladies are not smiling,she knew she couldn't depend on u so she kept u on reserve from day one.go n rest, no be ur pickin.
ReplyDeleteHmmmmm bros just close ur eyes oooo time shall tell if d child is urs, hope u no she is married now? Run 4 ur life.
ReplyDeleteIt appears you still like her but I will say you should move on. You even said there's a possibility that she was pregnant with the man's child while you were dating. If you are in doubt then leave it. At the appropriate time God will do yours.
ReplyDeleteThis is a difficulty one guy...lemme wait for comments..
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Confront her about it
ReplyDeleteSuper story!
ReplyDeleteWow, she even begged u, to show she loved u nd u were nt ready, it is far more better if u keep quite nd letter her be happy with her life
ReplyDeleteMove on with your life and leave her alone. After all you are not interested in marrying her. Be quiet or face the wrath of God
ReplyDeleteGhen Ghen! Part 1
ReplyDeleteSorry bro the baby is not urs..it is obvious she was cheating on you and wanted to tie d knot wen she got d pregnancy from another man... Forget her and move on
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May be she was double dating.
ReplyDeleteOboy she dey f**k dat other guy for your back,,but she love u pass so dats y she wanted to marry you,but sorry man dat child is nt your's,,,dats y I say never fall in love,,only have fun..irebisibrown@yahoo.com.sg
ReplyDeleteHmmm jamb question, any ways for me oo I tink u shuld just call her and question her abt d pregnancy and pls b matured abt it, and if she insist dat d pregnancy is not 4 den let her b
ReplyDeletewait till she put to bed,thereafter you confront her and ask fo a dna test of the child then if the result turn positive you can ask for your child.thats if she will comply.bcus if na me make i no lie o,i cant give away my child to a man who wont marry me,so that my child wont suffer in the hands of another bitch!.
ReplyDeleteur too full of urself.
ReplyDeletemen of this days..
ReplyDeleteWalk up 2 ar nd ask ar, or u wana datch out ur 1st child
ReplyDeletewhat I advice is that he should ask the girl first before jumping into conclusion to avoid quarrel.
ReplyDeleteWow this is serious go ahead n confront her kk
ReplyDeletefool!
ReplyDeleteThere is nothing wrong in asking, Find out now so that you can be @ peace with yourself. Sorry but I don't like that your gf , she might not tell you the truth
ReplyDeleteplease go n seat down. She has seen who truly love her. deceiver. she is begging u to marry her. Don't u want to marry?
ReplyDeleteDude u must be so dumb to think the baby is urs, so it didn't occur to u dat she was seeing that man behind ur back and found out she was pregnant but didn't know who the father of the baby is? Damn! U some dumb ass, u refused to marry her and the 2nd second agreed to marry her and take responsibility of the baby, so sit ur dumb ass down and let her enjoy her marriage.
ReplyDelete#Mazi
Some Women tho.like it is said a woman can keep a dark lil secret to her grave.
ReplyDeleteShe was sleeping with the both of you at the same time, so the child may not be yours. Rest
ReplyDeletethe pregnancy wasnt really yours...
ReplyDeleteIf you weren't interested in marrying her then when she was begging you to,why are you now so bothered about whether the pregnancy is yours or her husband's own ???
ReplyDeleteMove on and allow her enjoy her husband.
You were busy polashing and not ready to settle down. By the way, why are you sharing the story? We should help you and beg or ask her if the pregnancy is yours? Guy, carry your cross.
ReplyDeleteAsk her. U deserve to know! Good luck
ReplyDeleteStory for the Gods...Abeg next oo
ReplyDeleteBitches tho'!!!!!!!!!
ReplyDelete#Fizz
Infact i don't no what adjective to qualify. You....so annoying
ReplyDeleteIs only a mother dat knows the father of her child...plz mr just let her be..in peace ,plz don't break her home...if d child she is carryin is really urs..God will prevail..plz leave her n her conscience to God plz..
ReplyDeleteIf u ask me, na who I go askkkkk, well d truth is , u have to approach her, there is every tendency dat she was double dating, and d child might be urs or d man's own, and she was actually looking for someone to hook..
ReplyDeleteLaffing matter, u no wan mother na pikin u fit keep. Na ur bizness sha. Wait if she had told u. What will u have done. Am so sure u will hav rejected it. Shame yimiyohanna@gmail.com
ReplyDeleteI wonder how ppl say dey dnt want marriage and be looking for responsibility to take care of u no marry d girl leave her na dis is how ppl bring problem to odas and demselves
ReplyDeleteShe wanted u to marry her u refused now she's happily married u wnt to disturb her peaceful home,u better let her be mtchwwwwwww.grace b.
ReplyDeleteIf I curse ds stupid nd hopelx boi now Linda go vex.....if am 2 b d gal nd d bby is urz I wil nva gv u....she wasn't gud enuf fr u 2 marry bt u want 2 tak her bby abi? Y r u sooo paind she moved on so fast 2 marry afta she dumpd ur sowi ass eh? Move on wif ur pity of a life nd leav da gal alone. Dnt use ur depress self nd infect her marriage plz....... Sum boiz cn b stupid I swear,u cnt marry her nd she moved on bfr u nd ur pissd.naija galz eyes don open wela ooooo,if u dnt put da ring sum sharp guy wil.she is inluv wif u doesnt mean anoda guy is nt @ d corner lovin nd wishin 2 b wif her 4eva. #lessontoguys# Value wat u ve cos she wil move on anytym. Rubbish boiz evrywea
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Guy just forget about the pregnancy cos u told her that u where not ready to settle down, so u are not ready to have a baby too.Nonsense.
ReplyDeleteGuy just forget about d pregnancy cos u told her that u where not ready to settle down so u are not ready to have a baby too. Nonsense.
ReplyDeleteGuy just forget about d pregnancy cos u told her that u where not ready to settle down so u are not ready to have a baby too. Nonsense.
ReplyDeleteGuy just forget about d pregnancy cos u told her that u where not ready to settle down so u are not ready to have a baby too. Nonsense.
ReplyDeleteGuy just forget about d pregnancy cos u told her that u where not ready to settle down so u are not ready to have a baby too. Nonsense.
ReplyDeleteI think it's fair u ask. If it's your baby she did not do well at all. Bawo lo Shey ma Gbe omo oba fun osun
ReplyDeleteNigbati Oba loun o fe settle down nko? Osunfisan debt I ready lati settle down ni tie
Delete# osun de ti ready lati settle down ni tie. Autocorrect! Don't mess with me today o! Lol!
DeleteWhat she did is wrong, but y didn't Ʊ ask her y she wanted marriage badly, dis is 1 of d reasons hate pple dat re age mates dating, d fact is d ladies always get ready b4 d guys nd wen she starts talking abt it he says she is desperate but if its ur sis, Ʊ want her married in time, dis is Africa, were ladies re supposed to settle dwn after scul, anyway, feel Ʊ shud call her nd ask her, if its ur child get ur baby, even if Ʊ av 2 go 4 a DNA test,babies re priceless..though if d baby is urs,it will cause her lots of headache in her home but she asked 4 it..#Nifemi#
ReplyDeleteUr such a bastard! What do u want? What's ur bisness? Fool
ReplyDeleteDdnt u say u don't want her again? Abeg go to hell
Men tho'
Cowardic bastards! Rubbish
Your level of reasoning is questionable. The lady got the pregnancy from the other man or another guy outside the two of you and had wanted you to marry her as soon as possible that you or her family may not find out her condition, because you are intimate. Yet you are asking foolish question. Go and date/befriend a little more of women so as to learn more of their ways, it will help you in many things you do as a man; you are a small boy.
ReplyDeleteAww....she was probably sleeping with both men....found out she might be pregnant...and asking you both to marry her....and you dulled
ReplyDeleteMy man please dont be deceived. my guess is that she had a one time off and wen she noticed she was pregnant she wanted to push it to you but as u no gree she had to meet with the owner of the baby........ Lucky you that u didnt end up training another man's kid
ReplyDeleteBro she might have being dating the guy behind your back and cos she 'loved' you, she wanted you to marry her before the belly become prominent! Or she might be carrying your baby and marrying another! But I think she is carrying her husband's baby, cos no sane man would knowingly father a child that's not his! So it is his.
ReplyDeleteU r d biggest fool of life."No sane man would knowingly father a child that's not his".......ur thinkin is wat's wrong wit d world today....thank God some pple actually realise dat kids r a blessing from God and nt a curse....I'll parent any kid cos if they cross my path....then there's a reason God let it happen......Fool, dnt be shallow
DeleteJust ask her if it's yours. Then afterwards do a blood test. Simples.
ReplyDeleteBut if it's yours, why won't she tell you to convince you to marry her??
I think it's for the other man, so she was asking both of you for marriage to cover her tracks, and he fell for it.
Kimmy*****
Even if the child is urs, what will u do about it? If u r not ready to settle down, u shld equally not be ready to father a child.
ReplyDeleteAnonymous 10.27 you're a fool... why must a woman beg a man to marry her? Keep begging men to marry you. Ewu
ReplyDeleteMy take is that the lady probably can't figure out who the real father is of questionable number of men in the pool. She just chose to give the child a surname, anyone would do..... now, move on with ur life and use protection if u can't hold body!!!
ReplyDeleteMarry, you no wan marry. The girl moved on and married somebody else and you're now following her about, wondering about her. Why don't you mind your own business! It sounds more to me like you're jealous she moved on so fast, you would have preferred to have wasted a couple more years of her time on you while she still stresses over you trying to get you to marry her. You don't like the realization that you ain't 'all that' after all. Another man stepped up to the plate and you can't bear it. Now you are flirting with the idea of ruining somebody else's new marriage. What is wrong with these unserious, time-wasting guys sef? Is it you who wasn't ready for marriage that will now start taking care of a new baby? Or you just want to ruin their marriage? Grow up mahn!
ReplyDeleteWould u v changed ur mind if she told u about the pregnancy since u are not ready.guess u v to ask her to clear d air.
ReplyDelete@ceeflo tell them pls.....i'm also a gurl oo but i fear girls
ReplyDelete@ceeflo tell them pls.....i'm also a gurl oo but i fear girls
ReplyDeleteTake a walk bro.
ReplyDeleteMy brother,
ReplyDeleteEverything happens for a reason. You are hurting I know but I will advice you to move on. In some years time when you look back at the situation, you will be glad you did. If she really did that, you should be thankful you didn't end up with her. It shows she was double dating.
The young gal is married now. What will you derive from putting asunder? Let it go bro.
Hi Asker,
ReplyDeleteHas it occurred to you that while you were dating this lady, and she kept asking you to marry her without telling you she was potentially pregnant, there was a possibility that she was actually cheating on you and tried to pin the baby on you!?
I mean if it was you r kid, why was she keeping it away from you, and then married like immediately after you broke up......*just saying* *sipstea*
Call a meeting, if she denies then do DNA when she gives birth. If i were you i will make sure her husband knows about this now.
ReplyDeleteyou are a good commentator and a woman of great wit
ReplyDeleteI cal dem tym wasters,u dnt wana com out of d way N u don't wana move also.som men are damn too wiked.wiked generation of vipers
ReplyDeleteOh boy u berra zip up and move on ohh.The child surely is urs but she did not tell u cos she knew u were not ready to settle down, so she gave it to the next suitor available and she will def not agree u are the owner unless u tell insist the child takes a dna test besides y do u wnt d child wen u were not ready to marry the woman abi will u takia of the child if u find out it's urs? jst leave the girl jare she has moved on so u go ahead wit ur own life.
ReplyDeleteNaija girls? I am not surprised, many of these bitches are never sincere, these hoes aint loyal
ReplyDeleteMy dear I think it's so needless going to confront ur EX as u can see, she have moved on with her life, and God so faithful there's a man waiting by the side. If u want to be happy in life move on with your life and allow her enjoy her home and baby. Confronting her would break her home and she would dislike you & your generation with her soul. You wish she remain single Untill she dies???? Abeg!!!!!
ReplyDeleteOh boy, lef her alone an find ur way.
ReplyDeleteConfront her over the issue.
ReplyDeleteAsk your ex-girlfriend...Two things are at stake here. Is either the child is yours or its for the other man. Only she has the answer
ReplyDelete#QuestionForTheGods
ReplyDeleteIn Law any child born within a marriage in every legal sense belongs to the husband, so now she is married that child belongs to her husband. who provided to sperm is irrelevant..
ReplyDeletehahaha these hoes!!! these hoes!!! I had a feeling my gf will eventually put me in this kinda box, so I quit..
ReplyDeleteI love her so much, but when a woman's self centeredness is so strong, she destroys the lives of those she loves, you better run..
For real my nigga, only God knows the truth, and I swear this babe will keep the secret till she dies. Best thing for you is to either come out clean and ask for a DNA test, because this is not about you, this is about your child.. A woman this diabolical can never ever ever be a good mother to your child.
All of you that are supporting this woman, insulting the guy and calling him names, may my enemy never ever encounter you and fall in love with your type talk less marry you.
ReplyDeleteWhy are you all selfish??
You are talking about a sham marriage made out of convenience (no condition is permanent), over a child whose destiny might be destroyed by a vile, ungodly and selfish woman.
What kind of evil is this??
What kind of demons do we have as women these days??
Some are even claiming that the woman has a right to be smart
What is of the next generation, if they will suck of the breasts of these daughters of Jezebel??
May God help us all
Anon 7:35pm. Abegi! Go and lament and ponder about all the serial male adulterers, fornicators and cheats who will have a wife at home and have several females outside. Some already have kids for them and go on international trips with them etc. Or the fools who marry or have a faithful woman whilst still struggling but decide it's now time to find someone more befitting once he becomes successful. Or the man who leaves his wife and kids at home and travels for days or weeks at a time under the guise of "business" while he frolics around with useless girls. Or the man who gives all his money to concubines and comes home to tell his wife that 'there is no money'. Or the man who contracts STDs outside due to his wayward ways and takes it home to his faithful, dutiful wife. Or the man that has an argument with his girlfriend then goes home and take it all on his poor wife. Or the guy that wastes I decent female's time for years after she's been loyal all through and given up so much of her dreams for him only for him to say he's found someone younger and she's too old. And this is just to name a few. Address all those unsavory and unfortunate characters of men before talking about how women are evil and demons because of just one scenario that you're not even sure if the baby is really for the husband she married. Her only crime seems to be that she moved on too quickly, she didn't spend the next few years depressed and heartbroken because an unserious guy refused to marry her. Men's one-track minded mode of thinking just flabbergasts me sometimes! And you that you're so comfortable to call women all these names and daughters of Jezebel, I presume your mother is a woman too; right? If this generation is producing daughters of jezebels, guess who is among the jezebels?..... I rest my case
Delete1 million likes for you Anon 9:19pm!!!
DeleteGonzos... Bin a father and bin a husband are two different things.
ReplyDeleteWe can also say the same of being a father and just being a daddy. #dropsmic
DeleteAll said but one.... Asking this girl will be a waste of time!
ReplyDeleteIf she didn't tell u then, what on earth makes u think she will tell u now? because she wants to destroy her marriage? I don't think so!
Come to think of it, dis girl may not even know the true paternity of the unborn child because obviously she was a promiscuous person sleeping with d two men if not many others who are not even in the entire picture!
If d second case be d case, she obviously can not tell u what she doesn't know!
Another way could work but certainly asking her won't.
Uo nw ready to father aa child bt nt ready for marriage. Whn last did uo see ur period? For those of uo answering LIB Prince, LIB Syndrome, LIB Addict, Face of LIB etc be careful. I did nt jst bring d concept 'LIB Princess' sometn prompted it. Vry soon Anuty Linda wil officially bring it 2ur notice dat Gnomic Pretex is d LIB Princess!
ReplyDeleteAll said but one.... Asking this girl will be a waste of time!
ReplyDeleteIf she didn't tell u then, what on earth makes u think she will tell u now? because she wants to destroy her marriage? I don't think so!
Come to think of it, dis girl may not even know the true paternity of the unborn child because obviously she was a promiscuous person sleeping with d two men if not many others who are not even in the entire picture!
If d second case be d case, she obviously can not tell u what she doesn't know!
Another way could work but certainly asking her won't.
Sincerely, I don't think the baby is yours. I think she tried to pin some other guys pregnancy on you. That's why she begged you to marry her... Begged you in quote! In all, I guess you know better... Instincts!!!
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ReplyDeletePlease ask her. I don't even know why you are bringing this to an online forum instead of to your family and hers. If that child is yours, you cannot allow h/her to be raised as another man's child, by an irresponsible mother nonetheless.
ReplyDeleteIf I were you, I'll be getting to the root of the matter instead of sending e-mails to Linda Ikeji.
leave d woman alone to enjoy her marriage, afterall she gave u a chance 2 choose btw responsibility n flexing like u guys call it bt u choose d later.Now u want go use ur reggae spoil person blues.
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