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Sunday, 14 February 2016

See how Angela and Chukwudi, both HIV singles find happiness as husband and wife

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I am Angela, an Edo girl by origin but British by birth. I am 25 years old. I grew up believing I had to take some medicines because they were good for my growth as a special child. At age 18 when I entered the university, my mother gave me sex education as usual, reminding me of the harm sex could do to my life as a special child. I took heed and obeyed every word.

I went for an excursion where I had an accident and was taken to the hospital. There the doctor after carrying out some tests asked me how long I had been HIV positive. That was when my whole story changed. After returning home and making several findings, I realized I was HIV positive from birth. I accepted my fate but then, life never felt complete; it felt like my hopes and dreams were crushed.

One fateful day, a doctor friend of mine asked me to checkout a platform online “www.positiveconnect.org”. I did so and was very interested in what I saw. It happened to be what I needed - an international platform for HIV singles to meet and discuss issues concerning them. I joined and noticed the platform had more to offer HIV positive people. They encouraged marriage, counselled people and also gave news and updates about HIV happenings. It was more like a home for HIV positive persons.

Most importantly, they gave me the opportunity to meet a wonderful man, Chukwudi who is also HIV positive and was on the search for companionship. On spiritual, social, intellectual and emotional levels, as humans, we need someone, not just anybody, a partner; someone to share our lives with. Sharing the same HIV status made this bonding/sharing/partnership much easier for Chukwudi and I.  Months later, we got married. We are living our dreams. This is far more than I expected of life after discovering I was HIV positive.

In this season of love, I want you all, especially HIV positive singles to understand that there is hope for us all. In sickness or in health, no one is an island. Come out and meet others like you on www.positiveconnect.org.  Let’s live, love and most importantly, connect positively because death is a sure end for everyone irrespective of their HIV status. If it worked for me, I’m sure it will for you.
Let us be the change we want to see. Stop the stigmatization, hate the virus and not the person and above all, know your HIV status.

63 comments:

  1. Edo people too De carry aids why? Dis one from birth? Nawaaoo! Happy for u guys....

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    1. U Be Big Fool, I just read your comment n it obvious Captal FOOL

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    2. U are right...

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  2. Seen












    Enugu's second shoe designer

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  3. Love is all dat matters


    ...merited happiness

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  4. Nice initiative.
    I'm praying I don't get it from boo who was busy checking out his babe on phone before going to work.
    On second thought: I won't be a victim of a womanising dick..God on my side.

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  5. Realy
    Good for them
    But hmmmm I dont wanna be in their shoes.



    #Hajia Mufliat

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  6. Oboy things dey happen oo.. All the same congrats to them..

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  7. Nice one,I hope our people wld learn from dis,pls stop discriminating hiv or any helpless person if u cant support them,shut d f..k up.

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  8. I reject hiv in my life in Jesus name amen.jumbo

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  9. hmm. @lilisconcept

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  10. that is not a license for having unprotected sex oooo.... #wink.....anyways, got ur message, have a blissful marriage

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  11. Scammers will start claiming they too are HIV+ and will scam all the chicks on that site. Omaseo.

    Still strolling...

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  12. It's not a big deal, my girlfriend is positive and I've know now for over a year.

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    1. How did u find out? So how about you? Did she infect u? If not...how were you able to escape it. And are u comfortable going on with the relationship?

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  13. HIV Fans in the House pls Get in Here, ur attention is required.

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  14. Linda mkn money snc 2000
    -D great anonymous now as Vivian Reginalds

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  15. Wow, that si touching story, am glad u found happiness @ least. Is all dat matters.U never can tell .huh.

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  16. God will set both of you free n the rest

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  17. blackmayor on the beat14 February 2016 at 14:23

    such

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  18. blackmayor on the beat14 February 2016 at 14:25

    such

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  20. This is a nice writeup...let's stop the stigmatization of HIV people,they humans and need love n care like everyone,besides there are more deadly diseases out there that re worst than HIV

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  21. Very beautiful words, very encouraging.

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  22. Positively Connecting Pple Leaving With HIV neva Heard Of A Site Like this,www.positiveconnect org will Tel my Frends Living wit HIV abt It.May God Increase d Creative Ability of D Author

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  23. Wishing you guys more n more happiness

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  24. Well done. Try something different. Try God. Your faith can make you whole. www.smhos.org

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  25. I new here,I need help seriously

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    1. What help is Fatima looking for? You need the virus? Nor be everywhere person dey find help oooo

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  26. I new here,I need help seriously

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  27. Yea, direct your hatreds towards d virus.








    #Linda'spal

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  28. E get people when nor Dey carry the virus?

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  29. People do not wakeup am say hay!u know what I want to get aids and cancer,and still birth, heart diseases,and stroke, pls is there any illness that is better than the other if yes which would you like to shop for?Moral lesson..if you dnt have be thankful to GOD cuz you are not sure of today..afterall u see Boyz and girls sleeping around unprotected and dnt get it and a virgin gets it. U see faithful partners getting it from unfaithful partners..

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