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Friday, 22 January 2016

R.Kelly reveals how he was sexually abused as a child by a female relative

Singer R.Kelly who in 2008 was found not guilty on 14 charges in a child pornography court case has revealed that he was sexually abused by a female relative at a young age. R.Kelly said that the abuse began when he was just 8 and continued up until his teenage years and the experience made him to start feeling horny and sexually active from a young age...



R.Kelly said it all started one day when he fell asleep in front of the TV and was awoken from “a crazy dream about Three's Company” to find a woman playing with him. Speaking to Chris Heath in an interview with GQ Magazine, he said:
''I tried to push her away, but she wouldn't stop until she was finished. When she was, she said, “You better not say shit to no one or else you gonna get a terrible whupping.”
He also revealed in the interview that a family friend also offered him money to masturbate him while he was younger and says the experience had a negative impact on his childhood.
“At first, I couldn't judge it,” “I remember it feeling weird. I remember feeling ashamed. I remember closing my eyes or keeping my hands over my eyes. I remember those things, but couldn't judge it one way or the other fully.”‘I, well, definitely forgive them. As I’m older, I look at it and I know that it had to be not just about me and them, but them and somebody older than them when they were younger. I looked at it as if there was a sort of like, I don’t know, a generational curse, so to speak,going down through the family.’
Asked why the generational curse didn’t pass down to him, Kelly replied that he ‘opted to break it’ but added that misunderstandings occurred as his song lyrics were ‘taken far too literally’.
"As I’m older, I’ve only learned to forgive it. Was it wrong? Absolutely. But it’s a family member that I love so I would definitely say no to that one. To be honest, even if my mom, I saw her kill somebody, I’m not gonna say, “Well, yeah, she definitely should go to jail.” It’s just something I wouldn’t do.’
at 1/22/2016 11:12:00 am

90 comments:

  1. JAYZSBOSS22 January 2016 at 11:12

    Wat a revelation

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    1. baba22 January 2016 at 11:20

      So sad super star DJBANTI said that

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    2. Unknown22 January 2016 at 11:28

      Who knew he had to pass true such callousness. Linda take note!

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    3. Anonymous22 January 2016 at 11:28

      Every body has a story to tell.Abi linda!

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    4. Unknown22 January 2016 at 11:38

      Eyaaa! * it's well*

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    5. NaijaDeltaBabe22 January 2016 at 11:39

      Almost everybody ve a similar story


      ...merited happiness

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    6. Anonymous22 January 2016 at 11:55

      That's not good enough

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    7. Golda Awosika22 January 2016 at 11:58

      Shit hapns bro







      #*karlishah*

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    8. Adaobilinda her sexcellency22 January 2016 at 12:10

      What a story he just revealed

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    9. Psalmuelle aka Samstone.22 January 2016 at 12:24

      Kpele. You're a conqueror.

      #LIB ADDICT#

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    10. Unknown22 January 2016 at 12:47

      A lesson learned "time heals" he can nw 4gv dem witout being ask to. #BacktoBack

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    11. Unknown22 January 2016 at 13:29

      Ndo

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    12. Unknown22 January 2016 at 13:41

      Oyaaa oo. More Instagram followers for you

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  2. Unknown22 January 2016 at 11:13

    Sorry

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    1. Unknown22 January 2016 at 11:33

      Painful experience

      LIB Next Rated!

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    2. tosisochukwu22 January 2016 at 11:36

      Me too I have my own story!


























































































      !brightosman aka fake phyno .#gerarahere

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  3. Anonymous22 January 2016 at 11:13

    Things changing!! Gat kip up

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    1. Unknown22 January 2016 at 11:32

      And cos of that he had to be a bloody paedophile?

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    2. Unknown22 January 2016 at 11:43

      Abeg help me ask am oooo

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    3. Unknown22 January 2016 at 11:43

      Abeg help me ask am oooo

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    4. Unknown22 January 2016 at 11:49

      Seem most black men were abused as kids sha..nawa

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    5. IWP22 January 2016 at 13:10

      Oooo why dem no abuse me at a young age...I for like m so much fun www.iwonpopular.com

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  4. Unknown22 January 2016 at 11:13

    Observed, stories that touch, with all humility and honesty I have feelings for Linda Ikeji and would sincerely wish to meet her in person this year as part of my resolution.

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    1. hrm paul ojeih22 January 2016 at 11:30

      I ned to give u a heads up and inform u dat linda can not be reached cuz she's engaged and any sinister plot u have bros forget it. Wetein u wan meet am for.as u dey comment for d blog dat one nevr do u her blog is a plat form to connect with her. Abi na cook or driver u wan do for am bros no vacancy Bonario don apply for cook aboki da wari boy na driver so no vacancy agbaya.if meeting people is ur new year resolution then people like boko haram will gladly host u Ashewo boy.

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    2. NneGal aka Linda post my Comments hahahaa22 January 2016 at 11:31

      Stay resolute hehehehe someday ul get to me her hahahaha

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    3. hrm paul ojeih22 January 2016 at 11:31

      I ned to give u a heads up and inform u dat linda can not be reached cuz she's engaged and any sinister plot u have bros forget it. Wetein u wan meet am for.as u dey comment for d blog dat one nevr do u her blog is a plat form to connect with her. Abi na cook or driver u wan do for am bros no vacancy Bonario don apply for cook aboki da wari boy na driver so no vacancy agbaya.if meeting people is ur new year resolution then people like boko haram will gladly host u Ashewo boy.

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  5. HUMBLE EVE22 January 2016 at 11:13

    Awww

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  6. Anonymous22 January 2016 at 11:13

    Story for the gods

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  7. Unknown22 January 2016 at 11:14

    Hmmmmmmm

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  8. Anonymous22 January 2016 at 11:15

    So many kind of these things go on unrecorded.

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  9. Unknown22 January 2016 at 11:15

    And that's why u decided to take revenge on innocent minors then abi? God ll Judge you..

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  10. YOUNGBUHARI22 January 2016 at 11:16

    Why all this revelation now.. Critics will see it as guilt

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  11. Genesis22 January 2016 at 11:16

    I'm one of your fan but its a lie, nobody rape you. You are just a 'dauda'.

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  12. Abu Dhabi22 January 2016 at 11:16

    Mtchewwww

    আবুধাবি প্রিন্স

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  13. Unknown22 January 2016 at 11:17

    Eyea, such a trauma. A lot of boys even girls are sexually abused daily by their supposed "relatives". Mothers ought to be very careful, really!

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  14. Unknown22 January 2016 at 11:17

    Oh my dear sorry.
    That female relative must be a Muslim cause all Muslims are terrorist and rapist.













    #sad indeed

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  15. Unknown22 January 2016 at 11:18

    sorry Rkelly, have no idea u went through this sh*t @ a tender age

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  16. Anonymous22 January 2016 at 11:18

    Hmmmmmm







    LINDA NOTIFY DBANJ

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  17. Pesin Pikin22 January 2016 at 11:19

    Awwww, how sad! Thank God he turned the table around

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  18. Unknown22 January 2016 at 11:19

    *yawns

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  19. BEAUTIFUL9JADELTA22 January 2016 at 11:20

    BEAUTIFUL9JADELTABABE.. ehh yah Pele r Kelly hmm anyway me am Justsayingmaownohh via ma LATEST TECNO F7.
    @lindaikeji d lindus am still waiting ohh

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  20. Anonymous22 January 2016 at 11:20

    Good for him

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  21. kunta22 January 2016 at 11:21

    Kels Is that y u abuse children too?

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  22. kunta22 January 2016 at 11:21

    Kels Is that y u abuse children too?

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  23. Anonymous22 January 2016 at 11:22

    thats y he's paying back...abi


    nonsense


    meenah_wakil on instagram

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  24. Anonymous22 January 2016 at 11:22

    thats y he's paying back...abi


    nonsense


    meenah_wakil on instagram

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  25. Unknown22 January 2016 at 11:22

    okay na.....

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  26. Unknown22 January 2016 at 11:25

    Story


















    #she'sunique#

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  27. Tina Collins22 January 2016 at 11:31

    Now we knw.....

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  28. I B M bolubantin22 January 2016 at 11:32

    Don't ever judge a man...

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  29. Anonymous22 January 2016 at 11:33

    And why is he just revealing it now??? What prompted the rev?

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  30. Unknown22 January 2016 at 11:49

    Na wah o,,,,, crazy relatives.





    #Linda'spal

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  31. mudi X22 January 2016 at 11:55

    Chei na wah.. Get over it.

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  32. Unknown22 January 2016 at 11:56

    Chei...#LindaConfirm

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  33. mudi X22 January 2016 at 11:58

    So, but dat Rumour dat U(Robert kelly) still go yansh one minor is f**ked up...bcos there is an element of truth in every rumours..abi. D evidence where substantials sha n but i dey suspect U

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  34. MUSICIAN22 January 2016 at 11:59

    Well I went through the same tang and that's why I so much love hitting that stuff..you know wah I'm saying..EOD!

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  35. Luciana Chinda22 January 2016 at 12:22

    Story story story.

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  36. Luciana Chinda22 January 2016 at 12:23

    Story story story.

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  37. DAUGHTER _ OF _ A _ SOMEBODY...22 January 2016 at 12:23

    Grand pa is trying to promote his new album.









    I didn't type this fa' it just popped out...

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  38. Unknown22 January 2016 at 12:27

    Pele nna
    -D great anonymous now as Vivian Reginalds

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  39. Dan22 January 2016 at 12:28

    Eyah kpelle

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  40. Unknown22 January 2016 at 12:34

    Even me sef pass through that trauma at age 6 by a relative of 20+ But I actually enjoyed it back then sha...turn me to baddoski

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  41. Unknown22 January 2016 at 12:35

    We al ve our difft story of yarn#Lindangwanu#

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  42. Unknown22 January 2016 at 12:44

    WETIN HIM WANT ME STANLEY DO? OMALICHA LI EM

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  43. Anonymous22 January 2016 at 12:53

    nah lie ! nah lie !nah lie !nah lie !nah lie !nah lie !nah lie !nah lie !nah lie !nah lie !nah lie !nah lie !nah lie !nah lie !nah lie !nah lie !nah lie !nah lie !nah lie !

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  44. IWP22 January 2016 at 13:11

    Rkelly wish he could go bck to age 8 gain n enjoy the abuse lol omo wwhy dem no abuse me sef at a young age I for de happy like dis cos I for don bang mny pple mama taya
    Www.iwonpopular.com

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  45. Unknown22 January 2016 at 13:39

    well, so unfortunate, but judging from the child-abuse n pornography case thereafter, am tempted to relate this incident; was he psychological assessed and cured, its related pls

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  46. Unknown22 January 2016 at 13:40

    well, so unfortunate, but judging from the child-abuse n pornography case thereafter, am tempted to relate this incident; was he psychological assessed and cured, its related pls

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  47. Unknown22 January 2016 at 13:40

    well, so unfortunate, but judging from the child-abuse n pornography case thereafter, am tempted to relate this incident; was he psychological assessed and cured, its related pls

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  48. Linda's daughter aka Nwa Linda22 January 2016 at 13:53

    Lmao nawao like he didn't enjoy it ta

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  49. Unknown22 January 2016 at 13:54

    Why saying it now.

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  50. Unknown22 January 2016 at 14:01

    Every body has a story to tell.Abi linda!

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  51. Unknown22 January 2016 at 14:37

    Oh that's sad!

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  52. Unknown22 January 2016 at 14:40

    Soo sad...

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  53. Unknown22 January 2016 at 14:50

    Super story...


    #FINEST

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  54. Eddy Ogbunambala 22 January 2016 at 15:03

    Ok

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  55. Unknown22 January 2016 at 15:45

    we ol got story to tell....

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  56. Unknown22 January 2016 at 15:59

    Things happen shaa.

    Rapuluchukwuifenineadigommakings@yahoo.com
    Direct from Delsu.

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  57. Anonymous22 January 2016 at 16:57

    It's aii boo. I totally relate

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  58. Unknown22 January 2016 at 17:00

    That's sad

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  59. Unknown22 January 2016 at 18:07

    *dancin why are you fucking lying *












    Enugu's second shoe designer

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  60. Unknown22 January 2016 at 19:21

    Quite some old memories this confessions stir up in me. I share almost same story-line. My life was never the same after my experiences! Wish so much I could turn back the hands of time like R. Kelly. I do absolutely understand him more right now after reading this.

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  61. Unknown22 January 2016 at 19:21

    Quite some old memories this confessions stir up in me. I share almost same story-line. My life was never the same after my experiences! Wish so much I could turn back the hands of time like R. Kelly. I do absolutely understand him more right now after reading this.

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  62. Unknown22 January 2016 at 22:02

    Ok

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  63. Graciejay22 January 2016 at 22:44

    Too bad!

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  64. Unknown22 January 2016 at 23:31

    LOL BABA'S HORNY SWITCH WAS TUNRED ON AT 8. BROS YA PREEK DON EXPERIENCE LIFE SHA.

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  65. Anonymous23 January 2016 at 01:10

    Finally, a confirmation of my suspicion! A pity though. No child should go through such. But he and others like him have always promoted deviant and immoral behaviour in their songs and lifestyle and yet have been in denial. Fans hail them instead of censuring them so that they could change. Same story with Michael Jackson, Madonna, lady gaga, miley cyrus, etc. Victims of abuse express their damaged psyche and stolen innocence in some depraved or deviant way, including homosexuality and lesbianism. They need the Gospel for salvation and wholeness.

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  66. Anonymous23 January 2016 at 01:10

    Finally, a confirmation of my suspicion! A pity though. No child should go through such. But he and others like him have always promoted deviant and immoral behaviour in their songs and lifestyle and yet have been in denial. Fans hail them instead of censuring them so that they could change. Same story with Michael Jackson, Madonna, lady gaga, miley cyrus, etc. Victims of abuse express their damaged psyche and stolen innocence in some depraved or deviant way, including homosexuality and lesbianism. They need the Gospel for salvation and wholeness.

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  67. Anonymous23 January 2016 at 08:36

    If na man do am na dem go say men are wicked. Now woman did it na 'sorry' 'awww'

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  68. Pearlie23 January 2016 at 09:33

    Ehyaa.. so sad

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