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Monday 9 November 2015

Bisi Alimi talks about how homophobic Nigerians have prevented him from seeing his parents for 8 years

Openly gay LGBT advocate and On air social/political commentator, Bisi Alimi has lamented about not being able to see his parents since he left the shores of the country due to persecution. He said he hasn't seen his parents in 8 years and misses them a lot. Read his post..



132 comments:

  1. Yeye person, who dey pursue you kwanu??? Na your deeds and conscience dey judge you. Linda take note!

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  2. Yeye person, who dey pursue you kwanu??? Na your deeds and conscience dey judge you. Linda take note!

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  3. This gay mofo..die already. We prevented u from seeing them here, we also prevented u from flying her over there yh? Faggish scumbag

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  4. Why cant his parents go and see him.
    Is anyone stopping them from going to see him?
    Bloody attention seeker

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  5. He made a choice and he has to live with it for the rest of his life.

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  6. If he can't come to Nigeria to see his parents, he should arrange for his parents to come to the UK and see him. He would always look for ways to get attention.



















    #TeamBlessed#

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  7. Bisi pls shut up,if u rili wanted 2 c ur parents,u r bouyant enuf 2 fly dem both out 2 c u evn if its 4 1wk.so wil u jst stop makin plenty noise

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  8. Awww...quite touching.. But you can fly them abroad right?cos trust me,homophobia isn't leaving Nigeria anytime soon

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  9. Oga if u can't go to nigeria u invite ur parents to see u in uk. Stop disturbing us with ur disgusting stories. We will never subdue to western devilish ways. My people don't want ur type until you repent and accept Christ

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  10. Mtcheww! Gay or no Gay, if you can't come, invite them to visit you by sponsoring trip. Abi u no get money ni? Rubbish post looking for attention, so dat people Can debate on ur wall.

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  11. This boy should stop raving & ranting joor like he's the only gay that's been to hell & come back.If u want to see ya parent,how about u buy em ticket to go see you? Quit the blame game & self pity syndrome abeggi

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  12. Nonsense!!! If you are afraid to come to Nigeria, can't you ask them to visit you wherever you are? Trying to look for pity......

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  13. epiphany(generationnextcentre@yahoo.com)9 November 2015 at 06:51

    His head is homo-crazy....If he has balls,let him take the next flight to Nigeria ....mtschew

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  14. Where u denied visa...idiot

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  15. Story..if you want to see them..you must definitely can

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  16. Wait ! U r missing ur parents and u r gay. Can't u tink well and b like ur parents, dey gave birth to u. Y dnt u wanna v kids like dem???? Oloshi ni eeeeee. God punish u

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  17. Abeg he shld rest, he chose his path, so he wasn't aware ppl will talk? Well if he's still pondering on what ppl said or will say, that means he's not ready to live his life





















    #It WiLL oNLy gEt beTTer
    #IT mUsT eNd in PrAisE

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  18. Does ur reasoning at night also tells u dat u should change ur status and stop been gay? You re nt ready to see ur parents den.

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  19. There are openly gay people in Nigeria, case in point Derenle, this n*gga needs to stop playing the victim and own up to the reason why he hasn't come home!

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  20. Do visa for them... And stop shouting on social media... Ode

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  21. gerarahere!.. for real mehmn! .. u never see any thing.. u no get money carry ur mama go obodo oyibo make she for follow u enjoy life!.. yeye de smell jaree!..

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  22. And visa too hard to get where he is for them too ba ?? make e kontinu na ode omo

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  23. Linda haven't u had that Nigerian UN-17 has did it again? Pls bring the news on, well they beat their Malian counterparts 2-o. #THAT AKWA IBOM BOY#

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  24. Well why don't you invite them over to yours? Parents visit their kids anywhere they live even if it's travelling from Lagos to Ibadan. If you feel your life is in danger in Nigeria which I find hard to believed, then buy their tickets! I find it hard to imagine people will be waiting to hack you at the airport. There are some guys in mind you know...

    Pumpkin

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  25. Rubbish. Visitation is two way. Cnt u get them to come visit u instead. Pls gerrout frm here mk I start my day well. Blessed week evryone.

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  26. Den choose. Maybe she shld come over n see u

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  27. You can get them visa and pay for their tickets to visit you in England. Why do have to be so bitter always. No one hates you more than you hate yourself. Be at peace.

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  28. Liar liar pants on fire.tell the truth you no get ticket money

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  29. He has seen anything yet, he shud invite his parents over coz I don't tink he will ever enter dis country nt after all d insults he has insulted naija, if his parents wr fags will dey v given birth 2 him, Bisi better embrace CHRIST!

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  30. Oga invite them over naw abi u should come back home n visit them y are u telling us stories that touch d heart

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  31. IDIOT!!!. SO YOU R SO BROKE YOU CAN'T FLY THEM OVER TO SEE YOUR BURNT ASS??

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  32. IDIOT!!!. SO YOU R SO BROKE YOU CAN'T FLY THEM OVER TO SEE YOUR BURNT ASS??

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  33. If truly u miss dem n u wnt to see dem dat much u cld get dem visa n pay for their flight ticket.they can visit u wereva u r.stop seekin for pple's sympathy n empathy

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  34. You are just a sick fellow.

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  35. I don't understand...is his life being threatened? Why will anyone want to kill him because he is gay. O boy, go home and visit your parents I think things have changed considerably since you left(I'm guessing since 8 years ago).

    If you are out there trying to kill a human being because you don't believe in their lifestyle then you need to be reminded that you are not God!!!

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  36. Ode......U knw the right thing to do if u want to see dem..Nonsense..trying to draw public sympathy for ur mumu attitude.mttssewww

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  37. Mumu, you dug your hole lie in it. Did you consult your parents before you make your decision? Yes it's your choice to be gay or straight but Nigeria have already decided too.

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  38. U don't hv to see dem as long as u sending them pounds, they don't need u around.

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  39. oga come home and see your parents and stop seeking attention, Nigerians are too occupied to chase you if they see, who sabi you self?

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  40. We love u bisi. Unfortunately, no matter how you try to recreate you sexual disposition, in Africa, it's against not just our culture but our way of life. Sorry Bro. Can't imagine my son, sib, or friend been gay.

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  41. Fuck Off.
    Ur folks have never miss u.

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  42. Hahahahahhaha,stop blaming nigerians,ur parents don't want to see u either cos u have shamed them,if not,what happens to inviting them over,to see u......hahhahahahaa

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  43. If you miss your parents so much why don't you invite them over to wherever you are?

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  44. Send them ticket money and let them pay you a visit. Life is not that hard

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  45. a.k.a EDWIN CHINEDU AZUBUKO said...
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    But this nigga is wicked o... Come and see ur parent abeg no one is stopping yu....
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    ***CURRENTLY IN JUPITER***

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  46. This man don de craze join his gay wahala?

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  47. Coman die now
    Foolish somebody!

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  48. Who stopped them from flying to UK?
    Who stopped you from paying for their flight biko?
    Who are familiar with them at MMA?

    Please let's hear word mr. Attention seeking kid.

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  49. Biko send her an invite to the UK. If you could just shut the 'front door' and stop shouting about how you're gay from the roof tops, you really could come to naija and visit you know? But it's the basis of your asylum application, so I guess you should stick to your story about how you'll be killed in naija etc


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    1. Exactly. My thoughts too. Smh. I bet his parents don't wanna see him else they should have travelled to London to see him. Its either he is broke to pay 4 their visa and flight or his mum has sworn not to see him again. Stop playing this asylum gay trick. Nobody really cares about u. We are all being struggling to feed our families, so no1 has the time to look 4 u and gun u down if u come to Nig. We really don't care about you Bisi

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  50. Who stopped them from traveling to the UK?

    Who stopped you from paying for their flight tickets?

    Attention seeking kid

    No place for homosexuality here

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  51. Dude get them a ticket to the UK.

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  52. And who is stopping them from traveling to the UK?
    Mumu boy

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  53. Ode...abaya....come to nigeria na! Who stop u? Make u enter kirikiri

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  54. U r very stupid fo blaming decent n sane pple fo ur insanity n shameful life. U choose to abandon ur mom(parents) d moment u decide to go against wat ur religion, country n evn d principles n beliefs of d mother u claim to live n miss stand for. Ewu, useless son of d devil. God punish u n ol oda perverts like u out there. Tufia!

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  55. Abeg go back to school ....so many grammar errors, i had a headache from reading

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    1. Lol. No he won't. Cuz he is too busy enjoy d! €k. Lol

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  56. Fly them out to come see you, wherever you are. #problem solved#

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  57. Fly them to wherever you are so you can see them and stop this pathetic sympathy appeal.

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  58. Go and get help. Homosexuals Lesbians Transgender Bisexuals Pedophiles are all mental illnesses nothing more nothing less so please you all should seek help and stop fooling yourselves. You don't have to be naked on the streets before you are mentally ill. As you can have sickness of the body in various forms so can you have sickness of the brain in various forms. So Bisi or whatever it is you call yourself out of sheer concern please seek help.

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  59. Then he should send for them to come over na


    That vuvuuzela P guy

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  60. Come back my g!!

    We go too machete you eh!!

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  61. Lol. His message seems like everybody cares. Sorry Bisi, nobody cares. We have bigger problems here , trying to care about our families and working hard. Whether or not you see ur mum, is not our business . If the prize u had to pay 4 leaving ur family and not seeing them for 8 years was to let a white man "d|€¥" u, then that's none of our business. Quit putting messages out there like people care about u. We actually don't sorry. I hope u can afford ur parents visa fee and flight tickets so that they can travel to London to see you. Ask ur man to pay if u can't. Stop complaining about easy issues that are solvable by you. Thanks

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  62. He doesn't want to see them because I know he has a choice of inviting them over. Cheap emotional blackmail.

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  63. idiot dnt come soil this land with ur abomination, jst stay where u re

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  64. Manipulation in Social Engineering
    Manipulation is less about making others think like you do and making them feel comfortable, and more about coercing them to do what you want.

    Coercion is not a friendly word. It means “to force to act or think in a certain manner” or “to dominate, restrain, or control by force.”

    Manipulation and coercion use psychological force to alter the ideology, beliefs, attitudes, and behaviors of the target. The key to using them is to make the steps so small they are almost invisible. The social engineer doesn’t want to alert the target his being manipulated. Some of the following methods may be very controversial and downright horrible, but they are used each day by scammers, identity thieves, and the like. One of the goals of manipulation can be to create anxiety, stress and undue social pressure. When a target feels that way he is more likely to take an action the social engineer is manipulating them to take.

    With that in mind, you can see why manipulation is often thought of in a negative light, but it is used in social engineering and therefore must be discussed.

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  65. Shut the f**k up. Nobody is stopping you from coming to Nigeria. The way u portray Nig pple will think gay pple are slaughtered. Lots of gay pple move around nothing happens to them. Denrele moves everywhere with his long colourful braids and 6 inch heels, we still love him . So Bisi get a life abeg.

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  66. So u miss them ba? Who send u??
    ~D great anonymous!

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  67. We don hear, we won't change our minds! Next!

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  68. He is a fool, who is stopping him from seeing his parents. He should just say his conscience is judging him

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  69. Nawa o, this Bisi guy, what does he do for a living apart for what we all know hin for? If u r so scared of coming to Nigeria, can't u fly them to wherever u r? If seeing them is d issue, guy, arrange for them to go visit u where u r n stop ranting on social media looking for self pity over what u brought upon yourself. Since they hv come to love n respect u, they can share d same flat with u n your partner for some weeks!

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  70. Mr man keep your gay ass away from Nigeria.

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  71. You want the whole country to go against God's word? Read your bible bro and pray to God for deliverance!

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  72. So y hav u not invited them to come see u

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  73. You can see them if you bring them over to the UK sweetheart stop all this drama biko!

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  74. Heya!! He should invite his parents to visit him abroad na

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  75. This guy is a goat....who get him time

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  76. Awful! Awful!!! I mean, his parents should be dying of shame right now... LGBT# in the name of Jesus ll not win in Nigeria..... all Caits' community ll die by fire!

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    1. No mind d Mumu...he can't even afford to fly 'em over. Always ranting! Wet pants!

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    2. broke ass.u can't even fly ur parents over.

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  78. Bisi alimi...are you that broke? I dnt think yure ready to see them yet if not yu'll pay for their travel expense to see yu.

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  79. Is this guy a fool??if yu are afraid to go see them , get visit visa for her naa..abi dem sha don gve yu paper..like say its still not the same family members that he is running away from.bastard

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    1. Don't mind him. They dont wanna see him

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  80. Mr Alimi, you never wan see your Mamah and Papa.
    If you want, you go come see them. No dey feel like say anybody know your face. Even if you stroll pass here, we no go know say na you. We no go dey snap you picture like Don Jazzy. And as long as you no do your homo homo things here, you go stay finish dey go back your base. You hear me so??



    Sincerely speaking the mind of Amadioha

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  81. Liar
    Homos are moving freely in Nigeria

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  82. So u can't sponsor their trip? Ask ur gay partners to raise u money to help them holiday in London. Pls don't think of coming to Nigeria. Onye uchu! Ur life style is illegal. Pls change!

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  83. So u can't sponsor their trip? Ask ur gay partners to raise u money to help them holiday in London. Pls don't think of coming to Nigeria. Onye uchu! Ur life style is illegal. Pls change!

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  84. This Bisi guy is seeking attention again. If you really want to see your parents and you know you cannot come over to see them, why don't you arrange British visas for them so they can come see you, what is all this rant again, abeg gerarahere bo.

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  85. Keep quiet you gay!
    M. Odekina of Total E&P is waiting to take you to the candy shop whenever you come back home.

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    1. Lmao. Take u to candy shop just like fifty did to soulja boy. Lwkmd

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  86. If your parent were gay u wouldnt be on this earth, buy them tickets and stop ranting ..........NEXT PLS

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  87. but you can fly her down to where you are or even Dubia. Take that route nao.

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  88. The very question u should have ask ur self before u turn ur self to animal that eat it's fellow animal, and again, if u love ur parents this much, u should have consider how they will feel, I can't even emerging the truism they most have gone trough, they are still ur parents, why won't they forgives u? With all the disgrace, humiliation and all, what is there to lose again? they were forced to accept u, u are already a lost soul, and if u so wish to see them, u can do the right thing by arranging their papers to come over there and see u, or are u broke too? I don't think so, U can't be witch and poor at the same time, as for this our Nigeria ; Hmmm, don't think am o, is unacceptable to us, we can accept anything in the world but not this, I don't hate u o, but for ur own good stay permanent there, looking for sympathy will not change a thin, all I have for u is pity, hope u receive Jesus soon before is too late.

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  89. Sponsor them to go see u there! Are u trying to conjure our sympathy with that,cos it ain't working,whats wrong is wrong!

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  90. Sponsor them to go see u there! Are u trying to conjure our sympathy with that,cos it ain't working,whats wrong is wrong!

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  91. Its totally unacceptable in our culture and religion. He can stay for Hundred years for i care.

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  92. LIB readers should stop commenting on any gay post by Linda, especially this dude. The attention we give to the post keeps the post coming. Save our children from this disgusting act. God bless Nigeria

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  93. Lol. Why are people so deluded? Who knows this Bufoon? Dude come see them,we dont even know what you look like. Or better still,fly them over. So all of ur anus busting still never get you enough money to pay flight tickets? You see your life?

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  94. Ur parents self ar ashamed of u bastard

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  95. Well, that's the price you have to pay for the choice you made naa.

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  96. After all the abuse and rants you throw on Nigerian's now you are using indirect way to appeal that you want to come see your parents. Chai come na Oya come I don't know you but trust me nemesis will catch up with you if you come

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  97. Ur parents self ar ashamed of u bastard

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  98. Mtcheeeeew! Shameless guy...arrant nonsense

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  99. Hello Bisi,
    I respect you as a human beign but I think you are just seeking attention. Why not achieve it by doing something productive like most young Nigerians who are even your juniors are doing. Nobody knows your face here.
    grow up

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  100. i really do not understand all this - if his parents were gay wld he be alive today????? its quite unsettling that peeps r turning LGBT but it is very horrible when they wanna start adopting kids ....... i draw the line there..... while i try not to dwell too much on d subject, i think this ''trend'' is fast becoming pandemic in a very subtle way and no Mr LGBT u cannot be a ''deeply religious person'' and be poking another man's asshole. shit comes out of there so what r u looking for inside there.

    the world is going to shit and only God in His infinite mercies can save this age.

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  101. There is always a way...If you cannot come to nigeria to visit your parents,then invite them over to visit you. As simple as A B C....Except there's another reason for visiting nigeria. Shikena

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  102. Faggy boy trying to be relevant. Seems like this gaylord thinks his some kind of celeb or some important personality??? We ain't got your time Punk. We have a lot to worry about in this country

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  103. He needs to shut the fuck up and stay the hell away

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  104. I don't understand u people talking about flying the parents over to the UK. Una consider the fact say the parents fit no wan see am at all becos of his unnatural illness?

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  105. Young man or young or what ever you call you self. Do seek unnecessary empathy here. if you really want to see your parents, I am sure you have made enough money in the UK to be able to invite them. It's either you do not really want to see them or they do not want to associate with you. period. Stop crying wolf on the internet.

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  106. Satanic worshipper. Your parents now love you because of the pound sterling you are sending them. They can,t come to u because they will not be welcomed back to nigeria. Neighbours will flee because they will be stinking .

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  107. Shut the fuck up and stop looking for sympathy, if u like post the pix of ur parents and ancestors its not gonna change a thing. Fly them over there to come and see ur fellow man banging u let me see how they'll feel, lost soul.

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  108. invite them to london now to meet their inlaw. must you come to nigeria

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  109. who sent u message na? Yeye boy! Dey there dey bomb English language! Maybe u were molested by a guy as a child. Just confess and see a psyche.
    P.S. How can u come back when all u do is blast Nigeria? People dey wait u for airport if u ever dare return. They go lynch u!

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  110. He should rather ask his stupid self if his so called partner's 'yash' is too sweet that he cannot give it up to regain his family's love and that of God....

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  111. O churu onwe ya, n'ugbo si na Ugbo eruteghi ya.Nwanna,nobori chased you from Nigeria,and with d look of things ur parents don't want to see u either.
    Ur decision:ur problem.
    OYO iis your case.

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  112. Aroko yor osi!..... Olorii bu jati jati!

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  113. Your parents are not happy with you self

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  114. ut are bent on doing what you like whether it prevents you from seeing them or not, you don't give a damn provided you get satisfaction from it and you are happy. Have you thought to yourself whether truly deep down, your parents are happy about your decision not to remain the natural way God gave you to them? They're only accepting you cos they know that you're an adult so you won't listen to them as your parent. Be true to yourself and bring down your selfish self and humbly ask them to tell you their mind deep down. Tell them you love and want them to be happy. Tell them their happiness is your happiness and you'll hear the truth. And then, if you truly love and miss them and really want to see them again happy and in good health, you'll return to the natural way you were brought into this world buy your parents and denounce that evil association and return to Nig to be able to see your parents again and make them truly happy once again. Until then stop all those pushing blames face the life you've created for yourself out of selfish ambition. Don't think your parents don't
    know. They're just applying wisdom to be able to live on and
    not die cos of your betrayal. A word is enough for the wise.

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