Dear LIB readers: Should I punish the girl sleeping with my husband?
From a female LIB reader
My husband is cheating on me with a girl that stays somewhere in the
South-South part of Nigeria. She keeps sending him nude photos of
herself. I want to post it (i.e the nude photos of the girl dating my
husband) on Facebook (with an unknown facebook I.D and tag her) Please help
me ask my fellow LIB readers what they think. Because I think we married
women should start disgracing the single b***ch*s that do not want to
leave our husbands alone.
Like seriously?! She probably dsnt know d dog is a married man. He's sent her his nude pics too so she'll also post his own. You better train d dragon you have at home. Mscheww
My dear I would do it for laughs and then find a way to embezzle from him cos clearly there is alot of excess money for him to afford another woman in his life , so my dear get paid and have a laugh at the same time ( life is too short ). No one needs to knw Wat happened
See your mouth like "should I punish the girl..." (I know the pic up is a random one btw) Is it not your randy hubby your supposed to face with your soo called "punishment"?? Or he's a saint abi??? Who knows what your hubby might have told her? I'm not in any way condoning whatever might be going on between them, but who knows what your hubby might have told her?? For all u know u don't even exist to her! So deal with your hubby first or should I say rather, cos I can bet he was the one that went chasing her up.
What a shame that We (SO called Nigerian Chirstian People) would scoop so low. If you have the balls disgrace her on Facebook using your own account! Do not be a chicken and weak minded woman to hide behind an anonymous facebook profile. Does the girl know you are married? Have you contacted her on a personal level to introduce yourself to her? You only know of one girl, can there be other girls scattered around Nigeria that your husband is sleeping/dating/toasting/fathering child(ren) with? So to keep your MRS ceriticate you would scoops do low to outst another woman who may not know you exist so you can pretend to yourself that your husband is the good person in all of this. YOU ARE DEFINITELY AN IDIOT!
maybe your husband told her he was single. Why don't you expose him first before you start exposing someone who may be innocent and has also been deceived by your philandering husband.
Madam, Shebi u want to hand ur husband over to that girl ni? If u push her into keeping him for ever nko? Work on yasef and ya husband. Abi u neva see wer side chick dey beat madam wey get husband ni? The chick is not ya problem, ya husband is. The chick might not even know he is married.... pray and fast that she does not have a child with him. And u say south south? Hope nor be uniben or uniport babe ni....
I do not agree with adultery on any level, but if people feel the other party is to blame you're only fooling yourself. You think it will stop there? Shio! No one is trying to wreck your home more than your husband. People should stop branding the other woman as home wreckers because your husband is the #1 home wrecker, if his eyes does not wander, your home will be intact
if i were you, i will call her and talk to her, who knows what your stupid husband told her that maybe he is not married , divorced or maybe his wife has died. they cn say anything to go out with a girl. and for the girl to be sending her nude pix to your husband means there is something really serious between them. the fault is your husband and not the girl. let the poor girl be. deal with your ashawo husband period.
STFU!!! You know how men are, and how unfortunately they can't resist temptation. Why should women constantly put demselves in d position whereby they have to betray other women???
MUMU go ahead and scatter your marriage. You never see where girlfriend dey beat yeye wife wen no get sense. I guess this man has one small change that is why you want to kill yourself. Shior SMH. Don't go and curb your useless husband with his wandering dick.
Ur husband is a useless man if not why is he still keeping d nude pix on his phone. She did not force her self on ur husband. So dnt even post d pix on Facebook if u dnt want to look as stupid as d girl
I'm sure you're an unmarried pained hoe... who are you referring to as'you married women' may God let you experience the pain of being cheated on when you get married that is if ever you get married... miserable harlot... useless thing
It's a pity shameless married couple now goto social media to tell the world about their problems. Madam you complain about your husband, have you sat to ask yourself why is he cheating on me? Where have I gone wrong? Is it my fault? Am I meeting up with my wifely duties? Men cheat even from the days of abraham/david. You should pray for him and stop dis gracing your home. It's a shame you thought of that. Go and ask your mom how she went about staying this long with your father or an elder that has been married for many years. If you are not a prayerful wife the devil will dwell in your home. So pls public is not the answer, respect your home and do the right thing. For those that a saying go ahead, if your marriage ends will they marry you? Will they be there for you? So stop making people see the reason why. His cheating, I just did...
My opinion? 1. The girl may not know your husband is married. 2. posting her nude pics is madness not good idea 3. if you need to punish anyone, start with your husband. 4. Ask yourself, while you were single, did u date married men? if yes, then don't border. That is called karma. If no, then pray about it and devote more time for your husband. Give it time, it will pass. (I never dated a married man even when i had all the reasons to. Today am married and happy. 7 years plus, my husband has never cheated and am grateful to God)
I AM SICK OF PATHETIC WIVES WHINING ABOUT THEIR'S HUSBANDS GIRLFRIENDS, MISTRESSES OR WHATEVER. FACT IS THAT YOUR 'HUSBAND' IS MOST LIKELY A LIAR AND REPRESENTS HIMSELF AS SINGLE, SEPARATED OR DIVORCED TO OTHER WOMEN. SO PLEASE GROW UP AND ATTACK YOUR HUSBAND INSTEAD. HE IS THE ONE CHEATING ON YOU. IF ANYTHING HE IS THE ONE WHO YOU HAVE A CONTRACT WITH. THE TRUTH OF THE MATTER IS, IF IT IS NOT THAT GIRL, IT WILL BE ANOTHER GIRL....THERE WILL ALWAYS BE ANOTHER GIRL, WILL YOU GO AND ATTACK THEM ALL...DEAL WITH YOUR HUSBAND....IF HE WERE GOOD, THERE WOULD BE NO GIRLS TO FIGHT WITH!! REALITY CHECK SWEETIE.
Has it ever occurred to you that your husband made a vow to you? He should respect you. Has it Occurred to you that your husband may have lied to that girl? Has occurred to you that your actions may implicate you? Do you know if the girl has naked shots of your husband? What if she posts them as retaliation? What if she exposes him at the office and he looses his job? I laugh when married women see the heavy need to "fight" the girl but mention nothing of their husbands. Why? ur hubby will always continue his ways knowing that you cannot do anything to him. As far as he's concerned, he will keep sleeping around and you will keep fighting. I'm don't encourage sleeping with married folk but at the same time, I don't encourage fighting without a plan. Better start to encourage your husband to write a will, focus on your children's future, save money, buy properties in your mother's name, avoid drama, don't let yourself look like a looser. Stay classy. However, when anybody wants to insult you, walk up to them, say nothing,beat their ass up!
I am a girl, not yet married and I support u, go ahead and post them nude pics on FB, twitter and IG if possible, these girls need to learn some lessons. My opinion
@Anon 11:25AM ask am o, it's not rape so u can say yes or no. Jeeez ladies, let's be helpers to our fellow ladies and turn these dogs who can't keep their thing in their pants down.
Gbam I love this, karma is a bitch, biko free the gurl and go give your hubby some hot fucking dat would blow his mind biko dont bpre us with this crap, no be today ass dey back
@ Beng sharap u don't know these men if u like give him a BJ all day, every week, every month, send nudies, bend n touch ur toe, be slim, be beautiful, don't nag, take very good care of urself, wear d sexiest lingerie, a useless man(dog) that wants to cheat will still cheat. So just sharap there and don't say what u don't know. It takes the grace/fear of God and a man who really doesn't want to cheat and decides not to cheat to be faithful.
Am not justifying the girls action...is it the girl you should blame or your husband....what is he going to look for single ladies for when he is married...maybe d chic doesn't know he is married.... try confronting your husband tooo..not only the girl
I think you should go ahead and do it. It would embarrass the girl and send a clear message worldwide that such things have humiliating consequences. However, note that there is also a consequence to you as well, because, it would not stop your husband from cheating. Ask yourself the relevant questions and take responsibility for your home prayerfully and truthfully, because I have come to realize that most people pray but don't pray sincerely and truthfully so there is no freedom/breakthrough/answer. While many reasons exist, I have come to realize that some women who claim their husbands cheat know why, but are not prepared to make the necessary changes in their personality and behavior to give the man no room for excuses. They always go around saying, no matter what the man should not cheat. They use this as a license to add unnecessary weight and all what not. In many cases, when they cannot blame the man they blame the children for scattering all their alignment. Thank God for people like Kim Kardashian that have shown that child birth is no excuse for misalignment. Most women who their husbands cheat have always known from day one when, how, where and for what reasons their husband would cheat yet they still married the man, in many cases they used all manner of manipulation to rope the man into the marriage.
Anonymous 11:25, you shut the fuck up, so men's adultery should be condoned but the single ladies having sex with married men should be punished? Last time I checked, the man was the one that took a vow to be faithful to his wife nd not the girl, so don't say trash here about women putting themselves in position whereby they hurt other women, that's BS!
Heehee Heehee, my neighbours dog also caught it's partner cheating on it too, nw it's frustrated and doesn't want to eat it's meal... I can tell a story too. story tellers. Anyway, it's fun, just watching pple comment... nice one
YOU ARE BRAINLESS, THE GIRL HAS NOTHING TO DO WITH YOU , IT IS YOUR HUSBAND FAULT , YOUR HUSBAND GO TO THIS GIRL , SO YOU NEED TO FIGHT YOUR HUSBAND NOT THE GIRL.
My sister all men cheat just focus on ur children if u hv any. N try as much as possible 2see u get sm tangible thing from him dat can help u n ur kids in future. Cos we can't predite Wat dy can do
why do i have a feeling this lady is talking about some1 i know, madam dont even try yourself oh else..... i reserve my comments try it first den u will know dat dere r crazy ass bitches out there, when d useless man u took a vow wit broke it cuz he isnt a disciplined mofo. lv d marriage naa if e dn taya u
If you must do that, then be prepared to also wash your dirty family linens in public, which could attract other deadly flies... Prayerfully check to know why he acts that way, and hold up your family as the pillar that you are.
If you must, then get ready to deal with more deadly flies as you was your dirty family linen in public. Prayerfully find out why he's looking outside, and hold it together as a pillar that you are... Best regards
It has happened to someone I know. The woman posted nude pics of the girl on Twitter. The husband divorced the wife and is gonna marry the girl. Harsh retaliation doesn't make us better.
Lol, exposing these girl is not the best option, the girl you want to expose might not know that your hubby is married although is not a guarantee for her to send such pix even though he is single, but bear in mind that some girls has lost their sense of thinking and has no shame over nakedness, probably she might be a whore who uses her nude pix to make money, if she is such type do you think she we feel bad if she sees her naked pix in the internet? And you never can tell if she is paid to destroy your home with such plan pls my advice is leave everything to God nd try and talk to your husband and you as a wife should do your part I believe things we work out. Goodluckkkkkkkk.
Bump.....you nailed it. She left the husband betraying her and wants to deal with a stranger. Deal with the one beside you there, sharing a bed with you.....that's the person you should deal with. That stranger owes you no loyalty.....its the one that took a vow with you that owes you loyalty.
I hope the said woman reads this comment... And am not asking for any judgment from LIB readers. I am a single girl and dating a married man for 2yrs now. I am aware he sleeps with other girls but am the girlfriend. I also not proud to say this. Like I said it is an opinion. He talks to me about his wife (positively) and loves her so much. He loves me too. That I know. He's a good man. But then there are certain things we discuss ( business and pleasure) that he wouldn't have his wife know. I honestly don't want to break up the marriage, in fact I am strongly behind it. He has helped me I school and made me be a better person. Crazy right?. The wife doesn't have to know. What am trying to say is that as long as he is treating you right and taking care of his responsibilities amicably don't stress it. I'm not saying it's right but have u thought of what is really going on. This man asked me out on Facebook and was completely honest with me. So the relationship a mutual agreement. I send nudes to him likewise himself. We do video calls and talk regularly. He has been good to both his wife and myself. Infact most of the gifts he gets his wife I picked them out and it turns out she loves them. He is aware I respect his marriage and he's not planning on ever taking a second wife. He wants me to be successful and have a family someday. To cut the story short we r just friends for benefits. Woman make friends with the girl and let her make u know the things she does that takes ur husband away from u to her cod there's something about her that he finds peaceful especially if u find out she's the constant "bitch"
Dear madam you will be a big fool for doing such a thing a very big fool are you the first woman who's experiencing such a thing? Whose husband is having an extra marital affair? Most of you women might not be enjoying sex from your husband or getting good care from him but that shouldn't be the reason you'd endanger your family and your husband!instead you pray and focus on your children your career and let the man be!!when God touches his heart he'd come back to you ....Ok lemme ask you if you post it what will you gain or what will she loose? Huh? Mumu will they stop the relationship? Will it make your husband love you ? Why don't you think before you act? What if she also has your husbands nudes? And posts it then send it to your husbands work of place and then he gets sacked what do you think will happen to you? My dear you will suffer because not only will he throw you out no man will ever want to bring you into their home cause you're an enemy of progress ...seriously I donno the problem of nowadays women instead of them to think about their career and children they'd be pork nosing on their husbands extra marital affair! It's not your business wether your husband is sleeping with 200 women and if they send him nude pictures God did not join you to him to start doing CID work..did I hear you mention she's from south south? My dear woman don't mess with girls from that region cause not only will she destroy your marriage they might fight you spiritually to the point that no man might even look at you again who then are you to blame? Your stupidity or your foolishness? Did she kidnap your husband and told him to forcefully look at the nude pictures? Or did she come to your home and show him the pictures?madam I'm a woman like you but I must tell you that you are shameless and jobless to even think about this.........
So many married women encounter this crazy situation at some point. I experienced the same thing too and my hubby had the guts to tell me the nude pix was meant for his brother....BS!!! My advice, it's really not worth it posting up her nude pix on fbk, u end up putting ur hubby in a bad place especially if ur planning to forgive him and keep your marriage. Since u have her fbk info, send her a message, advice her, warn her and don't forget to mention that if she continues that Thunder will fire her. Ehen...remind her that Karma is real...she will get married someday, and she better believe she's gon be measured the same cup and overflowing...The men just need prayers.
I DO NOT KNOW WHY PEOPLE DO NOT KNOW HOW SACRED MARRIAGE IS..... WHY MUST MEN CHEAT...WHY MUST SINGLE LADIES PERCH ON MARRIED MEN...VERY DISGUSTING...WHY R U TOUCHING ANOTHER PERSON'S HUSBAND...MSCHW....N THE TRUTH MOST GIRLS DO KNOW THESE MEN ARE MARRIED..SOME MIGHT NOT BUT MOST DO....U CAN HIDE FROM YOUR WIFE O...OR ANYONE ELSE BUT U CANNOT HIDE FROM GOD...IF YOU ARE INVOLVED IN SUCH (WHETHER AS THE MARRIED MAN OR AS THE PROSTITUTE) STOP IT NOW!!!!! DO NOT ALLOW GOD PUNISH U IRRECOVERABLY...AND IT IS NOT ADVISABLE TO POST ANY NUDES ANYWHERE. EVEN THOUGH U FEEL ANGER TOWARDS THE LADY...LET UR HUBBY KNOW THAT YOU ARE AWARE AND SPEAK UR MIND TO HIM...IF MEN WILL FEAR GOD BETTER THO...SIGH...LET THE MAIN REASON FOR NOT CHEATING BE BECAUSE U FEAR GOD AND THEN BECAUSE U ARE MARRIED AND LOVE YOUR WIFE VERY DEARLY...LIKE MEN STOP PUTTING YOUR WIVES THROUGH UNNECESSARY PAIN...WHATEVER SHE IS NOT DOING RIGHT, TELL HER!! THAT IS WHY IT IS BETTER NOT TO TRY THESE THINGS BEFORE MARRIAGE..THAT IS WHAT MAKES A LOT OF MEN INSATIABLE THAT IS JUST THE TRUTH...IF EVERYONE WILL WAIT UNTIL MARRIAGE N STICK WITH ONE WOMAN, THEY WILL B SATISFIED AND THE TEMPTATION TO EVEN CHEAT WILL BE HANDLED BETTER...FEAR GOD AND KEEP HIS COMMANDMENTS...THIS IS THE WHOLE DUTY OF MAN...
You will only draw your husbands sympathy to the girl. The problem is not the girl but your husband. If u like post 200 pics he will find other ways to cheat. Face it u married a pig stop looking for who to blame for it. Do u know how much he begs her with gifts to send those photos. Madam remain seated biko. U are your own problem. Swear u didn't date married men when u were single. Karma
Even if she doesn't know, is that enough reason to send him her nudes? Nah wah! Baby girl publish the damn pictures! Don't forget to tag her. And share it with all your social media outlets.
See Ehn Anybody Begging On Her Behalf Has Dated A married man. Ask any married woman for advise and she will tell u to post her pictures. Please feel free and tag it runs girl. At the same time play d innocent girl and never let ur husband find out while u also find a way to deal with him
even though i agree with most of the comments here about letting go of the side chick and going after the cheating husband because it was with him you made those vows not her, i simply don't agree that with your hand you destroyed your marriage with exposing the girl, you had nothing to do with destroying your marriage, the moment your husband stepped out of your union, he destroyed it with his own hands, he disrespected you and his treating you like a second class citizen. this is the time you figure out if you want to work on the marriage and stay or leave his cheating ass, because once a cheater always a cheater. they don't have the same moral compass as the rest of us.
I will agree to u posting her nude pix if u will drag ur husband in public too by posting a pix of him(not a nude pix though) along side d girl's nude pixs, with the caption 'd cheating married man and his mistress'dey are but guilty madam and u know it, why act like it's all d girl's fault?
Are you crazy!!?!! I'd hire an assassin and risk prison if anybody did that to me. You don't what your husband told her about the situation. Get some counseling! DAMN!
Women like you are the reason why some Nigerian men think its their right to cheat. Your randy he goat made a vow to you and is breaking it, yet you are threatening to post naked pictures of a girl who may not even know he is married without a comment on your husbands participation. Is it that you don't see anything wrong in what he is doing or you think you can humiliate the girl by posting her pictures because she appears to be the easy target? I do not support girls dating married men but women should remember that their fight should be against the spouse breaking their vows by cheating on them. Only when you have proof that he is being stalked against his wish do you take it to the intruder. Make sure you post your husband's nude pictures too else your brain needs to be reset.
You don't know what pics of your husband, bank account info, physical address,texts of him begging her, God knows what else she has. If she posts everything that she has on FB too are you prepared for that? She won't rest until your public humiliation is TRIPLE hers. YOU'VE BEEN WARNED.
This was the same woman who complained about a girl sleeping with her husband some times last year and am surprise to see that the big dick husband has not desist from sleeping outside till date.
This is serious o, madam is like you are failing to realize that a man with long dick need a woman with sharp tot to keep the game going, you probably have not noticed what your husband like most.
So in your stupid mind, akwa Ibom women don't suffer from husband snatching? Stupid liar.....why are their men promiscuous if their women keep them sexually satisfied? They all have spirit of fornication cos of marine spirit......a man who will cheat will cheat even if u give him sex 24 hours......they give all kinds of excuses to cheat on their wives so stop talking from your anus....nothing special about akwa Ibom girls other than the fact that they are promiscuous and will give men sex even 24 hours but that still does not stop them cheating
Dnt b too sure she didn't force, I no of a girl dat won't stop calling and texting my husband bt my husband neva reply, be sometimes even tell me to pick the phone
No need to do that am sure is your husband that is asking her to do that. Control your dog first and deal with her later but not by posting the pictures online.
Pls oooo help me tell them oooo ha....thus thing is getting too much....their husbands should stop chasing single girls....the married women need to step up their game..abeg
Well said. I support u abeg. Meanwhile did u date someone else's husband while u were single? So y dem don collect ur own? Mumu. Posting pics will not save d situation. As I dey so, if I see ur hubby and he's got d doe and can do d dew, it's all over for u. Hahahaha. Just joking but truthfully u r foolish for thinking such. Nudity no be big deal these days.
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«Oldest ‹Older 201 – 324 of 324Like seriously?! She probably dsnt know d dog is a married man. He's sent her his nude pics too so she'll also post his own. You better train d dragon you have at home. Mscheww
Pls send d nude pics to me
My dear I would do it for laughs and then find a way to embezzle from him cos clearly there is alot of excess money for him to afford another woman in his life , so my dear get paid and have a laugh at the same time ( life is too short ). No one needs to knw Wat happened
Send d nudes pics to me hehehehehehehehhehe
Gbam gbammer gbammest.......... Best answer
That will not solve the problem.Let your husband realize that he is opening the door of your marriage to the devil.
See your mouth like "should I punish the girl..." (I know the pic up is a random one btw)
Is it not your randy hubby your supposed to face with your soo called "punishment"?? Or he's a saint abi???
Who knows what your hubby might have told her? I'm not in any way condoning whatever might be going on between them, but who knows what your hubby might have told her??
For all u know u don't even exist to her! So deal with your hubby first or should I say rather, cos I can bet he was the one that went chasing her up.
See question... PosrPost d tin now now
What a shame that We (SO called Nigerian Chirstian People) would scoop so low.
If you have the balls disgrace her on Facebook using your own account! Do not be a chicken and weak minded woman to hide behind an anonymous facebook profile.
Does the girl know you are married?
Have you contacted her on a personal level to introduce yourself to her?
You only know of one girl, can there be other girls scattered around Nigeria that your husband is sleeping/dating/toasting/fathering child(ren) with?
So to keep your MRS ceriticate you would scoops do low to outst another woman who may not know you exist so you can pretend to yourself that your husband is the good person in all of this.
YOU ARE DEFINITELY AN IDIOT!
maybe your husband told her he was single. Why don't you expose him first before you start exposing someone who may be innocent and has also been deceived by your philandering husband.
just saying...
R u sure u r not one of them.u look it
Forgive wat, madam do it!
Madam, Shebi u want to hand ur husband over to that girl ni? If u push her into keeping him for ever nko? Work on yasef and ya husband. Abi u neva see wer side chick dey beat madam wey get husband ni? The chick is not ya problem, ya husband is. The chick might not even know he is married.... pray and fast that she does not have a child with him. And u say south south? Hope nor be uniben or uniport babe ni....
I do not agree with adultery on any level, but if people feel the other party is to blame you're only fooling yourself. You think it will stop there? Shio! No one is trying to wreck your home more than your husband. People should stop branding the other woman as home wreckers because your husband is the #1 home wrecker, if his eyes does not wander, your home will be intact
Stupid woman...
Ooh pls shut up!
Concured. U have sense
if i were you, i will call her and talk to her, who knows what your stupid husband told her that maybe he is not married , divorced or maybe his wife has died. they cn say anything to go out with a girl. and for the girl to be sending her nude pix to your husband means there is something really serious between them. the fault is your husband and not the girl. let the poor girl be. deal with your ashawo husband period.
Hmm. Wat abt married woman who sleep with married men. D list is endless. My dear exposing d chick is not d solution.
Thank u
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Wt dis ur comment I can say u sleep wt married men
YES OOOO, TAG HER AND TAG ALL THE PEOPLE ON HER FRIENDS LIST.....TAG ALL TAGGABLE.......JUST KEEP TAGGING DEY GO
STFU!!! You know how men are, and how unfortunately they can't resist temptation. Why should women constantly put demselves in d position whereby they have to betray other women???
Thank you! Post d bitch's pics biko. No need to warn her!!! Did she tk permission b4 fucking ur hubby???
just talk to ur husby,and warn ha, dnt post any pics..pls
MUMU go ahead and scatter your marriage. You never see where girlfriend dey beat yeye wife wen no get sense. I guess this man has one small change that is why you want to kill yourself. Shior SMH. Don't go and curb your useless husband with his wandering dick.
Ur husband is a useless man if not why is he still keeping d nude pix on his phone. She did not force her self on ur husband. So dnt even post d pix on Facebook if u dnt want to look as stupid as d girl
I'm sure you're an unmarried pained hoe... who are you referring to as'you married women' may God let you experience the pain of being cheated on when you get married that is if ever you get married... miserable harlot... useless thing
It's a pity shameless married couple now goto social media to tell the world about their problems. Madam you complain about your husband, have you sat to ask yourself why is he cheating on me? Where have I gone wrong? Is it my fault? Am I meeting up with my wifely duties? Men cheat even from the days of abraham/david. You should pray for him and stop dis gracing your home. It's a shame you thought of that. Go and ask your mom how she went about staying this long with your father or an elder that has been married for many years. If you are not a prayerful wife the devil will dwell in your home. So pls public is not the answer, respect your home and do the right thing. For those that a saying go ahead, if your marriage ends will they marry you? Will they be there for you? So stop making people see the reason why. His cheating, I just did...
My opinion?
1. The girl may not know your husband is married.
2. posting her nude pics is madness not good idea
3. if you need to punish anyone, start with your husband.
4. Ask yourself, while you were single, did u date married men? if yes, then don't border. That is called karma. If no, then pray about it and devote more time for your husband. Give it time, it will pass. (I never dated a married man even when i had all the reasons to. Today am married and happy. 7 years plus, my husband has never cheated and am grateful to God)
I AM SICK OF PATHETIC WIVES WHINING ABOUT THEIR'S HUSBANDS GIRLFRIENDS, MISTRESSES OR WHATEVER. FACT IS THAT YOUR 'HUSBAND' IS MOST LIKELY A LIAR AND REPRESENTS HIMSELF AS SINGLE, SEPARATED OR DIVORCED TO OTHER WOMEN. SO PLEASE GROW UP AND ATTACK YOUR HUSBAND INSTEAD. HE IS THE ONE CHEATING ON YOU. IF ANYTHING HE IS THE ONE WHO YOU HAVE A CONTRACT WITH. THE TRUTH OF THE MATTER IS, IF IT IS NOT THAT GIRL, IT WILL BE ANOTHER GIRL....THERE WILL ALWAYS BE ANOTHER GIRL, WILL YOU GO AND ATTACK THEM ALL...DEAL WITH YOUR HUSBAND....IF HE WERE GOOD, THERE WOULD BE NO GIRLS TO FIGHT WITH!! REALITY CHECK SWEETIE.
Has it ever occurred to you that your husband made a vow to you? He should respect you. Has it Occurred to you that your husband may have lied to that girl? Has occurred to you that your actions may implicate you? Do you know if the girl has naked shots of your husband? What if she posts them as retaliation? What if she exposes him at the office and he looses his job? I laugh when married women see the heavy need to "fight" the girl but mention nothing of their husbands. Why? ur hubby will always continue his ways knowing that you cannot do anything to him. As far as he's concerned, he will keep sleeping around and you will keep fighting. I'm don't encourage sleeping with married folk but at the same time, I don't encourage fighting without a plan. Better start to encourage your husband to write a will, focus on your children's future, save money, buy properties in your mother's name, avoid drama, don't let yourself look like a looser. Stay classy. However, when anybody wants to insult you, walk up to them, say nothing,beat their ass up!
post it jor,this will teach other loss single bitches a lesson.
My dear no waste time, post am sharp sharp...as a woman if I were sniffing around another womans man then I would deserve whatever I got.
We the pic nah? Post am sharperly
May God give you sense.
I am a girl, not yet married and I support u, go ahead and post them nude pics on FB, twitter and IG if possible, these girls need to learn some lessons. My opinion
@Anon 11:25AM ask am o, it's not rape so u can say yes or no. Jeeez ladies, let's be helpers to our fellow ladies and turn these dogs who can't keep their thing in their pants down.
Agreed, enough is enough biko.... Mscccceeewww
Madam folarin, you're obviously living off married men and shame on u. You'll get married one day and God will pay u back. Karma is a bitch u know.
Awwww.....wat a sweet revenge!
Wife's be like I can't have sex with my husband, and no one else can....that's just b..lush.t
Gbam I love this, karma is a bitch, biko free the gurl and go give your hubby some hot fucking dat would blow his mind biko dont bpre us with this crap, no be today ass dey back
@ Beng sharap u don't know these men if u like give him a BJ all day, every week, every month, send nudies, bend n touch ur toe, be slim, be beautiful, don't nag, take very good care of urself, wear d sexiest lingerie, a useless man(dog) that wants to cheat will still cheat. So just sharap there and don't say what u don't know. It takes the grace/fear of God and a man who really doesn't want to cheat and decides not to cheat to be faithful.
Am not justifying the girls action...is it the girl you should blame or your husband....what is he going to look for single ladies for when he is married...maybe d chic doesn't know he is married.... try confronting your husband tooo..not only the girl
I think you should go ahead and do it. It would embarrass the girl and send a clear message worldwide that such things have humiliating consequences. However, note that there is also a consequence to you as well, because, it would not stop your husband from cheating. Ask yourself the relevant questions and take responsibility for your home prayerfully and truthfully, because I have come to realize that most people pray but don't pray sincerely and truthfully so there is no freedom/breakthrough/answer. While many reasons exist, I have come to realize that some women who claim their husbands cheat know why, but are not prepared to make the necessary changes in their personality and behavior to give the man no room for excuses. They always go around saying, no matter what the man should not cheat. They use this as a license to add unnecessary weight and all what not. In many cases, when they cannot blame the man they blame the children for scattering all their alignment. Thank God for people like Kim Kardashian that have shown that child birth is no excuse for misalignment. Most women who their husbands cheat have always known from day one when, how, where and for what reasons their husband would cheat yet they still married the man, in many cases they used all manner of manipulation to rope the man into the marriage.
When u get married you'll change ur thinking and perception. Blames yourself indeed.
Anonymous 11:25, you shut the fuck up, so men's adultery should be condoned but the single ladies having sex with married men should be punished? Last time I checked, the man was the one that took a vow to be faithful to his wife nd not the girl, so don't say trash here about women putting themselves in position whereby they hurt other women, that's BS!
You must be living off married men as well. Why so pained madam?
Heehee Heehee, my neighbours dog also caught it's partner cheating on it too, nw it's frustrated and doesn't want to eat it's meal... I can tell a story too. story tellers. Anyway, it's fun, just watching pple comment... nice one
@ Bangerz, you just spoke my mind! Thank you!
My sister all men cheat. Just focus on yr children if u hv any
YOU ARE BRAINLESS, THE GIRL HAS NOTHING TO DO WITH YOU , IT IS YOUR HUSBAND FAULT , YOUR HUSBAND GO TO THIS GIRL , SO YOU NEED TO FIGHT YOUR HUSBAND NOT THE GIRL.
no she might not know she is married how can your husband have a girlfriend and your leaving him work on it and please dont post it.
My sister all men cheat just focus on ur children if u hv any. N try as much as possible 2see u get sm tangible thing from him dat can help u n ur kids in future. Cos we can't predite Wat dy can do
Hahahaha! Best comment ever!
why do i have a feeling this lady is talking about some1 i know, madam dont even try yourself oh else.....
i reserve my comments try it first den u will know dat dere r crazy ass bitches out there, when d useless man u took a vow wit broke it cuz he isnt a disciplined mofo. lv d marriage naa if e dn taya u
Ha, no now, take her shopping and buy her plenty condom
If you must do that, then be prepared to also wash your dirty family linens in public, which could attract other deadly flies...
Prayerfully check to know why he acts that way, and hold up your family as the pillar that you are.
STFU. not everyone is as loose as you. I peerrii you
If you must, then get ready to deal with more deadly flies as you was your dirty family linen in public.
Prayerfully find out why he's looking outside, and hold it together as a pillar that you are... Best regards
It has happened to someone I know. The woman posted nude pics of the girl on Twitter. The husband divorced the wife and is gonna marry the girl. Harsh retaliation doesn't make us better.
POST IT!! WHEN YOU RELEASE NUDE PICTURES OF YOURSELF TO ADVERTISE SEX YOU WANT THE WHOLE WORLD TO SEE IT. POST IT complete with her name
Lol, exposing these girl is not the best option, the girl you want to expose might not know that your hubby is married although is not a guarantee for her to send such pix even though he is single, but bear in mind that some girls has lost their sense of thinking and has no shame over nakedness, probably she might be a whore who uses her nude pix to make money, if she is such type do you think she we feel bad if she sees her naked pix in the internet? And you never can tell if she is paid to destroy your home with such plan pls my advice is leave everything to God nd try and talk to your husband and you as a wife should do your part I believe things we work out. Goodluckkkkkkkk.
Bump.....you nailed it. She left the husband betraying her and wants to deal with a stranger. Deal with the one beside you there, sharing a bed with you.....that's the person you should deal with. That stranger owes you no loyalty.....its the one that took a vow with you that owes you loyalty.
Jst take it easy woman
I hope the said woman reads this comment... And am not asking for any judgment from LIB readers. I am a single girl and dating a married man for 2yrs now. I am aware he sleeps with other girls but am the girlfriend. I also not proud to say this. Like I said it is an opinion. He talks to me about his wife (positively) and loves her so much. He loves me too. That I know. He's a good man. But then there are certain things we discuss ( business and pleasure) that he wouldn't have his wife know. I honestly don't want to break up the marriage, in fact I am strongly behind it. He has helped me I school and made me be a better person. Crazy right?. The wife doesn't have to know. What am trying to say is that as long as he is treating you right and taking care of his responsibilities amicably don't stress it. I'm not saying it's right but have u thought of what is really going on. This man asked me out on Facebook and was completely honest with me. So the relationship a mutual agreement. I send nudes to him likewise himself. We do video calls and talk regularly. He has been good to both his wife and myself. Infact most of the gifts he gets his wife I picked them out and it turns out she loves them. He is aware I respect his marriage and he's not planning on ever taking a second wife. He wants me to be successful and have a family someday.
To cut the story short we r just friends for benefits.
Woman make friends with the girl and let her make u know the things she does that takes ur husband away from u to her cod there's something about her that he finds peaceful especially if u find out she's the constant "bitch"
Dear madam you will be a big fool for doing such a thing a very big fool are you the first woman who's experiencing such a thing? Whose husband is having an extra marital affair? Most of you women might not be enjoying sex from your husband or getting good care from him but that shouldn't be the reason you'd endanger your family and your husband!instead you pray and focus on your children your career and let the man be!!when God touches his heart he'd come back to you ....Ok lemme ask you if you post it what will you gain or what will she loose? Huh? Mumu will they stop the relationship? Will it make your husband love you ? Why don't you think before you act? What if she also has your husbands nudes? And posts it then send it to your husbands work of place and then he gets sacked what do you think will happen to you? My dear you will suffer because not only will he throw you out no man will ever want to bring you into their home cause you're an enemy of progress ...seriously I donno the problem of nowadays women instead of them to think about their career and children they'd be pork nosing on their husbands extra marital affair! It's not your business wether your husband is sleeping with 200 women and if they send him nude pictures God did not join you to him to start doing CID work..did I hear you mention she's from south south? My dear woman don't mess with girls from that region cause not only will she destroy your marriage they might fight you spiritually to the point that no man might even look at you again who then are you to blame? Your stupidity or your foolishness? Did she kidnap your husband and told him to forcefully look at the nude pictures? Or did she come to your home and show him the pictures?madam I'm a woman like you but I must tell you that you are shameless and jobless to even think about this.........
Punish your husband for sleepiing with the lady
So many married women encounter this crazy situation at some point. I experienced the same thing too and my hubby had the guts to tell me the nude pix was meant for his brother....BS!!! My advice, it's really not worth it posting up her nude pix on fbk, u end up putting ur hubby in a bad place especially if ur planning to forgive him and keep your marriage. Since u have her fbk info, send her a message, advice her, warn her and don't forget to mention that if she continues that Thunder will fire her. Ehen...remind her that Karma is real...she will get married someday, and she better believe she's gon be measured the same cup and overflowing...The men just need prayers.
Thank you
I DO NOT KNOW WHY PEOPLE DO NOT KNOW HOW SACRED MARRIAGE IS..... WHY MUST MEN CHEAT...WHY MUST SINGLE LADIES PERCH ON MARRIED MEN...VERY DISGUSTING...WHY R U TOUCHING ANOTHER PERSON'S HUSBAND...MSCHW....N THE TRUTH MOST GIRLS DO KNOW THESE MEN ARE MARRIED..SOME MIGHT NOT BUT MOST DO....U CAN HIDE FROM YOUR WIFE O...OR ANYONE ELSE BUT U CANNOT HIDE FROM GOD...IF YOU ARE INVOLVED IN SUCH (WHETHER AS THE MARRIED MAN OR AS THE PROSTITUTE) STOP IT NOW!!!!! DO NOT ALLOW GOD PUNISH U IRRECOVERABLY...AND IT IS NOT ADVISABLE TO POST ANY NUDES ANYWHERE. EVEN THOUGH U FEEL ANGER TOWARDS THE LADY...LET UR HUBBY KNOW THAT YOU ARE AWARE AND SPEAK UR MIND TO HIM...IF MEN WILL FEAR GOD BETTER THO...SIGH...LET THE MAIN REASON FOR NOT CHEATING BE BECAUSE U FEAR GOD AND THEN BECAUSE U ARE MARRIED AND LOVE YOUR WIFE VERY DEARLY...LIKE MEN STOP PUTTING YOUR WIVES THROUGH UNNECESSARY PAIN...WHATEVER SHE IS NOT DOING RIGHT, TELL HER!! THAT IS WHY IT IS BETTER NOT TO TRY THESE THINGS BEFORE MARRIAGE..THAT IS WHAT MAKES A LOT OF MEN INSATIABLE THAT IS JUST THE TRUTH...IF EVERYONE WILL WAIT UNTIL MARRIAGE N STICK WITH ONE WOMAN, THEY WILL B SATISFIED AND THE TEMPTATION TO EVEN CHEAT WILL BE HANDLED BETTER...FEAR GOD AND KEEP HIS COMMANDMENTS...THIS IS THE WHOLE DUTY OF MAN...
Ashewo!!! U and smelly pussy
U r d bigger dog
U sef too like to fuck married men . Change Ooo
Pls thread with caution. Your actions will either bring your man home or chase him further.
Madam best advise... always carry ur husbands dick around. stupid
You will only draw your husbands sympathy to the girl. The problem is not the girl but your husband. If u like post 200 pics he will find other ways to cheat. Face it u married a pig stop looking for who to blame for it. Do u know how much he begs her with gifts to send those photos. Madam remain seated biko. U are your own problem. Swear u didn't date married men when u were single. Karma
God bless you Beng! I wonder why they never get factual. Your husband will leave if you publish the pictures. You Iguana!
What sort of nonsense reasoning is this?
A woman should reason better than this. So you were told people cheating is the spouses fault
Post her nude pics online now that you can otherwise she will snatch your husband from you b4 you know it.
wer the stupid woman sef
Even if she doesn't know, is that enough reason to send him her nudes? Nah wah! Baby girl publish the damn pictures! Don't forget to tag her. And share it with all your social media outlets.
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See Ehn Anybody Begging On Her Behalf Has Dated A married man. Ask any married woman for advise and she will tell u to post her pictures. Please feel free and tag it runs girl. At the same time play d innocent girl and never let ur husband find out while u also find a way to deal with him
Post and tag your husband simple....
I wish u use ur reasoning in commenting sha
God bless u
God bless u ooo
As in... who wan die young??
U are shallow minded sha.... for the fact that she's depress does not mean ur husband won't go after another one....
Nice comment
Co-sign. Please tag most of her fb contacts too
Get iron pant for your hubby
even though i agree with most of the comments here about letting go of the side chick and going after the cheating husband because it was with him you made those vows not her, i simply don't agree that with your hand you destroyed your marriage with exposing the girl, you had nothing to do with destroying your marriage, the moment your husband stepped out of your union, he destroyed it with his own hands, he disrespected you and his treating you like a second class citizen. this is the time you figure out if you want to work on the marriage and stay or leave his cheating ass, because once a cheater always a cheater. they don't have the same moral compass as the rest of us.
Please do by all means
Yes yes punish the ashi that won't leave your husband alone even though he's got fault too. Let him put his dick somewhere.
Warn the lady ke???? Please it's your husband that you need to warn o jare!
I will agree to u posting her nude pix if u will drag ur husband in public too by posting a pix of him(not a nude pix though) along side d girl's nude pixs, with the caption 'd cheating married man and his mistress'dey are but guilty madam and u know it, why act like it's all d girl's fault?
Ur ranting
SHE MAKES HIM HAPPY PERIOD.
WHY DO YOU THINK MEN CHEAT.FROM UR POST AM SURE UR HUSBAND WILL BE TRAVELLING ALOT
GOD BLESS U
GOD BLESS YOU MADAM.UR HUSBAND IS AT HOME WITH U.
Are you crazy!!?!! I'd hire an assassin and risk prison if anybody did that to me. You don't what your husband told her about the situation. Get some counseling! DAMN!
It's your husband you should disgrace. Married women sef!!!
Women like you are the reason why some Nigerian men think its their right to cheat. Your randy he goat made a vow to you and is breaking it, yet you are threatening to post naked pictures of a girl who may not even know he is married without a comment on your husbands participation. Is it that you don't see anything wrong in what he is doing or you think you can humiliate the girl by posting her pictures because she appears to be the easy target?
I do not support girls dating married men but women should remember that their fight should be against the spouse breaking their vows by cheating on them. Only when you have proof that he is being stalked against his wish do you take it to the intruder. Make sure you post your husband's nude pictures too else your brain needs to be reset.
You don't know what pics of your husband, bank account info, physical address,texts of him begging her, God knows what else she has. If she posts everything that she has on FB too are you prepared for that? She won't rest until your public humiliation is TRIPLE hers. YOU'VE BEEN WARNED.
Linda wetin I do u? Why u no post my comments????
Pls show us the pix let see if its our gfs that follow married men.
Pls show us the pix let see if its our gfs that follow married men.
This was the same woman who complained about a girl sleeping with her husband some times last year and am surprise to see that the big dick husband has not desist from sleeping outside till date.
This is serious o, madam is like you are failing to realize that a man with long dick need a woman with sharp tot to keep the game going, you probably have not noticed what your husband like most.
Your eyes beheld what you wanted to see. Well done for finding a way to stay strong!
So in your stupid mind, akwa Ibom women don't suffer from husband snatching? Stupid liar.....why are their men promiscuous if their women keep them sexually satisfied? They all have spirit of fornication cos of marine spirit......a man who will cheat will cheat even if u give him sex 24 hours......they give all kinds of excuses to cheat on their wives so stop talking from your anus....nothing special about akwa Ibom girls other than the fact that they are promiscuous and will give men sex even 24 hours but that still does not stop them cheating
Gbam and high five !!
Dnt b too sure she didn't force, I no of a girl dat won't stop calling and texting my husband bt my husband neva reply, be sometimes even tell me to pick the phone
No need to do that am sure is your husband that is asking her to do that. Control your dog first and deal with her later but not by posting the pictures online.
Pls oooo help me tell them oooo ha....thus thing is getting too much....their husbands should stop chasing single girls....the married women need to step up their game..abeg
Well said. I support u abeg. Meanwhile did u date someone else's husband while u were single? So y dem don collect ur own? Mumu. Posting pics will not save d situation. As I dey so, if I see ur hubby and he's got d doe and can do d dew, it's all over for u. Hahahaha. Just joking but truthfully u r foolish for thinking such. Nudity no be big deal these days.
YOU ARE A STUPIIIIIIIIIIIIIIDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDD FOOOOOOOOOOOLLLLLLLLLLLLLL.. U WANT 2 DISGRACE HER..WHAT ABOUT THE IDIOT U R STILL SPREADING LEGS 4 AT HOME.Y WONT U DISGRACE HIM.. ARE U SURE SHE KNOWS U EXIST?.. UR PROBLEM IS NT D GAL BT D MAN DATS DISRESPECTIN U AT HOME N YA DERE SWALLOWING IT.. FOOL.. DISGRACE HER DEN GO N COO 4 D IDIOT THAT HAS NO REGARDS 4 U
Sense!
Yeah, post it on Facebook & tag your hubby too
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