When asked what the secret to his 17 year marriage to actress Omotola Jalade Ekeinde is, Captain Matthew Ekeinde said something very profound...things a lot of men need to read. Find it below...
One thing that has been working for us as a couple is that I always encourage
her to be who she wants to be. I give her full support always.
Lots of married women that are caught cheating on their husbands could be
traced to the fact that some of their husbands don’t allow them explore their
talents. I encourage my wife and kids to be what they want to be.
Most of the influential men and women we have in this world didn’t even go to
school. So it is all about exploiting your talents.
Some women love acting but their husbands won’t let them believing that other
men would touch or exploit them sexually. It is all about discipline. Those
that want to cheat will cheat; it is all about self control.
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Correct man.tell the boys that call them selves men.
ReplyDelete"Lots of married women that are caught cheating on their husbands could be traced to the fact that some of their husbands don’t allow them explore their talents"
ReplyDeleteI guess just like Maheeda has been allowed to showcase her talent?
Ogaooo! Thank God u said what works for you people,coz same may not work fpr many others.personnality differs.
~BONARIO~says so via NOKIA3310
DeleteI'm not surprised that you consider Maheeda's loose behaviour "talents". I guess your talent would be wanking at her pictures with your tub of Vaseline.
LmDo!!!! Calm down yo!!
DeleteNaijadeltapikin... @bonario, the minute is talking about good talent u have that God has bless one with not talent of exposing dirty body to the public, so take note maheeda exposing her dirty body no b talent she is just looking 4 cheap publicity.
DeleteTF re yu guys yapping abt? Yu dnt understand sarcasm or wat? I jus taya for dumbskulls. Bonario ws jus being sarcastic *foldshands n strolls away*
DeleteSenior dumbskull Enkay Vivian, when did you become Bonario's mouthpiece? Let's hope for your sake that you're strolling straight back to school...don't pass go & don't collect 200.
DeleteAre u sure???
ReplyDeleteCORRECT MAN...100%
ReplyDeleteOMO SEXY IS LUCKY TO HAVE U....
Leave dat thing joor! All that thing na wash...if u follow dem u go just die before ur time.
DeleteI agree #dose dat wat to cheat will cheat#
ReplyDeleteOdi kwa risky o
ReplyDeleteHmmmm... Wise words from the wise man. Thanks for this.
ReplyDeleteTrully u re a menthor to behold.Support nd understanding is d key.We can still make it perfect amid imperfection.
ReplyDeleteMentor*
DeleteMenthor? Kedi maka menthol?
Delete@chinasa,ur nuisance value on this blog is getting so high it needs to be taxed @ source.
DeleteNne gi ooo.
DeleteBuh dahs the fact chinasa
DeleteMy dear Captain, u are xo xo on point! Wot a wise man! Omo T u re so lucky to have him as ur hubby! Pray dat my hubby wil hav such wisdom! Allow me exploit my talents!
ReplyDeleteI Concur.... Well said
ReplyDeleteAwwwww dats swt of d man bt truly sha omotola cheats on ha husband jorrrr
ReplyDeleteHw did u kno. Omo daleru daleru
DeleteBring us news about chidinma's sex tape?
ReplyDeleteWow dats swt of him I pray to marry a man lyk him bt seriously she cheats joorrrrrrrrrr. I dey hear ha stories jorrr
ReplyDeleteHow many times are you going to post the same comment? If you've heard the rumours then chances are that he's heard them too and dismissed them as false. Maybe you should concentrate on your own relationship (if you have one), no?
DeleteHaters will always hate...
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ReplyDeletei just so love this couple like madt. God i want same oooo
ReplyDeletePhotos: Celebrity Stylist Prince Uzoegwu Shows Of His Well Endowed Asset(big balls)
Wow! Its 17yrs already?...Really lovely, marvelous. One thing I love about the man, he doesn't talk too much. He minds his own business and does his thing. So proud of him. May God conyinue to keep them together.
ReplyDeleteOmotola actually paid $650,000 to be on the TIMES most influential people...Click here to watch video evidence
U can't leave her na, she is a beautiful woman, her kinds are hard 2 get, good advice tho, guys take note o
ReplyDeleteOn point.
ReplyDeleteWhat works for you might not work for the other person.
ReplyDelete"Its all about discipline. Those that want to cheat will cheat;its all about self control"
ReplyDeletePreach!
No one should dare say rubbish like There's no man who doesn't cheat. Nobody really cares if u think so.
ReplyDeleteShocking! Watch a pastor preaching in a church with 53 live snakes.. watch here
I love dis man,wish my bf wud see dis and let it sink into his skull,I hate it wen I'm restricted tho,I end up resenting d person..kudos mr Ekeinde...Stephy says so!!
ReplyDeleteI love Omotola. One of the very few whose marriage is still intact. Her husband looks sexy at his age oh #lovelycouple
ReplyDeleteWell said,#hands up sir,I throw salute#
ReplyDeletewell said bro.....
ReplyDeleteHer husband is an intelligent man,cos intelligent people ignore, and weak people revenge while strong people forgive. if you are not!!! ladies like these will mess you up sociologically
ReplyDeleteIt's obvious that you are very tolerant on CHEATING! most men aren't.
ReplyDeleteShe actually vowed to make it work by not too frequent in visiting all d silly parties,runways,political circus and red carpet idiotic settings. She knows wen to appear relevant.
ReplyDeleteHmmmm wise words. God will continue to bless their union. Amen.
ReplyDeleteNope, the secret is you have turned a blind eye to your wife's cheating ways *clapping for you*
ReplyDeleteits a good thing that both of them have a mutual understanding...its all good as long as it works for them..
ReplyDeleteNice one...correct man!
ReplyDeleteNow that's VERY true.
ReplyDeleteWise man!
ReplyDeleteGood man your wife is nacking Bayelsa gov .in the end sha na true ...who go cheat go cheat
ReplyDeleteThat's a very gud advice from captain. God bless ur home.
ReplyDeleteSo true.
ReplyDeleteNo marriage is perfect.Hubby,Dont tell me you have never box her before.Omo.t,dont tell me you have never grab his blocos and squeeze it clothwise before?
ReplyDeleteTrue talk
ReplyDeleteMen,that man is seriously holding strongly onto an asset even Prince williams won't turn down....Happy 4 them...praying that maheeda will fall inlove wit me so I cud treat her like that...#Bless
ReplyDeletelovely couple,wat God has join together...........they really look perfect,teach them my bro cos millions of them lack the wisdom to deal with today's housewife .
ReplyDeleteBest celebrity couple in Naija.....muuuaaahhhh.
ReplyDeleteWonderful Advice Capt Mattew.I hope young couples would learn from this.
ReplyDeleteGreat one Mr, Ekeinde
ReplyDeleteDats swit of him
ReplyDeletePlease 4 d luv of God sha stay married...this Hollywood mentality of hook up n break up is eating deep into our society...make copy copy no kill us
ReplyDeleteI yaff heard you...
ReplyDeleteWishing dem more marital bliss
ReplyDeleteI juz love this couple!
ReplyDeleteGod bless ur marriage more omosexy mia role model...
ReplyDeleteVery tolerant man and he truly loves her, that's why no matter how she goes around and whatever and whoever she indulges in, she always comes back to him. Singing SOS Band - "I don't care what you do to them, just be good to me..."
ReplyDeleteGood talk. That is a gentle man talking. God will continue to keep your marriage.
ReplyDeleteGreat and inspiring one there from Cpt.Ekeinde,i wish all men cud b lyk u,esp wit d rate at which marriages are breaking these days. Guys,be inspired...ladies too!
ReplyDeletevery true
ReplyDeleteMy fav celebrity couple...u guys are great role models. God will keep blessing ur marriage.
ReplyDelete~AKWA IBOM'S FINEST~
Well said it's all about mindset.
ReplyDeleteIts really all abt discipline I love dis couple. KLASIK
ReplyDeleteWell said!
ReplyDeleteHow many will do it and how many women will respect that freedom without taking advantage of it.
ReplyDeleteTrue. Its all about discipline
ReplyDeletecongrats- God bless ur home guys- welldone and nice one (advice0
ReplyDeleteJust thank God and stop thinking you did it on your own. Like you said, if they want to cheat, they will. You are lucky you haven't fallen prey. so,stop acting all macho!
ReplyDeleteAibekay says so
God I need a man wit such nd better views self!
ReplyDeleteI gbadun u jare mr pilot
ReplyDelete@calmjaycy
#word#
ReplyDeleteTrue talk,
ReplyDeleteOya o...she una dey hear?...God bless u o jare n cont to strengthen ur union
ReplyDeleteWell said
ReplyDeleteAint that the truth!!
ReplyDeleteThose who will cheat will cheat!!
with or without support!!
Well said Sir.
Miss L
Wise words. Beautiful couple. Omotola is resplendent as always.
ReplyDeleteWow
ReplyDeleteI jst luv Omotola.shez my number one role model anitym,any day
ReplyDeleteGood hubby gud mentor
ReplyDeleteBetter man, u get sense die,give a bird freedom and iyt will cherish u forever,I admire u cos ur a real man. God bless u jare, Esu oni ya yin
ReplyDeleteWho go marry dis kind gorgeous woman , wey no go want keep him marriage . Dis babe too sweet, but linda u cool pass her. Kel
ReplyDeleteyea,, dat true most of nigeria men think otherwise. Dereby nt allowing deir wife to participate fully in wat eva dey are interested in
ReplyDelete9c talk.... Real men shd learn 4rm dis
ReplyDeleteIji ya gbam!!!God blss u. 1st 2 comment.
ReplyDeleteexactly!!!!! he just took that comment right out of my mouth. if a man can follow whatever career path he so desires, i wonder why the majority of african men wont give their wives their rightful freedom to pursue theirs. now he is the envy of other men. go captain!!!!
ReplyDeletelol....Mr Ekehinde, Rumour has it that you are a he-goat(chasing all the air hostesses and sundry; and Omotola on the other hand gets jiggy with it but you turn a blind eye, why you do that, I cant explain (maybe cos you sef get your own for body, or you fear your wife) but we know, so go and sleep!
ReplyDeleteBTW, Please stop bleaching
Thanks
Linda, Hero worshipper, if u like, dont post this!
Naso Mr Pilot#DIZZY
ReplyDeleteWhat a happy family...really an enviable one
ReplyDeletemore interesting stories
Like his wife exploits her talents on taiwo afolabi of sifaxgroup'so bed. Lwkmd
ReplyDeleteGod! All I want is a husband that understands nd a perfect soulmate...dellypayne
ReplyDeletewell said
ReplyDeleteKudos to u guys!!
ReplyDeletetrue tok...wys man
ReplyDeleteAwwww, so nice. Matthew u r a real man.
ReplyDeleteDis wman is fine n ve a gud husand ur marriage ll last 4ever Amen,omosex u are d best I luv u so much keep it up
ReplyDeleteLove this family. Omosexy ride on jor
ReplyDeletemore interesting stories
Word!
ReplyDeleteI agree with him on this!
ReplyDeleteJust love their smiles....
ReplyDeleteI disagree sir.
ReplyDeleteYes, it is about self control for a man not to cheat but for a woman, it is not about self control not to cheat.
Any woman will cheat under a PREVAILING CONDITION that allows her to cheat.Yes, any woman.
There is no woman who will not cheat if you put the woman in a state where she is exposed. Take it or leave leave it, ALL WOMEN ARE WIRED TO CHEAT.
I am yet to come across a woman who won't cheat.
All Women are too emotionally inclined for them not to fall and cheat if pressure is put on them. It might take time, but at the end they will take the bait, fall and cheat on their spouse.
This is a fact.
Olu@atlanta.
Please don't confuse fact with your opinion. You're entitled to the latter but there is a difference.
DeleteDee dee
I disagree wit u on dis! All women are not wired to cheat! Women are even d most faithful esp in marriages!
Delete@olu,u sound like u've a small prick n have been cheated on all ur life...u also seem 2've accepted it as ur destiny 2 be cheated on.infact I make bold 2 say u'r a cuckold bf/hubby aka gbewudani kin fun iyawo e ni doggy
Delete@ olu, since you are so sure about your stupid fact...I am sure that includes your mother, your slutty wife..past, present and future. ..your sisters and your daughter. Oloshi...
Deletemayowa
Dats a good advice,oda men learn frm it n ur home will be a better place.
ReplyDeleteNice 1. Linda, y u no post chidinma alerged sex video?
ReplyDeleteYes is all about discipline, couple with your mind set, because we hv to guard our hearth with all deligent for out of it is d issues of life.
ReplyDeleteWell said Captain. Your wife is my role model. Love her loads.
ReplyDeleteMay God continue to strengthen your marriage.
When couples are together for long, they will start resembling each other. both of them are having the same forehead
ReplyDeleteAliexpress the biggest e-commerce shop in China gets better and bigger in sales
Exactly is all abt self control
ReplyDeletetrue!"" its funny hw pple mistake roles for d real persona of d actors *ONYXGODWIN *
ReplyDeleteNwanyi oma! Choi! U too fine jare. I love u omosexy. Lotsa hugs. U were created on monday morning wen God don rest finish.
ReplyDeleteYes o,omo sexy the name real fits her gan ni
DeleteYes o,omo sexy the name really fits her
DeleteSee her! Flawless! Angelic face..... U too pretty joor! Haters gaan die!
ReplyDeleteThumbs up for him cos he really hit the nail on the head.
ReplyDeleteVery inspiring I must asy. Truly, "as a man thinketh so is he," and will also affect his/her livelihood. I admire his profound understanding of life.
ReplyDeleteYes I agree with him. A woman who wants to cheat will cheat, it doesn't matter how much you try stop them...
ReplyDeleteWise words from Mr.Mathew...God pls give the bone of my bone,my helper and my bestfriend as my Husband...lucky u OMOSEXY"
ReplyDeleteOmosexy as ever...
ReplyDeleteWow,oh my God pls give me ds kind of man oo pls am on my knees praying for dt in Jesus name i pray Amen,swt and cute
ReplyDeleteWow,oh my God pls give me ds kind of man oo pls am on my knees praying for dt in Jesus name i pray Amen,swt and cute
ReplyDeleteThank you Mr Ekeinde. Exactly those that will cheat will cheat
ReplyDeleteI lov dis couple.sweet hubby & wife wit beautiful kids.omo sexy u ar a great woman.
ReplyDeleteBetter husband. Hope d men are reading. Some selfish men will not allow their wife move an inch.
ReplyDeletewell said
ReplyDeletelinda! check for errors pls. advice not advise
ReplyDeleteNIGGA PLEASE!!Codeine TInZ
ReplyDeleteO M G am really loving this! Wht a couple, captain your the man jare any time, that's how its should be! Cheating dey blood who wan cheat go cheat my brother! God bless yot marriage any time!
ReplyDeleteGood talk Sir. I believe and agree with you.
ReplyDeleteThat's good, am happy for them.
ReplyDeleteVery gud
ReplyDeleteOK sir.
ReplyDeleteWhat's really profound? Linda!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Nawa.
ReplyDeleteThank u captain may God contn to bless ur home...that's just the truth.
ReplyDeleteGbam!!! So tru chai :) thumbs up my hubby gats to read dis
ReplyDeleteGreat statement! Thumbs Up!
ReplyDeleteWow..Extremly splendid..God ll continue to bless u couples in al ramification..Luv u guys!!
ReplyDeleteIt is feels so nice to see a husband exude so much confidence in his wife.I pray it continues this way.
ReplyDeletewow all men shud take note as 4 omotola ad her hubby I pray dat God wil keep dem ijn
ReplyDeleteGood husband. God will be with ur family in jesus name! Thanks for the support
ReplyDeletei luv dat u are a real man
ReplyDeleteGood one from you captain.
ReplyDeleteAbegy, u wan tell us say ur wife Dey faithful abi? ..,.,,..#Ozi
ReplyDeletePure fact tho, and it also takes the Grace of God. To ve a good home requires lot of trust and hard work as well. Kudos to Omo T and hubby, its good dat we still ve couples dat ve lasted dis long in Nollywood.
ReplyDeleteNice talk congrats
ReplyDeletemy brother you are correct.
ReplyDeleteAbeg linda dis mkpoyo song refuse to stop playin on ma fone, wc kain wahala b dis na? Btw omosexy head de there jare
ReplyDeleteDis is wonderful hearin dis 4 a man is mak happy becos nt all men understand dat well done keep it up
ReplyDeleteHe' a man n nt a boy, u no nt all men re real men. Most men re boys
ReplyDeleteThat is why i was able to explore her sexual talents, blind man
ReplyDeleteNice advice!let dose dat hav ears hear o,a word is enof 4 de wise!!tnk u oga captain!
ReplyDeleteU hear her story ve u seen?I guess seeing is believing
ReplyDeleteGuys oya naww, I can't see your comments o.
ReplyDeleteMr. Ekeinde is so right and secured. Every man should make his woman believe that he's the best she can ever have by helping her to be the best.
Not evry woman can control freedom wen given it... Nyc one from u though buh ar u sure omo is perfect??
ReplyDeleteTrue, but then again. All animals are equal, but some are more equal than others-Animal farm. Point is, cheating isn't about freedom or restriction, it's about self-control. But smothering a person is a sure way of alienating them. His principle doesn't really apply to all people.
ReplyDelete..basically, the interview was "It is all about…"
ReplyDeleteLady infidelity ur husband de brag 4 outside. Am shure he knws abt omooT's infidelity
ReplyDeleteLindodo coontant me 4 info or come 2 my house
ReplyDeleteLady infidelity ur husband de brag 4 outside. Am shure he knws abt omooT's infidelity. Linda. I don't wanna looook 4 my comment
ReplyDeleteDats a gud word , frm a gud man for dos wh want to be gud.
ReplyDeleteI do ask myself, when I av everything good dat life can offer from my husby and career, y will I cheat. I won't cheat na, but wen the man is poor and also he stops me from ,hmmmmmmm#mouthsealed#
ReplyDeleteI hope ur mouth's not sealed around another man's cock?
DeleteLuv dis Family so Much, and for d haters saying omotola cheats on her husband*pls get a life asap*or maybe u guys watch afmag a lot*Ndi Ara
ReplyDeleteHe is right, some women who are never let of of. Home still manage to cheat with the security man or driver. A person who wants to cheat will always find a way to so no point caging anyone.
ReplyDeleteYes oo,omo sexy is because of your beauty that makes them gossip and say all sort of rubbish,cheat my foot
ReplyDeleteOne happy family,#kiss#
ReplyDeleteNa lie captain, Give woman a mile she will go 10 miles. Be guided
ReplyDeleteShe is truly blessed to have a husband like him, especially since she married him when she was so young. He could have easily been a tyrant. God bless him for this.
ReplyDeletewhy do some people like inulting just to be heard or read?the man appreciated his wife and u r here ranting like a castrated bull.if u are demented pls,seek help.
ReplyDeleteWe don't need your advice...abeg commot for road jare.Just because your wife did not catch you...abeg..next!!!
ReplyDeleteThat's basically what works for them, I think they comprehend each other. Cheers to the wise captain and to omo sazzy! ℓ☺ℓ
ReplyDeleteYES O MY BROTHER @oluatlanta, ALL WOMEN ARE WIRED TO CHEAT.
ReplyDeleteIf you don't want your woman to cheat, don't creat an environment conducive for cheating, or else she will cheat big time like omo sexy has been doing while the hubby has been looking the other way.
If all men thought like this mature mind. Nigeria would join the ranks of first world countries.
ReplyDeletehu told u omo T cheats on her hubby, av u ever caught ha cheatin? Some ppl on dis blog jst lyk hating. Jobless ppl
ReplyDeleteY is everyone talking about OMotola n infidelity....itz not ur business.....n dat man is ha husband his job is to protect her, even if itz true.......nva wash ur dirty plates outside
ReplyDeleteIndeed. What works for cannot work for me oga. And moreover, her roles in movies have kept you going. If she acts like Harry Berry, a typical Nigerian man would have ended the marriage
ReplyDeleteNICE.
ReplyDeleteOmosexy u are good 2 d call0ua
ReplyDeleteLinda keep causing trouble shogbo! , Captain Adviser #Yimu
ReplyDeleteA man after my heart! So true.
ReplyDeleteMost married men want to control their wives and dictate to them concerning what they can and can't do. Some married men won't even let their wives do a master's programme. They feel once they have a first degree, that is enough
Marriage is not about stifling your partner's dreams but encouraging them in whatever pursuit they desire. It makes for happier partners and brings out the best in them.
Show me a man who doesn't cheat on his spouse nd i will show u a pregnant virgin
ReplyDeleteshow me a woman who is faithful to his spouse and i will kiss my eyes nd my ears....
Horde, d@s y all ye haters r always faceless anonymous users. There r still men who don't cheat n plenty many women who r super faithful. Now kiss ur godforsaken eyes.
DeletePeople are haters in this world sha! All the idiots coming here to insinuate infidelity on omotola or her husband una no dey fear God? How can you come to write things you're not sure of just to tarnish people's image out of envy! Omotola is one of the MOST DECENT women in Nigeria not even entertainment industry! I know her personally and she's a mentor to All of us!Omotola has great friends, mr afolabi is just the one you ru,our mangers know, she's loved and respected by many but she never compromises herself. Mr Afolabi is well known to her family and his family knows Omotola's well. They are actually family friends! People need to shut up if they don't know the truth!
ReplyDeleteOmotola and her Husband are true Christians with the Fear of God.
Loosers here be saying its not possible for people not to cheat! Hahahahaha.... Crazy assholes.
ReplyDeleteYou better learn now and stop assuming everyone's life is as messed up as yours! Capt ekeinde and Omotola , God bless you both!
gud one
ReplyDeleteI agree to the extent that in allowing your woman explore her talents, you are also giving the best in satisfying her needs...
ReplyDeleteOtherwise in the course of exploring her talents, she will be getting her needs met by more capable men!!!!!
Sleeping with sifax boss and heard she has even jazzed him, just check it,heard he has AIDS and that tonto wanted to kill herself cos of him
ReplyDeleteI can't wait to comment. thank you for showing omot .Linda God Bless you.you left people like omot since all this days and you writing about unwanted people. Linda I say God will bless you again.who says women can not be the president of Nigeria let Our Omotola contest and you will set wonder s
ReplyDeleteAnyman that cheat on a woman like this need sdeliverance.and if we catch this man cheating on our OMoT we will beat hell out of him
ReplyDeleteAh this man is lucky shai see beauty . Sir you married a Queen
ReplyDelete@Olu@Atlanta...i'm sure u wanted to say that u 're yet to come across a man that won't cheat.Take note that most women won't cheat on their hubbies.I'm a married woman n i'll never cheat on my hubby no matter what!!
ReplyDeleteOmoT is indeed a role model.She's one of the actresses i respect in Nollywood.She has succeeded in making her marriage work.More elbow grease,OmoT.Randy Nollywood actresses that take pleasure in dating/marrying other people's husbands shld emulate her n learn to be decent!!!
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