Akon who is a known polygamist said in a recent interview that monogamy is not only 'stupid'; it’s 'impossible.' Read what he said below and tell us if you agree with him..
"The average guy in the world has a main girl and they got a side chick. And then they got a jumpoff. At the end of the day as a male we are natural breeders by nature. We can’t even escape it if we wanted to.
Let’s say you put 1,000 guys on one corner and one bad chick walk passed. You gon’ see 1,000 heads go, ‘Damn.’ They don’t even know why they doing it. They’re natural breeders. It’s in their genes, they can’t help it. Men are put on this earth to breed and the reason why God put multiple women on this earth is for that.
People are having relationships, boyfriend and girlfriend, and treating it like it’s actually marriage. You’re just dating.
The whole purpose of dating is so you can date this one, and date this
one, and date this one until you find out, ‘Okay, this is the person I
want to spend the rest of my life with. Okay now, I commit to what’s
called marriage.’
You find that one woman that supplies everything that you desire in a
woman, of course that will be a motivation to stick with that one woman,
but I don’t know no one woman that can satisfy every man’s one need. It’s
impossible. Just like there’s no man that can satisfy a woman’s every
need. Women just aren’t built to breed like that
or… mate with more than one partner. Women aren’t built that way, men
are.”
Hmmmmm he's kinda right tho,men r polygamous in nature no mata hw u look @ it
ReplyDeleteWe Nigerians r so funny. We always have excuse to back up what we r not comfortable and we think we have too much sense. Somebody aired his opinion about a social issue and pple would want to bring bible inside. Even in the days of the bible, there r pple who have more than one wife and God did not condemn them. I wonder why pple did not bring African custom and tradition inside, bcos that will not favour them. Leave sentiments apart and pick d sense from d nonsense he said. We have d tendency to do many tins and we have choices to make either by virtue of our religious inclination or value dt should b where all the disagreement should come in.
DeleteHe should go and do DNA test for his 6 children first. Animal.
DeleteBullshit. Didn't want to comment but decided to when I read the comments. I'm happily married to an angel who actually fears God and treats me right. Self control is what differentiates us from animals. In the beginning God gave Adam one wife because He knew it'll be sufficient for him. Linda you will find a man that'll treat you you the way you deserve to me treated.
DeleteOf course, Akon is right and he just nailed it.
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Am a woman but am sorry to say this. Akon is so right. Men naturally have it in dem no one is a saint!
ReplyDeleteWe Nigerians are like the double edged sword, very contradictory lifestyle. If u take a poll here u will find out that most of us are self acclaimed born against Christians. Who love God but hate his teaching. Speaking from the two.sides of their mouths. All our churches overflow on Sundays but see ua her supporting evil. Ni wonder our mighty men of God have stopped to preach concerning self control, purity and chastity. Abeg let's stop the mockery!
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Linda dear,pls don't b discouraged in ur search 4 joy becos of wat one misguided human being has said. In d eyes of d world he may b correct like sm had already agreed wit him but I tell u all,God cannot b mocked by mere mortals! There are still many beautiful n joyous souls(men) out there looking 4 sm1 dey cannot hurt,just trust God 4 ur paths 2 cross and experience tru joy from d innermost part!
DeleteMy dear asamkpoto b guided.
DeleteBiblically as a priest/pastor u shud marry 1 woman. BUT a man wil marry his wife & they become 1. 'Since they r now 1. If he marries again then, they r 1 again' 1+1=1 +1(d new one)=1. Or does d bible say 'explicitly' that a man can marry only 1 woman? If so where pls? Enlighten me. #justsaying #nopunintended
'Quranically' u can marry more than 1.
Ideally or by law it is one but who sets the rules? Is it man?
God is not mocked my friend. Name one prophet in the bible that had just one wife apat from Jesus but yet he recognised women. Be honest with ursef if u are married to ur one wife, search ur soul and tell the world that u don't have side kicks
DeleteAkon i don gree but that nah why the women ( most ) are also cheating today, MUMU! As you guys dey treat the women , nah so them dey treat una too! Conny man die conny man bury am! OLODO! Men make una go do DNA and confirm what i just said! Men have no monopoly of cheating! Stop fooling yourselves!
ReplyDeleteI quite agree, cheating is in their DNA so it flows in their veins. Dn't even trust my man he can cheat @ any time. *B of life
ReplyDeleteFoolish man, dats why his carrer has taken a nose dive just bcos of numerious wives
ReplyDeleteNosedived ! his net worth is 80m dollars ( the internet can help u ) !do u have a career at all with your spiteful words! Why call someone a foolish man because he aired his views!
DeleteHe doesnr need his career. He mangaes Lady Gaga... making more more money than he has ever made in his life. Just like Usher managing Beiber
DeleteI totally agree with akon,I know. Christians lov 2 quote b bible,but I believe even in d old testament men were allowed 2 marry more than 1 women even though God created only 1 man and 1 woman in the beginning
DeleteHav I always wondered why u rarely see a sighted guy leading a blind woman but u will always see a sighted woman leadin a blind man,truth is women were created 2 lov and care more than men and I dare say a woman can allow another woman share her man but I doubt if there is any culture or religion that allows women to be share among 2 or more women
Pls am not an anti feminist person
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I agree. But then it takes a man of integrity and self worth and the fear of God to stick to one woman........F to C ;)
ReplyDeleteAshawo plus konji talk
ReplyDeleteThis guy has some issues wooryimg him upstairs.....this is pure gender discrimination....its nt a wonder to me....v always suspected d@ *yana hauka*
ReplyDeleteDo u mean the bible also discriminate? A time will come when 7 women will attach to a man. Unless u think the word of God will not come to pass
DeleteFirst 2 comment,dnt agree on wat Akon said,pls Akon dnt alow m 2 dislike u ooo,u ar tryin 2 ecourage. D guys wit bad advise,#sad#
ReplyDeleteSeriously??
DeleteThank u jare,nt all men Cheat. Its a thing of d mind. If u believe all men cheat,den get ready 4 a show down,bt if u don't,pray 4 him daily. Som stupid idiots ar talkin about d old testament,abeg,what did d same bible tell us?" A man shall leave his parents and cling 2 his wife" nt wives. We ar all alive here 2day 2 die and make heaven. Let's not bcos of d stupidity and greed of one dumb womanizer spoil everything. MaMa say so.....
DeleteWomen also cheat these days and they are good at it.men do theirs in the open and they easily get caught or suspected. But for women you may never know.
DeleteNot all guyz,e.g me
ReplyDeleteREALITY !!!
ReplyDeleteGod bless u
DeleteOloriburuku !!! Imagine d non sense , chai women have suffered . No wonder d he goat is still single , no woman wants 2 settle with a cheat like him . AIDS is real ooohhh ode ... Lin lin post me comment o jare
ReplyDeleteY call him oloriburuku. He has a legal wife in d American context and 3 others which is wife is aware of, she accepted them Bcos wants to keep her man and her home. Let us think like the African dt we are. What will u say about future with three baby mama's already and ciara is accepting them. Abeg women plenty pass men and everyone wan marry,.even gays wan born pikin
DeleteJust so u know. He has 3 wives and Legally too!!
DeleteChange it.
ReplyDeleteMonogamy is from the Romans, as is wine. When will African women begin to think like Africans!!!
ReplyDeleteI'm a woman ...and given recent events that I was a witness to,I think I agree with Akon...it seems men suck at exclusivity.
ReplyDeleteNa only if we wan deceive ourselves o, Akon don yarn am finish......but wait o, na so I be?.........hahahahahahh!!!
ReplyDeletetotally
ReplyDeleteNow i know se you deey craze, na tru African man you be dats y you deey think on parallel line. Oshi!
ReplyDeleteWell said, but women need to accept polygamy so the world can go round
ReplyDeleteWhy are there so many excuses for men to cheat. Akon using biology, that foluke idiot using bible. And if a man will cheated whilst in a relationship, he will also cheat in marriage; he will only be good at hidding it. So no linda I do not agree with Akon. It's just fabrication to demoralise commitment and glorify infidelity
ReplyDeleteIn other words license to breed a nation.... Mschewwww.. Well Akon you cant always have it all so the earlier u manage ur choice the better for u and men like you.
ReplyDeleteMen cheat because they've settled for the wrong woman. They're as monogamous as women when they've found the one.
ReplyDeleteVery True! A man can have sex 365 days a year. A woman bleeds for minimum of 60 days out of the 365. There have to be other women to fill in the gap.
ReplyDeleteGuy you bad. Yeah I know you are guy. That's their egoism thought
DeleteI neva knew Akon had no depth. He talks like a man who lacks understanding. He jst displayed his folly publicly.
ReplyDeleteWell spoken but women need to accept polygamy too so the world can go round.. Akon said it all
ReplyDeleteHe's a clown.God help him
ReplyDeleteMen are polygamous in nature. The earlier women understand that, the happier they will be. A man can never eat egusi for a lifetime... He MUST taste other delicacy... Its natural! They were created that way.
ReplyDeleteThey guy is said the truth , nobody holy at all, even a pastor can't avert his eyes when a bad chick walk past. That's the truth about us men , and. Only the lucky girl gets the guy last in marriage.
ReplyDeleteHmmn
ReplyDeleteBS talk!
ReplyDeleteThere is no such thing as "Cheating". A man is allowed to have as many women as he wants. A real man has to have constant conquests. Why stick with just one woman? It is completely absurd.
ReplyDeleteBecause white people told you to have only one wife, you think it is correct. You are still living in the colonial era. It is time to delete your colonial mentality.
ReplyDeleteHmmmmmm..... Do u have to sample every woman b4 u make a choice? Its all about discipline.....#0zi
ReplyDeleteWhat a blatant excuse to cheat.
ReplyDeleteLols ______Real African Man he can't even hide a bit of it . Tru story
ReplyDeleteI agree with his takes on men, and I am glad it's coming from a man too. But his view of what dating should be, is NO NO for me
ReplyDeleteAkon is daft sha!!! Choi
ReplyDeletetypical African man! tinkin wit his dick! his types are d kind dat can kill if any of his woman dare flirts much less cheat!shoir! terrible mindset * ONYXGODWIN *
ReplyDeleteSharrup u must either be a gay or a virgin,how dare u insult d guy ,yeye woman wrapper
DeleteNo comment
ReplyDeleteWell said Akon, I agree with you... Men has a lot tendency to sleep with more than one woman, than women...
ReplyDeletelol
ReplyDeleteI kinda agree with akon linda......charles say so.....peace
ReplyDeleteI don't agree with him but he's saying the truth. I hope that made sense. The other day you posted a picture od ciara with her fiancé, future's baby mums. It looked like polygamy to me. TI and our own 2 face have about 3 or4 babies mums. Men should first of all understand that polygamy can't cure your high conji issues, you will always find a woman who is better and finer. But we women have to come to the bitter realisation of the possibility of this happening. Staying in a man's house could be better, in some instances than staying a single mum. It's quite obvious that people are rejecting his point of view because he's a Muslim
ReplyDeleteI'm a (single)lady but I agree, going by what goes on generally with men. It's painful though for a woman to accept it. Women empowerment will HATE Akon for this!
ReplyDeleteNNNNAAAAaaa!!!!!
ReplyDeleteM SPEECHLESS
TRYNA SEE DA SENSE IN WHAT HE SAID
IF POLYGAMY IS SUCH A WELCOMED IDEA, HOP HE WON'T KICK AGAINST POLYANDRY.......
MEN ARE JUST SO FUNNY.....
WHAT A GREEDY AND SELF-CENTERED EXCUSE
GOD CREATED MARRIAGE; IF YOU FIND DA RIGHT PARTNER, U WILL LEARN TO B SATISFIEd WT EACH ODA DESPITE DIER SHORT-COMINS
D EXCUSE IS LAME
I dont espect ekon to be a good musician as well as a good councellor especially when it is man and woman matter he should consult the bible then he can talk more knowledgeably
ReplyDeleteon that issue
I agreee
ReplyDeleteHis choice
ReplyDeleteAkon is raving mad! By d way who appointed him God's PA 2knw God's tot wen he created women.Dis blasphemous talk reduces Akon 2notin bt a mumu in ma eyz
ReplyDeleteDats right I agree wit him, its natural n its must happen cos we r born to do so ..Buh one thing is we ought to do it right, make sure nobody is hurt.Female am sry, its just d fact ..... Dats @ll
ReplyDeleteTotally true...
ReplyDeleteI think he is high on some cheap drugs nd na 9ija guy sell d drugs 4 him.
ReplyDeleteHmmmnnnnnnn.... Speechless!
ReplyDeleteUmmmmmm akoni akoni how many times did I kal you ehhhh na wa ooo,but a little truth n wat u say jes a little,u can't find a perfect man likewise a woman but u jes have to.... Emm 4got wat I wanna say one man one woman and they become one
ReplyDeleteOga keep quiet and stop teachin men to cheat dats frm d pit of hell.
ReplyDeleteGbamest gbam
ReplyDeleteThe devil is speaking through him. He is not born again. He needs Jesus. You also need Jesus.
ReplyDeleteI concor *akon baba
ReplyDeleteIt's hard to be with just 1 girl really...but its not impossible. I hope to stay faithful when I'm married tho, I really do.
ReplyDeleteSomeone should bitch slap this nut brain!
ReplyDeleteI think he is making sense here but hmmm not all men in Christianity view....lol
ReplyDeleteThe devil is speaking through him. He is not born again. He needs Jesus. You also need Jesus.
ReplyDeleteHe is stupid and ugly...he only has access to multiple wives because he has the funds otherwise no women aka gold diggers would be checking for him
ReplyDeleteI do think he is crazy for saying such thats wat i hate most in my life.
ReplyDeletelmao: see what this young lady is doing to this big guy lol see pic
He is right, he said it all....
ReplyDeleteOde
ReplyDeletetrue true true 100%
ReplyDeleteOde
ReplyDeleteTotally agree with u bro
ReplyDeleteNa wah oo. Men cant never change. They find it difficult to stick to one woman. But we cant do so wen we re married. Akon don talk him own as e be am. Men re ,Natural breeders but women are no.#sigh#
ReplyDeleteI agree with akon,its impossible, the man's libido is stronger than that of a female
ReplyDeleteI think he is making sense here
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ReplyDeleteHe is entitled to his opinion..But me think the dude is trying to make up for missed pussies while he was in jail for carjacking.listened to the interview on tmz.com and I couldn't help laughing my nuts out..careful dude b4 you get 'Locked up' over some illegal pussy#DIZZY
ReplyDeleteHa Akon
ReplyDeleteSoooo true.I totally agree with him..
ReplyDeletePlease allow me to say that Akon is a fool for that statement. Dat's a shallow minded judgement. He is the reason why HIV/AIDS is so rampant. I liked him until this. So women r ur toys u toss around anytym u like abi? Are we not humans too. Pls he shld tink of reviving his career and stp sayin bullshit. I stl respct Jay-z till tomorrow cos he can NEVER say dis crap
ReplyDeleteI totally object to this. Pls tell him to get educated that will help him. He's still doing what is ancestors did. Breeding children that you can even have time to meet their psychological needs
ReplyDeleteTypical! In this HIV and AIDS era we live in and he has the balls to say such in public eve! SMH.
ReplyDeletehe has a point any way.
ReplyDeletehe has a point any way.
ReplyDeletehe has a point any way.
ReplyDeleteOn point ooo my brother all the great men in the bible sef are polygamist
ReplyDeleteAKUKO!!!!! AIDS is very very real oooo
ReplyDeleteMtchew....men!......anywaiz,all I pray 4 is a man dat will love only me n me alone....no side chicks...no ashi...noting....*dats alll* (ROI)
ReplyDeleteI concur!
ReplyDeleteI concur 100%! As a handsome guy, I have never believed in keeping just a woman. I might consider it when iam married or sumtin but definitely not now because I believe Men are natural Explorers.
ReplyDeleteNB: if u go explore std u are on ur own o! PLAY SAFE!
Nonsense! That's what Akon is saying.
ReplyDeleteStupidity is in the air. . . What kind of lame a** reasoning is this. . .later on he'll start singing love songs abt a lady being "the one", . . .Akon "musical-irony" man. . .
ReplyDeleteNobody cares, Akon, nobody cares...
ReplyDeleteHe thinks God is dumb like him for saying one man one wife?? Ode!! .....im a Man, and any Man that marries more than one wife is senseless and doesnt love his first wife in the first place...as he black,naso his bain black!! .....mumu!!
ReplyDeleteNobody cares Akon, nobody cares...
ReplyDeleteThere is a sense to what this guy said, but then, dating to find out which woman suits one the most shouldn't be an avenue for indiscriminate sex. And, when one finds that special one, he should stick with her for a life time; that's why there is a marital vow! Wouldn't blame Akon, he's a Muslim.
ReplyDeleteOde,his mates are married already,hes busy inserting his d*ck everywhere,.......shameless nigga...People like you is why HIV/AIDs is everywhere!..............blackbrain.....empty skull!
ReplyDelete...........Drrivel
ReplyDeleteHe's just being stupid
ReplyDeleteOde! Even bill gates has one wife.....beware of black guys,there brain is always black too!!
ReplyDeleteI kinda agree with him, but I don't condone cheating, multiple dating and polygamy. But true, men have cheating in their DNA
ReplyDeleteDis dude s talking shit.Lies.
ReplyDeleteIm a Man,and i disagree with you......polygamous causes harvoc for the kids....the women uses african magic ,on one anothers child and they end up living miserable life...our God is not dumb,and not biased, it is one man one wife,take it or die!
ReplyDeleteTrue talk, but CHRIST makes a loy of diff.
ReplyDelete@ Linda, I love Akon so much but I just have to say that he must have been high on something or he's having a mental meltdown!!!
ReplyDeleteSomeone please call 911!!!
#AkonSilenceisGolden!
This Akon is irresponsible na.......i pray he have aids ,then his story go change!!........black fool!!
ReplyDeleteNa only sex him know naa......stupid idiot!
ReplyDeleteJeez!!, keep ur belief to urself Akon. As for me one man one wife
ReplyDeleteNa him own he say, @ 24 I am still a virgin as a male, and now I'm in a rlntshp that I pray it leads to marriage + we neva do o, he he can't control his dick, it doesn't mean everybody can't!
ReplyDelete@syncrospy
Jesus christ said one man one wife,in d new testament......so let ur brain control your d*ck and not your d* ck control ur brain.....u cant do all d gals in world....never and dont even expect them to be faithful to you...never!!
ReplyDeleteNa him own he say, @ 24 I am still a virgin as a male, and now I'm in a rlntshp that I pray it leads to marriage + we neva do o, he he can't control his dick, it doesn't mean everybody can't!
ReplyDeleteHe was just born stupid,very soon women will no more satisfy him..he'l go homo too*God save u
ReplyDeleteDog ewu see his dirty mouth!!! Tah gerraway there wayward human
ReplyDeleteI agree 2 wateva ma uncle Akon says
ReplyDeleteTank God 4 our nature,we are 2 cheat.it no big deal
Buh if a woman cheats she's a bitch,whoe,Ashawo,Akuna
Lollz
Akon got 99 true statements but this aint one. Bro's high on some self justification pills.
ReplyDeleteSex will destroy u....idiot!!!
ReplyDeleteLol m amazed! No doubt what he said is right. Men r polygamous in nature.
ReplyDeleteSome stupid masochist men will hail dis idiot 4 spewing trash n vomiting rubbish! B giving excuse 4 lack of self control
ReplyDeleteLol m amazed! No doubt what he said is right. Men r polygamous in nature.
ReplyDeleteLolssss! Yeye guy! You never jam hungry Lioness! Na dat time you gree say kpokrikpo is the very thing. Mumu guy! Just let some hungry chic gbarb you first! Then you'll know who be da bitch!
ReplyDeleteSharp girls will get pregnant for dumb guys like you and tuface naaa........Ode!!
ReplyDeleteDat's hw his own understandin is bt it's obviously nt true....d earlier he stops thinkn wif his penis d betr + he's sure nt a christian!
ReplyDeleteWith utmost sincerity, men are never for one woman. Not even the pastors.
ReplyDeleteThat's why I love the Islamic religion, the law guides you and help you lower you gaze while you have the option to satisfy your desire if you may need more than one woman.
Women are just not considerate, they just don't want a rival, not even taking into consideration that men are fewer than female.
If one man to a woman, what will happen to the rest?
Never the less. Marry them not use them as sex toys.
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Ode,even rich man and sensible man like jayz sticked with one wife let alone black,ugly empty skull nigga like you......pls have a sit!!
ReplyDeleteOshisko peperempe...He is being a male chauvinist.What he said is true as regards men but as far as i'm concerned, it's in the human(not just male) nature to stray. That's why there's a little something called discipline.If you choose to stray, great, own it! But don't pretend that's what every other human being does cos that is incorrect.This is his opinion, period!
ReplyDeleteIf one didn't know better, with his statement, you'd think polygamy is 'normal' and 'exciting' but realistically, that is not the case.
That's all kinds of crazy talk!
ReplyDeleteSUCH AN IDIOT!
ReplyDeleteStupid talk, total bullshit
ReplyDeleteIf only d west sees dat way datz why infedelity is on d rise...man
ReplyDeleteThis nigga tho'. He said it
ReplyDeleteTrue man
ReplyDeleteCouldn't agree more Brova...!! Real niqqurz do d shitt.
ReplyDeleteIdiot ni bobo akon yi sha! What kind of talk is that? So men shld be breeding up n down d whole place abi? What an excuse for infidelity! It is well. I guess its jst his own opinion sha! He is entitled to it
ReplyDeleteHe's a muslim......His religion advocates marrying as much as four wifes! ..(dayum!! ...dass some plenty enjoyment) Am a Christian, the bible stipulates me marrying just one woman...........So i have to cast my desire for plenty women aside, Control my urges, choose just one and be faithful to her.................. So linda, part of what Akon said is true, ..Men naturally are polygamous by Nature.....................Self dicipline is what makes the difference ......Else we would be no different from Dogs!#nuff said#..
ReplyDeleteVerrrryy noiiice comment. Where's d like button?
DeleteKay
Idiot ni bobo akon yi sha! Oga o
ReplyDeleteWaitin dis guy dey talk self sleep wit all d girls on till u carry sickness becos u wan date dis and date dat lili my comment jor
ReplyDeleteI kinda agree with him, but I don't condone cheating, multiple dating and polygamy. But true, men have cheating in their DNA
ReplyDeleteHe's a muslim......His religion advocates marrying as much as four wifes! ..(dayum!! ...dass some plenty enjoyment) Am a Christian, the bible stipulates me marrying just one woman...........So i have to cast my desire for plenty women aside, Control my urges, choose just one and be faithful to her.................. So linda, part of what Akon said is true, ..Men naturally are polygamous by Nature.....................Self dicipline is what makes the difference ......Else we would be no different from Dogs!#nuff said#..
ReplyDeletei totally agree with you Akon.. girlz una don hear em, make i=my girls ni stop to dey vex.. it's not chicking..it's try out.. First 2 comment.lolz
ReplyDeleteBlablablablablablablah... Stick ur a** down and make a girl proud.
ReplyDeleteStupid writeup!!! Hell await u
ReplyDeleteCouldn't agree more Brova...!! Real niqqurz do d shitt.
ReplyDeleteAkon is entitle to his peculiar opinion..He is polygamist and has everything to defend his choice of life. Men are naturally insatiable when it comes to women affairs....likewise women as some cases. But neither been a polygamous nor Monogamous can check that out especially when it concern men...dnt really wana go religious now but I believe in as much men are not contented with what they have, their is every need to learn how to be contented as part of living..not blcs we assume we are polygamous in nature.. Who said their are no men who really stick to one woman, though might admire other beautiful ones but strictly stick and never cheated on his partner?? Of course we have such men and women that exist..so if a man can live and stick wit just a partner for his entire life without cheating then who said men can't do it?....monogamy and polygamy... just issue of choice.
ReplyDeleteOnly fools like akon will agree with akon,.......thats y his career is gone.......if men can have more than one wife of course women can have more than one husband too........its happening....dont need to argue...ode!
ReplyDeleteFor the women who can't handle polygamy, go marry white man, chikena !!!
ReplyDeleteI feel like he's objectifying women. It's too deeply ingrained in his psyche.
ReplyDeleteAkon we don't need your view.....please marry as much as you want period!
ReplyDeleteyou know what annoys me is when somebody is weak and cannot do something they like to tell you you too cannot do it. Abeg commot, how is monogamy impossible when there are pple who have done it. ehn? I have met a good number of happily married not cheating men. idiot.
ReplyDeletebut women cheat too nah so the logic is a little questionable
ReplyDeleteSuch a chauvinist idiot! He made sense to a point then went on a lousy tirade of bullshit talk
ReplyDeleteThat's not true. I have a wife and will never sleep with any other woman in my life!!!
ReplyDeleteNa lie....right place, right chick and right time is all u need to change ur mind.....
DeleteNever say never. Btw if a woman needs a favour from u, she will seduce u and make sure she fucks u to get that favour. Are u trying to tell me if Genevieve or Halima Abubakar walks into ur office or home while alone and undresses, u won't do any of them? Abeg bone that thing. The power of women ehn, u go fear fear.
DeleteThat's the reasoning of selfish men.
ReplyDeleteWe hear!
So he is a muslim, no wonder.....his mentor mohammed. Was having sex anyhow naa, even with 6 yr old gal,so why wont he encourage them to insert their di*ck anyhow..stupid religion,stupid followers, stupid akon
ReplyDeleteAkon,the mumu,all your wives are really cheating on you,mumu, .......u think if men cheat on womem,women will now stick with u and not cheat hun??? Lol...u joking,if u like call her a hoe,whore whatever,women cheat,men cheat!...... agree or die!!
ReplyDeleteThis world would be a better place without Islam i swear!!! The religion always turn the followers brain upside down,eg AKON!!
ReplyDeleteWhether u agree with him or not doesn't change nothing! Buh it's just 95% of men tho'!#doctorbobby
ReplyDeleteAbeg d guy talk im mind and I agree to some extent tho............... @least he is not gay
ReplyDeleteAKON,you too sabi....abeg help me explain forall these girls
ReplyDelete*Linda. Why do some Libers abuse you if they disagree with you point of view. They need to grow up.
ReplyDeleteRecent studies show that a woman is more likely to cheat in a non marital relationship than a man is. Does Akon have reasons for that?
everybody that's yabbing Akon,dont forget that the female population to male population is about 5:2,if every man marries just one woman what should happen to the rest?even if the man wants to be faithful before you know it unmarried girls don go buy bump short and macaroni,don dey display,guys that want to lie would say they wont notice,they are satisfied with their wife but when the unmarried girl approaches and she has what it takes even more than the wife,then wahala don start..Every woman wants 1 husband but its impossible due to statistics as the females are in abundance when compared to guys,so you wey want one husband,if the others girls don carry guys wey remain......hug transformer
ReplyDeleteforgive him he's a muslim .... idiot go and read the Bible... jump off my ass- HAVE RESPECT FOR WOMEN
ReplyDeleteI just don't understand how anyone can succumb to this rubbish talk.....absolutely ludicrous......if anyone agrees that "is in a man's nature to cheat and it should be acceptable"....that person has to also accept that....."women were cut from the same cloth as men, as such...it must also be acceptable for them to cheat.....my two cents.....
ReplyDeletespoken like a true african man. african man talk. dats why i don't mess with yall no more. yall niggas is toooo much work. way tooo much work than you're worth. abeg!
ReplyDeletei love what akon said but it is true by nature. Even Abraham was polygamous not for a reason but cos he chosed it and God said we of the present age are the children of abraham. But man i am no longer under nature and not natural. Am not a polygamist. Even if there are less men dan women who want a single marriage. U would get it ladies. Dont be scared
ReplyDeleteHe's an idiot and if you believe this, so are you. Humans are higher animals. We have rational thinking. It is a matter of choice and what you choose to believe in. Women are not built that way my ass. If a woman does not cheat it is because she has CHOSEN not to cheat. Do you know how many women look across at the losers they're with and think "I for just drop this idiot now". And you're there feeling fly with yourself. Odes. You think women are not tempted everyday with desires? And it is even easier for women to hit it outside if they want to. They don't have to impress anyone or have money. They just have to be willing. Men or women who do not cheat CHOOSE not to cheat. This one is the excuse a dog can give, not a human being. Also, for all the men saying women are not built to cheat...women are just better at covering up so make sure your houses are in order LOL
ReplyDeleteThats the excuse they all make when they cheat, "we were made this way". Horrible, horrible!
ReplyDeleteHe is 100% correct.....an average man marries the homely girl.....but still secretly desires the wild but exciting chick.....anytime u get the opportunity. ..business trip local or international,.....u still seek the one off girls.....its natural....we still love our wives tho.....its just this hunger for different dishes....
ReplyDelete100% true.....a man marries the homely type, fantisizes on the wild type....gets the one off girl when opportunity arises.....its natural....he still loves his wife tho...
ReplyDeleteIf you cannot be monogamous or simply don't want to, DON'T GET MARRIED. End of story. Know yourself, and do what it takes to make yourself happy. Lying and cheating causes harm to others, why not just stay single and enjoy? The problem is that men feel entitled and want to have their cake and eat it too. They expect women to stay faithful and are unwilling to adhere to the same standards, and the patriarchal system backs them up. Double standards are illogical, and women that accept them are the same.
ReplyDeleteIf you cannot be monogamous or simply don't want to, DON'T GET MARRIED. End of story. Know yourself, and do what it takes to make yourself happy. Lying and cheating causes harm to others, why not just stay single and enjoy? The problem is that men feel entitled and want to have their cake and eat it too. They expect women to stay faithful and are unwilling to adhere to the same standards, and the patriarchal system backs them up. Double standards are illogical, and women that accept them are the same.
ReplyDeleteThank God for God, it is not easy at all. Feels like you are in jail when you just jump and grab one woman.
ReplyDeleteThank God if that one woman is everything, gives you respect all the time, take care of the kids, wild in bed, woman on the street, massage your feet when you are back.
Of course, with the man doing his part too! First class care and love for the woman, explore and driller in bed, bring enough pay home, gifts trips, can go on and on.
God, who am I to disobey you. It is easy by your Grace.
So easy to know those girls/women that will die of jealousy! Me and my husband till you kill the man.
ReplyDeleteAbeg, if we are accept to accept polygamy, you men should accept Polyandry (marriage between a woman and multiple husbands). Why the double standard? If men are polygamous by nature, then women are polyandrous in nature. As men constantly have temptation, we women have men throwing themselves at us daily, single or not. Suppose I get married and a handsome guy begins to chase after me, by virtue of Akon's statement, I should pursue the relationship,in fact he doesn't need to do the pursuing, I should go after him. Abeg una dey talk as woman body na wood. May God help us all.
ReplyDeleteLols.... O gi egwu ooooo. Men and their mentality.Well,that is his own notion or thought on why he prefers polygamy.... *Ewu Senegal....
ReplyDeleteNigerians and contradictions! If this post about Christianity and being born again u will see that all of us born anew! Now it's about a moral issue the same lovers of Christ become anti-Christ advocating for and supporting adultery and fornication. I hail una oh, u cannot serve two masters at a time. Let's stop mocking God.
ReplyDeleteRemember he is a Muslim from Senegal so it is ok to think that way if his religion teaches that. For me, if God says a bishop must have one wife then indeed it shows Akon is wrong about God creating men not to be able to stick with one woman. Excuses excuses but the women he is with are ok with it so that is for them to tolerate.
ReplyDelete@aymiii made the best comment on this issue
ReplyDeleteBabes we al av to reason this,Akon is Right! Am a lady nd I agree with him 101%
ReplyDeleteI thought Linda asked guys to comment. 80% of comments here are from the Ladies.. you women are shouting "Men Cheat, its in their DNA" Isn't it fellow women like yourself that we cheat on you with? So you ladies are also responsible for our actions
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